God bless you John. As I have said before. You are a gift from God and He knew your name before your parents met. There are those who will say or write some cruel, inhumane things to you. But know this, you are defined by your character, not your sexual orientation. Your story reminds me of a wonderful youth I knew years ago. He was almost 13 and in the car with his mom and her friend when his mom said, "12 year old kids don't have problems" hearing this her son replied, "Yes they do-I'm gay" .
OMG i hate that thing- when someone finds out you're anything other than straight, it's such a big deal and suddenly they love you. I mean, seriously, fuck off.
@welovenatnalex I never said anything about either trait being "right or wrong" I was merely pointing out to HaleyDappie that expecting someone (John) to act or talk a certain way is to stereotype gay people. If we really want the rest of the world to accept gay people aren't different we shouldn't go out of our way to act different. IMHO
@rmetner49 that is kind of offensive to effeminate men. There is nothing wrong with John or anyone being masculine but there is nothing wrong with being feminine either.
@HaleyDappie The fact that John isn't a typical "flamer" makes him all the more attractive. A lot of gay men get turned off by the effeminate actions. If they wanted to be with someone that acted like a woman, they would go out with a woman. Don't change, John.
Ugh. I told my co-worker I'm gay a couple weeks ago. She begged to be my best friend, and ever since has been hugging me whenever we see each other and saying she loves me.
I feel like a fucking teddy bear that she's trying to claim as her property.
i love your courage and have been where you are keep it up ... and by the way moms always know your gay sometimes before you do mine did and when i told her i was gay she looked at me and said "Honey ive always known you were gay i was just waiting for you to tell me" ill tell you i was the one that was "Shocked" lol
im not gay, but dude i seriously give props my man, your manlier then my straight friends for having the balls to stand up for yourself... amen to you my friend
Good for you. You have a healthier attitude toward who you are. I have had such a better life accepting myself for who I am--instead of fighting to be something I am not.
im 21 and bi, ive got a huge compassion for teens especially gay/confused/bi so even though you dont know me i fully support you and wish you well dude ps yes you definate do get more secure in yourself and believe it or not you look back and laugh at the things you made a big deal about, honestly im not just saying that ; ]
Im happy i watched this! your adorable :) Ive been in and out of closet since 13. NOW IM OUT! FOR GOOD lol :) I loved when you said you wouldnt have it any other way :)
I think your so cute, and to be honest i love gay people, and i dont see how people cant. i hope you have a happy life and find someone good for you. :)
I'm so happy I'm gay too, I wouldnt want it any other way. It took me along time to get to this point though, so I think it's really inspirational that you got to this point at your young age...You ROCK!!!
I think it's really great that you are coming out at your young age. Believe me you have done the right thing.It really sucks to be gay and still in the closet at my age. You should be proud of yourself.
@TheJohnFlack Thanks, I'm just trying to do it at the right time. I already know two of my friends are going to hate me. I'm trying to not hang out with them anymore because of that. I know for a fact my mom would be completely fine with it, but my dad wouldn't talk to me ever again..
Good for you! I think it's awesome how you have such a good self esteem! I honestly wouldnt choose to be straight either even if I could. I am happy with the way I am!
Omg John!! I was fooling around on YouTube and your video came up and I was like "omg it's johnn!!" haha :3 I love your videos, you are fabulous (: -Cassidyy
I know what you mean about people wanting to be your friend simply because of your sexuality. I'm not gay, but, I'm bi, and straight girls find it either cool or gross it seems and straight guys usually find it hot. I hate that.
I knew i was homo at 8.
