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  • * but girls not buy girls srry for that

  • oh shut up, guys like them (and me :) ) are everywhere buy gurl look at them as friends or the gay guy a lot of guys are like them en guys who you might be attracted to physicly buy just to nervouse to get to know them, i think about 50 to 58% of all guys out there are like them you just don't give them the time to show you or you don't notice it right away even sometimes its up to you to get it out of them... all i'm saying is to pay more attention to the guys that are around you.

  • Where are you guys hiding? People like them are nearly impossible to find. :(

  • i agree with what they say but its bull shit about what you cant wear like if a girl wants to wear shorts id fine like :)

  • it depends on the individual and how they portray themselves. a person male or female can be dressed appropriate and yet there behavior can be in a sense loose or disrespectful or vulgar. this generation is in a rush to grow up they no longer understand actual dating and getting to know one another or to be in a relationship that actually requires you (MALE/FEMALE) to be committed in the relationship and that it also requires individuals to communicate & compromise. people are different.

  • These are the types of guys that are hard to find!!!

  • to the guy tht doesnt like mini skirts like short skirts cause guys donts wanna see ur legs do guys like it if you where leggins under the skirt?

  • It is kind of hard for girls to believe these empty words when the very same guys who claim to hold these beliefs behave in ways that say otherwise. Maybe not these particular guys, but high school "Christian" guys in general.

    Also, can we please stop demonizing girls, pointing the finger at them, and calling them sluts? Let's take a step back and ask why it is that girls in our culture continue to be reinforced/rewarded for "immodesty." Let's put the men/boys under the microscope, too.

  • but in reality, no guy would bother talking to you if you're not dressed like a slut when you're surrounded by other girls that are. infact that wouldn't bother talking to you at all. so they wouldn't get to know "what's on the inside".

  • I wish guys at my school are like this lol

  • lol allot of guys that will never get laid or married!!!

  • @DrGodComplex are you an ididot?

  • @DrGodComplex there're a few on this vid i would marry. i think you're wrong

  • Thank you sooo much for posting this video!! It answered alot of questions that I had! :)

  • So. what I'm getting from the other comments on here is that none of you want a relationship before marraige? You don't want to date or be with ANYONE else before you get married. That's what you're saying? Well I can tell you one thing: you won't get married unless you date. How else are you supposed to find the person you're meant to be with? Wait for him to fall into your lap? Sorry, guys, but lfie doesn't work that way. Besides, being in a relationship is fun and exciting.

  • Can I just say how much I admire all of you!!!! Girls need to hear this! High school is ridiculous! Thanks guys!

  • It's not about being high and mighty... its about knowing the word of God and what it teaches about sex, love & marriage. Imagine having a bottle of pop. Every guy or girl you "date" have them spit in it. Then on your wedding night ask your husband to drink from that bottle. Its the same thing as your body. The most beautiful gift to give your spouse is yourself. Don't give them damaged goods. This all starts with the way you present yourself. Dressing immodestly will only attract negativity.

  • God created sex to be between a man and his wife. Statistics are too high for teenage sexual activity. Young men are called by God to be providers. Until you can fulfill that role for your future wife, you are not meant to enter into an intimate relationship. Young ladies YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. Remain pure till marriage. Good for you boys to have the courage to do this. Young ladies, know that there is a man out there who will love you for your heart, not how short your skirt is.

  • These dudes suk

  • @itsomgbarbiexo These Guys are amazing and will be able to make something out of their lives

  • That guy in Red says "Um" a lot

  • where are THESE guys??

  • Too cute(:

  • I feel like this is kid of stupid. Like, a lot of guys won't take the time to get to know you if they don't initially think you're attractive. If you don't dress provocatively. I say this from experience, because I don't dress like that and nobody looks twice at me. And they're judging girls for the places that THEIR minds go? I would not date a single one of these high-and-mighty guys. I feel like they would try to dominate me more than more honest and base guys would.

  • @lucywa13 I dress modestly and I'm not a flirt... but I don't need nor do I want the attention that comes from dressing in a provocativ way... I know that the relationship I will have with my husband will be amazing because I will be only his and I completely saved myself for him.

  • @mamyjene11 why does the girl only have to 'save' herself for husband? what about him?

