Transgender Realities Part 1

[MrMrMoto]

AHH... MY EYES CAN"T UNSEE!

[jakeluv7]

This has nothing to do with being born in the wrong body. It has to do with the way society views sexual identity, we are to fit into Male or Female & that is it. Socieity expects you to fit one of the two roles, it only makes sense that people like Amanda & Michael go to the extremes they do.If society would instead view people as spiritually more soft or more assertive and all inbetween, then these people wouldnt have the need to identity with the two limited sexual identity expressions.

[natevines]

I'm all for gay rights but these sick trannies should be marginalized, and definitely not given government positions. They obviously have significant psychological issues.

[Wagnerrrific]

@natevines How can you say that about people you have never met and have only judged based upon watching a short ten minute video of? These two seem perfectly normal and fine to me. Transgendered people face such harsh intolerant bullies such as yourself and have for years. What's so awful about these people? Nothing. I see two individuals that are true role models of society. People who don't even identify as trans can learn positive, self reassuring messages from these two people's stories.

[IntellectualAmy]

@natevines - That is such a nasty statement to make. Sick Trannies? But we're all for Gay Rights. Oh, well, I'm sure doing that little act of compassion will allow you to sleep at nights at least....

[blackisrealites85]

the jewish people we hate all faggots

the torah and talmud hate all faggots

[interestingandrew]

I wonder what HIS/her ex wife thinks about his dress up act

[JmsWinburn]

People like @bonjubs57 just don't realize the BENEFIT that we transgenders bring to the entire LGBT community. TGs actually bring transphobic straights AND gays together into a beautiful, harmonious alliance...because they ALL want to beat us up.

[AnAscendingAngel]

@JmsWinburn which I don't get, because there's nothing anybody can point to that we do which harms society simply by us being trans.

[bonjubs57]

I tried to be nice and discuss this with you @ITALIANMORON but you now have to call names and act like a real mulie - so go fcuk yourself son - and while you are at it - LET AMANDA KNOX OUT OF JAIL. SHE DID NOT KILL THAT ENGLISH GIRL.

[janicepjam]

What about women who feel more like men inside? Just because I have boobs doesn't mean I want to keep baking cakes or wear stilettoes

[Elondrow]

When a person is born male, he IS male.

No matter how much he wants to be female he is not. If he wants to pretend to be female, fine. But other people don't have to play pretend with him. They should call him a he, and treat him as such.

[collegeguy2009]

hou, ignorant nigga, hou? thy pathetic  hatred of transsexual people sickens us ALL.

[italianmuscles]

@Elondrow you are right,usually if someone is born male is male but not always.trust me tgs people don`gt pretend to be the opposite sex,they are the opposite sex,they just need to fix their bodies.why have u got all this anger,what are they taking away from u?we should respect all people,theres lots of pain and suffering in the world,why can`t we just respect people?why is it so hard?

[JeuneFilleaCarnival]

the interviewer asks him to clarify the categories and he just makes it seem even more confusing. amanda is much more focused in her explaining.

[bonjubs57]

I personalized my experience and I am sorry if I offended anyone on this thread. With regards to "Intellectual Amy", I don't pretend to understand people who are transgender or transsexual but I will endeavor to be more empathetic.

[IntellectualAmy]

@bonjubs57 - empathetic - you judge us as losers. That's a great start is that. I don't go out and judge the Gay Communities. I will agree, there are some Trans people out there that give 'me' a bad press. So much so that I often just want to vanish away from the whole 'community' thing and just get lost. I do however, owe you an apology for my rudeness as I shouldn't have been so acidic in my approach. Your remarks simply evoked a bad memory of someone who was once (unfortuneately) my boss.

[IntellectualAmy]

@bonjubs57 - Well, lets just forget it. I don't see any point in refuelling bad feelings and dislike between any community. I have grown sickened at how the whole minorities seem to attack each other. I have never rode on the back of any Gay or Lesbian group, nor even been part of a Trans group. They all seem to have their worst elements that benefit no one. I did everything alone, and against a lot of odds and lost a lot. Luckily, things are working themselves out, now.

[IntellectualAmy]

@bonjubs57 - Well that is kind of you and it's not hard to show some level of compassion. I could rant on about The Gay and Lesbian Community due to the fact that the only two people that ever complained at work about me before I transitioned was one butch lesbian and one very, over-the-top-and-in-your face queenie gay guy. They said I'd be bad for the company. It was a lousy judgment on their part - but even so, I still don't hate the gay comnunities. I just don't like what they did.

