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  • great subed

  • Awesome!

  • You inspire me...Thank you <3

    

  • Keep up the good work.You're clearly inspired from somewhere beyond yourself because you're far wiser than a young girl should be but it's a good thing so please keep inspiring others.Thank you x x

  • Good advice. Cute girl. !

  • Wonderful!`Thanks so much!`

  • I love this. Thank you, thank you, thank you. I need to read this book....

    Thank you.

  • Thank you for posting this.

    Perhaps you should mention that punishing yourself for your "flaws" or "mistakes" is also pointless, because it doesn't hurt anyone but you, and doesn't make the mistake un-happen, or the flaw go away.

  • i have that shirt haha

  • You are so smart! I have never seen anyone smarter than you :) You help me so much!!!!!! I have no self confidence, I have acne, and i hate how I look! hope you do moore videos soon beacuse i want moore tips , advice and help // from a 13 year old girl

  • thanks for the encouragement (:

  • Great advice this helped me so much

  • great advice!!!

  • i love all of ur vids

  • me to babymama102409

  • Got here by accident. Great work. I read the book.

  • Wow, i love when i come across a new perspective or simile that clicks with me.....and your video did just that! (The theory about the volume .....)

    Fantastic! thank you !!!!!!

  • "Don't give to others what you can't give to yourself". Learned THAT the hard way =) Great video!

  • I would love to love myself, and i used to on many levels and i still do at times, but not nearly as much as i should, to live an active and fun life. I feel the urge to look good on the outside all the time, and rarly i think i do, thats when im doing good and can express myself socially. Most of the time though im convinced that i dont look the way i "should" and the thought my looks being with me and not changeable for the rest of my life, is frightening and pulling me more into my own jail.

  • I would love myself to love you

  • youtube.com/watch?v=txHcaSmVog­s

  • lets change the world! but in order to change the world you have to change yourself first! I LOVE YOU you ALL

  • And this is all coming from a drop dead gorgeous girl yeah that helps alot -.-

  • Love yourself before you could love somebody else. Respect others as you want someone to respect you.

    I loved your video.

    Cheers,

    Dass

  • Very insightful! Thank you for sharing with us! I will be subscribing!

  • i'm so glad to see a young person with maturity and wisdom. :]

  • What affirmations should I use to love myself unconditionally?

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  • @MrSteviesax u can use these: I am open to receive all the abundance of the existence, I allow my soul to Heal and Teach me with Love,, I am learning with Joy, I am Ready for Wisdom, I use the Wisdom of all my Experiences for the Good of All, I Love my Self, I am Friendly and Loving, I am Healthy, I am Brave, I am Independent and make my own Decisions, I take Responsibility for my Life, I am connectet with the Cosmic Central Consciousness, I use my Talents in the Service of the Light

  • thankyou for lifting my self esteem. one question/ comment thingy... My friend is rlly full of herself, how do i tell her without hurting her feelings?

  • the volume thingy is so true ,,, urr hott 

  • I love you you're awesome! I read the Conversations with God series so many times and I don't remember those quotes but it was really good to hear, thanks for the reminder

  • my friends say that I'm a great guy to be around with, but I just don't feel the same way, I think it's because I have always been the third wheel most of my llife, the quiet shy guy. I think it's the positive attitude I have on people makes them feel good around me.

  • Omg! you made me feel so much more better about myself, ily :) Thank you!!

  • that is really cool to see things in that point of view of a music box ,ill have to check out that book you talked about good video

  • YOU ARE REALLLY PRETTY. no actually and beautifull words you are sooo right

  • cool video, you've got a great outlook, especially for your age. keep it up =]

  • Wow you horndogs you're watching this on mute aren't you..

    listen!

  • you are so pretty

  • i love you

  • How do we begin to love the corporate and political elitists who murder, poison, and steal from us? How do we love people who hate us? They are pure evil, i do not want to love that.

  • @3VOLution3NO it's hard but love is probably the only way to defeat those murdering elitists.

  • @3VOLution3NO I believe that every human is beautiful yet some choose to hide their beauty with hatred. I think that everybody can get back on track to their path of love and beauty. Don't give up on those people, sometimes they are the ones that need you the most, that's why they do those things.

  • Cute

  • i need to love her

  • learning about compassion and really trying to practice it helped me a lot. loving yourself is egoism. it isn't compassion. it is false wisdom.

  • @jeepndesert you should try to accept yourself as you accept others. however, that isn't really loving yourself. that is being modest.

  • it is true, you should try to love the imperfections of others and be aware it is your imperfections which can make yourself lovable. you are on the right path there.

  • This whole "love yourself first" reminds me of some statements of Anton Lavey from 30 years ago.

  • You got it.

  • Great video, thanks!

