End of the year engagements or NOT!!!!! Advices from the Soulmate Guy

[jassydevil]

so, I have a question about this - what happens when I've already 'created the space' for the proposal but am still waiting? and it's not like I didn't give it long enough - it's been almost a year now! I'm at the point where I want to ask myself, but I don't want to ask cause I'd feel like he wouldn't have married me if I didn't ask and I want him to ask me... what a messed up loop I've got going here...

[66kompis]

Bring up the subject of life together.. your future plans projects?....move in together,buy a house,have children etc talk about these things to see if you guys are on the same page....He might just wait for the moment......i have a friend who waited for the proposal for 3 yrs...she eventually ended the relationship after realising they where not on the same page.

Just make sure you're on the same page as far as having a future together,children and other projects...good luck

[jassydevil]

lol - already done all those things. I have even moved to Switzerland from Australia to live with him. There is nothing else in the above that I haven't done lol. He's just a typical conservative swiss, but if he doesn't act soon I will be gone, cause I won't be allowed to stay in Switzerland any longer if we aren't married.

[hedonistic2008]

Right, there is always someone better.

[11moonelf]

That's great for applying to other areas of life, too. What a wonderful testimony + I've been experiencing that every material/physical thing is Mind. He just gave yet another example of this & how well that paradigm can work! Thanks, Lilou!

[Vinaysananda]

You could also change your beliefs and perceptions about being single. You could enjoy being single, reflect on the positive side of being single and feel good about the great opportunities you still have while being single.

Most of us get attached to a certain group of people, locations or events....If these feelings of attachments don't serve is, then we can dissociate ourselves from these certain people, locations or events.

And focus on people whom we really like and who really like us.