Your right AdopteeeWarrior Im not adopted, My natural parents kept and raised me. And they were poor and young, when I was born And I had a wonderful life growing up poor. though Im not adopted I have woken up to the lies of the adoption industry My question is. How do I support you adoptees in getting open records? As for all you people considering adoption just because your young and poor Don't do it. you can be poor and still have a happy life. I grew up poor and Im happy.
Wow, what a bunch of haters. I go offline for a few months and see a bunch of people calling me a brat, and white trash HA! I had a few horses, a pony and a nice house, with a swimming pool too lmfao. Rich White America is leading the adoption industry, you won't find many "white trash" adopters :| Do the math.
Thanks for the support from the supportive, I'm used to the haters, they can't handle the truth. It happens all the time :)
AdopteeWarrior You DO have every rigtht to feel as you do. As for the rest of you calling her a brat, qnd asking why she belives her birth parents you need to do your homework 97% of birth parents say they where either FORCED agains thier will or COERCED surrender thier child to adoption. Not as opposed to abortion but as opposed to KEEPING them so of course her parents where forced by the people who make money off selling babies to people willing to pay a lot of money for one.
Notice how she can't even get the words out right every time she says it. Talk about repeated Freudian slips ! Countless people are alive today because pro life people got to mothers before the killing lobby did. And the vast majority of them are not this hateful or bitter.
But agreed, it should never be an option to suggest that killing a child is the answer to anything. A child never ruined anyone's life. Only the loss of one has, child and parent alike.
I support the idea completely actually and believe in legal guardianship. Although some children in the foster care system would like to be adopted, they are the ones who should have priority if adoption is an absolutely necessary.
But if the world was perfect "which we all know its not" there wouldn't be adoption, not because parents can't raise their children, ( because that will always happen somewhere )
but because people would honor the rights of parentless children and treat them with respect while replacing their parents with other ones who will care for them when needed.
I'm not an adoptee, but I am grateful that I was born to the parents that I have. My sister-in-law is adopted and I have been a part of her family for 20 years. I have never heard any discussion of gratitude, but I wouldn't be surprised if she felt it. Her adoptive parents (my in-laws) are wonderful loving people.
You seem bitter about your situation? Am I misreading your tone?
I was adopted, and I am grateful. Of course I do not know your circumstances so I can't really compare. However, aren't you slightly appreciated that you were taking out of the situations you may have faced. I mean to me it seems like you grew up and are healthy and happy? You obviously have opinions and you seem to be well. Isn't that the most important thing. Does it really matter how you grew up, just as long as you end up alright in the end. I mean really life could have been harder.
Your RIGHT TO LIFE WAS THREATENED THE MINUTE YOU WERE TAKEN AND YOUR MEDICAL RECORDS WERE MISSING. IF YOU HAD GOT ILL GOD 4 BID .THESE PROFESSIONALS WOULD NOT BE ABLE TO FIND YOUR BIRTH PARENTS QUICK ENOUGH ON A NATIONAL DATA -BASE. WE NEED A GLOBAL DATA BASE FOR ADOPTED CHILDREN/ADULTS.
GRAHAM BARNELL YT CHECK HIM OUT GLOBAL SEARCH FOR A GENE ;HE WAS ADOPTED.
FOR 10 YEARS A CREDITABLE GROUP CAMPIAGNED IN THE US 4 CHILDREN'S RIGHTS ; DEATH BY ADOPTION THEY NAMED PEOPLE LOOKING FOR A DONOR
Hey Gershom, not one but TWO Freudian slips there! Lol. I struggle with guilt about expressing any feelings or opinions on anything, but even more so my anti-abortion - whoops - adoption views. Adoptees sometimes wish they had been aborted instead. We have been through so much pain that often we wish we had never been born at all. Oddly, I don't remember ever being told I should be greatful for being adopted. But I do understand you. I think what you're doing is fantastic. Keep it up!
So true. When he was reunited with me and his natural father, our son said he felt as if he'd always known us. We felt the same.
Also, thanks for bombing the ugly myth that adoptees were rescued from abortion. It's cruel and disrespectful to them and their natural mothers. At 17, I rejected a safe, legal abortion. That was 5 years before Roe v. Wade. I loved and wanted to raise my baby. BTW, my adult son and I are pro-choice, one of countless things we have in common.
You have every right to feel as You do. One never truly knows what the feelings or circumstances were that You were handed over to another family but by looking at You and hearing You speak I can tell that You have a Beautiful heart so full of life and Love. As a Mother, I am sure you cannot understand giving up a child but they did whatever they thought was best for you at that time...Let Go of the Hurt and enjoy Life...God Bless You...
zeldarose24 3 years ago
Wow, what a bunch of haters. I go offline for a few months and see a bunch of people calling me a brat, and white trash HA! I had a few horses, a pony and a nice house, with a swimming pool too lmfao. Rich White America is leading the adoption industry, you won't find many "white trash" adopters :| Do the math.
