My Current Regimen (old)

[ItsChelsWorldBitch]

Oh okay I started using them,the reviews are not that bad. Oh you dont mind my asking how do you figure out whats right for your hair ?Do you research,test them,ask around ?Cause I recently bought a product and to me it seen as if its taking my hair out =/

[sexymami1001]

@ItsChelsWorldBitch- It can be a tiring process but try a few products and if you notice a change, like you said you notice something taking your hair out, stop using using that product and see if the problem stops. If it does, you know that product does not work for you. If the problem continues, you know that it's another product. Because of this, I have lots of products I don't use anymore because I found what works for me. But once you find it, your hair will be amazing! Hope this helps.

[ItsChelsWorldBitch]

Instead of Creme&Nature...

[ItsChelsWorldBitch]

Hey, how you feel about Motions products?

[sexymami1001]

@ItsChelsWorldBitch- I've never tried them honestly.

[lela2216]

Is this still your current regimen?

[sexymami1001]

@lela2216- No ma'am. I have a more recent video with my current regimen. I change it up from time to time when things stop working the way it should.

[Jproudie]

how do u get ur hair to be so flowy after uve washed and conditioned and mosturized cuz Ive tried do the same thing and going my hair n mosturising and sealing n then when I flat iron it.. its really stiff n heavy.

[sexymami1001]

@Jproudie, I know what you mean because after I moisturize and seal, I already know my wrap will be limp so I just rock a ponytail. But when I want that light, soft, bouncy hair, I don't add any moisturizer to my hair. I just apply a small amount of CHI Silk Infusion, flat iron, then wrap it. It's always a guarantee it'll be flowy!

[Jproudie]

ok thanks I'll def try that!!

[Wocky741]

how do you get the ends to bump under like that when you air dry?

[sexymami1001]

@Wocky741, in this video I had actually flat ironed it. I just bend it at the ends a little to get it to curl under.

[lustlucifer4]

You should look into professional products, over the counter products have perservatives in them. Another good tip is when you rinse, use cold water to help seal your cuticals.

[sexymami1001]

When my pocket allows for me to get pro products, I may look into that but as for right now, my OTC things are working well for my hair. Thanks though:)

[misslynda82]

I was like 'noooooooooo' wen i saw the pics of where ur stylist cut ur hair! But luks like u took it well, anyway that was months ago, im sure u have made terrific progress since ;)

[sexymami1001]

Yes, I have and I am SO excited. I just recently did an update video, if you were interested in seeing where I am now:)

[katsqaz]

oh my gosh! she was a little too happy with those scissors!

[sexymami1001]

Yes she was! And she will NOT be seeing me again! lol

[afuadomaa]

thanks very much, i started co washing 3 weeks ago and i'm loving it. i just cant' find the olive oil penetrating conditioner in a bottle. your looks super good, i'm trying to stretch till december too i hope mine turns out as nice. thanks!!

[sexymami1001]

Thanks Doll and I hope your stretch works out!

[iluvcandy342]

do you still use wild growth hair oil

[sexymami1001]

I don't. I stopped about a month after I started. That's just a product that I didn't stick with.

[SabrinaKristal]

Yes Aphogee was spmewhat harsh on my hair in the past. I was jus sayn this in my first video. Kudos to you

And your hair looks great BTW =)

[sexymami1001]

Thanks so much, Sabrina:)

[tanya987]

thank you very much because i just got a relaxer about 5 days ago and im already getting large flakes of dandruff

[sexymami1001]

Glad I could help, Tanya!

[tanya987]

how long do you wait after a relaxer to wash your hair?

[sexymami1001]

Usually 3 days.

[Walter5734]

Oh my Goodness you put alot of Products in your hair thats alot of chemicals!!! Are you really sure you need all that ?

[sexymami1001]

It seems to be working so I'll stick with it but I also alter things quite a bit depending on what my hair is "telling" me. I've simplified it quite a bit since making this video.

[authentic810]

ur ends do look really healthy which was the first thing i noticed about ur hair...but i do believe that whoever trimmed ur ends got a lil excited with the cutting lol...but i love ur hair it looks really healthy....an i didnt know about sealing ur ends until u mentioned it sooo THANKS!!!!

