@AirForceGirl05 Oh and women should be respected by default? Everyone must earn respect not demand it! And i've seen your misandric comments on many many other videos and honestly you're pathetic! Stop insulting men and get a life!
Was this done for a class? If so, I have to say I'm really impressed that you would take this issue into the classroom. Well done. And even if you didn't do this for a class - you still did a great job. Good work, guys (and the girl, too). Glad you're coming up as the latest generations of citizens.
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Gawd, what a wuss, have men been so emasculated by feminists that they are now acting like woman and crying that they were "abused by their women", its time to hand in your man card! I am sorry a man complaining that he cant take what hus woman dishes out or cant stop her is no man.
Good video... Another reason men don't report violence by women or leave the relationship is due to the intensely biased 'family' laws that will ensure the abuser is enabled to continue abusing her victim by proxy (using the children). If laws were more equality based, and men received custody on a 50/50 basis (currently it's 90/10 in women's favour), men would be more able to walk from an abusive relationship. Instead, she continues abusing him by interfering with contact after separation.
@diamondkal I have to say as a guy that it was frustrating to read your comments. You women do this constantly. Whenever we men want to discuss the things that are affecting us, you women come along and hijack the discussion to talk about yourselves. This video is not about you. It is about us. Please don't talk about your problems here - it's our forum this time, not yours.
@dvc5797 Unfortunately for you,this is a public forum.If you want privacy,then you shouldn't be on here.This is something that all parties can learn from..sorry if you were "frustrated"although I have no idea why.Youtube is for sharing.May I suggest you put on your big boy panties and suck it up..I didn't see any signs on here that said for men only,lol..and for the record what I was stating was factual experiences that I lived thru.I also know other people that have been on the other side ..
@diamondkal It is a public forum but that is not the point. It is selfish for you to come and make this about you. It's not about you at all - this time, it's us men talking about our problems and our concerns. What does your story about your husband add to the discussion?
@diamondkal You have to understand that we are not living in a world that is sympathetic to men's grievances. We men do not have much of a voice. I have found many, many times that when men try to speak, women immediately begin to fill the commentary with talk about their own problems. Again, this is not about you. Please respect that.
@dvc5797 Selfish?Not hardly.The only way to educate the public is to give and offer different points of view.I spoke of actual life experience.And like it or not,there are 2 sides to every story.I am not an advocate of violence towards men or women.I know MEN and women who have been in this situation.I have also tried to help both parties reach solutions to their problems.It seems like perhaps YOU have a problem with women voicing an opinion.It seems like you have no problem using ur voice now.
OMG this totaly me. I mean yeah the video was a tad sub par, but they are right! the emotional abuse has been just amazing, and then she sticks a 22 centimeter knife into me. So yeah, who is the crazy one?
You just have to look at the amount of "violence against women" video's on Utube to know where all the onsided, sexist, feministic, gender egotistical, Misandrist efforts are on part of society. Simply put, the message comes across loud and clear, men are not as important as women and that is what feminist and women's groups call equality, I call it disgusting. Society should be ashamed of itself.
Men do get abused by their girlfriend/wife all the time i know because my brother use to get beat by his girlfriend she would hit with bat in his stomach when he is sleeping and he never did anything he would lie and say he got into a fight with some ''guy'' to a shamed to say girl instead.
@TheRealestFemale100 Are you frickin kidding me? Well if a bat was involved wasn't this enough to charge her? DAMN! It's not just a slap or a punch but a bat!
Battered men/husbands/fathers have always existed. But, due to the stigma society has on battered males and the court systems complete denial of its existence, men do not speak out or seek help. If a woman attacks her husband, the police come and arrest the male regardless of the circumstances. In some states, they will also take the females, but the male victim is still arrested, charged with a crime and the woman gets offered court appoint assistance.
I am sick of the sexist, onesided, misleading commercials that depict women only as victims and men only as abusers. This denies reality and does not help stop violence against anyone, it just builds resentment. The makers of these ads and the prime movers of the thought behind it, should be arrested and charged with hate crimes. If we are to have a "STOP THE VIOLENCE", let it reflect the truth, men and women are both victim and abusers! STOP THE SEXISM.
It's interesting that students are doing this help vid. I like that. It is important to increase the awareness of violence against men in an early age. Because once you get into a relationship with an abuser you are in real trouble. Thanks!
I am one who went through abuse.on the day I kicked out my ex gf, i was called names, had things trown in the appartment, had a thirteen year old throw a car caddy at me which I blocked, and that was on the final day that I keicked her out.
This video depicts fairly inconsequential interchanges between men and women and IMHO hardly depict a situation which should be escalated to involve criminal justice intervention.
Sadly, when cops are called out for little domestic spats, there is often the requirement that one of the parties goes to jail. I have seen so much abuse of this that I am disgusted!
@setustraight are you trying to be a troll? he had a hard day at work. Yes I understand woman work hard at home too but if his a tradey he has probably been in the sun all day lifting heavy things and is fatigued and if his an office guy most likely was mentally stressed with lots of paper work, bosses yelling, having lots of pressure to do something etc..
I'm glad you put in there psychological disorders are a big part of what makes an abusive person tick. One needs to learn how these people think & the warning signs to look for, as many of these people are smooth operators trapping you into marriage, getting them pregnant, and buying property together. Then once you're there BAM ! You wind up realizing you're living a nitemare ! I too make vids regarding abused man & what causes it. Check them out as they might be helpful
The crazy thing about him saying that 40 percent of reported cases are women abusing men is that less than half of the men being abused in the U.S. would ever consider reporting these cases. So double the amount of cases of men being abused by women and you will still fall less than the true total, because I can't believe in this day and age that even half of the men being abused would report it.
if slapping is domestic violence (which it is) media is actually encouraging domestic violence. Practically every TV show or movie you see has women dominating men in some way.
What if every time a man was upset at a woman or didn't approve of something she said he slapped her in the face? This western society is becoming increasingly ****ed up.
Studies show that women often instigate partner violence.~Dr.Helen Smith-Psychologist.
Despite their assumptions that men were the abusers,every domestic violence survey of both sexes over 30 years in the United States,Canada,England,New Zealand and Australia found one of two things: Women and men batter each other about equally,or women batter men more ~Dr. Warren Farrell
thanks kids...this old man has had enough...i just learned that women abused while kids have a hard time leaving an abusive relationship...i think guys have a hard time leaving too. this 57 yr old guy is gone...leaving within 1 week...thanks again kids..your story is so true
the research in Honduras about the domestic violence against men is nul but is a fact that violence of women against for the kids and the teenagers unfortunately is concreting for the mom or the old sister in the family. Is not stranger receive in the hospital kids with the hands burn and the marked back for the belt and the responsability of situation is the mother. Our children should be orienting in the human right
Unfortunately the domestic violence against men or women is growing all the days maybe , because the couples have short relations and when they get married feel that other person is different or changed.....In this moment the couples must to speak for better the situation,and not use the violence physical or psychological.....