[catey62]

@IntellectualAmy Hi..was going to Pm you but I couldnt...just wanted to say that I'm very much the same,I'm M2F,and have almost completely pulled away from the trans community and for similar reason's to your's,and have simply gotten on with my life,I just got tired of some of the infighting and bitchiness that goes on and the image that some of them portray.it hasn't been easy,but I'm getting there slowly,and so very lucky to have met an amazing woman who loves me,and is 100% by my side.

[SPLENOROUS]

Amanda is male female do not need surgy to become female. Hermaphodite does. He is a he-his partner is gay. There is nothing heterosexual about this! Heterosexuals know this. This all of another nature! SHE IS NOT A SHE AND NEVER WILL BE! Call a froga frog and qiut trying to mold the world to fit abnormalities! This is not female - not feminie or atractive at all - no real parts-no period or giving birth! No way! We do not accept you as female! Only your kind pretend your a queen

[italianmuscles]

@SPLENOROUS Another nasty unhappy and angry person on here,tgs dont have to be super models,women comes in all shapes and sizes so tgs women too

[anddihier]

Thanks Obama for bringing judgement on this nation for your contemptable decisions....sodom and gomorrah?..it'll be worse for us....

[burgerbecky]

Reading these ignorant, hatefui, comments makes me feel pity for you for being intolerant to those who are different from you.

[HereinLasVegas]

It's not that they're different, they're metally ill and need the appropriate help, not mutilation of their body....so you tell me who's more hateful....think about it.

[burgerbecky]

You're ignorant, and that feeds your hate for those who are not like you.

[HereinLasVegas]

I don't hate people who have mental issues, I just believe it would be better to help them rather than mutilate their bodies. When you have to resort to the hate comment, you have lost the argument.

[burgerbecky]

I am transgendered, post-op, and it's not mutilation, it's correcting a birth defect. Since you have no idea what it's like to be transgendered, you speak from ignorance. Hence, why I can speak with confidence that the comments you make are off the mark.

[HereinLasVegas]

Sorry I disagree, cutting body parts off is mutilation, what happpens if you change your mind in ten years?

For the record, I have no animosity toward people who have the problems you have experienced, but I do have a problem with the people who convinced you to do what you did to yourself, and that it is okay and it's my fault that I don't agree with it, that I am somehow hatefull and ignorant.

[HappyHookerTV]

No, not necessarily. I believe in reincarnation. Ever get a chance, read the Tibetan Books of the Dead. Basically, we all come back in different bodies and some people's past life identites are so strong that it carries on into this life. Transgender people are those with a cogent attachment to their past life gender. Gays are people who were of the opposite sex in a past life, but they are comfortable in their own body as their orientation doesn't require that

[bonjubs57]

@HereinLasVegas Agreed Herein. If you don't agree with people then somehow you are either racist, hateful or ignorant. Frankly I am Gay and transgender and sexual people are just bad for the gay community. We are trying to achieve equality in marriage - a right - for everyone but we will never get it with non-gay entities like Trannies and Bi's.

[italianmuscles]

@bonjubs57 lots of people that have srs,have never had sex after the op.you are clearly ignorant and also there`s some nastiness in it too.Before u make a comment,research about it.

[italianmuscles]

@bonjubs57 what u mean change your mind,how can u change your mind if u feel

u re in the wrong body?does it mean,repress yourself and be what people tell u should be ?really?so people should stop going gyms,cut their hair,shave,put make up,etc on cos it`s not natural according to u,and we all would look like dogs?

[bonjubs57]

@italianmuscles You are ridiculous. You expect society to conform to your needs. It won't. It took society hundreds of years to conform to gay demands and we are accepted. You're just pissed off because you want more than anyone else. No one said anything about what you write about here. Read a little and learn. You are an ignoramus.

[italianmuscles]

@bonjubs57 so what do u want than that every tg should be beaten up,laughed and just not be accepted as their new gender?is that what you mean society shouldn`t conform to tg needs?why is it so hard to accept and respect people?it`s not asking a lot,is it?i have tg friends tah go through problems everyday,just for idiot nasty people like you.

[italianmuscles]

@bonjubs57 i jusrt read you are gay,you should be ashamed to be hateful towards other people when yourself can be easily discriminated ,and u should know how u feel.what u want to do,send all tgs and bisexual people to concentration camps?don`t tg and bi deserve equal rights like gay people and staright people?

u really should be ashamed with yourself and look yourself in the mirror and i dont mean how u look but your inside is ugly.

[bonjubs57]

@italianmuscles I am not discriminated at all because I don't wear a gay badge on my head and actually look like a woman. TG people are asking for too much and writing on the gay bandwagon when all we are asking for is equality. You are asking for much more - tolerance of which I have fought and won long ago. Try being a person - not announcing your trannism and live your life without exploitation - that would give you a headache.

