You say all of these things and your no different from all of the rest of these females with this childish diva madness you come across as a woman who thinks that a man is beneath you and he is supposed to serve you and court you when you are coming with all of this man hating propaganda grow up.
Hey I'll treat you REAL good om a gentleman and i'll take you where ever you wanna go but om STILL a real PIMP fa sho but that dont ma you no hoe! LOL you got time to make up ya own mind! MACK SOGOOD LA CALIFOANYA HERE TO PUT ALL UP OANYA!
Why Court a female when most of the time the Pussy is the only thing most men want. So Court a female and was time and money when 7 out of 10 will fuck in the first few hours. You have bumped your head.
sex starts!!! A smile? leads to a laugh a laugh leads to a high 5 a high 5 leads to a hug a hug leads to a kiss a kiss leads to a finger a finger leads to a hand a hand? leads to a lick a lick leads to a? suck a suck leads? 2 fuck. Right after you read it, something good will happen at 2:25 tomorrow. Get ready? for the? biggest shock of your life!! Whoever breaks the chain will be cursed w/relationship problems 4-10 years. If you post this to 5 vid in 15 mins, your safe. Sorry
So basically if I text before I call I'm a pimp? I see where you coming from and respect your views but I believe females be over-thinking simple shit. The only thing I though of while hearing this is that you've been hurt before and got your guard up. If the hand close nothing bad gets in but nothing good get's out neither and vice versa. Ready to run to conclusions before they can walk. But what do i know any way?
I dont mind calling females. The last female I was sort of talking with she texted me first then I asked her out but she said she was busy so i told her to get at me when she isnt. I dont before I met her I never used texting before never really thought of it as an opportunity to mess around with other women. To me texting, email, online communication is just an easier more direct form of communication.
I call bullshit. Most men text because women have become texting addicts, real players call. You need to put that voice in her head. You have to get in between her ears to get between her legs playas.
It's not that serious for every man there's 20 woman to choose from so females need to bring there A GAME especially if they have baggage so plz come back to the real world and let it turn how its turning
man what the fuck, i disagreed with everything that came out of your mouth, lol, your hating on the game of all these dudes and for what??? bitter black woman.
come on! Shay! He's a pimp? your categorizing men based on preconcieved notions that he is a player? this is exactly why men act the way they act shay, because your mentaly painting a picture that you think is real but is not! reasons some men dont call is because they dont want to be either pushy or clingy and they wait for you to call them some times to see if your ginuinely interested in them instead of the other way around! so please stop your bullcrap and be real!
@jjtiojohn12 Yes, Boo, he is a PIMP! You see, too many men..I mean boys have not idea how to treat or court a woman and then instead of trying to learn better, they get mad at the messenger. It is NOT acceptable for a man to wait for a woman to call and to simply text her for a date instead. You are the man, if you want her pursue her but don't stalk her and the growth of becoming a man is learning the difference!
@lovein30days ok now I call a girl at least 3 times a week, if she doesnt pick up I leave a message on her voicemail if she doesnt retun my call the next day I just leave a text message. now thats me persuing her now after all of that is done I wait for her to call me! now that is not being a player if she was interested she would've picked up the phone and called me back! if she wasnt busy. so if I did all these things does that make me a pimp! what do you know about the word pimp anyway?
@jjtiojohn12 You said you text her AFTER the phone calls. That is ok. If the text came minus the phone calls, this would be a problem. If you google the word pimp you will find that there are several slang definition of a PIMP, one of them meaning "to play one as a fool."
@lovein30days ok a pimp is a man who forces women to sell their bodies in order for him to make a profit! now it maybe slang you are refering to and yes there are many slang terms in the word pimp! but you know there are also many slang terms in the B-WORD! TOO! so if I used that word then I would be labeled disrespectful by all women but if you use the word pimp or player then it must be true that he is that type of person. but how do you really know? it has nothing to do with phone calls!
come on! Shay! He's a pimp? your categorizing men based on preconcieved notions that he is a player? this is exactly why men act the way they act shay, because your mentaly painting a picture that you think is real but is not! reasons some men dont call is because they dont want to be eithe pushy or clingy and they wait for you to call them some times to see if your ginuinely interested in them instead of the other way around! so please stop your bullcrap and be real!
I agree with CHUCO5231 2, txting is not pimpin...Watch Steve Harvey "Why men cheat"...WTF @ 4:44 if you feel that way you might as well accept the texts LOL
ok first nd foremost yun sayn a real nigga aint gne b like i thought whoopty whoop nuthin 3:23.. feeh me doe.. a nigga like we gone break da ice da first 10 min of da convo doe.. yom talkn bout...thas how u kno da brodd wit da shit.. if she aint then i cant..if she is thas da biz
YOU'LL BE SINGLE FOR A WHILE BABYGIRL,, ALL THE SILLY MENTAL HANGUPS UR DEALING WITH ARE VERY UNATTRACTIVE. OK,, SO HE TEXTED INSTEAD OF CALLED! NOW HE'S UP TO NO GOOD?? U CANT RIDE WITH HIM FOR THE FIRST WEEK?? IF A MAN WERE TO FOLLOW ALL YOUR GUIDELINES HE WOULD BE A PERFECT MAN. U R HELPING OTHER SINGLE WOMEN STAY SINGLE!
@wetwet808 Actually Boo...As a result of maintaining my standards, I was married to a GREAT man last year! Understand that no matter how sorry you may be, there are good men waiting to treat a woman like a queen and every woman whom I have helped, who has read my book or followed my advice have seen the same results. My man...HUSBAND aint perfect but he is very close:)
@lovein30days A real pimp/ playa/ mack wont be texting... he would be getting his voice all up on that womans head and spittin game at her not texting.. thats a chumps mistake cuz you DO have to take an interest in her if you wanna play her ass... but uhhh that guy that was texting probably was too scared to call you.. He has no game..
