Uh...there are good men out there who will totally agree with your decision with not having sex and who are straight. Yes they are harder to find, but it's not impossible. The man will come along at the right timing. And for those two guys, it's THEIR perspective, not every males, I had to remind myself that.
I would be so happy if a guy told me to wait. Initially, I may question it- is he gay? Does he not like me? Is he in another relationship? Etc. only because a man wanting to wait is so uncommon. But in the end, it takes the pressure off me and will allow us to be intimate in other ways first.
If a men came out to me and told me from the get go he wanted to wait my reaction would be GREAT :) He beat me to the bullet. Now the question is how long. Unless we are married I'm not the one.
If a man told me he wanted to wait you do have to question him only because its unheard of these days...they said men have needs so I would question his intentions and sincerity to wait. If it is legit..I think it is very very sexy and it might make the loving making better!
Ok, thesedudes r in their 30's, right? I would expect for them not to b virgins, honestly. And, if a 30 yr old woman told me she was a virgin (no penetration, no fellatio, non lesbian) i would b VERY surprised. Dont beat up on me 30+ yr old virgins, but im just sayin! Thats a lot of responsibility for a sexually active person to take on. Its like dating someone with kid(s) n u dont have any. Ur talking about 2 different mindsets then
@keishaj777 :-), dnt b surprised, we're out here. I'm 31 (no penetration, no fellatio, non-lesbian) & waiting. I liked that they said, b honest & confident. I'm confident on my stance & believe the responsibility 2 b honest about what u expect of the relationship falls on both parties. The only way a person can make an informed decision is if they have the information. Sharing ur wants/desires/beliefs with each other creates the opportunity 2 b n the same mindset... what do u thnk?
Ladies, there no need to be upset, I clearly don't speak for all men. I was asked to be honest and I was. You don't have to like my answers, but you gotta respect them. If ya'll don't like it, BLOW ME! LOL, Just Kidding. Look at this way, now you know who to avoid. I'm one mistake you won't make.
Well I have a biblical world view so I view sex as gift from God to be shared between husband and wife that has been perverted by the world. So the perspective of these guys doesn't surprise me at all. I know the truth for and ladies if a man can't wait, move on because you are worth waiting for. And I'm not bashing the guys because I don't think its there fault they think like that. It takes God entering your heart and renewing your mind.
This is my first time watch this video and I am cracking up. I like this!! I think is a great because now you can know what men think about... Nice!!!
sexual person with "needs"? women are sexual too and not every women has to be sentimental and crying waiting for a men to be with her! ...in what world are they living? WE ARE STRONG and we dont need any moron to tell us what to do..(Im not lesbian by the way, Im just a 2012 woman)
My boyfriend and I decided to be celibate together and he's the one who initiated us being celibate but then we both go to church and are saved and thats a whole other perspective you should have because that puts the whole dating field on another level
My husband and i waited until we were married. He was actually the one who wanted to wait and i respected that. I didn't think he was gay ( at first i thought he was a virgin lol) but i later found out that he wasn't. He had just made a promise to god that he would wait about three years prior to dating me.
If a guy wanted to wait, I would have so much respect for him because that's so rare these days. Relationship is not all about sex. Our society is over sexualized.
I think it depends on how well I know the guy. It takes a while to get to know someone's personality and character, so if Ia guy I was dating came off as very sexual, but he said he wanted to wait, I would definitely question his motives, his orientation, and whether he was dating others. However, I would clarify with him his reasons for wanting to wait.
In all honesty, if a man told me that he wanted to wait I'd have a lot of questions. If he wanted to wait until get to know each other better and potentially build a strong foundation then that's fine. If he wants to wait for marriage, it better be for religious reasons because otherwise, I'd throw up the deuces, Just keeping it real!
Taren I lOVE this videos so open and honest. I believe it is a problem today with waiting in general.Sex is so big in our society. Everyone wants to satisfy their needs right NOW..they call it the microwave generation. I think waiting gives you an oppurtunity to know who you are really with. My boyfriend and I are waiting, we were 1yr abstinent before meeting.It takes two to stay committed but God keeps us, we grow closer as our relationship with God become deeper. I thank God for my Boaz
Wow.. I Thank God I have been happily married to a "Godly" man for 15 years. All of these games and rules nowadays with dating? ugh. Thank you Lord for peace!
This makes me even more thankful God saved me from the (dating) world. I have so much more peace waiting on Him than I did hanging my hopes on secular standards; being used & discarded playing by the "rules"; & becoming discouraged when none of the men I invited into my most intimate space proved to be the exception. There's nothing to lose by waiting but everything to lose by entertaining men spouting this sort of rhetoric (not to mention brazenly proclaiming a propensity toward cheating...!).
@nubiennze I love everything you said, you just dont know, i felt everything you said. and your vocab wow lol.. how old are you if u dont mind me asking?
About the man being a virgin question... I would date a man that is a virgin or waiting for marriage. Even though I have enjoyed sex, I can admit that a relationship without sex can be challenge because you have to find non-sexual ways to satisfy that person. I love a challenge! No sex would make the relationship interesting and full of surprises. No sex would bring the INTIMACY into the connection.
Also MissTruthShit IF Taren was dating a married guy that is not our bussiness, WE already got a lot going on with our own problems and circumstances in life to be worried about Taren, let me tell you that the one who was supposed to respect the wife was the husband not Taren, 99% of married guys that cheat claim to be single!!!!..sad but true.
I'm 21 and I am a virgin and damn proud of it too. I've have plenty of opportunities to share myself with a male partner, but I chose not to. Until I find that one person to make my legs shake and makes my heart jump you better believe the shop downstairs is closed. AND if that man your with doesn't respect it, On to the next one. So ladies do not feel pressured to do anything you are not 100% sure of and won't have to regret once the dead is done.
@makda I kept my virginity until I was 19 when I lost it to my husband. We are now divorced. But I proudly share with my daughter and younger sister that I lost my virginity to my husband. I am almost 34 and have one child from that marriage. She is my blessing and my legend and so far she walks in my footsteps. I didn't do this for any religious reason I did this because my mother told me to have respect for myself. She was right and I haven't stopped yet
@MissTruthHurts909 IFFFFF Taren is a HO as YOU said, who the fuck cares!.....We like her and you can publish whatever video you have I am not going to see that, I HAVE A GOOD D***i***ck at home and of course I don't like women so no need to watch her NO!. We as human being like sex or do you think Taren is the only one to enjoy having an orgasm in the world?. Do you think your mother was reading the bible and from nowhere she conceived you?
