Interracial Dating 2012 - What Are You MAD At?

[QUIKKSTAR]

latinas >>> black bitches (u mad?)

[mcmaniac1000]

being a little too general here. I think ppl who think this broadly do a disservice to themselves. If you date a hundred suckas in a row, it dont mean the brothers are sorry. Its just a random thing like that. Hey Im a handsome guy in Detroit with a good head but I get accused of being too complex, too brainy, or even boring because I dont listen to Weezy, Nicki,Breezy, jeezy, or drizzy. So I see things quite differently. I see unassuming and kind ppl of both genders suffering.

[MAJESTY357]

BW can date/marry whomever they please. The only problem I have with BW dating/marrying out is that 99.9999% are INCAPABLE of doing it without BASHING BM in the process. Outside of that, I don't care if BW decided to date WM en MASSE.

[AllieEmet]

@MAJESTY357 Thank you for commenting. I appreciate your point of view! Peace :)

[spainishgirl]

oooops...I meant... pray one for another.

[spainishgirl]

Yeah Girl! I haven't cussed and fussed..SO much in my entire life. I'm saying not that I didn't have a slip of the tongue before learning about this mess on YOUTUBE.. but after having to deal with some of these guys made me have to go there hard. It was like you couldn't just be a reasonable person . My blood presure had went up but I'm alright now. These guys aren't the NORM. Those of us of the black community who want really peace will just have to pray for another . you are so right...Sis.

[AllieEmet]

@spainishgirl Yes. I try to keep in mind that they are very hurt, and probably hopeless. Otherwise, there is little reason to spread so much negativity. You take care, sis. Peace :)

[spainishgirl]

cont. These guys make you want to cry for them and they don't have a clue. And I'm planning a visit to Savannah,GA. (YAHWEH willing) in March2012. I need a change...BAD.

[spainishgirl]

 LOL. The last year has been a blk culture shock...via YOUTUBE...to me. I'm not used to crying,whining, complaining blk men or any race of man. I'm JUST not use to that stuff... 24/7+. dang...I'm ain't no mental therapist. LOL. If I had to be a mental therapist to some of these blk guys.. I'd need either a strong drink or prayer ( or both )afterward. LOL.

[AllieEmet]

@spainishgirl Girl, what! I think a lot of us feel the same. YT has been like a horror journey through the BM's mind. I had no idea ish was this real out here! I hope and pray we can all get better, because we ARE BETTER than this!

[ISayThisWithLuv]

@AllieEmet I agree with both of ya'll. Youtube has been a shock for me too! These brothers need therapy!

[AllieEmet]

@ISayThisWithLuv Girl, yes... Some of them truly do. I feel badly for some of these babies. They think they're hurting people, but they're only exhibiting their own pain.

[spainishgirl]

I'm calming down some... Sis. I'm tire. LOL.

[AllieEmet]

@spainishgirl LOL :)

[Gouche1981]

In conclusion, marry the person you fall in love with, regardless of race. Have fun and enjoy life. I'm not gonna let these haters ruin my day cuz they can't mind their own business. And FYI to those who think Italians, Mexicans (Hispanic), and any Spaniard for that matter are white, they are not. They have different biological make ups than White Europeans.

[Gouche1981]

My advice to black women, don't wait around for these black men. The numbers are not in our favor. There are more black women than black men. If we assume that every black man was straight and marriage material, and every black woman was straight and marriage material; you would still have a large number of black women unmarried. So what do you do with these single black women?

[Gouche1981]

I'll be honest. I completely understand why there is so much hate and craziness behind interracial dating. It's not common, not everybody does it, and when you do see it, it’s like seeing a big ass lion in the middle of Central Park (w/o its cage). So yea, I get it. But what I choose to do, what somebody else chooses to do, is their business. I didn't marry my husband because he is white. I married him because he's a good man and he's good to me.

[FUCKYOUtwothousand]

comment not approved? OK thanks.

[FUCKYOUtwothousand]

you'll see the same five people on every video. last time i checked, there are millions of black men in the US.

[spainishgirl]

Hey sister!

[AllieEmet]

@spainishgirl Hey, girl! Hey! :)

[alecniles]

Girl, that is so true.It's institutional Black Community values. Why are you trying to rationalize Black Male patriarchal dominantion of the Black Woman? BM want BW to be their slave to be used. These boys on YT condemn BW for not basturdizing our children by marrying a man who commits and submits to a functional marraige and is devoted to us. We have run away. There is an epidemic where american BM R NOT marrying. Don't be a babymama. Get married, don't wait on ANY man. Leave him behind.

