This is great I am bisexual and my brother is too but my other brother makes fun of us and I think it's bullshit but I have no guts to tell anyone else this besides my brothers and the people of youtube!XD My brother that isn't bi thinks it's "fixable" and that you can change back but me and my other brother believe that once attracted to the same gender always attracted to the same gender. So this really helped, thanks:)
Thank you. I'm bi guy and my girlfriend is bi(she's closeted though). And yeah people think I'm either straight or gay, except for like 3 close friends who actually understand. and yeah your relationship sounds really similar to mine. Gay guys who add me on facebook all the time think I'm going to cheat on my girlfriend for them or think I'm in denial and that I'm really gay so they have an excuse to convince me to leave my girlfriend. Shit gets old. Some people are just retarded.
I never understood the concept of bisexuality. Is it just attraction that determines it? I'm very attracted to women, more than men but I don't consider myself a bisexual. I'm in a long term relationship with a male and would never date a woman. It's just a confusing concept, because I think that every human is born potentially bisexual, and society forms your preference. But I'm sick of girls saying they're bi because they saw a picture of tits and thought it was nice, that's not bi to me.
@happycamperyay It's not society that forms your preference, its you who form your preference. If you care what people think of you and getting rejected than your going to live a straight lifestyle, however that doesn't mean your straight. Your saying you have more attraction to women and not men, even though you only want to be with men, sounds like your defiantly bi, or possibly even gay. If a man is only attracted to other men, yet marries a woman would you consider that guy to be straight no
@ckinch I'm not bisexual. Do I find women attractive? Absolutely, but the thought of being intimately involved with one doesn't even cross my mind. & actually your environment molds pretty much everything about you, its called social formation. And you took me the wrong way, women are more physically appealing to me, men more emotionally and personality wise. I never said men weren't attractive, women are just nicer to look at. I'd be fine saying i was gay, but I'm not.
and i understand that cause ive been there , youre young right now and believe in alot of things you wil later come to reconsider... years from now, youll think of the woman who wrote you and told you of such things... ive admired your videos on and off for years and i think youre a unique woman with some kind of charisma ..youll find later in life that the competition thing gets boring and juvenille and hes still doing it..especially with bi men, and the abuse thing..learn from me
Just a thought to throw out there. I"ve read that most women have bisexual tendencies whether they consider themselves bi, gay , or straight. And there's been some studies with men who claim to be bi and it turns out that less than 10% actually were, meaning they didn't prefer one sex so much greater than the other one.
Its because people are homophobic is the short answer, and ppl are afraid of something that they arent used to. I mean rewind bk to the 40s and 50s for a black person to be married to a white person that was unheard of and borderline illegal. Personally I think the F word (and im not talking about Fuck) should be illegal and if not then just viewed as the same way when someone says the N word i.e: disgusting. I mean seriously theyre Bi so what!? they're humans u guys didnt choose to be bi, ugh!!
I agree with you cuz I'm bi too and I feel like it's more accepted for a woman to be bi than a man and when a woman is bi or lesbian it's "sexy" but when a man is gay or bi he's a faggot or queer and that really pisses me off...
I dig this vid, people judge way to often on sexuality and prefrence, ugh it sickens me sometimes how people "cant understand how you can be bisexual"
dude you love the person you love the person you love the Person.
Nice video, good points in there my wife is bi and i'd have to say we are both pretty laidback people. I don't get it either y does a guy get the more negative reactions it seems idk.
YOU STATED IT CLEARLY!!!! GOOD VIDEO EMMA!!! I AGREE I hate when people state ignorant questions but most don't know and yes they need to RESPECT the 3rd sex!!! 5/5stars
Hey, i'm new to watching your videos. (I hope that didn't sound like I am a stalker as I'm not.) I came across this one and instantly it interested me. I'm bisexual and i'm scared of that fact. I'm not sure why, I just feel insecure about it. Anyway, I just wanna say thanks. I know many people are bisexual, gay and all but this video really hit home. I liked it. A huge, huge thanks. xx
when someone believes that being anything other than "straight" means that an individual is permiscuous, they're really just insecure and fearful of something unknown to them. this kind of centrism is basically misunderstanding via ignorance, and it transcends into sooo many other kinds of stubborn beliefs... racism, elitism, etc...
I have been in a relationship with my bisexual girlfriend for over 16yrs now. Im straight but we do have a little fun with other girls every once in a while. We both really enjoy it of course :-) I curious how you guys work around the sexual attraction without wanting to act one those urges. Or does having a kid ect make it not important anymore. Keep up the good work :-)
Hey great video im not bi or anything but my friend is a bi-female(claims to be) and was having trouble with her new straight BF,because she makes out with chicks at parties every now and then. Kinda didnt seem like a huge deal to me because she makes out with her friends while drunk and at parties. But watching your video kinda gave me another perspective here on it. Thank you
I like the "he prefers me" line and I Love your videos.
keep convincing yourself abouth all this bs, i can understand when someone is gay (wrong pers in wrong gender) but someone who is Bi ? no i don't get that....
Therefore being Bi, Gay, Straight or whatever other grey matter mix of sexuallity will not dictate your faithfulness. When you love someone, you love that PERSON! NOT their genitalia. If I only loved genitallia then I would just buy a whole bunch of sex toys and skip all the work that goes into relationships. So, when I am in a relationship with either a male or a female, I am with them because you WHO they are, not whats in between their legs. PS, love the dress
I think your opinions are wonderful! I am in a commited relationship with a man as well, and both of us are Bisexual. I think it is utterly repugnant to judge a person on their sexuality or at all for that matter. I think that your gendure and sex have little to nothing to do with your habits and morals.
Those men are perhaps, just more vocal about their opinions on bisexuality? (the rest of the population don't care--like it's normal now). The one thing I agree with, listening to your post, is ... kinda like.. The bigger picture of the bisexual monogamist relationship... Literally our of EVERYONE in the rest of the world.. both men and women.. you guys have chosen each other.. where as my brother in law chose my sister over all the women in the world..
how about using those scarfs to cover your mouth because this was the biggest waste of time ive spent on the internet. if you didnt want criticism about your personal life DONT PUT IT OUT THERE!!!
