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  • I'm the other woman I left my man for him not I'm 6months pregnant by him in he still with her I'm hurt n don't know what too do so I guess ill take care of our baby alone

  • damn 26annwise84 put him on blast. lol

  • Dnt play perfect men and women r the same once temptation kick in ur fucked sometimes u just have ur heart in two diff places n its hard to choose u can b in luv and ur heart catches feelings for another we r humans shit happens

  • @lakerforever1 AMEN!

  • Damn Cassandra All day with her nuff said

  • SADLY I AM IN THIS SITUATION SMH BUT THIS SONG HAS OPENED MY EYES...

  • I'm going through this situation right now as we speak.

    I can't be that other women GREGORY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!­!!

  • im 18 and i am going thru the same thing he was my man first then he got a baby on meh and i left but he go wit his baby mother but we still mess around so am i the other women becauze we both know we doing this to our self because he feels like the big man on campus basically he has 2 girlfriends and we know about each other

  • @jasmine7341 are you guys having an open relationship? Does he want to be with you?

  • Wow this song is sad its so true. I'm 22 n I'm talking to a married man that's 32. He tells me he loves me and want to live with me but nothing. He ain't never going to leave.

  • @selma12ful rofl. . .gtfo him!! if you want the brutal truth he probably tells his friends all about how he's getting tight young girls and shit.

  • Man who cheating are selfish. If he really love you want you, he will leave his wife/gf for you. If he talks about not happy with his gf or wife, well guess what he has a choice LEAVE! If he don't leave her then obviously it ain't that bad like he claimed! Selfish liar that's what I call them.

  • I LOVE THIS SONG...BUT WFAT IN YHE HELL IS GOING ON WITH THIER LOOKS IN THIS VID.

  • Two woman can't share one man. Damn Right!

  • I've been that other woman...not proud of it! this song is so true! i was with a man that i knew had a girlfriend but we had always been feeling each other for years just never acted on it cus we were both in relationships...so i left my man for him, but he never did leave his girl :(...but yet and still we are friends and he tries to GO THERE still...cant be that other woman! and i still love him...

  • I'll be the 1st 2 say that this song was well written however, I would sincerely hope that women would wise up and seek someone who is truly seekin them w/o any b.s.

  • No one is perfect, sometimes we make the worst choices but we have a forgiving GOD. We all are human and we make mistakes. When those mistakes are realized, don't look back- keep on moving. Let that mistake or mistakes be a part of the past and just look foward to better days.

  • 13 ladies are that other woman and dont even know it -__-

  • They look tow up much better in the day

  • a true story i couldnt pick which woman i was going to be with because i really love both of them,well anyway they both end up getting knocked.so my advice to my nigga's keep ur shit in ur pants

  • SAY THAT AGAIN RTHOMINC!!! SOOOOO TRUE!!! 

  • Oh bouy, I had my experiences with this one....

  • D!s song So TR!ll i WAs in TH!s EXAct S!tuation but i HAd to LEt go. Now i have H!s dauGHTEr THAt he Dont EV3n CARe ABout whilE h3 with H!s womAn that He WAs WITh all Along And i diDnt EVen Know She Existed but It Came to THe liGHt With My PREGnaNCy

  • @3YECANDY08 exc3Pt he is NOt MARRiEd

  • Love this song

  •  i Love this song

  • I played this shyt to death when it came out...the hook and bridge

  • i love it

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  • Love it

  • I just dont want some other women man. I want my own. Y do u want something that doesnt want u and only u.

  • I love it!! REAL r and b!!!!!

  • I appreciate this song. I've been there, and I had to make the choice to respect and love myself, and most importantly God. I've been single 4 years and I love it, only because I opened my eyes to see that I was worth more than sharing a man that more than likely could never be mine because of his real woman. I stopped being that other woman, and now I think I found a man who hopefully will make me his only woman. :-) YAY!

  • @SavedSMVElove I LOVEB thisn it'sn soooo true I've been there before and once you realize you ARE WORTH more and you deserve for someone to give you everything he gives her you feel SOOO much betta about yourself!!