[AllieEmet]

@alecniles If brothers would think logically, they'd realize that they are active participants in everything going on in our community. If BM continue to push BW away, what do they expect to happen? Refusing to marry is a form of rejection too. Personally, if I have to wait, I'd rather wait. But that is *my* conscious choice.

[alecniles]

Girl, that is so true.It's institutional Black Community values. Why are you trying to rationalize Black Male patriarchal dominantion of the Black Woman? BM want BW to be their slave to be used. These boys on YT condemn BW for not basturdizing our children by marrying a man who commits and submits to a functional marraige and is devoted to us. We have run away. There is an epidemic where american Black Men R not marrying. Don't be a babymama. Get married!

[AllieEmet]

@alecniles OK! I can't even add to that. You pretty much said it all, lol!

[fatchickskinny]

Yaaaaay Allie!!! You've been Bossip'd! LOL

[AllieEmet]

@fatchickskinny Lol! Wow. Thanks for letting me know, sis! Peace :)

[FUCKYOUtwothousand]

@AllieEmet you're making it more complicated than it really is. it's simple: most of the black women making these videos want the hate. that's why they make so many IR dating videos, but most of the people who are against IR dating are white men. they try hard as hell to make black men look racist when they make these videos. if white women made 50 interracial dating videos a day, you would see them get way more hate. and look at the names of all of these so called black women bashers...

[AllieEmet]

@FUCKYOUtwothousand I clearly stated that they might be Caucasian men. Peace :)

[QueenOfLogic]

why should ethnicity matter when it comes to dating?

i say date whoever makes you happy.

you cant live to pleaase other ppl

you have to make yourself happy

what other ppl think does not even

matter

there is one race THE HUMAN RACE

within the human race are many different ethnicities

[AllieEmet]

@QueenOfLogic Thanks for watching & sharing your thoughts! Peace :)

[keena0202]

oh ok ;) where are you at with your hair journey?

[AllieEmet]

@keena0202 I'm not on a journey. Feel free to send a private message if you have any tips, tricks or advice. Peace :)

[keena0202]

you seem like a intelligent black woman but no disrespect whats up with the hair? it looks like you have 2 strand twist that haven't been taken down. i think they would look nice as a twist out. just my opinion

[AllieEmet]

@keena0202 I'm chillin' at home with my hair twisted. Peace :)

[CountryBornCityBred]

Amazing.. .. Thank you for such a unbiased and intellectual view point.

[AllieEmet]

@CountryBornCityBred Thank you for watching! I'm glad you enjoyed it. Peace :)

[inounvme1]

Girl, I think I love you LOL! You better preach!! You hit the nail right on the head with this video. What exactly do black men (BM) want from black women (BW)? If you as a BM do not want and connot appreciate a BW trust and believe that men of other ethnicities do. Of course we are not talking about the strong, loving, competent, capable, intelligent, BM just the weakings we are force to endure via social media and other avenues from time to time! Peace....

[AllieEmet]

@inounvme1 Thanks, sis! I'm glad you enjoyed it. Peace :)

[marcusinHD]

make videos about how we're devoted, loyal to black women? hahahaha, funny.

i've never said a BW make a video about how she's dedicated to BM. y'all will make hundreds of videos about asian or white men though.

[AllieEmet]

@marcusinHD I'll make one! Take care, brother. Peace :)

[swagboi7]

stop make only daughters for white men who will be just strippers, white man's porno whores or babymamas for white race. make more real dark/brown skin black sons for black race only when real black ppl and african/black culture still alive in this world! fuck racist whites and their dumb whores!

[AllieEmet]

@swagboi7 You've made some fascinating points! Thanks for commenting. Peace :)

[swagboi7]

you one dumb white man's nigger slave whore.....i hope you ugly pale racist small dick crackers don't kill your self-hating sellout black ass if you do not want to give him blow job smh! black women are shame that's why only ugly pale racist old crackers like your dirty weird slave masters who you dating fuck with you.....smh!

[swagboi7]

LOL you must be retarded or something smh! white men dont love you they just want to fuck your self-hating dumb black vagina!! stop make white looking kids for white race you fuckin dumb black hoe!!!

[heavymetalloverz]

Guuuurl! This is such a smart chic vid, I'm lovin' it. BTW apparently BM aren't marrying ANYONE when u look at bm's marriage rate, so y r they tralking abt who wm won't marry?

