@TheK1N1 Jesus was asked to give an opinion on the Deuteronomy law. Jesus then explained why Moses wrote the Deuteronomy law. I quoted from Exodus and Paul also showed similar logic in one of the letters to the Corinthians. "Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets" - Jesus
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You should give 100%, BUT if the spouse is not meeting your basic needs, then you need to have a come to Jesus talk with them. The rabbis seem to agree based on Exodus 21:10 that a spouse can divorce if denied food, clothing, or sex/affection. This choice should not be taken lightly and one should not surprise a spouse. Give him or her a chance to repent (explicitly TELL them). If they don't, then you may divorce with a clear conscience.
Ouch. It's really disappointing to see that these videos of his get so much right about men and women's relationships and then gets things just as wrong in other areas. Authority doesn't work in pairs. That's just a simple concept. Give it some open-minded thought and study if you disagree. God created men to lead and women to follow. This does not put women below men, it gives them a different role.
Good luck to everyone who is thinking about these issues, may you find wisdom.
@bigbrady2244 Yea guys should stand up n lead their household. ..... what does that have to do wit both party's not givin 100% in their relationship. No, he's not right about everythin (who IS?) but he was pretty spot on bout this n alotta other things that r'nt particularly related to a man n womans relationship so what was the ouch for??
Some people don't deserve to get married at all, because they didn't found out their inner self, how can they know who is their partner? How a person like that can have a healthy relationship? Many of them never will find themself even if they try, it's just really sad... Many people get married just to get married. They are young but still afraid to get old, afraid to not have kids, afraid of everything that exists and doesn't exist, idiotic complexed people. You can call it a serious sickness.
survived through a 100/100 percent Marriage I gave 100 percent and he took 100 percent!!! So I think next time might stop at the 50% mark. Cause 100% give and no gives back, is tiring!
@worldjustsucks It is tiring, but what does God expect from us (that is if you believe in the God of the Bible) because He didn't stop at 50 but gave us 100% on the cross. The challenge is, even Christians do not give back God 100% perfectly, nevertheless He expects our all.
@worldjustsucks yeah, I wasmarried to a man like that too. It will NOTchange my appproach to my next relationship...I will just be more discerning about who I select... i.e. not a narcicist!!
Yes maria39208, I am :). It's tough living Biblical principles, I am not going to lie and say that it is easy. But it is worth it.
P.S.: I am presently up @ 0100am cooking for my wife to have lunch for work. She may like it, she may throw it away, she may put it in the fridge, who knows...at the end of the day, I have to obey God because no matter how my wife responds, I am accountable for my own actions towards her.
Then you talk about it. Often people don't get what they need in marriage because they don't say what they need.
One technique has you sit down with a piece of paper and list your needs on one side, your spouse lists his/hers on the other. Then you rank them from 1-5 in order of importance. Then you talk about how you can each help meet the other person's most important needs, and what can be done about the others.
After taking on 100% of everything I found that I was free and did not need my wife in the way that I thought I needed her. I did not need her at all and then I was at choice to be with her and no one to blame for anything even myself although I had to remind myself of that often since I was in the self blame mode. She died some years later but sent me flowers via my psychic sister after that. She said she loved me. I had done something right when all was said and done.
@ourearthhome She didn't send you flowers via your psychic sister. Your psychic sister told you that she sent you flowers because it would make you feel better.
@TheK1N1 Jesus was asked to give an opinion on the Deuteronomy law. Jesus then explained why Moses wrote the Deuteronomy law. I quoted from Exodus and Paul also showed similar logic in one of the letters to the Corinthians. "Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets" - Jesus
obits3 1 month ago
@TheK1N1 Correct sir
bigbrady2244 1 month ago
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He got me hooked by the first line he said - VERY much true!
619Terbz 5 months ago
You should give 100%, BUT if the spouse is not meeting your basic needs, then you need to have a come to Jesus talk with them. The rabbis seem to agree based on Exodus 21:10 that a spouse can divorce if denied food, clothing, or sex/affection. This choice should not be taken lightly and one should not surprise a spouse. Give him or her a chance to repent (explicitly TELL them). If they don't, then you may divorce with a clear conscience.
obits3 6 months ago
Humans use each other !!! FACT.