[IntellectualAmy]

@Burgerbecky - I've seen so much hatred lately from all sides of these Communities, that I really am starting to wonder what the hell I'm part of.

[bonjubs57]

@burgerbecky - becky or BERNIE whatever your name is - get it together. You were born human - probably bisexual like the rest of us humans. You were uncomfortable as a man and now you are a woman. However, you cannot have your period or give birth - rendering you - what? Incomplete - you cannot check off - MALE or FEMALE on any forms because you are nothing. THE DOCTORS did this to you and it is MUTILATION - self imposed or otherwise - you don't know what you're talking about. Go ahead disagree.

[DreamerAriel]

Hi HereinLasVegas, Actually they are stigmatized as being mentally ill. And yes they are different. Sex is between the legs and gender is in the brain. Transsexual people relate better to the gender they perceive themselves to be. For instance a male to female transsexual can relate to females better and enjoys things more that that are feminine. In order to fit in the social order of things a sex change is in the best interest of the male to female. Make Sense?

[HereinLasVegas]

You actually make my point if you read what you wrote...Gender is in the brain...what they PRECEIVE themselves to be. I relate very well to females, but I don't want to be one.

Sex is not between the legs, it's in the DNA, X & Y chromisomes, that is a fact.

[HappyHookerTV]

No sex is expressed in the way our brains are hard wired ALONG with anatomy. Men want sex, women want money as a way of support. Men have dicks, women have pussies. sexual gender orientation is different than just gender. It's what your are amorously attracted to. Some people can be attracted to the same sex. Some people don't feel comfortable in their own skin. "Mutilation" occurs all the time; it's called circumcision. Should we end it too?

[JeuneFilleaCarnival]

imagine yourself being forced to live as a woman, everyone acting as if though you are a woman no matter how much you scream that you are infact a guy! imagine every single person treating you like you are female, & expecting you to accept that, be quiet, live that way. so you start acting out, wearing male clothes; emphasising your maleness; 'they cant force me to be a woman! Im a guy!' you feel like you again..only now, everyone is laughing and making fun of you and rejecting you as a lunatic

[bonjubs57]

@JeuneFilleaCarnival Imagine that you become a man after being born a woman. Imagine that you are this way for 10 years. Imagine then after 10 years you want to now switch.

Frankly I blame the doctors who greedily take money to mutilate people. That is so against what they are supposed to be doing as doctors.

These kinds of operations are akin to the ops that the OCTOMOM received. That woman is nuts and gave birth to 14 kids, whom the rest of society now has to pay for.

That is wrong.

[bonjubs57]

@HereinLasVegas exactly

[BigBrotherWii]

That's not how sexual orientation works. You should know this all too well. For anyone to be homosexual, they must be strongly attracted to someone of the same-sex. Transgendered people simply feels their genitals don't match their mind.

Gender = Mental

Sex = Physical

Amanda Simpson is comfortable with her own sexual identity. Though she was once a he, her mind can fully agree with her physical form. She's straight as she could be.

[BigBrotherWii]

Feel free to disagree, but what sources can you deliver regarding sexuality? Just because you're gay doesn't make you a high authority on sexuality. In fact, judging by your comments, you do come off as a person with conservative views. Instead of looking at transgendered people as monsters, perhaps you need to educate yourself on how the world works.

[HappyHookerTV]

I will support my brother on this. That is the truth!

[bonjubs57]

@BigBrotherWii the world of transgender/sexual people are guided by DOCTORS who perform these operations that change these people to whatever they want as long as the price is right. THIS IS WRONG. It is mutilation - self or otherwise - and when you become the other thing - are you still gay? No unless you are a man becoming a woman who is looking for another woman to marry or love. Otherwise you have been and always will be straight - and NOT A PART OF THE GAY COMMUNITY.

why is that so hard?

[BigBrotherWii]

@bonjubs57 It's not hard at all. You're the one who cannot accept Transgendered people as part of the community. The very thing you all have in common is that you all challenge the norms of sexuality. This is an indisputable fact. Transgendered people and transsexuals are part of this "challenge", but what's surprising is how someone like you, who's been called "Dyke" "Butch" "Wannabe Man-girl" what have you, you're willing to demonstrate the very hatred people were put upon you.

[BigBrotherWii]

And to answer your comment, if a woman is ALMOST EXCLUSIVELY attracted to someone of same gender/sex, then YES she's a lesbian. That's what homosexuality is in a nutshell. In other words, you need to re-read my statement because you obviously missed my comment entirely.

