My mom is white and my dad is black. I'm 16. We've gotten dirty looks my whole life. Even by my moms' racist family. I don't give a fuck! I'm biracial and proud!! I love having the best of both worlds! :) So, those who think it's wrong or that they're taking the good black men, fuck off! Because my father was no good man and he's paying for it every day of his life. Stop judging people based on color and look in mirror! Because you obviously got ALOT of problems!! :3
My daughter is 2 1/2 and i am white and her dad is black. we live in South Dakota where there are not a lot of black people. I cant count how many times people have asked if she is my child. When she was 6 months old i went to pay my water bill and this girl says "oh she is beautiful, whats her name, how old." So i told her. She then says "Is she adopted?" Me "nope shes mine." The other lady "Oh she just looks like she'd be adopted." Me "Nope, shes mine. I had sex with a black man."
@gfreakj damn right i said it. One thing i didnt expect especially living in south dakota is that the black women i do run into dont give me looks or judge us. I found that they embrace my daughter and i. and our family as a whole.
fuck yeaa thank you blacks treat my mom like shit saying she takeing all the good black men ahhhhhhh racist blacks stfu and racist whites your still not off the hook for slavery but you sir are perfect we need you on the fucking news god damn it why cant we hav more of you!!!!
@frescabee Glad you enjoyed the video. People have to be willing to be hated to be like me and there don't seem to be many anymore willing to take the heat.
Your video is hilarious... I love it. I must say that I am Mexican and my husband is Black. When hispanic people sees me alone with our kids they usually think I am the babysitter. lmao and well when blacks see me with them they always ask "Are those your kids?" with a disbelief in their face. lmao
you're hilarious and i totally agree, people just love being stupid, it easier than being smart. the world is a big place, its hard for them to move their tiny little heads around and take a look.
@sugarofthesea Thanks. agree it is much easier to be ignorant and uneducated then to try to learn and expand our thinking. Have a great holiday season.
I am mixed. My mom is Japanese and my father is German. I always get stares and the inevitable question "what are you"? Pertaining to my race...so I answer "I'm human. What are you?". Hey, if you are going to ask a stupid question, you will get a stupid answer :) I agree with you. People should mind their own business.
My son is 2 and is of mixed race .. (I'm white/Dad Black) and I can't tell you how many times I am asked .. "is that your baby ??" and 99% of the time is from a black woman ... Not always with a attitude .. but most of the time they will .. But I can tell you mom had the same kind of flack when she and my dad had us kids because he was Italian.. and she was just white ! lol. We where never really accepted from my dads family .. and we are just talking 40 yrs ago !
A lot of black women get annoyed because they feel like black men are colorstruck and white women use them. I personally am of this opinion even though I'm biracial myself. I can't speak for everyone but I know for a fact my spanish mother used my black dad to get out of her parent's home. Even though both of my parents love me to death, it's those sorts of things people get pissed about.
@pandainaforest I've just come to understand that racism comes in all different forms, sometimes unexpected ones. But yeah, it can piss you off - I just figure let them act foolish.
I don't know what city you live in, but I have never seen anyone do anything but fawn over biracial children. I guess we come from different places. But most importantly, why are you so mad about it. It is those peoples issue and problem and there is nothing you can do about it. Cussing on a video about people you can do nothing about is silly. If it bothers you so much, you should take it to the people with the problem and not YouTube. It would be more affective.
thank you for your post. i am sick and tired of black people asking me if my children are mine. i am not the caretaker or mammie. i have never had one white person ask me that disrespectful question. i guess its taboo for a black women to be with a white man. but you see the reverse all the time, so i dont know whats the problem.
one time my cousin's father (who is white) was stopped by the police because the cops didn't believe that my cousin's father was her father because he was white and her mother is black (but she wasn't with them) and she looks black, so anyway he got stopped by the police and made to show his ID
Well that for me goes the other way around because when I'm with my dad ppl stare well mostly black ppl cus my mom isn't black nd I don't look it so yeh nd ppl ask nd it's annoying and with my mom it's like everything is casual
@Astutechick If you live in this country then what goes on is my business. Don't like it??? To damn bad! Oh and I think astute is giving yourself more credit then you deserve. If you can't figure out that what affects one affects all you aren't astute at all.....and one last thing. Bi racial people aren't black. They are biiiii racalllllll! Multi cultural. You DO know what that means I assume.
You have a point, but you are a little too sensitive! You cannot change the way folk feel anymore than I can change southern whites' attitudes. It would aggitate me as well because ignorance stifles progress. Just ignore them!!
There not BI any thang!!! There BLACK!!! Study yo history PLEASE.and yes it would upset some one that does not won't the truth that's what is called.stop suger coating it.and no they did not sleep with my man r my son because they know BETTER!!!
@tuluvlyfe U should probably study ur history cuz every black american is mixed with something, get out of 30's kids don't have to choose a race anymore.
@crystaleastman Thanks a lot. That comment was actually supposed to say "people dont seem to be very good at worrying about themselves or their own lives anymore." I will keep telling it like it is. Thanks again.