@taren916 “Stalked”? ha! Bitch please I am here to EXPOSE your ho ass. Which by the way you confirmed by your last comment "Taren:You must be one of my bitter exes or their girlfriends"You have fucked so many men you wouldnt even know WHO that would be,IF that were the case....&these aren't lies.I have video of yo stankin ass giving head to one of your many men who was still MARRIED at the time*lol*Nasty ho => oi41.tinypic(.)com/m8nsj5.jpg <= Bitch Im postingt this shit every chance ! get*lol*
@taren916 “Stalked”? ha! Bitch please I am here to EXPOSE your ho ass. Which by the way you confirmed by your last comment "Taren:You must be one of my bitter exes or their girlfriends"You have fucked so many men you wouldnt even know WHO that would be,IF that were the case....&these aren't lies.I have video of yo stankin ass giving head to one of your many men who was still MARRIED at the time*lol*Nasty ho => oi41.tinypic(.)com/m8nsj5.jpg <= Bitch Im postingt this shit every chance ! get*lol*
@taren916 *lol* “Stalked”? Bitch please I am here to EXPOSE your ho ass. Which by the way you confirmed by your last comment "Taren:You must be one of my bitter exes or their girlfriends" You have fucked so many men you wouldn't even know WHO that would be,IF that were the case....&these aren't lies.I have video of yo stankin ass giving head to one of your many men who was still MARRIED at the time*lol*Nasty ho =>oi41.tinypic(.)com/m8nsj5.jpg BItch imma post this shit every chance i get *haha*
@taren916 *lol* “Stalked”? Bitch please I am here to EXPOSE your ho ass. Which by the way you confirmed by your last comment "Taren:You must be one of my bitter exes or their girlfriends" You have fucked so many men you wouldn't even know WHO that would be,IF that were the case....&these aren't lies.I have video of yo stankin ass giving head to one of your many men who was still MARRIED at the time*lol*Nasty ho =>oi41.tinypic(.)com/m8nsj5.jpg BItch imma post this shit every chance i get *haha*
LOL@ this ho.. Speaking to folks about virginity? Really!? You have 3 kids by 3 different dudes & been f*ckin since you were a kid. This topic really should’nt being coming out of your mouth. Once again you’re giving advice to young girls when YOUR life dosn’t reflect this “great advice” you tend to spew…. Oh yeah…. Explain this pic OF YOU, from this home video, to your followers => oi41.tinypic(.)com/m8nsj5.jpg
LOL@ this ho.. Speaking to folks about virginity? Really!? You have 3 kids by 3 different dudes & been f*ckin since you were a kid. This topic really should’nt being coming out of your mouth. Once again you’re giving advice to young girls when YOUR life dosn’t reflect this “great advice” you tend to spew…. Oh yeah…. Explain this pic OF YOU, from this home video, to your followers => oi41.tinypic(.)com/m8nsj5.jpg
LOL@ this ho.. Speaking to folks about virginity? Really!? You have 3 kids by 3 different dudes & been f*ckin since you were a kid. This topic really should’nt being coming out of your mouth. Once again you’re giving advice to young girls when YOUR life dosn’t reflect this “great advice” you tend to spew…. Oh yeah…. Explain this pic OF YOU, from this home video, to your followers => oi41.tinypic(.)com/m8nsj5.jpg
LOL@ this ho.. Speaking to folks about virginity? Really!? You have 3 kids by 3 different dudes & been f*ckin since you were a kid. This topic really should’nt being coming out of your mouth. Once again you’re giving advice to young girls when YOUR life dosn’t reflect this “great advice” you tend to spew…. Oh yeah…. Explain this pic OF YOU, from this home video, to your followers => oi41.tinypic(.)com/m8nsj5.jpg
@TAREN916 I WOULD LIKE TO DISCUSS THE TOPIC ON OPEN RELATIONSHIPS...THERE WAS AN ARTICLE I READ ABOT OPEN RELATIONSHIPS OR MARRIAGES AND HOW THEY LAST LONGER....IT TALKED ABOUT TWO PEOPLE ACTUALLY TALKING TO THEIR SIGNIFICANT OTHER WHEN THEY GET THE URGE TO SLEEP WITH SOMEONE ELSE INSTEAD OF HIDING IT AND BEING SECRETIVE ABOUT IT...I FEEL THAT THIS WOULD BE A GREAT TOPIC
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@RosiLeouis80 You have seen no such thing. What I post is the truth, stupid ass follower. You act like you actually KNOW this ho via real life. You're just another dumb ass youtube sheep. So please stfu
@taren916 Bitch please I am here to EXPOSE your ho ass. Which by the way you confirmed by your last comment "Taren:You must be one of my bitter exes or their girlfriends" You have fucked so many men you wouldn't even know WHO that would be, IF that were the case....and these aren't lies. I have video of yo stankin ass giving head to one of your many men who was still MARRIED at the time *lol* Nasty ho. =>oi41.tinypic(.)com/m8nsj5.jpg BItch imma post this sh*t every chance i get *haha*
@MissTruthHurts909 WHAT THE FUCK??!!! ARE YOU SERIOUS?!! Who the HELL IS THE KID??!! Because male or female whoever you are you have MAJOR LEAGUE PROBLEMS!! Why do you hate one person soooo much? I mean really... WHY!! It is the saddest thing I have seen in my life. DAMN TAREN, This mother fucker is sick as hell. Taren don't block em, hell none of us care what 'IT' has to say anyway. Let them get their rocks off however they need to. Believe me this is a reflection on them not you. GO HEAD GIRL
@taren916 One of the easiest ways to know when you've "made it" is by looking at the amount of time people will invest in you...particularly those who claim that they can't stand you. If someone dedicates that much time and energy to you...they'll put their own peace of mind at stake to focus on their feelings for you, you're pretty damn important to them. I know you'll handle it like the professional, classy lady that you are. Be careful...and keep rising to the top. Laugh at the haters below.
In regards to the male opinion on virgins.. I think this is what separates the men that are looking for a wife from the men who are looking to have a good time. The man who does not mind waiting is the man who is ready and looking for a wife. There is nothing wrong with their opinion. I think they just aren't at that stage in their lives. When they meet their queen all of that will be out of the window. :) Maybe next time you can talk to the single guys and a happily married man?
LOL@ this ho.. Speaking to folks about virginity? Really!? You have 3 kids by 3 different dudes & been f*ckin since you were a kid. This topic really should’nt being coming out of your mouth. Once again you’re giving advice to young girls when YOUR life dosn’t reflect this “great advice” you tend to spew…. Oh yeah…. Explain this pic OF YOU, from this home video, to your followers => oi41.tinypic(.)com/m8nsj5.jpg
@D3butanteGlam LMAOO...What the full video? I'm selling that shit to the highest bidder. Bids start at $0.02 cents *lmao*....cuz that about how cheap this Taren ho is
Sexy is not special anymore. Men don't have to court anymore. They can get sex from women so easily, as if asking for a stick of gum. If women said no more sex until we are married,men would not have a choice but respect that. When did love and sex become seperate? Why???
love this series! it's interesting and fun hearing their varying perspectives, all while still having the beautiful, sensible, and conscious taren there to join in where needed! also, to answer the q... i wouldn't mind if a man wanted to wait, i'd welcome it
I definitely wouldn't mind if a guy wanted to wait for sex because he was abstinent or whatever his reason being, being abstinent myself. :). It can help one another to get to know more about each other on a deeper level. I do agree with Will about having to be at that particular place in your life to handle something like that. As well as with what you said Taren, to not change your beliefs for a guy so he'll stay with you. If he can't handle no sex, for however long, then its on to the next o
Funny so many girls here speak from a male point of view. I mean do you want to wait??? That's all that matter really!!! And if you not ready and he is not prepared to wait then... maybe you should let him go... And it doesn't even matter if you are a virgin.(you may just want to know the person better before you allow them into your world and the time this takes is up to you) Being truthfully to yourself is what it makes any experience amazing. So forget THEM n think WHAT IS THAT YOU WANT???