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TheMessanjah 7 months ago
Ouch. It's really disappointing to see that these videos of his get so much right about men and women's relationships and then gets things just as wrong in other areas. Authority doesn't work in pairs. That's just a simple concept. Give it some open-minded thought and study if you disagree. God created men to lead and women to follow. This does not put women below men, it gives them a different role.
Good luck to everyone who is thinking about these issues, may you find wisdom.
bigbrady2244 10 months ago
@bigbrady2244 Yea guys should stand up n lead their household. ..... what does that have to do wit both party's not givin 100% in their relationship. No, he's not right about everythin (who IS?) but he was pretty spot on bout this n alotta other things that r'nt particularly related to a man n womans relationship so what was the ouch for??
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annajuikjuikol 1 year ago
Some people don't deserve to get married at all, because they didn't found out their inner self, how can they know who is their partner? How a person like that can have a healthy relationship? Many of them never will find themself even if they try, it's just really sad... Many people get married just to get married. They are young but still afraid to get old, afraid to not have kids, afraid of everything that exists and doesn't exist, idiotic complexed people. You can call it a serious sickness.
DjGodaryD86 1 year ago
What is the new percentage total if you take 100% from one and 100% from another?
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Yes... 100%
So it can never be more than that.
Malik74DK 1 year ago
survived through a 100/100 percent Marriage I gave 100 percent and he took 100 percent!!! So I think next time might stop at the 50% mark. Cause 100% give and no gives back, is tiring!
worldjustsucks 1 year ago
@worldjustsucks It is tiring, but what does God expect from us (that is if you believe in the God of the Bible) because He didn't stop at 50 but gave us 100% on the cross. The challenge is, even Christians do not give back God 100% perfectly, nevertheless He expects our all.
Qrazii 1 year ago
Jesus also gave the example of taking care of oneself. Even He took time to go be alone, or enjoy time with His friends.
Morna777 1 year ago 3
@worldjustsucks yeah, I wasmarried to a man like that too. It will NOTchange my appproach to my next relationship...I will just be more discerning about who I select... i.e. not a narcicist!!
liliokilani 1 year ago
Yes maria39208, I am :). It's tough living Biblical principles, I am not going to lie and say that it is easy. But it is worth it.
P.S.: I am presently up @ 0100am cooking for my wife to have lunch for work. She may like it, she may throw it away, she may put it in the fridge, who knows...at the end of the day, I have to obey God because no matter how my wife responds, I am accountable for my own actions towards her.
Qrazii 2 years ago
@Qrazii Indeed!!!
worldjustsucks 1 year ago
What if you feel you are giving MORE than your spouse is?
maria39208 2 years ago
Then you are exercising true love. Eventually, it pays off.
Qrazii 2 years ago
@Qrazii Are you talking from experience? Just curious.. God bless.
maria39208 2 years ago
Then you talk about it. Often people don't get what they need in marriage because they don't say what they need.
One technique has you sit down with a piece of paper and list your needs on one side, your spouse lists his/hers on the other. Then you rank them from 1-5 in order of importance. Then you talk about how you can each help meet the other person's most important needs, and what can be done about the others.
Morna777 1 year ago
this guy is kul....
Sams451 2 years ago 24
After taking on 100% of everything I found that I was free and did not need my wife in the way that I thought I needed her. I did not need her at all and then I was at choice to be with her and no one to blame for anything even myself although I had to remind myself of that often since I was in the self blame mode. She died some years later but sent me flowers via my psychic sister after that. She said she loved me. I had done something right when all was said and done.
ourearthhome 2 years ago
@ourearthhome She didn't send you flowers via your psychic sister. Your psychic sister told you that she sent you flowers because it would make you feel better.
Bwh2q 1 year ago
@Sams451 Why can't you write "cool"? It's 4 letters, just one more to type, and our eyes won't hurt when we read your sentence. (?)
meloearth 1 year ago 33
@meloearth "kul" means "cool" in Norwegian if that counts? xD But this person is from Great Britain though.. hmm.. hehe
jtiger87 9 months ago
@meloearth because he's adopted
TheManGuyDude 8 months ago