  • What book is it that you were reading when you did this video :P

  • @OrderlyChris "Conversations with God"

  • @Evantheowl Cheers mate!

  • I'm glad you didn't mention Jesus. I had enough of that stuff.

  • @syyenergy7 soo true bro

  • @syyenergy7 soo true bro

  • Thank you darling, your words were very insightful. Keep moving forward.

  • Haa you are too sweet. love you too

  • I just found you today. And wish you were my best friend growing up. I needed a good friend like you to give me good advice. :) I am 46 and work with teens at my church and i have posted some of your videos on my facebook. Keep up the good work!!! I would love to do this youtube video thing... do you need a mom in your videos lol :)

  • @SusanQO123 are you LDS?

  • @SandSSxSarah yup

  • @OdeToNecrophilia me too XD

  • hey i think you should have your own talk show dipshit

  • thank you

  • Can you be my girlfriend :) ?

  • Thanks for that - you are very beautiful and a awake person!

    the perfect girl for many.

  • You would make an amazing pastor!! thank you for your words of wisdom

  • Thank You and God Bless You

  • You would be an AMAZING phsycologist.

  • i,m not saying nothing.....thats my gift.....Thank you for making me think...5000000000000000000000­000000000000000000000000000000­0*`s

  • yesterday my friend said that she was going to be a bad girl now because she was nice a lil wile ago and got picked on for it ... now she curses and calls people stupid and says shutup every 3 seconds i hate the wasy she is now and when monday comes along im going to school and telling her exactly how i feel .... you should not change yourself for other people

  • If you would like a free print, make a donation to the charity of your choice, web add, for charity choices, my images, and directions, on my Youtube. CLIC THIS MESSAGE

  • I don't know how old you are, but your message is very accurate and mature. Self-esteem...or self-love (or lack of) is at the root of all our accomplishments and self-destruction. People who love themselves don't feel a need to kill their bodies with drugs and alcohol, will not allow others to use and abuse them, and will have the confidence to take risks in making their goals and dreams come true. Good message young person.

  • i hope you make more videos the great

  • I agree. In order to understand and give in full what you have, you must be aware that you can give that. If you cannot love yourself at all, you cannot give anyone else love, because if they love you, you may not be able to realize it if you cannot first love yourself. It's kind of Doing to yourself what you would have others do unto you. I am a Christian and just have happened to have read the book you are reading, so that was pretty awesome!

  • deum stop talking about religion i hate this subject all you need to do is be a good person like she said nobody is perfect be your self its really pointless to argue about something that people have been fighting about since the begining of time its not going to solve anything now.

  • you have beautiful eyes. love them :)

  • youre gorgeous

  • You said "Yourself" 12 times.

  • wow....this really spoke to me...you are so very wise..thank you so much

  • Except I do know I need to change, because how I am and how I think and react to things puts me apart from people. And I hate myself when I do such things. I need to change things, and learn to cope with me and others. Still, good words and advice. I just need to be something a little more...and I know I can be.

  • Now I want to make something very clear Baribee your logic is twisted your looking at flaws as if they where the flaws that people might laugh at you for. But some flaws such as hate and lust. Those flaws are not good flaws so treat them as if they where.

  • @RingLord3 Good point, but I think, that Baribee refered to flaws as bad characteristics of your personality and not as sins (hate, lust). As she already pointed out you can change the intensity of some of your characteristics. However sins are a completely different topic (Just my opinion , im from germany, so excuse my spelling)

  • @FourPoppers i was not being bitchy, but if u think i was then w.e

    and i wasnt being rude either!!!

  • Great job

  • Very great :) Thankyou for posting this.

  • okay first of all i didnt say there is no proof that god doesnt exist

    i said there is NO PROOF that GOD EXIST...

    so dont twist my words up...

    and no one said you was trying to make me believe,

    your adding extras on crap, and mixing shit around....

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  • Wonderfully articulated. Thank you for sharing this!

  • this vid helped me stop crying uncontrollably =)

  • Baribree again I find your videos filled with lies and deceit. Let me make this clear and show you my views.

    If you love yourself unconditionally then you love sin unconditionally. The only thing you should love unconditionally is God. Jesus says you must first die to yourself so that you may live. You are foolish in beleiveing that by loving yourself you then love others. You must first love God then love others as yourself.

  • @RingLord3 okay... not to be rude...

    but in my opinion your god is a slave owner

    you are the slave

    therefore brain washed to love him

    when in reality he doesnt exist

    meaning... your crazy

    sooooo...... my comment on this vid..

    i think this is good for people to kno, and by you rejecting it saying love god, love jesus,

    means ur being ignorant and not accepting or wanting to know about peoples different ways of seeing things...