In this days not only the men are the bad guys, the women can be a bad girls too, the domestic violence it's bad in the two sides of the coin, most of the men that suffers this situation don't say anything because they feel shame
Incredibly the domestic violence against men happen not only in physical way, I think the most common is the psychological way because the hard words, screams and the humiliations are the worst! Maybe the men don´t say nothing because it is a shame when the women are the chief of the house and they only follow the rules
the domestic violence against men exist around the world the mayority of that case never are know by the people because the men who suffer this type of abuse never say anything because they feel fear and shy. and always the phycological abuse and emotional abuse are the more danger . the people really need to change of mind. and start to show respect toward other people,in general this problem can be causing by the alcohol.
it really pisses me off that men are being battered and nobody does anything about it.
the reason why men don't say anything about domestic violence is not because they will be called wimps,but because men always get arrested when they call for domestic violence.
the feminazi war machine is violent against unborn babies..... can you trust the moral judgment of a feminist whining for her pitiful rights while they are blind to their own hypocrisy?
@othsma Well you are right there I was a cop back before they passed that crap law that denies men all their rights and violates their second amendment rights, I need not go on but I am with you on the point! In the old days we looked at the situation with no prearranged end as it is now. And thanks to who posted this well done!
my ex gf attacked me in a drunken rage with a bat i took the bat away from her and then I grabbed her by the neck and chokeslammed her against the wall as hard as i could i told her if she tried something like that again i would beat the shit out of her
she packed herr shit and left the next morning. good riddance.
unfortunately your mother is right men do deserve it, we learn this fact since preschool and we except it in high school, those men that don't except this become very defensive and they get persecuted by people that call themselves feminists.
if a men/boy says something negative about women they will be accused of being women haters that don't get layed enough or a man that hates womens opinion and wants to shut them all up(failing to realize that they are the once that hate mens opinion
I know what you mean, I am a girl and I too feel that abuse is abuse and that no one (regardless of what gender you were born with) should have to go through this because in the end we are all human beings with feelings and emotions.
We all feel pain, sadness, fear, etc.
You injustice should not stand, it is wrong but if no one makes it public, then the masses will never care.
Anyone who truly believes in gender equality should stand up and fight for this.
There are many reasons why we don't know more about domestic abuse and violence against men. by the way I like this song DIDO and Eminen this song call Thank U
Nobody thought about this topics exists in real life and if it is true. But it is harder to believe and tell a friend to your wife hits you serious because the fun of your friends. the communication it's important in a relationship.
I think it does not justify the abuse by either both deserve respect and communication must exist to avoid such problems if there is a need for a specialist in the field.
My last live-in gf was like this... started out sweet and a year later she had turned into a monster. Bloodshed and bruises served as FOREPLAY for her, and a good beating got her aroused!
After half a dozen 911 calls from neighbors, and no arrests, I had had enough...
One day she came home from work and found that all of my belongings had disappeared. Poof.
Get the hell out when you can ! NO WOMAN worth having would ever treat you this way. You deserve better than this.
I don´t believe but is true, It´s more difficult that happen because is more common in the women. and the society critial more mens if this past. the reallity is that depend the situation of the couple.
We know most of domestic violence occurs with women, but we have to recognize it also exists against men, the problem is that for a men, it's more dificult to accept he´s abused by a lady becuase we live in a chauvinist society.
It must be very dificult for a man to say other people that he has been hit by his wife, for example. But this exist, there are men who are abused by women. This people really need psychological treatment, because, I think that to hit somebody only because you can't stand something that other person said or did, is not for a normal people.
I thing for a man, it's more difficult to recongnize that a girl is abusing him, because in our society we think that men are stronger than women, and if a man say that his wife or couple treat him bad, nobody will believe him, and even he will be ashamed for that. I think that domestic violence will continue existing, while we don't have a good education about this topic. We must take care about being victims and more important we must also avoid being abusers.
It's more commun the violence against women but violence against men also exist, and many men that suffer domestic violence, don't like talk about it because it's embarrased for them.
This video show us that men can be abused too and is more ashame for men to recognize that they are abused for women. Men and women are equals , have the same rights and duties. Violence is more than phisical situations , it means mental and emotional abuse. Domestic violence produce a violence circle that produce more and more violence. Leave this circle is not easy .
To be honest, I am not a fan of raising my hand against anyone in anger. Simply put, bitch slip up...CYA. There are WAY too many women out there to break all the tiny bones in my hand over one dumb slut.
Nothing prevents you from leaving. Your unrational hatred of us, however may necissitate it, however. Still, though, surely you can admit the nobility of trying to prevent violance against men?
And, you are wrong. No Men's Rights Activist say "slap women".
And you are a hypocrite. On the video 'Reactions to Female-On-Male Violance', you said "if a woman slaps a man, he should appreciate it, its a showing of trust". Why do you hate men? You certainly say that you want to see us hurt.
Nothing prevents you from leaving. Your unrational hatred of us, however may necissitate it, however. Still, though, surely you can admit the nobility of trying to prevent violance against men?
And, you are wrong. No Men's Rights Activist say "slap women".
And you are a hypocrite. On the video 'Reactions to Female-On-Male Violance', you said "if a woman slaps a man, he should appreciate it, its a showing of trust". Why do you hate men? You certainly say that you want to see us hurt.
First thing's first. At 2:14 he mentions that characteristics of abusive women are alcohol abuse (etc). If you know someone has issues like that (yes you will know if you pay attention), then you shouldn't be with them in the first place. Second of all, I don't want to sound like a wife beater but your girlfriend should be scared to lay a finger on you, let alone abuse you regularly. I'm not saying "beat her first" I'm saying Man-Up and get back at her when she gets at you.
If you really believe that you may want to get ready to spend some quality time in the big house. Anytime a man clocks a women back it's a guarantee he'll be decorating his cell soon. Women aren't equal as they once claimed they to wanted to be. They are superior in every sense of the word. They have the system in one hand and your balls in the other. If a man even calls to report an abusive woman what do you think will happen? I'll tell you, they find every reason to arrest him. It's all true.
I know it. The Law favors women. A judge I once knew even told me that. I'm just saying she should be scared to even come at you like that. I'm not talking about walk around beating her up, but if you project yourself a certain way women (and men) will be reluctant to hit you or talk down to you.
i also wanted say that abuse is wrong no matter WHAT gender, but if a woman gives a man a tiny smack on the mouth for like cussing or something people think its ok for some reason(she gets praised actually), but if a MAN does it to a WOMAN, he gets called a woman beeter. its wrong no matter what gendar you are! also, if a woman punches a man for saying something wrong, for cheeting on her, or etc, she gets praised. if a MAN does it to a WOMAN for those reasons, he gets called a woman beeter.