Humans are bisexual by defaut. .. its just depeds about what way the person takes, some choose straight ,other homo, and othrs just stay being bisexuals.
Very good points you made, being bi dosnt mean either of you are gonna run off with the same sex at a whim, like you said, you're in a commited relationship, you're attracted to eachother! you guys are great. You've found true love with eachother, have a gorgeous son, that's all that matters =)
So now that you two are married has he been with a guy since?
When you say you and your partner are bi-sexual now that you are married dont you make a committment to each other to stay faithful and care for each other? So therefore wouldnt you now be straight?
Unless you two have sexual relations with the same sex then what was the point of marriage?
Ando: if you ask about Daniel, why not ask about Emma? Yes, marriage is that commitment. No that does not make you straight! If you are heterosexual and not in a relationship does that mean you are now celibate or asexual? The point of marriage is because you are attracted to another PERSON. your last comment doesn't make sense.
i dont believe that is the point of marriage or an excuse to get married....
if either of you continued to have relations with anyone else then there was no point to your marriage, its the same with swingers, why bother getting married.
marriage is pointless unless you are committed to each other.
As for now being straight... i guess thats abit hard to judge, if someone was once gay then went straight would you now say they are bi for the rest of there life coz they were once gay? i wouldnt..
they are committed to eachother, but they will always be bisexual. even if they never ever have sex with someone of the same sex again.
I would never say that someone who is gay can "go straight" they were either bi from the start, were never gay to start with, or are now bowing to societal pressures despite their true feelings.
Like the other person said, your ideas on sexuality are completely wrong and twisted. Did I hear you just try to imply that sexuality is a choice? How the fuck can someone gay "go straight" unless they simply weren't gay to begin with or were actually bi all along? Do a bit of research because sexuality just doesn't work that way. Why the fuck do you have it in your head that we're having sexual relations with others? My main point in the video was that that's NOT what bisexuality is about.
Or maybe you just suck at grasping the concept of "sarcasm" and you took me seriously when I said "all bisexual people are sexually promiscuous". But that would make you a total dumb ass. Oh wait...
You were asking questions that I answered very clearly in the video. Yeah yeah I'm a slut and my boyfriend's a fag and you're a complete fucking dumb ass. Go sit in the corner, dunce. How about that?
Did you even WATCH the video? Of course Daniel hasn't been with a guy since, nor have I been with a girl. I said in the video several times that our relationship is monogamous and committed...but that doesn't change the fact that we both always have and always will felt attracted to both women and men. Just as a straight married man will continue being heterosexual and attracted to women in general (NOT NECESSARILY SLEEPING WITH THEM ALL), we will continue being bisexual.
I've given your situation some thought,Emmalina,and I've reached the natural conclusion:since you say that you're in a committed monogamous relationship and you have absolutely no intent to fool around,then the only reason why you still let people know about your bisexuality(note that i'm not denying it!) is to be more interesting to people!which works,by the way!also,I want to say that you're a cutie pie :)
which is 'not cool-er' flipping the bird to everyone who visits your profile, or a one time comment on a video? What is your favorite color to dye your hair?
I'm not your 'bro' and 'wut' YOU said isnt' even a word, yes, nor is 'not cool-er', i know. Congrats on the flipping the bird profile pick just getting changed on your page. And the reference to your favorite colour to dy your hair is from the words on your page where it says "i looooooove to dye my hair :) " as of the time I am writing this comment. Have a great day. :)
Brilliant video and some good points.I think people have this preconceived idea that sexuality has some bearing on how you behave sexually, and its bollocks. Gay, straight or bi sexual, you will find the same behaviour traits...monogamous, open...promiscuous....reckless...etc...all those traits occur because of the person inside, not because of the sexual orientation.
Dress is very sexy....cutout in the back is great :D
i completely agree. i am bisexual and catch the same shit. i've been involved with men and women both, and some of the relationships have not lasted because my significant other is so afraid that i'll cheat because i will "crave the other sex." like, really? i was completely faithful, they just had this preconceived paranoia about bisexuality. i was baffled.
Emma commented that yes indeed it does appear that some people use it like that, because then guys will think it is "hot " and they might get to see some "lesbian action" . Bisexual is not a fashion statement, a choice, a decision, it just IS!
i agree with u on the sexuality im not sure if i can agree with the neck thing b.c the cam isnt really angled at ur neck lol the dress is two damn cute its like an modern day i love lucy dress
For a girl to be bi is quite accepted, but when a guy smokes pole everyone knows that's just wrong. Having said that the fact that you are in an exclusive monogamous relationship makes the whole point moot. Your dress is quite cute on you.
how is a guy being bisexual "just wrong"? and no the point is not moot because both of them remain bisexual despite being in a heterosexual relationship.
Okay, so I agree with you about the whole bisexuality thing, but moving onto the dress! I like it. I understand how to feel self conscious wearing it because you think it makes your hips/ass look big, but the dress is made to poof out like that and anyone who sees you realizes that. It just looks like a cute dress. I love the back, and I truly do think it's very flattering. :)
are either of you worried that when one of you is in your 40's and have 4 kids that either one of you might want to leave the other and pursue a relationship with the other sex?
My parents have been happily married for around 27 years I believe. Daniel's parents were divorced when he was 5 years old and his mother moved interstate.
i talked to dr. drew on the radio once and i asked him if he thought that my bisexuality had anything to do with the fact that i had an absent father much of my life (since that had been something that some of my friends/family had said about me), and he said that was exactly why i was bisexual. i was stunned. i've seen people like you and emma with happily married parents who are bisexual, so i couldn't believe he'd say that. even the experts are ignorant.
Maybe he isnt bi hes really gay but your so awesome there is no denying you!
I couldnt imagine being with you and missing a penis. I never understood wanting something you already have though either... Im happy with my penis why would I want someone elses lol
I love the dress! I think you definitely need a long chain or necklace or something to go with it though! It looks beautiful on you!
PS - People who have any kind of a problem with either your or Daniel's bisexuality aren't even worth the time it takes to type/ verbalize a response. Douchebags like that can fuck right the hell off and stop watching if they have SUCH a problem with it that they can't seem to wrap their pea-sized caveman brains around the concept!
