all my life ive been bullied (im in 7th grade now) even as young as 3rd grade i had suicidal thoughts and even attempts.I have lots more friends now but i still got bullies out there.However the result of all this bullies made me very unsocial.i remember in 4th in 5th grade i barely even talked.Im catholic and id rather take the risk of going to hell then to live a life not worth living.
P.S If i didnt have the friends i have now i would be dead already.Friends are the key.
im in 8th grade n im 13 till dis day im still bullied i been bullied for 9 yrs n its just so sad ): i nvr knw wat to do... mhy school all they say is try to work it out... ya knw its just sad seeing all these ppl hurt from being bullied... when i am bullied im in pain n im hurtin... n its sad tht ppl committ sucide bc of it....
@just4u910 have your parents taken any action? hmm i understand how you feel. talk to your DARE officer..counselor..or teacher...about whats going on. i hope that you dont become depressed ok. i will pray for ya...let someone know how u feel..as for the bullies..go to the police if necessary..avoid them if possible or try to have someone intervene with a solution and consequences if they continue
@chrisbrown205 see i live with mhy grandma n um yeh she has... n i try to tlk to ppl but ppl nvr listen to meh... n believe meh i hope for the same! and awe well thank yuh for havein meh in ur thoughts and thnx for all da advice!
suicide is not homicide. But it is a proven and well known theory that a huge percentage of suicide is under social cause. if one has to much social intergration or to little (as shown with bullying) in sociatal groups it influences there chance of suicide. To an 11 year old situations like other children at school an 11 year old its a huge deal! Ithrough their eyes the place they spend most days, to get up and face being bullyed at what seems to them hell is merly impossible sometimes.
Where's the proximate cause? Suicide is by definition of the elements not homocide. You can't force someone to make the most personal decision of their lives. You can't cause suicides. Bullying is not a serious problem. If parents would disipline.
im bullied and once one of those biches come into my face its over im kicking there ass im fucking them up and its 2 stupid ass motherfuckers 1 is named Luther a skinny ass nigga and the other Devon a homosexual motherfucker i don't give a dam about my spelling im to pissed im fucking them both up once they come into my face with shit.
heres what i did back then i got bullied for a month scence the first day of school.i asked my dad if i could start taking taekwondo classes.i did and who ever bullied me or attacked me i would kick there ass.after that no one would ever think about bullying me ever agian.im not saying every kid should but this is what i did back then.
great vid.I think this kid whent to heaven.he was dealing with pain and he couldn't help it.I get bullied slot cuz I'm bi but I just tell em to shut the fuck up cuz thers no point to it
I was bullied once... but i learned it's best not to take their crap- suicide is NOT a way out... I mean, if you kill yourself, you can never, ever come back.
yheaa i was bullied and I know how it much hurts and I was very suicidal back then but I had support, I had options. most people don't get that chance. I pray everyday about this issue. and how most peple overlook the situation and don't do anything about it. nobody really knows where this kid will spend eternity . it is between him and jesus.
yo i was bullied trust me suicide it's not right choice sometime parents think they no wat's going on i would say make it better 4 him nd stand up 4 the kid
YES finaly someoen pointed out that the point of ppl saying ppl who take there lifes go to hell it is not true i think it all depends on wh you did it this boy DID NOTHING to desever it
Bullying, in my perspective, is a form of empowerment for the bullies. They want to make themselves feel better about themselves so bully before they are bullied.
I think every bully deserives karma, they keep fucking and fucking with a kid until one brings a gun to school and shoots the place up, the kids not crazy, just fed up
@TheMrburningdog25 The problem with that sort of justice, is that innocent kids might get hurt, too. Also, I think that bystanders need to realize they have the power to stop bullies and even chase them away. But the problem is that bullies do their dirty deeds when the victim is alone, in a secluded place or when a teacher is away or not paying attention. Bullies, rapists, thieves all do their mischief very secretly - it's actually quiet clever; it's evil, but clever.
Once people in high school have there opinion of you there is nothing the schools can do about it all you can do is suck it up and deal with it its not worth rolling the dice of eternity what id your wrong then you will burn in a pit forever just because you could not deal with people making fun of you
Its a sad thing indeed when anyone ends their life. It is done usually cause it feels that is the only way out and the emotional pain that they have can only be ended in the short physical pain they are about to inflict on themselves..but it is because they are weak..and they are weak because the adults in their life did not instill a sense of strength to overcome senseless bullying.
As well bullied victims never get a chance to see the bigger picture because of this weakness and it is so sad.