[bonjubs57]

@BigBrotherWii therein lies the problem. If she is now straight as she can be then when was she ever gay? And, why is she and other transsexuals part of the gay community when in fact they are not now gay?

Do you see what I mean?

[BigBrotherWii]

@bonjubs57 You're clearly misunderstanding EVERY aspect of it. You took a hiatus realizing you endured many hardships for being a homosexual yourself and yet you're demonizing Transgendered people as if they are deranged peoples of the world? You're a sick person beyond all regards. I'll refute your statements in the other retarded comment you left.

[DreamerAriel]

If it was a male to female transsexual and they stayed with a woman, after surgery yes they would be viewed gay by society but they were really gay all along, because the biological male was really a woman in her mind and soul . In the case of Chaz and being a celeb. I cannot say how they will be viewed but yes they should be viewed as a straight couple by society. The only thing that changes is what the effects of hormones cause and the sex organ. Mind and soul are the same in reallity

[bonjubs57]

@DreamerAriel No it does not make sense. A man can never be a woman. Physically or otherwise. Women bleed and have babies. Men can never do that - ever

[DreamerAriel]

@bonjubs57 You are right a man can never be a genetic or biological woman. Science has not come to that point unfortunately. But physically a person can change their gender in every way except for that. What it comes down to is the spirit or the soul or whatever it is that makes us who we are on the inside. I have no real answers. It is just the way it is. Like saying why is the sky the sky, it just is.

[HappyHookerTV]

thye leave their bodies. Erstwhile, the transgendered individual feels such a strong identification to their past life gender that they HAVE to change. It's like if you were to wake up one morning and be the opposite sex with the SAME feelings, the SAME inclinations exclusive or concurrent to your gender, while having the SAME orientation.

[bonjubs57]

@HappyHookerTV I disagree. I grew up as a tomboy and always liked women. I dated men but eventually came out as a lesbian because society dictates that is what you do to declare sexuality. I am now married and partnered with a woman who I've been with 10 years. I have male friends and are at peace with myself now knowing who and what I am. I am a human being in love with a woman.

Transsexuals/genders are confused. All this talk of mind/body is crap. I identify as a person living in real world

[bonjubs57]

@burgerbecky when pointing out differences to which I object to - does not make me intolerant - I am more informed than you and express my opinions. Just because they differ from yours doesn't make you right and me wrong or hateful. Grow up and stop being a dictator. I don't have to conform to your ideas -

[ilocarapid]

C. Michael Woodward ...a successful outpatient of an Addadicktomy surgical procedure.

[Red0660]

This is really cool stuff. I think I'm going to say I'm a woman on school and business applications now!!

Being a woman qualifies me for Affirmative Action, Title IX and women only loans and scholarships! Wow, it's been awhile since I logged onto my online resume.. There is something called a diversity candidate! That must be it.....CHECK! No more being a white male for me. I'm sick of being the lowest class of human being in America. How much does it cost to change to a woman?

[spimpernel]

Murderers and rapist aren't acceptable because they harm others. Transgender people harm no one- not liking them is a matter of personal taste, not a question of morals or the law.

[anddihier]

They defile themselves and the ones they're with...stop condoning this horrid action, even he admits its wrong. He needs mental help

[italianmuscles]

i wouldn`t even do a comparison between tgs and rapists but i got your point.

[IntellectualAmy]

@italianmuscles - Well, I once recalled in the UK, that there was a study into the relationship between Rapists and People who watched the 'Benny Hill Show' - a theory that in itself, too, was ludicrous. How can there be a comparison between TG and Rapists. Rapists like control, to dominate women, and there is an extreme element of hatred towards women, too. How can I, a Post Op transwoman want to do that - or be capable of doing that? My mindset wouldn't even be close to a rapists.

[bonjubs57]

@spimpernel

[bonjubs57]

@bonjubs57 the owner of this video site is censoring people like me who disagree and are calling me hateful and disrespectful because I don't agree. You are the real dictators - EMPHASIS ON THE 'DICK".

[AcePilot2009]

He's a man masquerading as a woman.

Transgenders want access to public facilities of the opposite sex!

They need psychiatric help not approval for their deviant behavior.

[meowcat121]

omg.... drop dead.

[anddihier]

Couldnt have said it better...who wants to trust this mans decisions in the white house?..Not me. And Obama is over-riding the voters in this as we did not vote gay rights in, we voted them out--tks Obama, bringing judgement on America!!!

[screwnorms]

@bonjubs57 are you serious... this kind of thinking is the problem for the gay community...

[bonjubs57]

I will tell you the problem with the gay community. They align themselves with losers like Trannies and MAMBA.

