Woman Charged With Bondage Death of Husband

[ohwnou]

She got 18 months

[fattony252]

Why does she have a prison uniform on (black and white stripes) when she is being arrested by the cops?

[Lulita6067]

I think shes a gud singa i luv listenin 2 LOVE GAME - naked ladygaga. C(O)M -

[MyGauchito]

@Lulita6067 that's how I want to die

[HUSKY57887]

You'er not suposed to leave your partner,slave,bottom,(whatever term you want to use),alone for this exact reason; it might result injury or death.

[MCP1579375]

YES - LOVE it.

[jamieblond1]

If this was sexual foreplay, at least he died with a smile on his face :o)

[drc1981]

I agree with kinkykingkal; I thought this sounded like murder the first time I heard it. It's very easy to lose breathing through the nostrils when bound and gagged and the stimulation that goes with it, and for her to just leave him unattended. She either didn't love him that much, or wanted him dead. Take a good guess which.

[lolotnihil]

You commenters are really FUCKED UP

LOL! xD

[samdieternel]

Talk about betrayal of trussed. I thought the fun of being tied up was being rendered helpless and completely dependent on your lover's tender care. I thought the whole fun of tying someone else up was rendering your lover completely dependent on you for a period of time and caring for him/her constantly in the meantime. Plus, while she was crying, why did cry about it being an accident? You'd think she'd be sad that she lost him at all.

[puffdaddy83]

well i have heard of lots of mistress who do this thay leave them for hours some times a day or two the man wants to be like that some women threaten to devorce and put the men out on the street

[alfiefed]

my mistress has tied me up occasionaly but never for more than two hours 20 is just insane

[chewcharo69]

I love bondage!!! But I think 20 hours is to long for anyone!!! And to be left alone to, with how she gagged him is so stupid! Accident maybe?!! But still she should be charged with something!!! I like being gagged really good, but only if my wife is right there and doesn't leave for more than 2 minutes!!

[NetSpectra]

20 hours? With the gag sealed in with tape? That's a lot of spit to swallow. I wonder how long he actually lasted. Leaving the home? Indefensible. Maybe there is something suspicious going on here. Right off the bat she deserves prison time for criminal negligence.

[gizmonics30001000]

Thats the big attraction to bondage. Trust in your partner. This guy was an idiot for trusting this mental midget that much. And her...All I can say is they found their soulmates.

[drc1981]

I struggle to handle a ball gag for 25 minutes, much less 20 HOURS; That's a bad way to go. Whether she intended to kill him or not, still a stupid decision. NEVER leave someone in that position alone for 2 minutes, much less a full day. Very stupid

[kinkykingkal]

Third, you don't leave anything inside of you for more than three hours. Not a gag, not an anal plug, nothing. Fourth, let me get this straight, she leaved only the nose exposed? This is cold, contemplated premeditated murder with a claimable defense: consent. She should be executed.

And if I'm wrong, she should be taken out of the proverbial gene pool anyway. I compare this to taking a bottle of sleeping pills and downing a fifth of vodka and being surprised when you wake up from a coma

[maxwellheart]

You of all people should known the world isn't black and white. I can see how this could have been reckless homicide. Plenty of people in this world are capable of extremely irresponsible and foolish behavior. Not everyone who does something this stupid---and it was EXTREMELY stupid, 20 hours is ridiuclous---is bloodthirsty. Well---maybe in Texas.

[kinkykingkal]

Finally, something I can be called upon to comment and consider myself an expert.

Reckless homicide my ass. This was murder. First, you do not engage in extended bondage sessions unless someone is present, and even though most people have a limit one-tenth of what this person did. Second, you never leave your partner unattended. I don't even go into the next room to grab a glass of water unless I can see my partner clearly as I do it.

[drc1981]

exactly, well said.

[ArtsyPhilosophyGuy]

they're hopeless romantics. So what?

[essjay127]

maybe she did that to... make the sex better u know. leaving him there like that. he culda wanted it. but anyway

[xsherriix]

uh, oh my goodness.

24 hours.

[GetMeThere1]

She should know you don't do that to a mouth-breathing trailer-dweller...

[Pyroney]

ughh.. what if you had a cold, and your nose was plugged?! omfg then you couldent breath out of it... thats a horrible death

[GoodAvatar]

This is really sad. I could easily see why something like this would happen to a woman like this. Seems like neither had thought this one through, and both paid the penalty for it.

[oxalicman]

Oh I get it. I didn't listen to all the story. Ball-gag and duck tape on his mouth. And maybe she blocked his nose too. Putting someone 20 hours in bondage is an intent I might say.

I can tell you I like simple bondage since I was very young and I would never leave someone without surveillance tied and gagged. It's a guilty pleasure I have, but not a crime intent of course.

[oxalicman]

A cleave gag? Removable. A duck tape. Removable. A ball-gag, removable. Duck ttape stuffed with cloth or anything? Maybe not removable by your mouth but still you can breathe with your nose if your sinus are not blocked by the flu or a cold. Or could it be the gag too tight so when removed it struggled the person?

[oxalicman]

The victim was gagged with what? And how he was tied up? I hate the news for not giving enough information about these things. Because it's hard to find a gag thta is not removable with your mouth only.