  • @lucywa13 i felt like that before too, like guys didnt wouldnt like me cause i didnt look pretty enough. there'll be guys that will think your beautiful because of who you are in the inside, and thats where true beauty comes from. someday there will be a guy that will think you look beautiful on the outside because of the person you are on the inside...not beause of what you wear. :)

  • being a christian has 0 effect on how good the sex is. Just saying ;) I am born and raised catholic so haters can hate.

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  • y cant most guys be like this ?

  • this is lame. i don't think i dress like a slut but i like to wear short skirts. who do you think you are saying what we ought or ought not to do. barf.

  • Forget that.... I "respect" myself enough to dress for me, how I want to, how I feel good and comfortable, not based on the judging and standards of how some guys might see me.

  • is this a joke?

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  • no guy want a girlfriend with to slutty clothes walking next to him

  • @TheMidgaardSerpent Are you a guy?

  • exactly how my bf is....so wonderful to find a guy who strays away from the "typical guy" now a days.

  • This is awesome! You are true gentlemen!

  • awww........AWSOME!....hope all guys would be like that!!!

  • wow dude.. you don't love a girl cause shes beautiful.. shes beautiful cause u love her

  • We need more guys like this in the world! All the guys in the video are what I want in a guy. Christian, smart, honest, trustworthy, sweet, and funny!:)

  • @hklova18 when guys wear tight clothes it just looks gross. usually guys clothes are just more modest anyway.

  • Oh they are so real, where do the good guys chill? Lol I want me one of those :)p

  • Well, then why's porn so popular. If guys preffere modesty?

  • @starfaery "cause when guy's look @ porn they're looking for eye candy, not a wife. Chances are that they wouldn't marry that person, because they would think there cheap or shallow.

  • @HannahsGodsgirl Well you would think that they feel an attraction to these girls, and want a lover like that. If they're got to look at porn, instead of getting a modest lover.

  • After interview...there going to guys night out...... stripclub

  • I believe its true girls should dress casual....all that talk girls cleavage short skirts.....i think alot girls just want to look pretty not slutty......i think for reals this bullshit interview looks like these kids are full of shit..i know if girl seduce these guys they wouldnt hold back.....

  • And finally...thankyou...someone who thinks girls should cover up their cleavage. I'ma girl and I never show my cleavage so it's good to see atleast some boys in the world who arnt shallow pervs!

  • Wait are all these guys like religious?

  • @TheDellanator If you mean christian by religious then probably because it sounds like the guy's are using the bible as there standard.

  • This is really cool!!!! Thanks guys!!!:)

  • wow these guys r rare

  • Why can't all guys be like these ones ?

  • @SuckTaylorsDick Agreed

  • @SuckTaylorsDick Yup but yet again women never goes for the good guys. Assholes get laid while good guys "friends" pick up the pieces.

  • This was interesting... I am very old-fashioned and dress modestly, yet stylishly... I enjoyed hearing the guys' opinions. :)

  • I have to say that sometimes I dress in tank tops and shorts cause it is HOT where I live!! If I am outside all day you can bet I am not wearing jeans, but on a day to day basis I wear jeans and a tee shirt or a dress that is to my finger tips and that dosn't show clevage cause I sure as heck don't want my boobs hanging out!! But I will say that if I am running I will wear short running shorts and a sports bra cause in the summer it can get up to 115 with humidity!

  • im a girl and i agree with the dude that said girls dotn NEED a bf drives me nuts when i hear my own friends say tht God will bring the right person when he thinks the time is right

  • It looks like the guy at 3:00 is blushing :)

  • I really like this video it helped me alot! bc I have been wanting a boyfriend but i c its not worth it..........but it's still hard!

  • Where are all these guys hahaha

  • What about other religion, why just Christianity?

  • Sometimes you can't help but be a little flirtatious, and not on purpose. My older friends always thought they celebrated woman ness and the joy if being a female, and it was something to be proud of everyday. I'm not Christian, but I agree, and men (only the pervy guys do) don't really have sex on their minds all day? Its..so untrue.

  • @everenduring I really agree with everything you're saying. Young women who follow Christ, like myself, are still human beings. Our sexual desires are no less than non-Christ followers. However, there is a place to fulfill these desires and that is within a Godly marriage. God made us as sexual beings, so I agree with your comment that we shouldn't oppress our sexuality, but we should save our sexuality for our husbands as God intended and not fulfill our desires right when we begin to feel them

  • @everenduring Well, with the objectification of women, it's become more acceptable for girls to be sexual.