Thank you for posting this! Sometimes you need to hear something that you knew all along, out loud in order to really see what's going on. I know now that I am in a unhealthy relationship and i thank you for this. God bless :)
uh..what if got the tickets exactly 2 hours before the game?? shorty is thinkin way too deep into it and making assumptions. just say 'thank you' and dont go to the game. I know I got another grateful breezee who might just be free and even showered n dressed ready to go and end up having fun at the game while ur ass is at home watchin kids just cause you 'assumed' he's disrespectful.
I could not agree with you more when you say it is disrespectful to invite a woman to dinner/movie/drinks/etc the day of! This absolutely infuriates me. Because 1.) I feel like its a booty call attempt. 2.) I have three babies at home to find a sitter for and 3.) I get invited through a text, or an email or Myspace!!! What is wrong with these "men"? I had 5 "potential" dates in one weeks time & I turned every one of them down. I am just so done with these types of men!
yea nowadays these men don't feel like they gotta do crap to get a woman's "affection", they take as many shortcuts as possible, whichever way is most convienent for them. Back in the dayz they were so quick to marry us, 'cuz it wuz much harder 4 them 2 get sum on da regular.
Boo according to the Bible there are 5 states of a relationship: Virgin, Married, Divorced, Widow and lastly Whore.
According to Bible if you are not of the 4 you are of the later which is a whore. Something for the Diva's to consider.
Leviticus 21:14 (KJV) reveal the 5 States of a Relationship
A WIDOW, or a DIVORCED woman, or profane, or an HARLOT (WHORE,HOE), these shall he not take: but he shall take a VIRGIN of his own people to WIFE (MARRIED).
Negative marks are not going to change the truth of the scripture.
The reality is the Black community is broken due to broken families ... and the women is in control of this ... but due to her jealousy the entire community falls short of its glory.
Polygamy is not based on sex ... shh its to easy to get sex in a hoe culture get real its pussy everywhere ... we bout building the family, respect an community.
Hosea 4:6-15 King James version ... read it Black Women
nicca please, I've been married for 20 years an I'm 40 yrs old still got 20 yrs young ladies push'n up, an I have 3 kids; solid as a rock mentally physically an spiritually ... an my wife knows the scripture.
i work and i hustle cuz i gotta provide. i work like 10 to 12 hrs a day. i cant talk but i can text, dats just da rules. when i hustle i got 2 watch my surroundings. real talk, i got caught slippn TALKN on da phone. i work da booth 2, baby be like "u playn" why u dont call, ITS STILL WORK. it boils down 2 situations and circumstances. stop assuming. when u assume u make a ASS out of U and ME. lots of men do the same thing with different objectives. not er man cheat. b proud a nigga can multitask
dats understandable but just dont put er man in da smae category. i text cuz i can communicate wit a lot of ppl at da same time. dont mean im dippn. i mean if u dont trust yo man dats yo fault 4 stayn wit a nigga u dont trust. if u know ur man a go getta like myself den stay off his nutz when he doin business. i cant speak for all men who text but i know it has its advantages and disadvantages. if a nigga a cheat, he gone cheat witout da need of a phone. dont hate da playa hate urself 4 fn wit'm
Speak what you know and check out the wedding of me and my HUSBAND on my main page...lol I know it sucks when the game is exposed but deal with it...pimpin!:)
I didnt know texting wont show up on the bill, you need to report that if it get serious because the phone company keep track of text being sent out, even if it dont show up on a bill.
you have some good points, but one thing you have understand this isn't back in the day. i consider my self a gentlemen but on that same level i remeber when i was a yougin and they use to say it was 10 females for every 1 man since them those odds have done nothing but increase. with that ponit made the has decreases the need for the chase.the roles have changed now the female has to do more chasing and us males have all the options, we hold all the cards..
Thats crap! The ratio has ALWAYS been imbalanced since the beginning of time (women live longer than men) and the women have always had the selection. Ill let that sink in for a minute...
Boys use the male/female ratio to justify their passive emasculated posture to courting a woman and only the women with weak understandings of truth fall for that mess! There are plenty of good single men looking for love that a woman doesn't have to fall for a boy who thinks like you.
This is a very accurate video. The real reason males text females and don't call them is so they can entertain several females at once. You can't talk to all of them on the phone at once, but you can text several of them at a time. during business hours when a woman is known to be working.. an honest man will text. However, during the evening/night hours when people are off work and minutes are free; a woman should expect that guy who really desires her will want to hear her voice
Sweetheart you're dealing with boys not Men. As a Man I don"t sneak to do anything. When I tell a Woman what i'm doing and she decides to stay it is what it is. You're dealing with a lot of ifs,maybe,could be, you're a worrier. When you deal with a Man you don't have to worry.
But i do understand. Game recognize Game. It's to be sold no told and you got a book to sell.
Yeah ok Boo, if you say so. Im sharing the insites to the game because I have learned the game (hundreds of interviews and experience) that so many women fall for but who are unaware and being played. And no I dont need to worry bc I have a good REAL man and not a pimp...but yes, I do have a book that has helped a lot of women so why dont you but some copies and hand it over to the women you claim to be a man for as you attempt to PLAY them:/
Fa sho good lookin. the game is bigger then a world full of pimps and hoes. yougot a lot of punk as niggas claimin to be pimps when actuality they are just sorry ass players. but yea a real nigga will hear what your sayin and step his game up.
yea he could be up to no good, but he could be all good too. he could talk to you too and be just as no good. theres no way to know. if he a real boss youll know when hes out with another cuz hell TELL you
Yep last minute dates is a no-no!! I read that in "The Rules" for single women (when I was single). "Date DIVA" you are truly on point here with the t. messaging. Steve Harvey said the same thing in "Act Like a Lady & Think Like A Man"...a man could be texting you and six other women at the same time!! Thanks for this. (((smiles)))
I've been agreeing with many things u have said in several of your videos, until I head u say that u have 2 children. Lets not have delusions of grandeur now. How can u complain, when you're not a high commodity yourself?...Single moms with small children are a no no for young single childless men who are trying to progress. And this is for various reasons.