I can't even count how many times people have asked my mom if I'm adopted , right in front of me . Like the fuck? So what if I look more like my Asian side. IT DOESNT MEAN IM ADOPTED.
@middy444 Exactly. THEY are the most racist. I am multiracial myself and they are always the ones with the looks and comments. But its out of pure jealousy. They want to look like you. Its the sad truth. Be happy that you are not them with their ugly attitudes and low self esteem. I just laugh it off!
4. ) So they may be wondering how you really feel about Black peoples hair due to insecurities that Black women suffer from regarding hair type . basically the jest of it comes down to an "Inferiority Complex "
3. ) So when some Black women see a white guy or women doing a Black or biracial typed hair they are automatically held Suspect and looked at as JUST a White guy or woman that got STUCK doing a mixed Black persons hair, to them, a white person would never chose or want to do our hair type willingly .
2. ) A lot of Black women are insecure with their own hair texture and will wonder if the white guy that's cutting a mixed child's hair is really secretly thinking " This child has got some ugly ass hair " because they themselves feel their own hair is ugly and that no white person could ever truly think a Black or mixed Black person's hair is beautiful. .
@BiracialGirl1977 Mixed hair is totally different than black hair though. It is more soft, looser curls and more versatile. It is not the same at all.
@Barfetta3000 that's not true, black and mixed hair comes in a variety of textures, I kno biracial ppl with courser hair textures and black ppl with softer textures. race doesn't hair genetics does.
1. ) A freaking men . I also think black women may be wondering what you know about textured hair, and they are probably also wondering how you secretly feel about Black or biracial textured hair .
@BiracialGirl1977 I definitely agree with that. Some people assume people can only deal with one texture of hair. If have a white client leave and a black client come in some people look...confused. ;)
I am deeply gratified that you pick up on this. I've had black people give me weird looks & stare up in my face for as long as I can remember, for the simple fact that I exist. It's wonderful that a white barber is irritated by this, and not just multi-ethnic me;)
This brings up another point about b-racial children; my mom has always said that parents might not love their children as much if they don't look like the parent (especially in a mother to child relationship.) I don't think that it should matter especially with the love shared by adopted children and parents, but I have seen and heard of people who have been affected by their child looking different, even though they love their spouse. Thoughts?
@figaroatl I think that all comes down to the individual. I know parents whose children are the same color who hate them because they are fat. Or aren't athletic. Or aren't as intellectual as the parent. Or have bad skin. I am not just throwing things out for the sake of discussion I have seen these types of situations myself. On the other side I have seen parents with severely disabled children or children who are physically deformed or adopted children that are a different color that love...
@figaroatl their children with all their heart and soul. I think it comes down to warped people. There are warped parents who will find a reason to hate their children whether it's color or something else.
@gfreakj You know what? I think that's the best way to put it, whether its on purpose or not, you have to be some sort of twisted to not adore your children with all your soul. Still happens though, and its still sad.
I'm Lousiana Creole--black as any other but with big green eyes and super light skin ( I pretty much look mixed though) I get it from my dad, but my mom is dark skinned. When I was a baby (w/ big blue eyes, even lighter skin then n platnium blonde hair) white women would always walk up to my mom n ask if she nannied for other families. They'd be super embarrased or in disblief when they'd out I was her child lol i think most ppl r just flat minded :P
Well lucky me! Nobody has had the balls to talk shit about my biracial child to my face. I'd be going to jail for knocking a bitch out if that were the case!
Because why are you cutting a lil girls hair.Maybe they are looking because they're wondering why white women won't just do their kids hair instead of cutting it off to take a short cut.I guess they just can't do hair like that.ANyway another reason why they stare is probably because some biracial kids look so black after being out in the sun that they don't even look biracial anymore.So it just leaves people wondering.
@Taja548 Cutting the hair doesn't mean cutting it off. Have you ever heard of T R I M M I N G . Its what most people do to keep their long hair healthy. Ignorant assumption you made there.
@AshCThurlow Seems some people are able to just let it go while other folks are REALLY bothered by it. It bothers me when I see it because the looks are usually so full of hate. I understand curiosity, not that its OK but I can get that. The hate makes no sense to me. Thanks for commenting.
Why is the term bi-racial or inter-racial only used in america? Because you are all racists including the knob on this video who is trying to exclaim that HE is NOT a racist but everyone else is.
@IncognitoShhh I don't know where u r from bt there is prejudice in every country, but unlike many countries. Here in America we're not afraid to talk about it. Meaning, we don't stay locked in meaningless assumptions :P we try to get to the bottom of things.
@IncognitoShhh What term would you use then? It's called bi-racial because bi means two and they have two parents (a mom and a dad) each of a different race. It doesn't even have to be a black parent and a white parent. It can be a hispanic person and an asian person. They too would be biracial. Also you're comment about all Americans being racist is prejudiced itself. I don't think you would like it if I acted like I was an expert on Australia and spouted the same ignorant hoopla as you do.