[AllieEmet]

@heavymetalloverz lol. Good point :)

[BlackRebel4Life]

@AllieEmet lol. You actually look at italian men as non white? They are from europe so that makes them white. I think that you came up with your own definition of who you think is white because deep down inside you like white men. Thats your business but don't try and act like you don't support interracial dating when in fact you like white boys.

[AllieEmet]

@BlackRebel4Life I neither condone nor condemn interracial dating, and I clearly stated that I don't date white men. Thanks for commenting. Peace :)

[BlackRebel4Life]

@AllieEmet I apologize. I was under the impression that you were one of these black women that say you don't date white men but you date italian and hispanic men. And when someone confronts you about it you say those men are not white.

[nubia1950]

@AllieEmet I can respect your sentiments...european//Non-Afr­ikan men are NOT A CHOICE for me and mine.....hotep

[AllieEmet]

@nubia1950 I hear that! Hotep :)

[RottenPeachState706]

i dont co-sign it at all to be real & frank about it

[AllieEmet]

@RottenPeachState706 I hear you, brother. I'm not for interracial dating personally, but there's a way to disagree. You present your point of view respectfully, so you're not gonna get any argument from me. Peace :)

[RottenPeachState706]

@AllieEmet i look at inter-racial dating as bein' weak-minded

[AllieEmet]

@RottenPeachState706 Will you elaborate, please?

[RottenPeachState706]

@AllieEmet strength of one to love a race hated, & demonized by the media it's easy, to leave, when all you see on tv is drugs, violence, hoes, dead beat oreos, inter-racial thoughts of the "grass is greener on the other side", all of that shit affects the subconscious & makes you weak-minded. i respect those more who deal with all of these subconscious invadin' issues & still find Black Love. that shows that the love is more Powerful than what one is bein' inundated with by the media in my eyes

[AllieEmet]

@RottenPeachState706 Love it! You took the words out of my mouth! I totally agree. Peace, brother :)

[RottenPeachState706]

@AllieEmet no doubt lil mama

[spainishgirl]

cont.

(I meant... without a darn apology to anyone.)

with kissing other people's a** and I don't care if they are blk , white or kermit the frog looking people (LOL)and denying my own happiness . I came to that conclusion when I was 35 years old .. after the stand -by -your-man..and falling for the okey dope.. you love him and eventually he'll change and do better... situations in my life.

[spainishgirl]

Yes... I've been situations where I like a blk guy ( in my much younger years ) and he knew it and he played hard to get... so I just stop giving him little signs and a non-blk guy came into my life..showed me he was interested in me then the blk guy found out and was very mad and acted cold towards me. It's all about how a person treats you that's how I see it and not about color of one's skin and a woman has the right to choice who is the best suitor without a darn apology any one. I'm done

[AllieEmet]

@spainishgirl OK! Tell that, sis!

[AllieEmet]

@SuperLovelygirl1984 I'm glad you like the video. Thanks, sis! Peace :)

[spainishgirl]

Yeah... PREACH IT...Sister!

[spainishgirl]

@AlleEmet

Let me correct me myself... ' Sure there are some nice, emotional supportive stable-minded American Black men but they are few in numbers. And some of them are not thinking about getting married..

[AllieEmet]

@spainishgirl Yeah, I hear that. Many are reluctant to wed. Even those who do marry tend to do it after they've done something devastating to the relationship, like cheat.

[cecinia23]

and the funny thing is is always the one that say they hate us are the one that dating out there race themself get mad say mean things, is so weird for some reason they think they can treat us bad are they date out there race and gonna tell us not to . all race of men love us is crazy how much other race men ask me out mostly now since they find out some of us ok with dating outthere race .

[AllieEmet]

@cecinia23 You're tell the truth! That's why I love your channel :)

[cecinia23]

i do believe every women shouls go be with men that treat u good and make u happy no matter what but nothing wrong loving your own race i love all race of men .

[AllieEmet]

@cecinia23 I hear you on that! :)

[cecinia23]

aww thank u girl love this video u got my sub.

[St1kyFinguz]

@AllieEmet You know what I just found out that homegirl was Haitian (like me) so forget what I said, I hope she gets a toe nail infection...HAte haTE..HATE!...

[AllieEmet]

@St1kyFinguz You need to stop, lol!

[DeluuxeSpecial]

Man, these broads love the attention...thats part of the whole IR thing with black men and woman. ATTENTION. Why couldn't she just put boyfriend tag? Why does it have to be INTERRACIAL LOVE?. IR dating is home to some of the most sour, attention whore black folks you'll find. It's 5-10 of the same niggas on YT trolling those videos. Black men dont know shit about this stuff. Theyre prolly outside getting pussy themselves. Go on a IR bm/ww video the response fr wm are 50X worse. same shit.

