Blake Bliss - 'Fake F(r)iends' | Beyond Obscurity

[thedeathtakerify]

if you love someone would you really let them go that easily

[TENSLEYbearXx]

a couple "friends" of mine hav been back stabbing me a lot lately and I got sick of it but I never left them then today they came up to me and complained that I changed and that they didn't want to be my friend anymore cuz I was getting closer with other people not them. so I said fine and I actually walked away relieved I realized they were stressing me out thanks Blake for putting up this video u r very helpful :)

[stellarkartnoonefan]

I believe people need each other, but you are very correct when you say that people come and go and wont always be there with you. Personally, that's where God comes in in my life. He's the only one that can always be there for me and always be what I need him to be. I cling to God because I can't always cling to people. Even really good people will let you down because they're not perfect and can't be everything you need. God can and will if you let him. You have a wonderful heart, Blake. :)

[BringTheMaeHam]

I have a friend who cannot handle when people disconnect from her. I'm going to show her this video it'll show her that people come and go shit happens

[eMoknifes]

I LOVE YOU i will never walk away from you we could be best friends :) and i wont leave you

[UtubePrinsess]

Just a quick question (I'll post it in the moderator module when you reset it as well), but what if it's not your friends that are being detrimental towards you? What if it's your family... and you can't just let go? Do you still release the attachment while living in the same house? Because I'm on the verge of deep depression, and I don't know if I can take this...

If you could just take a few minutes to reply

[DwightCreel]

he should make Beyond Obscurity a podcast

[XIWantCookiesxD]

Hi Blake,

I'm a girl and I've been pushed around and bullied for my look, my attutide, and my accent. I look differnt than them because i wear all black, my hair is parshly blue and black, My attutide is sorta depressing but i'm sad most the time. My accent is a mix of country and german. I feel like no one cares about me anymore, But someone oeme to your videos and i feel like someone cares about me now. So thank you blake. ♥♥♥

[cylieeeh]

you're amazing (:

[BranWHites]

Hint for people having problems hearing him talk, switch the volume balance to the right a bit. Hope it it helps.

[KelseyKutie]

Im glad youtube brought me to your videos!! -3

[SmileySara211]

Welp. Inspiration given. :3

G'job Blake :) *BigHug*

[fallingup9002]

omg you just help me so much i finely over my ex thank you so much

[BeaS1996]

you're brilliant, absolutly gorgeous <3

[XxMonsterxBunnyxX]

I need help. My school and all my piers have very hard hearts, they all seem to hate everyone. i for one am not perfect, there are many people in my school that get on my last nerve and I almost break, but then i remember what you said about they aren't worth it, getting upset over someone who means so little to me. What i am trying to say is that, even though i know it won't happen, is that you should consider coming to our school and talking to us. You could help so much, you don't even know.

[AtomicPancake216]

How do you deal with feeling like you're out of place or not supposed to be with somebody?

[laurenskaterchick16]

Idk so this totally made me cry :') I needed to here this you are like an awesome person :) please don't stop making videos

[MrMyNameIsHanna]

this made me cry.

[JefferyTheLadybug]

It's that exact attachment that keeps them from being your enemy,

when they deserve to be.

[HamEtCheese]

Omg made me cry :'( Your soo cute <3

[Lordmixxalot2]

sorry about your friend

[cynthiaCYANIDEx]

this is amazing. <3

[CupcakeAshleyy]

Ah, Blake :) Thank you so much for this video!! It's really helped dealing with me also losing my best friend, Storm; this September. It's been really hard and then dealing with losing a lot of my so called "Friends," But this helped me learn that sometimes you just have to let go and I wish I would've learned that along time ago.

Anyways; my question is: "What is your thoughts on love? Like love at first sight, being "in" love, etc. Ya know, just love. What do you believe about it?"

[justrandomtacos]

thank you very very much.

[LIONXiiaXD]

I love you!! and the way you think and inspire so many. You are amazing. and I have a question. What if I'm the one who's distorted?? I have a friend whom is really attached to me and like you said, she's almost digging her claws into me and it's getting kinda annoying :/ and I've been uncomfortable with her for almost a year now but I can't seem to find a way to tell her nicely.I don't even dare. I really don't want to be mean her and I don't know what to do.

