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  • Ive stopped talking to all my friends and family. i went from being a happy hard working/friendly person to a hopeless and depressed person in a few months.This song and father of mine make me cry, i wish everything would just go back to the way it was a year ago. I never hated my father till now, It makes me angry to know he lives happily without me in his life while me and my mother suffer so much. Idk what to do at this point im really depressed and weak. ='(

  • Ive lost 25lbs now eating super healthy, pain is down but Ive developed Plantar fasciitis, nerve damage and weak ankle muscles which makes walking hard/bitpainful n makes me really depressed. Ive been reduced to lay in bed all day since thats the only time im not in pain. Cant find another job, cant walk, cant afford treatment n im so sad. The only support i have is my mom. my dad walked out on us when i was 17days old. Ive only met him once in my 22yrs and he only lives 25min away from me =(

  • Want to be a Physical Therapy Asst. Cost 42k n after loans i still need 8k up front, so i saved for a yr I was under a lot of stress n rumors of the store closing didnt help.I gained 40lbs,it led to ankle pain.Walking was painful n at night id get home crying from the pain n as soon as i lay in bed i twitch uncontrollably for like 40min but i continued to work for a month till the store closed on Dec24.Went to the Dr. to get x-rays ($165) they did nothing else because i have no insurance.

  • I remember hearing this song as a reallly little kid, I'm now 15. Didn't think I'd be re-visiting this song..

  • i remember waking up early just to try to catch this song on mtv before school :)

  • thiis song makes me cry!!!:'(

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  • Truth is a lot can relate to this song.

  • we had to listen to this in class a few years back... never thought id be revisting it...

  • From the bygone days when music actually meant something :^( I cant believe how fast 21 years went

  • I really needed a song like this and i searched yahoo for one. Pink - Family Potrait had no effect on me but when i listened to this it brought tears to my eyes </3

  • Has to be one of the best songs ever

  • thanks(redfaced).

    

  • thaks for putting this up.(:

  • wow....my song...u.u

  • @funnilishes24 Oh no its cool. I actually didn't notice this until just now. Tell you what... I'll update the video with lyrics at the end using annotations right now. Will that fly? I know it won't match the rest of the video, but hey, at least the words will be there.

  • @Gaaraofthesand4 alright thanks : )

  • God blesses us all. Done a lot of dumb (bad) shit I still feel all god love today+ every day forever

  • God always blesses us we are his people beleive it or not done everyday a lot of bad shit still fell his love

  • gonna play this at my wedding!

  • My comment on this video has 125 thumbs up but is not one one the top comments... WTF Youtube?

  • @MrSpudshooter Well I replied to you, so now at least your name will always be on the front page. Good enough? :D

  • @Gaaraofthesand4 Teehee, I like yous :P Such a pleaser.

  • @MrSpudshooter You know your life has hit ROCK BOTTOM when you worry about whether or not your comment has reached "top comment" status among a world of strangers.

    Come one buddy.

  • @MrSpudshooter Does it really matter?

  • 3 of my best friends mothers have cancer... One of their mothers died recently, and he is in therapy now, and had to postpone his journey to college... Please pray for him and my friends mothers if you could, I don't want to give names, but any prayer would do...

  • its weird how spot on this song describes my childhood.

  • i never got 2 live with both my parents :( neer met my father till i was 28 my mom was an drunk most of my life she died of cancer when i was 25 mwt my dad after hope life is wonderful now :)

  • My parents divorced when i was 8....

  • This song speaks to any child whose family went through such painful times, be it abuse, neglect, divorce, or any of the other unfortunate circumstances we face in society.

    It hits home with me as it does with a lot of people, so I will be forever thankful to Everclear for making this song.

  • wow! this song came out when i needed it to, when i was 10, but I am thankful my parents got back together-- everything is wonderful now :)

  • I'm going to try and make sure my kids NEVER have to go through what I had to, If it ever did happen, I would feel so bad for my kids, but I'd do the best to get them through it with my past experience..

  • anthem for the 9 years my mom was with my stepdad.

  • i never got to live with both of mine at once.