  • I FUCK WITH CHANGING FACE AT LEAST THEY KEEP IT 100%.LOL

  • ITS SO TRUE WHAT THEIR SAYIN CUZ I HAVE EXPERIENCE THAT ITS NOT GOOD FEELIN TWO WOMEN CANT SHARE ONE MAN CUZ AT THE END OF DAY HE WILL NEVER LEAVE HER FOR YOU SO HAVE TO LET HIM GO MOVE ON CUZ AT THE END THATS WHAT YOU GOIN DO ANYWAY CUZ LIES AND EXCUSES HE GOIN CONTINUE TO TELL YOU SAME OL SHIT JUS A DIFFERENT DAY ALL THE HOPE ITS FOR NOTHIN

  • No one makes songs like this no more! Lovin the oldies

  • love this song <3

  • Then, women saying they can't be that 'Other Woman'

    Now....Women embracing and being proud of being a sideline chick...smh

  • @Winkz3000 yes these bitches doooooooooooo! SAD

  • This song goes out to Jermaine I sincerely hope your happy with her treat her right she loves you

  • im too much woman to be the other woman

  • I have done it and had it done to me ... Its not fun to be on either side..But love makes you blind sometimes..And you ALWAYS want what you cant have!!!!!!!!!!!

  • That is the shit

  • wat goes around cums bac around hoes!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Why am I crying every-night over you? you're never going to leave her!

  • @ahripooluvnyhu i so understand how you feel bein other woman its not fun being a side piece jus let him go cuz all the lies and excuses are hurting you even more so let go him go as well find someone for u only u

  • classic

  • i hate it

  • Dis Is My Junk

  • My sista.......if you did manage to get him to leave his wife for you, is that where you think the roller-coaster is going to stop? He's changed faces......not habits!!

  • Amazing song!

    

  • Old skool tune....

  • There is no way that a man will leave his wife for another woman anyway.

  • been the other woman its not worth it!

  • Some women get off on this u know bein that other woman

  • @MsValencia77 They sure do. It's pathetic.

  • THIS SONG GOT SO MUCH MEANING AND I WON'T BE THAT OTHER WOMAN EITHER I GOT TOO MUCH CLASS AND RESPECT FOR MYSELF AND ALL WOMANHOOD!

  • dont ever want to be that other woman lol

  • nope I cant be that other woman juan jus leave me alone!!!!!!!

  • i have taken plenty of men from plenty of men and i always do them to this song. i was such a slut back then at least i know im not the only one. thumbs up for sexual revolution.lol

  • Love this song nigga got some nerve

  • "HAVE U EVER BEEN IN LOVE WIT ANOTHER WOMANS MAN"

  • man where did they find these clothes the stylist gets a real A+ one of the baddest videos i ever seen never gets old to me ;)

  • one of da singa' really ptretty dont no her name

    luv their cloze so sexy! i lik to dress lik dis

  • wont be!!!!!

  • cant we get along in joy life while we can life is b****

  • cant we all get along.in joy life while we live in it

  • cant we all get along in joy life

  • THEY WAS LOOKING HELLA SEXY IN THIS VID LOVE THIS!!!!!!!!

  • OOOOOOOOOOO What this song does to me..... Makes me think.... like damn I cant be the other woman.... I cant do it cant cry ova u no more... 2 women cant share 1 man

  • This song....smh

  • trust me if he dont want u to know ur the otha woman u wont so u just might be

  • My ex wanted me to be his other woman I couldnt do it

  • They look better with age!

  • they only do n cheap because u let em# ima always bee first n his life

  • @ShunShun Iktr girlfriend!

  • Can't have ur cake and eat it too!! U gotta get rid of the other one b4 u can have me whole heartedly boo boo!!**snaps fingers**

  • i love me

  • @TheDreyah She's saying she refusing to be the woman he cheats on his main wife(g/f) with. She needs a man totally committed to her; some women can handle being the other woman but she can't.

  • @colornine84 i am with u bro it is totaly true

  • YES THIS WAS MY SONG BACK IN 2000!!!

  • @QueenMariahCarey 2000 2001 was the best moment in 21st century we did not have terorist attack we were happppppppppppppppppppppppppy

  • she said u call when u want some pie

  • she said u call me when you want some thigh lol

  • @cjack1 she said u call when u want some pie

  • @nikki314100 and some pie for dessert

  • @zibinetcom thigh and pie! sound good to me

  • @cjack1 haha i want some thigh for dinner

  • THEY LOOK HELLA DIFFERENT WHEN THEY FIRST CAME OUT!

