Hey you guys I really like y'all videos! I have some thing to say and I hope you guys don't get offended( plus I'm not those preachy kinda people), but colored contacts aren't really allowed, cause it changes the color of your natural eyes which you born with and what Allah swt gave you, and so I just wanted to tell you guys. Well it's your choice if you want to wear them or not.
@HijabiBengaliSisters can't you get clear contacts? my friend uses them for her vision and they make her eyes look completely natural. and sooo you wont be changing your appearance but getting the same effect.
Someone needs to say it, cos most people wouldn't want to say it to someone whos 'depressed' cos they're afraid that their words might hurt them. So I think it was necessary to hear it from someone. Everyone gets depressed at some point, some people are able to move on, but others just stay at that point cos they don't have that will to move on. Obviously being clinically depressed is another thing.
@HijabiBengaliSisters no i i agree with you i dont find any reasn why any one would want to cut their body but someone who is really importent to me went through depression and i was with them the whole time and i know what they went through and why they hurted their selves and they felt like they had no choice and hated their life and he had many other option to get out of depression but he realized it later
@nusrat1221 Aw. Well..I had many many friends, not just one, who cut themselves. Yeah..it was very painful seeing them go through that. I wish I could have just given them my wrist to cut on instead of theirs..I didn't like them going through the pain :/
At the end of the vid I said:"Making this video funny isn't to offend anyone, it's just I find it funny that people don't take their life seriously"...cause when they do a foolish act like that, not only are they hurting themselves but people around them. Of course, clinically, it's serious, but at least you're getting help, right? I'm not saying to just get over it, I'm saying to take action and do something about it other than hurting yourself, that's it:) -Mo
@TheMimi90s Hahahaha omg, thank you, i guess? Honestly, I can actually go for the megan fox/kim kardashian/nicole schwarzenegger look when I don't have my hijab on haha
Although you make some good points, but you are dismissing the fact that clinical depression is a mental illness. Telling someone who is depressed to use their common sense and not cut or not die is actually counteractive. People who suffer from clinical depression, like all mental illnesses, cannot just snap out of it or "grow up". A friend can help someone suffering from depression by taking them to a mental health professional or at the very least an imam. Nevertheless, thanks for about this.
@quermit92 Oh yeah, of course, those are exceptions. When it's really serious and medical, but they should get help..Killing themselves is not the solution.
Of course committing suicide or self-harm are not solutions, but people who actually take those measures need to get professional help. Talking to an imam or a religious figure can help bring in some much needed insight. The word depression gets thrown around so loosely these days that people forget that it is an illness and not part of the norm. Chemical imbalances take place in the brain as one feels more depressed. Feeling down and being depressed are two different things.
people dont choose to be depressed. depression is a illness and isnt something you can just tell someone "oh get over yourslef". So dont say "i laught at people like that" im not trying ti be rude but cmon, you over the top
@lekii0h Didn't you hear the last part? I said "It's not to be funny, I just find it funny how some people don't take their life seriously" cause killing oneself effects everyone around you..not just yourself. I didn't say "get over yourself" I said, get help, and do things to help you get over it.
@HijabiBengaliSisters @ 2:18 you say "i honestly laugh at people like that" also in the intro you are clearly making fun of ppl cutting themselves when you "act" like u r cutting yourslef with a knife. I dont think u understand my point tho. People that are depressed dont want to be depressed, they dont choose to. so its not just a thing where u tell them in a vid "stop cutting yourslef". its deeper than that.
@lekii0h Okay, but why then ignore the end? And yes, depression is uncontrollable, thats why I say do something about it than hurting yourself. You're missing the bigger picture, than just picking out the small things.
@lekii0h bcoz people like that dont deserve any sympathy.. they shuld suck it up and look at all those people with chrinic illnesses in palliative care and hospitals..those people who have lost children, those people suffering in the war, those people seeing people murdered before their eyes..do something with your life and lift yourself up to help others more i nneed of you..there are always people less fortunate then you LOOK AT THEM AND BE GREATFUL!
