If all my platitudes to my woman are done, is she going to do anything in particular for me? Is she just going to blow me when it looks like I had a hard day?
She has it right on every aspect...except the ``god`` thing. GOD created us to be His children, to communicate and share a life with. In Judaism, we say; HEAR O' ISRAEL, the LORD YOUR GOD IS ONE...You shall not have any other gods before Me``.
How can i say fantastic ,or oh yeah when i didn't understood the hell out of single thing what she said ...... the basic need of a man is to understand the sense involved in any argument or statement .... how can a man live on the face of this earth without UNDERSTANDING what she is saying .... it's impossible for me
@chiefkyle1 Yeah, when men abuse women they are evil bastards and should be locked up. When women abuse men, the man deserves it. Yeah the whole "women are always innocent" thing is a big problem, especially because men are abused more. Search up a video called "Reaction To Women Abusing Men In Public" one women reacts by celebrating, and others think to themselves he probably deserves it.
How simplistic and daft - If you want harmony you need Christianity - a spirit filled relationship - for both husband and wife - and men YOU are the stronger vessel - be Godly...strong as a lion and as loving as a lamb.......And nwomen - respect your husbands......be open to his "Godly" persuasions.....and both of you get rid of pride and replace it in prayer with the holy Spirit.
Please! Just chillax, we're all brothers and sisters in humanity, therefore whether one is Christian or Sikh, let it be a way of love and acceptance for ones fellow man. Live in a state of grace and light, and you'll be fine. This advice is excellent, it goes beyond labels of religion or dogma. This is a spiritual woman, giving people advice on how to find some sense of peace and calm in their marital relationships.
Yes Ithaank you for that imfo but I knew this and doing that sound boarding for women van get very boring at times if men aren't allow to put into the conversation!.This to me is like a puniishment session than a talk..If she's going to want my ear and attention..then what she says must be something interesting or I'll just run off..sorry but I dont need sit too long in one spot without saying anything intelegent! I suggest her getting a manakin from a clothes store instead to talk to.
I do not wish for a man to fake me out but to understand what I am going through, not pretend to understand. The respect part toward women that she mentions is good- problem is this is culturally and conditioned behaviour that is hard to change so I guess some men may have to fake it till they can make it. Thanks.
What happens when she catches on that I'm "just making the right sounds"?
"You really understood me." ? Can someone say "DELUSIONAL"? Fantastic!
Men should treat women with respect, but only if women have earned it, otherwise women will treat men with disrespect.
The attitude of a "Goddess" is to be "served" and "worshiped". Your advice works if the woman is humble - and soon she won't be with all that a**-kissing.
Nagging and complaining are best deal with change of woman.
A woman can inspire a man to live a fantastic life. But then she owns him and can manipulate him by withdrawing her inspiration. If a man inspires himself, then he will be in control of his life... not to mention many times more attractive to women in general.
If I was a woman and the man I'm talking to pretended to understand or listen by saying the things you suggest I'd be offended. Yet that's your advice - to pretend.
I guess women just want to talk and don't care to be understood!
I do all those things and I am still have questions about my relationship. But I am starting to learn that you don't do this everyday because your good qualities will be over looked.
Bill Gates was the MOST successful man without a women. Not every guy is successful because of a women, some are in spite of them. I know a lot of miserable men that are married. I have been both.
Yes..just absently agree with her like a dumb fool so that SHE FEELS heard, validated and supported. The problem with that is that is that it often encourages them to babble on longer and longer. I know all these techniques and then they will often see you as a wimp because your "serving her" and it turns her off. Women don't feel they deserve respect, so you respect them and you invalidate their own feelings about themselves.. and they leave. She's also not a goddess, that's a feminist LIE.
First of all, this woman should not be considered to be a guru. She shouldn't even have that in her name. It just looks like a normal person with silly clothes on. And as far as wisdom goes, this was one of the stupidest videos I've ever seen. Granted I didn't finish the thing, but really, this woman should just go back to being a normal person instead of confusing things further.