  • @kaylynnsue11 Yeah neither did I, it sucks, Bad.=(

  • Just heard this song on the radio and had to look it up. I love it

  • for all the bitches who lay around bitchin and pissin shut up you guys need a life and you need a girl friend

    MY GOD PEPOLE I HATE ASSHOLES WHO RUIN MY GOOD FUCKIN MOOD

  • @OSUrules231 Same here

  • I can totally relate to this song

  • The anthem to my childhood.

  • Just started listening to them and they are amazing =P

  • this song will never get oldd. it has a lot of meaning behind it <3

  • this tottaly relates to my child hood :/

  • I remember listening to this song when I was little; I thought it was so happy.. Now that I read the lyrics, I understand its meaning. I completely relate to it; brings bad memories back /:

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  • Makes me cry every time . c':

    

  • I can only imagine the pain, but the song is awesome though. =D

  • Wonderful is a wonderful song ^.~

  • its been 12 years sense my parants got devoriced and this song still makes me upset...my dad told me this song makes him upset when it first happened. I refuse to EVER get divorced its not worth the hurt

  • @dirtMAgerTkhid Not getting divorced isn't the answer if you can't be with the person you married then it is causing more hurt than getting divorced. The answer is find the person you wanna be with for the rest of your life make sure by spending at least 3 years together with them and 1-2 of those years live with them just so you know exactly what they are like and when you make the commitment to marry them you will be sure that it will last forever.

  • You have 69 videos.... hehehe

  • i go to school and they call cps lol

  • one person obviously didn't have everything be wonderful again.

  • I love this song..

  • @Glamtasticable SAME ITS SUCH A GOOD SONG :)

  • to all who can relate with this song - don't give up:D i promise that second chances at happiness really do exist!!!!

  • This is my song to my parents, i told my mom and it made her depressed....

  • I wish I had a dad. I've never had 1. I've had a biological father my whole life, but never some1 I cud call, "dad." I hate my father n he hates me. He abused me my whole life, both verbally n physically, recently cheated on my mom, they got a divorce, n he left. He's always loved my younger siblings n treated them so much better than me. Thanks 2 living n the smallest town I've ever seen, I still see him around every once n a while w his new girlfriend n kids that he seems to adore. Why...?

  • @AJLovesBasketball23 No one but he can explain his actions, but let me say this. I went through something similar with my mom, but, my dad remarried, and my step mom more than makes up for my real mom. Maybe your dad won't come in the form of a step dad, but perhaps in the form of a friend's dad. The best advice I can give you, is keep your mind open and keep hoping. You'll have a dad, whether it's sooner or later, everything will be wonderful. : )

  • I am 10 turning 11 my parents are happily married but my mom told me that when I was a kid I would cry and this song cheered me up and when I listen to this I get a great feeling like a memory or sumtin it's different

  • My parents passed on, and I don't have much for memories other than this song here that helps me feel better about my loss!..

  • my mom was never married and my dad left when i was 3 ish? idk i occasionaly see him like once every 6 months but after what hes done to us those 6 months are turing into never again in my life my mom is now single supporting 2 kids going back to collage on call and lives with her parents

  • my parents arent divorced, but i still ike this song

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  • Hahahaha...that's cute how you attempt to sound intellectual. I've known all of the above and am still not a little, whiny, condescending bitch about it. Don't attempt to undermine your peers when you, yourself, clearly have issues. What a pathetic shit. hahahahahahahaha. Anyway, awesome song.

  • My mom just went through her second divorce. My mom is now single, unemployed supporting 3 kids and going to college. This song has pulled me through many many hard times

  • My parents spilt up and while I guess I was okay with it, This song really does mean a lot, and I guess how it could even be helpful to kids going through the same thing ~ and even if not, the song still sounds good, I liked it before I heard it properly (on a Cold Case episode) =D

  • this song says exactly what i always used to think when i was growing up

  • I always thought this song was about global warming????? hahaha I was way off

  • This is my song. Parents divorced and wanting to retreat to a science fiction film.

  • I try to comfort myself and tell myself that I'd rather have two happy parents seperate than two miserable parents together, but it does suck on those motherless Mother's days or those fatherless Father's days or how they can't stand each other enough to be at my eighteenth together or graduation. Sometimes it sucks to be the in-between because no one can be civil.