  • my ish. I have too much to offer to be the other woman.

  • yeah it's all gun and games till someone gets pregnant.

  • i cnt be woman

  • i miss music like this real music about real life issues not all this permiscous and i got mo money than you bull crap

  • this is my shit

  • SAD HOW THESE WOMEN HAD TO CHANGE FROM THEIR FORMER IMAGE!!! SAD!

  • VIDEO IS SEXY

  • omg i love this i haven't heard in a while

  • Smh... I just cant do it.

  • shit i love them

  • 1 ...ITS JUST A SONG LOL ......2. ITS GOOD !!!!!

  • I still luv this song i wish music was still like this not dat bull shit plying now

  • damn thats a tight video changing faces was the shit.

  • I must admit this song fits me down to the ground...that is soooo not a good feeling...Glad i've decided to walk away..

  • i can relate to this....my sad anthem

  • Although this tune goes hard

  • One of the worse type of relationship you could get yourself into whether the man is married or single. A man who has two women have a lot of nerve to date two woman at the same time.  Word of Advice Those are the types of men to avoid

  • @jlp05 Yet its those men that women want most. Human nature is funny ain't it.

  • Two women can share a man. They just have to learn the harsh reality--that it's not all about them. We gave up the rib so you could exist--a simple thank you would be nice. It's our world less you 4get. But the way these suckeaz, talkin' bout it ain't tricken if u got it.. Tricken is Tricken-Trick!!! Don't try to change the game.. Still love the ladies though.

  • this sound reminds me of xscape-soft place on earth.

  • damn this make up is off the hook!

  • Monica made a song for women like this its called "SIDELINE HO"!.....and why the wife had to be looking raggedy with her head wrapped up?!

  • @bluntslady10

    queen Mo

  • This song is not just dedicated to men that do this to WOMEN ; This song is deticated to MEN and WOMEN that go thru this .....

  • She Hates Me Because He Loves Me Ive always believed that a man is replaceable, but aslong as he's under your spell you have him for keeps. Beware! once he takes a second and whiff's a willing, desperate, second-hand female that has not been able to cant KEEP a man of her OWN, well thats your fault sweetie cuz it only takes but a second for your man attention-span to deviate. For no reason ladys loss your charm and seductive spell, thats the only way your relationship will flourish and last

  • miss this era

  • There's statistically more women than men on hearth. At this rate, some of them will have to agree on sharing or get down with O.P.P.

    Sorry,but it's the sad true...

  • @stanleyedwards3 Honestly some women problem when it comes to stuff like this is that they let the people they been wit define them which is the issue. I mean if you feel you need to be with someone that bad you need to think twice but in case of that statistics thing, they change daily and since there are some crazy men raping and killing women the scales could have tipped or changed and alot of people I know just had baby boys and so did a couple of celebrities.

  • @TalentedPotential92 True, the statistics change, hopefully, we will reach an even balance, cos i know part of the world where women can have 2 husbands just because there's more men than women, also part of the world where men will have 2 or 3 wives as long as he can treat them well and the same.

  • Im not going to be that other woman, i deserve more than that! men r like chocolates, when you first taste it u wonder what's this rich smooth sweet taste. but once you shop around a little more u realise there are chocolates with nuts, rasins and even buscuit! and then u say to urself the first chocolate was not fulfilling enough, i need a chocolate with a little more flavour. so u dump him and get urself a kit kat!

  • who ever dont like this is a hater

  • ITS NO FUN BEING ON EITHER SIDE!!!!! ITS ALL PAIN.........

  • come back we miss you

  • This Song Rite Here Made Me Realize Everything I Needed To Understand.

    It May Feel Rite But As Soon As He Leaves Its All So Wrong An You Hurt...

    WOMEN Are Better Than That. We Deserve More Than That.

  • I mean yes like people say...it's in our power as women to walk away, but you won't walk when you're in love until the energy within you is strong enough to make you stand up for you. Many women are crying and hurting over men who want to have cake and icing too...I ain judging sisters I've been there all we want is to love a good man, the other chick seems to be just in the way...then one day we realized hell he's screwing both of us around! There's no win, you have to leave him alone.

