Advantages to Dating Younger Men w/ Cougar Expert Lucia

[Sephiroth0031]

I am 23 and i love woman at the age of 30-45! :) Its amazing.

[q0zz]

A bunch of old damaged women trying to kid themselves that they have something to offer a young man. Just look at Demi Moore... go be grandmothers and stop being delusional.

[Wytchfinde]

That being said, if anyone thinks I'm a "hater" I had seen an older woman in her early 40s when I was 22, and she was in shape, good in bed, very laid back, and cool to hang out with---it was a friends with benefits situation that went on for a while. And yeah, she didn't have tons of tats, kids, finanicial problems, and didn't do drugs to trash her looks, either.

[Wytchfinde]

Lucia is a hack---she may look fuckable, but she's still a hack. Read her writings if you don't believe me. That being said, most women 40 years and up aren't looking so good---too many tattoos, drugs, cocktails, abusive men, life stressors, and wombturds they have given birth to that have ran them ragged. And many are overweight. Yeah, there are an occasional hot older woman out there, but percentage is lower than one would think.

[jenny33419]

Whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy so many people are interested in an ageless relationship. young girls want to have fun with 40+ man and young guys want to have fun with 40+ women. There is a site focusing on this kind of relationships such as s.u ga.r.cu'pi.d.com

[michael616joaquin]

Lucia i would pound you like a mallard duck.,.and buy you coffee etc etc..lol

[prestonpawns]

Im single anybody wana message me?

[HolteEnder85]

im 25 just started dating a very hot 42 year old women and im loving it.

[NancyGooGoo]

I'm always stuck with the IMMATURE ones who THINK they can play me for some reason. I'm older, I'm not STUPID!

[thenvdude]

cougars r so damn hot,i wanna date one before i die

[kbinco]

@st4yhigh. I think u need to face the fact that most(if not all) women are full of shit!!

[kbinco]

Lady, you are full of it. I am a 52 year old male bodybuilder, and guess what? I just placed first in a competition, and guess the ages of all the younger "in better shape guys" i beat were? Hint: they were all under 31.

[st4yhiigh]

@kbinco i think you just need to face the fact's that alot of women want younger men these days. gratz on winning some measly competition that probably venued 20 people

[NLRounder813]

There are a lot advantages to dating older women: They put out.

There are a lot of disadvantages to dating older women: They are typically jaded from being pumped and dumped by the alpha cock carousel, they think feminism actually works, they are past their prime and will not get any hotter, they are not willing to learn/expriment bc they think their age means they know everything, they have baggage typically in the form of children your age & ex-husbands they suck alimony/child support from

[cdubMRA]

@NLRounder813

Well said brother..

[gaelgeseomra]

@NLRounder813 very well said,look at the dating sites,the vast majoity have tons of lugage,spinsters old maids more like it,most divorces are filed by women ie independence etc etc

[sinner24]

idk i just gotta get this off my chest im 22 and im dating a 33 yr old and i just love it ugh!

[TWBuddha]

You're a beautiful woman...

[juneride]

Younger men USE older women to get EXPERIENCE with women. And THEN.....

Do you know how they're going to use that experience?

Tghat's right! To get younger babes!

[xangar]

Stop trying to make yourself seem relevant you dried up old lady. The reason you're a cougar is because either you failed at sustaining a healthy relationship when you were young or you were just too damn screwy to even start one. Either way now you are "LIBERATED" and with a newly found (arbitrary) sense of promiscuity you're off to get fucked right, because the husband you used up and threw away can't get your dried up pussy to cum anymore. Old maid.

[blueshark2010]

Number one advavantage to dating older women, from my experiences, is that it is a sexual free for all. They seem to be willing to try just about anything Very few inhibitions. Anal, sex in public places, toys, threesomes, etc. I'm 30 and have dated women from 38 up to 51, and the sex has always been CRAZY. :-)

[guyincognito84]

Young men just want to bang you and you just want to bang young men....except most young men won't approach you cause they prefer younger women...so you gotta make the first move.

[JesusManson323]

I'm 23, she's 41 and we've been together for 5 years now. I love being with an older woman. They know what they want. They don't play bullshit mind games like younger women. They aren't hung up on how much money you make. They usually aren't whiny little brats like younger women (they make their own money). Oh, and did I mention that they love to FUCK. How long will it last? Who knows. I'm having too much fun! I am graduating college soon and looking forward to more cougar fun with her.

[wealthnstealth]

I am with an older woman and she is absolutely amazing. Younger women are great to date if you enjoy being played with by their fickle, aloof, and immature nature. in sure there are wonderful girls out there. As for me, I love a full grown woman who is assertive and independent- a complete turn on.

[juneride]

I dated older women, but it was just sex. I didn't want to be seen in public with them. I was spending their money on younger women.