Thats VERY true. I HATE sexism so much. I also want to say they always bitch about us wanting women to be super thin, but then those same ones wont give you the time of day if you dont look a certain way. Im 24 years old and guess how long ive been single? practically 24 years. Im "the nice guy." Im not saying all or most are like this, but almost every woman Ive met is. Like 98% of them.
jacksmith6969. I hear you. I'm much older than you but the story's the same. Under my favored videos you'll find children who have been murdered either at the hands of their own mothers or because their mother's looked the other way. You'll find women who practically get away with sex crimes and then of all things feminist's? Their not equal? NO! They are now superior given an inch and want many more miles. When they get away with murder that's way too far. So I'm becoming more vocal now.
I don't get how someone can fight and fight and fight against the amusement of women, and then laugh at the concept of men being abused. It's just, ugh! Domestic violence, regardless of the genders of the abuser and the abused, needs to be made aware of and ended. I really don't get how someone can just act like that's okay.
Perhaps I lack the mental capacity to understand such craziness?
you're wasting your breathe with the mentally impaired macho men who will all was call you out on your shit,but never challenges the woman when she does the exact same.
good clip... Now get your state assemblymen to WATCH. They won't because the DO NOT Represent YOU or the people Solution is in "Taxation without Representation"
Our state Assemblys are suppose to hear our "Petition",
This is so encouraging to see young people understanding what is REALLY going on. You guys (and gal) rock big time! High fives all around my brothers and sister!
BTW did you know that Patrick Jones, brother of alt rock bassist Nicky Wire of Welsh band Manic Street Preachers is an advocate for male victims of dv in the UK and he has written a play, Revelation. Check it out.
Barry Jernigan
President, National Coalition For Men, Kentucky/Tennessee Chapter
Silently accepting misandry - (the hatred of men) as 'just how it is' makes those who witnesses it just as culpable as the actual people who commit misandry. Those who witness misandry allow it to continue by giving it a wordless pass.
Misandryists need to be publically called out, scorned, and ostracized, especially by other women. Otherwise those individuals engaging in misandry get to feel like they're normal, and that what they're doing is okay.
Thank you for approaching this with a much more mature approach than do many other young people, who post on YouTube with videos of women/girls hurting men/boys, but with entertainment as their aim.
A creature devoid of reason and accountability that regards men at best as a disposable tampon. The insidious womyn are ever calculating and dressed to impress her fleshly charms against her next 'stupid tool' for a free luxery ride.
If feminism was about equality then millions of hard working men would not be destroyed in divorce court and female teacher rapists and false rape charges would be not be the joke that they are with good men ruined for life.
This is why I fear women. Thus I do not believe in romantic love. Men can be charged even if victims, and can be arrested for even being hit by a woman. There need to be shelters for battered men. Do not call it the "Battered Women's Shelter." Call it the "Domestic Violence Shelter." The VAWA must be gender-neutralized.
My wife did all this crap to me. I really wanted to make it work. After 11 months of her verbal abuse, mental abuse, beating and other crazy stuff she had escalated into not even letting me use the kitchen or get a drink of water or watch tv. I tried to get my cell phone from her one day and she claimed it was an attack and I had tried to kill her. I was not arrested and there was no bruises. last week I got an annulment based on fraud. Bye crazy bitch. No money no nothing. haha.
This video is very well done. You do a good job of highlighting the main problems of domestic violence against men and it's good to see young people (I say "young people" - about my age actually) taking an interest in such a vital, yet little-known, subject.
Thank you for this video. I am a man in this situation. I think I'm going to just leave her now. I love Jeckyll but Hyde is killing me! Medication addiction is serious.
When Hyde hurts you it is because Hyde means to hurt you. Do not investigate why, as even Hyde does not know the answer to that. You have to take action and simply walk away. Prepare or just walk. Any man could be in your shoes. 3 out of 10 women will create hell for the man in their life. You either take it or you run. Better to run and the sooner the better. There is no sympathy for you from anyone. Run to protect yourself.
Not so! Only men must register for the military draft; only women have reproductive rights; women benefit from "affirmative action" and "diversity" while men suffer from those things; there is all the fuss over women's health when men are the ones that die 6 years sooner...the list goes on and on.
No, a lot of ladies started saying this after the women's movement. You know about the the women's movement, don't you? This was the time that divorce skyrocketed, the distruction of the nuclear family.
Well back to my point. Domestic Violence agaist men has gone on forever. To many men in the past were to proud to do anything. Hell, it was always made out to be a joke, and still is. This shit is real because I lived with a crazy bitch myself. I got out.
Maybe the society on your perfect little world but here on Earth women victims are heroic, men who are victims are made to be jokes. They are silent victims.
Hedgewan my wife took meds too. no prescriptions. But lots of pills and phenobarbital. and alcohol. hey be careful she doesn't bait you into a brawl. In California you can get a restraining order even if it is only verbal harrassment. Wish I knew then. I still won an annulment. Second place is for losers. My attorney was so proud of our victory. She was smiling so big. If she had not been married I would of hugged her. She said my nice suit did it. Heck, it was my tie. God, Her, and Truth won.
I used to be a military police officer, and we were ordered only to arrest males in DV situations. This was due to harassment of our commanding officer by feminist groups, the same women who repeatedly abuse their husbands.
More than once I have seen an abused man sent to the stockade for a crime committed against him, by his wife. I resigned because of this injustice, and I find the 'feminist' movement hypocritical and evil for what it has done to so many innocent men.
In my case the police took down the report of attempted murder and my wife got a restraining order but I was never questioned or arrested. The photos of "bruises" were four days later and bright red. the judge threw them out. both the police and hospital declined to take any photos and the hospital gave her a neck brace and lots of drugs for hysteria. She went back many times on my tab. As I posted above I won an annulment based on fraud. She will be deported.
Women get to use their affirmative action "get out of jail card"! (pussypass). Hence this. Timesonline UK Nov8/05 Microwave man "The truth is never quite black and white, but then colourful stereotyping is so much more fun. Much less fun to examine the 2004 government report which revealed that, yes, 205,000 women were kicked, bitten or punched by a partner — but then, so were 177,000 men. Of 24,000 partners who suffered serious wounding with a weapon, 11,000 were men."
violence against men is not the only thing that goes unnoticed. violence against children by women isn't even a topic, even amongst men's rights activist. think of this : preserving women's image as victims is more important than the many children who have been beaten or murdered by women. i only have one word HYPOCRITES
Actually I disagree as a victim of maternal abuse I find my place in mens rights activists! especially that about abuse and the family court issues! I protest with them because it helps me get our message out there too! I make T-shirts that says "Kids are people, not objects" people are more likely to talk to me than they are to approach a man!
Men's rights activists are also very interested in violence against children. If there were shelters for battered husbands, it would be a place that fathers could bring their children to protect them from violent mothers.