Yikes! I get the looks all the time. My daughter is white as snow...lol (i'm exagerating but she is significantly lighter than me) She is biracial and people are always fascinated that we are mother and daughter ...and their faces show it...lol I don't allow faces to bother me anymore...In fact my daughter is now 13 and has become aware of the stares for quit some time and we brush it off by making jokes or silly comments to alarm people even more...lol
@vesinedy Glad you are able to handle it in a positive way. Are people really that stupid, or unaware hopefully, that they don't realize what if feels like to be gawked at. Thanks for sharing your experiences.
And y'all know what I'm saying is true. How often do you see a black man getting with a white woman that you know a white man wouldn't want, compared to a black man getting a nice attractive classy white woman? Hardly ever. The black community is told that white is superior. Alot of black men will get with a white woman just to say he can get one and for his children to have whiter features which we praise. Its more about looks and status then actual love. Thats the problem.
@misstoxicshock No offense, but who other people choose to date is still *their* business no matter the reason. If they have an inferior complex about their 'race' then that is their problem, not yours. But it could also just be that those two people are very happy together thank you!
Making a big deal about it says just as much about the naysayers. And what the guy in the vid says is right, if that ain't your man, then it ain't your business.
@TraffordReds9 None taken. It's just sad that people look down on being black so much, and I guess it bothers me because Im black. Some of these guys and girls really admit that they get with white people so their children can have white features or they can say they're with a white man or woman. I just cant stand the inferiority complex in my community. And I can feel that way, but I should not do like these women and bully the little girl and the woman.
@TraffordReds9 Hi guys im a mixed race guy and i just wanted to say, that those black women do not feel inferior for no reason, white people and the black guys that put them down, and say their uglier than white girls, and white girls who openly tell there black boyfriends they dont like their own women are responsible, lets not make out that black women are somehow racist, when its the white girls and their sell out boyfriends.
@jasy221 WRONG. NO one is forcing them to have this attitude. It is 2011 and they need to get over themselves. Its pure jealousy. Black men don't owe a darn thing to them. They are the same skin tone, who freaking cares? No one wants black women anymore and its all THEIR fault. Lose the ugly attitude and clean up your body and maybe you might be more than a laughingstock.
@jasy221 "Sell out boyrfirends"? Are you calling your black father/mother a "sell out"?
You were doing a good job of speaking up for black women until you came out with that ridiiculous comment. Being with someone of a different ethnicity doesn't make a person a "sell out". My father isn't a sell out, he just happened to fall in love, thank you!
If you really are mixed race, you should know better.
Alot of black men want to flaunt that they can get a white woman or flaunt their mixed kid with the "good hair" or "pretty eyes" or the "light skin" and that is the only reason why they are with these big unattractive white women most of the time. Thats what makes alot of us mad. But we have to realize that its not the woman or the child's fault. I actually like when I see a nice attractive classy white lady with a mixed child because you can actually see why someone would want to be with her.
Oh my gosh the end is so hilarious but overall I love the video I've noticed the instant attitude from women as well when me & my sister ("multiracial") and my cousins ("biracial") go out together .. Ironically enough we get the most attitude from black women instead and just curious stares from white women .
@x3xRockStarrx3x I understand it on a certain immature level but as a grown up I just don't understand how grown ups can be so insensitive to treat people like they almost aren't human. Hurts me when I see it and it isn't even directed at me. Glad you like the video. Thanks for commenting.
@gfreakj I never understood how adults could go on to conduct themselves in such a manner either, but eventually I found out being racist is something that is taught no one is born here that way. That even applies to those women, but the fact that they grew up and didn't learn how to decide for themselves is what bothers me most.
@x3xRockStarrx3x Agreed. It is learned behavior. And to see adults just go with the ignorance rather then try to lift themselves up out of it is disgusting and disturbing.
@idis1abad LOL. I am going to put a warning so people know whats coming. I don't mind be foul mouthed, obviously, but I don't want anyone to hear it that doesnt want to.
Angry gay white men act like stereotypical ghetto girls. You sound like Shenana Jenkin on this video. I was waiting for you to say, "you sowww crayayayayzeeeeee".
My mom is white and my dad is black. I'm 16. We've gotten dirty looks my whole life. Even by my moms' racist family. I don't give a fuck! I'm biracial and proud!! I love having the best of both worlds! :) So, those who think it's wrong or that they're taking the good black men, fuck off! Because my father was no good man and he's paying for it every day of his life. Stop judging people based on color and look in mirror! Because you obviously got ALOT of problems!! :3
RoseLovesYouAlways 5 days ago
i cant wait for somebody to say something about my baby !!!!
marcrisboy99 2 weeks ago
@marcrisboy99 Let em have it.
gfreakj 1 week ago
We are all mixed. Watch: MYAYJEklql4
DevilMayhem666 2 weeks ago
lol
yamndumplin666 2 weeks ago
You are articulate, and very handsome
Havetowaitandsee 3 weeks ago 2
@Havetowaitandsee Thanks.
gfreakj 3 weeks ago
Unless she fucked yo man lol!
