How to Mend a Broken Heart: "Empty" After He Is No Longer Around & What To Do About It

[PoptartFail]

Can you explain this? Why does my ex still have the 2 pics of me and her in her FB album? I mean we were bestfriends before we started dating but we broke up and she wanted to still be best friends but said she has no feelings for me(which i asked because i was still in love with her and i needed to know that so i would know to move on). But yet again why does she still have those up?

[oliveirantunes]

lol, i love how this is striceted to women, it's even worse when you're a man

[HelloLoveItsLilly]

Thank you for the video. I was really confused a moment ago. I'm dealing with trying to get over a relationship. My cheating husband. Well I was crying to God to take the pain away. I felt the urge to open the bible. I opened it to mark 5:25 to 5:34 A woman with issue is healed. Then I had the urge to type in 'broken heart' on YouTube and was led to this. It helped allot. I know how I'm feeling is ok.

[Isenhart881]

mine left , me really dumbstruck , i dont know how to recover from this . i spoke to her nicely if we can fix it , but she never wanted to ..

[SaveASoulWithABeat]

@Isenhart881 check out my channel when you get a isenhart, i just finished uploading a track after the same situation had happened tome.....keep your headup bro and GodBless

[hereltch]

guys ive been with my gf for a while its been two months and she's already on her second bf after me she says she loves and is happy with him she tends to do that after long relationships any advice for me please?

[meilleuregagne]

Mine is different , he is not my ex, he 's still my boyfriend. but my heart is really broken because he has many girlfriends. we've been together for almost 6 years and he always had girlfriends. he keeps telling that he loves me so much everyday, and he's doing that because we are not together sometimes. I just love him so much too, and i can't let him go. I would like to hear some advice from you. thanks

[jas672]

Codependency: The Dance of Wounded Souls...the best book I've read to move on short read, helping me tremendously.

[periztheman]

this is so true.

[deneco4]

easier for women, they can hop to the next stone and fuck their way out of it.

[sarabower1]

@deneco4 you're clueless. Its not like that at all.

A woman who truly loved someone ( and has a scintilla of self respect)

wouldn't do that

[deneco4]

@sarabower1 HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA

[Strawwwberryy]

@deneco4 not really - not all women are like this. My ex hopped onto the next stone and fucked his way out of it - I did'nt - still healing but guys are just as bad.

[deneco4]

@Strawwwberryy I'd expect to hear that from a serpent woman.

[MelissaIreneTrinity]

it hurts...

[lindalovesmusic1]

thank you for the video, it did help some.

[SuckMyKintama]

Yeh...

[Phrix0s]

Could have addressed this to both sexes rather than just females losing male partners.

[mnetrucker]

If the breakup with my ex gf had been a open honest break up, I think I could get over it quicker. It's the fact that she puts it all on me, being the reason. When I know without a shadow of a doubt, and have proof, that she cheated on me the last month or so we were together. Not saying Im without fault, I think it's a two way street. Howevever I just wish she would have just had the guts to be honest to my face and come clean, instead of making it all my fault. I just wish she knew...I know.

[sunflowergiggles]

@mnetrucker I feel the exact way as you do. If the break up was face to face, all cards on the table i believe that i could move on relatively well.

[mnetrucker]

@sunflowergiggles Yeah, whatever happened to honesty. Oh well, we deserve better. Wish you the best on your road to recovery. =)

[ShoiShoiMagoi]

Great advice dude just one thing, why are you relating this to females?? Guys struggle with separations too!! :(

[msjulicious]

@ShoiShoiMagoi He has one for guys under his other account. 

[SuperKate36]

amazing how when you listen to everything Dan says you have done all this,real good advice,i have been hurting for 7months now,but time is the key you do get yourself to a calmer place in your heart,a few holidays do the trick,somewhere nice and calm relax place beach sea sun is a peaceful and beautifulll place x

[angelicdazzle]

THANKSSSS this helped soo much!!!!!!!!!! gonnna try ur techniques XD

[acw162]

Thank you very much for these videos... I'm also a big UFC fan btw and I know what you meant about crying.

[summergirl180]

wow this is really good stuff. thank you very much for helping. im definitely gonna have to try all of this.