It's sad that so many men are abused and are either too ashamed to speak or not believed when they gain courage to speak. We've come a long way in protecting women, but we need to help abused men as well.
Great video. The Domestic Violence Policing Guidelines here in Ontario say that battered husbands are almost always lying. A battered husband called police in Halton region. They said that they would only come to a home if a woman calls.
They call justice 'lady justice' for a reason - In Colorado, once 911 is called SOMEONE (the man) is going to jail because of a zero tolerance law....then, there is a 'no drop policy' - unless you take the case to trial and win (often with 10k-20k in legal fees), you will be faced with 36 domestic violence classes and a lifetime of discarded civil liberties (even with a misdemeanor) -
It's about time we stood up against the injustice men face on this issue. Violence against males by females is even being encouraged in cartoons that influence childrens perspectives. Very sad indeed. Let's put an end to it now.
Amazing. There is a real problem with Domestic Violence against men. Its not nice and people tend to ignore it, like I saw on a video in PSHE, "For women its what you look like, and for Men its what you do" I guess society has brainwashed men so much they are scared of reporting it so they dont get laughed upon.
Excellent. This is a ground breaking video that touches the surface of a rarely talked about subject. I've experienced some of what you describe. What makes it worse for the victim is to see the courts take the side of the abuser.
2nd marriage, wifey threatened me with a pair of sicssors, causing me to trip, fall, and dislocate my thumb. But there are no abused Men. Don't believe that hype and DON'T GET MARRIED!!!
I was in an abusive marriage where my wife at the time threw a kitchen knife at me and mised my head by barely an inch. The police were called, and nothing was done. I did nothing to provoke the incident except being accused of 'cheating', which was untrue.
men getting beat is funny. maybe if you stop being lazy dumbasses women will respect you.
AirForceGirl05 4 months ago
@AirForceGirl05 Oh and women should be respected by default? Everyone must earn respect not demand it! And i've seen your misandric comments on many many other videos and honestly you're pathetic! Stop insulting men and get a life!
plamenlesev 1 week ago
othsama ;;; u r 100% corect . my wife is a terror.
umdrawplay 7 months ago
Only a fool can belive domestic violence is a women issue.....IT'S a human issue. Since it can affect all of us.
Kenshiroit 8 months ago
Was this done for a class? If so, I have to say I'm really impressed that you would take this issue into the classroom. Well done. And even if you didn't do this for a class - you still did a great job. Good work, guys (and the girl, too). Glad you're coming up as the latest generations of citizens.
dvc5797 8 months ago
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Gawd, what a wuss, have men been so emasculated by feminists that they are now acting like woman and crying that they were "abused by their women", its time to hand in your man card! I am sorry a man complaining that he cant take what hus woman dishes out or cant stop her is no man.
ashwinbhat123 10 months ago
Good video... Another reason men don't report violence by women or leave the relationship is due to the intensely biased 'family' laws that will ensure the abuser is enabled to continue abusing her victim by proxy (using the children). If laws were more equality based, and men received custody on a 50/50 basis (currently it's 90/10 in women's favour), men would be more able to walk from an abusive relationship. Instead, she continues abusing him by interfering with contact after separation.
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diamondkal 1 year ago
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diamondkal 1 year ago
@diamondkal I have to say as a guy that it was frustrating to read your comments. You women do this constantly. Whenever we men want to discuss the things that are affecting us, you women come along and hijack the discussion to talk about yourselves. This video is not about you. It is about us. Please don't talk about your problems here - it's our forum this time, not yours.
dvc5797 8 months ago
@dvc5797 Unfortunately for you,this is a public forum.If you want privacy,then you shouldn't be on here.This is something that all parties can learn from..sorry if you were "frustrated"although I have no idea why.Youtube is for sharing.May I suggest you put on your big boy panties and suck it up..I didn't see any signs on here that said for men only,lol..and for the record what I was stating was factual experiences that I lived thru.I also know other people that have been on the other side ..
diamondkal 8 months ago
@diamondkal It is a public forum but that is not the point. It is selfish for you to come and make this about you. It's not about you at all - this time, it's us men talking about our problems and our concerns. What does your story about your husband add to the discussion?
dvc5797 8 months ago
@diamondkal You have to understand that we are not living in a world that is sympathetic to men's grievances. We men do not have much of a voice. I have found many, many times that when men try to speak, women immediately begin to fill the commentary with talk about their own problems. Again, this is not about you. Please respect that.
dvc5797 8 months ago
@dvc5797 Selfish?Not hardly.The only way to educate the public is to give and offer different points of view.I spoke of actual life experience.And like it or not,there are 2 sides to every story.I am not an advocate of violence towards men or women.I know MEN and women who have been in this situation.I have also tried to help both parties reach solutions to their problems.It seems like perhaps YOU have a problem with women voicing an opinion.It seems like you have no problem using ur voice now.
diamondkal 8 months ago
@diamondkal And what, from your actual life experience, are we meant to learn?
dvc5797 8 months ago
@dvc5797 (abount women hijacking the discussion) you couldn't have said it better! Is it so bad that men want some attention too?
plamenlesev 1 week ago
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diamondkal 1 year ago
OMG this totaly me. I mean yeah the video was a tad sub par, but they are right! the emotional abuse has been just amazing, and then she sticks a 22 centimeter knife into me. So yeah, who is the crazy one?
Shaun17170 1 year ago
thank you sooo much for making people aware that domestic violence can happen to men as well !
muna4eva 1 year ago
You just have to look at the amount of "violence against women" video's on Utube to know where all the onsided, sexist, feministic, gender egotistical, Misandrist efforts are on part of society. Simply put, the message comes across loud and clear, men are not as important as women and that is what feminist and women's groups call equality, I call it disgusting. Society should be ashamed of itself.
GTCism 1 year ago
Only a coward solves intermerital disagreements with violence. I'm ashamed by the lack of equality.
shazam15 1 year ago 3
Men do get abused by their girlfriend/wife all the time i know because my brother use to get beat by his girlfriend she would hit with bat in his stomach when he is sleeping and he never did anything he would lie and say he got into a fight with some ''guy'' to a shamed to say girl instead.
(he is doing okay now)
TheRealestFemale100 1 year ago
@TheRealestFemale100 Are you frickin kidding me? Well if a bat was involved wasn't this enough to charge her? DAMN! It's not just a slap or a punch but a bat!
plamenlesev 1 week ago
Battered men/husbands/fathers have always existed. But, due to the stigma society has on battered males and the court systems complete denial of its existence, men do not speak out or seek help. If a woman attacks her husband, the police come and arrest the male regardless of the circumstances. In some states, they will also take the females, but the male victim is still arrested, charged with a crime and the woman gets offered court appoint assistance.