TeeEye84Plus 4 weeks ago
My daughter is 2 1/2 and i am white and her dad is black. we live in South Dakota where there are not a lot of black people. I cant count how many times people have asked if she is my child. When she was 6 months old i went to pay my water bill and this girl says "oh she is beautiful, whats her name, how old." So i told her. She then says "Is she adopted?" Me "nope shes mine." The other lady "Oh she just looks like she'd be adopted." Me "Nope, shes mine. I had sex with a black man."
antila30 1 month ago 2
@antila30 LOL. Did you actually say that? I hope so.
gfreakj 1 month ago
@gfreakj damn right i said it. One thing i didnt expect especially living in south dakota is that the black women i do run into dont give me looks or judge us. I found that they embrace my daughter and i. and our family as a whole.
antila30 4 weeks ago
@antila30 Glad to hear you are somewhere where there is a little more acceptance.
gfreakj 4 weeks ago
You do hair?! Awesome mister!!!!!!
supajenny 1 month ago
@supajenny Yup. 15 years.
gfreakj 1 month ago
Ooooh Do my hair!!!
SuperJUSTME90 1 month ago
its 100% true what you're saying..
supahdupahguy81 1 month ago
@supahdupahguy81 Thanks for leaving a comment.
gfreakj 1 month ago
fuck yeaa thank you blacks treat my mom like shit saying she takeing all the good black men ahhhhhhh racist blacks stfu and racist whites your still not off the hook for slavery but you sir are perfect we need you on the fucking news god damn it why cant we hav more of you!!!!
frescabee 1 month ago
@frescabee Glad you enjoyed the video. People have to be willing to be hated to be like me and there don't seem to be many anymore willing to take the heat.
gfreakj 1 month ago
Love it so funny!!!
gabbymunoz1989xox 1 month ago
@gabbymunoz1989xox Thanks.
gfreakj 1 month ago
Your video is hilarious... I love it. I must say that I am Mexican and my husband is Black. When hispanic people sees me alone with our kids they usually think I am the babysitter. lmao and well when blacks see me with them they always ask "Are those your kids?" with a disbelief in their face. lmao
erika1supergirl 1 month ago
@erika1supergirl Glad you enjoyed it.
gfreakj 1 month ago
you are too funny I love your videos!
Leslieeeedxo 2 months ago
@Leslieeeedxo Thank you.
gfreakj 2 months ago
I agree
beautifulgemini93 2 months ago
@beautifulgemini93 Thanks for commenting.
gfreakj 2 months ago
Amazing! Finally someone who understands. I bet you if it was a black woman with a biracial child a shit wouldn't be given that day.
nick60444 2 months ago
@nick60444 Glad you enjoyed the video.
gfreakj 2 months ago
you're hilarious and i totally agree, people just love being stupid, it easier than being smart. the world is a big place, its hard for them to move their tiny little heads around and take a look.
sugarofthesea 3 months ago
@sugarofthesea Thanks. agree it is much easier to be ignorant and uneducated then to try to learn and expand our thinking. Have a great holiday season.
gfreakj 3 months ago
yh i agree i get that alot im mixed and whem im with my mum i notice she gets stares from eaither white or black women
MrItslouis 3 months ago
@MrItslouis Ignorance everywhere.
gfreakj 3 months ago
I am mixed. My mom is Japanese and my father is German. I always get stares and the inevitable question "what are you"? Pertaining to my race...so I answer "I'm human. What are you?". Hey, if you are going to ask a stupid question, you will get a stupid answer :) I agree with you. People should mind their own business.
Kalieddiegirl 3 months ago
@Kalieddiegirl Well said.
gfreakj 3 months ago
hahaha dude you made my day
OhhCathy 3 months ago
@OhhCathy Glad to hear it.
gfreakj 3 months ago
My son is 2 and is of mixed race .. (I'm white/Dad Black) and I can't tell you how many times I am asked .. "is that your baby ??" and 99% of the time is from a black woman ... Not always with a attitude .. but most of the time they will .. But I can tell you mom had the same kind of flack when she and my dad had us kids because he was Italian.. and she was just white ! lol. We where never really accepted from my dads family .. and we are just talking 40 yrs ago !
Cjcozzi 3 months ago
@Cjcozzi It's like we just HAVE to find a reason to hate people.
gfreakj 3 months ago
@Cjcozzi
""is that your baby ??" and 99% of the time is from a black woman"
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YES THIS IS THE TRUTH.
IMO i think it's down to hair-jealousy or something like that..
supahdupahguy81 1 month ago
A lot of black women get annoyed because they feel like black men are colorstruck and white women use them. I personally am of this opinion even though I'm biracial myself. I can't speak for everyone but I know for a fact my spanish mother used my black dad to get out of her parent's home. Even though both of my parents love me to death, it's those sorts of things people get pissed about.
Canyadigit2 3 months ago
Well said sir!!
callmeservant 3 months ago
@callmeservant Thanks.
gfreakj 3 months ago
Thank you. Just thank you. I agree with this video a hundred percent!
