I think that maybe you should start to put subititles on your videos 'cause, for example, I'm brazilian and sometimes I know the words you're saying but I can't understand them with your accent and the way you say 'em.I think it would be a lot easier for people around the world to get to know your videos.But you know, just my opinion.
oh. my. god. today was the day i discovered OG furious is an act of an incredibly intelligent dude... everything is truth on steroids. TUPAC BACK. Question: Dean, what's the point of creating the OG furious character? Just for fun or a certain experiment you're running?
Ah, yes, my friend, but you forgot that girls can be assholes. And some people are so unsecure about themselves that they prefer the bad guys from all this in the end, or the ones who hurt them in some way. And some girls don't seem to have any kind of an idea about being Insecure other that that's mostly bad social behaviour. Peace.
An interesting note on attraction: How sensitive or masculine a girl likes a guy to be has a lot to do with her current place in her menstrual cycle (among other things).
When she is ovulating, she likes the knuckle dragging, unibrowed guys who seem very fertile and are very likely to get her pregnant (regardless of if that's a conscious desire).
When she is not, she is more attracted to a sensitive type who she considers more likely to stick around and help her raise the child. =)
I SUFFER FROM NEURONESSELFCLOANING ABILITY CAUSE SOMETIMES I HEAR MY THOUGHTS GIRLS GET IT TOO LIGHTEN UP FELLA'S YOUR HAIR LOOKS GREAT NOW DO YOU THINK THAT THE CHEMISTRY OR OFFSET GENETICS COULD ALTER A DECISION OF SOMEONE THAT HAS AN IMBALANCE LIKE SUICIDE OR RELATIONSHIP COMMITMENTS AND ENTIRE BELIEFS BY OUR CHEMISTRY BEING ALTERED BY ANOTHER'S? HOW DEEPLY ARE YOU INFLUENCED
i BELIEVE THAT WORK FOR HAVING A BETTER RELATION TO YOUR YOUNG YET KNOW IT ALL OFFSPRINGSI I ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOUR VIEW POINT AND IT IS CONCRETE TRUTH PRETTY SOON THE GIRL YOU FALL FOR STARTS TO LOOK LIKE YOU AND ACT LIKE YOUR DOG WHAT DID SHE EVEN LOOK LIKE THAT NIGHT LOL
If you look at his vids in this order "15 Things Most People Don't Know" then... "You Don't Exist?" followed by this one, it almost seems as though he's contradicting himself at some point along the line..
Ready for this people? I'm about to sum up pretty much every one of this guys videos. Ok.
"Here's some pickup techniques."
"They all work but only if you're yourself".
"so if you want to get girls, first you have to be happy and confident in who you are and be YOURSELF."
Sound familiar?
That's because the only way to get girls is to be confident in yourself and that's what EVERYONE has been telling you your whole life. But everyone isn't as flamboyant or interesting as this guy.
I'm a girl and I love you. Thank you for being the first male to thoroughly grasp the concept of being comfortable in your own skin being the most attractive thing. This fact is unfortunately muddled by dumb girls who fall for guys who lack that quality but mistake their arrogance, bravado, or being a jackass for true self confidence - mostly because it is rare enough that few young women have seen the real thing to distinguish it from the imposter. Experience teaches some, but not all.
I actually got this problem, but i'm climbing my way up again, I used to actually care what people thought of me (I knew I was wrong though) but still it made me feel depressed.. I know everyone is perfect in his own way.. But I guess problems like this occur when you just broke up with your girl/boyfriend :).. Anyways, your comment was really helpful to me, therefor, Thanks!
@sablehhh Glad it helped! I like to think of it like this: It's much better to find someone that likes the you that you really like to be rather than trying to become somebody someone ELSE likes and then finding out that you don't like yourself anymore, and then realizing you probably don't like THEM either! That's a lose-lose for sure. And 99% of everyone will tell you what you should do, but 98% of them will probably be wrong, so be however makes you HAPPY for the win. =)
So, basically if you find someone attractive you will then say or do things that you think will make yourself attractive to the person,thus making you unattractive?!?!I get what you're pointing out here.The best thing to do is just be yourself and also be confident in yourself.