@jdo2384 I dont think people are weak intentionally...put yourself in their shoes...if you can before calling them weak..people only think about the options that are best at the moment...
The ending to the story of Carl Hoover (the kid who commited suicide) would have also been the ending to my life if it were not for home-schooling. R.I.P. Carl. I burst out tears as soon as I saw the news. Carl is now in Heaven with God, where no one can bully him.
knowlenge , support , school and partner awaresness , laws to make teachers responsable . kids need to know the damage they to to other kids . has a teen i had three oe four sucide attemits to exsape that harsh reality .
For 4 years, I was bullied everyday. I am STILL getting bullied, simply because i'm an emo. I admit that I have thought about suicide and I have attempted suicide on a number of occasions
I think the boy did what he had to do, God bless his soul for eternity
@rachelshephard im glad you are steal around...lets keep in touch...dont take your life please....have you sought help for bullying...please let someone know
Just DON'T SUICIDE!!! I don't get how people can suicide, don't you have an imagination of your future life, don't you have desire? Seriously i would never ever ever suicide. Theres just way more stuff in life that i haven't experienced that i would love to and to be honest i'm scared about it, i can't do it. I do have alot of mental thoughs of such things as after life. Because i am catholic and i believe in everything in the Bible.
But when the person gets angry about it, it's more fun for me to keep on going. When he ignores me i just stop, and that's what you people who are being bullied should do.
I rarely get physical, can't remember last time but i do have anger problems with such things and i use verbal language instead of anything physical but ye i never get physical about it. Like i said me and my mates just have a laugh about it.
@chrisbrown205 LOL no trust me man, around here that's how we have fun bro. Friends are like families, so we never hurt eachother, we have fun doing all that shit, and we're always there for eachother and it is actually amusing, cause even they find it funny. Maybe in your country, during your childhood that hurt other people's feelings but up here its natural, people do it to me and i find it amusing.
Just get up and try to find other people that are "friendly" Just ingore those guys, it's better if you ignore them, just act like you don't care thats what i did and trust me eventually they will get bored and stop. Don't cry or anything in front of them because they will find it more hilarious and keep going.
But up here i just joke around with my friends, i consider myself a tiny bit of a bully, i just tease my friends, but nothing personal we laugh about it
@chrisbrown205 Well if people cannot control their emotions, then that's too bad, and children should be raised properly by their parents to understand the choice of power. When i was a kid, i had been trained by my dad hardcore, but when it came to fights, i always turn away because i have self control and is able to hold my anger and tensions towards the guy very quickly.
@GoDxDeSiGNs im referring to choldren not being able to control their emotions...when i have kids..i will allow them to express how they feell but in a respectful matter...i know some families who dont allow their kids react...or express..keepin it bottled up doesnt help
@chrisbrown205 That's what's wrong with the youth, they grow up with the TVs, vid games, internet and they hardly spend any time with their dad, reading, actually doing something useful.
@GoDxDeSiGNs I guess mild teasing among good friends, as long as it doesn't hurt the other person mentally or physically is not bad. I mean, you don't have to walk on eggshells with true friends, as long as they understand you mean no harm, I suppose.
But teasing or making fun of someone who is not a friend, that can lead to disaster or at least a very awkward situation.
Man i'm 17, but was rarely, rarely bullied. Just in around Year 4, year 5, i got bullied a bit. To be honest it didn't hurt at all, i didn't give a damn, i just ingored them and kept walking. But i know that in America they do horrible stuff but up here in Sydney, Australia idk not much happens. Mostly cyber bullying but i never got into that.
Even though i don't understand this stuff much. i'll just say a few words:
Man, I agree in everything you said. I was myself bullyied almost until high school, that was when my life started to turn around. But I can see myself in the things you said like "taking shortcuts" and the talk about the suicide itself.
You seem like a great person and I wish you the best.
well for the people who say people who commit suicide go to hell..mmm..its more like they have been through hell already...hell and heaven is a state of mind...if you can read through the symbolism....I think family plays a very important part...I was bullied...been called lesbian...but I knew that people only talk shit about others because they feel small and insecure....and want status...n I was taught not to care about what people thought of me...kids just don't have respect...too big headed.
you know what, if you were caught in the middle of this bullshits i canTELL YOU ONE THING fightback and fighting back musnt be face to face confrontation!!! poison them witheveryone around you...
you need to fight, when i was bullied in school people thought i was gay or wierd because i liked cats and was quite, so i was tired of it and i just started fighting everybody who made fun of me i got beat up the first three times but i got better and i started beating that ass then people wouldnt mess with me as much and they asked me why do you fight and i told them beacuse people mistaked my kindness for weakness i didnt want to fight i just wanted not to be bullied and thats where it ended
my closest friend grew up in the same town and there are a lot of kids in that town that are the same and for 6 and 1/2 years she would normaly go home crying after school.