Assalamu Alaikum Monika, I lovee your vids! I feel a deep connection with you and agree with almost everything you say (with the exception of you claiming that light-skinned desis are prettier than darker ones, LOL) but hon, you don't need colored contacts! You look better without them! I don't know why so many girls want to alter what Allah SAW gave them naturally...especially when their natural beauty is as stunning as yours! <3
I thought i never knew any muslim girls who self harmed but once i was in a lesson and my two muslim hijabi close friends told me they cut themselves, i was unbelievably surprised. I was very ignorant and thought it was just an 'emo' thing. Depression is a very sad illness and may Allah help anyone who suffers from this. Don't ever start- i know it will become addictive and look after your bodies people :)
it is good that you have put a video up like this as this may help people. you guys are awesome... carry on making inspiring videos. also if i was you just be yourself... i don't know what i have written and i dont know whether it make sense but yeah. *confused face* you guys are inspiring
LOL what the hell.. i saw you on someone's wall once saying something about how you're a better rapper back when you didn't wear a hijab.
sleepygoldfishy 1 month ago
@sleepygoldfishy Oh yeah, when i use to rap more often. Haha. Its like as if ima beginner again cause i haven't rapped forever.
HijabiBengaliSisters 1 month ago
I want your rap/poem! Can you please message me the words? Pretty please? I love it. (:
KairaOwl 1 month ago
Do you wear blue contacts?
dardarbinx07 1 month ago
assalamualikum
allah bless us with patience and peace to all the people
...........
sunnyrao2003 1 month ago
DO YOU WEAR CONTACT LENSES ?
deskomafia 1 month ago
Hey you guys I really like y'all videos! I have some thing to say and I hope you guys don't get offended( plus I'm not those preachy kinda people), but colored contacts aren't really allowed, cause it changes the color of your natural eyes which you born with and what Allah swt gave you, and so I just wanted to tell you guys. Well it's your choice if you want to wear them or not.
lindafish123 1 month ago 4
@lindafish123 I don't wear lenses just to wear it. I need it for my eye sight, but i don't wear it often.
HijabiBengaliSisters 1 month ago
@HijabiBengaliSisters can't you get clear contacts? my friend uses them for her vision and they make her eyes look completely natural. and sooo you wont be changing your appearance but getting the same effect.
mariamhmhA 1 month ago in playlist More videos from HijabiBengaliSisters
You're words are true,
Someone needs to say it, cos most people wouldn't want to say it to someone whos 'depressed' cos they're afraid that their words might hurt them. So I think it was necessary to hear it from someone. Everyone gets depressed at some point, some people are able to move on, but others just stay at that point cos they don't have that will to move on. Obviously being clinically depressed is another thing.
4062hunni 1 month ago
i loved the vid mo! : ) Hey and what color are your eyes?
MegaChitea 1 month ago
usually i love all your videos becuz they are helpfull and funny but i m sorry this was more offending then help full this can hurt others feeling
nusrat1221 1 month ago
@nusrat1221 ...the ending explains what message I was trying to portray.
HijabiBengaliSisters 1 month ago
@HijabiBengaliSisters i am sorry if i hurt your feeling but the first part with the knife really upset me and offended me
nusrat1221 1 month ago
@nusrat1221 Um..lemme ask you this..do you..do that?
HijabiBengaliSisters 1 month ago
@HijabiBengaliSisters no i i agree with you i dont find any reasn why any one would want to cut their body but someone who is really importent to me went through depression and i was with them the whole time and i know what they went through and why they hurted their selves and they felt like they had no choice and hated their life and he had many other option to get out of depression but he realized it later
nusrat1221 1 month ago
@nusrat1221 Aw. Well..I had many many friends, not just one, who cut themselves. Yeah..it was very painful seeing them go through that. I wish I could have just given them my wrist to cut on instead of theirs..I didn't like them going through the pain :/
HijabiBengaliSisters 1 month ago
your so beautiful girl ! i love your eyes ! ↨♥♥♥
misstierrastorms 1 month ago
mashAllah keep it up!
pinkrose101s 1 month ago
assalamu aleykum sweet sis :) mashallah you are so sweet and pretty... but is this your real eyecolour ?
journeytopeace 1 month ago
At the end of the vid I said:"Making this video funny isn't to offend anyone, it's just I find it funny that people don't take their life seriously"...cause when they do a foolish act like that, not only are they hurting themselves but people around them. Of course, clinically, it's serious, but at least you're getting help, right? I'm not saying to just get over it, I'm saying to take action and do something about it other than hurting yourself, that's it:) -Mo
HijabiBengaliSisters 1 month ago 6
@HijabiBengaliSisters where do you live? Im in Detroit on the west side, bordering Dearborn...