Mask it? Hmmm...or get you to do shit that forces you to get out of that "nervous nice guy" thing? I think some of that stuff really is just to teach guy that they can say or do something less that 100% nice and the world will not end. It's like confronting a fear to get rid of it. A lot of guys hear this shit and think, WFT, I am being told to be nasty to women or that women want abusive men, but that is missing the real message, it's just "loosen up, Dude!"
I know this is important but sometime you can be to much release about the thinking what other may think about you that you actually start to behave like a retarded.
bro i absolutely LOVE your videos. i found you thru the furious channel, but now i actually prefer this one more because it actually contains thought provoking subject matter and discussion. KEEP EM COMING!
Ok question, how do you know what your true personality is if you've been accidentally copying people and altering your personality based off of what you think people are thinking of you?
I liked it, I didn't like on your other channel, how you're saying sexist things. There's facts if you go to Google "brain human female male difference" and go to howstuffworksdotcom, and I think you should have deleted that video by now.
Theres a girl im i really like, and only just found out she used to like me and stopped after we went to the movies on a date, how do i get her to like me again??? Please help me?
I reckon the date went fine, we went and saw a movie and apart from one other guy we were the only other people in the cinema, i wasnt gross or anything, wasnt a pig, and i even made her laugh during the movie by making funny noises and comments
@TheSuperkirky If that was the first time you were with each other for any length of time, it's possible she liked you because she thought you were someone you weren't - so now the element of mystery is gone. If that's the case, I don't know what to do about it other than go for other girls.
No it wasnt that for sure, she is in my drama class and used to hang with me at big lunch all the time, it would just be me and her, i already told her stuff about myself that no one else knew before the date, and at lunch times she would flirt with me
I usually find your chats interesting and funny but you messed up on this one.
Find your 'best self' would be better advice and learn more about 'attraction triggers' for women that is the best way to get women. (ie building comfort, kino escalation, not coming off needy, positive body language) etc
Taking "mirror(ed) neurons" into consideration...so you, personally believe that empaths have more? In all actuality, I suppose my first question *should* have been "Do you believe in 'empaths'"? If your answer is affirmative...what do you believe regarding my initial query?
Well yeah. Also if you behave like someone else, then a girl goes out with you then she'll get pissed off that you're actually different on the inside.
Also don't ask girls, they have no clue what they're on about.
ima girl whos into guys but despite the heading i applied what you said to my life. the thing is, im socially awkward and i always want to imporve myself so of course i pay attention to everyone's facial expressions and general reactions. are you saying this is an inadequate way to try to change?
Thank you from 2:00 - 2:15 you explained the reason why I fucked up with my chances with a girl I liked because for a few months I was being myself which she liked but when I found out she liked certain types of guys I tried to change my character to fit with what she liked out of insecurity. She didn't like the new me and got freaked out because of the random change in my personality which I essentially did for her but really it only hurt my chances.
Why has society always deemed it a requirement of the male to entice the female, and almost never the other way round? whats the psychology behind it.
I think all these pick up techniques are crap :) if a girl simply doesn't like you, you don't fulfill her criteria (whatever they may be) then you can do whatever you want - it just won't work :) stay yourself and don't act.
...partner who would be better at ensuring their child's survival, i.e. someone caring and understanding. This reaction is stimulated by the higher production of hormones such as oestrogen during pregnancy.
KEY POINT - However, in modern society, many women are on 'the pill' which contains these same hormones to prevent impregnation by making the body think that the woman is already pregnant. This means that women on the pill are more likely to go for men with father-like qualities.
Hey just want to say I read somewhere that our evolution has a large part to do with this. It said that usually, in order to produce offspring more capable of surviving, women will be more likely to look for a man who is more of a 'bad guy' as they are seen to have genes more viable for reproduction. However, this all changes when a woman becomes pregnant. From an evolutionary point of view, a more viable genetic partner is no longer a requirement, so women will be more likely to look for a...
Nice. But this vid isn't just for purpose of getting the opposite sex to attract you, this vid teaches a lot more, especially for people who have trouble with their social life and stuff~
I mean you've more described how to NOT be unattractive, rather than how to be attractive. It can't be as simple as to "Be yourself", because people are attracted to different qualities in a person
If you're being yourself.. you're limited to only showing a certain set of qualities that you actually possess, and therefore put a limit onto who you can attract.
I mean there are certain qualities that are almost universally unattractive, and if you have these qualities, being yourself will NOT make you attractive.