RyonasLily 4 months ago
@RyonasLily You're welcome.
gfreakj 4 months ago
I feel the same way I do have more than 2 race but I feel kinda left out still
DBZmusicboy01 4 months ago
@DBZmusicboy01 Left out how? Just trying to understand.
gfreakj 4 months ago
So true. I'm biracial with a white mom and I've been getting those looks since I was old enough to recognize them.
pandainaforest 4 months ago
@pandainaforest How do the looks make you feel? Do you get angry. It makes ,e angry and they aren't even looking at me.
gfreakj 4 months ago
@pandainaforest I've just come to understand that racism comes in all different forms, sometimes unexpected ones. But yeah, it can piss you off - I just figure let them act foolish.
pandainaforest 4 months ago
I don't know what city you live in, but I have never seen anyone do anything but fawn over biracial children. I guess we come from different places. But most importantly, why are you so mad about it. It is those peoples issue and problem and there is nothing you can do about it. Cussing on a video about people you can do nothing about is silly. If it bothers you so much, you should take it to the people with the problem and not YouTube. It would be more affective.
dginki 4 months ago
thank you for your post. i am sick and tired of black people asking me if my children are mine. i am not the caretaker or mammie. i have never had one white person ask me that disrespectful question. i guess its taboo for a black women to be with a white man. but you see the reverse all the time, so i dont know whats the problem.
lilxbwnsuga 4 months ago
@lilxbwnsuga You're welcome. I don't understand it either. Whatever the reason it's highly irritating.
gfreakj 4 months ago
one time my cousin's father (who is white) was stopped by the police because the cops didn't believe that my cousin's father was her father because he was white and her mother is black (but she wasn't with them) and she looks black, so anyway he got stopped by the police and made to show his ID
Oyin26 5 months ago
@Oyin26 Wow. When was this? Recently or back in the day?
gfreakj 5 months ago
@gfreakj oh this was recently, my cousin is 4 years younger than me and they have another daughter who is 12, she was about 5 at the time
Oyin26 5 months ago
@Oyin26 Ridiculous.
gfreakj 5 months ago
@gfreakj yeah, they thought they were doing the right thing because i think they thought he was a pedophile trying to kidnap her or something
Oyin26 5 months ago
@Oyin26 At least their intent was good.
gfreakj 5 months ago
lol @ this video
Oyin26 5 months ago
Dude you rock you took the words right out of my mouth thank you.
timmy1643 5 months ago
@timmy1643 Thanks and you're very welcome.
gfreakj 5 months ago
I love biracial people : )
unless they are crazy.
Miikaika25 5 months ago
thtz wassgudd!!
UILYariU143me 6 months ago
@UILYariU143me Glad you liked it.
gfreakj 6 months ago
UR SORTA DA SHIT
MrTarzantarzan 6 months ago
@MrTarzantarzan Thanks.
gfreakj 6 months ago
You sir are awsome
doddseman2 6 months ago
@doddseman2 Thanks.
gfreakj 6 months ago
@gfreakj anytime
doddseman2 6 months ago
Dude I Love You !
TheNewnewmarie 7 months ago
@TheNewnewmarie Thanks. Love u too.
gfreakj 7 months ago
ommgggg lmfaooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
iceprincessfm 7 months ago
@iceprincessfm ;)
gfreakj 7 months ago
@celena332 I do see it much more from women then men and agree it seems rooted in some kind of self hatred.
gfreakj 7 months ago
HAha hey: listen up !! whose [white or whose black] idiot's!!!!!!!!!!
YOUR WHITENESS is playing out fast>>>>>>>>>>YOUare allready the minority
in the [PLANET] SO you better shutup keep your damn mouth shut !!!!!!!!
AMERICA !! which all this [SHIT] IS STILL PERPUTRADEDin the minds of bigots and real ignorant [PEOPLE] YOUR DAYS ARE [NUMBERED]!!%%@!
eubridge1934 7 months ago
Well that for me goes the other way around because when I'm with my dad ppl stare well mostly black ppl cus my mom isn't black nd I don't look it so yeh nd ppl ask nd it's annoying and with my mom it's like everything is casual
theOppositeofus 8 months ago
@theOppositeofus So same problem but with different parent. People are so ignorant. I am amazed people still stare and gawk in 2011.
gfreakj 8 months ago
lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Amy2Pretty 8 months ago
@Amy2Pretty ;)
gfreakj 8 months ago
Dude get over yourself I am tired of whites nosing around in black people's business.
Astutechick 8 months ago
@Astutechick If you live in this country then what goes on is my business. Don't like it??? To damn bad! Oh and I think astute is giving yourself more credit then you deserve. If you can't figure out that what affects one affects all you aren't astute at all.....and one last thing. Bi racial people aren't black. They are biiiii racalllllll! Multi cultural. You DO know what that means I assume.
gfreakj 8 months ago 2
@gfreakj good answer !!!!
chanchancacao 8 months ago
@chanchancacao Thanks. I usually don't respond to negative comments/attacks but this one just caught me on the wrong day. ;)
gfreakj 8 months ago
yo, you're funny
Jaicyea7 8 months ago
@Jaicyea7 Thanks.
gfreakj 8 months ago
@gfreakj haha, consider stand-up!
Jaicyea7 8 months ago
@Jaicyea7 I will. Thanks.
gfreakj 8 months ago
Lol you killed me at the end!