[sexymami1001]

LoL! Yeah, I hope she enjoyed chopping because that'll be her last time in my hair! And yeah girl, seal those ends with oil to keep the moisture in. You'll notice less breakage and split ends:)

[authentic810]

lol i feel it...an i jus went an bought sum oil today so im bout to get on that sealing lol

[sexymami1001]

Very good! lol

[scrubsmaniac06]

what kind of camera do you use? your hair is gorgeous by the way.

[sexymami1001]

Thanks so much! I use a Canon PowerShot.

[bengi3]

i forgot to tell you i went to that harlista site but i got confused, i cant find a page where you just can only read on how to treat your hair.i want my hair healthy to, lol, in michigan where i live they dont really talk about hair like this, its whatever to them, but im diffrent

[sexymami1001]

When you first go to hairlista, there's a section on the right side of the page and it says: New to Hairlista? Get started. Under that, it has helpful tips for newbies.

[bengi3]

i just put a fresh perm in my hair and I was wonderin if I should moisturize and seal the following day? or is that only if your hair is dry?

[sexymami1001]

It's best to moisturize and seal on dry hair. You can do it the same day you relax your hair if it's dry.

[bengi3]

I got two questions. the odorless castor oil dont need to be mix with nothing to use it right? and with the isoplus castor oil you just seal the ends, no placing it on the scalp?

[sexymami1001]

I never mix the odorless castor oil and I sometimes use the isoplus castor oil on my scalp if it's dry and/or itchy.

[leereneecee]

Your hair looks really nice!!:0)

[sexymami1001]

Thank you, Leereneecee!

[bengi3]

My hair is like yours,I Iike the oils you suggest, I also use the olive oil replenishing conditioner

[bengi3]

oooo, where at in the walmart department did you find your regular castor oil?

[sexymami1001]

I found it by the laxatives in the health and beauty section.

[bengi3]

how often do you moisturize and seal your hair again?

[sexymami1001]

I do it at least once a day. If it's feeling dry, I'll do it twice.

[blaquebb]

your hair looks very healthy! ~God Bless~

[sexymami1001]

Thank you!

[MsHairGuru]

when you deep condition on dry hair, did you mean you co-wash it out? or do you actually shampoo the deep conditioner out and condition it again?

[sexymami1001]

Actually, while I'm rinsing it out, I'm massaging my scalp, cleaning my scalp and hair. I wash my hair twice a week so there isn't much dirt so I skip the co-washing or shampooing step.

[1524k]

u say that u moisturize & seal your ends, i get that part but after you do that with wave nouveau how did you get that bob look did you flat iron it or rap it? because i didn't think that you could flat iron hair after using wave nouveau on your hair if you flat ironed it?

[sexymami1001]

You're absolutely right. This particular time, I did not moisturize and seal. After I washed and air dried, I applied CHI silk infusion as a heat protectant, flat ironed it and wrapped it. I always flat iron ONLY on product-free hair.

[1524k]

hi sexym.,

thnx 4 answering,cause i was really wondering about that.

[sexymami1001]

Not a problem;0)

[NeOSoUlFuL87]

Yea...She definately gave u a hair cut!!...but that's ok look on the bright side it will grow back even healthier since its all even now :)

[sexymami1001]

I agree, Neo! I was hurt but then thought about how healthy and nice it will look once it starts growing. I'll be really pleased with it:)

[alishavirgo]

I am going to try to deep condition on dry hair because mt hair is thin and when I do it when its wet it doesn't do well

[sexymami1001]

I'm sure you'll love it. I started doing it about a month ago and I will always do it like that from now on.

[pillsburycookies]

me too

[1mixed1]

how do u seal ur ends? do u just spray it with the oil?

i feel really dumb lol but everytime someone says that they never explain exactly how to do it

[sexymami1001]

Please don't feel dumb about this. What you do is after you've applied your moisturizer, drop about three drops of oil in the palm of your hand, rub it together and rub it onto the ends of my hair. Just be sure not to use too much because no one wants a greasy head. With oil, a little goes a long way. Hope this helps:)

[1mixed1]

thank you! =)

[JAZZIIBOO]

Your hair looks gr8, very healthy!

