I want to share your enthusiasm Vanae, but Okcupid simply doesn't work if you're a straight guy. I'm fairly good looking, and have a decent profile/write good messages—Never get any replies, and I'm an A-lister too. I honestly want to like online dating, I've done so much research, & even had my hot lesbian friend edit my profile—None have helped. Could you make a male specific vid on how to get gals to reply? That'd be a HUGE help. Thanks!
The match thing is so nice feature in OKCupid. Usually I just check photos first and then go to see the match questions and answers. It's a big bonus if the candidate has written anything to explain her answers to the questions.
The problem with Okcupid is all the "hot" girls easily get two dozen messages in the first few hours after signing up, and a lot more each day; thus you have to compete with all these men (and possibly women). To put it simple: If you're a five out of ten (in terms of good looks), you can rarely get a five-to-ten if other fives and six-to-tens message them; best chance is to settle for a four or below. But who the hell settles?
im using this website and i REALLY LIKE this girl and i know she REALLY likes me too im soo glad that i met her and i know she wouldnt be there without okcupid.
I've met one weirdo girl that bugs me like crazy and another one who ended up being a grenade lol and the good looking ones are about as smart as a fly. And i'm tall, athletic, and good looking
No dates from OkCupid yet and I've been a user since ... Uh, can't remember when. Best estimate would be... 5 months?
But I've started up a chat with a pretty girl and things are looking good. Dunno if it'll ammount to anything but I hope that it does 'cause I'm sick and tired of being single!
Okcupid is BS man, I just get this "sorry we are having technical difficulties" message when i try log in. its been a year, nobody has technical difficulties for a year. emailed them so many times, so over it. weak site.
Thats my review on it.
I still think going out is better for meeting people.
I give it a solid 2.333333 recurring of course rating out of 10.
@ejdf870 probably not, unless they have met the ridiculously high expectation that woman on there want. There are certain categories of males who shouldn't even make a profile on that site. A lot of the chicks on their suffer from princess syndrome. Even the not so good looking ones. I have conversed with some girls on there, but I wouldn't want to meet any of them. It's a hit or miss with that site. Conclusion: The site is great for ugly to hot chicks, only good for certain males. Done.
@ichibakudan Ok, I take back what I originally stated. A grand total of 3 women have messaged me since I joined about a month ago, but they were all old, fat, and butt ugly.
@MusicMan53100 That's because everybody on there is very generic. It could be that they don't know how to be original and copy other profiles, or they are actually pretty similar to one another. Either way I don't recommend the site for men. It's a very sad truth, but after talking to some of the guys on there and conducting some of my own experiments, the only way a male will do well on there is if he is white, tall, n reasonable to extremely good looking. Doesn't even need a full bio. Yup sad.
Most of the women, probably 99% are sluts, have boyfriends or husbands. Live in Lou, Ky and I've went on 7 first dates and most the women have calls within 30 mins or their smart phones e-mails goes nuts. No, it's not me because they were very talkative while sitting or walking. You're best bet is just fuck them right off the bat so as to not waste your time.
Most of the women, probably 99% are sluts, have boyfriends or husbands. Live in Lou, Ky and I've went on 7 first dates and most the women have calls within 30 mins or their smart phones e-mails goes nuts. No, it's not me because they were very talkative while sitting or walking. You're best bet is just fuck them right off the bat so as to not waste your time.
Okcupid sucks, too many bullshit woman who claim to have masters degrees and shit like that. I met one cunt off there who was a teacher and a closet freak needless to say it lasted about two months until I got tired of her shallow ass, woman barely respond on there. everyday I have about 20 profile views but no messages and then some of these cunts even come back and look again but dont respond.
I met my boyfriend (going on two years, in April) on OkCupid. My favorite part of the website are the questions. The more questions you answer, the more the site is able to "match" you. The questions are mostly serious questions that related to your beliefs - do you want a non-smoker? is that important to that? or would you ever date anyone that shoplifts? there are THOUSANDS of questions, and it is a pretty quick feature to click through. i definitely suggest that everyone on OkCupid answer ?s
I used to get alot of good visits from OKCupid. The only problem for me was that most of them were only visits with no reponses.