Man my advice is do this with the girl you know you love and want to be with for the rest of your life. Make sure shes hot enough, smart enough, and caring enough, nice enough so you can feel comfy enough to put up with her, simple as that...then no ones miserable and if you actually click in with all the needs you both have then kudos
perhaps this video isnt as clear as it should bebasiclly i fink shes tryna say dat men shud treat women as equals and appreciate them. ur point about not giving her a reason to complain in the 1st place is very valid.
Good advice, I also think a woman's attitude depends on her age and if the other women around her are complainers, she will do it to, it's contagious.
Women talk to relieve stress. We don't really listen to ourselves, or expect anyone to listen to us. (If we need someone to really listen to the content, we draft a memo like normal people)
The words just come out of us, like squirrel chatter or bird song. All we really want is for someone to recognize we are stressed. look concerned, be attentive and find the right time to come in for a hug so we can cry, or laugh, and be done with it.
LOL! I am a woman. It was years before I fully understood that my young husband, so brilliant in maths and engineering, had a very limited English vocabulary. What he did have was the ability to gaze at me with awe and admiration, pride and tenderness and raptured interest and concern when I was complaining or passionately arguing about something without understanding a word I said. I still think he was rather godlike.
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Bsroyal1986 5 days ago
This is totally untrue
TheTekken911 2 months ago
If all my platitudes to my woman are done, is she going to do anything in particular for me? Is she just going to blow me when it looks like I had a hard day?
Give and take?
lord69z 4 months ago
She has it right on every aspect...except the ``god`` thing. GOD created us to be His children, to communicate and share a life with. In Judaism, we say; HEAR O' ISRAEL, the LORD YOUR GOD IS ONE...You shall not have any other gods before Me``.
How can Hindus justify this?
Hatorah 5 months ago
@Hatorah she's not hindu you idiot
halfhausaman 1 month ago
How can i say fantastic ,or oh yeah when i didn't understood the hell out of single thing what she said ...... the basic need of a man is to understand the sense involved in any argument or statement .... how can a man live on the face of this earth without UNDERSTANDING what she is saying .... it's impossible for me
amanvds 6 months ago
And put the toilet seat down!
MaiHarinder 6 months ago
i wasnt expecting to come across a pick up artist video, lol but anyways, amazing advice, rubbing the feet really works ;-)
WGJKKWGJKF 6 months ago
Shall i send this vid to my dad ?
shashankrajkodesia 7 months ago
@chiefkyle1 Yeah, when men abuse women they are evil bastards and should be locked up. When women abuse men, the man deserves it. Yeah the whole "women are always innocent" thing is a big problem, especially because men are abused more. Search up a video called "Reaction To Women Abusing Men In Public" one women reacts by celebrating, and others think to themselves he probably deserves it.
jayc342009 7 months ago
Behind every successful man,there is an ass.(get it?)
Djenkov 9 months ago
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Djenkov 9 months ago
I think here she talking about normal husband and wife.how they should act in a given space.not the two people with extrems
Gursharan777 9 months ago
This is so true that it's scary.
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KELSEYDORIS 1 year ago
I know all about these "listening men". They're called metrosexuals.
DaYungGuy 1 year ago
How simplistic and daft - If you want harmony you need Christianity - a spirit filled relationship - for both husband and wife - and men YOU are the stronger vessel - be Godly...strong as a lion and as loving as a lamb.......And nwomen - respect your husbands......be open to his "Godly" persuasions.....and both of you get rid of pride and replace it in prayer with the holy Spirit.
raymcvey 1 year ago
@raymcvey
Please! Just chillax, we're all brothers and sisters in humanity, therefore whether one is Christian or Sikh, let it be a way of love and acceptance for ones fellow man. Live in a state of grace and light, and you'll be fine. This advice is excellent, it goes beyond labels of religion or dogma. This is a spiritual woman, giving people advice on how to find some sense of peace and calm in their marital relationships.
Satnam =)
SikhDonya 10 months ago
SEX IS THE WAY PEOPLE, ID RATHER HAV SUM SEX THAN HAVE MY BOYFREND ACTING WEIRD LISTENING TO ME.......
MizJohanaah 1 year ago
errmmm theres no better way to put this... YOUR WRONG!