I'm still bi-sexual, even though I can find guys more sexually attractive. When it comes to women, it takes a "special" type of woman to make me attracted to them. In terms of both physical appearance and personality.
If I was looking for promiscuous sex, it would be a guy everytime.
I think being gay is wrong but I dont act or treat people that are gay horribly or different. Over all with everything I take the approach "Hate the sin not the sinner" point of view. You have the right to choose to be bi and I have the right to believe its wrong but that does not mean I hate you. Im sorry your being persecuted about it though and can understand how irritating it can be. The world sucks in general and its always going to be something hounding you. If it helps we love you :)
@nodnarb101 Oh, god. Do some research, kid. Sexual attraction is a biological thing. You're telling me you could choose to never feel sexual attraction to a woman ever again if you wanted to? HAHA.
Im not talking about love Im talking about lust. Homosexuality is a sin no matter how much everyone wants to sugar coat it or pull the politically correct crap. The act of 2 people of the same sex having sex is wrong. I didnt say a thing about love and "attraction" in this case is talking about lust not love. There is a difference.
I said I wasnt talking about love but lust. But then again its typical for people to jump to a conclusion isnt it? Two people of the same sex can have sex but the fact that someone CAN do something doesnt mean it is right now does it? Whos stupid?
man, you're making yourself look all kinds of stupid. there's no "choosing" here. just like emma said, you couldn't just simply CHOOSE to never feel attraction to a woman again. it's just how people are born. there's no way it's "supposed to be." love is love, let it be.
Yes there is chosing just like you can chose not to kill someone when you feel like doing it. Your not born a murderer and decide its not your fault so you go with it. All kinds of stupid is falling into the false since of rightousness people put on being gay. Once again. I didnt say a thing about love.
of course you can choose whether or not to kill someone, but you can't choose who you're attracted to, bottom line. this video is about love between all sexes. it's about love between emma and daniel. you're pompous and need to step off your soap box and just let people love who they want to love.
If I were gay I would go straight for you, That sounds immature to say, but bare with me on this. I just mean some people are Emmalina-sexual. Daniel is one of those guys.
Speaking as a 6th year student in clinical psychology in canada: The majority of people show some level of physiological arousal to both sexes, and among humans exclusive responsiveness to only one sex (either the other or the same), is relatively uncommon. It is only that many people have never explored that aspect of their sexuality and if they are attracted to the opposite sex, then why explore that and subject themselves to ridicule? You and Daniel are in the majority :)
Yeah ill be honest, i dont really like the dress. The back is different and i like that, but other than that i just really dont like the dress! haha. Perhaps it just doesn't suit your petite figure?
I like the dress, but around the arms it looked a bit too big for you? And the length of the dress makes you look very tiny. As in short :)
And also, through the video there's a tag or something sticking out in front of your arm. What's that?
But I like the back a lot. And I definitely think you should keep the dress. Your butt and hips don't look big. It's just an Alice dress, that's all.(like the dress alice in wonderland wears, thinking of the disney version)
I don't see how being attracted to both men and women is different from being attracted to both blondes and brunettes.
There's always people that attract your partner and people that don't. But being attracted to someone isn't the same as being interested in the person. No matter what sexual preferences a person has.
Maybe someone should make a cartoon on the subject, to help those people understand
Ah and 'bout your dress, to be honest I like the open back and the top part but yeah the skirt somehow no it isn't very flattering. You have worn a lot of better things! But oh well not every thing of our clothes can be perfect :P
I'm bi too and I get what you mean. Sometimes they think because you're bi you will go after EVERYTHING. Like wth?! It's not like straight or gay people go after every one either. You can feel attracted or you don't seriously.. Haha and about some guys saying WHOOHOO lesbian action, haha I have gotten that comment too, I'm like.. oh god XD..
Glad someone in this world has a clue about the Bisexual sexuality.
The amount of times I've been called a closet gay is unbelievable. No, I came out about being Bi, so if I was Gay, I'd just come out about that too... O.o
The other thing that annoys me is that people call me GREEDY?! It's like, what!?
It's not like I have both at once.
Loving the fact you are back, Emmalina. Missed you loads. When I saw you make a video a few weeks back I pretty much jizzed myself.
i've heard the whole "greedy" thing a time or two also. seriously? i think they're just jealous because we're twice as likely to find a soulmate since we like both sexes. :]
well,yes!don't you ever miss sucking on some nice female boobs and stuff like that?and I mean that in all seriousness!what about daniel,doesn't he miss the feeling he gets when he holds another man's penis in his hands/mouth?this is a very serious question,I'm really curious about it,I don't mean no disrespect!
That's like asking a happily married straight man who's married to a small-breasted brunette if he misses the feel of his ex-girlfriend's bigger boobs or her soft blonde hair. It's a moot point if he's in love and satisfied with his wife.
there is a difference in pleasure from a man or a woman, at least for me, but if you're in a good, solid, trusting monogamous relationship, you're completely satisfied with your partner so it doesn't matter.
Thanks! Yeah I hate it...since being pregnant my weight is fluctuating a lot, it's so hard to buy new clothes because I have NO idea what size I am anymore. That dress is an AUS size 8 (US size 4) and it was almost too bloody small for me just two weeks ago!
you should like mix it up with a pop of color like hot pink or yellow or something funky that would be totally cute! and that sucks so bad! i can relate not with the baby part though ;) you could probably tailor it when you get to a more stable weight that way you dont have to worry! those dresses are amazing on days you feel bloated too ;p
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if a guy sucks a guys dick even once and it was on purpose without any gun at his head then he is a fag and it's that simple doesn't matter if he screws a thousand chicks a week he is still a poofy woofy lolol
This is great I am bisexual and my brother is too but my other brother makes fun of us and I think it's bullshit but I have no guts to tell anyone else this besides my brothers and the people of youtube!XD My brother that isn't bi thinks it's "fixable" and that you can change back but me and my other brother believe that once attracted to the same gender always attracted to the same gender. So this really helped, thanks:)
loveyacunts 1 day ago
Thank you. I'm bi guy and my girlfriend is bi(she's closeted though). And yeah people think I'm either straight or gay, except for like 3 close friends who actually understand. and yeah your relationship sounds really similar to mine. Gay guys who add me on facebook all the time think I'm going to cheat on my girlfriend for them or think I'm in denial and that I'm really gay so they have an excuse to convince me to leave my girlfriend. Shit gets old. Some people are just retarded.
ckinch 4 months ago
lol @ mardigra comment
its funny and your getting wound up by these ides because you do doubt them...?