Also, there are qualities that are almost universally attractive, that should be emulated.
@zinizterz but if you alter yourself just to attract different kinds of people then the chances are that their personality is not compatible with your own and you may end up hating them for it
@zinizterz Usually the qualities that are unattractive, are used to impress your friends, or survive in a hard social environment. Nobody has bad qualities of themselves, if you think they have it, they developed that quality themselves, and they were not born that way. So be your self in the essence. Not in how you usually do.
The answer is not only be yourself, but find yourself. Sometimes we are very different things, just to be accepted in different communities. When you learn to be congruent in every aspect of your life you become magically attractive.
@wuerges I found your comment pretty interesting. I'm not sure if i agree with it. Like i study programming so i only got guys in my class and they're all pretty much nerds. But i also have friends that are the total opposite.. Fun outgoing people who like to party often. I can get along with both groups fine but i can't necessarily act the same. I talk with people in m class about games and nerd stuff more and with them more about Girls, partying etc you know?
You cant just practice not caring what others think. Why? Because if you keep doing it and people keep laughing youre just gonna get weirder and weirder until you become so weird and you do something and people laugh at you so much you realize it and become so embarrassed you get a net loss in self esteem -.-
for a second i thought you were going to saythe way to get girls to like you was a combination of pickup + what girls say they want. I see what you mean though with your point, reminds me of David DeAngelo's material which to be honest used to get me much better results than mystery method, have you ever read/watched his stuff?
My friend is fat an ugly an hes not funny... HE CANT get a girl by been himself... My opinion is to be confident... An otherthing is that u know how to an act to an wit a girl... Thats why i get girls an he dosent... Ohhh yeah stay fit an buy cool clothes... Tip: girls hate baggy jeans an don buy nikes ... Buy better vans an don buy fuckin big as shirts buy fit shirts
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i hate how you talk with your hands.
MrVestido 2 days ago
i hate how you talk with your hands.
MrVestido 2 days ago
You're a genius, every one of your opinions blows my mind!
VJXIV3R 2 days ago
what the hell did you study and where are you from ? just curious ?!
007mano1 4 days ago
@007mano1 books
SteveFennelly 2 days ago
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Laurelindo 1 week ago
@DeanLeysen
I think that maybe you should start to put subititles on your videos 'cause, for example, I'm brazilian and sometimes I know the words you're saying but I can't understand them with your accent and the way you say 'em.I think it would be a lot easier for people around the world to get to know your videos.But you know, just my opinion.
Thanks
pedrofresnofun 1 week ago
oh. my. god. today was the day i discovered OG furious is an act of an incredibly intelligent dude... everything is truth on steroids. TUPAC BACK. Question: Dean, what's the point of creating the OG furious character? Just for fun or a certain experiment you're running?
PlanZeeTV 1 week ago
what kind of therapi would you recomend for this
hjerneStimulanz 1 week ago
Ah, yes, my friend, but you forgot that girls can be assholes. And some people are so unsecure about themselves that they prefer the bad guys from all this in the end, or the ones who hurt them in some way. And some girls don't seem to have any kind of an idea about being Insecure other that that's mostly bad social behaviour. Peace.
RuleOfTheInternet 2 weeks ago
Man your really helping me to get on better with my life :)
MiKocwalk 2 weeks ago
I forgot to be awesome O.O oh wait no i didn't i'm from belgium it's in my DNA :p
snotnegger 2 weeks ago
i wounder what ogfurious say about this guy
sagimi987 3 weeks ago
According to this Ron Paul is the most attractive man alive.
alexicon89 1 month ago
How to get girls to like you? Simple. Be like this guy.
n3wtype 1 month ago 9
An interesting note on attraction: How sensitive or masculine a girl likes a guy to be has a lot to do with her current place in her menstrual cycle (among other things).
When she is ovulating, she likes the knuckle dragging, unibrowed guys who seem very fertile and are very likely to get her pregnant (regardless of if that's a conscious desire).