Thanks for the support from the supportive, I'm used to the haters, they can't handle the truth. It happens all the time :)
xoxoxoxo
AdopteeWarrior 3 years ago
zeldarose24 3 years ago
I was sad when my house burnt down. I was grateful when the firemn saved my life. They are not mutually exclusive. What a brat!
kelark 3 years ago
That might be easy for your birth parents NOW to say abortion wasn't an option...why do you so readily believe them?
wellkeptsecret 3 years ago
I never thought I'd find something to agree with an atheist about, but now I have. I guess they'll give me a bunch of thumbs down now too! Oh, well!
fatdanios 3 years ago
Notice how she can't even get the words out right every time she says it. Talk about repeated Freudian slips ! Countless people are alive today because pro life people got to mothers before the killing lobby did. And the vast majority of them are not this hateful or bitter.
But agreed, it should never be an option to suggest that killing a child is the answer to anything. A child never ruined anyone's life. Only the loss of one has, child and parent alike.
YourHumanRights 3 years ago
I am pro-life and still think that pro-life should not automatically mean adoption is the ONLY option.
meiling04 3 years ago
What do think about the concept of a total ban on adoptions.
steveascension 3 years ago
I support the idea completely actually and believe in legal guardianship. Although some children in the foster care system would like to be adopted, they are the ones who should have priority if adoption is an absolutely necessary.
But if the world was perfect "which we all know its not" there wouldn't be adoption, not because parents can't raise their children, ( because that will always happen somewhere )
AdopteeWarrior 3 years ago
but because people would honor the rights of parentless children and treat them with respect while replacing their parents with other ones who will care for them when needed.
AdopteeWarrior 3 years ago
adopteewarrior: i so admire you. i saw your comments on rosaryfilms. thanks for standing up to that fascist.
leiapeison 3 years ago
Hi,
I'm not an adoptee, but I am grateful that I was born to the parents that I have. My sister-in-law is adopted and I have been a part of her family for 20 years. I have never heard any discussion of gratitude, but I wouldn't be surprised if she felt it. Her adoptive parents (my in-laws) are wonderful loving people.
You seem bitter about your situation? Am I misreading your tone?
laleebee 3 years ago
Adoption is a privilege, not a RIGHT.
meiling04 3 years ago
I think you are responding to the wrong person. I never spoke about adoption being a "right".
laleebee 3 years ago
great video!
roevswade 3 years ago
***adopteewarrior:What does life mean to you? Do you feel because you were adopted life has been unfair?
morningdew214787 3 years ago
You are brilliant.
Tell it as it is, even if the truth hurts them
LadyJustice666 3 years ago 5
I was adopted, and I am grateful. Of course I do not know your circumstances so I can't really compare. However, aren't you slightly appreciated that you were taking out of the situations you may have faced. I mean to me it seems like you grew up and are healthy and happy? You obviously have opinions and you seem to be well. Isn't that the most important thing. Does it really matter how you grew up, just as long as you end up alright in the end. I mean really life could have been harder.
seahawks365 3 years ago
Your RIGHT TO LIFE WAS THREATENED THE MINUTE YOU WERE TAKEN AND YOUR MEDICAL RECORDS WERE MISSING. IF YOU HAD GOT ILL GOD 4 BID .THESE PROFESSIONALS WOULD NOT BE ABLE TO FIND YOUR BIRTH PARENTS QUICK ENOUGH ON A NATIONAL DATA -BASE. WE NEED A GLOBAL DATA BASE FOR ADOPTED CHILDREN/ADULTS.
GRAHAM BARNELL YT CHECK HIM OUT GLOBAL SEARCH FOR A GENE ;HE WAS ADOPTED.
FOR 10 YEARS A CREDITABLE GROUP CAMPIAGNED IN THE US 4 CHILDREN'S RIGHTS ; DEATH BY ADOPTION THEY NAMED PEOPLE LOOKING FOR A DONOR
liverpoollou6 3 years ago
Hey Gershom, not one but TWO Freudian slips there! Lol. I struggle with guilt about expressing any feelings or opinions on anything, but even more so my anti-abortion - whoops - adoption views. Adoptees sometimes wish they had been aborted instead. We have been through so much pain that often we wish we had never been born at all. Oddly, I don't remember ever being told I should be greatful for being adopted. But I do understand you. I think what you're doing is fantastic. Keep it up!
Sammicsno 3 years ago
So true. When he was reunited with me and his natural father, our son said he felt as if he'd always known us. We felt the same.
Also, thanks for bombing the ugly myth that adoptees were rescued from abortion. It's cruel and disrespectful to them and their natural mothers. At 17, I rejected a safe, legal abortion. That was 5 years before Roe v. Wade. I loved and wanted to raise my baby. BTW, my adult son and I are pro-choice, one of countless things we have in common.
softsocialista 3 years ago
Great job Gershom! You speak for many, many people, including me. Thank you.
jodihm 3 years ago
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apekatter 3 years ago
You have every right to feel as You do. One never truly knows what the feelings or circumstances were that You were handed over to another family but by looking at You and hearing You speak I can tell that You have a Beautiful heart so full of life and Love. As a Mother, I am sure you cannot understand giving up a child but they did whatever they thought was best for you at that time...Let Go of the Hurt and enjoy Life...God Bless You...
thelordscall 3 years ago
And as I keep watching this, I have to laugh... we both make some of the exact same comments and points... almost verbatim!
zuko4prez 3 years ago
You said it much better than I ever could.
zuko4prez 3 years ago