Its funny if its norttaken that seriously...but to get emotional over concepts of what might be islike licking widows to see the sunshine
its kindofmessy and beautifalinstrange alurring way i knowbut also hello males are juvinaile...
why are you being suchapoo head?
very very mature.
short neck turtlegirl.
thats right i said it.
silverguy00 11 months ago
Love your hair in this one!
toodleynz 1 year ago
i really like your dress :)
happyrandom27 1 year ago
You kind of look like Lily from How I Met Your Mother. I love this video btw.
iBrendaaah 1 year ago
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News flash! Guys can not be gay, you either suck dick.. or you do not suck dick. There is no in between.
korleonis 1 year ago
it's just not natural, easy as that.
DennChooch 1 year ago
I don't get it,so all this because someone said something.people can say whatever they like.I think the question should be am I happy or no?
dwshiuani 1 year ago
I love how you say 'umm' haha :D
xSaltedTearx 1 year ago
I never understood the concept of bisexuality. Is it just attraction that determines it? I'm very attracted to women, more than men but I don't consider myself a bisexual. I'm in a long term relationship with a male and would never date a woman. It's just a confusing concept, because I think that every human is born potentially bisexual, and society forms your preference. But I'm sick of girls saying they're bi because they saw a picture of tits and thought it was nice, that's not bi to me.
happycamperyay 1 year ago
@happycamperyay It's not society that forms your preference, its you who form your preference. If you care what people think of you and getting rejected than your going to live a straight lifestyle, however that doesn't mean your straight. Your saying you have more attraction to women and not men, even though you only want to be with men, sounds like your defiantly bi, or possibly even gay. If a man is only attracted to other men, yet marries a woman would you consider that guy to be straight no
ckinch 4 months ago
@ckinch I'm not bisexual. Do I find women attractive? Absolutely, but the thought of being intimately involved with one doesn't even cross my mind. & actually your environment molds pretty much everything about you, its called social formation. And you took me the wrong way, women are more physically appealing to me, men more emotionally and personality wise. I never said men weren't attractive, women are just nicer to look at. I'd be fine saying i was gay, but I'm not.
happycamperyay 4 months ago
damn u spoke the truth its about time someone did
doosie125 1 year ago
damn u spoke the trith finally some one who did
doosie125 1 year ago
and i understand that cause ive been there , youre young right now and believe in alot of things you wil later come to reconsider... years from now, youll think of the woman who wrote you and told you of such things... ive admired your videos on and off for years and i think youre a unique woman with some kind of charisma ..youll find later in life that the competition thing gets boring and juvenille and hes still doing it..especially with bi men, and the abuse thing..learn from me
aliceinalaska 1 year ago
@aliceinalaska What?
Emmalina 1 year ago
you are crazy you are definetly speaking the truth
bird1917 1 year ago
Just a thought to throw out there. I"ve read that most women have bisexual tendencies whether they consider themselves bi, gay , or straight. And there's been some studies with men who claim to be bi and it turns out that less than 10% actually were, meaning they didn't prefer one sex so much greater than the other one.
revinevan87 2 years ago
Its because people are homophobic is the short answer, and ppl are afraid of something that they arent used to. I mean rewind bk to the 40s and 50s for a black person to be married to a white person that was unheard of and borderline illegal. Personally I think the F word (and im not talking about Fuck) should be illegal and if not then just viewed as the same way when someone says the N word i.e: disgusting. I mean seriously theyre Bi so what!? they're humans u guys didnt choose to be bi, ugh!!
EricTheGoth 2 years ago
I agree with you cuz I'm bi too and I feel like it's more accepted for a woman to be bi than a man and when a woman is bi or lesbian it's "sexy" but when a man is gay or bi he's a faggot or queer and that really pisses me off...
Sonni8089 2 years ago
I dig this vid, people judge way to often on sexuality and prefrence, ugh it sickens me sometimes how people "cant understand how you can be bisexual"
dude you love the person you love the person you love the Person.
I like your dress Btw very art deco ish <3
LovelessxXo 2 years ago
ha good video very good video :) im gay, i wish people would accept gays :(
jamierocksforlife 2 years ago
Nice video, good points in there my wife is bi and i'd have to say we are both pretty laidback people. I don't get it either y does a guy get the more negative reactions it seems idk.
elrondz 2 years ago
I adore the dress. Great video.
itstomtomtom 2 years ago
good vid. Great Dress.
sinfulkitten 2 years ago
YOU STATED IT CLEARLY!!!! GOOD VIDEO EMMA!!! I AGREE I hate when people state ignorant questions but most don't know and yes they need to RESPECT the 3rd sex!!! 5/5stars
davisfontanes 2 years ago 4
Hey, i'm new to watching your videos. (I hope that didn't sound like I am a stalker as I'm not.) I came across this one and instantly it interested me. I'm bisexual and i'm scared of that fact. I'm not sure why, I just feel insecure about it. Anyway, I just wanna say thanks. I know many people are bisexual, gay and all but this video really hit home. I liked it. A huge, huge thanks. xx
BabaeSexaeKelz11 2 years ago
when someone believes that being anything other than "straight" means that an individual is permiscuous, they're really just insecure and fearful of something unknown to them. this kind of centrism is basically misunderstanding via ignorance, and it transcends into sooo many other kinds of stubborn beliefs... racism, elitism, etc...
great video as usual.
thalkettoth 2 years ago
she looks awesome... dang..
HxCJohnny02 2 years ago
That dress is gorgeous on you, Em, I love it :)
Nayzara 2 years ago
Thats what I thought. Cant even respond to what I said. Just have to jump to petty insults. Really sad...
nodnarb101 2 years ago
What you said doesn't even qualify for a response. If you can't already see how stupid it is, you never will.