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paulmarcelrene 1 year ago
If ya got pair between your legs , you will be labeled the abuser! And ride in the back of a Crownvic
mobilechief 1 year ago 2
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I am sick of the sexist, onesided, misleading commercials that depict women only as victims and men only as abusers. This denies reality and does not help stop violence against anyone, it just builds resentment. The makers of these ads and the prime movers of the thought behind it, should be arrested and charged with hate crimes. If we are to have a "STOP THE VIOLENCE", let it reflect the truth, men and women are both victim and abusers! STOP THE SEXISM.
GTCism 1 year ago
It's interesting that students are doing this help vid. I like that. It is important to increase the awareness of violence against men in an early age. Because once you get into a relationship with an abuser you are in real trouble. Thanks!
lodproductions90 1 year ago
He was asking for a slap the minute he walked through the doorway.
Ravenmongoose 1 year ago
I am one who went through abuse.on the day I kicked out my ex gf, i was called names, had things trown in the appartment, had a thirteen year old throw a car caddy at me which I blocked, and that was on the final day that I keicked her out.
darkstorm98611 1 year ago
This video depicts fairly inconsequential interchanges between men and women and IMHO hardly depict a situation which should be escalated to involve criminal justice intervention.
Sadly, when cops are called out for little domestic spats, there is often the requirement that one of the parties goes to jail. I have seen so much abuse of this that I am disgusted!
ljdeibel 1 year ago
Why could'nt he just help her make dinner? It's his fault for being lazy.
setustraight 1 year ago
@setustraight are you trying to be a troll? he had a hard day at work. Yes I understand woman work hard at home too but if his a tradey he has probably been in the sun all day lifting heavy things and is fatigued and if his an office guy most likely was mentally stressed with lots of paper work, bosses yelling, having lots of pressure to do something etc..
playstion3man 1 year ago
Hateful women need to stop. This world is being destroyed by these women.
Night9989 1 year ago 2
Very good video. This is much more common than people think.
BarryInMissouri 1 year ago
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BarryInMissouri 1 year ago
Very good video. This is much more common than what people realize. It's now posted on my facebook.
BarryInMissouri 1 year ago
I'm glad you put in there psychological disorders are a big part of what makes an abusive person tick. One needs to learn how these people think & the warning signs to look for, as many of these people are smooth operators trapping you into marriage, getting them pregnant, and buying property together. Then once you're there BAM ! You wind up realizing you're living a nitemare ! I too make vids regarding abused man & what causes it. Check them out as they might be helpful
begood4000 1 year ago
It's sad... but it's true... females can abuse their men and no one cares... even the law is made for women.
zakfar20000 1 year ago
The crazy thing about him saying that 40 percent of reported cases are women abusing men is that less than half of the men being abused in the U.S. would ever consider reporting these cases. So double the amount of cases of men being abused by women and you will still fall less than the true total, because I can't believe in this day and age that even half of the men being abused would report it.
lostpillman10 1 year ago
58 seconds in...comic genius!
lauralizza 1 year ago
if slapping is domestic violence (which it is) media is actually encouraging domestic violence. Practically every TV show or movie you see has women dominating men in some way.
What if every time a man was upset at a woman or didn't approve of something she said he slapped her in the face? This western society is becoming increasingly ****ed up.
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Studies show that women often instigate partner violence.~Dr.Helen Smith-Psychologist.
Despite their assumptions that men were the abusers,every domestic violence survey of both sexes over 30 years in the United States,Canada,England,New Zealand and Australia found one of two things: Women and men batter each other about equally,or women batter men more ~Dr. Warren Farrell
corbyworld5 1 year ago
Just dump the girl doing this to you, you deserve better.
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EvilUrago 1 year ago
@EvilUrago Get the fuck out of the men's movement. We have no use for misogynists like you, who just make us look bad.
loqutor 1 year ago
thanks kids...this old man has had enough...i just learned that women abused while kids have a hard time leaving an abusive relationship...i think guys have a hard time leaving too. this 57 yr old guy is gone...leaving within 1 week...thanks again kids..your story is so true
nascarwert 2 years ago
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Great video 5/5
imrankh68 2 years ago 2
the research in Honduras about the domestic violence against men is nul but is a fact that violence of women against for the kids and the teenagers unfortunately is concreting for the mom or the old sister in the family. Is not stranger receive in the hospital kids with the hands burn and the marked back for the belt and the responsability of situation is the mother. Our children should be orienting in the human right
jocalevel16 2 years ago
Unfortunately the domestic violence against men or women is growing all the days maybe , because the couples have short relations and when they get married feel that other person is different or changed.....In this moment the couples must to speak for better the situation,and not use the violence physical or psychological.....
oluloca16 2 years ago
In this days not only the men are the bad guys, the women can be a bad girls too, the domestic violence it's bad in the two sides of the coin, most of the men that suffers this situation don't say anything because they feel shame
carolinanunez011 2 years ago 3
Incredibly the domestic violence against men happen not only in physical way, I think the most common is the psychological way because the hard words, screams and the humiliations are the worst! Maybe the men don´t say nothing because it is a shame when the women are the chief of the house and they only follow the rules
smmidence 2 years ago 2
the domestic violence against men exist around the world the mayority of that case never are know by the people because the men who suffer this type of abuse never say anything because they feel fear and shy. and always the phycological abuse and emotional abuse are the more danger . the people really need to change of mind. and start to show respect toward other people,in general this problem can be causing by the alcohol.
brunakilevel16 2 years ago
It is a recent problem, hard to believe.
Many men do not report this for fear.
Do not allow to keep happening no man or women, must be reported quickly and provide the ways to solve it.
jlrilevelxvi 2 years ago
FEAR NOT!!! I shall beat the bitch to a pulp!!!
LOL!!!
screech519 2 years ago
it really pisses me off that men are being battered and nobody does anything about it.
the reason why men don't say anything about domestic violence is not because they will be called wimps,but because men always get arrested when they call for domestic violence.
othsma 2 years ago 55
actually it's both...
9N8X 2 years ago 2
the feminazi war machine is violent against unborn babies..... can you trust the moral judgment of a feminist whining for her pitiful rights while they are blind to their own hypocrisy?
tgillspy 1 year ago
@othsma Well you are right there I was a cop back before they passed that crap law that denies men all their rights and violates their second amendment rights, I need not go on but I am with you on the point! In the old days we looked at the situation with no prearranged end as it is now. And thanks to who posted this well done!
mobilechief 1 year ago
my ex gf attacked me in a drunken rage with a bat i took the bat away from her and then I grabbed her by the neck and chokeslammed her against the wall as hard as i could i told her if she tried something like that again i would beat the shit out of her
she packed herr shit and left the next morning. good riddance.
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EvilUrago 2 years ago
unfortunately your mother is right men do deserve it, we learn this fact since preschool and we except it in high school, those men that don't except this become very defensive and they get persecuted by people that call themselves feminists.
if a men/boy says something negative about women they will be accused of being women haters that don't get layed enough or a man that hates womens opinion and wants to shut them all up(failing to realize that they are the once that hate mens opinion
Simpleandmean 2 years ago
oh come on why no one replied this comment is so unreasonable:?
