Stop verbal abuse

[Ruzziconie]

STOP ABUSING CHILDREN,ANIMALS AND ADULTS MOST OF THE WOMAN AND MEN IN PRISON WERE ABUSED AS CHILD MAKE A STOP TO ABUSE PLZ THEY DONT DESERVE IT! >:(

[qthdchic]

I cried watching this, my daughter is currently going through this with her NOW ex beau, thank you for this video.

[Ruzziconie]

@qthdchic what happend to her what he do? (not to be nosey)

[fatalerror404TV]

From a victim

thank you

[rambaudjeanluc]

no no no and no . I love abuse

[Jaydensmama19]

I was the victim of an emotionally and physically abusive relationship for 7 years. the girl i called my best friend would verbally attack me, calling me stupid, whore, worthless, useless. turned me away from my family and my other friends. broke me and my boyfriends up. and when i dared to go against her, she would hit me, kick me, throw me to the ground and jump on my back while punching me in the head. i have countless scars from her...the majority none will ever see.

[lagri33]

I still gt verbally abused an an my brother gts treated better an gets war he wnts....depressing i gt called the eorst things ever an threatend.....:(

[getalife67]

I was verbally abused by my drunk father when i was younger, my mother should have left him long time ago to protect me but damage is done. Because of the abuse i took, mentally it affect me years down the road even today and consoling as well. And not fully well yet.

[DryBONESreborn]

Wait who's 'angry with his brother'. What if you are MAD at the abuser for abusing you? Just curious.

[jumpforshowable]

I would want to be more of acceptance and be able to forgive people that are human. How do I become more genuine with others?

[FollowinJesusForever]

I had enough of verbal abuse from my dad. I'm so sick and tired of all his verbal abuse. He thinks it don't effect us all but it does. He even made my mom give up the last of our food money because he is so greedy... I just don't know what to do. I need to just keep my head held high and lifted up toward Christ. I have found God last year and He has done so much but we still deal with the verbal abuse. It is tough to handle but I am getting through it with God's help.

[210482fmj]

one thing about verbal abuse is you generally find it tends to produce feelings form the ground and below. its difficult to explain and prove but i find all negativity comes ffrom the ground and negative thoughts always seem to manifest in the lower parts of you re body before going to the upper parts of the body. positive thoughts come from above and negative comes from below. bad energy comes from below good comes from above. my own theory

[lephyduex]

Don't we have enough to deal with in real life without fighting online? The whole "verbal is worse than physical" or vice versa is pointless. It's not a stranger on the street calling you "worthless" that cuts. Nor does a cigarette burn blister forever. Be it words or punches by those you love and trust, the scars, the pain left, is emotional. Because our mental tolerance and resilience levels vary as much as our physical ones, it's futile to compare life's battlewounds. Hugs to ALL.

[aLmAnZa20iLy]

to @theLadiesman5501 you wouldnt know! physical abuse leaves scars yeah but does stop hurting after a while, verbal abuse scars stay with you FOREVER and those dont heal. you can prove physical scars but not verbal. verbal abuse is much more worser than physical

[lilkuo]

words can create or destroy...i chose create...

[hamster700]

people who verbally abuse others should have there home towns bombed

[theladiesman5501]

@hamster700 I agree with you a 100 percent. As a victim of verbal and physical abuse by both my parents verbal abuse is worse than physical abuse it hurts longer.

[soadpwnsyou]

@theladiesman5501

Go get fucking physically abused and see if you think verbal abuse is worse. It isn't.

The scars heal, but the idea of your parents fucking punching you and hurting you stays with you longer than fucking yelling.

Stop acting like a victim when you are not a victim

Stop being a bitch and fucking just don't care what someone says, it is easy.

Hope you get fucking physical and sexually abused to understand real abuse.

Fucking retard..

[sweetxxdelilah]

@soadpwnsyou UGH THANK YOU! Finally someone with common sense. I mean seriously, do they not understand that physical abuse is painful as well as emotionally terrible? I mean, if someone is yelling at you, you can walk out till you can't hear them. If someone is beating the fuck out of you, you can try and run but they are probably stil going to beat the fuck out of you.