Well I wouldnt mind if a guy wanted to wait to have sex. The way I have been feeling about men lately, it would be great for me. Sex has not been the first thing on my mind when it comes to men. It was before but not so much now. So I would love to meet a guy who would want to wait. Also, both of these men are good looking, just because they are expressing how they feel doesn't make them ugly.
@StarzNDHearts I'm not telling anybody to go out there and sleep with jas many people as they can or just anybody for that matter. My point is sex is not taboo and does not only have to be shared between a married couple.
Wow, the thought of a man wanting wait NEVER crossed my mind. Unless I met him in church or he expressed deep spirituality/faith concerns, I might give that guy the side-eye. I just wouldn't know how to interpret that. The thought is so alien to me.
see.. it's different for guys b/c from the time we're young we understood that boys can get away w/ certain things that girls can't. This includes sex. So we definitely EXPECT a man to be sexually active. Therefore if I want some & he says 'no', yes it raises some eyebrows. Especially if we're looking & smelling all good knowing that it'll turn you on & you say NO??? lol yeah..it's crazy but it is what it is
I think Darian is just not looking for a relationship right now and that is fine but just let the girl he is 'dating' know that right off the bat. If he just wants to have fun, he can, but a girl wouldn't know that if he is dating and courting her and being sweet and charming. Just be open and honest about what you are looking for, be communicative.
I would date a man that was not ready to be involed sexually. If he had a very strong character content. Besides it's not all about the sex. You need good communication, understanding, a personality, work ethic, intergity, and the list goes on. In my oppinion, you can't look at a man or a women for that matter and say what he or she is. Because a guy can be the most hansome thing in the world, and open his mouth and talks to you and be the ugliest thing you ever seen.
They just not attractive... so good luck with the women willing to get with your unattractive selves:)..... COME ON taren.. I know they ae your friends, but lets find some hotties to do these videos:) I know you can do it.
@djsugah lmaooooooooooooo!!!! i know right!!! lawd the things he was saying just are soooo selfish and immature i dont know how he kept a straight face seriously i dont :-/
i would have thought a grown man of his age would know relationships take TIME to build therefore this includes sex smmfh
@lovemuffin10101 yea he acts like he just dipped it for the first time yay so excited n all. maybe that's why he is tripping off the virgin question. 30+ years unvoluntary abstinence is not easy for a man
@djsugah LMMFAOOOOOOOOOOOO!!! i wonder if he reading the comments lool ......he seems like that guy that will be be 50 years old still at the club trying to holla at females because he still has yet to realise what a REAL relationship consist of ....i just cant with him and i thought the other guy in taren other vid was bad i dont know who worse!!
Cool video! I've to say..I'm old school and waiting until marriage..although most may disagree...is important and has a solid place in the race for someone specials heart
The issue isn't about whether a man is or isnt being sexual towards us,we understand they're sexual creatures. It's about the fact that they try to stick their hand in the cookie jar after the first date! If they would just allow the chemistry and sexual tension to build, it would be better in the end. Because if I'm feeling him and vice versa things are going to progress towards getting physical anyway!
To answer the question, I would have to say that I would be shocked to hear the statement from a man, because most men don't wait for that, and if they do.....It's not for long. But I would never assume that he was gay off top, I would more so want to know the reasons why he is waiting or wanting to wait with me. But then again 9 times out of 10 what guy is really saying this? What are we saying here? If a man doesn't want to have sex off top he has to be gay? There could be other reasons.
I mean, I need to know upfront if I have sexual chemistry with a person rather than waiting months and months. Naw, I might wait months and months and find out dude is wack in the bedroom and as much as I love sex, I can't be with no wack lover.
In response to the guy being a virgin, I would have to admit, I'd give a little side eye action just because you don't see much of that now a days, but because I'm waiting for marriage myself, I would be receptive and appreciative of that type of guy =no pressure. And just so Darian knows, not all church boys are angels, remember the devil knows the word better than you because he has to know how to beat his opponent.! #justsayin Thanks for the video Taren, I love them!
I don't know maybe I should see part 2, but this male perspectives seem like Damiens' perspective (sry if his name is spelled wrong) in the first one, the guys were evenly matched and talked one after the other. These two talked on top of each other and spoke about each others (when it did happen) opinions instead of their own. They know way to much about each other, no wonder they're known as a group (minus one).
i know someone who reminds me of damien. very intelligent guy, but won't be more than friends with a girl unless she's willing to give it up. i know this because i was one of those girls, didn't give it up, and now i'm with the man of my dreams who respects what i want and was willing to wait for me. ladies, don't settle, and don't be discouraged! if you fully love and respect yourself enough, you'll find the right guy for you.
It would be nice to see a nice guy with high morals who respects women and wants to fall in love & make a commitment - Marriage- on one of your videos. But I guess in this filthy, sex driven society that's hard to come by -smh - & we wonder why our communities are filled with fatherless single parent homes & grandparents raising their grandchildren!
I'm so sick of men, ugh! lol I don't give a man the time of day if he only wants to "have a good time." I've been single and celibate for a WHILE because of the nonsense that men put women through and the silly little BS games. Nobody wants to commit and have a relationship but everyone wants to jump in the bed and hook up for a night! SMH I'll wait.
People have sex b4 they even know if they are compatible. cause all they are concerned with is sexual compatibility. I respect any man who is not sexually active cause it takes strength to be stronger than your urges, take a step back and realize what you need, and to put common sense and safety above a fun night. To look down on someone for that is pitiful. It is a personal and private thing though.
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I met a guy, 24, and he's a virgin. I didn't think he was gay but just wanted to wait for the right woman. I continued to talk to him but in the end we just didn't mesh together as people.
Love this so good. And answer to question if he says he wants to wait, I would b like Wat seriously won't laugh at him or anything but i will need to knw how long he wants to wait. :-) it will b hard but depends how I feel about him.
OH MY!! TAREN YOU ARE THE BEST!! I am going through a similar situation. Me and this guy have been on and off for the past year in a half and now all of a sudden he's complaining about us not having sex! At the beginning of the relationship I told him, I only wanted to be friends and that I has celibate. He was ok with that. Although I said I only wanted to be friends, I knew we were really more than that! Now, he expresses his feelings to me claiming to love me but he can't wait on me any long
@CutieBritty OMG! I went through the same thing!!!! Except, he was willing to wait and I just dumped him, in fear of getting too close and making a HUGE mistake.
This world puts so much emphasis on sex...it's not until we all get wrinkly and can't even perform until we realize just how small of a influence it truly is. Besides...you can STILL get pregnant and get an STI o AIDS when wearing a condom. The safest road to protect yourself is to save yourself.
