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  • This  is SO RIGHT.

  • It's scary how many girls didn't notice the MENTAL abuse that LED to the PHYSICAL abuse. Mental abuse can not only break someone down completely, but it's usually the sign to physical abuse. -face palm-

  • WHAT??? the audience is BEYOND STUPID ..........anybody who grabs you like that over a damn phone call or a text message is abusive....POINT BLANK

  • dude, in the 1st scenario, the girl was the one who started getting the negative energy and becoming agressive

  • lmao. the audience IS stupid, agreed.

    

  • ... Was that Edward Cullen abusing that blonde chick?

  • this audience is stupid... why do they think that arguing isn't abuse... just becuase someone isn't hitting someone doesnt mean they are not abusing them

  • wow the audience was embarassing to watch. they are so STUPID. it's scary.

  • this shits being so spoonfed to you to make tyra looks way super cool.

    why don`t they show more realistic videos, where instead of the response, `I dont make you do anything`, she should say, `your a fucking cheesedick`

  • oh my gosh.... the audience...

  • its funny how a lot of the women in the audience sound like the abusers, it lets you know that there's something wrong with society :/

  • sheesh guys, abuse is also psychological!! the guy in the first video was abusing her way before he grabbed her arm!!

  • It's scary how stupid some of the females in the audience are

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  • @XandriaBraff Just leave. I swear when I have my daughter she isn't going to be like yall dumb broads.

  • Wooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo­w the girls in the audience are fucking STUPID.

  • How can you say calling someone stupid and fat isn't abuse!?!? It blows my mind. And we KNOW it isn't physical abuse, it's kind of obvious.

  • @dogdayish I completely agree. In fact, it has nothing to do with how strong a man/woman is or how hard they hit their victim, or if they made them blackout or anything. It is the pure mental state of it all... the shock of it all, the whole abuse in general that hurts the worst. I was raped, sexually assaulted, and physically assaulted by my ex, and I can tell you that the pain emotionally of it all was far worse than the physical pain of the rape, sexual abuse, and physical abuse.

  • I HATE the way that they are only focusing on girls being abused by guys! for every two women who experience domestic abuse there is one man also being domestically abused. I agree that girls shouldn't be hit and that relationships shouldn't be violent but I feel the exact same should go for males when the role is reversed.

  • I agree men shouldn't hit girls, but what about the few girls that hit guys?

  • @dediopheslol321 yeh they shouldn't do it, but men are physically stronger than women..so yeh

  • IT'S ABUSE! OKAY? SHEESH. It is psychological abuse. Not all abuse is physical. It irks me that not everyone know this. They need to be aware of this.

  • It 17 your just to naive to be in a relationship. There I said it.

  • Sorry to say but all the girls in the audience who have spoken ARE ALLL FRIKKING STUPID AND DUMB!!! damnnn!! Tyra get urself a more intellectual audience....

  • I'm 13 n tht for sure was not abuse bcuz Itz not just a slap or punch

  • HER AUDIENCE IS STUPID

  • Wow...Some of the girls in the audience, sure know the difference between abuse, and "arguments". -.- "

  • most girls would say "if a man hit me i would be gone so fast!" like tyra said would happened to most girls lucky enough my mother was in an abusive realtionship and once he hit her... she literally left she told him she was going to get coffee and the kids wanted to go with her. but really she had packed her bags and left. i love my mom becuz she teaches me when someone hurts you. you need to stand up for ur self and you can do anything on ur own if you believe in urself<3

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  • why the fuck are all these girls so fucking stupid abuse is not only physical fucking use ur head....oMG

  • Wow. Abuse is not just a punch or a slap! Abuse is when one person walks away feeling less about themselves. Emotional pain is still pain. BAM. That's abuse. I was surprised how uneducated some of the girls were about the scenarios. They've watched Twilight too many times.

  • @ToBeAVampire101 I know right? It makes me so upset to see how naive girls are these days.

  • tyra is a fucking bitch

  • worst acting ever.

  • THIS AUDIENCE IS FUCKING STUPID

  • OMG, these idiots comments are laughable! Seriously?! ALL of those clips displayed abuse!!!! It doesn't have to be PHYSICAL in order for it to be deemed abuse.