MizJohanaah 1 year ago
@Monacyte both aye :P
Galshaer 1 year ago
These feminists are slowly brain washing men. Women live in a fantasy world and this is a perfect example.
TheLou28 1 year ago 2
@TheLou28 i hate feminism it ruins relationships
ShinySilverBunny 1 year ago 2
so homer simpson IS the ideal husband
ahmednabil 1 year ago
Yes Ithaank you for that imfo but I knew this and doing that sound boarding for women van get very boring at times if men aren't allow to put into the conversation!.This to me is like a puniishment session than a talk..If she's going to want my ear and attention..then what she says must be something interesting or I'll just run off..sorry but I dont need sit too long in one spot without saying anything intelegent! I suggest her getting a manakin from a clothes store instead to talk to.
JoeyMars1 1 year ago
I'm sorry to use harsh words but nothing comes to mind apart from 'BullShit'
sunitasainizz 1 year ago 2
brb going to try that out at the bar
Galshaer 1 year ago
(scrol down first) Me: Hey, I only wanted to be a little kind to you. What's wrong with that?
Her: You keep me off the things I wanted to do. What's up? What is it you want from me?
Me: I saw a video in the net. I wanted you to treat me "like the god that I am"!
Her: You're nuts!!!
; ) Sorry for my english.
chrisgroove100 1 year ago
Me: Hey, You'd like a cup of tea?
Her: I'm working, can't you see?
Me: ...thought you'd be happy ....
Her: Hmmmmrrrrr, ok. If you want to. 5 minutes break.
Me: So, what are you doing now? How's your day?
Her:........................ Me: Oooooh, for real? Her:................ Me: Ahaaaaaa! (So on)
Her: Are you really listening? Do you understand?
Me: Hmm. I think so. Just wanted to spend a little time with you. Can I massage your feet?
Her: You KNOW I hate feet. I do not like that.
chrisgroove100 1 year ago
This is instruction for pandering.
You don't need to animate the umming and ahhs, to insult someone by pretending anything.
Unless you're dealing with an adult infant. Is that what you're saying women are? Because this kind of pandering isn't my idea of respect.
Hzqi 1 year ago
I do not wish for a man to fake me out but to understand what I am going through, not pretend to understand. The respect part toward women that she mentions is good- problem is this is culturally and conditioned behaviour that is hard to change so I guess some men may have to fake it till they can make it. Thanks.
anglinthemtns 1 year ago
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But what has this to do with sikhism.........
manpreet8484 1 year ago
What happens when she catches on that I'm "just making the right sounds"?
"You really understood me." ? Can someone say "DELUSIONAL"? Fantastic!
Men should treat women with respect, but only if women have earned it, otherwise women will treat men with disrespect.
The attitude of a "Goddess" is to be "served" and "worshiped". Your advice works if the woman is humble - and soon she won't be with all that a**-kissing.
Nagging and complaining are best deal with change of woman.
kneeh0ckey 1 year ago
A woman can inspire a man to live a fantastic life. But then she owns him and can manipulate him by withdrawing her inspiration. If a man inspires himself, then he will be in control of his life... not to mention many times more attractive to women in general.
If I was a woman and the man I'm talking to pretended to understand or listen by saying the things you suggest I'd be offended. Yet that's your advice - to pretend.
I guess women just want to talk and don't care to be understood!
kneeh0ckey 1 year ago
I do all those things and I am still have questions about my relationship. But I am starting to learn that you don't do this everyday because your good qualities will be over looked.
plutoamun 1 year ago
this is true, but it will only work if you do it truthfully
Mu5clehead 1 year ago
Bill Gates was the MOST successful man without a women. Not every guy is successful because of a women, some are in spite of them. I know a lot of miserable men that are married. I have been both.
docrw 1 year ago
wowwwwwwwwwwww i realised that a year ago ..lol sooo true
manpreet8484 1 year ago
is this a cult or something?
snaeroketahi 1 year ago
Yes..just absently agree with her like a dumb fool so that SHE FEELS heard, validated and supported. The problem with that is that is that it often encourages them to babble on longer and longer. I know all these techniques and then they will often see you as a wimp because your "serving her" and it turns her off. Women don't feel they deserve respect, so you respect them and you invalidate their own feelings about themselves.. and they leave. She's also not a goddess, that's a feminist LIE.