Now it seems like I get no visits what so ever from my area. OKC has turned into a sorta Facebookalike and not a dating site.
I've met in person one lady in my 6 months or so on the site. She drove down the alley in reverse over speed bumps, took her a hr to find my house (with me giving directions) and well liked coffee :) 2 meetups and it was over!
I'm confused about how some dating websites (like OKCupid) are better than others (PlentyofFish, Match, EHarmony, etc). Being free is good, but does it gives you better matches than POFish or Match? Is it the quality and quantity of questions to get to know you and figure out your match? How else do they match people? Thanks Vanae!
Ive been on two dates from okcupid haha I'm going on my third one this saturday!! It's really fun and those two dates didn't worth out but we stayed friends haa
@vanae12 ugh!! it actually didn't! lol I'm responding 5 months later but it did not go the way I expected so I just deleted my okcupid account, I felt like I wasn't getting nun out of it so I quit haaaa
so far i have only met people off of POF, OKcupid looks like a better site and has all the compatibility questions but the women chicken out on that sight.
Is there a free website similar to OKcupid but more of an interracial oriented site, Okcupid doesn't get the sort of women I'm interested in and keeps placing the same thing in my quiver.
@duckduckgreyduck I have a friend who feels the same way. She stopped using PlentyOfFish.
Vanae12 does a wonderful job with her videos. She so natural on camera and obviously having fun. I joined eHarmony and will keep you informed about my progress. I'm meeting with someone next week and looking forward to it. Have a great day and I'll be waiting for your next video.
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I want to share your enthusiasm Vanae, but Okcupid simply doesn't work if you're a straight guy. I'm fairly good looking, and have a decent profile/write good messages—Never get any replies, and I'm an A-lister too. I honestly want to like online dating, I've done so much research, & even had my hot lesbian friend edit my profile—None have helped. Could you make a male specific vid on how to get gals to reply? That'd be a HUGE help. Thanks!
Andrewz05 2 months ago
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Andrewz05 2 months ago
The match thing is so nice feature in OKCupid. Usually I just check photos first and then go to see the match questions and answers. It's a big bonus if the candidate has written anything to explain her answers to the questions.
samikalastaja 2 months ago
Here is what women write on this website:
-Loooove my friends/family
-Im independent and dont need to take care of me
-I dnt have time for a relationship im always busy
-On a typical Friday Im out having a drink w friends
and here is the one that you would find on almost all of them
-I want a sensitive guy........
Thumbs up if You've seem at least one of them on profiles... =P
yerovi86 4 months ago 2
okcupid sucks. I've never seen so many stuck up women who complain about bad men but ignore good ones constantly.
HandyMan101 4 months ago 4
@unrestfulslumber man thats me i talk to a guy for like three days then they stop im like is it me am i ugly lol
Aspenfash899 5 months ago
The problem with Okcupid is all the "hot" girls easily get two dozen messages in the first few hours after signing up, and a lot more each day; thus you have to compete with all these men (and possibly women). To put it simple: If you're a five out of ten (in terms of good looks), you can rarely get a five-to-ten if other fives and six-to-tens message them; best chance is to settle for a four or below. But who the hell settles?
Theblizzardking 5 months ago
@Theblizzardking Thats the one thing I look for in dating sites. The ratio of men to women
Sagefrakrobatik 3 months ago
OkCupid is ASS.
blahblahblahman 5 months ago
im using this website and i REALLY LIKE this girl and i know she REALLY likes me too im soo glad that i met her and i know she wouldnt be there without okcupid.
fdfdfdfd89 6 months ago
I've met one weirdo girl that bugs me like crazy and another one who ended up being a grenade lol and the good looking ones are about as smart as a fly. And i'm tall, athletic, and good looking
themyth117 6 months ago
No dates from OkCupid yet and I've been a user since ... Uh, can't remember when. Best estimate would be... 5 months?
But I've started up a chat with a pretty girl and things are looking good. Dunno if it'll ammount to anything but I hope that it does 'cause I'm sick and tired of being single!
MusicMan53100 8 months ago
Okcupid is BS man, I just get this "sorry we are having technical difficulties" message when i try log in. its been a year, nobody has technical difficulties for a year. emailed them so many times, so over it. weak site.
Thats my review on it.