I was bullied too, but I made it out of that hole. But I never stopped letting my guard down even after graduating high school, because some students still do that even in college. I can never be too careful these days because they still do that crap. But I won't give in, I won't.
TY for this post...you are very insightful for your age and we need more young people like you to speak out and "kick us in the butt" to stop being so lazy and complacent when witnessing injustices of any kind...For the rest of us? Step it up, folks! We ALL can do better...God is LOVE...not some-times under certain circumstances, but ALL THE TIME IN ALL CIRCUMSTANCES!!! Judging others is "so last century..." Blessings to ALL!
Hopefully, the school systems across America will learn some thing from this situation to improve their bullies policies on a local level...THis remind of the fact, teachers have very difficult jobs.
Some bullies don't have hearts. It's a lot better to stand up to them. And if this kid had taken martial arts he would have gotten self esteem so he wouldn't have felt the need to commit suicide.
Martial arts isn't about violence. It's about self-control and self esteem. But if you're asking me whether or not it would have been better for that kid to have gotten "violent" with the bullies who were tormenting him instead of killing himself the answer is yes.
thank you for your words... i have gone what this kid has gone through as a child... i was bullied constantly, and i have actually tried to commit suicide. even though he knew people like his mother loved him, he may not have felt she understood what he was going through. people say, 'well I was bullied, that did not make me KILL myself'. he may have suffered from depression due to his mother's breast cancer (even though she's survived).
he may have had an ultimate fear of rejection, and it ate him alive to the point where he felt he could not live here on this plane anymore... he may have also been suffering from some other kind of loss we don't know about... no, he's not in hell; he's in a much better place, where people love him for who he is.
this is a lesson to all of us, to stop hating people because of socialized perceptions, or because we feel they are not somehow 'like us'. much peace, and condolences...
i was teased in middle school and i came very close to commiting suicide on many occasions, because myself esteem was so scattered, i was so down and depressed.....i KNOW how that boy felt......i didn't do it, i'm 21 now....but the way i was treated in middle school still affects me to this day.......this story was so sad.....i was thinking about the little boy last night and it made me cry............i prayed for his family and all the children that have to deal with being bullied...
Bullin is badd i get bullied all the time and iam a girls scout (alljokesaside) play volly ball and basketball and shotput and i have thought bout attempting sucide but i dont do it but i think he is going to heaven cuz god jas a heart i knoe he do and mab he will give that boy anthoer chance at life :)
I'm sorry that you get bullied. But PLEASE don't take your life. You are still valuable to God. I'll pray for your situation. God is with this child. I believe God wouldn't let him suffer in hell.
good video homie
atrchito1 7 months ago
@atrchito1 I appreciate your comment atrchito1
chrisbrown205 7 months ago
Real talk! thanks for sharing. Also bullied in my younger days and now to realize we havent really progresses is pathetic.
ITHEREONETHATHASNT 10 months ago
@ITHEREONETHATHASNT appreciate ur words
chrisbrown205 10 months ago
@ITHEREONETHATHASNT thanks for your comment...
chrisbrown205 10 months ago
happend at my skool last year kid was the same age I cried so hard
rainbowgirl678 11 months ago
@rainbowgirl678 sorry to hear
chrisbrown205 11 months ago
all my life ive been bullied (im in 7th grade now) even as young as 3rd grade i had suicidal thoughts and even attempts.I have lots more friends now but i still got bullies out there.However the result of all this bullies made me very unsocial.i remember in 4th in 5th grade i barely even talked.Im catholic and id rather take the risk of going to hell then to live a life not worth living.
P.S If i didnt have the friends i have now i would be dead already.Friends are the key.
kyuubisharinan3296 1 year ago
@15cpgrace
If I disgusted a supporter of faggot adultery
then I have succeeded.