13vanity13 8 months ago
@13vanity13 Had to end it with a BANG! LOL ;)
gfreakj 8 months ago
You said it brother!
UniversalMinded 8 months ago
I think he needs a hug. Would someone, preferrablly a black woman, give this brother a hug?
mrbilingual 8 months ago
@itsBAYbizness LOL.
gfreakj 9 months ago
this is 2 funny. u right on bro. people can be whatever they wanna be.
mykole84 9 months ago
@mykole84 Glad you liked it.
gfreakj 9 months ago
You have a point, but you are a little too sensitive! You cannot change the way folk feel anymore than I can change southern whites' attitudes. It would aggitate me as well because ignorance stifles progress. Just ignore them!!
mrbilingual 9 months ago
@mrbilingual no. he is just expressing himself.
lolita88ism 8 months ago
There not BI any thang!!! There BLACK!!! Study yo history PLEASE.and yes it would upset some one that does not won't the truth that's what is called.stop suger coating it.and no they did not sleep with my man r my son because they know BETTER!!!
tuluvlyfe 9 months ago
@tuluvlyfe You don't get to tell other people who they are.
gfreakj 9 months ago
@tuluvlyfe U should probably study ur history cuz every black american is mixed with something, get out of 30's kids don't have to choose a race anymore.
jlynn8707 3 weeks ago
I agree! People should worry about their own lives!
crystaleastman 9 months ago
@crystaleastman People don't seem to be very good anymore.
gfreakj 9 months ago
@gfreakj You are definitely right about that! I think you are one of the good people! Keep telling it like it is! :)
crystaleastman 9 months ago
@crystaleastman Thanks a lot. That comment was actually supposed to say "people dont seem to be very good at worrying about themselves or their own lives anymore." I will keep telling it like it is. Thanks again.
gfreakj 9 months ago
I can't even count how many times people have asked my mom if I'm adopted , right in front of me . Like the fuck? So what if I look more like my Asian side. IT DOESNT MEAN IM ADOPTED.
KawaiiAsian00 9 months ago
@KawaiiAsian00 People are so ignorant. At least I'd rather think it's ignorance then hate. Thanks for commenting.
gfreakj 9 months ago
Don't worry love, I'm half black and white and have faced so much bitterness and abuse from blacks, ESPECIALLY black women.
middy444 9 months ago
@middy444 I hear that a lot unfortunately. Sad situation. Thanks for commenting.
gfreakj 9 months ago
@middy444 Exactly. THEY are the most racist. I am multiracial myself and they are always the ones with the looks and comments. But its out of pure jealousy. They want to look like you. Its the sad truth. Be happy that you are not them with their ugly attitudes and low self esteem. I just laugh it off!
Barfetta3000 9 months ago
@middy444 = ( *sorry about this* ignore them really
lolita88ism 8 months ago
4. ) So they may be wondering how you really feel about Black peoples hair due to insecurities that Black women suffer from regarding hair type . basically the jest of it comes down to an "Inferiority Complex "
BiracialGirl1977 10 months ago
3. ) So when some Black women see a white guy or women doing a Black or biracial typed hair they are automatically held Suspect and looked at as JUST a White guy or woman that got STUCK doing a mixed Black persons hair, to them, a white person would never chose or want to do our hair type willingly .
BiracialGirl1977 10 months ago
2. ) A lot of Black women are insecure with their own hair texture and will wonder if the white guy that's cutting a mixed child's hair is really secretly thinking " This child has got some ugly ass hair " because they themselves feel their own hair is ugly and that no white person could ever truly think a Black or mixed Black person's hair is beautiful. .
BiracialGirl1977 10 months ago
@BiracialGirl1977 Interesting.
gfreakj 10 months ago
@BiracialGirl1977 Mixed hair is totally different than black hair though. It is more soft, looser curls and more versatile. It is not the same at all.
Barfetta3000 9 months ago
@Barfetta3000 Not all black people have nappy hair and not all mulatto people have loose hair. Our hair is VERY versatile. Open your mind.
Noviiay 7 months ago
@Barfetta3000 that's not true, black and mixed hair comes in a variety of textures, I kno biracial ppl with courser hair textures and black ppl with softer textures. race doesn't hair genetics does.
jlynn8707 3 weeks ago
1. ) A freaking men . I also think black women may be wondering what you know about textured hair, and they are probably also wondering how you secretly feel about Black or biracial textured hair .