When she is not, she is more attracted to a sensitive type who she considers more likely to stick around and help her raise the child. =)
failsatvideos 1 month ago 2
It seems like you think what I think
davispogosian123fyi 1 month ago
This guy is great,he said the exact same things I've come to think about girls,being yourself...totally subscribed... :]
LoneWolfSF 1 month ago
ive got down syndrome
fullofuploads 1 month ago
DFTBA. FTW. YEAH NERDFIGHTERS!
robkeller94 1 month ago
Who actually subscribed to Dean?
xjFIRST 1 month ago
how could this guy make so much sense to me ? .. try and explain that ! haha
i mean seriously . how is it that i respond to this so effectively .
iamcnp 1 month ago
I SUFFER FROM NEURONESSELFCLOANING ABILITY CAUSE SOMETIMES I HEAR MY THOUGHTS GIRLS GET IT TOO LIGHTEN UP FELLA'S YOUR HAIR LOOKS GREAT NOW DO YOU THINK THAT THE CHEMISTRY OR OFFSET GENETICS COULD ALTER A DECISION OF SOMEONE THAT HAS AN IMBALANCE LIKE SUICIDE OR RELATIONSHIP COMMITMENTS AND ENTIRE BELIEFS BY OUR CHEMISTRY BEING ALTERED BY ANOTHER'S? HOW DEEPLY ARE YOU INFLUENCED
CHEERS14U 1 month ago
i BELIEVE THAT WORK FOR HAVING A BETTER RELATION TO YOUR YOUNG YET KNOW IT ALL OFFSPRINGSI I ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOUR VIEW POINT AND IT IS CONCRETE TRUTH PRETTY SOON THE GIRL YOU FALL FOR STARTS TO LOOK LIKE YOU AND ACT LIKE YOUR DOG WHAT DID SHE EVEN LOOK LIKE THAT NIGHT LOL
CHEERS14U 1 month ago
nah bro! good for short term not the long
geletmote 1 month ago
I laugh the beginning.
TheWayshowerTube 1 month ago
At the end of these videos I always expect HATERS PACK YO BAGS UP! CUZ YOU BE DEALIN WITH A BAD MOTHAFUCKAAAA
iAREanthonyyy 1 month ago
Question: what if im shy, how can i be myself :/? Picking up a girl without talking her? :/
iTz0pompeu 2 months ago
im good at insulting :s
lucabtje 2 months ago
i feel like a pancake when i look at pancakes .
POTATOOFDEATH1337 2 months ago 3
stupid dick.. doesn't know what he's talking about.
alihamzao2 2 months ago
@alihamzao2 says the fat guy with no girls
LennZeg 2 months ago
hahaha knew that this video would have the words "be yourself" in it . great video good advice
kevinmac631 2 months ago
Could you slow your videos down a bit? We're on the internet; no one's in a hurry...
tweekin001 2 months ago
If you look at his vids in this order "15 Things Most People Don't Know" then... "You Don't Exist?" followed by this one, it almost seems as though he's contradicting himself at some point along the line..
Alphilles3922 2 months ago
Ready for this people? I'm about to sum up pretty much every one of this guys videos. Ok.
"Here's some pickup techniques."
"They all work but only if you're yourself".
"so if you want to get girls, first you have to be happy and confident in who you are and be YOURSELF."
Sound familiar?
That's because the only way to get girls is to be confident in yourself and that's what EVERYONE has been telling you your whole life. But everyone isn't as flamboyant or interesting as this guy.
539forgotten 2 months ago
dude, you rock
dragias0013 2 months ago
I love this CHANNEL!!
tsnoop19 2 months ago
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the dislike bar is like a ninja u know its there but u just cant see it
bommijn 2 months ago
Are you wearing lipstick?
MercurialTW 3 months ago
I'm a girl and I love you. Thank you for being the first male to thoroughly grasp the concept of being comfortable in your own skin being the most attractive thing. This fact is unfortunately muddled by dumb girls who fall for guys who lack that quality but mistake their arrogance, bravado, or being a jackass for true self confidence - mostly because it is rare enough that few young women have seen the real thing to distinguish it from the imposter. Experience teaches some, but not all.