  • Okay dude let me explain to you where your logic is wrong.

    One: You have no proof what so ever that God is not real yet I have books of proof that says he is.

    Two: I am not brain washed because I have a choice to do the Lords will.

    Three: Ignorance is not a sin. I simply do not want to or care to know about the wrong views of people like you and baribee. Your both very closed minded and brainwashed by society.

  • okay im not closed minded

    people who say an opionion/views is wrong and how they dont wanna learn about "wrong views" are closed minded

    opinions cant be wrong or right when its an opinion, not a fact

    "in my opinon" there is no proof that god exist

    no one said ignornace is a sin, but it sure is being an idiot

    "in my opinion" ur choice in doing the lords will is wack because you have to do what u are told, repent and worry about sin,

    Im not brain washed, I go by me

  • @RingLord3 Books mean noyhing. Books can be full of lies.

  • @TheAmpad Books

    Why do you trust your own opinion when it can be swayed with a few words? . Why do you deny a God that has shed his own blood so that you may be forgiven? If only you could understand the sacrifice that has been given in your stead. Then you would not be claiming that there is no heaven and there is no hell.

  • "Love your neighbor as (you) love yourself" would suggest that you need to love yourself to love others... The bible doesn't say the only thing you should love unconditionally is God.

  • @ThoughtMosaic I don't even love myself.  How the hell am I going to love God when you can't even see the bastard.

  • You can give someone head, but I'm pretty sure it's impossible to give it to yourself.

  • @kensabeast9 it's really not impossible but thanks for the input

  • I'm loving myself right now

  • i like her

  • what if you love others but not yourself? im curious to hear your answer..

  • Understanding>Mercy>Sympathy and/or Empathy>Forgiveness>Tolerance = Love

    All together, not separate.

  • Loving yourself too much is being conceited, you can go ahead and love someone else but it's all about looks. First impressions count. Sure wish it wasn't like that.

  • hmmm this isn't very good :S

  • I see you're trying to sound intelligent and wise but really, you're just coming across as pretentious and ignorant. To say that all of these things are controlled by something as abstract as 'love' is just idiotic. Not everything is 'love' or 'hate'. There are many more things.

  • D.D

  • God bless you for your confidence, Bee! :)

  • This is amazing :)

  • love your curls!

  • Whats the name of the book that you were reading?

  • Conversations with God for Teens.

  • Woah...I'm a middle schooler (7th grade) and that was absolutely beautiful. You should make more videos about loving someone..that video was really well done. You should come to our school and talk about this lol.. Thanks for making it!! Be my friend! :)

  • Man. You need to talk to middle and high schoolers.

  • Good psychology and VERY well put. We all could be so much freeer and happy if we can change our thought about ourselves. Once we are freel of negative thoughts we will have more compassion for others. Everyone wins! Thanks for posting

  • good points :) its so funny when you do your little finger thing lol i caught it like 4 times?

  • 1 LOVE BABY!

  • i belive you are great... love :)

  • what a loveable beutiful young girl i would wish to be your boyfriend or just your friend !!

  • FINNALLY, a female i find attractive saying something about loving flaws, from what the PUA's say you need to be social perfect to have a intemate relationship, and when theirs loud noise i get embarrassed, no lie !

  • u know u could have a conversation with him..(to the dude below)basically when u get prayed for and when the holy ghost is on the move..that is ur chance to have a conversation with god..it feels real good to actually talk to him from ur heart..to the non believers im not saying ur wrong for not beieving but try it..just see wat happens.go to church..just once..maybe u can change ur life from acohol,smking,drugs,cure urself from sickness,and etc.just try it..but if u dont like it..its not for u.

  • I shit my panties.

  • I love myself every night.

  • YOU'RE TO FUNNY, i have the same chronic disorders

  • wow i totally agree with everything you said! especially that our flaws are our best qualities, i have always said that my quirky imperfections are my best quality and im really happy to see someone with the same view as me!

  • what was the book you were reading?

  • You're very wise. Thank you for making this video. :)

  • dam thats strong

  • Wow...you should write a thesis or something along those lines, you're very insightful! God, it would be so awesome to have a conversation with someone who functions on such an intellectual level.

  • I think ppl can be gay, im straight, christian but, if god doesn't want ppl to be gay, whyd he let ppl be gay? that confuses me, so i think you wont go to hell if ur gay.

  • @al84as Nobody will go to hell or heaven because neither hell nor heaven exist. That's my opinion. The end.

  • You know, Bari, I did understand what you said but I was surprised by it. I actually thought when you mentioned a music box that you were going to say that the "flaws" are what make you unique. If the metal band in a music box were smooth and flawless, the box would be silent. Lifeless. Colorless. But when the separate strips of metal are punched with seemingly random rows of bumps and blemishes, they harmonize with each other into the box's music.