[cecinia23]

@DeluuxeSpecial cause it is interacial love that what so cute about it i mean we dont have to say it people can see it by are color might as well do.

[St1kyFinguz]

Sister I don't want to say this cuz no one wants to hear it but.... YouTube is the "Feelings of Inadequacy" capital of the black male universe. If brothers don't have any form of social equity in their own lives, DO U REALLY THINK SEEING A WELL PUT TOGETHER BLACK WOMEN IS GOING TO MAKE THEM FEEL ANY BETTER?

IS U CRAZY?

[AllieEmet]

@St1kyFinguz LOL, you're silly! :)

[spainishgirl]

I meant.. (LOL) Well...I co-sign..Amen!

[spainishgirl]

@AllieEmet

Oh yeah.. the Silcian/ Italian men have that beauitiful N.African blood.! Well ... co-sign.. Amen!

[spainishgirl]

@AllieEmet

I meant... now here comes the' first 'guy and he REALLY WANTS but for the wrong reasons..it's because someone else has you now.

[AllieEmet]

@spainishgirl Yeah, I've seen that happen with men and women alike.

[spainishgirl]

@AllieEmet

LOL! They act like they are the CREATOR of the UNIVERSE or somebody's mother or daddy. But... it's like a man you have liked...he knows you have crush on him and instead of pursuing you ..he wants you to chase him after all the little signs you given him, well you just get tired and someone comes into your life who you are attracted to and he purses and wins your heart...now here comes the guy and he REALLY WANTS you but for the wrong reasons.. it 's because someone else has you.

[spainishgirl]

@AllieEmet

(sorry for my typing mistakes) Some of these blk people act ' CRABBY' like they own somebody's life and they are having a severe case of MENOPAUSE.....SUPER BITCHY.... ( just plain jealous) and these are suppose to be REAL MEN. What about being just happy for someone? They make me ashame.

[spainishgirl]

@AlleEmet

When are people going to realize that black women are indivduals and THIS is 2012 and blk women have the right to happiness whether it be a with blk or non-blk man. Sure there a some nice, emotional stable -minded blk man out in the world that are emotionally supportive to their girlfriends and wives but they are already taken. I am 56 years old and these bitter, hateful and selfish blk people are WAAAAAAAAAAAAY younger than me. What's up with that?

[RonRabbit69]

Nice perspective ....Thank you for sharing

[AllieEmet]

@RonRabbit69 Thanks for listening! Peace :)

[ISayThisWithLuv]

And yes, White men do marry BLK Women. I am the proof of that. My light skin comes from my white great grandfather who was was married to my great grandmother. Brothers just say that because they trifflin', ain't marrying all the women they have kids with and desperately want us to believe that it's our fault, rather then there's. But white men seem to be snatching up sisters left and right actually, and they quick to put rings on it.

[AllieEmet]

@ISayThisWithLuv Yes, they are. Half the black women I know are married to white men!

[ISayThisWithLuv]

Yes, this video is so on point! It is often times the more thuggish, or at least street dude who treats a bw like queens (at first). The guys who do the complaining and hating on BW are the dudes he feel they are "entitled" too a good beautiful BW, for whatever reason. I don't know what the reason is because most of these dudes who call them selves "good guys" or "nice guys" arent really and are on the exact same status as the thug, just the thug has more "people skills" and more charm.

[AllieEmet]

@ISayThisWithLuv Lol, I think it was testizel who made a video saying BM who are angry about BW dating "thugs" really just have whack game and poor social skills. I think a lot of BM feel very down about themselves, and that's the reason behind their constant need to describe themselves as "nice" and "good."

[ISayThisWithLuv]

Girl, you saw that mess too? I get hate on my video just because I said I HAVE had IRR in the past and might have more in the future. They can't get over that mess! These dudes is crazy!

[spainishgirl]

You've never lied ... PREACH IT and AMEN... SISTER!!

[AllieEmet]

@spainishgirl Lol, thanks girl. I just couldn't believe the mess I saw! I wish they would just say they're hurting.

[MzRoxyJ]

Preach honey. Liked. Favorited. Subscribed.

[AllieEmet]

@MzRoxyJ Thanks, love :)

[sGracestill11601]

Thank you!

[AllieEmet]

@sGracestill11601 You're welcome :)