Both of these guys are over 30yrs old. I totally agree with them about never dating a virgin. When you get to certain age, it's about finding a partner that suits your needs; in and out of the bedroom. I appreciate their honesty.
Hi Taren. I feel like this video needs some clarification at 8:30. The gentleman in the hat states "We are friends until..." Can he specify what he meant? It seems like he is saying he cannot even court a woman whom he is not actively having sex with.
Well for me I would be honored if a guy said he wanted to wait. I think if a guy can sustain from having sex there will be no problems for him sustaining from other woman when he gets into a serious relationship
@mzsusu89 i totally agree its rare that a man turns down sexual advances and honestly i think if he can say wait or no its shows hes strong and not easily tempted and in my opinion that's a sign of husband material
If a man wanted to wait, I wouldn't immediately right him off as gay because something has happened to where he's made that choice. I'm not a virgin, but I made a decision to be what God wanted me to be instead of doing what I thought was best for me. Along with that came the decision to not have sex and the MAN that God has for me will respect that, wait for me, and not have sex with other women in the meantime.
Just turned 18 today and i'm so proud to still be a virgin- not that it was hard or anything. I just wanna wait until marriage, i'm not in a rush to have sex or anything we're all different. I just believe waiting is best. Right now i just want to focus on school and travel the world.
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If a man wanted to wait, I would think something! :-) That's only because we have been conditioned to believe that men can't wait. So on that note, it would be important to pay close attention to him, who is friends are and what he say. Eventually you listen and watch long enough he will show you who he really is. If he turns out to be straight then you might just have a good one (meaning not a man whore) lol
Taren, you are too beautiful.
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How do you know so many good looking brothas? Lol.
ThatGurlRuby 2 months ago 4
@taren916 is that a wig? if so what's the name ...and the brand? I loveeee it!
dShorinde 2 months ago
Uh...there are good men out there who will totally agree with your decision with not having sex and who are straight. Yes they are harder to find, but it's not impossible. The man will come along at the right timing. And for those two guys, it's THEIR perspective, not every males, I had to remind myself that.
MzVocalist91 2 months ago 2
GHANA!
TheNbrit 2 months ago
i love your hot pink nail polish! where is it from?
TheNbrit 2 months ago
I would love it if I met a man that did not want to have sex, but was straight. That's a gem!
tinatyme 2 months ago
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mesha188 2 months ago
I would be so happy if a guy told me to wait. Initially, I may question it- is he gay? Does he not like me? Is he in another relationship? Etc. only because a man wanting to wait is so uncommon. But in the end, it takes the pressure off me and will allow us to be intimate in other ways first.
stoneridgeway 2 months ago
NEW AGE MEN..MY ASS! So disappointing....the pair of them.Is this what women have to look forward to? SMDH.
Merrylikechristmas 2 months ago
every man taren knows is handsome.
b3autiphulmokha 3 months ago
If a men came out to me and told me from the get go he wanted to wait my reaction would be GREAT :) He beat me to the bullet. Now the question is how long. Unless we are married I'm not the one.
rosebudloves 3 months ago
If a man told me he wanted to wait you do have to question him only because its unheard of these days...they said men have needs so I would question his intentions and sincerity to wait. If it is legit..I think it is very very sexy and it might make the loving making better!
wiwut 3 months ago
Taren, you should so do a male persp with Mark and Will. It would be so interesting to see what they would say.
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Ok, thesedudes r in their 30's, right? I would expect for them not to b virgins, honestly. And, if a 30 yr old woman told me she was a virgin (no penetration, no fellatio, non lesbian) i would b VERY surprised. Dont beat up on me 30+ yr old virgins, but im just sayin! Thats a lot of responsibility for a sexually active person to take on. Its like dating someone with kid(s) n u dont have any. Ur talking about 2 different mindsets then
keishaj777 3 months ago
@keishaj777 :-), dnt b surprised, we're out here. I'm 31 (no penetration, no fellatio, non-lesbian) & waiting. I liked that they said, b honest & confident. I'm confident on my stance & believe the responsibility 2 b honest about what u expect of the relationship falls on both parties. The only way a person can make an informed decision is if they have the information. Sharing ur wants/desires/beliefs with each other creates the opportunity 2 b n the same mindset... what do u thnk?
Butrfli80 2 months ago
:)
dloganthegr8 3 months ago
Ladies, there no need to be upset, I clearly don't speak for all men. I was asked to be honest and I was. You don't have to like my answers, but you gotta respect them. If ya'll don't like it, BLOW ME! LOL, Just Kidding. Look at this way, now you know who to avoid. I'm one mistake you won't make.
dloganthegr8 3 months ago
@dloganthegr8 Oh D... some things never change! I still luv ya tho! Crown Town 4 Lyfe!
pmurray0107 3 months ago
Well I have a biblical world view so I view sex as gift from God to be shared between husband and wife that has been perverted by the world. So the perspective of these guys doesn't surprise me at all. I know the truth for and ladies if a man can't wait, move on because you are worth waiting for. And I'm not bashing the guys because I don't think its there fault they think like that. It takes God entering your heart and renewing your mind.
sistersnaturally 3 months ago 6
@sistersnaturally AMEN! That's what I'm talking about. God Bless.
rosebudloves 3 months ago
This is my first time watch this video and I am cracking up. I like this!! I think is a great because now you can know what men think about... Nice!!!
kcnetters83 3 months ago
love your new intro hun
YAHSNUM1 3 months ago
This is very entertaining and informative! Keep it coming....
lovnlace 3 months ago
sexual person with "needs"? women are sexual too and not every women has to be sentimental and crying waiting for a men to be with her! ...in what world are they living? WE ARE STRONG and we dont need any moron to tell us what to do..(Im not lesbian by the way, Im just a 2012 woman)
90lenne 3 months ago
the perfect example of two good looking idiots!!!
90lenne 3 months ago
Had to go back, this was pretty good!
TheCoilWhisperer 3 months ago
FLATBUSH!!!!!!!!
TheCoilWhisperer 3 months ago
Nice looking guys.
missbistouri 3 months ago
My boyfriend and I decided to be celibate together and he's the one who initiated us being celibate but then we both go to church and are saved and thats a whole other perspective you should have because that puts the whole dating field on another level
princesstp 3 months ago 2
@princesstp great job!!! i totally respect that any one that claims they want to be serious with GOD should follow what his word says
YAHSNUM1 3 months ago
WOW I have to say that Darian is a real cutie ;)
Jasamin91 3 months ago 2
will is a cutie. good video! waiting for part 2 :)
ithastobecatchy 3 months ago 2
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Will aka Ghana Sands....I would love to lay on that beach....;) lol
MsShAyDHD 3 months ago
My husband and i waited until we were married. He was actually the one who wanted to wait and i respected that. I didn't think he was gay ( at first i thought he was a virgin lol) but i later found out that he wasn't. He had just made a promise to god that he would wait about three years prior to dating me.
NaturalyAngel 3 months ago
If a guy wanted to wait, I would have so much respect for him because that's so rare these days. Relationship is not all about sex. Our society is over sexualized.