[knivesxandpenzx]

You have the best advice ever <3

[MeganoProductions]

You're very dramatic. But inspiring.<3

[AutumnnnnnnSheaaaaaa]

You Inspire Me <3

[SkylerBFMV]

i just saw this and youre pretty awesome. you kind of remind me of me by your way of thinking :)

[bloodykitty303]

i love your perspective on life..ppl need to be more like you.not fake and enjoying the little things in life ....thx blake <3

[JadenCStrait]

Thank you Blake for having my video response up there

just wanted to tell you are an amazing speaker. The way you emphasize your metaphors and emotions, its great.

[thefreakoz17]

this video just helped me in so many ways. Thank You (:

[AlssyaHalliwell]

Haha, the person whining about hair touching makes me giggle. I know how difficult it is to not mess with hair. I'm always afraid my hair is about to fall, and pat it.

On the note of your video itself:

I love the video, every bit of this is true. Some people may not understand you need to let it go. I've done it a zillion times, because good friends are difficult to find. I let go of my friend since childhood not to long ago. I have a best friend now, who just moved here from another state.

[thatcarlykid]

i haven't watched your videos in a while because i've been so busy with school. it's only watching this right now that i realise how much i have missed you and how much i have needed you and your voice these past few weeks. i love you, blake. <3

[XMorganMurdererX]

you sir..need to travel the world and teach people all of this.

the world would be so much better c:

[Th3demOnkiD]

I love all your videos. You personality is like mine so every time i watch one of your videos i have this sense of connection and it makes me wanna keep watching and share, sorry if that sounds creepy but i really do enjoy your videos it makes me open my mind to the possibilities. Because of you i no longer walk alone.

[DinoMandyMonster]

he looks like andy sixx just not the voice

[Carpetfaceful]

I actually get what youre saying... well this has given me something to think about

[MelissaLynn0]

I've realized that I've been doing this with my best friend. (the whole needing thing) Now I feel a bit selfish. :/

[ThisCarterKidd]

.... amazing ...

[peanutbutterashley]

Can you make a video on how to cope with a friend leaving you for another friend. I know you said let them go and move on let them back in your life if they choose to. But idk if I want to cause its possible she will do it again. I miss her a lot and idk what to do cause she now she treats me like a stranger at school. We were friends for 7 years. Please help. I love your videos and they have made me realize so much in my life.

-Ashley

[xXRoBeRtXHaYdNXx]

At the end you said "click the annotation to watch part 2". I would, but annotations don't work on iOS devices (iPod, iPad, etc.). Can you put the link in the description please? Anyways love your videos and keep up the good work. Thanks! :)

[EmoIsLove03]

Love you blake. Your words are amazing, I totally agree with you (:

[screamometalchick]

Dear Blake,

You have helped me out so much i enjoy watching your videos they make me feel so many different emotions. I love you. I have learned so much from you and i think you have learned from all your fans too. Destery and Nathan showed me you and i have listened to you for a long time. I look forward to all your new videos. Have a wonderful christmas and continue to make more wonderful videos, you are a very inspiring person. *Hugs*

[Electricness]

I liked it when you said "NO NO NO NO!" It made me giggle.

[sukrikiyoku]

your such a beautiful person :) much love to you <3

[jonathonsgirl91]

you should come to my school and talk to us

[CapnMicah]

P.S.

you're helping me more than my therapist.. thank you Blake <3

[CapnMicah]

I love you <3 You really make me think..

I am so thankful I found you on youtube :)

[KaylaEatsYourFace]

You are really one of the most inspiring people I have ever seen in my life. You're way of thinking is just brilliant and I agree with every word. You are just so inspiring <3<3

[lalala2372]

this. was. absolutely. brilliant. it gave me a lot to think about and I'm definitely applying this to my life. :) Thank you for being amazing :)

[nannerzXvampireXteen]

I just love you!

<3 savannah panda

[LovLife4Ever]

you have the best way of thinking, just.. dont touch ur hair every ten seconds, people wanna focus on what you have to say :) not notice what youre fixing when u look fine hun!

[blakebliss]

@LovLife4Ever It is what it is :) *hug

[peace345ToTheWorld]

@LovLife4Ever you don't need to see him, you just need to hear

[ChantalL955]

this is so hard to listen to when you talk about your friend that committed suicide. my best friend has tried multiple times to kill herself and i try so damn hard to show her how much i care, and how lost i would be without her, and she has had to take medication to help her stay positive but i don't think its working, and i just wish there was a way to help her stop. do you have any advice?