UpRoaryus 3 months ago 9
@UpRoaryus
I actually got this problem, but i'm climbing my way up again, I used to actually care what people thought of me (I knew I was wrong though) but still it made me feel depressed.. I know everyone is perfect in his own way.. But I guess problems like this occur when you just broke up with your girl/boyfriend :).. Anyways, your comment was really helpful to me, therefor, Thanks!
sablehhh 2 months ago
@sablehhh Glad it helped! I like to think of it like this: It's much better to find someone that likes the you that you really like to be rather than trying to become somebody someone ELSE likes and then finding out that you don't like yourself anymore, and then realizing you probably don't like THEM either! That's a lose-lose for sure. And 99% of everyone will tell you what you should do, but 98% of them will probably be wrong, so be however makes you HAPPY for the win. =)
UpRoaryus 2 months ago
This is how I got my girlfriend.
shadeslate 3 months ago
@shadeslate Me too :D
asdfasqwert 3 months ago
how can this guy by ogfurious? xD
hellminato 3 months ago 87
he is?haha
Daymjo 1 month ago
@hellminato it's all about impressions man :)
BeAsTm0aD 3 weeks ago
@TamsuO let me think... um Netherlands, Belgium or Denmark. Somewhere there, but I think i'ts Netherlands :D
Shernoc 3 months ago
So, basically if you find someone attractive you will then say or do things that you think will make yourself attractive to the person,thus making you unattractive?!?!I get what you're pointing out here.The best thing to do is just be yourself and also be confident in yourself.
VOTE DEAN LEYSEN FOR BEST TEACHER ON YOUTUBE!
MrImAllUpInYoFace 3 months ago 4
What's that accent?
TamsuO 3 months ago
you are sexy lol
ylongres 4 months ago
Mask it? Hmmm...or get you to do shit that forces you to get out of that "nervous nice guy" thing? I think some of that stuff really is just to teach guy that they can say or do something less that 100% nice and the world will not end. It's like confronting a fear to get rid of it. A lot of guys hear this shit and think, WFT, I am being told to be nasty to women or that women want abusive men, but that is missing the real message, it's just "loosen up, Dude!"
straker2 4 months ago
I know this is important but sometime you can be to much release about the thinking what other may think about you that you actually start to behave like a retarded.
what then ??
Xtaz1V 4 months ago
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Xtaz1V 4 months ago
And then the truth was said.
also, you moving around makes me feel seasick :/
wintermoonlight666 4 months ago
@wintermoonlight666 you cant be seasick unless youre at sea.... you mean motion sickness?
TheCornerGamer 4 months ago
@BiggrWiggrthnmrNiggr im clearly not talking about the accent dipshit
ovechkin100 4 months ago
Awww Fuck Dude. This is a Furious Topic. LOL
SixthteenLetters 4 months ago
You speak the truth dude...
Felixwfung 4 months ago
do you talk with this silly voice when youre not making videos?
ovechkin100 4 months ago
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ovechkin100 4 months ago
bro i absolutely LOVE your videos. i found you thru the furious channel, but now i actually prefer this one more because it actually contains thought provoking subject matter and discussion. KEEP EM COMING!
CraigsReviews1 4 months ago
Ok question, how do you know what your true personality is if you've been accidentally copying people and altering your personality based off of what you think people are thinking of you?
C9R9D 4 months ago
My mirror neurons made me awesome after watching this.
venticyanide 4 months ago 81
i think that you're the most amazing man in the universe
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Or just get her drunk...
Imakeplanesboom 4 months ago
@TheSuperkirky nearly the same thing happened to me so I interessed in the developpement.
How did it go???
ricois3 4 months ago
I liked it, I didn't like on your other channel, how you're saying sexist things. There's facts if you go to Google "brain human female male difference" and go to howstuffworksdotcom, and I think you should have deleted that video by now.
gbernard23 4 months ago
I forgot to be awesome
gellhorn95 5 months ago 2
the only problem is that the real me is quite lame
iHasDaTriforce 5 months ago
400th COMMENT HAHAHAHA
Unholyspaghetti 5 months ago
Make sence compare to OG's pickup vids haha!
TheMikaellol 5 months ago
hey Dean! could you please give us list of books that you read so we can get smart like you?
lopo0808 5 months ago
who the fuck would dislike this vid!?!?!?
myOWNwingman 5 months ago
..and in nutshell that's why girls like me.
VegeXP 5 months ago
what if being myself is copying other people...? O_o
andrew14566 5 months ago
i always think i indrestand english ......i was rung
JABRANE4 5 months ago
OGFurious taught me how to get girls.
Adennymint 5 months ago
Theres a girl im i really like, and only just found out she used to like me and stopped after we went to the movies on a date, how do i get her to like me again??? Please help me?