[ShivelMoKivel]

It clearly says the man was ballgagged and had duct tape placed over his eyes and mouth. His head was also wrapped in a bandage "leaving only his nostrils exposed."

The woman and the fact that she was having sex with other men isn't so unusual in the BDSM community.

The woman is absolutely retarded but it sounds like a complete accident.

[konatown5]

trailer? who would have guessed. OH YEAH DROPPING FUCKING LOADS

[pauloz386]

The problem with any action or inaction we make in our lives is proving intent. If a windows is broken and you coincidentally happen to walk by it after baseball practice carry a bat, a reasonable person may come to the conclusion that you broke that window. Just as if you engaged in a kinky activity, and leave a person in a vulnerable state for 20 hours could be seen as manslaughter or murder. The difference between crime and accident is intent,and only one person really knows the difference.

[essjay127]

and like theyd believe them anyway.

[ohwnou]

How is the court case going. Can somebody sell out her name

[greatdare23]

that's an accident? lol

[BallaOG8]

im sure when the guy said he wud participate in bondage with the gurl that he didnt mean being completely taped up and left alone for 20 hourz... crazy bitch

[logansGT]

Damn, some people will do ANYTHING for a good orgasm!

[Btw, how do I get in touch with this chick?]

[BearByTheBay]

Be careful. The human body is both much tougher, and much weaker than you'd imagine. You'd be far safer hanging from flesh hooks done properly, than you imitating a "lite" scene from a TV hostage drama and doing it wrong.

One thing to consider with gags, feinting happens, even simply from standing in place to long, feinting can cause vomiting. Personally I'll only use bit gags, cleave gags or similar. Can still breath or if needed barf through the mouth.

[798389]

BDSM, Love Bondage, etc. must be safe as well as fun. Caring about the bound partner is integral - one is literally placing their life in the hands of another. How could she leave him alone like that, especially taping over the ballgag? He had no way to signal anyone if he were in real danger. Even if he wanted the rush associated with being subdued, gagged and left alone to struggle, she had a responsibility to find an unobtrusive way to check on his condition and make sure he was safe.

[PRE12081971]

I agree. Just because the "slave" wants something, it doesn't mean that the Master/Domina should give it to him/her (saying no can be for their own good).

For example, if somebody would like to be strangled during a session, it wouldn't be wise for a Domina or Master to accept that wish, for legal and humanitarian reasons.

A safe scenario: he's gagged, blindfolded, tied with ear plugs and guarded via surveillance camera from another room. He thinks he's alone (he's not) but can be saved!

[Zvenygora]

That's reason I'm allways bit scared of seeing video with hard bondage scenes - what if she can't breath by nose?

[midwestphishman]

should have had a contract! 20 hours alone does not make since.

[HarryBryantnxs6]

I enjoy BDSM and I agree with everyone here posting their concerns about safety first. 20 hours is very excessive, especially without supervision by your partner every now and again. I would need more details to the case before making a judgement call on the defendant, but the time limit that her husband was left alone does raise questions. Be careful playing and always make sure you know what your partners limits are, and what they are comfortable with.

[PRE12081971]

And to use a ballgag + duct tape + bandage over the mouth is absolute overkill and doesn't as much prevent speaking (why somebody uses a gag) as prevent breathing. Nowadays there are ballgags with a large breathing hole in the middle on the BDSM equipment market: They prevent speaking but not breathing so they should be relatively safe. But to leave somebody tied up alone for 20 hours is absolutely stupid and irresponsible. If he didn't die because of suffocation he could have died in a fire.

[erictheactorlynch]

damn sinuses!

[johnnypicosso]

This is precisely why when my wife bounds and gags me, I tell her to check in on me at least every three hours. Safety first.

[ladyofthemyst]

Why would you enjoy being left like that? (I ask out of genuine curiosity). If it is your thing, it would be better to not leave the premises in the first place. Stay within hearing range if you must walk away.

[PRE12081971]

I agree! Safety first!

And maybe every third hour isn't enough. Somebody can die in just a couple of minutes if he or she can't breath properly.

Just because of safety reasons I have interrupted self bondage sessions and untied and ungagged myself immediately many times when I have used a gag on myself and then noticed that I can't breath properly.

If you're doing bondage, you shouldn't be stupid. And you can't enjoy sexual bondage if you DIES while doing it!

[Psilo007]

Die SLUT!

[WFOX44]

Well i hope she enjoys bondage too, as she'll spend some time in handcuffs

[spunk1484]

homicide - she left him bonded to have sex with some other guy.

[spunk1484]

homicide - she left hime bonded to go shag some other guy.

[makajay1986]

How embarassing..

[ciberwarrior]

What kind of asshole enjoys being duct taped. I say there wasn't much life to begin with. Let's say he got pleasured to the max and call it even.

[theean]

Homicide - not Homocide

[theean]

Homicide - not Homocide - that's when a guy ties up another guy

[blowthis97]

I wouldnt let that ho tie my shoes!! what was that dude thinking?

[new22003]

Who hasnt been tied up by their wife and left for 20 hours?

[rabidfish02]

The only bondage that I like is watching a 007 movie.

[customcartoons]

Isn't quoting the detective's and the victim's sister's opinions about her guilt (verbatim) a legal violation of the defendant's rights? That stuff can spin the trial.