  • Its scary that this reminds me of Edward and Bella's relationship

  • what does he say on 4:47? plz help :/ x

  • That guy looks like an abusive Edward from Twilight lol.

  • oh boy what crap!!!!

  • These lil girls smdh

  • These girls in the audience are stupid, they aren't even looking at the emotional abuse or psychological abuse. No wonder there is so much abuse in teens it's because most of them aren't even aware what is going on!

  • its actually scary how many of the young women in the audience dont think that some of the senarios portray an abusive relationship.

  • Its not abuse, its just controlling her life and destroying every ounce of confidence she has. Its totally normal...

    Were the audience watching a totally different thing?

  • teens now adays are a stupid,,, they werent arguing he was jus putting her down,, thats emotional abuse

  • The audience was told what to say in order to show the common thoughts of people.

  • "Just arguing" my butt!!! Girls have cut themselves, burned themselves and committed suicide because of verbal abuse! I wonder if it happened to them, if they would call it abuse or "just another argument".

  • are these people nuts!!!??? of course it's abusing if he calls her fat .. he makes her feel bad and not confident and even makes her get into a diet that might even kill her :@

  • how come tyra be on the women side all the time like the women don't hit people him back.it should be a 2 way street if ur going 2 blast on the man for hitting a girl blast the girl 2 4 hitting the man she is not completly helpless.it takes 2 to tango tyra and the audience is sexist.

  • @westsyde99 no. The difference is that that man is twice the size of that girl. And the majority of women don't have the same muscle mass as men do. Men are BUILT to be fighters. women are BUILT to be nurturers. It's like a house cat picking a fight with a German Shepard. Yes, the cat may start it, yes, they are equipped with claws and fangs, and yes, cats sometimes win those fights, but REALLY, that dog will do way more damage and it doesn't take a genius to see why. Same thing w/a relationship

  • It was an agrumen? It was all abuse its called EMOTIONAL ABUSE

  • "They were just arguing......" wth ur ignorant

  • am i the only one who finds the guy cute??

  • wow , tyra is really dumb .. didient know that .... what a shame ..

  • @Bossmanchan I agree with what you're saying, there is sexism in whats going on in this show but I think that it's because most cases that are 'reported' are of men abusing women but I agree with what you said. That's very true

  • A woman hitting a man shouldn't be any less terrible than a man hitting a woman. I have never seen such sexism on the Tyra show. This is horrible.

  • @Bossmanchan difference is, women are smaller and don't have the same muscle mass as men do. When a woman hits a man with her hands as hard as she can, usually, it wont hurt nearly as bad if a man hits a woman with half his strength. You can't compare apples to oranges. We're built differently therefore when it comes to physicality, we should be TREATED differently. It's not sexist- it's just logical.

  • @CMarti70546 Actually, it's not logical. There is no set muscle size for a man or a woman, so you saying that it would hurt more do to differences in muscle size is not correct. Also, if women should be treated differently, then they shouldn't complain when they get paid less. I am not sexist at all. I am a man fighting for women's rights, but I believe that they both are just as wrong. They should have had scenarios with women being abusive towards men. This episode was very biased.

  • Oh no...we need to be more vocal about abuse if most of the audience do not know what abuse is. :-(

  • So when a guy hits a girl it's abuse, but when a girl hits a guy it's will power? What has happen to equal rights?

  • This audience is stupid,,, i saw abuse the first seconds xp

  • ppl just sound so stupid sometimes

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  • What Makes You Think " iWanna Hit You " Now iDK Why They Just Showinq A Man Because A Woman WILL Abuse A Man To So For Me... iDK Its Awkward To Watch This Because Abuse Works Both Ways. It Can Be Verbal Not Only Physical.

  • so does tyra look at the boy in the beginning of this video and see him like that fake move abuse shit she started showing us? i'd be offended if i was him

  • wow i think this show wants you to be a robot with ur significant other....

  • "It's not PYSHICAL abuse but it's only verbal abuse." News flash, ABUSE IS ABUSE. Doesn't matter what "kind" of abuse it is.