I have done a show about that...and the conclusion was that only young immature men who most single moms wont consider dating think that bc a woman has children it makes her less of a commodity. I encourage women to believe that their children are a blessing and that the right man will come along and love her and the kids...as the case with me and MANY other single women with kids! When I was single with kids, I had no problem what so ever finding a man with out kids.
I agree with you that men should call instead of txt, but women do the txt game just as well if not better than men. A woman will try to run game by not returning a call and txting u back instead. Or women will try to have a FULL convo via txt instead of talking on the phone, meanwhile they laying on top of their man or some other dude they fucking.
I tell my homies, to NEVER use txt to correspond with a woman u do not know, unless it's to say "im running late" or "meet at 51st and broadway".
Danm that's a reality check. I just met a man who keeps textin me instead of callin and talk. It disturbed me b4 but i got used to it til NOW with this video. G
ok, one more tip when a man never picks up his cell phone when you call him and then calls you back a hour or two later, be aware. Or when he calls you from his work number but never calls your from his home phone. Watch for the warning signs ladies these men are on the hunt and you are their pray.
You are so right about the texting, I had a got I meet who keep texting me. I asked him why he couldn't call me. He said I like to text, I told him it was childish to text. so after a week of this testing ,I ask him was he married, LOL, he never text me again!!! Another bites the dust!!!
I would much rather talk to someone rather than read a text message. If someone I was interested in texted me more that talk to me, I would not want to continue with the relationship. I've know men to go to the restroom and send a quick text while entertaining someone else. It's game for sure, if your interested in someone you will want to hear their voice always.
Women, especially BW have this illusion that men should deal with them as if they are married..men have ALREADY figured this out. HE OWES YOU NOTHING! IF the feeling is not mutual that you are both looking 4 life partners, then all it is, is a date.
It will certainly be clear as to what his expectations are and if we open our eyes and not kid ourselves we will be clear as to his expectations. You cant make him act committed if all that he is , is a boyfriend.
I viewed this video thinking that it might give som actual new & progressive insights. It's obvious this woman is stuck in the past & has a suspicious mindset to begin w/ 1st off back in the day we didn't have this super fast paced society w/ these tchnologies. A new etticut has cropped up that incudes email note & texting. So get w/ it. If ur mind automatically points to someone trying to be deceitful than that's wut u r expecting & will receive. & for the record text info does appear on bills.
wuts wrong w/ a man wanting to play this isn't like some formal investment vehicle that men have to commit themselves to. We are all trying each other out to see if we r compatible. Women like to play also. Variety is the slice of life. There's a reason y it's considered "the GAME of love" it is a game. & the point is to have fun. Nobody owes anyone anything. The bottom line is to love honor & appreciate self & others & u will attract wut u want & need in a partner. u make this seem like a job.
Relationships are about "relating" to someone else. & that's usually for the purpose of enjoying the act of relating to another. U sound so typical w/ these corny "rules of thumb" u have based on a forme time that doesn't apply to now. (smh) No wonder chicks are frustrated. U think u know how to attract men & naturally u do. (ur women..it's inate) but get all caught up w/ this thinking. & all twisted up. (sigh) wutever. I'm over it.
PART 1. Hey lady, congratulations on your website and videos. You have a lot of insight into your world and it is nice to see you are thinking about it. Your videos are needed because they address problems women are having with men. But have you ever wondered WHY women are having these problems? Men with women are natural and comfortable and desirable so why is it so stressful?
Women are the most desirable of God's creation.You choose our fathers, raise our sons. But you are unhappy with us?
WOW, Queen, man I would love to conversate and have a good time with ya, but men are so much on the tip of trying to be thug, and not in touch with their feminine nature, the one sided, yeah Queen it should be of their heart, most want the sex and are going through the motions, wow stay sweet queen, LAST MINUTE things, naw it aint even my style, I do not roll like that myself, you know? Business before pleasure, you make appointments for both...
This is some bullshit based on a very oppionionated woman's views on fuck-up dates that she has had. I recently meet a woman and decided texting 60/40 over calling her and the reason being is that I can get alot more messages and ideas across via text at any given moment. I maintain my own place and have nothing to hide, yet I still text her frequently...so texting have nothing to do with a man cheating, for some it's just a method of communicating surely.
Shay your information in this video is logical, however from a shallow perspective. Your views are one-sided and feminine. Assuming he is a pimp is a possible conclusion but it is not very accurate. And to place deviance behind a text message is quite extreme. You are teaching women to seek dominant power over men while also teaching them to have at least 3 options. Cutting off a man over a text is a good way to lose out on futuristic possibilities. I am interested to see the man that gets you
Lol...Ok, I am not saying that a woman should cut a man off If he sends a text...I clearly state that if he uses text as a main form of communication there is a problem! I did not mind passing up toads who just prefered to text me to find my prince...lol. So now that I have found my king, I am so glad I did not settle for less than what I teach other women...oh and dont worry, I will introduce him to my youtube fam soon:)
Even calling doesnt guarantee he/shes faithful. And by todays standards he doesnt even owe you that. If you are just "dating" with no expectation of longterm (men see it as just dating but still available, women see it as if they are courting and act engaged by they r just dating & r owed nothing)then hes really not commited to you unless he plans 2 marry you. WHy ask so much of a mzn if he has no intentions on making u his life partner? Spontaneity has its place but set dates.
but then you say don't ride with him on the first date..he cud be crazy ....but you want me to pay for the meals and drinks....and call you instead of texting you..we are just getting to know each other....a text every now and then won't hurt...lol
I got that low basic 200 minute a month plan. So I will text the SHIT out of your ass cause I ain't trying to being paying $150 every damn month to SPRINT.