Emmalina 2 years ago
I have been in a relationship with my bisexual girlfriend for over 16yrs now. Im straight but we do have a little fun with other girls every once in a while. We both really enjoy it of course :-) I curious how you guys work around the sexual attraction without wanting to act one those urges. Or does having a kid ect make it not important anymore. Keep up the good work :-)
AlexisG73 2 years ago
Hey great video im not bi or anything but my friend is a bi-female(claims to be) and was having trouble with her new straight BF,because she makes out with chicks at parties every now and then. Kinda didnt seem like a huge deal to me because she makes out with her friends while drunk and at parties. But watching your video kinda gave me another perspective here on it. Thank you
I like the "he prefers me" line and I Love your videos.
justinspruiell 2 years ago
gonna clear this up I put claims to be because she may just be bi-curious but idk.
justinspruiell 2 years ago
keep convincing yourself abouth all this bs, i can understand when someone is gay (wrong pers in wrong gender) but someone who is Bi ? no i don't get that....
oejam 2 years ago
Being gay is not always being in the "wrong gender", so no, clearly you don't even understand that.
Emmalina 2 years ago
i never said when your gay you are the "wrong gender" but that there gender doesn't allwayscompare too how they feel they are in there mind
oejam 2 years ago
You're thinking of transgendered people. Homosexuals aren't always transgendered.
Emmalina 2 years ago
Therefore being Bi, Gay, Straight or whatever other grey matter mix of sexuallity will not dictate your faithfulness. When you love someone, you love that PERSON! NOT their genitalia. If I only loved genitallia then I would just buy a whole bunch of sex toys and skip all the work that goes into relationships. So, when I am in a relationship with either a male or a female, I am with them because you WHO they are, not whats in between their legs. PS, love the dress
mysweetpeapeagirl 2 years ago 5
I think your opinions are wonderful! I am in a commited relationship with a man as well, and both of us are Bisexual. I think it is utterly repugnant to judge a person on their sexuality or at all for that matter. I think that your gendure and sex have little to nothing to do with your habits and morals.
mysweetpeapeagirl 2 years ago
LOVE the dress. very 50's
MEEMER1214 2 years ago
Those men are perhaps, just more vocal about their opinions on bisexuality? (the rest of the population don't care--like it's normal now). The one thing I agree with, listening to your post, is ... kinda like.. The bigger picture of the bisexual monogamist relationship... Literally our of EVERYONE in the rest of the world.. both men and women.. you guys have chosen each other.. where as my brother in law chose my sister over all the women in the world..
Onnada 2 years ago
You accent is interesting. Are you from South Africa or UK?
misterwriter111 2 years ago
Australia lol
Emmalina 2 years ago
Thank you, thank you, thank you.
All I can hope, is that your words opened someone's eyes.
ibelongtothesea 2 years ago
You make so much sense! :) Gender and orientation (which are separate issues) should not be such big deals.
collylord 2 years ago 2
Awesome video :) I've been watching your videos since you started making video blogs. It's really interesting to watch someone elses life.
Keep it up!
xscene16 2 years ago
I like the dress, it looks cute on you! Maybe a chunky necklace to funk it up a bit??
bexstarnator 2 years ago
the dress is abit big under the armpits...maybe the next size down?
LittleMonster18 2 years ago
how about using those scarfs to cover your mouth because this was the biggest waste of time ive spent on the internet. if you didnt want criticism about your personal life DONT PUT IT OUT THERE!!!
sezyxz123 2 years ago
Why the fuck are you subscribed to me then?
Emmalina 2 years ago
wherever if somebody, (including me) says ur boyfriends its a fag. its cuz we are jeallous XP...(sorry for my bad english )
Frikicomputerwizard 2 years ago
Humans are bisexual by defaut. .. its just depeds about what way the person takes, some choose straight ,other homo, and othrs just stay being bisexuals.
Frikicomputerwizard 2 years ago
Very good points you made, being bi dosnt mean either of you are gonna run off with the same sex at a whim, like you said, you're in a commited relationship, you're attracted to eachother! you guys are great. You've found true love with eachother, have a gorgeous son, that's all that matters =)
dizzymiss1983 2 years ago
i agree ..love the dress. The neckline is really flattering!
MelunaMoonDancer 2 years ago
blah blah blah.......
So now that you two are married has he been with a guy since?
When you say you and your partner are bi-sexual now that you are married dont you make a committment to each other to stay faithful and care for each other? So therefore wouldnt you now be straight?
Unless you two have sexual relations with the same sex then what was the point of marriage?
AndoCranebrook 2 years ago
Ando: if you ask about Daniel, why not ask about Emma? Yes, marriage is that commitment. No that does not make you straight! If you are heterosexual and not in a relationship does that mean you are now celibate or asexual? The point of marriage is because you are attracted to another PERSON. your last comment doesn't make sense.
edaj84 2 years ago
i dont believe that is the point of marriage or an excuse to get married....
if either of you continued to have relations with anyone else then there was no point to your marriage, its the same with swingers, why bother getting married.
marriage is pointless unless you are committed to each other.
As for now being straight... i guess thats abit hard to judge, if someone was once gay then went straight would you now say they are bi for the rest of there life coz they were once gay? i wouldnt..
AndoCranebrook 2 years ago
they are committed to eachother, but they will always be bisexual. even if they never ever have sex with someone of the same sex again.
I would never say that someone who is gay can "go straight" they were either bi from the start, were never gay to start with, or are now bowing to societal pressures despite their true feelings.
edaj84 2 years ago
Like the other person said, your ideas on sexuality are completely wrong and twisted. Did I hear you just try to imply that sexuality is a choice? How the fuck can someone gay "go straight" unless they simply weren't gay to begin with or were actually bi all along? Do a bit of research because sexuality just doesn't work that way. Why the fuck do you have it in your head that we're having sexual relations with others? My main point in the video was that that's NOT what bisexuality is about.
Emmalina 2 years ago
Or maybe you just suck at grasping the concept of "sarcasm" and you took me seriously when I said "all bisexual people are sexually promiscuous". But that would make you a total dumb ass. Oh wait...