  • i love this song my parents are divorced too

  • This song is so perfect. My mom and dad broke up 6 years ago, when I was 12. Life was horible with them together. Dad drank to much and mom was trying to hold the family together for to long. Even then, it hurt so much to hear they were gonna break up.. So I can only imagine what it would be like for a kid who had a good life :/

  • Unless the divorce is honestly for the better (one of your parents is abusive) divorce is never good. You don't know what it's like to cry and not be able to remember what it was like to have both parents there on Christmas morning opening presents, and the only memory you have of your parents together is watching your dad's hurt expression as he hands you off to your mom. You can NEVER know what it's like until it happens.

  • this is ecactly how it is for me i feel they wer speking to my parints

  • 1 person that disliked this song is retarded..Everclear has some goooood shit

  • my mom and step dad are getting married. they have been together for 11 yrs of my life im 15, he is more of a dad to me then my real dad. if they split ill be more devistated then when my mom and dad did

  • i'm glad i'm not alone, parents divorced, all the pain feeling like it was my fault, i'm not alone in this pain, and i hate to see others share this pain, but i like people to know you are never alone

  • @royalchic28- I am so thrilled to hear about someone like me who had an awful life but stopped the cycle of violence and chaos. We need to protect our future generations, and it starts with us!

  • parents getting divorced isnt that bad. sure my daddy lives an hour away but that just makes me really appreciate the time that i have with them. before i could care less. less fighting too. sure it isn't the same. and it sucks not being all together. but it always gets better (:

  • I relate to this song way too much. I was a kid that grew up in a violent home. I have seen and been through stuff you see in life time movies. This song was a typical day and night in my life. I don't get sad when I listen to it though,I have made my life for my children the exact opposite. I hope if you grew up in a situation like mine that you dont go the other way and repeat domestic violence.

  • im beating my depression now, but i can still relate to this song completely. great song

  • "I laugh aloud so my friends don't know when the bell rings I just don't wanna go home." It's still true, even ten years later ... nothing changed, still nothing to go back to.

  • This song used to make me cry. I'd sing it at night and cry myself to sleep. My sister used to sing it to me when my parents got divorced.

  • I remember I learned about this son when I was like 13 o4 14 and I just liked it for the tune. I'm 17 going on 18 in April. My parents are going through the divorce now with 5 kids ages 19-10. Now unfortunately I understand this song....

  • Love Everclear.  Love this song. Who can't relate?

  • what a sad song, i don't like being sad

  • And people wonder why Im always mad and threatin them.... CHRIST!, if only they knew the shit I had to go through.....

  • My parents never divorced. They've been happily married for 20 years and I'm only 16. But this song speaks to me, because not everything in my life is perfect just because my parents are together.

  • For as long as I can remember my parents haven't been together. My parents basically hate each other. They never got married, s there wasn't a painful divorce.

  • This song is still hard to listen to, even now that I am all grown up. Great song very true to the kids pov!

  • this song still gives me goose bumps. I really did have a star wars poster on my bed room door.

  • I don't want to start over again.. I just want my life to be the same, just like it used to be

  • its weird how this song still brings tears to my eyes and im a fkn adult lol

  • @Everybody who makes negative comments about this song!

    You're parents obviously aren't divorce. Or maybe you were the result of a one night stand and never knew them. You have no clue how much stress it puts on the kids. All of those sleepless nights, laying in bed crying, thinking about the memories you had as a family before your parents divorced, wishing you could relive those memories. It's assholes like you that cause all the pain and sorrow in our lives. You'll never understand.

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    >You're parents obviously aren't divorce.

    >You're

    >Your

    >divorce

    >divorced

    >Op is a faggot.

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  • @LSDlucid I'm only 15 My parents got divorced when I was 6 My dad had to live with his parents My mom got her own house My mom got married again 6 years ago she gave birth to my half sister 5 years ago My dad got married 3.5 years ago My mom is going through her second divorce right now My step dad was my best friend before he moved out and now I only see him when he comes to pick up my sister every wednesday night and every other weekend AND you can kiss my ass!
  • @MrSpudshooter im sorry. my parents got divorced when i was 1 so i never really had memories with both of them i cant even imagine them in the same house together cause i never new what it was like.

  • @MrSpudshooter What are you talking about? Divorce is GREAT!. Kids that complain about it are crazy.

    I'd wish that my dad's divorce themselves instead of fighting since the day I was born.