I had an ex-boyfriend who rather text me instead of calling me on the my cell. The last straw was when he texted "Happy Birthday" without calling, or giving be a B-day presents so I dumped him ON MY BIRTHDAY! Now I'm with a man who makes me feel appreciated and have LOTS of fun together.
Are you kidding... disrespectful??? wow no wonder you are single. Whats wrong with wanting some? Oh I forgot he has to be right height, ask the right way, has to have a job, don't ride in his car, has to have good teeth, not live at home with his mama, make him wait. not worth it...
I do agree with you Shay, but on the other hand, these nowadays young people seem to prefer texting as a mode of communication. Its illogical but its their thing. I know there are playas but you can't be so suspicious :)
We ain't back in the day. Nothing wrong with texting.
EastOaklandRyder510 1 month ago
You say all of these things and your no different from all of the rest of these females with this childish diva madness you come across as a woman who thinks that a man is beneath you and he is supposed to serve you and court you when you are coming with all of this man hating propaganda grow up.
tmarq170 1 month ago
Hey I'll treat you REAL good om a gentleman and i'll take you where ever you wanna go but om STILL a real PIMP fa sho but that dont ma you no hoe! LOL you got time to make up ya own mind! MACK SOGOOD LA CALIFOANYA HERE TO PUT ALL UP OANYA!
cinemasalad 2 months ago
Why Court a female when most of the time the Pussy is the only thing most men want. So Court a female and was time and money when 7 out of 10 will fuck in the first few hours. You have bumped your head.
skinnypi 3 months ago
SHE GOT SOME JUICY LIPS THO!!!
antbaby456 4 months ago 2
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sex starts!!! A smile? leads to a laugh a laugh leads to a high 5 a high 5 leads to a hug a hug leads to a kiss a kiss leads to a finger a finger leads to a hand a hand? leads to a lick a lick leads to a? suck a suck leads? 2 fuck. Right after you read it, something good will happen at 2:25 tomorrow. Get ready? for the? biggest shock of your life!! Whoever breaks the chain will be cursed w/relationship problems 4-10 years. If you post this to 5 vid in 15 mins, your safe. Sorry
dondewayne1 4 months ago
So funny how the women who know so much about a man and dont even have one.
TheLincoln1980 4 months ago
So basically if I text before I call I'm a pimp? I see where you coming from and respect your views but I believe females be over-thinking simple shit. The only thing I though of while hearing this is that you've been hurt before and got your guard up. If the hand close nothing bad gets in but nothing good get's out neither and vice versa. Ready to run to conclusions before they can walk. But what do i know any way?
youngd2008 5 months ago
I dont mind calling females. The last female I was sort of talking with she texted me first then I asked her out but she said she was busy so i told her to get at me when she isnt. I dont before I met her I never used texting before never really thought of it as an opportunity to mess around with other women. To me texting, email, online communication is just an easier more direct form of communication.
Sagefrakrobatik 6 months ago
Thanx I learned about textin now I can cheat on my female easier n his 1st bitch probaly canceled n ur 1 of his back ups
RipemupRab 6 months ago
I call bullshit. Most men text because women have become texting addicts, real players call. You need to put that voice in her head. You have to get in between her ears to get between her legs playas.
jehcrazyjehcmy 8 months ago
you be on point....fuck a hata'
thecomposercharisma 9 months ago
lol she giving away the game but it dont matter what you preach a tru mac is too diversal for ya
Reese601334 9 months ago
It's not that serious for every man there's 20 woman to choose from so females need to bring there A GAME especially if they have baggage so plz come back to the real world and let it turn how its turning
sirliketofuck 10 months ago
man what the fuck, i disagreed with everything that came out of your mouth, lol, your hating on the game of all these dudes and for what??? bitter black woman.
freshprince1187 10 months ago
@freshprince1187
they all talk like that until the money in they face ......
Pluvism 4 months ago
Lol.. Ain't that the truth!
MsInvincible83 10 months ago
That's it exactly how it is... You tell it like it is gurl..
MsInvincible83 10 months ago
Black women need help from god.
agency213 10 months ago
Game recognizes game. Love it.
TheButtaJonez 11 months ago
ay ay its gucci
superduperpooper7 1 year ago
DAMM I SEE YOU GOT YOUR GAME RITE..
sunnipworld 1 year ago
i concur....dont kill the messenger!!!!
holmesc1 1 year ago
come on! Shay! He's a pimp? your categorizing men based on preconcieved notions that he is a player? this is exactly why men act the way they act shay, because your mentaly painting a picture that you think is real but is not! reasons some men dont call is because they dont want to be either pushy or clingy and they wait for you to call them some times to see if your ginuinely interested in them instead of the other way around! so please stop your bullcrap and be real!
jjtiojohn12 1 year ago
@jjtiojohn12 Yes, Boo, he is a PIMP! You see, too many men..I mean boys have not idea how to treat or court a woman and then instead of trying to learn better, they get mad at the messenger. It is NOT acceptable for a man to wait for a woman to call and to simply text her for a date instead. You are the man, if you want her pursue her but don't stalk her and the growth of becoming a man is learning the difference!
lovein30days 1 year ago
@lovein30days ok now I call a girl at least 3 times a week, if she doesnt pick up I leave a message on her voicemail if she doesnt retun my call the next day I just leave a text message. now thats me persuing her now after all of that is done I wait for her to call me! now that is not being a player if she was interested she would've picked up the phone and called me back! if she wasnt busy. so if I did all these things does that make me a pimp! what do you know about the word pimp anyway?
jjtiojohn12 1 year ago
@jjtiojohn12 You said you text her AFTER the phone calls. That is ok. If the text came minus the phone calls, this would be a problem. If you google the word pimp you will find that there are several slang definition of a PIMP, one of them meaning "to play one as a fool."