TheSuperkirky 5 months ago
@TheSuperkirky That sounds like it depends heavily on the date, and what she's like...
Seleteles 5 months ago
@Seleteles
I reckon the date went fine, we went and saw a movie and apart from one other guy we were the only other people in the cinema, i wasnt gross or anything, wasnt a pig, and i even made her laugh during the movie by making funny noises and comments
TheSuperkirky 5 months ago
@TheSuperkirky If that was the first time you were with each other for any length of time, it's possible she liked you because she thought you were someone you weren't - so now the element of mystery is gone. If that's the case, I don't know what to do about it other than go for other girls.
Seleteles 5 months ago
@Seleteles
No it wasnt that for sure, she is in my drama class and used to hang with me at big lunch all the time, it would just be me and her, i already told her stuff about myself that no one else knew before the date, and at lunch times she would flirt with me
TheSuperkirky 5 months ago
@TheSuperkirky That's odd... I have no idea what it could be then. If you're really brave, you might ask her.
Seleteles 5 months ago
@Seleteles I dont know, i might, she should be coming over on monday so ill see how that goes
TheSuperkirky 5 months ago
@TheSuperkirky Wishing you luck.
Seleteles 5 months ago
@Seleteles Thanks man
TheSuperkirky 5 months ago
My neurons tried to mimic you when picking up a girl.. and failed miserably
Addinkuu 5 months ago
Excellent advice! This guy knows exactly what he's talking about. Words of wisdom Lloyd. Words of wisdom.
anacuteangle 5 months ago
OK IF YU GUYZ WANT TO KNOW WHAT HE MEANT BY "PRACTICE BEING YOURSELF" SEARCH ZAN PERRION ATTRACTIVE QUALITIES ON YOUTUBE ITZ A PERFECT EXAMPLE
vincentv1988 6 months ago
Haha Negging and Peacocking are two classic Furious examples for how to pick up the hunnies...
burritoboy726 6 months ago
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" practice being yourself" what useless advice.
I usually find your chats interesting and funny but you messed up on this one.
Find your 'best self' would be better advice and learn more about 'attraction triggers' for women that is the best way to get women. (ie building comfort, kino escalation, not coming off needy, positive body language) etc
Anyway, nice channel.
SirHappyThe1st 6 months ago
Taking "mirror(ed) neurons" into consideration...so you, personally believe that empaths have more? In all actuality, I suppose my first question *should* have been "Do you believe in 'empaths'"? If your answer is affirmative...what do you believe regarding my initial query?
theoriginalmzgrunge 6 months ago
so relationships are about empathy and mimicry?
PLANTERSVEVO 6 months ago
humans should invent some king of mating dance...
PLANTERSVEVO 6 months ago
are you on the same page as athene you know neuro science bad-ass
tjkiad2k10 6 months ago
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ApolloIron 6 months ago
Lol good stuff
martyelm 6 months ago
Well yeah. Also if you behave like someone else, then a girl goes out with you then she'll get pissed off that you're actually different on the inside.
Also don't ask girls, they have no clue what they're on about.
Nisfornarwhal1990 6 months ago
ima girl whos into guys but despite the heading i applied what you said to my life. the thing is, im socially awkward and i always want to imporve myself so of course i pay attention to everyone's facial expressions and general reactions. are you saying this is an inadequate way to try to change?
seaglass19 6 months ago
Just stop giving a fuck what people think about you.Makes everything a lot easier :)
Grim3223 6 months ago 109
@Grim3223 they see me rollin, they hatin
ArmadylGodSwordsmen 2 months ago
how did ogfurious pick up?
benbie 7 months ago
What's your opinion on changing yourself to be viewed as more attractive? (i.e, hairstyle, exercising..)
dhislexic 7 months ago
i guess you shouldn't let people tell u how to feel about ur self...
MrNacer2007 7 months ago
Thank you from 2:00 - 2:15 you explained the reason why I fucked up with my chances with a girl I liked because for a few months I was being myself which she liked but when I found out she liked certain types of guys I tried to change my character to fit with what she liked out of insecurity. She didn't like the new me and got freaked out because of the random change in my personality which I essentially did for her but really it only hurt my chances.
Lesson in life: "Be yourself".
TokyoKazama 7 months ago
I turned my mimicking neurons off. What do?