Simpleandmean 2 years ago
I know what you mean, I am a girl and I too feel that abuse is abuse and that no one (regardless of what gender you were born with) should have to go through this because in the end we are all human beings with feelings and emotions.
We all feel pain, sadness, fear, etc.
You injustice should not stand, it is wrong but if no one makes it public, then the masses will never care.
Anyone who truly believes in gender equality should stand up and fight for this.
ChibiMinakoChan 2 years ago 8
I know this is a serious video and I agree with it's sentiment, but I just about cracked up when dude got pushed.
BigMarsh 2 years ago
older*
9N8X 2 years ago
I think that in a few years when I am old Imay create a group to fight the feminazis....
this BS has gone on too far.
9N8X 2 years ago
I think that domestic violence against men exist but is so difficult for men to talk or report that because they are men and they feel sorry for that
NORALESCARMEN 2 years ago
you wanna know something?Women actually
beat more then men.and sometimes when
women are beaten it's because they provoked it.
9N8X 2 years ago 6
There are many reasons why we don't know more about domestic abuse and violence against men. by the way I like this song DIDO and Eminen this song call Thank U
alexislevel16 2 years ago
Nobody thought about this topics exists in real life and if it is true. But it is harder to believe and tell a friend to your wife hits you serious because the fun of your friends. the communication it's important in a relationship.
msmart1975 2 years ago
I think it does not justify the abuse by either both deserve respect and communication must exist to avoid such problems if there is a need for a specialist in the field.
MrOirias73 2 years ago
My last live-in gf was like this... started out sweet and a year later she had turned into a monster. Bloodshed and bruises served as FOREPLAY for her, and a good beating got her aroused!
After half a dozen 911 calls from neighbors, and no arrests, I had had enough...
One day she came home from work and found that all of my belongings had disappeared. Poof.
Get the hell out when you can ! NO WOMAN worth having would ever treat you this way. You deserve better than this.
UnavailableUserID 2 years ago 6
I don´t believe but is true, It´s more difficult that happen because is more common in the women. and the society critial more mens if this past. the reallity is that depend the situation of the couple.
MrDouglas1702 2 years ago
We know most of domestic violence occurs with women, but we have to recognize it also exists against men, the problem is that for a men, it's more dificult to accept he´s abused by a lady becuase we live in a chauvinist society.
cesaralvaradolevel16 2 years ago
It must be very dificult for a man to say other people that he has been hit by his wife, for example. But this exist, there are men who are abused by women. This people really need psychological treatment, because, I think that to hit somebody only because you can't stand something that other person said or did, is not for a normal people.
nivleserolf 2 years ago
It must be very dificult for a man to say other people that he has been hit or something like that by a woman.
nivleserolf 2 years ago
I thing for a man, it's more difficult to recongnize that a girl is abusing him, because in our society we think that men are stronger than women, and if a man say that his wife or couple treat him bad, nobody will believe him, and even he will be ashamed for that. I think that domestic violence will continue existing, while we don't have a good education about this topic. We must take care about being victims and more important we must also avoid being abusers.
TheDannylevel16 2 years ago
It's more commun the violence against women but violence against men also exist, and many men that suffer domestic violence, don't like talk about it because it's embarrased for them.
Flaviamrc 2 years ago
This video show us that men can be abused too and is more ashame for men to recognize that they are abused for women. Men and women are equals , have the same rights and duties. Violence is more than phisical situations , it means mental and emotional abuse. Domestic violence produce a violence circle that produce more and more violence. Leave this circle is not easy .
Ritzaingles 2 years ago
Domestic abuse is domestic abuse. Men and women are both abusers and victims.
892lgy7382 2 years ago
Wow! I commend you on making this video it's very powerful.
TiffanniRhea 2 years ago 2
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GROW A PAIR OF BALLS !! slap that bitch back and she will learn not to put her hands on another man.
NYNY173 2 years ago
To be honest, I am not a fan of raising my hand against anyone in anger. Simply put, bitch slip up...CYA. There are WAY too many women out there to break all the tiny bones in my hand over one dumb slut.
c00lwatter 2 years ago
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You say its so wrong for women to hit men, then you go and say men should slap women
that is what all you men's rights activists are saying, i hate you people,
i want out of america
Abashi76 2 years ago
Nothing prevents you from leaving. Your unrational hatred of us, however may necissitate it, however. Still, though, surely you can admit the nobility of trying to prevent violance against men?
And, you are wrong. No Men's Rights Activist say "slap women".
And you are a hypocrite. On the video 'Reactions to Female-On-Male Violance', you said "if a woman slaps a man, he should appreciate it, its a showing of trust". Why do you hate men? You certainly say that you want to see us hurt.
menareangrynow 2 years ago 6
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Nothing prevents you from leaving. Your unrational hatred of us, however may necissitate it, however. Still, though, surely you can admit the nobility of trying to prevent violance against men?
And, you are wrong. No Men's Rights Activist say "slap women".
And you are a hypocrite. On the video 'Reactions to Female-On-Male Violance', you said "if a woman slaps a man, he should appreciate it, its a showing of trust". Why do you hate men? You certainly say that you want to see us hurt.
menareangrynow 2 years ago
First thing's first. At 2:14 he mentions that characteristics of abusive women are alcohol abuse (etc). If you know someone has issues like that (yes you will know if you pay attention), then you shouldn't be with them in the first place. Second of all, I don't want to sound like a wife beater but your girlfriend should be scared to lay a finger on you, let alone abuse you regularly. I'm not saying "beat her first" I'm saying Man-Up and get back at her when she gets at you.
Badger9001 2 years ago
If you really believe that you may want to get ready to spend some quality time in the big house. Anytime a man clocks a women back it's a guarantee he'll be decorating his cell soon. Women aren't equal as they once claimed they to wanted to be. They are superior in every sense of the word. They have the system in one hand and your balls in the other. If a man even calls to report an abusive woman what do you think will happen? I'll tell you, they find every reason to arrest him. It's all true.
nobullshhh 2 years ago 2
I know it. The Law favors women. A judge I once knew even told me that. I'm just saying she should be scared to even come at you like that. I'm not talking about walk around beating her up, but if you project yourself a certain way women (and men) will be reluctant to hit you or talk down to you.
Badger9001 2 years ago
your comments are funny! you have over 5000 veiws... not a million
=)
ezratea 2 years ago
i also wanted say that abuse is wrong no matter WHAT gender, but if a woman gives a man a tiny smack on the mouth for like cussing or something people think its ok for some reason(she gets praised actually), but if a MAN does it to a WOMAN, he gets called a woman beeter. its wrong no matter what gendar you are! also, if a woman punches a man for saying something wrong, for cheeting on her, or etc, she gets praised. if a MAN does it to a WOMAN for those reasons, he gets called a woman beeter.
jacksmith6969 2 years ago 14
exactly. it's complete bullshit and if women really wanted to be treated as equals, they would speak publicly against this type of bullshit.