[SadiSays]

@sweetxxdelilah

Oh, you can always just walk out??? Wow, that sounds so easy...How about if the person verbally assaulting you follows you, breaks doors down to get to you, threatens to hurt your pets, destroys your belongings and threatens to lock you out of your own home if you decide to leave to escape the verbal attack? I live with this. Leaving is unfortunately not an option for me at this time but I will leave next year because our son deserves better than his lunatic father.

[SadiSays]

@sweetxxdelilah

Oh, and the physical abuse is there too.

[BlissInTheAbyss]

@soadpwnsyou thankyou some one finally gets it, everyone wants to pretend to be a victom when ther'yre not. I'd like to see one of these woman who complain about verbal insults say that to a woman who was a voctom of real abuse

[gingerisevil02]

I think verbal abuse is worse than physical. Wounds heal, but what is carved inside you is there forever. Plus wounds are proof. No one can prove verbal abuse. My mom

Just told me off for five minutes when I said only one thing and said oh sorry nothing I do is good enough

[gogonesbit]

Its the hardest form of abuse for people to recognise as you have no external marks or scars.Just long lasting insurcurities and a habitual relationship history

[menaburt07]

I know what words can do to a person. Dimean them and make them feel worthless. God didn't intend for a person to be made to feel this way, and just because a person is married to another doesn't give them the right to ever speak damaging words to the other. Keep a marriage together if you need help get it and keep your family together, it's hard sometimes, but the rewards are many. People give up on one another so easily. If you love someone you stand by them even though they have isssues

[hustl3hard2live]

I Know God but i feel like he does not listen to me because i feel guilty of not always following him

[aking21926]

@hustl3hard2live Isaiah 54:10

Though the mountains be shaken and the hills be removed, yet my unfailing love for you will not be shaken nor my covenant of peace be removed," says the LORD, who has compassion on you. He always hears you! We are human and He more than anyone knows that we are not perfect and we are incapable of always doing the right thing. Guilt is from the devil....Quite possibly the Holy Spirit is trying to get you to come back!! He loves us ALWAYS!!

[luomas2]

@aking21926 Thxs this made my day. :)

[ToiletCrusher]

@aking21926

Blind leading the blind

[MaharlikaAWA]

Dude then repent and believe in Christ and you will have the forgiveness of your sins. YOu cant follow God only God can give you grace. You are a sinner and need His love man. Study the Bible and you can learn about this. Hope you get back to feeling better. God does listen.

[afrikanbadboy]

@hustl3hard2live your wrong god is the most merciful god is oft forgiving

it is humans who are ungrateful to god GOD WILL HELP YOU ONCE YOU HELP YOUR SELF. if you say god make me rich you wont get your prayer accepted . you must work hard and strive , nothing comes free. god is all seeing all knowing all wise. GOD SAID ONLY YOU HAVE POWER OVER YOURSELF . that means your bullier has no power on you! god is not a human THERE IS NONE LIKE ONTO GOD. HE HAS FULL KNOWLEDGE OF YOU more than yourself!

[hustl3hard2live]

I woke up this morning and my cousin told me i was ugly... My "So called" homeboy had sex with my girl just to prove a point. My whole family abuses me. My mom wont even let me get into college because she needs someone to babysit my younger siblings. I sit in the house all day with no phone, Vehicle, Friends, or even a family member to talk to. Nobody listens to what i say. thats why i found my way to this video. i need a haircut. Im 18 years old and im too young to be this damn stressed out...

[aking21926]

@hustl3hard2live I am so sorry. You are right, you are to young. If you ever need anyone to talk to I am here. I haven't kept up with this much but I am going to try to do better. So many are hurting and it breaks my heart.

[hustl3hard2live]

@aking21926 thanks a lot aking21926 its a shame that i dont have not one relative who is willing to give me such words of encouragement. but if i need to talk to you I will send you a message =)

[aking21926]

@hustl3hard2live I understand teh lack of family support. I am about to turn 30 and have just learned to live without it. The one thing that has kept me together is The Lord. Do you know him? He can give you more peace than any earthly parent ever could.