[georgeeboy2222]

better a old mans darling as a young mans fool.this is fine if you want a sex buddy,but as in all cases,honeymoon and shit hits the fan,

[TheJoelef]

a women that goes after young men are called cougars men who go after younger women are called pedophiles.....double standard.

[angrynadya]

Or they're called manthers, which has a very negative connotation.

[fusinu]

any cougars wanna date a 21 yr ols from malta via internet..?psl msg me..kk

[bananarama666]

no U have a smaller brain woman

[zio5q]

dirt old womans, they are the same as perverted old men.

[njemnu112]

@zio5q

Dirty arab. Go to afghanistan

[dragonfitter]

part of his brain isnt developed until over 25 ? what a load of shit

[prettyboy0909]

Our penis is developed. thats all that matters.

[Leco070]

lol True...that was a crock of shit.

[MrGPAS21]

Cougars rule!

[clubrydr9]

I'm 20 and I've been dating a 35 year old for the past 5 month's. Older women are great, they're so much more down to earth and they are not stuck up or arrogant like a lot of girls my age can be. When I give her a compliment or have something to say she's listens and actually appreciates what I'm saying. Older woman have a lot more life experience and have far better conversation because of it, they're is just so much to learn from them. In so many ways!

[RockandRoller918]

I agree some older women are great to be with.Also they know there way around the bedroom as well!!.

[matterh1]

@clubrydr9 I think we 39 year old men men should support our female peers who are with younger men. they make beautiful couples

[THEONLYBIGBOSSMAN]

Cougars are awesome, I love them.

But I agree with 'imsneaky', that they can be overly bossy, and that is annoying.

But the sex is great

Call me immature, but yes, at this point in my life, Im young, immature as you say, and definitely NOT ready to have a healthy relationship, especially with an older woman.

BUT THE SEX IS SO GREAT

[sariiana]

happy hunting.. lmao, love it.

[SpazzzDog]

Where do I meet older women?

[CrazyToastie]

The first half of this video makes older men sound like archaic, unimaginative, sexist, greedy pigs.

What a load of twaddle!

Also, there are plenty of younger males who are perfectly mature.

Anyone who wants to initaite a relationship with these "cougars" is a fool. Are you blind to their overtly one sided, selfish desires?

I am speaking as a seventeen year old, by the way, so don't assume that I am merely being an angry and insulted older man.

[R0773N]

You may be threatened by them, they aren't hurting you. These are just generalizations, don't like cougars don't date 'em, that simple. Personally I won't rule out anyone on account of age, plenty of cougars are in better shape and better looking than girls my own age, and are actually less self-centered, selfish and spoiled.

Open your mind.

[thefakeyeti]

I don't know, sexually I love the idea of being dominated, and taking control of..

And I picture a "cougar" being able to pull that off better than someone closer to my age.

But as far as a relationship, I cannot see that....

[thefakeyeti]

When I look into the eyes of a older lady, I can't help but think "What if I were older. or her younger?"

And I can see kissing some older ladies gently all over, and making "sweet sweet" love to them..

BUT FOR A NIGHT..

As far as a relationship goes, sorry, but YOUS OLD! (But maybe that is my underdeveloped imature brain speaking :P)

[imsneaky]

Also, I did date Cougars when I was younger and found that most were so afraid of a man overshadowing them that they were overly bossy and wanted to run the show.

The reality for most younger men is that they do see the age difference and don't want anything really long term. So do though, that is obvious. But most don't and most Cougars know this.

[imsneaky]

Lot's of cliches. Simple fact is that you are entitled to your opinion but the fact is you aren't equals when one has established herself in life while the other is still establishing themselves. Can a 62 year old woman and 50 year old man be equals? yes. Can a 37 year old woman and a 25 year old man be equals? No.

That doesn't mean anyone has the right to tell you what to do. If you are much older than a young man and you both want to be together, nobody can stop you.

[PersonOfBook]

@mars3400 You won't be able to have any kid with that 46 year old!

[cymbeli]

@PersonOfBook Geez your bad for even a fertile woman....I know a few women at 46 who are fertile and have recently had kids...I won't be 46 for awhile but I'm bankin I will be too but that is a shitty way to see a wife....there are 19 year olds that will never have kids what if you marry a younger woman and something happens and she can't have kids? Marriage is family..you don't leave your family...what book are you of? Not the bible I'm guessing.