[PorcelainxMurderdoll]

This really made me think about things that I struggle with and that I should probably change. So this was kind of a inspiration to me.(:

[babygurlrockz]

Thank you, for helping me with a situation I'm going through. This really made me think, and realize, i only have two good friends in my life. Thank you. <3

[sarahl7432]

Dear Blake, i am working on some thing to send you, and i'm sorry i haven't been around quite as often, i blame school >.<

but i still loves you, and thank you soosooo much for everything you do, <3

[coloredbracelets]

I Love Your Voice <3 Are You Gaay or Bie Or Straight (Jst Asking) ?

[fatburger100]

Are those real tattoos? I wanna see them! Haha

[xxhollyxxrussoxx]

This video was sobering.

Kinda made me put things in a different perspective.

Just know u changed something in me.

idk what, but u did. lol :)

[wesniffpolarbears]

you are going to be the worlds greatest public speaker! :)

[SasukeMVz]

Blake should start a talk show

[nolongerwalkingalone]

It seems as though any of your videos about Friends are my favorite <3 though "F(r)iends" is still my favorite from Of Two Minds.

By the way, have you gotten the letter from the Team?

[nolongerwalkingalone]

@roxellov Even though you may not want to fight with him, he's your friend and you should be there for him. He needs you now more than ever.

~Team Blake Bliss

[XxChaosLuvSkittlesxX]

in my past i have had a lot of people that i would call my friends just leave for no reason at all just like leave and it was hoorible especially for me because i tend to be very quiet which i know isnt a good but i am i try to change it but thats just who i am, anyways because all of those people left my life it had me grow so now i really dont try to hold to people because i cant, for instance resently i made a best friend but she moved so now we no longer talk and it sucks but i deal with it.

[XxChaosLuvSkittlesxX]

@XxChaosLuvSkittlesxX i dont really think of her that much anymore, another thing that kind of depresses me is well i was dating this eigth grader(i was in 7th at the time) and when summer was over we never spoke again and we still dont, i remember during summer i would cry every night thinking about him because he was my first boyfriend that i loved but now he's in high school and probably dating someone better but i still find myself thinking about him all the time and i dont know how to stop.

[KarlHeinzGov]

kool

[RISEoftheFALLE]

Thank you so much for this Blake! <3 I have many, many, many memories of people doing this. Firends I loved and left. You're amazing!

[singmonstera6izbeast]

As i was watching this, one of my closest friends texted me and said she wanted to commit suicide. Thank you soooo much for this video, without it, id be crying my heart out right now not knowing what to do.

[xXfallenangel508lXx]

You are truly a beautiful individual. You're beliefs are true and pure. If only you could come to my school and spread the wisdom. Much Love :D

[kellycupcakekiller]

You are truly an inspiration. I love you Blake.

[thischicksbad1]

hey Blake... i made a video response but it wont let me upload it my camera isn't working right sadly, but i wanted to tell you i ripped up one of my writings. i write a lot its just one of the many ways i cope with crap that goes on in my life. i just wanted to tell you since i cant show you. & thank you for making so many great videos. your amazing

[hopiebear1]

You make me happy inside <3 you don't know me but you're great :D

[HaiMeghanMonster]

Blake, you inspire me more everyday. this video really helped me with letting go. i love you <3 :)

[AlexisMonster132]

You actually helped me a lot by this.... I want to thank you very much<3 You should ever NEED people in your life because if you do then when they leave you'll be lost.. So you should let them come and go. Desire them not need them there.. You're so right. ^-^

[ComicStrip101]

I couldn't hear anything...

[TheBluerose988]

are you by chance canadian?



[0originalthinking0]

@TheBluerose988 He lives in Hamilton, Ontario. (:

[prettypunkrockish]

Im Glad This Was The First Video I Saw From Him ((: <3

[lee15ification]

This is the first video by you I've ever watched. Youtube NEEDS people like you Blake <3

[happynowyouprick]

what the fuck

you live on my street

[mrnomnomnomdelicioso]

what advice would yu could give on relationships..?

healthy and unhealthy happy and unhappy..

just relationships themselves.