JediMasterRich 1 year ago
First of all, this woman should not be considered to be a guru. She shouldn't even have that in her name. It just looks like a normal person with silly clothes on. And as far as wisdom goes, this was one of the stupidest videos I've ever seen. Granted I didn't finish the thing, but really, this woman should just go back to being a normal person instead of confusing things further.
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MarcusCMarcellus 2 years ago
whats up with the costume? Are you trying to be spiritual or something?
hellraidzor 2 years ago
The nuns told her she was too ugly, so she decided on this instead.
MarcusCMarcellus 2 years ago
@hellraidzor Its sikhi culture dude. thats costume for baptised women in Sikhism. search more.
iamthedarklord1314 2 years ago
Man my advice is do this with the girl you know you love and want to be with for the rest of your life. Make sure shes hot enough, smart enough, and caring enough, nice enough so you can feel comfy enough to put up with her, simple as that...then no ones miserable and if you actually click in with all the needs you both have then kudos
happyrain 2 years ago 2
'This is funny but so true. Excellent advice.
77katrine 2 years ago 5
Yes, this is what I want.
claudelebel55 2 years ago 2
This is so funny and probably very true, especially in karmic relationships, i guess.
:)
TheTorch33 2 years ago 2
Sat Nam! Great video! Thank you! :)
SikhSeeker1 2 years ago 4
1.52 - seriously - how superficial! What women wants a man that pretends he's gets her... this advice has flaws...
be good to your women - yes. Be fake and make silly noises to make her 'feel respected' and listened to - I dnt think so.
dnt give her reason to complain - simple.
paps102 2 years ago
perhaps this video isnt as clear as it should bebasiclly i fink shes tryna say dat men shud treat women as equals and appreciate them. ur point about not giving her a reason to complain in the 1st place is very valid.
JasSingh88 2 years ago
i think she's exaggerating, but the point is that women talk to get things out, and its important that they feel listened to.
guruslight 2 years ago
paps, I agree but the rest of it is good and this part needs to be taken with some humour. You might want to interpret it as learning to listen.
claudelebel55 2 years ago 2
fair enough
just see gaps that's all. :)
paps102 2 years ago 2
Guru Kaur, that was a good advice.
I don't know if you pic it up in the "Guru Granth Sahib" but this is what most of male don't understand.
Yes, I'm a male but I do know how to treat a woman. Most dont....
rajdeepjatt 2 years ago 3
Great advice, thx!
I don't mind massaging the feet, if she's hot. :P
Mrmoc7 2 years ago
wht the hell is this theres like berly any sikh wemon singhny and this white one is ahah thats missed
Punjabsouljaa 2 years ago
the first tip was good, but the rubbing feet? pass
manchesterbob92 2 years ago
Good advice, I also think a woman's attitude depends on her age and if the other women around her are complainers, she will do it to, it's contagious.
Anjimom 2 years ago
If you don't rub her feet, you aren't respecting her?
evane1989 2 years ago
Women talk to relieve stress. We don't really listen to ourselves, or expect anyone to listen to us. (If we need someone to really listen to the content, we draft a memo like normal people)
The words just come out of us, like squirrel chatter or bird song. All we really want is for someone to recognize we are stressed. look concerned, be attentive and find the right time to come in for a hug so we can cry, or laugh, and be done with it.
TheBadBandana 2 years ago 2
LOL! I am a woman. It was years before I fully understood that my young husband, so brilliant in maths and engineering, had a very limited English vocabulary. What he did have was the ability to gaze at me with awe and admiration, pride and tenderness and raptured interest and concern when I was complaining or passionately arguing about something without understanding a word I said. I still think he was rather godlike.
Very nice video.
TheBadBandana 2 years ago 3
but it has to be sincere or it counts for nothing.
sidsthirdeye 2 years ago 2
:) awesome video :) sat nam
sacredshakti 2 years ago 3
yes that's exactly what i want. :)
jasadin 2 years ago 3
is this only about you or all women are the same? or pretty much most?
joshrain1 2 years ago