TaylorMccanzie 4 days ago
your just so cute(: glad you are comfortable
cookiemunstergirl 4 weeks ago
God bless you John. As I have said before. You are a gift from God and He knew your name before your parents met. There are those who will say or write some cruel, inhumane things to you. But know this, you are defined by your character, not your sexual orientation. Your story reminds me of a wonderful youth I knew years ago. He was almost 13 and in the car with his mom and her friend when his mom said, "12 year old kids don't have problems" hearing this her son replied, "Yes they do-I'm gay" .
thesloopyable 1 month ago
OMG i hate that thing- when someone finds out you're anything other than straight, it's such a big deal and suddenly they love you. I mean, seriously, fuck off.
milkyway531 1 month ago
@welovenatnalex I never said anything about either trait being "right or wrong" I was merely pointing out to HaleyDappie that expecting someone (John) to act or talk a certain way is to stereotype gay people. If we really want the rest of the world to accept gay people aren't different we shouldn't go out of our way to act different. IMHO
rmetner49 1 month ago
@rmetner49 that is kind of offensive to effeminate men. There is nothing wrong with John or anyone being masculine but there is nothing wrong with being feminine either.
welovenatnalex 1 month ago
I like your video :) You're very cute :)
RyanBlu100 1 month ago
@HaleyDappie The fact that John isn't a typical "flamer" makes him all the more attractive. A lot of gay men get turned off by the effeminate actions. If they wanted to be with someone that acted like a woman, they would go out with a woman. Don't change, John.
rmetner49 1 month ago
Ugh. I told my co-worker I'm gay a couple weeks ago. She begged to be my best friend, and ever since has been hugging me whenever we see each other and saying she loves me.
I feel like a fucking teddy bear that she's trying to claim as her property.
ZiggyOsiris 1 month ago
You are Verry brave,,Great video ...Peace..Tommy B
lightningboy99 1 month ago
Ugh. The one gay guy without a gay voice../-.-/
HaleyDapple 1 month ago
i love your courage and have been where you are keep it up ... and by the way moms always know your gay sometimes before you do mine did and when i told her i was gay she looked at me and said "Honey ive always known you were gay i was just waiting for you to tell me" ill tell you i was the one that was "Shocked" lol
boomer666ize 1 month ago
Your eyes = <3
Kalerrz 1 month ago
Proud of you!!!
MoreCocoCody 1 month ago
You're really strong to do this. i respect that :)
meggiemogz 2 months ago
wow. you are very attractive
SimplyMeStephanie 2 months ago
<3!!
ladygaga0123456789 2 months ago
You are SO cute!!(:<3 Keep doing what you're doing!(: xoxoxoxoxo
CrazyGabe44 2 months ago
You are such a beautiful person <3 Not to mention an inspiration. Stay magnificent, love
CallMeONYX13 2 months ago
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1Thompsonmusic 2 months ago
Yay another cute guy
101czrsmrc 2 months ago
me 2 but scared to say>>>>??? :[
danielbriseno21 2 months ago
haha you're cute. It's funny when you look off thinking what to say :P
Nice hair :) <3
TehMusicCentral 3 months ago
im not gay, but dude i seriously give props my man, your manlier then my straight friends for having the balls to stand up for yourself... amen to you my friend
kinglyish 3 months ago 3
Οh, such an interesting story.... :)
I am bi and I can see how you must have been feeling....
Be happy with you are, I hope you find a kind guy for you :)
Kisses.
Hey, inbox me if you'd like... I wanna ask for some advice...
sarantis1995 4 months ago
Good for you. You have a healthier attitude toward who you are. I have had such a better life accepting myself for who I am--instead of fighting to be something I am not.
texbear21 5 months ago
I'm happy everything worked out for .. I hope nobody is makin fun of you cuz ur really kewl ( an cute !!! ) me bi ...
Jonwitz1 5 months ago
Your Eyes!<3
RYANSAGLEEK 6 months ago
im 21 and bi, ive got a huge compassion for teens especially gay/confused/bi so even though you dont know me i fully support you and wish you well dude ps yes you definate do get more secure in yourself and believe it or not you look back and laugh at the things you made a big deal about, honestly im not just saying that ; ]
BananaSandwich1 7 months ago
hugs
BananaSandwich1 7 months ago
Im happy i watched this! your adorable :) Ive been in and out of closet since 13. NOW IM OUT! FOR GOOD lol :) I loved when you said you wouldnt have it any other way :)
123moscowman 8 months ago
Great video Mister:)
123moscowman 8 months ago
Hi I'm 12 years old homosexual!