HabeshaQween 3 months ago
I think it depends on how well I know the guy. It takes a while to get to know someone's personality and character, so if Ia guy I was dating came off as very sexual, but he said he wanted to wait, I would definitely question his motives, his orientation, and whether he was dating others. However, I would clarify with him his reasons for wanting to wait.
NaturalCure86 3 months ago
I would be attracted to a dude that said he wanted to wait, but that's just me... I think differently from most people anyway
LoveEssence 3 months ago
In all honesty, if a man told me that he wanted to wait I'd have a lot of questions. If he wanted to wait until get to know each other better and potentially build a strong foundation then that's fine. If he wants to wait for marriage, it better be for religious reasons because otherwise, I'd throw up the deuces, Just keeping it real!
PearlfectJourney 3 months ago
Will is sooooo handsome!!!! *wink wink* lol! Too cute!
cntolber 3 months ago
if a guy wanted to wait i would respect him sooo much more. i wouldn't think he was gay at all as long as he's giving me attention
misskaneza 3 months ago
i looove your intro's! the music is so classy
misskaneza 3 months ago
@taren916 When are you going to upload Part 2 of this conversion?
BSMART18 3 months ago
I still feel that a man goes for what he wants. I think it's pc to say they like being hunted, but I still think they like to pursue a woman.
143living 3 months ago
@143living agree its in their dna to hunt.....
lovemuffin10101 3 months ago
Taren I lOVE this videos so open and honest. I believe it is a problem today with waiting in general.Sex is so big in our society. Everyone wants to satisfy their needs right NOW..they call it the microwave generation. I think waiting gives you an oppurtunity to know who you are really with. My boyfriend and I are waiting, we were 1yr abstinent before meeting.It takes two to stay committed but God keeps us, we grow closer as our relationship with God become deeper. I thank God for my Boaz
Solanadesire 3 months ago
Wow.. I Thank God I have been happily married to a "Godly" man for 15 years. All of these games and rules nowadays with dating? ugh. Thank you Lord for peace!
godsflame2 3 months ago 4
This makes me even more thankful God saved me from the (dating) world. I have so much more peace waiting on Him than I did hanging my hopes on secular standards; being used & discarded playing by the "rules"; & becoming discouraged when none of the men I invited into my most intimate space proved to be the exception. There's nothing to lose by waiting but everything to lose by entertaining men spouting this sort of rhetoric (not to mention brazenly proclaiming a propensity toward cheating...!).
nubiennze 3 months ago 36
@nubiennze you just gave me so my clarity and revelation...you just don't know. Thanks
MsTorrie82 2 months ago
@MsTorrie82 Glad to help! Be encouraged! (:
nubiennze 1 month ago
@nubiennze I love everything you said, you just dont know, i felt everything you said. and your vocab wow lol.. how old are you if u dont mind me asking?
brina2254 2 months ago
@brina2254 Haha, thanks. I'm 27. (:
nubiennze 1 month ago
@nubiennze > Girl!!! Well said...well said. I'll wait on Him!!!!
shestudios 1 month ago
@shestudios Me too! I trust He knows what's best for me; He hasn't steered me wrong yet. (:
nubiennze 1 month ago
@nubiennze So I'm confused are you married already or a nun?
TheNuyorker 1 week ago in playlist Uploaded videos
Will kinda looks like Idris Elba
SPL1019 3 months ago 2
About the man being a virgin question... I would date a man that is a virgin or waiting for marriage. Even though I have enjoyed sex, I can admit that a relationship without sex can be challenge because you have to find non-sexual ways to satisfy that person. I love a challenge! No sex would make the relationship interesting and full of surprises. No sex would bring the INTIMACY into the connection.
cierrantionette 3 months ago
How old are these guys?
Brynne87 3 months ago
Also MissTruthShit IF Taren was dating a married guy that is not our bussiness, WE already got a lot going on with our own problems and circumstances in life to be worried about Taren, let me tell you that the one who was supposed to respect the wife was the husband not Taren, 99% of married guys that cheat claim to be single!!!!..sad but true.
chechamatapuercos 3 months ago 3
I'm 21 and I am a virgin and damn proud of it too. I've have plenty of opportunities to share myself with a male partner, but I chose not to. Until I find that one person to make my legs shake and makes my heart jump you better believe the shop downstairs is closed. AND if that man your with doesn't respect it, On to the next one. So ladies do not feel pressured to do anything you are not 100% sure of and won't have to regret once the dead is done.
makda 3 months ago 22
@makda I kept my virginity until I was 19 when I lost it to my husband. We are now divorced. But I proudly share with my daughter and younger sister that I lost my virginity to my husband. I am almost 34 and have one child from that marriage. She is my blessing and my legend and so far she walks in my footsteps. I didn't do this for any religious reason I did this because my mother told me to have respect for myself. She was right and I haven't stopped yet
TheNuyorker 1 week ago in playlist Uploaded videos
@MissTruthHurts909 IFFFFF Taren is a HO as YOU said, who the fuck cares!.....We like her and you can publish whatever video you have I am not going to see that, I HAVE A GOOD D***i***ck at home and of course I don't like women so no need to watch her NO!. We as human being like sex or do you think Taren is the only one to enjoy having an orgasm in the world?. Do you think your mother was reading the bible and from nowhere she conceived you?
chechamatapuercos 3 months ago
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@taren916 “Stalked”? ha! Bitch please I am here to EXPOSE your ho ass. Which by the way you confirmed by your last comment "Taren:You must be one of my bitter exes or their girlfriends"You have fucked so many men you wouldnt even know WHO that would be,IF that were the case....&these aren't lies.I have video of yo stankin ass giving head to one of your many men who was still MARRIED at the time*lol*Nasty ho => oi41.tinypic(.)com/m8nsj5.jpg <= Bitch Im postingt this shit every chance ! get*lol*
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@taren916 “Stalked”? ha! Bitch please I am here to EXPOSE your ho ass. Which by the way you confirmed by your last comment "Taren:You must be one of my bitter exes or their girlfriends"You have fucked so many men you wouldnt even know WHO that would be,IF that were the case....&these aren't lies.I have video of yo stankin ass giving head to one of your many men who was still MARRIED at the time*lol*Nasty ho => oi41.tinypic(.)com/m8nsj5.jpg <= Bitch Im postingt this shit every chance ! get*lol*
MissTruthHurts909 3 months ago
Interesting....