Emmalina 2 years ago
everyone has there own views on things...... i was questioning yours and you didnt like it so you have to criticise me....
Your a slut and your boyfriend is a fag. how about that for criticism
AndoCranebrook 2 years ago
You were asking questions that I answered very clearly in the video. Yeah yeah I'm a slut and my boyfriend's a fag and you're a complete fucking dumb ass. Go sit in the corner, dunce. How about that?
Emmalina 2 years ago
Fucking great reply, dear. His lack of knowledge about sexuality is somewhat infuriating.
mrquiet2009 2 years ago
Did you even WATCH the video? Of course Daniel hasn't been with a guy since, nor have I been with a girl. I said in the video several times that our relationship is monogamous and committed...but that doesn't change the fact that we both always have and always will felt attracted to both women and men. Just as a straight married man will continue being heterosexual and attracted to women in general (NOT NECESSARILY SLEEPING WITH THEM ALL), we will continue being bisexual.
Emmalina 2 years ago
I ♥ the dress!!
MexiRose 2 years ago
LOVE the dress. not everyone can pull it off, but i think your hair looks lovely with it! :)
respect9898 2 years ago
I like the dress it's cute! :D x
FayeLikesButter 2 years ago
I've given your situation some thought,Emmalina,and I've reached the natural conclusion:since you say that you're in a committed monogamous relationship and you have absolutely no intent to fool around,then the only reason why you still let people know about your bisexuality(note that i'm not denying it!) is to be more interesting to people!which works,by the way!also,I want to say that you're a cutie pie :)
iopih 2 years ago 3
As a straight woman well l say straight because l am sexually attracted to men but l do find woman sexy to look at well some anyway
some people would say l am bisexual because l look at some women but l am not sexually attracted to them l really fricken hate labels seriously
tinypuppies3 2 years ago
as a straight guy, I basically feel the same about some men who I would consider attractive and sexy, but I'm not interested in having sex with them
peacemonger1967 2 years ago
thats a great dress!!! LOVE the back :D
SofiasSecret 2 years ago
Wow... what a rant. Is Aunt Flo visiting this week?
cloudsifter11 2 years ago
@cloudsifter11 not cool.
KristenRhodesx 2 years ago
which is 'not cool-er' flipping the bird to everyone who visits your profile, or a one time comment on a video? What is your favorite color to dye your hair?
cloudsifter11 2 years ago
@cloudsifter11 bro, shush. Wut you said was not cool. & why are u asking me what wut my fav colour to dye my hair is :| ?
KristenRhodesx 2 years ago
I'm not your 'bro' and 'wut' YOU said isnt' even a word, yes, nor is 'not cool-er', i know. Congrats on the flipping the bird profile pick just getting changed on your page. And the reference to your favorite colour to dy your hair is from the words on your page where it says "i looooooove to dye my hair :) " as of the time I am writing this comment. Have a great day. :)
cloudsifter11 2 years ago
@cloudsifter11 dumbasss , EVERYONE SAYS BRO, YOU REALLY THINK ID CONSIDER U TO BE MY " BRO ".
idiot.
KristenRhodesx 2 years ago
you don't have to be menstruating to be annoyed at peoples' ignorance.
BenevolentLaughter 2 years ago
one person's ignorance could just be another persons not having a clue or 'ignorance' technically... but they might not intend offense.
cloudsifter11 2 years ago
well, you were being pretty rude there broski.
BenevolentLaughter 2 years ago
the dress is cute =)
leradio 2 years ago
Brilliant video and some good points.I think people have this preconceived idea that sexuality has some bearing on how you behave sexually, and its bollocks. Gay, straight or bi sexual, you will find the same behaviour traits...monogamous, open...promiscuous....reckless...etc...all those traits occur because of the person inside, not because of the sexual orientation.
Dress is very sexy....cutout in the back is great :D
herefordmsv 2 years ago
i completely agree. i am bisexual and catch the same shit. i've been involved with men and women both, and some of the relationships have not lasted because my significant other is so afraid that i'll cheat because i will "crave the other sex." like, really? i was completely faithful, they just had this preconceived paranoia about bisexuality. i was baffled.
BenevolentLaughter 2 years ago
i just see a person who can't make a choice
jvforever72 2 years ago
i just see a judgmental bigot
Emmalina 2 years ago
you should get hair extensions :)
MooLounge 2 years ago
What's the point, hair grows
Emmalina 2 years ago
No one should be judged on their sexuality. What counts is are you nice or nasty. You two come over as nice, so that's it.
derekcolman 2 years ago
wow....I never knew you were bi!
danovanw 2 years ago
Bisexual is just a fashion statment
thelawtman 2 years ago
Oh, please.
Emmalina 2 years ago
are you joking?
BenevolentLaughter 2 years ago
Emma commented that yes indeed it does appear that some people use it like that, because then guys will think it is "hot " and they might get to see some "lesbian action" . Bisexual is not a fashion statement, a choice, a decision, it just IS!
edaj84 2 years ago
i agree with u on the sexuality im not sure if i can agree with the neck thing b.c the cam isnt really angled at ur neck lol the dress is two damn cute its like an modern day i love lucy dress
sugarqueen23 2 years ago
Poor Emma, most folks turns into a 4 yrs old when talking about sexualities.
nice dress btw, quite sexy.
Zaku41k 2 years ago
For a girl to be bi is quite accepted, but when a guy smokes pole everyone knows that's just wrong. Having said that the fact that you are in an exclusive monogamous relationship makes the whole point moot. Your dress is quite cute on you.
Cheers
K
taskmaster58 2 years ago
how is a guy being bisexual "just wrong"? and no the point is not moot because both of them remain bisexual despite being in a heterosexual relationship.
edaj84 2 years ago
the dress is really cute on you!!! :) and ur baby is adorable
lmfaowtfinghell 2 years ago
Okay, so I agree with you about the whole bisexuality thing, but moving onto the dress! I like it. I understand how to feel self conscious wearing it because you think it makes your hips/ass look big, but the dress is made to poof out like that and anyone who sees you realizes that. It just looks like a cute dress. I love the back, and I truly do think it's very flattering. :)
tastic93 2 years ago
are either of you worried that when one of you is in your 40's and have 4 kids that either one of you might want to leave the other and pursue a relationship with the other sex?
goodwilltx 2 years ago 9
If we had any such concerns we wouldn't be starting a family and getting married in the first place.