[bonjubs57]

@screwnorms CHANGE YOUR SCREEN NAME it implies you are not normal esp if you are part of the same gay community I am part of.

[guydecervens]

Ha ha ha America if Fucked! The perverse is considered normal and what is normal is considered perverse. These weirdos should be sent to Saudi Arabia where they would be dealt with.

[bsgram]

perhaps its the existence of this crap and not gitmo that makes the terrorist want to kill us.

[Thisisnotmyrealname8]

Still a male, but not a man.

[spimpernel]

Transgender people have always been around, in so called "high cultures" and in so called indegenous cultures. They exist in "western" and "eastern" cultures. There was even a female christian saint who transitioned to male. So don't fool yourself by believing that this is a new phenomenon.

[HereinLasVegas]

Gee, murderers and rapist have always been around too, are they acceptable?

[anddihier]

Thats right..this is contempt and a violation....I'm furious the way this nation is going, judgement will come

[HereinLasVegas]

All too complicated...I remember when girls were girls and boys were boys so now they teach this crap in school and confuse (recruit) kids deliberatly.

What an f'ed up society we've become..any wonder why we're in the shape we are?

[Reign718]

Girls are not always girls and boys are not always boys. Aesthetically speaking yes, they are female or male. Internally they do not match what they are externally.

[Reign718]

Being that you seem to be simplistic let me break it down for you.......

Inside they think and feel like a man but outside they have boobies. Gender reassignment surgery makes it possible for one to look and feel what they are.

This isn't a slight against god, this isn't a contribution to the downfall of society, this isn't the cause of anything but someone's individual happiness.

[HereinLasVegas]

Being that you're an arrogant jerk let me ask you this, why mutilate the outside if you can work on fixing the inside? Why is your option the only option?

You said "they think and feel", sounds like a mental issue to me, though not politically correct and depraved.

My opinion is that they receive mental counseling and for that I am considered hatefull, close minded and "simplistic"

Your contradictions know no bounds.

[italianmuscles]

@HereinLasVegas it`s not mutilation,doctors actually create female or male genitals,and it looks and feel more or less the same as a genetic one.Being tg,is not about sex,lots of tgs after surgery don`t even have sex.

[bonjubs57]

@italianmuscles that is because they are confused as to what kind of sex they should have. Decisions decisions - oh well I'll abstain. TG is sexual otherwise why do anything? Change your mind not your body - end of story

[HereinLasVegas]

Bullshit, you're either one or the other.

Cutting off or adding to one's appendages does not alter what nature has predetermined.

How about giving the confused individual some mental help rather than forcing the rest of society to conform to their abnormalities??

Oh, that wouldn't fit into the degenerates view of forcing demoralizing and infuriating demagoguery into society would it?

[anddihier]

Kudo's....

[JeuneFilleaCarnival]

maybe because of nazis like you...sieg heil!!! lets gas all the people who are not like us!

[HereinLasVegas]

Ah, the Nazi card...sure sign you have lost the argument.

[JeuneFilleaCarnival]

just wanna know...are you black?

[HereinLasVegas]

No, I am not. And what difference would that make? Do certain groups have to have certain opinions? Is everything group think in your opinion? Sounds more like a certain thing someone who you accused me of being thinks, were you projecting?

[bonjubs57]

@JeuneFilleaCarnival See no one is taggin you on this moron - THIS COMMENT IS RACIST.

[Airsoftattack123]

@JeuneFilleaCarnival hahahahahahahahahahahaha I am Jewish, and I love you dude

[Alfrunk]

Good lord - this 'woman' (?) has been appointed to an executive branch position?? Affirmative action in all its glory. Disgusting.

[Reign718]

Your close mindedness is disgusting.

[HereinLasVegas]

No, you're a fucking idiot. You are so blinded by PC crap you would accept humans sleeping with animals if it were promoted as the new enlightened culture.

Those who believe in nothing will fall for anything.

Wake the fuck up, people like you are destroying this country.

[anddihier]

Thats right..@ hereinlasvegas. This is the worst decision Obama's made yet. We did not vote this gabage in...get rid of Obama..NOW!

[bonjubs57]

@Reign718 you're dictatorial attitude is disgusting. Grow up Reign - things cannot always be your way or the highway. What children!

[HereinLasVegas]

Amen, perversion vs qualifications equals the doom of our Country...but at least we can feel good about it, right?

[PinocchiosWish]

thank you for posting this. ^_^

[elioshie]

What a pretty intelligent woman you are, Amanda.

Also what a nice guy you are Michael.

[HereinLasVegas]

Fucking puke