I still think going out is better for meeting people.
I give it a solid 2.333333 recurring of course rating out of 10.
terranark 8 months ago
Is there ONE instance in all of recorded history of an OKCupid woman actually messaging a man....... ever???
ejdf870 9 months ago
@ejdf870 probably not, unless they have met the ridiculously high expectation that woman on there want. There are certain categories of males who shouldn't even make a profile on that site. A lot of the chicks on their suffer from princess syndrome. Even the not so good looking ones. I have conversed with some girls on there, but I wouldn't want to meet any of them. It's a hit or miss with that site. Conclusion: The site is great for ugly to hot chicks, only good for certain males. Done.
ichibakudan 8 months ago
@ichibakudan Ok, I take back what I originally stated. A grand total of 3 women have messaged me since I joined about a month ago, but they were all old, fat, and butt ugly.
ejdf870 8 months ago
@ichibakudan I find that no matter whoes profile I look at (girls) I tend to always find some of the same stuff in the same categories.
MusicMan53100 8 months ago
@MusicMan53100 That's because everybody on there is very generic. It could be that they don't know how to be original and copy other profiles, or they are actually pretty similar to one another. Either way I don't recommend the site for men. It's a very sad truth, but after talking to some of the guys on there and conducting some of my own experiments, the only way a male will do well on there is if he is white, tall, n reasonable to extremely good looking. Doesn't even need a full bio. Yup sad.
ichibakudan 8 months ago
@ichibakudan I'm tall, white and reasonably good looking. :)
MusicMan53100 8 months ago
@ejdf870 Yes.
MusicMan53100 8 months ago
Most of the women, probably 99% are sluts, have boyfriends or husbands. Live in Lou, Ky and I've went on 7 first dates and most the women have calls within 30 mins or their smart phones e-mails goes nuts. No, it's not me because they were very talkative while sitting or walking. You're best bet is just fuck them right off the bat so as to not waste your time.
octoro10 10 months ago
Most of the women, probably 99% are sluts, have boyfriends or husbands. Live in Lou, Ky and I've went on 7 first dates and most the women have calls within 30 mins or their smart phones e-mails goes nuts. No, it's not me because they were very talkative while sitting or walking. You're best bet is just fuck them right off the bat so as to not waste your time.
octoro10 10 months ago
Okcupid sucks, too many bullshit woman who claim to have masters degrees and shit like that. I met one cunt off there who was a teacher and a closet freak needless to say it lasted about two months until I got tired of her shallow ass, woman barely respond on there. everyday I have about 20 profile views but no messages and then some of these cunts even come back and look again but dont respond.
ravenswoodboy 10 months ago
Ytq
6twc9 11 months ago
I met my boyfriend (going on two years, in April) on OkCupid. My favorite part of the website are the questions. The more questions you answer, the more the site is able to "match" you. The questions are mostly serious questions that related to your beliefs - do you want a non-smoker? is that important to that? or would you ever date anyone that shoplifts? there are THOUSANDS of questions, and it is a pretty quick feature to click through. i definitely suggest that everyone on OkCupid answer ?s
TheSabathine 11 months ago
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TheSabathine 11 months ago
I used to get alot of good visits from OKCupid. The only problem for me was that most of them were only visits with no reponses.
Now it seems like I get no visits what so ever from my area. OKC has turned into a sorta Facebookalike and not a dating site.
I've met in person one lady in my 6 months or so on the site. She drove down the alley in reverse over speed bumps, took her a hr to find my house (with me giving directions) and well liked coffee :) 2 meetups and it was over!
decafcoffee73 11 months ago
Sick stuff Vanae!
meditautomatic 1 year ago
you didnt say "lets do this!" D:
zehaha 1 year ago
I'm confused about how some dating websites (like OKCupid) are better than others (PlentyofFish, Match, EHarmony, etc). Being free is good, but does it gives you better matches than POFish or Match? Is it the quality and quantity of questions to get to know you and figure out your match? How else do they match people? Thanks Vanae!
paul02144 1 year ago
Ive been on two dates from okcupid haha I'm going on my third one this saturday!! It's really fun and those two dates didn't worth out but we stayed friends haa
princesskimbie 1 year ago
@princesskimbie hope your saturday date went well!