Emmalina 2 years ago
@goodwilltx Oh by the way, I'm answering your questions but I'm certainly not granting them any validity or relevance.
Emmalina 2 years ago
thanks for your honesty. these questions were not meant to be offensive / disrespectful.
i genuinely appreciate your honesty, as i can understand how revealing and difficult they may have been to answer.
goodwilltx 2 years ago 9
did either of you lack a significant parental figure in your lives growing up?
goodwilltx 2 years ago 6
My parents have been happily married for around 27 years I believe. Daniel's parents were divorced when he was 5 years old and his mother moved interstate.
Emmalina 2 years ago
I don't understand why people fixate on these kind of "theories". My parents have been married for over 30 years and I am bisexual.
LiaRaye 2 years ago
i talked to dr. drew on the radio once and i asked him if he thought that my bisexuality had anything to do with the fact that i had an absent father much of my life (since that had been something that some of my friends/family had said about me), and he said that was exactly why i was bisexual. i was stunned. i've seen people like you and emma with happily married parents who are bisexual, so i couldn't believe he'd say that. even the experts are ignorant.
BenevolentLaughter 2 years ago
Maybe he isnt bi hes really gay but your so awesome there is no denying you!
I couldnt imagine being with you and missing a penis. I never understood wanting something you already have though either... Im happy with my penis why would I want someone elses lol
nodnarb101 2 years ago
this is an honest question and not just a stereotype. were either of you sexually molested growing up?
goodwilltx 2 years ago 11
I was actually, but it was well after I knew I was bisexual.
Emmalina 2 years ago
I love your dress emma :)
naomirue1 2 years ago
I love the dress! I think you definitely need a long chain or necklace or something to go with it though! It looks beautiful on you!
PS - People who have any kind of a problem with either your or Daniel's bisexuality aren't even worth the time it takes to type/ verbalize a response. Douchebags like that can fuck right the hell off and stop watching if they have SUCH a problem with it that they can't seem to wrap their pea-sized caveman brains around the concept!
conanobrienismyhero 2 years ago
I'm still bi-sexual, even though I can find guys more sexually attractive. When it comes to women, it takes a "special" type of woman to make me attracted to them. In terms of both physical appearance and personality.
If I was looking for promiscuous sex, it would be a guy everytime.
angelxsid 2 years ago
love the back of that dress it is so cute! is it eyelet?
whitneywoo1 2 years ago
I think being gay is wrong but I dont act or treat people that are gay horribly or different. Over all with everything I take the approach "Hate the sin not the sinner" point of view. You have the right to choose to be bi and I have the right to believe its wrong but that does not mean I hate you. Im sorry your being persecuted about it though and can understand how irritating it can be. The world sucks in general and its always going to be something hounding you. If it helps we love you :)
nodnarb101 2 years ago
Did you just call it a choice?
angelxsid 2 years ago 2
Yes, Yes I did. No one forces anyone to like one gender or the other. That includes me. I like women no one forced that on me.
nodnarb101 2 years ago
@nodnarb101 Oh, god. Do some research, kid. Sexual attraction is a biological thing. You're telling me you could choose to never feel sexual attraction to a woman ever again if you wanted to? HAHA.
Emmalina 2 years ago
Im not talking about love Im talking about lust. Homosexuality is a sin no matter how much everyone wants to sugar coat it or pull the politically correct crap. The act of 2 people of the same sex having sex is wrong. I didnt say a thing about love and "attraction" in this case is talking about lust not love. There is a difference.
nodnarb101 2 years ago
Are you trying to imply that two people of the same sex cannot fall in love? Only lust?
Oh wait, you just used the word "sin" to describe homosexuality so you WOULD be that stupid.
Emmalina 2 years ago
I said I wasnt talking about love but lust. But then again its typical for people to jump to a conclusion isnt it? Two people of the same sex can have sex but the fact that someone CAN do something doesnt mean it is right now does it? Whos stupid?
nodnarb101 2 years ago
man, you're making yourself look all kinds of stupid. there's no "choosing" here. just like emma said, you couldn't just simply CHOOSE to never feel attraction to a woman again. it's just how people are born. there's no way it's "supposed to be." love is love, let it be.
BenevolentLaughter 2 years ago
Yes there is chosing just like you can chose not to kill someone when you feel like doing it. Your not born a murderer and decide its not your fault so you go with it. All kinds of stupid is falling into the false since of rightousness people put on being gay. Once again. I didnt say a thing about love.
nodnarb101 2 years ago
of course you can choose whether or not to kill someone, but you can't choose who you're attracted to, bottom line. this video is about love between all sexes. it's about love between emma and daniel. you're pompous and need to step off your soap box and just let people love who they want to love.
BenevolentLaughter 2 years ago
If I were gay I would go straight for you, That sounds immature to say, but bare with me on this. I just mean some people are Emmalina-sexual. Daniel is one of those guys.
fireman3955 2 years ago
Speaking as a 6th year student in clinical psychology in canada: The majority of people show some level of physiological arousal to both sexes, and among humans exclusive responsiveness to only one sex (either the other or the same), is relatively uncommon. It is only that many people have never explored that aspect of their sexuality and if they are attracted to the opposite sex, then why explore that and subject themselves to ridicule? You and Daniel are in the majority :)
squirrelywrath2 2 years ago 6
Very well put. :)
conanobrienismyhero 2 years ago
i agree with you on this matter... you look really good in black :)
realtruthfakelies 2 years ago
what a Crazy world we live in
llollipop0 2 years ago
i love the dress :3
you look so pretty in this video ^___^
and i so agree on your views on bisexuality.
sundaybug 2 years ago
Don't listen to the others. You look really sexy in that dress. ;)
mistaspot1 2 years ago
I did not know that you were bi-sexual. UNSUBSCRIBES! Just kidding = )
- Paul Seveng
7seveng7 2 years ago
i have a short neck too :(
emosareghey 2 years ago
i agree but i think the difference is being bi is sort of a feminine thing i guess.
gatorburn 2 years ago
I think that dress looks great on you.