lovein30days 1 year ago
@lovein30days ok a pimp is a man who forces women to sell their bodies in order for him to make a profit! now it maybe slang you are refering to and yes there are many slang terms in the word pimp! but you know there are also many slang terms in the B-WORD! TOO! so if I used that word then I would be labeled disrespectful by all women but if you use the word pimp or player then it must be true that he is that type of person. but how do you really know? it has nothing to do with phone calls!
jjtiojohn12 1 year ago
come on! Shay! He's a pimp? your categorizing men based on preconcieved notions that he is a player? this is exactly why men act the way they act shay, because your mentaly painting a picture that you think is real but is not! reasons some men dont call is because they dont want to be eithe pushy or clingy and they wait for you to call them some times to see if your ginuinely interested in them instead of the other way around! so please stop your bullcrap and be real!
jjtiojohn12 1 year ago
I agree with CHUCO5231 2, txting is not pimpin...Watch Steve Harvey "Why men cheat"...WTF @ 4:44 if you feel that way you might as well accept the texts LOL
rogerclark1976 1 year ago
Where's part 2??
fightthepowerrrr 1 year ago
ok first nd foremost yun sayn a real nigga aint gne b like i thought whoopty whoop nuthin 3:23.. feeh me doe.. a nigga like we gone break da ice da first 10 min of da convo doe.. yom talkn bout...thas how u kno da brodd wit da shit.. if she aint then i cant..if she is thas da biz
yoooo415 1 year ago
she got a women intuition and knew that guy was no good for her and said that he could of been a freak u never know with these weirdos out here
gabriela123424 1 year ago
she got a women intuition and knew that guy was no good for her and said that he could of been a freak u never know with these weirdos out here
gabriela123424 1 year ago
ya kno good looking
gabriela123424 1 year ago
This is all just part of the GAME
jehcrazyjehcmy 1 year ago
YOU'LL BE SINGLE FOR A WHILE BABYGIRL,, ALL THE SILLY MENTAL HANGUPS UR DEALING WITH ARE VERY UNATTRACTIVE. OK,, SO HE TEXTED INSTEAD OF CALLED! NOW HE'S UP TO NO GOOD?? U CANT RIDE WITH HIM FOR THE FIRST WEEK?? IF A MAN WERE TO FOLLOW ALL YOUR GUIDELINES HE WOULD BE A PERFECT MAN. U R HELPING OTHER SINGLE WOMEN STAY SINGLE!
wetwet808 1 year ago 6
@wetwet808 Actually Boo...As a result of maintaining my standards, I was married to a GREAT man last year! Understand that no matter how sorry you may be, there are good men waiting to treat a woman like a queen and every woman whom I have helped, who has read my book or followed my advice have seen the same results. My man...HUSBAND aint perfect but he is very close:)
lovein30days 1 year ago 3
@lovein30days A real pimp/ playa/ mack wont be texting... he would be getting his voice all up on that womans head and spittin game at her not texting.. thats a chumps mistake cuz you DO have to take an interest in her if you wanna play her ass... but uhhh that guy that was texting probably was too scared to call you.. He has no game..
CHUCO5231 1 year ago
as many men u had u can afford to b single for the rest of ur life
TheNotorious3 1 year ago
man a nigga could treat u exactly how u wanna be treated and still run game on u..
DALLAS 214 TEXAS~
RYDERFRESH7 1 year ago
Thank you for posting this! Sometimes you need to hear something that you knew all along, out loud in order to really see what's going on. I know now that I am in a unhealthy relationship and i thank you for this. God bless :)
meshell289 1 year ago
HAPPILY SINGLE LOL!!!!!BS!!
MASTERDITPRODUCTIONS 1 year ago
lol someone got played.
AgrivatedKillah 1 year ago
uh..what if got the tickets exactly 2 hours before the game?? shorty is thinkin way too deep into it and making assumptions. just say 'thank you' and dont go to the game. I know I got another grateful breezee who might just be free and even showered n dressed ready to go and end up having fun at the game while ur ass is at home watchin kids just cause you 'assumed' he's disrespectful.
tropicalpimp 1 year ago
I'ma good man but most women don't know what they want and they feel a man has to provide for there needs and be responsible for their happiness.
ThesisOriginals 1 year ago
Those days are over. Adapt and adjust.
MrGaston80 2 years ago
She not talkin about pimps she talk about a suckas! i find this offending....pimpin aint easy!!!!
Jwalkchannel 2 years ago 4
I could not agree with you more when you say it is disrespectful to invite a woman to dinner/movie/drinks/etc the day of! This absolutely infuriates me. Because 1.) I feel like its a booty call attempt. 2.) I have three babies at home to find a sitter for and 3.) I get invited through a text, or an email or Myspace!!! What is wrong with these "men"? I had 5 "potential" dates in one weeks time & I turned every one of them down. I am just so done with these types of men!
raelafaye 2 years ago
yea nowadays these men don't feel like they gotta do crap to get a woman's "affection", they take as many shortcuts as possible, whichever way is most convienent for them. Back in the dayz they were so quick to marry us, 'cuz it wuz much harder 4 them 2 get sum on da regular.
babbina 2 years ago
Boo according to the Bible there are 5 states of a relationship: Virgin, Married, Divorced, Widow and lastly Whore.
According to Bible if you are not of the 4 you are of the later which is a whore. Something for the Diva's to consider.
Leviticus 21:14 (KJV) reveal the 5 States of a Relationship
A WIDOW, or a DIVORCED woman, or profane, or an HARLOT (WHORE,HOE), these shall he not take: but he shall take a VIRGIN of his own people to WIFE (MARRIED).
NoticeOfDefault 2 years ago
Negative marks are not going to change the truth of the scripture.
The reality is the Black community is broken due to broken families ... and the women is in control of this ... but due to her jealousy the entire community falls short of its glory.
Polygamy is not based on sex ... shh its to easy to get sex in a hoe culture get real its pussy everywhere ... we bout building the family, respect an community.