DigitalSubzero 7 months ago
Why has society always deemed it a requirement of the male to entice the female, and almost never the other way round? whats the psychology behind it.
DRAC2GUNZ 7 months ago
@DRAC2GUNZ men are born with guns strapped between their legs. it isn't a part of society, it is chemicals or more specifically, testosterone.
dagarath 7 months ago
I think all these pick up techniques are crap :) if a girl simply doesn't like you, you don't fulfill her criteria (whatever they may be) then you can do whatever you want - it just won't work :) stay yourself and don't act.
MissVibchen 7 months ago
you should be a neurologist :O
iJOKEx 7 months ago
sweet I saw this great vid and saved a kitteb by subscrbing
altonormz 8 months ago
bitches be crazy. need we moar evidence
MrIonization 8 months ago
you sound so smart, did you come up with that? :D
TLamparter 8 months ago
...partner who would be better at ensuring their child's survival, i.e. someone caring and understanding. This reaction is stimulated by the higher production of hormones such as oestrogen during pregnancy.
KEY POINT - However, in modern society, many women are on 'the pill' which contains these same hormones to prevent impregnation by making the body think that the woman is already pregnant. This means that women on the pill are more likely to go for men with father-like qualities.
Peace ;)
FredzBlobz 8 months ago
Hey just want to say I read somewhere that our evolution has a large part to do with this. It said that usually, in order to produce offspring more capable of surviving, women will be more likely to look for a man who is more of a 'bad guy' as they are seen to have genes more viable for reproduction. However, this all changes when a woman becomes pregnant. From an evolutionary point of view, a more viable genetic partner is no longer a requirement, so women will be more likely to look for a...
FredzBlobz 8 months ago
WOW Dude thnx a lot
U Are so Great
TOBY TURNER TOBUSCUS & DEAN LEYSEN ARE THE BEST GUYS FROM THE WHOLE WORLD ;)
HAIL THEM
denisjam24 8 months ago
I klicked the button... is the kitten save now??
TheLegoEater 8 months ago
Oh my! that intro was...!!! Scared me Lol
dvinewrite 8 months ago
Nice. But this vid isn't just for purpose of getting the opposite sex to attract you, this vid teaches a lot more, especially for people who have trouble with their social life and stuff~
borongannonoypi 8 months ago
wow dude, very impressive. Big like.
Kuzlica 8 months ago
ZOMG you have a DFTBA sticker!
froginacerealbox 8 months ago
this is awesome!
Winning
90seby 8 months ago
hmm, clever
theNonUploading 8 months ago
but.... peacocking makes me feel more comfortable when talking to a girl.... should i really stop doing that?
pepi560 8 months ago
@pepi560 Nah
quitejaded 8 months ago
looks matter. for girls.
LuxuriousLuxembourg 8 months ago
good job!
mizzpicklezz 8 months ago
dude fucking insanely clever
Deathlist123 8 months ago
<3
galcoolgal 8 months ago
Isn't negging doing a backhanded compliment
Like, I really admire that you dont care that you have buck teeth
aprimic 8 months ago
internetS? :P
aprimic 8 months ago
Athene You win.
itsmen00bs 8 months ago
What works for me is feeling like a bad ass motherfucker D:
DoomShroom93 8 months ago
I dunno about this Mr Leysen...
I mean you've more described how to NOT be unattractive, rather than how to be attractive. It can't be as simple as to "Be yourself", because people are attracted to different qualities in a person
If you're being yourself.. you're limited to only showing a certain set of qualities that you actually possess, and therefore put a limit onto who you can attract.
zinizterz 8 months ago
I mean there are certain qualities that are almost universally unattractive, and if you have these qualities, being yourself will NOT make you attractive.
Also, there are qualities that are almost universally attractive, that should be emulated.
zinizterz 8 months ago
@zinizterz but if you alter yourself just to attract different kinds of people then the chances are that their personality is not compatible with your own and you may end up hating them for it
LordOfRandom38 8 months ago
@zinizterz Usually the qualities that are unattractive, are used to impress your friends, or survive in a hard social environment. Nobody has bad qualities of themselves, if you think they have it, they developed that quality themselves, and they were not born that way. So be your self in the essence. Not in how you usually do.