BiracialGirl1977 10 months ago
@BiracialGirl1977 I definitely agree with that. Some people assume people can only deal with one texture of hair. If have a white client leave and a black client come in some people look...confused. ;)
gfreakj 10 months ago
I am deeply gratified that you pick up on this. I've had black people give me weird looks & stare up in my face for as long as I can remember, for the simple fact that I exist. It's wonderful that a white barber is irritated by this, and not just multi-ethnic me;)
zaladane19 10 months ago
@zaladane19 Glad to hear my video brought you some gratification. I don't have blinders on like most of the world. I SEE whats going on around me.
gfreakj 10 months ago
This brings up another point about b-racial children; my mom has always said that parents might not love their children as much if they don't look like the parent (especially in a mother to child relationship.) I don't think that it should matter especially with the love shared by adopted children and parents, but I have seen and heard of people who have been affected by their child looking different, even though they love their spouse. Thoughts?
figaroatl 10 months ago
@figaroatl I think that all comes down to the individual. I know parents whose children are the same color who hate them because they are fat. Or aren't athletic. Or aren't as intellectual as the parent. Or have bad skin. I am not just throwing things out for the sake of discussion I have seen these types of situations myself. On the other side I have seen parents with severely disabled children or children who are physically deformed or adopted children that are a different color that love...
gfreakj 10 months ago
@figaroatl their children with all their heart and soul. I think it comes down to warped people. There are warped parents who will find a reason to hate their children whether it's color or something else.
gfreakj 10 months ago
@gfreakj You know what? I think that's the best way to put it, whether its on purpose or not, you have to be some sort of twisted to not adore your children with all your soul. Still happens though, and its still sad.
figaroatl 10 months ago
@figaroatl Agreed.
gfreakj 10 months ago
I'm Lousiana Creole--black as any other but with big green eyes and super light skin ( I pretty much look mixed though) I get it from my dad, but my mom is dark skinned. When I was a baby (w/ big blue eyes, even lighter skin then n platnium blonde hair) white women would always walk up to my mom n ask if she nannied for other families. They'd be super embarrased or in disblief when they'd out I was her child lol i think most ppl r just flat minded :P
CiaraSmiles8D 10 months ago
@CiaraSmiles8D Flat minded is a great way of describing it. Thanks for commenting.
gfreakj 10 months ago
Well lucky me! Nobody has had the balls to talk shit about my biracial child to my face. I'd be going to jail for knocking a bitch out if that were the case!
LadyofWar1980 10 months ago
@LadyofWar1980 LOL. That's the same way I'd feel.
gfreakj 10 months ago
Because why are you cutting a lil girls hair.Maybe they are looking because they're wondering why white women won't just do their kids hair instead of cutting it off to take a short cut.I guess they just can't do hair like that.ANyway another reason why they stare is probably because some biracial kids look so black after being out in the sun that they don't even look biracial anymore.So it just leaves people wondering.
Taja548 10 months ago
@Taja548 Cutting the hair doesn't mean cutting it off. Have you ever heard of T R I M M I N G . Its what most people do to keep their long hair healthy. Ignorant assumption you made there.
gfreakj 10 months ago
Meh people always ask if my mother is the nanny cuz my mom is black, but i look white, yeah we get the dirty looks all the time. -.-
AshCThurlow 10 months ago
@AshCThurlow Seems some people are able to just let it go while other folks are REALLY bothered by it. It bothers me when I see it because the looks are usually so full of hate. I understand curiosity, not that its OK but I can get that. The hate makes no sense to me. Thanks for commenting.
gfreakj 10 months ago
being biracia
I agree kinda agree with what he's saying on the video.
iknowkanya 10 months ago
Why is the term bi-racial or inter-racial only used in america? Because you are all racists including the knob on this video who is trying to exclaim that HE is NOT a racist but everyone else is.
IncognitoShhh 10 months ago
@IncognitoShhh Fuck you ignorant asshole. Dont worry about why we do what we do in America.
gfreakj 10 months ago
@IncognitoShhh I don't know where u r from bt there is prejudice in every country, but unlike many countries. Here in America we're not afraid to talk about it. Meaning, we don't stay locked in meaningless assumptions :P we try to get to the bottom of things.
CiaraSmiles8D 10 months ago
@IncognitoShhh What term would you use then? It's called bi-racial because bi means two and they have two parents (a mom and a dad) each of a different race. It doesn't even have to be a black parent and a white parent. It can be a hispanic person and an asian person. They too would be biracial. Also you're comment about all Americans being racist is prejudiced itself. I don't think you would like it if I acted like I was an expert on Australia and spouted the same ignorant hoopla as you do.
mrsticky005 9 months ago
@Kissiq1618 Thanks.
gfreakj 10 months ago
My daughter and I were on the grocery line a few weeks ago and the cashier actually asked me if my daughter was mine and if her dad is white!
vesinedy 11 months ago
@vesinedy People have a lot of nerve. Like it's any of their business. I would have had a hard time not having a nasty reaction to that.
gfreakj 11 months ago
Yikes! I get the looks all the time. My daughter is white as snow...lol (i'm exagerating but she is significantly lighter than me) She is biracial and people are always fascinated that we are mother and daughter ...and their faces show it...lol I don't allow faces to bother me anymore...In fact my daughter is now 13 and has become aware of the stares for quit some time and we brush it off by making jokes or silly comments to alarm people even more...lol
vesinedy 11 months ago
@vesinedy Glad you are able to handle it in a positive way. Are people really that stupid, or unaware hopefully, that they don't realize what if feels like to be gawked at. Thanks for sharing your experiences.
gfreakj 11 months ago
And y'all know what I'm saying is true. How often do you see a black man getting with a white woman that you know a white man wouldn't want, compared to a black man getting a nice attractive classy white woman? Hardly ever. The black community is told that white is superior. Alot of black men will get with a white woman just to say he can get one and for his children to have whiter features which we praise. Its more about looks and status then actual love. Thats the problem.
misstoxicshock 11 months ago
@misstoxicshock No offense, but who other people choose to date is still *their* business no matter the reason. If they have an inferior complex about their 'race' then that is their problem, not yours. But it could also just be that those two people are very happy together thank you!