Hosea 4:6-15 King James version ... read it Black Women
NoticeOfDefault 2 years ago
Cold part about it I can't see a type of relationship outside of the 5 the Bible highlight.
I tried to think ok ah what about a friend or an associate but even those are ultimately Virgin or Whore.
Divas time to consider polygamy.
In my community men out number women like 7 to 1.
Its either polygamy or the proliferation of the whore an the later is not holy.
Revlation 19 (KJV) states the saints are polluted due to the whore, an everyone continue to drink from her cup.
Diva's are U?
Peace
NoticeOfDefault 2 years ago
lol, for every women to have the opportunity to get married every man would have to divorce his wife like 7 times.
Divas is that what you want marriage for six years bust the fam up then maybe catch another divorced man to marry.
self destruction, your engulfed in self destruction
NoticeOfDefault 2 years ago
nicca please, I've been married for 20 years an I'm 40 yrs old still got 20 yrs young ladies push'n up, an I have 3 kids; solid as a rock mentally physically an spiritually ... an my wife knows the scripture.
NoticeOfDefault 2 years ago
Empress I'm a polygamist in a hoe culture ...
What should I do all I meet is females that want to be my hoe an not my 2nd wife.
With so many hoes out here its so easy to get sex but a second wife is like naw baby but I'll be ur hoe ... I through I want a 2nd wife not a hoe.
NoticeOfDefault 2 years ago
What's wrong with a sexual relationship? lol
What's wrong if he has a couple other females?
I don't get you
figthersdreams 2 years ago
@figthersdreams Lol...you wouldnt!
SYDD
lovein30days 2 years ago
best bet when a male starts acting brand new u drop him like a hot potato.
Leta589 2 years ago
wow can i get my time back.
SmallTownCrownENT 2 years ago
i work and i hustle cuz i gotta provide. i work like 10 to 12 hrs a day. i cant talk but i can text, dats just da rules. when i hustle i got 2 watch my surroundings. real talk, i got caught slippn TALKN on da phone. i work da booth 2, baby be like "u playn" why u dont call, ITS STILL WORK. it boils down 2 situations and circumstances. stop assuming. when u assume u make a ASS out of U and ME. lots of men do the same thing with different objectives. not er man cheat. b proud a nigga can multitask
MrFoolHead 2 years ago
@MrFoolHead
that's different. some men do text because they dont want to get caught talking to another woman
peacemakerandrebel 2 years ago
dats understandable but just dont put er man in da smae category. i text cuz i can communicate wit a lot of ppl at da same time. dont mean im dippn. i mean if u dont trust yo man dats yo fault 4 stayn wit a nigga u dont trust. if u know ur man a go getta like myself den stay off his nutz when he doin business. i cant speak for all men who text but i know it has its advantages and disadvantages. if a nigga a cheat, he gone cheat witout da need of a phone. dont hate da playa hate urself 4 fn wit'm
MrFoolHead 2 years ago 2
Well i'm a pimp. Cant knock the hustle
davonizdashit 2 years ago
hey shey once again im a nigga n much as i hate to say it but u telling d truth i been there done all of it u real keep it u an stay real
1misshill 2 years ago
Amazing a women with no man can tell other women how to get a man. Hmmm There`s a concept that work.
moses155 2 years ago
Speak what you know and check out the wedding of me and my HUSBAND on my main page...lol I know it sucks when the game is exposed but deal with it...pimpin!:)
SYDD
lovein30days 2 years ago 4
i don't speak to dudes who text. that is so high school. it's childish. i don't reply.
acestarone 2 years ago
hold up babygirl !
I didnt know texting wont show up on the bill, you need to report that if it get serious because the phone company keep track of text being sent out, even if it dont show up on a bill.
FYI !
trickz323 2 years ago
you have some good points, but one thing you have understand this isn't back in the day. i consider my self a gentlemen but on that same level i remeber when i was a yougin and they use to say it was 10 females for every 1 man since them those odds have done nothing but increase. with that ponit made the has decreases the need for the chase.the roles have changed now the female has to do more chasing and us males have all the options, we hold all the cards..
true6lue 2 years ago
Thats crap! The ratio has ALWAYS been imbalanced since the beginning of time (women live longer than men) and the women have always had the selection. Ill let that sink in for a minute...
Boys use the male/female ratio to justify their passive emasculated posture to courting a woman and only the women with weak understandings of truth fall for that mess! There are plenty of good single men looking for love that a woman doesn't have to fall for a boy who thinks like you.
SYDD
lovein30days 2 years ago
This is a very accurate video. The real reason males text females and don't call them is so they can entertain several females at once. You can't talk to all of them on the phone at once, but you can text several of them at a time. during business hours when a woman is known to be working.. an honest man will text. However, during the evening/night hours when people are off work and minutes are free; a woman should expect that guy who really desires her will want to hear her voice
PJamese1 2 years ago 7
@PJamese1 bullshit! You must be a heart broken female.
skinnypi 3 months ago
get wit dis pimpin hoe break yo toes 4 my doe!
mrsweets269 2 years ago 3
If you a real playa you got a cellphone she don't even know about.
farrazano 2 years ago 20
@farrazano LMAOOOO
AgrivatedKillah 1 year ago
Sweetheart you're dealing with boys not Men. As a Man I don"t sneak to do anything. When I tell a Woman what i'm doing and she decides to stay it is what it is. You're dealing with a lot of ifs,maybe,could be, you're a worrier. When you deal with a Man you don't have to worry.
But i do understand. Game recognize Game. It's to be sold no told and you got a book to sell.
niruggg 2 years ago
Yeah ok Boo, if you say so. Im sharing the insites to the game because I have learned the game (hundreds of interviews and experience) that so many women fall for but who are unaware and being played. And no I dont need to worry bc I have a good REAL man and not a pimp...but yes, I do have a book that has helped a lot of women so why dont you but some copies and hand it over to the women you claim to be a man for as you attempt to PLAY them:/
SYDD
lovein30days 2 years ago
Exactly...