    I always appreciate your opinion, Bari.

  • Thank you for sharing your wisdom with me, everything you said made a lot of sense

  • Wow you are very right i was thinking about it while you were talking you cant get very much if you just love your self if you love people you can get more things in life and you can start to love your self and not bottle up all the bad emotions inside of you. ps: WOOOOO you rock you look the best on you tube

  • Makes sense to me, corny as hell but she does it well lol. Play some piano for us!!! Maybe I just secretly like this video coz it was posted on my 18th birthday :P LOL

    Peace out!

  • Nice ;)

  • great video!

  • I'm not usually a spiritual person, but this actually makes sense in a weird sort of way to me, especially the music box part, and being cocky. Good helpful video tbh, i thought i would have wasted my time by watching it, but i haven't. :) x

  • I like your response too Gay=Hell and this video its loveing your self be4 u fall in love with others or help others find love. :)

  • love is the key to world peace. I believe the frequency of love could make earth heaven. I can almost feel the love in the frequency of your voice, your video made me feel happy, and warm inside. thank-you, Peace

  • omg you are so awesome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i love your video's!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!­!!!!!!!!! and i believe hat even if your gay or lez or even bi i thing if you wanna take the responsible way to go then you should. and you should follow your heart no matter what. its not wrong to let things out i have a friend and he is caring and loving and in a way like the father i never had...so...i think i've said to much luv ya i would like it if we could talk and get to know each other and be friends =D

  • when i read your imfo box i feaal like i am reading an amazing book

    you are a very smart and talented writer

    and you are so right in your videos

    you should write a book or something

    i would buy it

    anyway, good vid and keep it up

  • your so chill and smart

    i love all of your vids

  • You're a very smart girl

  • You are so sexy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!­!!

  • I bet you love yourself all night long, bit of twist, lick and dunk solo aye?

  • That was very inappropriate for this video.

  • ah, I love pissing you so called "spiritual people" off, grow a pair, grow some long hair , get a slab, get out the Pantera and slayer and be men.

  • HAHAHAHAHHA, you know what's really funny. Is that, I'm pretty spiritual, however, I don't revolve my life around that. Lol, oh btw, I do have long hair. Very, very long hair. And yes, I found your comment kind of funny, I'm guy just like you, I enjoy dirty jokes as well. I mean, I''ve got my own too! But, it's really not necessary to say something like that when this girl is making a good point y'know?

  • pfft, TITS OR GTFO TBH

    also go make me a sandwhich

  • Lol, you fucking idiot

  • Hmmm...the way I've always thought of it, I would ALWAYS love others. In turn I would be loved. Only then can I love myself. But, loving myself's always been my biggest issue.

  • haha m one of those people...

    I've always found it hard to love me.

  • you have a great point

    i love your videos keep posting!!

  • You can't help others unhless you help yourself. To fully love someone you must fully love yourself.

  • thank-you for posting this video. i love myself very much, if i didn't love myself first i wouldn't be able to love any one. thanks for posting this :)

  • i love the way you explain things. you make it alot easier for people to undertand you. are you catholic ?

  • wow....she just repeats the same thing over and over and over. But i would so nail her in the butthole.

  • lol her logic is giving me headache but its true XD

  • wow, this video speaks the truth, good job!

  • i am so glad i find people like you online and it brings tears to my eyes which makes me feel weird but you helped me and i am really happy rite now after just watching you video i subscribed and Thanks to kareem i found you and he knows you rock and i hope everyone does! you are the best!

  • Subscribed, not only did u help me so much u, proved to over 3,600 people that you are fantastic as you are and u dont need to change for other, i wish that everyone in the world treated each other like u wish too  U have the qualitys over a president confident respectful and extremely caring.

  • its good to know there are people like you in teh world. honest people who are not oblivious of the inevitable and obvious and logical.

  • This is one of your opinions that matches the psychology of it. And for that i liked it. (:

  • i do believe ur right bt wat about abusers,rapists,and murders are they completly lovable jst the way they are? I am not trying to knock u or wat ur saying bt are you saying are those ppl are lovable jst the way they are?

  • I thought that too but I think that saying applies to the every day person not any irregular psychopath. :)

  • That books sounds amazing. I like the thing you were saying just before 1:57

    I like your videos, they have fantastic points

  • I know what you say is true but some times people feel that they try to reach out and they are always rejected. but I have to think you have experienced the other side from the way you sounded. I believe it may be hard but we should all learn to love ourselves. great video it defenitly had an impact on me

  • this is why i follow the code of punk rock

    i like myself and dont give a shit about what people think of me so its pretty much like fuck you if you dont like me

    lol

  • lol rock on