DynamicImpulse 2 years ago 3
they only bring it up when it benifits them.basically ,they're exploiting domestic violence situations.
loc43 2 years ago
jacksmith6969. You left something out. If a man does punches a woman he goes away for a while as in years. Women own the system and that's that.
nobullshhh 2 years ago
Thats VERY true. I HATE sexism so much. I also want to say they always bitch about us wanting women to be super thin, but then those same ones wont give you the time of day if you dont look a certain way. Im 24 years old and guess how long ive been single? practically 24 years. Im "the nice guy." Im not saying all or most are like this, but almost every woman Ive met is. Like 98% of them.
jacksmith6969 2 years ago
jacksmith6969. I hear you. I'm much older than you but the story's the same. Under my favored videos you'll find children who have been murdered either at the hands of their own mothers or because their mother's looked the other way. You'll find women who practically get away with sex crimes and then of all things feminist's? Their not equal? NO! They are now superior given an inch and want many more miles. When they get away with murder that's way too far. So I'm becoming more vocal now.
nobullshhh 2 years ago 2
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Oh man, she's hot, she can abuse me whenever she wants.
AXGLA 2 years ago
Love the video, you need to spread it around to more people.
tarantula619 2 years ago
*Sigh* Double standards are lame.
I don't get how someone can fight and fight and fight against the amusement of women, and then laugh at the concept of men being abused. It's just, ugh! Domestic violence, regardless of the genders of the abuser and the abused, needs to be made aware of and ended. I really don't get how someone can just act like that's okay.
Perhaps I lack the mental capacity to understand such craziness?
SeriouslyYasmin 2 years ago 2
you're wasting your breathe with the mentally impaired macho men who will all was call you out on your shit,but never challenges the woman when she does the exact same.
loc43 2 years ago
Very informative video!
chrisman737 2 years ago
I think we should recognize violence against ANYONE reguardless of gender as being wrong and try to put an end to it.
ssudioTVgirl 2 years ago 3
I am so happy the message of men being abused is getting out!
malletdiva02 2 years ago 6
Carefull men, do not call the Police if you are abused. You will most likely be the one that gets arrested.
Check out the equal justice foundation web site for the shocking truth.
LunaSeaZZ 3 years ago 4
good clip... Now get your state assemblymen to WATCH. They won't because the DO NOT Represent YOU or the people Solution is in "Taxation without Representation"
Our state Assemblys are suppose to hear our "Petition",
but they are too few to "HEAR" us
williamwagener 3 years ago
This is so encouraging to see young people understanding what is REALLY going on. You guys (and gal) rock big time! High fives all around my brothers and sister!
BTW did you know that Patrick Jones, brother of alt rock bassist Nicky Wire of Welsh band Manic Street Preachers is an advocate for male victims of dv in the UK and he has written a play, Revelation. Check it out.
Barry Jernigan
President, National Coalition For Men, Kentucky/Tennessee Chapter
nevmor123 3 years ago 5
thes kids are young but thay tell the truth.
josephbaska2000 3 years ago
Well boys know that marriage is like drugs, JUST SAY NO
bigdog49094 3 years ago 8
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Silently accepting misandry - (the hatred of men) as 'just how it is' makes those who witnesses it just as culpable as the actual people who commit misandry. Those who witness misandry allow it to continue by giving it a wordless pass.
Misandryists need to be publically called out, scorned, and ostracized, especially by other women. Otherwise those individuals engaging in misandry get to feel like they're normal, and that what they're doing is okay.
joi1900 3 years ago 4
How is it that you think for yourself and have ideas of your own? Don't you watch TV?
Isn't it anti-social to hunger for the truth and to speak the truth, when you have already been told what to believe?
proudguy 3 years ago
Thank you for approaching this with a much more mature approach than do many other young people, who post on YouTube with videos of women/girls hurting men/boys, but with entertainment as their aim.
No one should be abusing anyone.
BoyGenteel 3 years ago 10
Womyn:
A creature devoid of reason and accountability that regards men at best as a disposable tampon. The insidious womyn are ever calculating and dressed to impress her fleshly charms against her next 'stupid tool' for a free luxery ride.
If feminism was about equality then millions of hard working men would not be destroyed in divorce court and female teacher rapists and false rape charges would be not be the joke that they are with good men ruined for life.
Save a Man - Buy a Whore
teebs70 3 years ago 4
This is why I fear women. Thus I do not believe in romantic love. Men can be charged even if victims, and can be arrested for even being hit by a woman. There need to be shelters for battered men. Do not call it the "Battered Women's Shelter." Call it the "Domestic Violence Shelter." The VAWA must be gender-neutralized.
TediusZanarukando 3 years ago 7
My wife did all this crap to me. I really wanted to make it work. After 11 months of her verbal abuse, mental abuse, beating and other crazy stuff she had escalated into not even letting me use the kitchen or get a drink of water or watch tv. I tried to get my cell phone from her one day and she claimed it was an attack and I had tried to kill her. I was not arrested and there was no bruises. last week I got an annulment based on fraud. Bye crazy bitch. No money no nothing. haha.
johnknoefler 3 years ago 4
This video is very well done. You do a good job of highlighting the main problems of domestic violence against men and it's good to see young people (I say "young people" - about my age actually) taking an interest in such a vital, yet little-known, subject.
Guest1001 3 years ago 2
That's often the goal-- to get him to hit back, so that she can file charges.
VaderFly 3 years ago 5
Equality is equality
If theres one thing I cannot stand its women who hit men but when he hits back she plays the victim
MissyGurrl 3 years ago 21
im s glad some put tis out there!!! it's true
vocam04 3 years ago
Thank you for this video. I am a man in this situation. I think I'm going to just leave her now. I love Jeckyll but Hyde is killing me! Medication addiction is serious.
hedgewan 3 years ago
When Hyde hurts you it is because Hyde means to hurt you. Do not investigate why, as even Hyde does not know the answer to that. You have to take action and simply walk away. Prepare or just walk. Any man could be in your shoes. 3 out of 10 women will create hell for the man in their life. You either take it or you run. Better to run and the sooner the better. There is no sympathy for you from anyone. Run to protect yourself.
JohnnyRock2000 3 years ago
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The society is biased in the favor of men in everything except living with a woman.
Sapwood2 3 years ago
Not so! Only men must register for the military draft; only women have reproductive rights; women benefit from "affirmative action" and "diversity" while men suffer from those things; there is all the fuss over women's health when men are the ones that die 6 years sooner...the list goes on and on.
justiceformen 3 years ago 22
@justiceformen Damn...