[shanebx65wa]

iTS FUNNY COS an older woman in my mind is a lot more reliable you can be sophisticated, where your idea of sophistication does not mean having to listen to some african american rapper or eminem, where you can listen to classical music, where you dont need to compete, where she realises that TOYOTA is far more sensible than a holden or a ford, where you can go out and wear a SUITE just for the hell of it, you can buy her flowers FOR THE HELL OF IT and she wont think you want nything in return

[JazzyZenBrotha]

Shanebx65wa - Absolutely true! I'm 29 & I've been seeing a 41 yr old woman for a while now. She is more sophisticated & down to earth & comfortable with her body. I'm Black, but I don't have to listen to Rap or Hip Hop around her. We both enjoy Classical & Jazz & even foreign music. I can compliment her & she doesn't act "weird." But young girls are "usually" stuck up & self-serving divas who feel "self-entitled." I love older women. The young girls can stick to their hot-rod thugs.

[shanebx65wa]

Well Said I couldn't agree with you more. Im going to date a 38 year old on friday night. Cant wait:) and im 27.

[nightlifeman]

I like cougars and milfs over young girls :D I just feel like young chicks are mostly too annoying and immature... I mean, cmon, today is not 19-20 century. What i find the most annoying about younger girls is the fact that most of them behave bitchy and demand all kinds of things and virtues from the man while not be able to offer much themselfs. They cheat often, are not good at bed, need you to tell them tonns of things to make them feel better, etc, etc... It just doesnt pay off.

[whiterottenrabbit]

Also, young bitches often try to be overly mature. A Cougar doesn't need to try, because she already is.

[shanebx65wa]

Well Said, You must have dated some of the girls i went out with.

[PersonOfBook]

@nightlifeman But young women can spread your genese. That is the most important thing to me. If a woman is barren, she is not worth marrying!

[AdlerChalk]

@nightlifeman That is such an odd thing to say. You say it as if you KNOW every single lady mind. No person can do this!

[HyperSonic9000]

I'd just feel insecure dating a female thats 30 or older. They're the ones fully established and furnished for the outside world, and we're still students (some of us un-employed even). I'd just feel like I wasn't good enough or something.

[thirteesomething]

they are not too smart

[thirteesomething]

I dated younger and so not true they don't experiment at all, just look good very immature and hate to experiment, older men much better they just last long but suck overall in bed

[100000Bitches]

A pretty mature is more beautifull than a pretty girl, fuck better, talk better and she pays all. Its perfect

[skilo837]

you sir are my hero.

[PersonOfBook]

@100000Bitches For sex she may be better, but not for a wife. You would want a wife that is fertile!

[ironmyshirts]

@PersonOfBook older fruit is not as juicy.

[PersonOfBook]

@ironmyshirts Not only less juicy but also rotten!

[Goldylocksbabe]

Theres many men that prefer older women for their experience and maturity. And not all older women are ugly look at J,lo, Jennifer anniston, angleina Jolie ect. As you mature most normal people become more choosey and picky and would never put up with the crap they have put up with in their youth not desperate, lol.

[spartant22]

wheres a good place to find some cougars?

[BestAnimeEverDBZ]

Happy hunting?

[diamondcalves]

Maybe your right, but I never got to enjoy what was there when I was younger so I am still hungry now wow wow. And I wish I had could see all of my prospects now. Doctor, "POPOs", Principle teachers, supply teacher, Day care center teacher. Well wicked! Good heart (MORAL FIBER), good sex, good mind and character( GUTS) are important to me

Thanks for caring though that's nice. Not to say a person of any age is not like me.

[diamondcalves]

My daycare teachers, grade school teachers, and Principle did not think I was f ugly. In fact they were and still are very beautiful inside and out. And they have very good taste; like me.

[Weak1987]

"The part of the brain responsible for making decisions, the prefrontal cortex, is not yet fully developed, so they may not always make the right choices." Okay...

My fiancee is 12 years older than me. Yep, I like older women.

[lurchpop]

the underdeveloped frontal cortex is advantageous for you though b/c it's the part of the brain that stops you from dating old hags

[Caribdus]

Older woman= easy lay it's as simple as that lol I wonder how many poor old ladies have rich young boyfriends? Not many I bet lol

[diamondcalves]

What makes you think a cougar has to be poor? Women are as poor as men now a days. You sound like an opressor slave runner from 1944 . Love is love and you get your fake love rape from starving the woman and when they are hungry you look like a big fish in a small pond . I can love an older woman richer poorer in sickness and in health. You have no moral fiber just a big flubber impotent man boob man! LOL

[Caribdus]

I didn't realise you humped anything other than Moose in Canada, congratulations. As for me well I've had women of all ages and older women tend to be an easier lay from my experience. You just sound like some wimpy PC emasculated indecisive wimp who needs a mother figure he can fuck and be controlled by. Man Power LOL

[diamondcalves]

I see you like to externalise. Swimming through dirty water is what you like. Easy is what you like? STDs you must have. Horny is what I can handle loyalty is what I love. If you were good you'd have your own woman instead of being the slimy, impotent, causal hand shake that you are Mr. Guarbitch bag. Here is a glass of water "Straight From" Lake Onatario; sip sip!