I just wanted to tell you, you are really good and I'm your fan :)
zhuzhupets67 8 months ago 8
@zhuzhupets67 12?! wow i give you props for realizing at such a young age! thank you so much for the support :) <3
TheJohnFlack 8 months ago 16
@TheJohnFlack No, I thank you for hel ;) <3
zhuzhupets67 8 months ago
@zhuzhupets67 Being honest here. 12? can you really be sure at that age?
TheRealityacid 1 month ago
@TheRealityacid I'm 13 and PLEASE I know who I am. I actually have a boyfriend I wear make-up so please I KNOW that I'm gay :P!
And if u don't belive me I don't care!
zhuzhupets67 1 month ago
I think your so cute, and to be honest i love gay people, and i dont see how people cant. i hope you have a happy life and find someone good for you. :)
FrerardForever2011 8 months ago 11
@FrerardForever2011 thank you boo <3 i love the support :D
TheJohnFlack 8 months ago 3
@TheJohnFlack Your welcome.. i think you deserve alot of support <3
FrerardForever2011 8 months ago
OMG pretty eyes
einstienear 9 months ago 8
@einstienear thank you :D
TheJohnFlack 9 months ago
you'll always be my favorite. love and miss you honeybee
-sophie
socapa in our hearts forever :D
singdanceloveblind 9 months ago
@singdanceloveblind awww boo <333 miss you <333
TheJohnFlack 9 months ago
:)
SertavisSaviPianist 10 months ago
I'm so happy I'm gay too, I wouldnt want it any other way. It took me along time to get to this point though, so I think it's really inspirational that you got to this point at your young age...You ROCK!!!
pvampire 10 months ago
I think it's really great that you are coming out at your young age. Believe me you have done the right thing.It really sucks to be gay and still in the closet at my age. You should be proud of yourself.
dakota200169 10 months ago
i wish i had the guts to come out. there are so many gay bashers at my school i think i would be shut out completely :|
Mrasdfify 10 months ago
@Mrasdfify aww just do it! things will get better i promise! if you need help send me a message! always here to help
TheJohnFlack 10 months ago
@TheJohnFlack Thanks, I'm just trying to do it at the right time. I already know two of my friends are going to hate me. I'm trying to not hang out with them anymore because of that. I know for a fact my mom would be completely fine with it, but my dad wouldn't talk to me ever again..
Mrasdfify 10 months ago
Good for you! I think it's awesome how you have such a good self esteem! I honestly wouldnt choose to be straight either even if I could. I am happy with the way I am!
pvampire 11 months ago
Omg John!! I was fooling around on YouTube and your video came up and I was like "omg it's johnn!!" haha :3 I love your videos, you are fabulous (: -Cassidyy
alltimelowgirl16 11 months ago
you're such a nice dude...really...make a facebook page btw....it's awesome you're so confident...<3
CyrusFun 11 months ago
@CyrusFun thank you so much! i was considering making a facebook page! should i do it?
TheJohnFlack 11 months ago
I know what you mean about people wanting to be your friend simply because of your sexuality. I'm not gay, but, I'm bi, and straight girls find it either cool or gross it seems and straight guys usually find it hot. I hate that.
Emmalicious115 11 months ago
It's funny how you freeze when you're thinking. Sooooooo cute.
SuzanneSuzieSuz 1 year ago 28
JOHN FLACK! ( it's your girl Jessica who graduated and misses you dearly!!! :D )
it's been so long since i heard your voice that it made me happy (: you are too cute and i absolutely love you <3 and i absolutely miss you ):
Jesyboo92 1 year ago
Glad you are happy to be yourself. Awesome video. :-D
garysdeskcom 1 year ago 4
YOU'RE SO CUTE JOHN!!!
remrocker27 1 year ago
awe john <3
LacieTaylor531 1 year ago
are you like famous???
Anonyfication 1 year ago 11
@Anonyfication no haha i'm not
TheJohnFlack 1 year ago
John, i love you. <3
rikkijonas200 1 year ago