11miwp 1 month ago
There's always hope to keep living :)
AquaBluePrincess 1 month ago
u luk like 1 of my m8s at wrk lool
But im in d uk so defo not u....
wkdnas 1 month ago
halal part in the beginning made me laugh lol
I have OCD and get mad instantly so my depression/anger/frustration usually affects other people :(
MariyaVolkova75 1 month ago
those are some heavvvy lyrics.
icsdhd609 1 month ago
@icsdhd609 Thanks ;D
HijabiBengaliSisters 1 month ago
I liked your rap. I'm glad your back. By the way which part of Bangladesh are from?
simplegirl206 1 month ago
you kinda look like megan fox
TheMimi90s 1 month ago
@TheMimi90s Hahahaha omg, thank you, i guess? Honestly, I can actually go for the megan fox/kim kardashian/nicole schwarzenegger look when I don't have my hijab on haha
HijabiBengaliSisters 1 month ago
Although you make some good points, but you are dismissing the fact that clinical depression is a mental illness. Telling someone who is depressed to use their common sense and not cut or not die is actually counteractive. People who suffer from clinical depression, like all mental illnesses, cannot just snap out of it or "grow up". A friend can help someone suffering from depression by taking them to a mental health professional or at the very least an imam. Nevertheless, thanks for about this.
quermit92 1 month ago 2
@quermit92 thanks for posting about this issue*
quermit92 1 month ago
@quermit92 Oh yeah, of course, those are exceptions. When it's really serious and medical, but they should get help..Killing themselves is not the solution.
HijabiBengaliSisters 1 month ago
Of course committing suicide or self-harm are not solutions, but people who actually take those measures need to get professional help. Talking to an imam or a religious figure can help bring in some much needed insight. The word depression gets thrown around so loosely these days that people forget that it is an illness and not part of the norm. Chemical imbalances take place in the brain as one feels more depressed. Feeling down and being depressed are two different things.
quermit92 1 month ago
people dont choose to be depressed. depression is a illness and isnt something you can just tell someone "oh get over yourslef". So dont say "i laught at people like that" im not trying ti be rude but cmon, you over the top
lekii0h 1 month ago
@lekii0h Didn't you hear the last part? I said "It's not to be funny, I just find it funny how some people don't take their life seriously" cause killing oneself effects everyone around you..not just yourself. I didn't say "get over yourself" I said, get help, and do things to help you get over it.
HijabiBengaliSisters 1 month ago
@HijabiBengaliSisters @ 2:18 you say "i honestly laugh at people like that" also in the intro you are clearly making fun of ppl cutting themselves when you "act" like u r cutting yourslef with a knife. I dont think u understand my point tho. People that are depressed dont want to be depressed, they dont choose to. so its not just a thing where u tell them in a vid "stop cutting yourslef". its deeper than that.
lekii0h 1 month ago
@lekii0h Okay, but why then ignore the end? And yes, depression is uncontrollable, thats why I say do something about it than hurting yourself. You're missing the bigger picture, than just picking out the small things.
HijabiBengaliSisters 1 month ago
@HijabiBengaliSisters i get what your trying to do but i guess i disagree with the way u did it. nevertheless appreciate you trying
lekii0h 1 month ago
@lekii0h bcoz people like that dont deserve any sympathy.. they shuld suck it up and look at all those people with chrinic illnesses in palliative care and hospitals..those people who have lost children, those people suffering in the war, those people seeing people murdered before their eyes..do something with your life and lift yourself up to help others more i nneed of you..there are always people less fortunate then you LOOK AT THEM AND BE GREATFUL!
Serahxx20 1 month ago
Assalamu Alaikum Monika, I lovee your vids! I feel a deep connection with you and agree with almost everything you say (with the exception of you claiming that light-skinned desis are prettier than darker ones, LOL) but hon, you don't need colored contacts! You look better without them! I don't know why so many girls want to alter what Allah SAW gave them naturally...especially when their natural beauty is as stunning as yours! <3
thisisrandom786 1 month ago
I thought i never knew any muslim girls who self harmed but once i was in a lesson and my two muslim hijabi close friends told me they cut themselves, i was unbelievably surprised. I was very ignorant and thought it was just an 'emo' thing. Depression is a very sad illness and may Allah help anyone who suffers from this. Don't ever start- i know it will become addictive and look after your bodies people :)
banandababa 1 month ago
it is good that you have put a video up like this as this may help people. you guys are awesome... carry on making inspiring videos. also if i was you just be yourself... i don't know what i have written and i dont know whether it make sense but yeah. *confused face* you guys are inspiring
NazifaAli95 1 month ago