TheGreenerItGets 1 year ago
No, a lot of ladies started saying this after the women's movement. You know about the the women's movement, don't you? This was the time that divorce skyrocketed, the distruction of the nuclear family.
Well back to my point. Domestic Violence agaist men has gone on forever. To many men in the past were to proud to do anything. Hell, it was always made out to be a joke, and still is. This shit is real because I lived with a crazy bitch myself. I got out.
crazychrisva 3 years ago 6
Maybe the society on your perfect little world but here on Earth women victims are heroic, men who are victims are made to be jokes. They are silent victims.
crazychrisva 3 years ago 8
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Hmm... I'm not so sure about heroic. Women are ashamed of being victims too, at least when it comes to sexual violence.
miajal 3 years ago
they are basically called out on their manhood if they get beatened up by a girl.its sad because we made these double standards.
loc43 2 years ago
Get the heck out of there NOW!
DangerousKJL 3 years ago
Hedgewan my wife took meds too. no prescriptions. But lots of pills and phenobarbital. and alcohol. hey be careful she doesn't bait you into a brawl. In California you can get a restraining order even if it is only verbal harrassment. Wish I knew then. I still won an annulment. Second place is for losers. My attorney was so proud of our victory. She was smiling so big. If she had not been married I would of hugged her. She said my nice suit did it. Heck, it was my tie. God, Her, and Truth won.
johnknoefler 3 years ago 2
I used to be a military police officer, and we were ordered only to arrest males in DV situations. This was due to harassment of our commanding officer by feminist groups, the same women who repeatedly abuse their husbands.
More than once I have seen an abused man sent to the stockade for a crime committed against him, by his wife. I resigned because of this injustice, and I find the 'feminist' movement hypocritical and evil for what it has done to so many innocent men.
redtopmp 3 years ago 14
In my case the police took down the report of attempted murder and my wife got a restraining order but I was never questioned or arrested. The photos of "bruises" were four days later and bright red. the judge threw them out. both the police and hospital declined to take any photos and the hospital gave her a neck brace and lots of drugs for hysteria. She went back many times on my tab. As I posted above I won an annulment based on fraud. She will be deported.
johnknoefler 3 years ago
Deported?! Why?
Sapwood2 3 years ago
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Women get to use their affirmative action "get out of jail card"! (pussypass). Hence this. Timesonline UK Nov8/05 Microwave man "The truth is never quite black and white, but then colourful stereotyping is so much more fun. Much less fun to examine the 2004 government report which revealed that, yes, 205,000 women were kicked, bitten or punched by a partner — but then, so were 177,000 men. Of 24,000 partners who suffered serious wounding with a weapon, 11,000 were men."
jbgood3 3 years ago 2
violence against men is not the only thing that goes unnoticed. violence against children by women isn't even a topic, even amongst men's rights activist. think of this : preserving women's image as victims is more important than the many children who have been beaten or murdered by women. i only have one word HYPOCRITES
acadiantunes 3 years ago 2
well said! well put!! u r so right.
satguy1111 3 years ago
Actually I disagree as a victim of maternal abuse I find my place in mens rights activists! especially that about abuse and the family court issues! I protest with them because it helps me get our message out there too! I make T-shirts that says "Kids are people, not objects" people are more likely to talk to me than they are to approach a man!
HeartlessArchAngel69 3 years ago
Men's rights activists are also very interested in violence against children. If there were shelters for battered husbands, it would be a place that fathers could bring their children to protect them from violent mothers.
proudguy 3 years ago 5
It's sad that so many men are abused and are either too ashamed to speak or not believed when they gain courage to speak. We've come a long way in protecting women, but we need to help abused men as well.
PetraLunaPolice 4 years ago 2
Great video. The Domestic Violence Policing Guidelines here in Ontario say that battered husbands are almost always lying. A battered husband called police in Halton region. They said that they would only come to a home if a woman calls.
proudguy 4 years ago 9
They call justice 'lady justice' for a reason - In Colorado, once 911 is called SOMEONE (the man) is going to jail because of a zero tolerance law....then, there is a 'no drop policy' - unless you take the case to trial and win (often with 10k-20k in legal fees), you will be faced with 36 domestic violence classes and a lifetime of discarded civil liberties (even with a misdemeanor) -
djindika 4 years ago 6
It's about time we stood up against the injustice men face on this issue. Violence against males by females is even being encouraged in cartoons that influence childrens perspectives. Very sad indeed. Let's put an end to it now.
jensen1971x 4 years ago 8
Amazing. There is a real problem with Domestic Violence against men. Its not nice and people tend to ignore it, like I saw on a video in PSHE, "For women its what you look like, and for Men its what you do" I guess society has brainwashed men so much they are scared of reporting it so they dont get laughed upon.
JF123RS 4 years ago 4
Excellent. This is a ground breaking video that touches the surface of a rarely talked about subject. I've experienced some of what you describe. What makes it worse for the victim is to see the courts take the side of the abuser.
jbgood3 4 years ago 7
!!I've experienced some of what you describe. What makes it worse for the victim is to see the courts take the side of the abuser. ""
I KNOW.
EVEN THE VICTIM IS A CHILD, THE GUILTY MUST BE "SEND" TO MEN.
FEMINAZIS, SAY THIS IS TO "EDUCATE MEN".
SO TO EDUCATE MEN, MOTHERS THAT BEAT UP OWN CHILDREN, ARE LEFT IN PEACE.
(OF COURSE, TO BEAT UP MORE THE CHILD)
THE "RE-EDUCATION OF MEN" IS COMPLETE, WHEN THE PROTECTIVE FATHER IS SEND TO PRISON, I GUESS.
THATS NAZI . COMPLETELY NAZI.
SuperPais 4 years ago 6
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No one is making you dorks stay. In the case of most of the women they're staying through fear. you're a bunch of dorks and you're ugly too.
martincalusa 4 years ago
Typical. Let me quess...You're single?
jensen1971x 4 years ago 3
You're dumb.
proudguy 4 years ago
can you not hear? some men are scared of leaving others are scared of not being believed and many wont be believed!
HeartlessArchAngel69 4 years ago
3rd marriage...
Stay tuned. Keep your fingers XXXed.
STAY FREE AND SINGLE!!!
SterlingSolomon 4 years ago 4
2nd marriage, wifey threatened me with a pair of sicssors, causing me to trip, fall, and dislocate my thumb. But there are no abused Men. Don't believe that hype and DON'T GET MARRIED!!!
SterlingSolomon 4 years ago 6
Great Video! There is no equality in DV laws.
I was in an abusive marriage where my wife at the time threw a kitchen knife at me and mised my head by barely an inch. The police were called, and nothing was done. I did nothing to provoke the incident except being accused of 'cheating', which was untrue.
Keep Up The Great Work...and STAY SINGLE!!!
SterlingSolomon 4 years ago 6