  • If a man hit a woman, He's nothing but a fukin PUSSY!

  • This episode just screams Twilight to me. Also, the people in the audience are stupid =_=

  • @SentimentalJuice really there is a such thing called verbal abuse what no one got picked on in high school in that audiance? what want to say is i agreee with you.

  • are all thees people in the audience abused and in denial or something?

  • I DONT THINK I NEED A COLLEGE DEGREE TO UNDERSTAND THAT THE SCENARIOS ARE ALREADY ABUSIVE! JUST FROM THE GUY'S TONE OF VOICE YOU CAN TELL ITS GETTING THERE.. STUPID AUDIENCE. WHERE ON EARTH DID TYRA GET THEM!

  • that last scene reminded me of twilight, the way they act haha

  • everyone answering the if its abuse or not question is stupid !!! they are all abuse ! 

  • I love how every comment is about how the audience sucks.

  • STUPID ASS AUDIENCE

  • That Tucan Sam nose bitch in the white shirt (the first person who answered questions in the audience) is a stupid woman.

  • are all these women idiots?! they should just sit down and keep their mouths shut. from the very first scene it was abuse! its not just hitting a woman that's abuse. all couples argue every now an then, that wasn't aguing. he is a control freak and an abuser.

  • retarded

  • RETARDS THAT WAS ABUSE STUPIDS GONNA GET THEIR BUTTS ABUSED ONE DAY

  • Wow stupid audience all 3 of them were abuse :/

  • the audience has seem to forgotten that women can also abuse their men smh...

  • Stupid ass girls in the audience, they sound like the exact same type of girl who would let themselves be in an abusive relationship and say " but I love him"

  • Retarded audience ..

  • I love star and Cole to bad he's in jail now!

  • @jabgi

    why is he in jail and whats his full name?

  • my god..u need guts to remain in such a relationship. if my bf ever caught me or abused me like that i would have run away scared for my dear life and would have never come back.....seriously..... u need guts and total lack of self esteem.

  • @garizable I agree with the lack of self esteem part, but in my opinion, it takes more guts to leave. If I was the woman in the abusive relationship, I would be more worried about what he'd do if I left instead of what he does already. Just my two cents.

  • The girls that answer sound like it was a line they were fed.

  • What the hell? Is the audience serious? Please, please tell me they were paid to act that stupid.

    Emotional abuse is just as serious as physical abuse. Just different kind of pain.

  • some of these girls are stupid

  • the abuse re-enactments were hilarious!!!!

  • she looks like Edward from twiight i knew it!

    Edward Cullen an abusive boyfriend.

    Teach all them stupid chicks to think who they want as a boyfriend!

    (BTW i'm a chick as well :P)

  • i love this show... its so like educational...

  • these people are a little slow... they don't understand the concept of verbal, and emotional abuse

  • The people in the audience are stupid -_- this show isn't just about physical abuse it's about ABUSE in general.

  • Dear god, so much fucktards on stage.

  • They are all stupid. "its just arguing.... its not PHYSICAL"

    My boyfriend never layed his hands on me, but he threatend to kill me, called me fat, ect. That IS abuse, it doesn't have to be a hit or a slap to be abusive

  • @slideshowgurl My moms new husband used to verbally abuse me, not with killing me, but calling me fat and ugly etc. And one day I just had enough and screamed at him and said I hated him. Now he doesn't do it to me, but I've never known if he does or did it to my mom

  • @slideshowgurl Just a quick question is he still your boyfriend?? 'cause you said "My boyfriend"..

  • @Atlantis95 no actually, I didn't even realize I said my boyfriend...

  • @slideshowgurl its still abuse i know cuz i seen it happen in my family my mom went throu it so yes it is abuse so there r not stupid

  • Growing up my mom always reminded me that abuse isn't just physical but it can be more. And like for me to hear any of these girls saying it's not abuse just makes me wanna slap them. All three scenarios were abusive. As I posted in the previous part look up Casos de la Vida and the host doesn't take shit from abusers.

  • this audience has no knowledge on abuse they prob all abused and dont know it!