  • @everenduring I don't hear about girls being shamed. In fact it's become rather acceptable for women to feel sexual desire.

  • @everenduring Not in todays society! Females are constantly obectified as sexhungry sluts. Every girl is dressing sexy, kinda expressing sexual desire.

  • @everenduring Well, I'm speaking of how guys are naturally more "sex hungry" than females. That makes you more prone to have sexual images in your head. It perhaps depend on the person, and what you like, but guys can't really help the physical situation, that awakens the thoughts.

  • @everenduring I don't think women are as prone to having nasty thoughts, as men are....

  • U have truely opened my eyes <3. I used 2 wear suspeneders and bright unmatching colors just 2 go against the latest trends and to stop my self from getting the wrong guy. But the thing is i have only been asked out once. I just resently started getting new clothes and a new style to be more well liked. WELL FUGDE TAT!!! Thx soo much, i am going back 2 my old self

  • @hklova18 very true!!

  • i am a catholic girl and i love my Lord with all my heart! but i am also 17 and i like to dress imodestly too! and i know that it rlly does hurt yur morales and yur reputation !! thanks for sharing this video it rlly made me feel ashamed of myself and rethink the way i dress and act in public. because i do respect myself and love God!

  • But...short shorts can be cute. :( It's all about what the rest of the outfit looks like WITH the shorts.

  • @KayBirDee Bikinis are cute too... it's not about how cute the clothing is, it's how much we really care about the guys around us.

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  • I don't get, why guys find modesty attractive, because In the end, when you have sex, the clothes, is gonna come of anyway....? You might as well be degrading yourself, copulating then. lol

  • @hklova18 Most guys do dress modest.

  • As a Christian girl, this stuff is so encouraging to hear. It can be really hard to go against the current even though we know modesty is right. Thanks and God bless you!

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  • What an awesome batch of guys. Good role models for those worthless high school boys. ;-)

  • I like these guys, the world needs more of them.

  • i thought that this was a really good video and it said a lot of postive things.... and i'm glad to see how guys think about girls and it applies not only n high school but in college too. how i see it is what u see is what u get kind of thing u get an imodest girl then r going to get bad things out of it. one of my friends likes to go around and try to make me jealous by talking to a guy that i like and most of them see that she's cheap.. oh and btw nice carolina hat whoever that was lol :D

  • Excuse me, I don't know a single girl who dresses to impress a boy. Girls dress for themselves. No matter how a girl dresses, or whatever her style is, it shouldnt matter that much. It all depends on her personality. Culture, society, personal experiences, they shape how we want to look. It takes a lot to look past how she displays herself to the world, revealing or not. Remember we were born naked, we were born to enjoy life. My God is a God of love, and wouldn't judge.

  • @brennaxxoo Although God is a God of love, He does judge. He is the ultimate judge, and the only one capable of judging us justly. Look it up in the Bible; there are tons and tons of verses. Genesis 18:25 says "Will not the judge of all the earth do right?" God cannot help but judge sin. Yes, Jesus did take the judgement of our sins because our God is such a loving God, but because He is just, He cannot simply ignore our sin.

  • This video is awesome! It gives a girl of God more hope that there is someone out there that is man of God waiting for her. Props to these guys and others like them who have devoted their life to Christ!

  • These guys are not all guys. These are long-suffering Christian boys giving you the canned lines they've been taught in church. They've been trained to say they're focused on modesty or personality, but I bet that's not the reality. That said, as a Jewish-agnostic girl these guys aren't really my type... why would I want to be with someone who gets so incredibly upset over what a women chooses to wear?

  • wow the whole religion thing in America is stronger than I thought...over here in England 99% of the people i know are not religious at all

  • @PeaceLemony Trust me, it's really not.

  • @PeaceLemony I live in America and 99% of the people I know are not religious at all. Like everywhere, it depends on where exactly you live and who you decide to be with. There are certain parts of the US which are incredibly religous, just like I'm sure there are parts of England you're unfamiliar with which are religious. Maybe not to the same extent, but I wouldn't judge an entire country base on one Youtube video which seems to be aimed at christian people.