OverNineSand 1 year ago
uuhhhhh waaahh he was gay?
k good thing hes dead
OverNineSand 1 year ago
@OverNineSand thats rude of ya..so u think ppl who are different from you deserve to die? what if someone thought you deserved to die?
chrisbrown205 1 year ago 4
@15cpgrace yeah they did...ive gotten braces since
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
:( i hate when kids are bullied .. :(
itss soo sad .
kelandtay13 1 year ago
@kelandtay13 yeah it really is sad...lets all make a difference and speak up for those who are bullied
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
im in 8th grade n im 13 till dis day im still bullied i been bullied for 9 yrs n its just so sad ): i nvr knw wat to do... mhy school all they say is try to work it out... ya knw its just sad seeing all these ppl hurt from being bullied... when i am bullied im in pain n im hurtin... n its sad tht ppl committ sucide bc of it....
just4u910 1 year ago
@just4u910 have your parents taken any action? hmm i understand how you feel. talk to your DARE officer..counselor..or teacher...about whats going on. i hope that you dont become depressed ok. i will pray for ya...let someone know how u feel..as for the bullies..go to the police if necessary..avoid them if possible or try to have someone intervene with a solution and consequences if they continue
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
@chrisbrown205 see i live with mhy grandma n um yeh she has... n i try to tlk to ppl but ppl nvr listen to meh... n believe meh i hope for the same! and awe well thank yuh for havein meh in ur thoughts and thnx for all da advice!
just4u910 1 year ago
suicide is not homicide. But it is a proven and well known theory that a huge percentage of suicide is under social cause. if one has to much social intergration or to little (as shown with bullying) in sociatal groups it influences there chance of suicide. To an 11 year old situations like other children at school an 11 year old its a huge deal! Ithrough their eyes the place they spend most days, to get up and face being bullyed at what seems to them hell is merly impossible sometimes.
epatantmodels 1 year ago
@epatantmodels i definitely agree...nice perspective
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
@chrisbrown205 true bro, true
holyfrijoles1000 1 year ago
@holyfrijoles1000 thanks
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
Where's the proximate cause? Suicide is by definition of the elements not homocide. You can't force someone to make the most personal decision of their lives. You can't cause suicides. Bullying is not a serious problem. If parents would disipline.
ToxicOdiousOne 1 year ago
@simspugslover music helps me too...check out the group the foreign exchange
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
im bullied and once one of those biches come into my face its over im kicking there ass im fucking them up and its 2 stupid ass motherfuckers 1 is named Luther a skinny ass nigga and the other Devon a homosexual motherfucker i don't give a dam about my spelling im to pissed im fucking them both up once they come into my face with shit.
batfighter8 1 year ago
@batfighter8 Please let someone at the school know your situation. Seek alternatives before seeking violence....use that as a last resort
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
@chrisbrown205 well you are right but i tried that i seeked guidance the bitch never called me so this is my last resort[VIOLENCE]
batfighter8 1 year ago
is ur last name brown cuz ur a nigger?
anon985 1 year ago
@anon985 is ur name anon cause ur a closet gay
400underground 1 year ago
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@400underground
- you are a nigger
-you are gay
-therefore u lose
anon985 1 year ago
@anon985 ignorant comment
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
heres what i did back then i got bullied for a month scence the first day of school.i asked my dad if i could start taking taekwondo classes.i did and who ever bullied me or attacked me i would kick there ass.after that no one would ever think about bullying me ever agian.im not saying every kid should but this is what i did back then.
asiangamers32 1 year ago
@asiangamers32 that was a nice alternative solution
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
great vid.I think this kid whent to heaven.he was dealing with pain and he couldn't help it.I get bullied slot cuz I'm bi but I just tell em to shut the fuck up cuz thers no point to it
xxwoahxxitsxxemma 1 year ago
@xxwoahxxitsxxemma it is very said people are bullied because of their sexual preference
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
I was bullied once... but i learned it's best not to take their crap- suicide is NOT a way out... I mean, if you kill yourself, you can never, ever come back.
TheChekmates 1 year ago
@TheChekmates I know ..death allows the bully to win
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
yheaa i was bullied and I know how it much hurts and I was very suicidal back then but I had support, I had options. most people don't get that chance. I pray everyday about this issue. and how most peple overlook the situation and don't do anything about it. nobody really knows where this kid will spend eternity . it is between him and jesus.
disturbed306 1 year ago
@disturbed306 so true...support is number one in suicide prevetnion
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
yo i was bullied trust me suicide it's not right choice sometime parents think they no wat's going on i would say make it better 4 him nd stand up 4 the kid
99hotty 1 year ago
@99hotty agreed :)
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
Chris 205 is so lame....
waveheado12 1 year ago
@waveheado12 lol thanks...