  • that first scene was like a twilight movie

  • omg! if my boyfriend would call me fat, i would say "if you don't fucking like, why the fuck are you still with me? get out!"

  • I LOVE tyra's dress...and some of those people in that audience are...let's just say...a bit dense...

  • wtf is wrong with those 2 audiences

  • i see they filled the audience with idiots today. smh

  • oooh bad acting. lol

  • The skit about the girl losing weight wasn't "arguing". That guy was being a prick for no reason.

  • I love how Twilight in in the suggestions XD

  • @MsSeverusSnapexoxo lol i noticed that too!

    And did you notice he had on a jacket that looks like Edwards!

    lol

  • The audience seem to have forgotten (or don't know) that abuse can be physical, verbal, psychological, emotional, financial..etc

  • What's also weird is that they only refer to the second one as abuse because of the slap....his whole aggressive attitude is abusive. HELL|OOO WOMEN WAKE UP!

  • the fact that ppl thought it wasn't abusive is insane! where is everybody's brains at??

    first one was abusive because he was aggressive over a phone call and he was intimidating her by grabbing her like that

  • The 1st clip with the guy and girl wasn't abuse but it could have led to abuse

    The 2nd clip was abuse because the guy grabbed her hair and the way he's talking to her she is being verbally and physically abuse... thats my opinion

  • i swear those people in the audience pissed me off. how would they like to be actually treated like that? not to good im thinking. idiots..

  • Wow that was clear as day verbal abuse how could you not reconize that :P that audience was retarded

  • OMFG STUPID AUDIENCE.

  • I like This Short Film

  • wow those girls in the audience are really...not too bright...

  • Those dumb girls...I'd like to take a bat and "argue" with them.

  • @CoonEyed haha hell yes!

  • 2:45 Oh she is so awkward

  • gosh, those examples of abuse were pretty clear. Don't understand how people didn't see it! And in my opinion, number three - wasn't just an "argument" - the guy was clearly attacking and humiliating the girl. This kind of man's treating of a woman is WRONG. A man like this obviously isn't with a woman because he loves her, but because he has a need to rule over her. A loving man will bring up things with kindness and not with humiliation. This was an abuser who wants to dominate and rule over.

  • @JustK8 i agree that was clearly emotional abuse...bring her self confidence down..

  • @life6391 as well as emotional abuse

  • @edaj84 totally...it sucks

  • I think that verbally abuse is as bad as physical abuse.Verbally abuse is something that nobody can see.

  • so uh...what about the chicks that abuse the guys? that happens to ya know.

  • hahaha. to those of you who are blasting the audience for being daft/thick/completely oblivious to what abuse is: during the running time of the Tyra Banks show, as well as many other talk shows like this encourage the members to participate before the show begins, they are often times scripted/rehearsed responses to the questions being asked. the audience members can see the abuse, they are merely filling time and participation requirements set forth by the producers. THE MORE YOU KNOW!

  • omg the audience are so damn stupied i cant believe the seriusely thing that verbal abuse is really not abuse :O didint there mother thought them anything!! ?

  • The audience really is stupid....wow.

    There are such things as PSYCHOLOGICAL and VERBAL abuse....abuse that bruises the ego, self esteem, and perception of self, not just the body.

    No wonder so many women get caught in bad relationships......

  • the dudes acting SUCKS

  • The young girls in this audience need to realize that that's not just arguing. That is something more. I'd rather be hit than be psychologically abused.

  • Wow the audience is really uneducated...

  • wow!!! those girls are so fucking retarded!!!!

  • But they are not arguing, he is telling her off. lol?

  • omg!! wtf is with the audience!!! I cannot believe my ears!

  • LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL the audience is retarded O_O

  • Question. . Women can be abusers as well so why do they mainly only talk about men being abusers?

  • @KazamaAsuka1 because it's mainly men

  • @KimberleyASamuels the reason you think it's mainly men is because they mostly talk about THEM being abusers and practically dismiss abusive women

  • @PaperBuddy hemmm no, it's because it is a fact that more men more are abusive than women, sure there are abusive women in which most cases no one really cares because of the chauvinistic social mind all countries have, for example: if people see a woman abusing a men they will thinks it's the man's fault, even find it funny because the man it's suppossed the be "the man of the house",...but don't you watch news, read papers? man kill's wife, man this man that, there's even alot of evidence

  • No wonder girls get trapped into abusive relationship. They see a guy that's pathologically assaulting a young girl verbally with the girl acting all submissive and scared and they simply go " Well, they were just having a nice little argument, that's all ! I don't see any abuse here..."