  • a decade & iits still the junk 2 listen 2

  • 5 People Must Be The Woman That They're Singing About... Just Saying

  • @sj4 ikr this is the stuff lol

  • this song cuz sometimes u dont even know your the other woman till u love them and then its all goes to shit and you feel the biggest hoe/fool in the world

  • believe if a women wants a man that cheats on his wife, girlfriend should not be respected bececause one she allows him to go back an forth his other women is not the victim cause if u want someone elses man even if he leaves u and makes u his women then he will do u the same way he did his girl men are retarded... karma is a bitch..

  • believe if a women wants a man that cheats on his wife, girlfriend should not be respected bececause one she allows him to go back an forth he other women is no te victim cause if u want someone elses man even if he leaves u and makes uhis women then he will do u the same way he did his girl men are retarded...

  • Women like to say they are the victim in situations like this. Truth is a woman will only make herself available to the type of man she wants to be with. So he is a reflection of you, not the other way around. You lay with dogs, you get up with fleas. Being lonely , is better than being mad .

  • yesss i like diz song i feel it foreal

  • 5 PEOPLE MUST HAVE BEEN THE OTHER WOMAN!!

  • @ShugaShugaRai Right... [lol]

  • @ShugaShugaRai LOL Exactly!

  • @alishajoh 6 sad woman!

  • @yaya1767 Who are the other woman.

  • I definitely can't be that other woman, too much respect for myself!!!

  • @alishajoh you don't be but we men make you other woman . you will not know loooooooooooool

  • @alishajoh we've all been the other woman whether we knew or not. It's only the woman who willingly accepts that role who has no respect for herself.

  • @ShugaShugaRai its 7 now...lmao

  • @ShugaShugaRai

    lol....probably so...

  • DAMN WHERE R THEY??? I MISS THIS GOOD REAL MUSIC FROM THE 90'S

  • U HAVE A WITNESS LOL

  • BEEN WITH A GUY FOR A YEAR AND HE DROP THE NEWS HE WAS GETTING MARRIED TO A GIRL IN ANOTHER COUNTRY IT MADE MY HEART BLEED AND IT HURTS SO MUCH THIS SONG IS SO DEEP BECAUSE BEING THE ORTHER WOWMEN AMIT COOL I AM BEAUTIFUL I CAN FIND A NEW MAN AND BE HES NUMBER ONE,,,,,,I CANT LOVE ANOTHER WOWMEN MANNNN....CUZ HE WILL RUN TO HER ALWAYS YOU GOTTA GET A WAY

  • Everyone is so judge mental, If you never walked in the shoes, you dont really know, your just assuming. You can compare that scenario to anything. Its always good to walk away if your aware of the situation as soon as possible before it gets out of hand.

  • True men only do wat women allow dem ta do.....but if dey do it does dat make dem a man?..Hell No...dat makes him a sucka,hoe,punk,Liar,&& cheater.....& if da womaan waits on him dats makes ha a damn fool...Were all human && No ones perfect dnt qet me wronq..But every man && woman has a brakeing point!!

  • boa lauranell79 i feel u!

  • Some of you who are overly fucking judgemental need to just settle down. No one is perfect. It happens. What's done is done.

    Anywho, I love this song, NEVER be the other woman, it's not worth it in the end..speaking from experience..

  • love changing faces HATE THIS SONG

  • @darknessonyou Really, you hate this song? It's kinda growing on me.

  • @TonyDracon its growing on u well good for u so wat u want a cookie or sumthin

  • Yeah, sure. Do you happen to have chocolate chip cookies??

  • @TonyDracon i have sum n the cabenit i gotta make em lol

  • Alright, well...I gotta go take a shower real quick and you get to work on baking those cookies. I expect them to be ready when I get out. :)

  • @TonyDracon hahaha yea ok ill get right on that lol goober lol

  • You bake me them cookies? 

  • song bout a dum fukn idiot and a whore, they deserve eachother and the faithful true lady @ home deserves a real man not a disrespectful asshole

  • @stonyoutlaw i cant blame u i cant b da otha woman neither, if he want his cake he should just leave and go with her.

  • Can't respect this type of women