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
YES finaly someoen pointed out that the point of ppl saying ppl who take there lifes go to hell it is not true i think it all depends on wh you did it this boy DID NOTHING to desever it
oX313Xo 1 year ago
@oX313Xo thanks for your support
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
Bullying, in my perspective, is a form of empowerment for the bullies. They want to make themselves feel better about themselves so bully before they are bullied.
holyfrijoles1000 1 year ago
@holyfrijoles1000 i can see that..but to seek power by making others powerless is not fair
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
@chuy656 A kid brought a gun to my school after he was being bullied. It was a nerf gun though. It was pretty hysterical.
holyfrijoles1000 1 year ago
@holyfrijoles1000 that is a sign that something much worse could happen
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
take a fucken gun to school blow his brains out
chuy655 1 year ago
@chuy655 you cant be serious?!
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
Terribly sad. I feel for the child's mother and family. If only bystanders could have intervened and chased or stopped the bullies.
jjlinert 1 year ago
@jjlinert it is very said...intervention could have prevented this
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
I think every bully deserives karma, they keep fucking and fucking with a kid until one brings a gun to school and shoots the place up, the kids not crazy, just fed up
TheMrburningdog25 1 year ago
@TheMrburningdog25 The problem with that sort of justice, is that innocent kids might get hurt, too. Also, I think that bystanders need to realize they have the power to stop bullies and even chase them away. But the problem is that bullies do their dirty deeds when the victim is alone, in a secluded place or when a teacher is away or not paying attention. Bullies, rapists, thieves all do their mischief very secretly - it's actually quiet clever; it's evil, but clever.
jjlinert 1 year ago
@jjlinert nice perspective
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
@TheMrburningdog25 i believe in karma too...
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
if i found out my kid was bullying another kid like that id beat his or her asses off
nicholasbhicks 1 year ago
@nicholasbhicks Hopefully, having a serious talk with them would be enough!
jjlinert 1 year ago
@jjlinert more may be needed...
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
@chrisbrown205 lolol holy shit u type so much.
anon985 1 year ago
@nicholasbhicks me too lol...its important to ask our children questions..and watch their behaviors
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
Bill Cosby called bullying a form of hate. To me bullying involves contempt, no respect for the rights of another.
gearbox8 1 year ago
@gearbox8 i agree!!!
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
ive been accused of being a bully before, i had no idea what i was doing, i felt so damn bad after
666spawnofsatan666 1 year ago
@666spawnofsatan666 well at least you changed your ways?
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
@chrisbrown205 yeah i stay away from people now
666spawnofsatan666 1 year ago
@666spawnofsatan666 aww no..isolation isnt cool
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
@666spawnofsatan666 um lol wats up with the name spawn of satan666?
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
@chrisbrown205 oh im a big fan of death and black metal :)
666spawnofsatan666 1 year ago
kids are sneeky trust me
MariiAndMikesMusic 1 year ago
@MariiAndMikesMusic yea we are lol
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
Once people in high school have there opinion of you there is nothing the schools can do about it all you can do is suck it up and deal with it its not worth rolling the dice of eternity what id your wrong then you will burn in a pit forever just because you could not deal with people making fun of you
willthecreator 1 year ago
@willthecreator no one is burning in a pit..no one knows what hell is.."scuk up?" what kind of advice is that?
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
Can you use acetaminophen(500mg) or ibuprofen(200mg) for suicide? What amount? I'm just curious.
AquariaSpirit 1 year ago
@AquariaSpirit not a doctor...dont take your life with drugs
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
i just what to beat the shit out of bullies with a crowbar
jake38989 1 year ago
@jake38989 that sounds like it hurt lol
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
i beat the shit outta the bully in my school i got suspended but it was worth it no more bullies in my school
PS3MatureGames 1 year ago
@PS3MatureGames i guess if youre gonna get suspended..you might as well go all out lol
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
my best friend was A LOT
nerfguy3000 1 year ago
i am not gay but i fell so sorry take care ppl
justmiranda33 2 years ago
@justmiranda33 empathy means a lot
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
Its a sad thing indeed when anyone ends their life. It is done usually cause it feels that is the only way out and the emotional pain that they have can only be ended in the short physical pain they are about to inflict on themselves..but it is because they are weak..and they are weak because the adults in their life did not instill a sense of strength to overcome senseless bullying.
As well bullied victims never get a chance to see the bigger picture because of this weakness and it is so sad.
jdo2384 2 years ago
@jdo2384 I dont think people are weak intentionally...put yourself in their shoes...if you can before calling them weak..people only think about the options that are best at the moment...
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
I will never forget this kid.