[TheLanceSurethrust]

what a bunch of crybabies! women just can't handle being told that they are wrong, so they termed it as verbal abuse. if women were a little more focused and tried harder in life, they would not get called out on their failures(this happens to everyone else and it's not considered abuse.) and feel the need to make emo videos. emo videos about girl stuff is the worst!

[aking21926]

@TheLanceSurethrust You have no idea what people go through. This happens to men as well. Some of us women do try very hard in life and that has nothing to do with this. People have a right to be talked to with dignity and respect and so many young kids, women, men as well are demeaned everyday. Please do not comment if you are going to be negative and display behavior that is the reason this was posted in the first place.

[detsomengang]

@TheLanceSurethrust just because there was no one around for you when you were getting the worst verbal abuse, it doesn't mean you have to be so resentful, esp. towards women!!!! Maybe it was women or a woman who hurt you the most. I have had it from all directions, and yes I am resentful, but I'd NEVER take it out on innocent people who are seeking help! Maybe you ought to get some deep, extensive therapy. That at least helps a little.

[nyxong24]

@TheLanceSurethrust Only would this come from a man.. You have a wife? daughter? if not then you need to learn about women, and stop being a typical male thinking your all high and mighty and strong, it's men like you that make women like us feel lower than you. I would hope if you are married that you treat your wife with care. I will keep you in my prayers.

[bssmart1118]

@TheLanceSurethrust This comment oozzes red flag! Abuse towards a person is made of horrors,evilness,. Verbal abuse is the beginning. It degrades the rights of another to achieve happiness. Verbal Abuse, is the first step to control the other person, this is brainwashing to bring the person down, then emotional abuses comes in, this zombiefies the person and slowly steps up to the physical abuse, to the finalization of achieveing ones power over the victim. How can you say they are crybabies!

[avengedlovababa]

@TheLanceSurethrust oh yeah well do u like to b called worthless,stupid, joke,lame,useless,ugly

[mariazanis]

It's hard to watch this because I remember

[SelenaFan613]

dont ask me how i am, if you don't want me to lie *one lonley tear*

[cuddlebuttons]

and words will always hurt me...

[AndrewFilmsInc]

but verbal abuse is just so fucking fun!!! lawl its fun to take control of a person because it shows how weak they really are

[blueyes6474]

yeah, little kids are weak, it takes a weaker person still to enjoy mentally tormenting them and causing them pain on perpose

[LeVintagegurl]

@AndrewFilmsInc MAYBE THEY DO THAT TO YOU AND YOU JUST DON'T KNOW HOW TO FEEL BETTER THAT'S WHY YOU POST DUMB COMMENTS LIKE THIS ONE THINKING YOU CAN FEEL STRONG BUT YOU'RE JUST SHOWING HOW WEAK YOU ARE YOURSELF- DUMBASS!!!!!

[AndrewFilmsInc]

@LeVintagegurl You've completely invented a story now. You said: MAYBE they do that to me. But they don't, you fail

[elizzard45]

0:30 I try to tell my sisters that but they dont believe me, so then I just end up pyhsicaly abusing them... ;)

[hayhay404]

I'm 12 and I want help please my stepdad is verbally abusive and threatens 2 kill my family and calls my family all stupid bitches and I want 2 run away and die but all my relatives live in a different state and I don't know what to do please help me

[bearlooter]

face it and call the cops on his ass get legal help from older adults take it out of his hands and showhim you have a team of people that wont stand for it

[shugerapple]

ummm hi. im im 11 years of age n my mother ells at me

wat can i do?

[SON0KONG]

i feel so sorry for every dude that has to refer to this vid to get help but god damn if ya girl slaps poke her in the face ahhh i love bein a teen man

[LeVintagegurl]

@SON0KONG FIRST LEARN TO SPELL, WHAT ARE YOU, thirTEEN??????

[XStayCloseToMeX]

what song is this?

[Christyna1969]

Not trying to be rude but you are using my COPYWRITTEN work in your video. You need to email me to resolve this. I like what you are doing but you should not use other peoples work without their express permission.