Especially using statements like "Every once in a while I'll entertain an application."
"Don't call me Friday and wanting to meet Friday evening?"
If interested in the guy and he called you...I don't see why it's disrespectful.
Seems like she should write a "RULE BOOK" of what and what not to do's. So yeah, a book should be sold.
CALICOTV301 2 years ago
wooooow...I thought the "Hello beautiful" texts at 8am were cute........................I mean, we talked on the phone every night...but still!
xxchristinexstarxx 2 years ago
LOL
drroberson4 2 years ago
you need to carry yo ass to church
ssmedl 2 years ago
Fa sho good lookin. the game is bigger then a world full of pimps and hoes. yougot a lot of punk as niggas claimin to be pimps when actuality they are just sorry ass players. but yea a real nigga will hear what your sayin and step his game up.
saucydamack 2 years ago
You need a man that will take you to Rent-A-Center so you can upgrade that Adams Family furniture.
jinxlocc 2 years ago
Lol...lol...Heeeyyyyyy Hater! Nice to see you out there:)
SYDD
lovein30days 2 years ago
you have too much alone time on your hands and its effecting your judgement of yourself and men.go get laid already--everyone eles is
xaviermorris 2 years ago
yea he could be up to no good, but he could be all good too. he could talk to you too and be just as no good. theres no way to know. if he a real boss youll know when hes out with another cuz hell TELL you
jmelgard 2 years ago
That's what I'm saying a Man don't have to sneak. I'm gonna tell you what it is.
niruggg 2 years ago 5
Yep last minute dates is a no-no!! I read that in "The Rules" for single women (when I was single). "Date DIVA" you are truly on point here with the t. messaging. Steve Harvey said the same thing in "Act Like a Lady & Think Like A Man"...a man could be texting you and six other women at the same time!! Thanks for this. (((smiles)))
is a no-no!!
jenivert 2 years ago
You have kids...thats why
oaikens 2 years ago
HaHa, who don' hipped you to da pimp game!
I'm a text hoe fo' sho', yep dat's me!
Well it seems only a few ladies don' watch this vid, so that leaves about 10million mo' divas fo' me to text, LOL
DollarBillWill 3 years ago
you give great advice.
nothingbutdabest22 3 years ago
I've been agreeing with many things u have said in several of your videos, until I head u say that u have 2 children. Lets not have delusions of grandeur now. How can u complain, when you're not a high commodity yourself?...Single moms with small children are a no no for young single childless men who are trying to progress. And this is for various reasons.
Do a show about that....
oatsuzn 3 years ago 2
I have done a show about that...and the conclusion was that only young immature men who most single moms wont consider dating think that bc a woman has children it makes her less of a commodity. I encourage women to believe that their children are a blessing and that the right man will come along and love her and the kids...as the case with me and MANY other single women with kids! When I was single with kids, I had no problem what so ever finding a man with out kids.
SYDD
But hey, I am all for
lovein30days 3 years ago
I agree with you that men should call instead of txt, but women do the txt game just as well if not better than men. A woman will try to run game by not returning a call and txting u back instead. Or women will try to have a FULL convo via txt instead of talking on the phone, meanwhile they laying on top of their man or some other dude they fucking.
I tell my homies, to NEVER use txt to correspond with a woman u do not know, unless it's to say "im running late" or "meet at 51st and broadway".
oatsuzn 3 years ago 4
Danm that's a reality check. I just met a man who keeps textin me instead of callin and talk. It disturbed me b4 but i got used to it til NOW with this video. G
OD BLESS U GIRL!
SweeetPrincessa 3 years ago 2
This lady is perpelling my *Game to a whole nother level...
I know im gonna win the player award:)
wallstreetyoung 3 years ago
You so right .
hotsauc3180 3 years ago
ok, one more tip when a man never picks up his cell phone when you call him and then calls you back a hour or two later, be aware. Or when he calls you from his work number but never calls your from his home phone. Watch for the warning signs ladies these men are on the hunt and you are their pray.
prettyconfidant 3 years ago
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nothingbutdabest22 3 years ago
You are so right about the texting, I had a got I meet who keep texting me. I asked him why he couldn't call me. He said I like to text, I told him it was childish to text. so after a week of this testing ,I ask him was he married, LOL, he never text me again!!! Another bites the dust!!!
prettyconfidant 3 years ago
LOL @ 2:59. Love the "Martina" reference!
Greendestiny122388 3 years ago
Reminds me of the book the rules.
Emmarose81 3 years ago
I would much rather talk to someone rather than read a text message. If someone I was interested in texted me more that talk to me, I would not want to continue with the relationship. I've know men to go to the restroom and send a quick text while entertaining someone else. It's game for sure, if your interested in someone you will want to hear their voice always.
CorryJoe 3 years ago
Women, especially BW have this illusion that men should deal with them as if they are married..men have ALREADY figured this out. HE OWES YOU NOTHING! IF the feeling is not mutual that you are both looking 4 life partners, then all it is, is a date.