[Caribdus]

I think I must have struck a nerve with this Gigolo. What's wrong? Are you feeling guilty that you live off of desperate old women or is it that you just can't get younger girls you inadequate loser. As Mr Miyagi said "To make honey, young bee need young flower, not old prune" LOL

[diamondcalves]

I strike your Gong your dead wrong. Cougars wouldn't need you for anything chicken wing. Cougars just feel guilty they have not left man boobs like you for what they need & have been missing missing all there life...and it is not you. Young bee got nuff sting to do my thing! Pling Pling

[Caribdus]

Very poetic for a boy with a crack pipe who can't get young pussey so he has to resort to cheap bars who's theme nights are grab a Gandma lol

[Caribdus]

What makes me think a cougar has to be poor? Go back and read what I typed you dumbass. Most examples of Cougars are wealthy women with poorer young men. Find me as many examples of Rich young guys with poor older women and Poor old guys with rich young women then you can prove your PC bullshit theories. All about the cash, love has very little to do with it.

[Caribdus]

So an older woman who dates a younger guy is called a Couger. Are there any cool names for older men who date younger women other than "Dirty old man" LOL

[homeboy25327]

yeah, the term used for that is called "AWESOME"!!!!

you white racialist BITCH!!!!!

[wittynameguy]

where can i find me a cougar,, ive always wanted to make out and have fun in the sheets with an older woman...

[hurbalife]

crazy bitch

[Somethingyayaya]

Older women's skin looks so gross when they try to be skinny.. LOL

[Somethingyayaya]

Omg I'm laughing my ass off this is ridiculous. A joke right? LOL Funny!

It's like the best parody in the universe.

[JimboVids]

It's time to cover up the cleavage, Grandma.

[hdnguyen1911]

You are soooo hot!!!

[forsure22]

i love older woman

[madmikeF]

Me too. On friday I made out with a hot woman that is like 15 years older than me.

[scoutyboy8]

Cougars like young men because older men are can spot a crazy chick with too much baggage a mile away. Let the ex bang some young idiot, It just frees up more eligible ladies. :)

[WinkyDink2009]

Are you kidding? Cougars like younger men because of the sexual advantage of having a younger man rather than an older man. Usually it's strictly sexual. They like boy-toys. Most cougars know that these guys lack maturity. I don't know why this broad is talking about cougar RELATIONSHIPS. It's not about a relationship. It's about sex.

[cabritorsss]

This woman is a loser as are all the rest that follow her lead. No matter what...stick to your age group. If single at this age it better be because of your spouse's death. Anything else...your a lonely loser. Accept your situation and don't go around screwing up other people's families and lives regardless of your sex.

[vlunney]

actually this is complete crap. after the thrill is gone the older woman starts realizing that a man young enough to be her son is not going to stick around for a real relationship so she drops him. men who do this are predators. women who do this are "expressing their sexuality". what a steaming LOAD. it doesn't matter what age they are women are women. want a woman who won't lie to you and bleed your bank account dry? that's what we have strip clubs for. the women there are HONEST.

[freshasdida]

SOOO true, hooked up w a 30 yo (I'm 18) at first it was soo good, then the spark died. I'm done w the bitterness and drama.

[t239]

Same here. Hooked up with a girl ten years older than me (32). She had more baggage than any girl I've ever seen.

[cymbeli]

@vlunney Or you can find a practical family oriented woman who does not want her family tainted by the material world but they aren't in the lime light of course hence the draw to a more sheltered and withdrawn lifestyle...but she's any age...20..60...she's a type not an age and this Lucia chick I'm betting has never even met one.

[HomerBong]

@vlunney damn homie your fucked up.

[AdlerChalk]

@vlunney Anther one. You know all of this about every lady? WOW. A mind reader!!

[mantagrae]

haha @ 1:06

we may not always make the right choices? are u fking kidding me? lol, and i thought the older you get the more near alzheimer's u are, lol.

[ivriliderforever17]

u know what happens to cougars ,they get sliced like nicole simpson

[djwilko7]

she just wants some young action ;)

[hoofer1]

Well, DUH. :0) Muahahhaaaaa.

WAY less drama than men my age. It's actually really glorious.

[djwilko7]

well im 21 but it doesnt seem ot happen in reality , i think its just fantasy for younge men :(

[hoofer1]

Pssst...craigslist. ;-)

[fiercey]

love your energy. id approach you in an instant. only thing i disagree with is assuming maturity comes from a developed 'prefrontal cortex'; maturity and decision making comes from experience and a personal philosophy/outlook on life.

[mo8blazer]

No wonder the USA and UK have such high divorce rates! With advice like that!!