MacFashion2011 3 months ago
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@taren916 *lol* “Stalked”? Bitch please I am here to EXPOSE your ho ass. Which by the way you confirmed by your last comment "Taren:You must be one of my bitter exes or their girlfriends" You have fucked so many men you wouldn't even know WHO that would be,IF that were the case....&these aren't lies.I have video of yo stankin ass giving head to one of your many men who was still MARRIED at the time*lol*Nasty ho =>oi41.tinypic(.)com/m8nsj5.jpg BItch imma post this shit every chance i get *haha*
MissTruthHurts909 3 months ago
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@taren916 *lol* “Stalked”? Bitch please I am here to EXPOSE your ho ass. Which by the way you confirmed by your last comment "Taren:You must be one of my bitter exes or their girlfriends" You have fucked so many men you wouldn't even know WHO that would be,IF that were the case....&these aren't lies.I have video of yo stankin ass giving head to one of your many men who was still MARRIED at the time*lol*Nasty ho =>oi41.tinypic(.)com/m8nsj5.jpg BItch imma post this shit every chance i get *haha*
MissTruthHurts909 3 months ago
@MissTruthHurts909 bitch please ur the one hiding on youtube internet thug
msjmail 3 months ago
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LOL@ this ho.. Speaking to folks about virginity? Really!? You have 3 kids by 3 different dudes & been f*ckin since you were a kid. This topic really should’nt being coming out of your mouth. Once again you’re giving advice to young girls when YOUR life dosn’t reflect this “great advice” you tend to spew…. Oh yeah…. Explain this pic OF YOU, from this home video, to your followers => oi41.tinypic(.)com/m8nsj5.jpg
LMAOO!
MissTruthHurts909 3 months ago
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LOL@ this ho.. Speaking to folks about virginity? Really!? You have 3 kids by 3 different dudes & been f*ckin since you were a kid. This topic really should’nt being coming out of your mouth. Once again you’re giving advice to young girls when YOUR life dosn’t reflect this “great advice” you tend to spew…. Oh yeah…. Explain this pic OF YOU, from this home video, to your followers => oi41.tinypic(.)com/m8nsj5.jpg
LMAOO!
MissTruthHurts909 3 months ago
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LOL@ this ho.. Speaking to folks about virginity? Really!? You have 3 kids by 3 different dudes & been f*ckin since you were a kid. This topic really should’nt being coming out of your mouth. Once again you’re giving advice to young girls when YOUR life dosn’t reflect this “great advice” you tend to spew…. Oh yeah…. Explain this pic OF YOU, from this home video, to your followers => oi41.tinypic(.)com/m8nsj5.jpg
LMAOO!
MissTruthHurts909 3 months ago
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LOL@ this ho.. Speaking to folks about virginity? Really!? You have 3 kids by 3 different dudes & been f*ckin since you were a kid. This topic really should’nt being coming out of your mouth. Once again you’re giving advice to young girls when YOUR life dosn’t reflect this “great advice” you tend to spew…. Oh yeah…. Explain this pic OF YOU, from this home video, to your followers => oi41.tinypic(.)com/m8nsj5.jpg
LMAOO!
MissTruthHurts909 3 months ago
both these guys are the typical asshole players...fuck them don't follow their advice. Good men are so limited it's sad smh
RoseyNYC 3 months ago
@TAREN916 I WOULD LIKE TO DISCUSS THE TOPIC ON OPEN RELATIONSHIPS...THERE WAS AN ARTICLE I READ ABOT OPEN RELATIONSHIPS OR MARRIAGES AND HOW THEY LAST LONGER....IT TALKED ABOUT TWO PEOPLE ACTUALLY TALKING TO THEIR SIGNIFICANT OTHER WHEN THEY GET THE URGE TO SLEEP WITH SOMEONE ELSE INSTEAD OF HIDING IT AND BEING SECRETIVE ABOUT IT...I FEEL THAT THIS WOULD BE A GREAT TOPIC
marcie101080 3 months ago
ATTENTION** *****I AM BEING CYBER STALKED BY A NUTCASE AND THEY CREATE DIFF ACCOUNTS AFTER BEING BLOCKED USING "MISSTRUTHHURTS" ... THEY ARE SPREADING LIES ABOUT ME .. SO PLEASE DISREGARD HER/HIS COMMENTS.. PLEASE, I ASK FOR YOU SUPPORT TO HELP ME REPORT THIS PERSON TO YOUTUBE.. THANK YOU********
taren916 3 months ago 69
@taren916 I've seen this being done to other Youtubers too. People are crazy. Your subscribers don't give it any credence :o)
RosiLeouis80 3 months ago
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@RosiLeouis80 You have seen no such thing. What I post is the truth, stupid ass follower. You act like you actually KNOW this ho via real life. You're just another dumb ass youtube sheep. So please stfu
MissTruthHurts909 3 months ago
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@taren916 Bitch please I am here to EXPOSE your ho ass. Which by the way you confirmed by your last comment "Taren:You must be one of my bitter exes or their girlfriends" You have fucked so many men you wouldn't even know WHO that would be, IF that were the case....and these aren't lies. I have video of yo stankin ass giving head to one of your many men who was still MARRIED at the time *lol* Nasty ho. =>oi41.tinypic(.)com/m8nsj5.jpg BItch imma post this sh*t every chance i get *haha*
MissTruthHurts909 3 months ago
@MissTruthHurts909 WHAT THE FUCK??!!! ARE YOU SERIOUS?!! Who the HELL IS THE KID??!! Because male or female whoever you are you have MAJOR LEAGUE PROBLEMS!! Why do you hate one person soooo much? I mean really... WHY!! It is the saddest thing I have seen in my life. DAMN TAREN, This mother fucker is sick as hell. Taren don't block em, hell none of us care what 'IT' has to say anyway. Let them get their rocks off however they need to. Believe me this is a reflection on them not you. GO HEAD GIRL
TheQuanduke 3 months ago
@taren916 One of the easiest ways to know when you've "made it" is by looking at the amount of time people will invest in you...particularly those who claim that they can't stand you. If someone dedicates that much time and energy to you...they'll put their own peace of mind at stake to focus on their feelings for you, you're pretty damn important to them. I know you'll handle it like the professional, classy lady that you are. Be careful...and keep rising to the top. Laugh at the haters below.
NeasTube 3 months ago
In regards to the male opinion on virgins.. I think this is what separates the men that are looking for a wife from the men who are looking to have a good time. The man who does not mind waiting is the man who is ready and looking for a wife. There is nothing wrong with their opinion. I think they just aren't at that stage in their lives. When they meet their queen all of that will be out of the window. :) Maybe next time you can talk to the single guys and a happily married man?
missiewalker 3 months ago 6
@missiewalker I agree!
ericaehiwe 3 months ago
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LMAOO!
MissTruthHurtsss 3 months ago
OMG Hunted and hunting....My uncle was just talking about this at dinner for Thanksgiving LOL...I have to show him this vid!! Thanks for the vid
LovelyLexie 3 months ago
Great questions Taren. And your mates very are hot!!! Especially WIll.