It will certainly be clear as to what his expectations are and if we open our eyes and not kid ourselves we will be clear as to his expectations. You cant make him act committed if all that he is , is a boyfriend.
deatha44 3 years ago
I viewed this video thinking that it might give som actual new & progressive insights. It's obvious this woman is stuck in the past & has a suspicious mindset to begin w/ 1st off back in the day we didn't have this super fast paced society w/ these tchnologies. A new etticut has cropped up that incudes email note & texting. So get w/ it. If ur mind automatically points to someone trying to be deceitful than that's wut u r expecting & will receive. & for the record text info does appear on bills.
jafarmartin 3 years ago
wuts wrong w/ a man wanting to play this isn't like some formal investment vehicle that men have to commit themselves to. We are all trying each other out to see if we r compatible. Women like to play also. Variety is the slice of life. There's a reason y it's considered "the GAME of love" it is a game. & the point is to have fun. Nobody owes anyone anything. The bottom line is to love honor & appreciate self & others & u will attract wut u want & need in a partner. u make this seem like a job.
jafarmartin 3 years ago
Relationships are about "relating" to someone else. & that's usually for the purpose of enjoying the act of relating to another. U sound so typical w/ these corny "rules of thumb" u have based on a forme time that doesn't apply to now. (smh) No wonder chicks are frustrated. U think u know how to attract men & naturally u do. (ur women..it's inate) but get all caught up w/ this thinking. & all twisted up. (sigh) wutever. I'm over it.
jafarmartin 3 years ago
PART 1. Hey lady, congratulations on your website and videos. You have a lot of insight into your world and it is nice to see you are thinking about it. Your videos are needed because they address problems women are having with men. But have you ever wondered WHY women are having these problems? Men with women are natural and comfortable and desirable so why is it so stressful?
Women are the most desirable of God's creation.You choose our fathers, raise our sons. But you are unhappy with us?
masonweaver 3 years ago
WOW, Queen, man I would love to conversate and have a good time with ya, but men are so much on the tip of trying to be thug, and not in touch with their feminine nature, the one sided, yeah Queen it should be of their heart, most want the sex and are going through the motions, wow stay sweet queen, LAST MINUTE things, naw it aint even my style, I do not roll like that myself, you know? Business before pleasure, you make appointments for both...
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SONYLOGIC 3 years ago
This is some bullshit based on a very oppionionated woman's views on fuck-up dates that she has had. I recently meet a woman and decided texting 60/40 over calling her and the reason being is that I can get alot more messages and ideas across via text at any given moment. I maintain my own place and have nothing to hide, yet I still text her frequently...so texting have nothing to do with a man cheating, for some it's just a method of communicating surely.
Beatwize6 3 years ago
Shay your information in this video is logical, however from a shallow perspective. Your views are one-sided and feminine. Assuming he is a pimp is a possible conclusion but it is not very accurate. And to place deviance behind a text message is quite extreme. You are teaching women to seek dominant power over men while also teaching them to have at least 3 options. Cutting off a man over a text is a good way to lose out on futuristic possibilities. I am interested to see the man that gets you
VirtchuV 3 years ago
Lol...Ok, I am not saying that a woman should cut a man off If he sends a text...I clearly state that if he uses text as a main form of communication there is a problem! I did not mind passing up toads who just prefered to text me to find my prince...lol. So now that I have found my king, I am so glad I did not settle for less than what I teach other women...oh and dont worry, I will introduce him to my youtube fam soon:)
SYDD
lovein30days 3 years ago
Even calling doesnt guarantee he/shes faithful. And by todays standards he doesnt even owe you that. If you are just "dating" with no expectation of longterm (men see it as just dating but still available, women see it as if they are courting and act engaged by they r just dating & r owed nothing)then hes really not commited to you unless he plans 2 marry you. WHy ask so much of a mzn if he has no intentions on making u his life partner? Spontaneity has its place but set dates.
deatha44 3 years ago
but then you say don't ride with him on the first date..he cud be crazy ....but you want me to pay for the meals and drinks....and call you instead of texting you..we are just getting to know each other....a text every now and then won't hurt...lol
southerngentleman32 3 years ago 3
i totally understand....diva...but what abouty the chics who do that same things????.....
southerngentleman32 3 years ago
How you're describing the guy sounds exactly like me! Lol! Maybe I'm a pimp :P
SenecaWhite 3 years ago
I got that low basic 200 minute a month plan. So I will text the SHIT out of your ass cause I ain't trying to being paying $150 every damn month to SPRINT.
rydar1978 3 years ago
I always break up with women right before the holidays or after I receive my gifts first and sell them on ebay.
Brothas need to think long term and get themselves a house whether then spending money on a woman. Think LONG TERM investments.
Forget love in 30 days. THINK new House in 30 years LOL
rydar1978 3 years ago 2
I had an ex-boyfriend who rather text me instead of calling me on the my cell. The last straw was when he texted "Happy Birthday" without calling, or giving be a B-day presents so I dumped him ON MY BIRTHDAY! Now I'm with a man who makes me feel appreciated and have LOTS of fun together.
xxWarriorGoddess80xx 3 years ago 2
Are you kidding... disrespectful??? wow no wonder you are single. Whats wrong with wanting some? Oh I forgot he has to be right height, ask the right way, has to have a job, don't ride in his car, has to have good teeth, not live at home with his mama, make him wait. not worth it...
stoldgar 3 years ago
she sounds like PAULA JAI PARKER she played on hustle and flow!!!!
shay8706 3 years ago
Sorry but not sure what service you have but my phone it WILL show on phone calls and text
lburianek 3 years ago
You need to do a video with B Scott about dating! lol
spanishliljon 3 years ago 2
well said...i came up to those same conclusions!!!
tanyms123 3 years ago
omg I was gonna tell you the same thing.......when they text yes it does not come up on the bills. TRIFLING DOGS.
SimplyAdiva 3 years ago
SHAY IT HAS BEEN TEXT MY OPINION WHEN THEY TEXT YOU. They have someone else. I hate that. Why cant they just talk on the phone.
SimplyAdiva 3 years ago
shay shay .shay :) u a wonderful women . thanks for the adivce gurl!
flynpretty 3 years ago
women do the same thing. Stop the misandry
Kitami1 3 years ago 3
ye i hate that shit...textin
michtenn16 3 years ago
I enjoyed the text impersonation. :) By the way, was that a small dog barking in the background?
siggyboss 3 years ago
lol..."up to no, no good.."
racer1d 3 years ago
I do agree with you Shay, but on the other hand, these nowadays young people seem to prefer texting as a mode of communication. Its illogical but its their thing. I know there are playas but you can't be so suspicious :)
redman30034 3 years ago