  • where are guys like you near where I live?

  • thank god there are guys like you in the world! that gives me so much hope :)

  • where are these boys? haha Man i never meet cool Christian boys :(

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  • i admire you guys :)

  • awhhhh i wanna find a boy who's just like one of you guys :( <3

  • Ya! There are good guys out there!

  • Awesome video!! :)

  • Where are guys like this?! In my high school no one is as respectable as these guys :(

  • awe their so sweet :D

  • @thiscatmaybedead um they arent saying dont wear shorts that are saying it's not cute when a girl wears shorts and her ass is hanging out.

  • @empirestateusa Meh its just the ones i know. ... well some of the,m

  • Well its just the ones i know. Sorry again toi offend...

  • @eeyorebabiiheart.....ok I just read ur comment again and I misread it sorry about that :P but still,....apparently the Christians you know are not good influences...if you have any questions I'll be happy to answer :)

  • @eeyorebabiiheart....ok right there YOU were being judgmental! Not just christians are self centered and not very open minded! It just really depends on the person them self not the religion! Idk there are bad christian examples out there and you probably ran into one but just because some are doesn't mean ALL are! I'm not angry at you but you should really think about this. Of you have anymore questions about God, Jesus, or Christians I'll be happy to answer them :)

    Great job guys! You have

  • no offence to most Christiansen... But all the Christians i know. are self centered. Not really open minded and anything they dont like is the will of the devil. Wth

  • @eeyorebabiiheart You don't know many Christians then. 

  • This vid is truely amazing. Props to yall guys.

  • See, THESE are the guys that girls respect and go for: why can't other (jerky) guys see that and take some notes? ;) Great vid! Gives hope to all of us Christian girls out here saving ourselves for the right guy -Katie

  • Nice!!! Thanks for the advice!!! I wish every guy thought like this!!

  • I THINK ALL GIRLS NEED TO WATCH THIS VIDEO CHRISTIAN OR NOT!!!! I honestly think if alot of girls would start respecting themselves then the world would have way more guys like the ones in this video.

  • :D i like these guys. someones gotta marry the ugly chicks.

  • wow..are these guys like strong christians?

  • i think these guys are telling the truth..=)..it's a good thing this video was made for us girls to realize something from them

  • whats that song called!!! great vid btw

  • The Song is by Grits and Mac powell: Fly away. and thanks, it really allowed the girls to hear from a Christian guys perspective.

  • wow, what a bunch of sweethearted, kind boys ( :

  • @Juicecarjess Amen to that! I think they really care about us girls who see the video and want us to recognize the truth.

  • Wow if you don't believe in God you're screwed...But it's not like that in every country..Here in Belgium, no one cares about your religion. (or hardly no one anyway)

  • Thank you so much for this video...Now I see;)Be blessed

  • That was awesome!! I'm writing a sermon on purity and that really helps me with a guys perspective!!

  • that makes alot of sense

  • Thanks for putting this up! I know some these guys personally in this video, and they truly live our what they say.

  • this was a great video!!:D

  • i love how when he asks what they look for in women most of them mention they want the girl to be good looking but later on in the video the guys talk about how good guys don't care about what you look like on the outside.

  • Wow this videos sad i mean really these guys are calling themselves real guys cause they want modesty what a joke. A "REAL" man will accept a female for who she is no matter what she looks like no matter how she dresses like marriage vows for good or bad til death do you part. You guys are hyprocritical talking about modesty do yous dress modest i bet not, whats with the necklaces and both ears pierced thats modest right guys. So they got to cover up cleavage your lusts then cover up your abs!!

  • you guys are amazing thanx for putting this up!!!

  • Great video

  • I LOVED THIS. & I love guys who think like this. lol. My boyfriend is this way. Which is why we get alone. I wear skirts either to my knees or slightly above.. when girls think of long skirts or dresses that go to their knees they think of ugly grandmaw ones but thats not the case at all.. I have some GORGEOUS dresses and skirts that look a hell of a lot better then skimpy little jean skirts.

  • you guys spoke the truth good job

  • this is awesome!

  • haaaa

    ryyyy

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  • wow; great video: )

  • Thanks!! Remind me who you are!?! I cant remember :)

  • Nice video Mel!

    ha, sorry, I know I'm not a girl.

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