ShamRockssince81 3 months ago
Loving this series great to hear the male perspective on different topics. :)
myenmoni 3 months ago
"is she giving me head"? Lmao Love that! hahahahahahaha
D3butanteGlam 3 months ago
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@D3butanteGlam LMAOO...What the full video? I'm selling that shit to the highest bidder. Bids start at $0.02 cents *lmao*....cuz that about how cheap this Taren ho is
MissTruthHurts909 3 months ago
totally have a crush on darian
oshync 3 months ago 15
@arkeisha thats what im saying
dariakaznia 3 months ago
Sexy is not special anymore. Men don't have to court anymore. They can get sex from women so easily, as if asking for a stick of gum. If women said no more sex until we are married,men would not have a choice but respect that. When did love and sex become seperate? Why???
arkeisha2008 3 months ago 10
@arkeisha2008 Good point!
myenmoni 3 months ago
wait... random question: are you all in your mid-late twenties? Idk why I keep thinking you guys are around my age haha
toscamarleen 3 months ago
@toscamarleen 30's
taren916 3 months ago
@taren916 Would you mind though if I guys wants to wait?
huizenvoorjou 3 months ago
love this series! it's interesting and fun hearing their varying perspectives, all while still having the beautiful, sensible, and conscious taren there to join in where needed! also, to answer the q... i wouldn't mind if a man wanted to wait, i'd welcome it
carm8421 3 months ago 2
ahh i miss the old music =[
kdmz08 3 months ago
I definitely wouldn't mind if a guy wanted to wait for sex because he was abstinent or whatever his reason being, being abstinent myself. :). It can help one another to get to know more about each other on a deeper level. I do agree with Will about having to be at that particular place in your life to handle something like that. As well as with what you said Taren, to not change your beliefs for a guy so he'll stay with you. If he can't handle no sex, for however long, then its on to the next o
LuvCoTERE 3 months ago 3
Funny so many girls here speak from a male point of view. I mean do you want to wait??? That's all that matter really!!! And if you not ready and he is not prepared to wait then... maybe you should let him go... And it doesn't even matter if you are a virgin.(you may just want to know the person better before you allow them into your world and the time this takes is up to you) Being truthfully to yourself is what it makes any experience amazing. So forget THEM n think WHAT IS THAT YOU WANT???
sahaarinazzar 3 months ago
Just curious... how old are these guys?
mainey2g6 3 months ago
Well I wouldnt mind if a guy wanted to wait to have sex. The way I have been feeling about men lately, it would be great for me. Sex has not been the first thing on my mind when it comes to men. It was before but not so much now. So I would love to meet a guy who would want to wait. Also, both of these men are good looking, just because they are expressing how they feel doesn't make them ugly.
Isamusic100 3 months ago
@StarzNDHearts I'm not telling anybody to go out there and sleep with jas many people as they can or just anybody for that matter. My point is sex is not taboo and does not only have to be shared between a married couple.
MsSassattack 3 months ago
Wow, the thought of a man wanting wait NEVER crossed my mind. Unless I met him in church or he expressed deep spirituality/faith concerns, I might give that guy the side-eye. I just wouldn't know how to interpret that. The thought is so alien to me.
underestiimated 3 months ago
see.. it's different for guys b/c from the time we're young we understood that boys can get away w/ certain things that girls can't. This includes sex. So we definitely EXPECT a man to be sexually active. Therefore if I want some & he says 'no', yes it raises some eyebrows. Especially if we're looking & smelling all good knowing that it'll turn you on & you say NO??? lol yeah..it's crazy but it is what it is
bevagyei 3 months ago
I think it would be refreshing to have a guy want to wait......I would be down with that
K7777cj 3 months ago in playlist More videos from taren916
Another great interview Taren!! If he wanted to wait...I would.
lena7373 3 months ago
Another great interview Taren!!
lena7373 3 months ago
I think Darian is just not looking for a relationship right now and that is fine but just let the girl he is 'dating' know that right off the bat. If he just wants to have fun, he can, but a girl wouldn't know that if he is dating and courting her and being sweet and charming. Just be open and honest about what you are looking for, be communicative.
avaflavorful 3 months ago
Look my turn my head, but character keeps my attention.
Misskeekee2011 3 months ago
I would date a man that was not ready to be involed sexually. If he had a very strong character content. Besides it's not all about the sex. You need good communication, understanding, a personality, work ethic, intergity, and the list goes on. In my oppinion, you can't look at a man or a women for that matter and say what he or she is. Because a guy can be the most hansome thing in the world, and open his mouth and talks to you and be the ugliest thing you ever seen.
Misskeekee2011 3 months ago
PART 2 PLEASE!!! :-p
lovemuffin10101 3 months ago
They just not attractive... so good luck with the women willing to get with your unattractive selves:)..... COME ON taren.. I know they ae your friends, but lets find some hotties to do these videos:) I know you can do it.
bebegurl31291 3 months ago 3
Dark Skin is sexy!! Love the vid very interesting. Plz keep em comming momma.
SasiaStarr 3 months ago
the guy to the left made some retarded comments. how old is he? he can't be over 21-22 years of age
djsugah 3 months ago
@djsugah he is 30+ :-/
lovemuffin10101 3 months ago
@lovemuffin10101 he does not seem to have much experience for his age. does he just now start dating??
djsugah 3 months ago
@djsugah lmaooooooooooooo!!!! i know right!!! lawd the things he was saying just are soooo selfish and immature i dont know how he kept a straight face seriously i dont :-/
i would have thought a grown man of his age would know relationships take TIME to build therefore this includes sex smmfh
lovemuffin10101 3 months ago
@lovemuffin10101 yea he acts like he just dipped it for the first time yay so excited n all. maybe that's why he is tripping off the virgin question. 30+ years unvoluntary abstinence is not easy for a man
:D
djsugah 3 months ago
@djsugah LMMFAOOOOOOOOOOOO!!! i wonder if he reading the comments lool ......he seems like that guy that will be be 50 years old still at the club trying to holla at females because he still has yet to realise what a REAL relationship consist of ....i just cant with him and i thought the other guy in taren other vid was bad i dont know who worse!!
lovemuffin10101 3 months ago
Unless you would like to have sex and/or date these two men, why does anyone even care what they think about sex, dating, etc.!?
Just like women's perspectives differ individually, men's do too ... and these two men are by no means ambassadors for the rest of 'em.
Username2046 3 months ago
Cool video! I've to say..I'm old school and waiting until marriage..although most may disagree...is important and has a solid place in the race for someone specials heart
radley3519 3 months ago
The issue isn't about whether a man is or isnt being sexual towards us,we understand they're sexual creatures. It's about the fact that they try to stick their hand in the cookie jar after the first date! If they would just allow the chemistry and sexual tension to build, it would be better in the end. Because if I'm feeling him and vice versa things are going to progress towards getting physical anyway!
ChaChaFontaine 3 months ago
To answer the question, I would have to say that I would be shocked to hear the statement from a man, because most men don't wait for that, and if they do.....It's not for long. But I would never assume that he was gay off top, I would more so want to know the reasons why he is waiting or wanting to wait with me. But then again 9 times out of 10 what guy is really saying this? What are we saying here? If a man doesn't want to have sex off top he has to be gay? There could be other reasons.
beauty1018 3 months ago in playlist More videos from taren916
I mean, I need to know upfront if I have sexual chemistry with a person rather than waiting months and months. Naw, I might wait months and months and find out dude is wack in the bedroom and as much as I love sex, I can't be with no wack lover.
superchick76 3 months ago
To each is own. Personally, I wouldn't wait. Thats just me. I love sex and if we have that chemistry and we both on the same page, its on and poppin!
superchick76 3 months ago
In response to the guy being a virgin, I would have to admit, I'd give a little side eye action just because you don't see much of that now a days, but because I'm waiting for marriage myself, I would be receptive and appreciative of that type of guy =no pressure. And just so Darian knows, not all church boys are angels, remember the devil knows the word better than you because he has to know how to beat his opponent.! #justsayin Thanks for the video Taren, I love them!