vanae12 1 year ago
@vanae12 ugh!! it actually didn't! lol I'm responding 5 months later but it did not go the way I expected so I just deleted my okcupid account, I felt like I wasn't getting nun out of it so I quit haaaa
princesskimbie 6 months ago
@princesskimbie NooB
369Shahin 6 months ago
@369Shahin not really
princesskimbie 6 months ago
Okcupid is alright. I got a date out of it, but none since. I'll definitely check that book out!
glassjaw442 1 year ago
You need to do something with your hair. It looks like you just stepped outta the shower.
madbug1965 1 year ago
@madbug1965 i did just step out of the shower. so fresh n' clean
vanae12 1 year ago 8
@vanae12 Still looking good in my opinion ;-)
Jam7pi 1 year ago
Ahhhh but does it off you a hope..I think not..all those books suck Darlin.
FXNorm 1 year ago
i met my boyfriend on Okq(: we are happy in love && i would recommend this site to anyone.!!!(:
rockbandgrl 1 year ago
@vanae12 Spirituality huh. Stew on this....
'Why are you unhappy?
Because 99.9% of everything you think,
And of everything you do-
Is for yourself,
And there isn't one.'
- W.W.W.
andthereisntone 1 year ago
yummy
andthereisntone 1 year ago
Thanks for the book recommendation!
minorot 1 year ago
I think this is the first time you've tackled spirituality in your videos.I may be wrong I haven't seen all of your videos.
jven11 1 year ago
so far i have only met people off of POF, OKcupid looks like a better site and has all the compatibility questions but the women chicken out on that sight.
crazzydave7 1 year ago
where'd you get that peacock decor on your wall?!so cute!
valiohh 1 year ago
@valiohh i got it from etsy :)
vanae12 1 year ago
Give me a challenge for a free copy? n_n
king89james 1 year ago
i do have a monkey mind that's killing me .. and you really talked me into buying this book .. i'll let you know if it helped .. thanks
dijlalover 1 year ago
I am kind of jealous of your boyfriend...
maybeitsmimi 1 year ago 7
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what do you think about eharmony?
xennelul 1 year ago
I have used both PofF and OK, and I agree that OK is a better side. PofF has a creepy vibe to it.
clh81 1 year ago
I swear i've seen this vid and all the comments before how weird. Deja vu like a mutha.
Anyway just by looking at Ok and Plenty, Plenty looks like a poorly made high school project. Ok seems more fleshed out.
rockhills 1 year ago 2
i was on okcupid for weeks for the quizzes before i figured out it was more of a dating site, lol.
proteuseffects 1 year ago
Is there a free website similar to OKcupid but more of an interracial oriented site, Okcupid doesn't get the sort of women I'm interested in and keeps placing the same thing in my quiver.
engwild 1 year ago
@engwild yeah i wish they had a interracial okcupid that would be awesome
Aspenfash899 5 months ago
love the peacock artwork on the wall back there...i'd love to check out essential spirituality...
agentgeo1 1 year ago
"Spirituality: the last refuge of a failed human. Just another way of distracting yourself from who you really are." - George Carlin
MadEastern 1 year ago
@MadEastern "No." - Me.
LiquidDrag21 1 year ago
@LiquidDrag21 Me too.
esurfer26 1 year ago
you think OKcupid is better than PlentyOfFish?
duckduckgreyduck 1 year ago
@duckduckgreyduck i do!
vanae12 1 year ago
@vanae12 you're vietnamese? you kinda look viet
VanMedia 1 year ago
@duckduckgreyduck I have a friend who feels the same way. She stopped using PlentyOfFish.
Vanae12 does a wonderful job with her videos. She so natural on camera and obviously having fun. I joined eHarmony and will keep you informed about my progress. I'm meeting with someone next week and looking forward to it. Have a great day and I'll be waiting for your next video.
MatchableDate 1 year ago
@MatchableDate I'll have to give OkCupid a whirl. I haven't put a whole ton of time into Plenty of Fish, but so far it's been a dud.
duckduckgreyduck 1 year ago
favorited
Nimzowitz 1 year ago
I liked this video. I can see your growth shining through!
carefulcarpenter 1 year ago 2