Making a big deal about it says just as much about the naysayers. And what the guy in the vid says is right, if that ain't your man, then it ain't your business.
TraffordReds9 10 months ago
@TraffordReds9 None taken. It's just sad that people look down on being black so much, and I guess it bothers me because Im black. Some of these guys and girls really admit that they get with white people so their children can have white features or they can say they're with a white man or woman. I just cant stand the inferiority complex in my community. And I can feel that way, but I should not do like these women and bully the little girl and the woman.
misstoxicshock 10 months ago
@TraffordReds9 Hi guys im a mixed race guy and i just wanted to say, that those black women do not feel inferior for no reason, white people and the black guys that put them down, and say their uglier than white girls, and white girls who openly tell there black boyfriends they dont like their own women are responsible, lets not make out that black women are somehow racist, when its the white girls and their sell out boyfriends.
jasy221 9 months ago
@jasy221 WRONG. NO one is forcing them to have this attitude. It is 2011 and they need to get over themselves. Its pure jealousy. Black men don't owe a darn thing to them. They are the same skin tone, who freaking cares? No one wants black women anymore and its all THEIR fault. Lose the ugly attitude and clean up your body and maybe you might be more than a laughingstock.
Barfetta3000 9 months ago
@jasy221 "Sell out boyrfirends"? Are you calling your black father/mother a "sell out"?
You were doing a good job of speaking up for black women until you came out with that ridiiculous comment. Being with someone of a different ethnicity doesn't make a person a "sell out". My father isn't a sell out, he just happened to fall in love, thank you!
If you really are mixed race, you should know better.
TraffordReds9 9 months ago
@misstoxicshock nice assumptions there.
middy444 9 months ago
Alot of black men want to flaunt that they can get a white woman or flaunt their mixed kid with the "good hair" or "pretty eyes" or the "light skin" and that is the only reason why they are with these big unattractive white women most of the time. Thats what makes alot of us mad. But we have to realize that its not the woman or the child's fault. I actually like when I see a nice attractive classy white lady with a mixed child because you can actually see why someone would want to be with her.
misstoxicshock 11 months ago
lol i love you last words ....now i will check out your other videos
tashmarie20 11 months ago
@tashmarie20 Thanks. Hope you like some of the others. Plenty to choose from.
gfreakj 11 months ago
This black woman agrees. Hating ass black women.
ImHereToTellYou1 11 months ago
@ImHereToTellYou1 Thanks for commenting.
gfreakj 11 months ago
Oh my gosh the end is so hilarious but overall I love the video I've noticed the instant attitude from women as well when me & my sister ("multiracial") and my cousins ("biracial") go out together .. Ironically enough we get the most attitude from black women instead and just curious stares from white women .
x3xRockStarrx3x 11 months ago
@x3xRockStarrx3x I understand it on a certain immature level but as a grown up I just don't understand how grown ups can be so insensitive to treat people like they almost aren't human. Hurts me when I see it and it isn't even directed at me. Glad you like the video. Thanks for commenting.
gfreakj 11 months ago
@gfreakj I never understood how adults could go on to conduct themselves in such a manner either, but eventually I found out being racist is something that is taught no one is born here that way. That even applies to those women, but the fact that they grew up and didn't learn how to decide for themselves is what bothers me most.
x3xRockStarrx3x 11 months ago
@x3xRockStarrx3x Agreed. It is learned behavior. And to see adults just go with the ignorance rather then try to lift themselves up out of it is disgusting and disturbing.
gfreakj 11 months ago
DUDE THANKS SO MUCH FOR THAT!!!!!!!
skillvill 11 months ago
@skillvill You're very welcome. It needed to be said.
gfreakj 11 months ago
You make a good point,
good video
gatheringleaves 11 months ago
@gatheringleaves Thanks a lot.
gfreakj 11 months ago
Preach.!
AsiaRay19 1 year ago
@AsiaRay19 LOL. Thanks for commenting.
gfreakj 1 year ago
thank u hunny thank u
Teeka025 1 year ago
@Teeka025 You're welcome. Thanks for commenting.
gfreakj 1 year ago
wow. I was NOT expecting you to speak like that LOL...i guess it's the glasses. Anywho , I totally agree
idis1abad 1 year ago
@idis1abad LOL. I am going to put a warning so people know whats coming. I don't mind be foul mouthed, obviously, but I don't want anyone to hear it that doesnt want to.
Thanks for commenting.
gfreakj 1 year ago
Angry gay white men act like stereotypical ghetto girls. You sound like Shenana Jenkin on this video. I was waiting for you to say, "you sowww crayayayayzeeeeee".
alecniles 1 year ago