AngelFlazz97 2 years ago
@AngelFlazz97 appreciate you
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
The ending to the story of Carl Hoover (the kid who commited suicide) would have also been the ending to my life if it were not for home-schooling. R.I.P. Carl. I burst out tears as soon as I saw the news. Carl is now in Heaven with God, where no one can bully him.
AngelFlazz97 2 years ago
@AngelFlazz97 praying for the family
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
I might committe suicide.
I am 11......
My parents never stop making fighting. At this moment they are arguing. I will hang myself too.........
Nickheartsme900 2 years ago
@Nickheartsme900 no please dont do it..talk to your parents ok...love you
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
knowlenge , support , school and partner awaresness , laws to make teachers responsable . kids need to know the damage they to to other kids . has a teen i had three oe four sucide attemits to exsape that harsh reality .
peace out
crystalslights 2 years ago
@crystalslights as an educator...you cant blame teachers..we can only control within in our classroom...
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
For 4 years, I was bullied everyday. I am STILL getting bullied, simply because i'm an emo. I admit that I have thought about suicide and I have attempted suicide on a number of occasions
I think the boy did what he had to do, God bless his soul for eternity
rachelshephard 2 years ago
@rachelshephard im glad you are steal around...lets keep in touch...dont take your life please....have you sought help for bullying...please let someone know
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
Hope i helped you guys out, even though i've never experienced extreme bullying.
God bless you, hope your school can help out. Take care buddy.
GoDxDeSiGNs 2 years ago
Just DON'T SUICIDE!!! I don't get how people can suicide, don't you have an imagination of your future life, don't you have desire? Seriously i would never ever ever suicide. Theres just way more stuff in life that i haven't experienced that i would love to and to be honest i'm scared about it, i can't do it. I do have alot of mental thoughs of such things as after life. Because i am catholic and i believe in everything in the Bible.
GoDxDeSiGNs 2 years ago
@GoDxDeSiGNs children dont understand the power of choice and how to logically think..what do you suggest
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
But when the person gets angry about it, it's more fun for me to keep on going. When he ignores me i just stop, and that's what you people who are being bullied should do.
I rarely get physical, can't remember last time but i do have anger problems with such things and i use verbal language instead of anything physical but ye i never get physical about it. Like i said me and my mates just have a laugh about it.
GoDxDeSiGNs 2 years ago
@GoDxDeSiGNs ok you need to stop with the mild bullying..im quite sure people are not enjoying that or do not find it rather amusing...
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
@chrisbrown205 LOL no trust me man, around here that's how we have fun bro. Friends are like families, so we never hurt eachother, we have fun doing all that shit, and we're always there for eachother and it is actually amusing, cause even they find it funny. Maybe in your country, during your childhood that hurt other people's feelings but up here its natural, people do it to me and i find it amusing.
GoDxDeSiGNs 1 year ago
@GoDxDeSiGNs...no i get it..i joke too
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
Just get up and try to find other people that are "friendly" Just ingore those guys, it's better if you ignore them, just act like you don't care thats what i did and trust me eventually they will get bored and stop. Don't cry or anything in front of them because they will find it more hilarious and keep going.
But up here i just joke around with my friends, i consider myself a tiny bit of a bully, i just tease my friends, but nothing personal we laugh about it
GoDxDeSiGNs 2 years ago
@GoDxDeSiGNs people may not be able to control their emotions...ignoring isnt that easy especially if its on a daily bases
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
@chrisbrown205 Well if people cannot control their emotions, then that's too bad, and children should be raised properly by their parents to understand the choice of power. When i was a kid, i had been trained by my dad hardcore, but when it came to fights, i always turn away because i have self control and is able to hold my anger and tensions towards the guy very quickly.
GoDxDeSiGNs 1 year ago
@GoDxDeSiGNs im referring to choldren not being able to control their emotions...when i have kids..i will allow them to express how they feell but in a respectful matter...i know some families who dont allow their kids react...or express..keepin it bottled up doesnt help
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
@chrisbrown205 That's what's wrong with the youth, they grow up with the TVs, vid games, internet and they hardly spend any time with their dad, reading, actually doing something useful.
GoDxDeSiGNs 1 year ago
@GoDxDeSiGNs yeah but who pays for this..allows them to watch and listen or be exposed?...
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
@GoDxDeSiGNs I guess mild teasing among good friends, as long as it doesn't hurt the other person mentally or physically is not bad. I mean, you don't have to walk on eggshells with true friends, as long as they understand you mean no harm, I suppose.