martyntja 8 months ago
@zinizterz there is no spoon my friend :)
Fokkedinho 8 months ago
Loooooolzz dean you stole dftba >.<
crazyloudjukebox 8 months ago
WHOA!!! You forgot to make a witty comment at the end of the video about liking this and subscribing to your channel. Let me try:
'However, the best way of getting a girl to like you is to like this video and subscribe to my channel. Peace!'
cokey1337 8 months ago
awsome
Velexjiraia 8 months ago
Be yourself, because you are the shit.
jungenbum 8 months ago
The answer is not only be yourself, but find yourself. Sometimes we are very different things, just to be accepted in different communities. When you learn to be congruent in every aspect of your life you become magically attractive.
wuerges 8 months ago
@wuerges I found your comment pretty interesting. I'm not sure if i agree with it. Like i study programming so i only got guys in my class and they're all pretty much nerds. But i also have friends that are the total opposite.. Fun outgoing people who like to party often. I can get along with both groups fine but i can't necessarily act the same. I talk with people in m class about games and nerd stuff more and with them more about Girls, partying etc you know?
hahaownedlolz 8 months ago
@hahaownedlolz I've been where you are right now. When you try to be only one, you'll probably piss somebody off, but hey! That's life!
wuerges 1 month ago
So in other words, do both.
MrBranboom 8 months ago
i wont forget to be awesome Dean! I wont!
CptClydeFrog 8 months ago
You cant just practice not caring what others think. Why? Because if you keep doing it and people keep laughing youre just gonna get weirder and weirder until you become so weird and you do something and people laugh at you so much you realize it and become so embarrassed you get a net loss in self esteem -.-
willchoumusic 8 months ago
This has been flagged as spam show
"nice guys finish last thats, why i'll treat you like trash......." Nigahiga
srawat27 8 months ago
what if the girl likes you back, but is unsure, for reasons such as 'is going away for a indefinite amount of time, in a day or two'?
how do you act then, to manipulate the situation in my favour
iamrichlol 8 months ago
thats why i love the internet, its the place where i dont care what others think about me :)
Denmarkpwns 8 months ago
Hey Dean I take it for that you enjoy passing on your knowledge. You've probably heard it before but your methods of explaining are good.
Ever thought of pursuing a teaching career or so?
JohnsLazy 8 months ago
uh oh, theory of everything ?
sometimesilovelife 8 months ago
I'm pretty sure the only thing you need to get a girl to like you is an awesome beard.
jcbecker 8 months ago 107
@jcbecker they are on to us o_0
siebenny 4 months ago
lol strong start
Xk9913 8 months ago
so how exactly does one practice being oneself? lol
rjoe016 8 months ago
for a second i thought you were going to saythe way to get girls to like you was a combination of pickup + what girls say they want. I see what you mean though with your point, reminds me of David DeAngelo's material which to be honest used to get me much better results than mystery method, have you ever read/watched his stuff?
Nefarioustom 8 months ago
It's awesome that you can explain something in 3 minutes which takes some people to search on the internet for months!
Very interesting video!
Dininiful 8 months ago
Dean, you sir are truely awesome.
I agree with you entirely. Even around my guy friends I try to blend into them rather than being me. But from now on I will do this your way!
Thank you
PeacheyTheShowPony 8 months ago
So why do you use this pick up tricks in your OGFurious Chenal?
kotkaable 8 months ago
BUIAAAA
tamirissp13 8 months ago
BUIAAA
tamirissp13 8 months ago
Would immortality make life more meaningful?
pithcat 8 months ago
Explain how rainbows works
evoc11 8 months ago
You're scary when you're not talking like a gangster, what is this!!!!
MikeJ2k9 8 months ago
My friend is fat an ugly an hes not funny... HE CANT get a girl by been himself... My opinion is to be confident... An otherthing is that u know how to an act to an wit a girl... Thats why i get girls an he dosent... Ohhh yeah stay fit an buy cool clothes... Tip: girls hate baggy jeans an don buy nikes ... Buy better vans an don buy fuckin big as shirts buy fit shirts
kareleoes 8 months ago
Why does subscribing save a kitten?...What are you doing to kittens that make them in need to be saved?... >_>
TheSyntaxOverride 8 months ago 2
@TheSyntaxOverride He's going OGFurious on their ass :D
PeacheyTheShowPony 8 months ago
im the 777 liker with a 7 haters ... damn wt a lucky number
vivasalt 8 months ago