[2paddypaddy]

absolute legend !!really really helped me ..thanks man :)

[lazygirl500]

shit why are you stalking me?man this is too head on

[fearsomegladiator]

Great video! Please continue to produce more. The line about short circuiting and walking around in a daze was right on.

[runawaybones]

i too made a video on breakups.

i adored yours, favorited it and will utilize it in the future. it was very encouraging to hear you say that women who know how to grieve get over it faster and are more complete about their breakups because I spend a lot of time crying and in bed watching romance movies for a good two week chunk after every break up but i tend to be much better a month later than even the man is.

[jomariedizon]

great!

[JenniDar]

By the way, I signed up for your e-mail at the link. Looking forward to hearing more.

[KiaraManning]

Whatever you do, you shouldn't blame yourself unless you really did something unforgivable. Just keep in mind what you have to give and someone else will notice it. In the meantime, play the field. Take a few test drives before you settle on your next car.

[JenniDar]

@KiaraManning Take a few test drives? Hmmm... that sounds fun. ;) All inuendo aside, it is sound advice. Remember what it felt like when you first entered into that relationship? That little exhilerating dance the two of you did? That's coming around for you again. Look forward to it!

[NallyMadison]

What kim is saying is so true. If you see it coming, then it is easier. Some gave a great quote above. Here is another that goes along with what we're saying: "I hate to see the one I love happy with somebody else but I surely hate it more to see the one I love unhappy with me..."

[MsKimRawks]

@NallyMadison Someone suffering from a broken heart right now won't want to hear it, but it prepares the rest of us for that time when it might happen to us.

[MsKimRawks]

I'm really enjoying the conversation on this video and keep coming back to add my two cents. Expert advice here but I'd like to dive in a little deeper. The time it takes to get over a breakup depend on whether it took you by surprise or not. If you could sense the end looming you're better prepared emotionally to handle it - even if you're still crazy about the guy.

[JenniDar]

Oh, sorry - I just realized I should have mentioned earlier - nice video and website. My sister has a "broken heart" right now. She probably would rather have that box of dunkin donut holes mentioned earlier but I'm forwarding her this information anyway.

[Msklyeek]

Here's a wonderful quote to keep in mind: "No Guy Is Worth Your Tears & When You Find The One That Is He Won't Make You Cry."

[Nickydewme]

Yes, you are right. We do tend to judge ourselves and blame ourselves after a breakup. Even if he was the one that caused the breakup we think we are somehow to blame. It doesn't have to be that way. Take the time to get over it but don't over-analyze it. Learn from it and move on to the next guy.

[KiaraManning]

I've broken a few hearts in my day and I've had my heart broken. It's learning process. We're learning how to love and to give and to recieve. Honestly, how many of us wish we still had out first car? Looking back, it was a clunker that got terrible gas mileage.

[NallyMadison]

MsKim, you're referring to "No Strings Attached." What a great movie and a great scene.

[MsKimRawks]

I think women know this instinctively. We do grieve intentionally. We have all night cry-fests with our girlfriends. That scene of us putting away a whole box of dunkin do-nut holes we see in the latest chick flick? It's true, we do that. Guys are the ones who push the feelings aside and let them fester.

[JenniDar]

Men are like off-ramps on an interstate. If you miss one, there's going to be another one just a few miles down the road.

[Msklyeek]

Listen, I know both men and women suffer broken hearts. I even read once that, despite popular opinion, it takes men longer to get over a lost love. But speaking just as a woman and to women, we have to realize how much we're worth. How many times has a guy friend came to you when you're pining over an ex-boyfriend and said, "it's his loss," or "he doesn't know what he's giving up." Well, guess what? That guy friend is right. And HE would have you in a heartbeat!

[Nickydewme]

It's called "purging," not wallowing. It's like wringing water out of a wet washcloth. It works a lot better than just letting water drip-dry out of it. Wring the pain out. All at once. Don't let it drip out slowly.

[warph9]

Best Advice Ive heard in awhile. Women are complex. I hate it. You've Helped me understand!

[Duntknocker]

Broken hearts SUCK. great video!

[Cloltgunk]

THIS IS WHAT I NEEDED TO HEAR! It's nice to know Im not the only one. thanks!