But teasing or making fun of someone who is not a friend, that can lead to disaster or at least a very awkward situation.
jjlinert 1 year ago
Man i'm 17, but was rarely, rarely bullied. Just in around Year 4, year 5, i got bullied a bit. To be honest it didn't hurt at all, i didn't give a damn, i just ingored them and kept walking. But i know that in America they do horrible stuff but up here in Sydney, Australia idk not much happens. Mostly cyber bullying but i never got into that.
Even though i don't understand this stuff much. i'll just say a few words:
don't feel sorry for yourself
GoDxDeSiGNs 2 years ago
@GoDxDeSiGNs hmmm
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
Man, I agree in everything you said. I was myself bullyied almost until high school, that was when my life started to turn around. But I can see myself in the things you said like "taking shortcuts" and the talk about the suicide itself.
You seem like a great person and I wish you the best.
Peace and Love!
QbanProductions 2 years ago
@QbanProductions thanks sooooooo much
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
Keep up the good work!
QbanProductions 2 years ago
@QbanProductions thanks!!!
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
well for the people who say people who commit suicide go to hell..mmm..its more like they have been through hell already...hell and heaven is a state of mind...if you can read through the symbolism....I think family plays a very important part...I was bullied...been called lesbian...but I knew that people only talk shit about others because they feel small and insecure....and want status...n I was taught not to care about what people thought of me...kids just don't have respect...too big headed.
thandise1 2 years ago
@thandise1 I agree that heaven and hell is a possible state of mind..interesting..each of us have our own perception of heaven and hell
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
you know what, if you were caught in the middle of this bullshits i canTELL YOU ONE THING fightback and fighting back musnt be face to face confrontation!!! poison them witheveryone around you...
poison them!!!
harina6x 2 years ago
@harina6x wow not cool
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
i cutt my self i am 11 but i dont hate livin it is how i cuup with my problems i am all musel i am 4.9 i way 82 i have a good life but i fill alon
iam10123 2 years ago
14 bad life alone feel th same really sucks main target of poeple to bully/pick on dunno why but yea.
mrmopar7273ty3 2 years ago
ur never alone..God is with you. People are just stupid...their time will come
chrisbrown205 2 years ago
@mrmopar7273ty3 not cool...u need to talk?
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
im sorry u feel that way..maybe you can vent in other ways?
chrisbrown205 2 years ago
beating a gang of bully is the hardest battle against bullying, agree?
zeruel31 2 years ago
@iam10123 dont ever feel alone..talk to me on youtube :)...write poetry to cope with your feelings...works for me
chrisbrown205 1 year ago
your so bombb : )
stroudsn 2 years ago
thanx yo
chrisbrown205 2 years ago
i get bullied everyday and i still do. i don't know how to handle it.
Zrulesforlife 2 years ago
stand up for ur self.
Hunoghun 2 years ago
like i haven't tried you nit wit. you think i just there?
Zrulesforlife 2 years ago
you need to fight, when i was bullied in school people thought i was gay or wierd because i liked cats and was quite, so i was tired of it and i just started fighting everybody who made fun of me i got beat up the first three times but i got better and i started beating that ass then people wouldnt mess with me as much and they asked me why do you fight and i told them beacuse people mistaked my kindness for weakness i didnt want to fight i just wanted not to be bullied and thats where it ended
bwade88 2 years ago
sry, didnt mean it in a mean way.
You rly should find a way around it, cause no one is worth it.
I just beat the sh1t out of the person who done that crap to you. Or an easier task is to find out WHY your being bullied and fix it.
Good luck. If you live near Norway, pm me. =)
Hunoghun 2 years ago
its not just that easy
chrisbrown205 2 years ago
@Hunoghun i agree wth u but some time it goes worse
99hotty 1 year ago
zrule, do you live in melbourne, australia? if you do tell me and ill come to your school and pound the fuck out of the people who bully you.
omidjavidi 2 years ago
come to nj and you can beat the fuck out of everyperson here bc they all try too start stuff with me same as zrulesfor life
mrmopar7273ty3 2 years ago
tell an authoritative figure
chrisbrown205 2 years ago
@Zrulesforlife hey man if u get bullied tell someone to help you FUK ALL BULLIES
MxRoc 1 year ago
@Zrulesforlife get your own group
AsianHideOut 1 year ago
my closest friend grew up in the same town and there are a lot of kids in that town that are the same and for 6 and 1/2 years she would normaly go home crying after school.