Thanks so much!

[Fira777]

@Christyna1969 Did the issue(s) get resolved (solved) [taken care of] yet?

My name is Jason great username as well ;) ; )

[mUsicXemoXcraZ]

the pic at 1:11 is my ultimate fave. it describes me in 50 billion differnt ways

[magnoliagoddess108]

Please don buy bamboo flutes from Das on youtube he verbally and emtionally abused me for two years

[eljay345]

My Dad sent my other sister to University years ago because my other sister was verbally abusing her so much rather than doing something about the verbal abuse he basically gave into my sister by getting my other sister out of the way. Dad has passed away now and my other sister is more verbally abusive and manipulative than ever. She treats my mother like she is senile but Mum treats her with more respect than does me sometimes.

[eljay345]

My adult verbally abusive sister is too scared to leave home and make a life of her own (she cannot cook or drive) and has basically used my disability as excuse (crutch)to stay living at home. My parents have allowed her to be this way because they are scared of what will happen to me in years to come.

[icknotosh]

" mum mother called me satan!, who refers to someone like that"

although this vidoe is really good it brought a grown man to tears!?

Thank you :)

[chrisdiaz1971]

Whoever put "and men" has been drinking the kool-aid. Women are wayyyyyy more guilty of verbal abuse in intmate relationships. Granted, men are more likely to say what's on their mind in front of people, but wait till no one's looking. Not to mention the verbal abuse women dish out upon their men to their girlfriends. Get a grip.

[aking21926]

I don't think that verbal abuse is gender specific by any means. The only reason I referred to women first is because I am one.

[spectre1234]

I agree. Women are far more verbally abusive and manipulative than men.

[TashaRichardsonFan]

My mom said to me once*You are worst than a dog, even a dog won't bite their owner* :( Fuck her.

[hi2437878]

" i treat you like this because you make me . " number one thing my mom always says to me....

[inuyashaluver234]

my father always yells at me and vcalls me a stupid bitch and i wish your were nevr born i want to run away soo bad but what if i came back im afraid of what he ll do to me. i used to cut that helped a little but he found out and he didnt even care !!

[aking21926]

I appreciate all your comments about the video. I am glad that it can be a source of consoling for some of you because it sure was for me when I made it and even now. I want any of you that are walking through this right now to know that God is with you. There is healing in the blood of Jesus! Stay strong you will make it and if there is anything I can do to help let me know...You are NOT alone!

[NarinCelable]

we are all born as good, but it is our choice down the road that directs us towards right or wrong..

This video is SO beautiful... ahhh

[parlin17]

Thanks for this... Words really do hurt and the angery words will always esculate as the woman becomes used to it, she will take more, he will give more.. It's a sick cycle.

I am in this and left my husband, staying with son with parents... I relized that abuse can feel familare if u grew up with it.. We think it's what love is. Love is not angry and controlling.

[nadiel42]

im scared about what you just said. that when she takes more he gives more, because that is whats happening. But i hope its not, that im just being paraniod, cuz my dad used to do this to me, and im hoping to God that, this isnt happening again. :(

[maraskywalker]

I'm trying to stay out of a 10 month relationship which was full of verbal/emotional abuse. I've had to change phone numbers/delete email accounts. and he yet he still manages to find me. His last text to me called me an a****** and more and yet I have to literally force myself to stop picking up the phone & calling him. I worry he's gonna hurt himself even though I know it's just manipulation to keep me staying with him. I never thought I'd be trying to stay out of a relationship like this

[yvonnenypr]

hi! I undestand your pain...I have been in a realationship for 4 years...he has been extremely abusive...every word is like a stab...he tell me he can't be with out me treats me really nice for a few days and finds any little thing to scream and call me names...I feel like a yoyo...I just changed my numbers and I am planning to move...enough is enough...I have never been in a realationship like this...I am a great woman and deserve better...you do too...be strong...

[maraskywalker]

I've already started talking with him again. It's stupid I know but he misses me so much and I miss him. But this is going to follow the same pattern its been following for almost a year. Why can't I leave him? I don't understand it. I have such a pull towards him I can't explain.

