This advice is for everyone. We need to be intelligent to know our rights. Managers know who is who. Be productive,respectful and there for others. Be smarter. Don't allow nothing to affect U. That is what they want. Once the tree is down, they'll cut U in pieces. if you allow situations to get stock in your head. Everything else will be affected. Don't preocupied, better ocupied to find sources to correct the matter. Be brave. Stop situations at the moment so they can't get in big problems.
I had the same problem 2 years ago. I'm good some said I'm pure "sunshine" at work...Until some of them found my "darkside..." verbally discrimination because of my ethnicity. My Sup. didn't agree to have a meeting, Ok. I didn't argue. I went to HR. Because they know the kind of person that I am. They called them 1 by one....Results. They're no longer in the Company and I have already 4 years hanging there. "SWEETNESS DOESN'T MEAN WEAKNESS..."
So true. Oneof the main reasons why people are bullied is because they are seen as a threat - the victim is often well liked, intelligent, does the job very well and is ethical. Bullies find this threatening and they have to attack the victim to belittle them to make themselves feel better due to their inadequacy.
Sadly, your story is very common, although you have taken further steps to fight the bully which shows are strength of character.
You are a beautiful person, and we your You Tube friends, I am sure, would love to give you a big hug.
Your statement needs to be heard. Expecially by others who are victims. So could I suggest you add to your tag words, eg bullying, harrassment, unfair treatment, workplace, co-workers, gossip, slander, nasty, etc ... this will help others find your video.
Thanks for the support. I'll be adding the tags you suggested. I didn't really think people would look for something like this but I would like to help people who are in similar situations. :)
I applaud your blog post. It shows maturity on your part and the immaturity of those who are perpetrating this rubbish. If I was the employer, I would gather all the employees (without you having to be there) and read the blog that you just read. It would make anyone that is guilty squirm in their chair. I would then ask the employees if it was reasonable to treat another human being like this and get their responses. I am sure no one would stand up and say what they did was right.
Standing up to this kind of thing, especially in such a small work place, is so brave. I really admire you and I hope things turn out well in the end. Thanks for sharing it with us.
The description box is in this ---> direction, silly. :-)
You seem like a great person, and I'm so glad that all this shit that's happening in your life isn't suffocating her positivism. There's always love for you in Nerdfighteria.
the hiring at will policy is the root of the problem.
doctorw2 10 months ago
This advice is for everyone. We need to be intelligent to know our rights. Managers know who is who. Be productive,respectful and there for others. Be smarter. Don't allow nothing to affect U. That is what they want. Once the tree is down, they'll cut U in pieces. if you allow situations to get stock in your head. Everything else will be affected. Don't preocupied, better ocupied to find sources to correct the matter. Be brave. Stop situations at the moment so they can't get in big problems.
crystalship42 1 year ago
I had the same problem 2 years ago. I'm good some said I'm pure "sunshine" at work...Until some of them found my "darkside..." verbally discrimination because of my ethnicity. My Sup. didn't agree to have a meeting, Ok. I didn't argue. I went to HR. Because they know the kind of person that I am. They called them 1 by one....Results. They're no longer in the Company and I have already 4 years hanging there. "SWEETNESS DOESN'T MEAN WEAKNESS..."
crystalship42 1 year ago
They discriminate me from hiring because I am a high school student, and also not to mention that I have learning disability.
I still hate arrogant smart alec people because they are always rude, and snobby to me. I always get discriminated easily from those type of people.
DragonX7777 1 year ago
@DragonX7777 Im glad I got hired in University in dining hall cafeteria , I was greatful that I got hired there.
DragonX7777 1 year ago
So I love this post I'm am like you I'm anti social @ wrk ..... and goin thru something like this ..... what was your out come I'd love 2 kno
handsumnick 2 years ago
You said you are funny. What the F**k makes you think you are so funny? lol that was from goodfellas.God Bless you.
motobmwr756 2 years ago
So true. Oneof the main reasons why people are bullied is because they are seen as a threat - the victim is often well liked, intelligent, does the job very well and is ethical. Bullies find this threatening and they have to attack the victim to belittle them to make themselves feel better due to their inadequacy.
Sadly, your story is very common, although you have taken further steps to fight the bully which shows are strength of character.
Keep strong and look after yourself.
bullybehindyou 2 years ago
You're strong!<3
astrid930 2 years ago 2
Thanks so much. <33
letterheadloyalty 2 years ago
i totally agree with.... umm the person who's name is made of numbers
i think u're an awesome person and they're such idiots for being mean to u...... if i could i would swear at them in maltese!!
you do have to take a stand! go you!!
*super squashy hug*
ChiriStar 2 years ago
*hugs back* :)
letterheadloyalty 2 years ago
You are a beautiful person, and we your You Tube friends, I am sure, would love to give you a big hug.
Your statement needs to be heard. Expecially by others who are victims. So could I suggest you add to your tag words, eg bullying, harrassment, unfair treatment, workplace, co-workers, gossip, slander, nasty, etc ... this will help others find your video.
53531640 2 years ago 2
Thanks for the support. I'll be adding the tags you suggested. I didn't really think people would look for something like this but I would like to help people who are in similar situations. :)
letterheadloyalty 2 years ago
I applaud your blog post. It shows maturity on your part and the immaturity of those who are perpetrating this rubbish. If I was the employer, I would gather all the employees (without you having to be there) and read the blog that you just read. It would make anyone that is guilty squirm in their chair. I would then ask the employees if it was reasonable to treat another human being like this and get their responses. I am sure no one would stand up and say what they did was right.
53531640 2 years ago 2
I second JayAreEmm, you're definitely awesome.
Standing up to this kind of thing, especially in such a small work place, is so brave. I really admire you and I hope things turn out well in the end. Thanks for sharing it with us.
Best wishes! :]
unityofeffect 2 years ago
Thanks. our work crew will be growing my the end of the month so it'll for sure be nice to have some new people around.
letterheadloyalty 2 years ago
I glad your taking this route. Sometimes, people forget to take a stand against things they know are wrong. Keep your head up, and good luck! ^_^
madithekilljoy 2 years ago
Thanks so much!
letterheadloyalty 2 years ago
The description box is in this ---> direction, silly. :-)
You seem like a great person, and I'm so glad that all this shit that's happening in your life isn't suffocating her positivism. There's always love for you in Nerdfighteria.
DFTBA.
dozzzier 2 years ago
And by "her", I mean "your".
I suck at the English language.
dozzzier 2 years ago
The Nerdfiteria love is awesome and I appreciate it. :)
letterheadloyalty 2 years ago
Dude. You ARE awesome. I'm glad you seem so positive, and I hope you stay that way. *hugs hugs hugs*
JayAreEmm 2 years ago
Thanks so much! I really appreciate it :)
letterheadloyalty 2 years ago