    Well thanks for all the feminists because it seems they're working for a lost cause.

  • "Oh yeah...h-sh-he hit her! ...that was definitely abuse."

    Great insight... -___-

  • Someone constantly calls you stupid, (and humiliating you) its verbal abuse

    Some pulls your hair or smacks you in the face or even grabs your arm tight enough to bruise. ITS ABUSE! do ppl need a black eye first before they see how dangerous someone is?

  • the second clip as SOON as he raised his voice I knew that was abuse.

  • people I'm the audience are SO stupid!!!

  • 2:11 WOOOOOO! Score 1 for us!

  • Should of looked at him

  • Okay, I'm fifteen and I KNOW that that first video was abuse. No question. That is called VERBAL abuse. Did they even listen to what he was saying to her? He was being controlling and subtly violent. Scary that girls can't see that.

  • Haha my mom gets in horrible relationships like these and then she would tell me to never treat anyone like that as if I would. That screws with your mind when you're a young kid

  • @Dev1Young don't listen to that...seperate yourself from the shit around and live your own life with your own rules ! ( as long as they're good ones ha ha ! )

  • @1480mathias aha my bad, screws with your mind if your not me. people can't influence me

  • @Dev1Young good for you

  • OMG im an abuser:OOOOOOOOOOOOOO lol joke

  • I WANNA FUCKING SLAP THOSE SHITSTICKS IN THE AUDIENCE.

    No, better yet, I'll get their MAN to do it for me...

  • Wow....look at Tyra's body in that dress!!! :D

  • Did they hire those girls to sit in the audience and act like idiots?

  • these ppl are idiots! wtf 'well there was no contact' seriousl sbuse doesn't just mean hitting. Abuse is emotional, physical, verbal not just someone hittin someone else.

  • man trya got big tits. i'd grab em

  • ITS CALLED PSYCHOLOGICAL ABUSE OMFG

  • I think Edwin is a Sociopath. Like he doesn't feel bad he's just saying what people want to hear and he's got this attiitude that is not the attitude of someone who wants help. like he's always on guard he doesn't ever want anyone to put him under anything. I think he was very traumatised as a child. I had a dog like him. you didn't dare try to get him to lie down or go down in anyway. Never touch his head. But may God help him it break my heart to see a young person so destroyed.

  • Man, My Grandma's cousin daughter was in a abusive relationship and he beat on her sooo bad. The got tried of getting hit and one day when he hit her , She fought back... He was mad mad mad, But she won and called the cops and he is locked up today still since 2005-2013. He is getting some serious crimes for the serious injuries. Never again she says will she let a man hit on her or her kids...

  • i think all those cases were either mental or emotional or full out abuse.

  • Uhm... Hello people in the audience?? Abuse is not JUST physical (ie hitting, punching....) People can be psychologically abused and verbally abused. YES, this is still considered abuse...

  • It's not physical abuse... Well what the hell do you call it then? Because that was not JUST an argument......... >.>

  • i'm surprised no one said that the guy was controlling in the first scenario . . . arguing and being controlling are very different .

    and in the 3rd scenario if my bf called me fat and stupid - its so over.

  • Those actors are so bad they just make me wanna PUNCH THEM! .. I mean ... haha.. um ... just joking.. abuse is bad.. yeaaaah.

  • OMG are these girls stupid how could they call that just arguing? :S It was VERBAL ABUSE, situations like these get me so mad are they that blind?! :@

  • Dude, i'd give a woman five times in a row to hit me in my face, thats when i'll have to choke her out, i probably wouldn't hit her though lol

  • they need kelly cereal: a betch slap in every bite!

  • i can't believe the dumbasses in the audience... "well its not physical abuse"

    no shit.

    abuse exists on so many more levels that physical.