  • @CockyR4 YOU might think that divorce is "GREAT", but NO it is not, to many, and it is not up to you to decide how great it is. You might think that you have it worse, yes, maybe you are indeed, but have you thought that other people suffer too? Did you think you were the only one? Did you think that everyone who do not face what you are going through are not suffering? Forgive me, but you must be a very selfish and shallow person.

  • @Beauoracano Every couple I see getting divorce, life way better. I actually think that the kids who dont want their parents to divorce are the ones who are selfish.

    I dont think you got my point.

  • @CockyR4 The thing I'm saying is, you're coming from a very objective point of view, because you live a life that makes you wish your parents were divorced instead, but you have no idea what the kids who have divorced parents feel. Try to think in their shoes, would you be able to cope with the mental stress and pain the divorce could bring if you were them? Now, you are not them, that is why you are able to think that divorce is "great". That comment itself is very objective.

  • @CockyR4 (continued) YOUR opinion, I must say, is not everyone's opinion, therefore it isn't right of you to deem other people as 'crazy' just because they do not share your opinion, because we are all different and the lives we lead are also very different. You can't just expect others to think the way you do, because, in the same way that you are not them, they are not you.

  • @MrSpudshooter Whatever you say Sasuke.

  • @MrSpudshooter My parents divorced when I was 3 months old. I never even got to know what it feels like to have your REAL dad live with you. Now My dad is married to a woman who has 3 children, and he's forgotton all about me and all he cares about is them.. Half the time He won't pay child support, so My mom took him to court soo yeah that's my life:(

  • @MrSpudshooter wow. beautiful. thanks so much for this. HERES TO ALL THOSE TROUBLED SAD KIDS!!!! i know im not alone, just getting that haha

  • @MrSpudshooter , the only thing that i dont understand is my mom and dad are getting devoriced and i have no idea what to do because my dad is talking about moving to get away from her i know that it sucks with her around ( shes in a different country tho, canada) and we would go visit and he then married her they knew eachother for 10years but all my friends are here and she cheated and now my dad wants to move its just going to suck cause "i dont wanna start over again."

  • i played this song and my dad got mad at me because he said that,"it reminds me of to much." and i played it alot in my room and he said whats the deal with this song and i said its, just true

  • AHHHHHHHH!!!!!!! god dang it. i rlly dont wanna go home when the bell rings. my friends tell me everything is great as they're watching me cry or they're crying. how stupid is that? and the sad thing is promises never meant anything to me when i was little because three quarters of my friends break their promises between me and them. and i have to move in to my mom's boyfriends house. in february!!! GAD FREAKING SAVE ME!

  • I think I'm lucky cuz my parents are divorced but still friends. My dads even friends with my moms boyfriend. But it's still sad.

  • @ilovemycatlucas your one of the lucky ones because my dad is divorced with my birth mom and my dad got remarried and turns out she's a cheating bich so what can you do.... ( and i know i spelt it wrong )

  • This song makes me cry. But i love it

  • Omg :')

    ...

    Speachless<3

  • its a good song get over it d-bag!!!!!!! ura gay

  • Hey pussies. Man the fuck up  and deal with it. Your parents hate each other. Get over it.

  • @IamDayoldHate

    Amen.

  • Anybody that has lived through a divorce or three will understand every word of this song. Thanks for expressing this for us Everclear, ya done good. In memory of my parent's marriage, R.I.P.

  • love this song! ^_^

  • You can grab the audio-mp3 of this track at grabyourmp3s doht cohm.

  • The main difference between this and my life is I never had a 'before' or anyone telling me everything will be wonderful again... when I was younger and heard this song, I was always jealous of the kid in the song, for having someone... ~sigh

  • wow..this is soo sad. i never really listened to hte lyrics..this is sad.. wonderful song.. ;)

  • wonderful

    

  • Im only 14 and this remind me of my life *sigh *

  • awe i never really listened to lyrics way back when the song came out... thats so sad...

  • The person under me is my brother and he is gay

  • @sweeetuh agreed lmao

  • @sweeetuh If he's "under" you then he's not the only one that's gay.

  • @lite2dark wtf?

  • FIRST COMMENT NUMBER 2!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • FIRST COMMENT!!!!!!!!!

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