[xgirxinxwonderlandx]

Blake, I know what you mean, that some people do not know how to hang on and support others, they cannot handle other peoples problems being vented to them. But others can handle supporting others. I love my friends but my mother seems to always think that I have my whole heart in my friends, but I don't. I only have my whole in my two best friends and I do feel if I lost them I would be losing a part of me because they understand me and support me so well. We can talk about anything. I love you

[Nightmaregirl242]

Why is a 10 hour version of the Pedobear song in the suggestions.....

[EneidaMariex3]

This <3

[ljoneill97]

u r beautiful <3

[xxvampboy94xx]

this could be involved with relationships as in boy friend and girlfriend to right? im sorta having a problem that ive been too clingy to her and it upsets her is that me being to attached to her

[Hrko1992]

youre head is soooooo huuugeee compared to your body

[judithbenmo]

Wow......it's the firs video I see about you, you know?

I've never seen you.

And you know what? You inspire me.

But in my way...you made me see things another way, u know?

Friends are like...black roads.

Yep, black roads. You can paint white in them.....where you like, u know?

And then you can clean those paintings...mabye you get angry with does roads, but there will ever be white tiny spots on them. Because of you...

[judithbenmo]

sorry, i'm spanish....so sorry if i didn't write it very good...xd

[MegaBrightShadow]

Thanks man, so inspiring! I subscribe.

[TimmyHawk3000]

Well if you and I became friends and you subscribed to me maybe you can know me, because I'mwatching your videos and they are amazing along with your attitude to have peoples backs that you have nno idea who they are. It's good to care about things...even if your not even closely attached. Your awesome bro. I'll keep a lookout for more vids

[TimmyHawk3000]

I actually think you (Blake) had an awesome as intro....inspiring I'd say. You seem like a down-to-earth bro!

[TimmyHawk3000]

That is so true, your a thinker like me aren't you lol

[TimmyHawk3000]

This is a great video but your methods are a little harder than just being said, no offense, you understand and thats why you dont elaborate to much but some people dont understand just "letting go", life in many ways is about attachment as it is not as well, your an awesome thinker though I hope you could check my videos....btw you made me want to make a vid about something serious lol

Thank you TimmyHawk3000

[blakebliss]

@TimmyHawk3000 - Life is only ever as difficult as we decide it to be :) -

[prettyfuckingawkward]

what the fuck is justin bieber when you have unnoticed legends like blake?

[sociallyakward1]

I'm not going to lie... the beginning is kinda cheesy!

[blakebliss]

@sociallyakward1 - It is what it is :)

[iHeartTrivium]

love u blake <3 you are so inspirational and a wonderful human being

[XxFindingFakessxX]

Hi Blake, I'm Trish and my friend Samantha and I are sending you a letter with a drawing of you to hang up on your wall because we know how much you love that lol, and also we're sending a present from the each of us. And also, we're doing a school project on you for our civics class about hate, discrimination and prejudicial situations. Our slogan will be those five beautiful words ''You no longer walk alone'', and our party is called "The Bliss Party". We love you so much! Peaceskies! <3

[funandreckless]

"ppl r like seasons" i like that quote

[kyleenj94]

Blake;

You are the BIGGEST inspiration<3

[SicklySweet1992]

Your So Beautiful Blake <3 Inside And Out and I Just Want U 2 Know That We All Love You <3 <3

[xbendANDbreakx]

thank you. I needed this!

[HeavenMuhMonsteer]

This i amazing, I cried..omg <3

[xomandymorphinexo]

Amazing Blake as always. Are you able to concinder another person as your best friend.? How long did it take. ? I lost my boyfriend as may know from cap or me writing. Also How do you break the need for friends i know you say "let go " but how.? Sorry 3 questions.

[elizaa66]

This video brought me to tears. You're truly amazing. I really wish there were more people like you in the world. <3

[Bubblesgirl2]

Thank you so much <3 Thank you for everything you do <3 Thank you for staying alive even through all the crap you've gone through <3 Thank you for being here for us, your viewers <3

[ORANGESareORANGE3]

such a little cutiee haha

[Weesle101]

THis is truly beautiful if only everyone thought this way.. <3

[BreakingCupcake]

You're my inspiration.

You give me hope.