Orijust 3 months ago
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I don't know maybe I should see part 2, but this male perspectives seem like Damiens' perspective (sry if his name is spelled wrong) in the first one, the guys were evenly matched and talked one after the other. These two talked on top of each other and spoke about each others (when it did happen) opinions instead of their own. They know way to much about each other, no wonder they're known as a group (minus one).
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sillyie 3 months ago
i know someone who reminds me of damien. very intelligent guy, but won't be more than friends with a girl unless she's willing to give it up. i know this because i was one of those girls, didn't give it up, and now i'm with the man of my dreams who respects what i want and was willing to wait for me. ladies, don't settle, and don't be discouraged! if you fully love and respect yourself enough, you'll find the right guy for you.
emilyislovelyx3 3 months ago 6
these two are too much! lol are you sure you want the third one there? ahahaha
bambellaaa 3 months ago
It would be nice to see a nice guy with high morals who respects women and wants to fall in love & make a commitment - Marriage- on one of your videos. But I guess in this filthy, sex driven society that's hard to come by -smh - & we wonder why our communities are filled with fatherless single parent homes & grandparents raising their grandchildren!
AlNisa21 3 months ago
I do want to marry a virgin!
ddfrisky 3 months ago 2
I will not feel he is gay...I will feel that he is a man's man...only few men can keep themselves without sex and I would respect him more..
ddfrisky 3 months ago 6
I'm so sick of men, ugh! lol I don't give a man the time of day if he only wants to "have a good time." I've been single and celibate for a WHILE because of the nonsense that men put women through and the silly little BS games. Nobody wants to commit and have a relationship but everyone wants to jump in the bed and hook up for a night! SMH I'll wait.
RosiLeouis80 3 months ago
Ladies never chase a man! Sperm chases egg, not the reverse.
mjgreenidge 3 months ago 13
People have sex b4 they even know if they are compatible. cause all they are concerned with is sexual compatibility. I respect any man who is not sexually active cause it takes strength to be stronger than your urges, take a step back and realize what you need, and to put common sense and safety above a fun night. To look down on someone for that is pitiful. It is a personal and private thing though.
tuxu14 3 months ago 6
what's they're sign?
ChicaqooMami 3 months ago
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my philosophy is why be intimate with a person if they are not special , don't waste your time.
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Oh my gosh. Haha, Darien kind of sound like a whore, not just a sexual being.
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chessica450 3 months ago
You all are some gorgeous homosapiens.
'Cept Darian,too concerned with just bangin'
that's Neanderthal....Evolve my brother evolve.
You're too cute to be soooo small in your thinking
about women and sex.
prowoman 3 months ago 40
@prowoman exactly!!! darian came off kinda simple to me :-/ oh well....
lovemuffin10101 3 months ago
@prowoman OUCH!! Lol!
taren916 3 months ago 3
I met a guy, 24, and he's a virgin. I didn't think he was gay but just wanted to wait for the right woman. I continued to talk to him but in the end we just didn't mesh together as people.
yoruba21 3 months ago
"is she giving me head",,,lol i had to laugh
TaShayla888 3 months ago
Love this so good. And answer to question if he says he wants to wait, I would b like Wat seriously won't laugh at him or anything but i will need to knw how long he wants to wait. :-) it will b hard but depends how I feel about him.
19mterry 3 months ago
love it! can't wait for part 2 of 2, these men are delicious which one should i have first! Yum!
ladycher007 3 months ago
OH MY!! TAREN YOU ARE THE BEST!! I am going through a similar situation. Me and this guy have been on and off for the past year in a half and now all of a sudden he's complaining about us not having sex! At the beginning of the relationship I told him, I only wanted to be friends and that I has celibate. He was ok with that. Although I said I only wanted to be friends, I knew we were really more than that! Now, he expresses his feelings to me claiming to love me but he can't wait on me any long
CutieBritty 3 months ago
@CutieBritty OMG! I went through the same thing!!!! Except, he was willing to wait and I just dumped him, in fear of getting too close and making a HUGE mistake.
carisma2006 3 months ago
This world puts so much emphasis on sex...it's not until we all get wrinkly and can't even perform until we realize just how small of a influence it truly is. Besides...you can STILL get pregnant and get an STI o AIDS when wearing a condom. The safest road to protect yourself is to save yourself.
EcoTree72 3 months ago 9
Both of these guys are over 30yrs old. I totally agree with them about never dating a virgin. When you get to certain age, it's about finding a partner that suits your needs; in and out of the bedroom. I appreciate their honesty.
MissEddiecation 3 months ago
I like the new intro music.
taleeni 3 months ago
i love these videos and I appreciate your friends advice.
Syi90 3 months ago
lol when the guy with the hat on said is she felatting me
ebonyredbone 3 months ago
Hi Taren. I feel like this video needs some clarification at 8:30. The gentleman in the hat states "We are friends until..." Can he specify what he meant? It seems like he is saying he cannot even court a woman whom he is not actively having sex with.
DaniB0626 3 months ago
Well for me I would be honored if a guy said he wanted to wait. I think if a guy can sustain from having sex there will be no problems for him sustaining from other woman when he gets into a serious relationship
mzsusu89 3 months ago 16
@mzsusu89 i totally agree its rare that a man turns down sexual advances and honestly i think if he can say wait or no its shows hes strong and not easily tempted and in my opinion that's a sign of husband material
oshync 3 months ago 4
If a man wanted to wait, I wouldn't immediately right him off as gay because something has happened to where he's made that choice. I'm not a virgin, but I made a decision to be what God wanted me to be instead of doing what I thought was best for me. Along with that came the decision to not have sex and the MAN that God has for me will respect that, wait for me, and not have sex with other women in the meantime.
Tigress313 3 months ago 3
Just turned 18 today and i'm so proud to still be a virgin- not that it was hard or anything. I just wanna wait until marriage, i'm not in a rush to have sex or anything we're all different. I just believe waiting is best. Right now i just want to focus on school and travel the world.
anewmeePassion 3 months ago 7
i did video about i how i feel.... sorry i dont know how to link it
iceprincessnc 3 months ago
@iceprincessnc Pretend like your about to write a comment and on the right hand side you'll see a link where it says "Create Video Response" .. Then just choose your video
taren916 3 months ago
If a man wanted to wait, I would think something! :-) That's only because we have been conditioned to believe that men can't wait. So on that note, it would be important to pay close attention to him, who is friends are and what he say. Eventually you listen and watch long enough he will show you who he really is. If he turns out to be straight then you might just have a good one (meaning not a man whore) lol
NaturallyHapE 3 months ago
That was cool
ndinthecity 3 months ago
*disclaimer - I in no way advocate sleeping around by the way or sleeping with someone before you are ready. It is all about compatibility
TheDoublen82 3 months ago