CrazyWyatt 2 years ago
Yeah ill be honest, i dont really like the dress. The back is different and i like that, but other than that i just really dont like the dress! haha. Perhaps it just doesn't suit your petite figure?
LaPistolerina 2 years ago
^^ ok i hope i didn't sound too bitchy there!!
LaPistolerina 2 years ago
I like the dress, but around the arms it looked a bit too big for you? And the length of the dress makes you look very tiny. As in short :)
And also, through the video there's a tag or something sticking out in front of your arm. What's that?
But I like the back a lot. And I definitely think you should keep the dress. Your butt and hips don't look big. It's just an Alice dress, that's all.(like the dress alice in wonderland wears, thinking of the disney version)
Saxkrig 2 years ago
I think you have a fly on your top lip.
joyproductionsbabeh 2 years ago
Wow, people must be really stupid.
I don't see how being attracted to both men and women is different from being attracted to both blondes and brunettes.
There's always people that attract your partner and people that don't. But being attracted to someone isn't the same as being interested in the person. No matter what sexual preferences a person has.
Maybe someone should make a cartoon on the subject, to help those people understand
Saxkrig 2 years ago 2
Ah and 'bout your dress, to be honest I like the open back and the top part but yeah the skirt somehow no it isn't very flattering. You have worn a lot of better things! But oh well not every thing of our clothes can be perfect :P
Justifymeans 2 years ago
I'm bi too and I get what you mean. Sometimes they think because you're bi you will go after EVERYTHING. Like wth?! It's not like straight or gay people go after every one either. You can feel attracted or you don't seriously.. Haha and about some guys saying WHOOHOO lesbian action, haha I have gotten that comment too, I'm like.. oh god XD..
Justifymeans 2 years ago
I LOVE the dress, and I think you're all around beautiful!
Thank you so much for this video.
vallywoot 2 years ago
BIG UP THE BI'S!
Glad someone in this world has a clue about the Bisexual sexuality.
The amount of times I've been called a closet gay is unbelievable. No, I came out about being Bi, so if I was Gay, I'd just come out about that too... O.o
The other thing that annoys me is that people call me GREEDY?! It's like, what!?
It's not like I have both at once.
Loving the fact you are back, Emmalina. Missed you loads. When I saw you make a video a few weeks back I pretty much jizzed myself.
R1kk1 2 years ago 2
i've heard the whole "greedy" thing a time or two also. seriously? i think they're just jealous because we're twice as likely to find a soulmate since we like both sexes. :]
BenevolentLaughter 2 years ago
The whole discussion is a moot point. He is married to the hotness that is Emmalina.
IWannabeJew 2 years ago
@IWannabeJew All that means is he has to wear thongs in the shower.
joyproductionsbabeh 2 years ago
aren't you and daniel afraid that at some point you're gonna miss having gay sex?I mean it's different than straight sex,right?
iopih 2 years ago
was I supposed to say "different from"?or is "different than"alright?
iopih 2 years ago
If either of us were concerned that we would feel that way, we would not have had a child or gotten engaged with each other.
Emmalina 2 years ago
...After ALL that ranting in my video, this is the comment you give me. :|
Emmalina 2 years ago
well,yes!don't you ever miss sucking on some nice female boobs and stuff like that?and I mean that in all seriousness!what about daniel,doesn't he miss the feeling he gets when he holds another man's penis in his hands/mouth?this is a very serious question,I'm really curious about it,I don't mean no disrespect!
iopih 2 years ago
is "I don't mean no disrespect"correct,or is it "I don't mean any disrespect"?
iopih 2 years ago
That's like asking a happily married straight man who's married to a small-breasted brunette if he misses the feel of his ex-girlfriend's bigger boobs or her soft blonde hair. It's a moot point if he's in love and satisfied with his wife.
Emmalina 2 years ago
I bet he still misses them boobies though.
joyproductionsbabeh 2 years ago
there is a difference in pleasure from a man or a woman, at least for me, but if you're in a good, solid, trusting monogamous relationship, you're completely satisfied with your partner so it doesn't matter.
BenevolentLaughter 2 years ago
There's a lot more complexity to human sexuality
than most people are aware of.
Since I'm hetero I'll will say it is a very nice dress
and looks good on you.
tyrbolo 2 years ago 2
i love the dress but it's a bit big around your breasts.
and i love daniel. sorry people are being judgemental, he's a great father and his sexuality (nor yours) shouldn't even be a big deal, i think. :)
tinythechick 2 years ago
very cute! but i think you should get a smaller size because its big on you!
neanieboo 2 years ago
Thanks! Yeah I hate it...since being pregnant my weight is fluctuating a lot, it's so hard to buy new clothes because I have NO idea what size I am anymore. That dress is an AUS size 8 (US size 4) and it was almost too bloody small for me just two weeks ago!
Emmalina 2 years ago
you should like mix it up with a pop of color like hot pink or yellow or something funky that would be totally cute! and that sucks so bad! i can relate not with the baby part though ;) you could probably tailor it when you get to a more stable weight that way you dont have to worry! those dresses are amazing on days you feel bloated too ;p
neanieboo 2 years ago
I've got annoyed by people asking you those stupid questions on formspring as well... people are iiiiiidiots!!! Seriously.
Also, your hair looks AWESOME at the moment and I absolutely love that dress. I'd totally wear that haha. :)
karawr89 2 years ago
This comment has received too many negative votes show
if a guy sucks a guys dick even once and it was on purpose without any gun at his head then he is a fag and it's that simple doesn't matter if he screws a thousand chicks a week he is still a poofy woofy lolol
PantslessNinja 2 years ago
lol @ "on purpose", like someone might accidentally suck a dick
Emmalina 2 years ago
lmao
Passion4Pregnancy 2 years ago
your boyfriend turned u gay emma
wilbyd 2 years ago
she came out as bisexual wayyyyyyyyy before she met daniel.
BenevolentLaughter 2 years ago