I have people talk behind my back all the time, because I refuse to act like anyone else, but myself.

I am tired of desiring to have friends who treat me the way they do.

Thank you for posting video's.

You make my days, Weeks, and entire years.

So Thank you!

[ToxicPrincess1918]

O.o you have the same veiw as me with friends. a few of my friends also died and thats what changed my veiw.

[TheTray89]

I literally just found you love the video i completely understand fake "friends", i am going to have to make a response video to this.... well i already planned a video on this topic just need to take the time to make the video and make it a response to this.

[L190418]

i love you. thank you so much :) this really helps me <3

[Artimicus]

I told a friend once a lot of truth about their girlfriend, he left me; Chose her over me, I let him go; because I desire for him to be there, so he's free to be a douche lmao

[skittlesloveish]

Blake, I love you. You are truly an amazing person and beautiful inside and out. You help me a lot. I just want to say, "Thank you, so much." (^_^)

[ladylori16]

wish this video was made before. i used to have "friends" who used me for a ride & never payed me gas money never said thanks. one i liked even went so far as to tell me he loved me just so i would drive him to a concert. that day i got in a wreck driving him to the concert & i had to learn how to walk all over again. as i was in the car bleeding he came over and asked me if i could still get him there. didn't call me in the hospital to see if i was OK. =\ i still cant walk enough to get a job..

[IJodieWhoSailsI]

I love what you said (and it is very true) people are seasons and they come and go.

[thispainisforever]

For me to learn to finally live for myself, i had to experience a time of being stabbed in the back and not having anyone to actually realize that i cant live by attaching myself to people. I have friends, but i also know in my mind to watch how much i want to trust them, no matter how much i love them. so if i lose them, i won't be so heartbroken. Blake, you're amazing, and what you're saying is definitely all facts. i personally know.

[EmoBearsayzRawrz]

you have to move on and you can't dwell on friends who really weren't your friends, i go through some of this every day at school and there have been a few people who have made friends with me and now i never see them but i move on cause honestly friends come and go but only a few stay by your side and i'm thankful i've made only a few friends.

[TheCheetos14]

this vid helped me alot :)

[LeviFourie]

You are truly fantastic. It's great to hear your opinion and peoples questions and problems, because your opinion is generally correct and always makes sense.

Keep up the good work Blake!

[TopazLove1901]

you have totally just made my night better, I happened upon your video by chance and I've actually had a few recent situations regarding friends and they way they treat not just me but others as well, there have been lots of fights and animosity and recently I've decided just to let it all go, I don't need the problems and I don't need them to make me happy. This video totally helped me validate those feelings Thank you. <3

[XxXchippymunksXxX]

You are an amazing being Blake <3

[xXTearsInVegasXx]

i can relate to this, ah your such a huge inspiration to me :)

[Cookie1995fly]

WOAH! I FEEL SO GUD <3

[XxAmdisxX]

You're an amazing person Blake. <3

[roxellov]

I had just met this one person, a very special person to me. I have been treated like crap most of my life from people backstabbing me. He has treated me like I'm royalty, and that I'm such a special person. WE got in a fight over him cutting himself after i told him my fear of being alone. I'm too scared to even text him.. I don't want to fight with him I wanna talk with him, but I don't want him to add onto the problem.

[xgraceyloufreebushx]

@roxellov text him, be brave he'll love you for it!

[Hrko1992]

@roxellov just suck his dick and it'll make him feel better. and youll solve all your problems with him and he'll love you. just suck his dick

[roxellov]

@Hrko1992 We live long distance. and I'm saving my virginity for when i am married.

[000bick]

what if this fake person is related to them and you are forced to see them

[Mywakkyworld]

hello blakebliss I have had so many friend that used me and they made me look bad for they can be a fake hero

[smexxytutu]

I can't understand what you're saying. It's like some crazy fuse in all your videos :/

But from what I can hear, you're such an inspiration -3

[ridgetastic]

you ...AMAZE me. thank you for this video. YOU INSPIRE ME. this video has really opened my eyes to how i have to think that, just because someone hasn't exactly hung out with me or told me that they don't want me around anymore, i need to stop being miserable and just start saying to myself that i can move on and maybe someone better will come along that will treat me better that i will DESIRE to be in my life, as you said. people do move on, people continue on with their lives. it just happens.