[yvonnenypr]

i totally understand...i have left like a yoyo for the past four years...until he raped me ang got me pregtant...the baby passed away...i blame him...for it and things got worse...he wanted to get me pregnant so i would stay with him...it will only get worse mara...stay away...i live in ny have a great job...i can't bealive this would happen to me being such a strong female...but it happen...i always felt women who stayed where stupid...and now it is me...i have two degrees...I feel like a fool

[yvonnenypr]

he was prince charming...it started one day when out of the blue he hanged up the phone and told me he didn't want to talk any more, manipulating me, jeolousy, bad words, blaming me for everything, when i decide to leave he...he said ok lets go out celebrate your B_Day and we say good bye...I never drink...that night I drank and the next day I was naked...i didn't want to answer his calls...but my period didn't come...when i called him he told me are you pregnant? i couldn't believe it..

[yvonnenypr]

he had everything planned...I wanted the baby...but I didn't want to be with him...but after to months of stress I lost it...my baby...it has been a year...and i just can't forgive him...i am moving and starting fresh some place else...i feel he has poisoned my soul...but i can't let him win...he even hit me once when we tried talking about the baby...he was a prince for almost to years...he hit it very well...the signs were their but I was stupid...walk away...their are good man some where..

[vampiredragongoddess]

verbal hs to be almost worse than physical abuse i would say. it hurts for longer, physical wounds heal, but emotional...sometimes they never do

[screamoc1]

@vampiredragongoddess thankyou they do hurt longer they wont go away

[acepickles]

i no this is off topic but i have a scar on my left wrist from bullies hu rubbed my skin off on a tree at skl and the teacher didnt do anything

i feel your pain :)

[sasuke343]

i hate my mom sometimes when shes screaming i just want to stab her

[yvonnenypr]

hi! when i was little my mom was a screamer...i wanted to run away...i did better than that...i left with a relative...went to school...got a part time job and today I could take care of my self...look for help...hurting your mother is not the answer...life is too beautiful...prison is not the answer...your mom probably needs help too...therapy...god bless you...

[blueyes6474]

my dad is a very controlling man, a terrible, harsh, cruel, mean , controlling man. im someone who cant be controlled, so i''ll take in every thing he screams at me and every name he calls me. when he's two inches from my face screaming at me and spitting on me i will scream right back. i wont be controlled, and i wont take it. it hurts way to not try and do anything. im constantly afaid of another fight, im crying every night, tried suicide,cutting, if he doesnt leave me alone ima run away.

[fatboy4000]

that sounds like me and my dad u just got to ignore him and when ur 18 u can move out a never see him again and cutting urself doesnt solve any problems neither does suicide

[yvonnenypr]

suicide is not the answer, cutting your self is not the answer...can you go to someone and ask for help?? maybe school...church...hospital...a relative...life if beautiful...i had a ver hard life growing up...school and work was my way out...i am older know and dating a jerk...my parents were also jerks...their is always a positive way out...god bless you

[nikki51572]

damn this sheds alot of light on relationships as well, men are the worst at this...women do it to, but guys are worse...damn just leave then!

[TinaHuett]

o_O I get verbal abuse!

not joking!

[Myra312]

I just want all to know that I would rather have the hell beat outta me than have to walk on egg shells for fear Im about to be hollered at and called all sorts of names. You cant be sweet enough or do enough for that verbal abuser. I am one whipped woman. My white flag is out and am ready to give up on everything. Im so tired and stressed that it makes me not care anymore. I look at myself in the mirror and I see a coward! Dont let this happen to you.

[emshlem]

i know what you mean and also if you were beaten you would have proof they were hurting you but with verbal abuse all you have is your word wich nobady will believe they always believe the other person

[monawachsler]

Such a tragic epidemic that takes place every day in families all over the world.

It is easy to get trapped in the craziness of a verbally abusive person. This song/video does a very good job of putting it into perspective.

[michelleppt1]

The song is Slow Fade by Casting Crowns. Great video

[kelseykilljoy]

whats this song called?