CITTYKAT756 2 years ago
sorry to hear yo
chrisbrown205 2 years ago
I was bullied too, but I made it out of that hole. But I never stopped letting my guard down even after graduating high school, because some students still do that even in college. I can never be too careful these days because they still do that crap. But I won't give in, I won't.
leon4000 2 years ago 6
Don't give up
chrisbrown205 2 years ago
My god u should have never been bullied thank god you are strong enough to deal with it. you are so good looking WOW
holdemnuts2 2 years ago
lol thanks
chrisbrown205 2 years ago
TY for this post...you are very insightful for your age and we need more young people like you to speak out and "kick us in the butt" to stop being so lazy and complacent when witnessing injustices of any kind...For the rest of us? Step it up, folks! We ALL can do better...God is LOVE...not some-times under certain circumstances, but ALL THE TIME IN ALL CIRCUMSTANCES!!! Judging others is "so last century..." Blessings to ALL!
countess16 2 years ago 3
Thanks for your comment...We gotta do better as a people.
chrisbrown205 2 years ago
Amen!
countess16 2 years ago
Hopefully, the school systems across America will learn some thing from this situation to improve their bullies policies on a local level...THis remind of the fact, teachers have very difficult jobs.
allTRIPLE1 2 years ago
Yes we do..I'm an English teacher
chrisbrown205 2 years ago
Your commentary is excellent Chris. I agree 100% with everything you've said. I'm proud and honored to be one of your subs now.
kalacaw 2 years ago
Thank u very much
chrisbrown205 2 years ago
His mother will be on the Ophra Show tomorrow.
carrington45 2 years ago
Cool...nice to know
chrisbrown205 2 years ago
Two words: martial arts
callmebruce5 2 years ago
no the true words are STOP BULLYING!!
Bulleying muther fuckers just stop it have a fuckin heart!
jhol7689 2 years ago
Some bullies don't have hearts. It's a lot better to stand up to them. And if this kid had taken martial arts he would have gotten self esteem so he wouldn't have felt the need to commit suicide.
callmebruce5 2 years ago
Violence is the answer to everything?
chrisbrown205 2 years ago
Martial arts isn't about violence. It's about self-control and self esteem. But if you're asking me whether or not it would have been better for that kid to have gotten "violent" with the bullies who were tormenting him instead of killing himself the answer is yes.
callmebruce5 2 years ago
that is absurd
chrisbrown205 2 years ago
You think taking martial arts is absurd?
callmebruce5 2 years ago
thank you for your words... i have gone what this kid has gone through as a child... i was bullied constantly, and i have actually tried to commit suicide. even though he knew people like his mother loved him, he may not have felt she understood what he was going through. people say, 'well I was bullied, that did not make me KILL myself'. he may have suffered from depression due to his mother's breast cancer (even though she's survived).
lumbia33 2 years ago
he may have had an ultimate fear of rejection, and it ate him alive to the point where he felt he could not live here on this plane anymore... he may have also been suffering from some other kind of loss we don't know about... no, he's not in hell; he's in a much better place, where people love him for who he is.
this is a lesson to all of us, to stop hating people because of socialized perceptions, or because we feel they are not somehow 'like us'. much peace, and condolences...
lumbia33 2 years ago
Beautifully written and thanks for sharing. I agreed with your insight
chrisbrown205 2 years ago
thank you...
lumbia33 2 years ago
ur welcome
chrisbrown205 2 years ago
chris you are so cute and i agree with everything ur saying
SheerParadise 2 years ago
aww thanks
chrisbrown205 2 years ago
i was teased in middle school and i came very close to commiting suicide on many occasions, because myself esteem was so scattered, i was so down and depressed.....i KNOW how that boy felt......i didn't do it, i'm 21 now....but the way i was treated in middle school still affects me to this day.......this story was so sad.....i was thinking about the little boy last night and it made me cry............i prayed for his family and all the children that have to deal with being bullied...
JayJayGrady4U 2 years ago
Sorry that you dealt with that...how do u cope with your emotions?
chrisbrown205 2 years ago
Bullin is badd i get bullied all the time and iam a girls scout (alljokesaside) play volly ball and basketball and shotput and i have thought bout attempting sucide but i dont do it but i think he is going to heaven cuz god jas a heart i knoe he do and mab he will give that boy anthoer chance at life :)
lilmama42888888 2 years ago
I'm sorry that you get bullied. But PLEASE don't take your life. You are still valuable to God. I'll pray for your situation. God is with this child. I believe God wouldn't let him suffer in hell.
chrisbrown205 2 years ago