[sexymami1001]

Thanks Jazzii! I try to keep my hands out of it but it just feels SO GOOD! I have to pin it up and put a scarf on so that I can stop touching it. I just feel really good about what I'm doing to take care of my hair these days.

[JK0223]

oh yeah girl she took alot off. but i looks really thick and healthy and blunt . i love it

[sexymami1001]

Thanks JK! I'm not thrilled with the fact that she took so much off but I like the way it looks. Besides, it'll grow back.

[kyout9088]

Beautiful hair......................

[sexymami1001]

Thanks so much! I'm trying so I'm glad it's paying off.

[topretty4ukkk]

you should try garnier products

[sexymami1001]

Once I'm done with my current stash of products, I believe I will give it a try. I've heard great things about it.

[txcutemami05]

i think you are the first person I have seen with relaxed hair who has a regimen (co-washes and stuff) like a natural. I wish I would of known about these methods while relaxed, maybe my hair wouldn't have been so dry. Your hair is so pretty.

[sexymami1001]

Thanks so much! Well, we all live and learn. Maybe if you decide to relax again, you'll have better results with the knowledge you have now.

[ebonyy24]

I am a member too of hairlista..and I joined the challenged and i am going back to walmart to get the castrol oil..i am so happy..

[sexymami1001]

Me too! I am determined to do what I can to have healthy hair!

[alwaysbored411]

does it have to be liquid castor oil or can you use castor oil like the isoplus you had?

[sexymami1001]

I think the liquid castor oil is best because it's pure. The solid form has a lot of other things mixed in with it and all of the positive results I've heard about came from the ladies who used the liquid.

[shortydee0379]

I love your hair!!!!! it looks so healthy i know that you will be back to the lenght you were at really soon, and it is true stylists are SEVERLY scissor happy!!!!! i have been there and cried...lol i am happy for you. i love your videos, they are informative and you are just real. talk soon :o)

[sexymami1001]

Thanks so much ShortyDee! And my hair is much healthier. We always want to hold on to length but it's best to trim when we need one, when we find a stylist who doesn't cut TOO MUCH OFF!

[llauryn]

Your hair looks shorter. Did you cut your hair??? :o(

[sexymami1001]

7:52

[unperfectisback]

OMG everybody is on that wave nouveau me too lol. I use to use the qpelasta mago butter.

[sexymami1001]

LoL, I'm telling you girl! That Wave Nouveau is the STUFF! I'm late though because I just started using it about 2 weeks ago. It's definitely a staple for me now!

[unperfectisback]

You look lovely and your hair is beautiful. Keep it up girl.

[sexymami1001]

Thanks so much:0)

[unperfectisback]

That's what I do I deep condition my hair with a mix I put together on dry hair before washing and it makes my hair soft.

[sexymami1001]

I called myself doing a mix last week and that came out a watery MESS! I didn't know what the heck I was mixing or using the wrong quantities or SOMETHING because I was one drippy mess! I won't be trying that again! LoL

[sosweetzphib]

Girl why did my stylist get happy with cutting my hair also. Our hair is about the same length now.

[sexymami1001]

I'm honestly convinced that they can't help themselves! My hair hasn't been this length in over a decade and I really feel hurt man:( My hair was growing good... but it'll get back there, just with healthier, thicker ends this time.

[solitude4me2]

Hi i always like the way u explain everything so thoroughly. your videos are always on point and your hair is really pretty and healthy looking.

[sexymami1001]

Thanks Dear! I always try to explain in depth because I don't like to assume that people automatically know what I'm talking about. No need to make a video about something and ppl are still as lost as they were before you made it, right? LoL. Thanks for your comment:)

[JackieMay19]

You're right. The hair dresser was scissor happy. Its ok though becuase your hair looks really healthy and it will grow back. Do you still flat iron your hair?

[sexymami1001]

Hi Jackie! I still flat iron my hair but only once or twice a month. I've noticed a big change in my hair by not using so much heat and flat ironing every week. I do flat iron every week when my new growth gets wild and I'm stretching my relaxer though.