[Hoogotsthejessica]

awesome video! Im going to check out your website for sure!

[PlanetKorg]

When I broke up with my gf I was a zombie for weeks. The worst feeling ever! thanks for sharing your view. It helped :)

[Frogkiss123]

It really sucks the first few weeks but you will get over them.

[Thungwanker]

I've recently gone through a break up. You totally understand! That in itself is more help then you know.

[treedezy]

Break ups is a real heartbreak. Some people just can't get over the pain. Some people have to go to therapy to overcome a broken heart. I suggest NLP.

[paduz19]

I would say this is one of the most inspiring video for people with broken hearts. We gals must learn to stand such heartaches.

I would definitely recommend this!!

[marjalib]

Heartaches from broken relationships are the most difficult to get over with. To heal broken hearts, I believe that one should really go through a process, or stages, particularly, grieving. This video is very enlightening. Thanks for uploading.

[sameerabida]

nice video but bronken heart people theirself heal their wounds, but good for the people who fall in love and dont know when their hearts are broken.

[achristianrockfan]

If you feel that you have been "broken heart", you are not alone. Almost everyone experiences the type of grief we call "broken heart"at some point in their lives, and some people seem to go through this kind of experience many times in life. Sometimes it seems as if all those songs about broken hearts have been written just for you and the situation you are living!

[szebaa77]

This is a video that I would recommend to all the people which have a broken heart;it will definitely help them heal their wounds faster and try to regain control of their lives.Life does not end when you break up;it's just the end of a stage and the opening of another chapter.Thanks for your valuable tips.

[omarkiller1]

Life can sometimes be trick, especially when it comes to love and relationship. Having a Broken heart or heartache is just normal to experience, especially for those who were in a relationship and this video gave an impact.

thumbs up

[VPaopao]

This video reminded me of how I felt when I was brokenhearted , yes just when it's over, when all the pain was gone, you can laugh it off or even talk about with that someone who broken your heart. Nice thing someone could share thoughts about being heartbroken!

[syamssjith1]

its a great video for broken hearts.Its a wonderful video .Thank you friend for uploading it

[ThePersius]

Well this is nice... I mean for one, this is the timeliest video I've seen in weeks. Why? Because Im going through a breakup right now... Healing a broken heart requires some effort and help... Thank you for this video...

[zechmeister1]

i remember that im get hurt in a year and i still remember that im so silly at that time :(,but now i dont want to get injured to that way again,,thanks for your tips too :D

[anand3sandeep]

Nothing is left now & cant do anything to takeover what all happened to me. But your quote is motivational. Thanks

[rhiavilla]

it's really aweful to have experienced that kind of pain but just like what you have said there's always a healing process for everyone. Truth hurts but it can set us free. So after accepting then the healing process.. i never want to have that kind of pain anymore... i hope

[bratAlly]

To mend a broken heart is sure and definite it would only take time. For some it would take days or weeks for some it would take months or years. but one is definite heartache are possible to overcome. we just have to be willing to pass through the process. And giving ourselves a time to grieve just what this video has presented is normal in overcoming heartbreak . Whatever we went through in life we could use this 5 coping method. DABDA. Denial.Anger.Bargaining.Depres­sion.Acceptance.

[abegail16]

i was hurt before. I almost die that time. It takes time to be healed completely. Thanks for the tips.

[1993ladyshindo]

I had a wounded heart before too...But maybe I didn't love him that much because I got over him after a good cry and a few weeks..But thanks for the ti8ps..

[ilovesims09]

I still remeber the year that i spent with him, but now i feel like I'm not going down that road anymore. I appriciate the tips to deal with my wounded heart after he cheated on me.

[globaldoc2001]

This is quite a great idea to heal a broken heart. The pain brought about by a wounded heart can really cut someone into pieces. However, with this idea, it may be painful and overwhelming, but he will recover so quickly from the heartbreak he experienced. This is one idea i really have to share to all my friends.

[heywhatnow]

Great tips! I think these will help mend broken heart indeed. This is highly recommended to those who are nursing their wounded heart to recover much sooner.

[marnikinrys]

I wish I had this information when I was going through my breakup. I could have used some trickery to stop my craziness.