Keeping the Marriage bed sacred/pure

[xmakexuxupx]

I love that people are trying to prove truth wrong. Good words sister, keep 'em coming.

[DuckAndDodge05]

Im going to be 100% honest... If Im at the store, and see a pretty girl, and say she has a big butt and she walks in front of me..Im going to look, and if I dont look, Im going to think. Everyone does, and its human nature. Thats why God is a forgiving God. You cant tell me that you havent gone anywhere since you were married and not seen another cute guy. Also, if you see porn anywhere, and you notice it and make a point to turn away, you will think about it regaurdless. That kind of stuff is

[YodatheJedi12]

I don't have any specific question, but I do wish to add my support to this video. Well done!

[JenNTim509]

Just came across this video and I could not have said it better myself. Great video! :o)

[jaws3michael0]

you're a primate and you're going to have lust. just dont actually cheat on each other and you'll be fine. your kids are going to rebel to NO END unless you relax a bit.

[jaws3michael0]

hey, are you wearing jeans? you'd better not have been wearing that which pertaineth to a man! you'd better cover your head when you pray because the new testament says you're disgracing yourself if you don't. (1 cor. 11:5)

all i have to say is that pornography really isn't so bad. it's fun! and your husband would never meet any of these women anyway.

oh, that and ephesians 5:22

[stup1dmach1ne]

I like that you spoke out, many ppl are afraid to speak out. I just got married and many women (from the church) have been asking me questions about sex and the difference between holy and unholy.

how old are you? (if you dont mind)

[Lovesenduringpromise]

@stup1dmach1ne 23

[DavidTheCatholic]

@Lovesenduringpromise no no no no no, if i'm watching a show, and there is a sex scene in it, I'd think i'm mature enough to handle it.. That's rubbish...

[Lovesenduringpromise]

@DavidTheCatholic Okay maybe for you...for others they can't handle it. It's best to not even watch that crap...cause it is crap.

[DavidTheCatholic]

@Lovesenduringpromise Yeah but like for example if you are watching a movie and there is a sex scene, it'll pass.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

@DavidTheCatholic yeah the image might pass from the screne, not always from your mind.....why should we be watching other people have sex? Sex is meant for husband and wife, not the whole world....

[DavidTheCatholic]

@Lovesenduringpromise lol well weak people are the ones who can't keep it out of their head, I won't close my eyes coz there's a sex scene, i'll just get over it.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

@DavidTheCatholic Ok, that's you. Everyone is weak in some area of their life. That's where we ask God to come in and give us strength.

[DavidTheCatholic]

@Lovesenduringpromise Yes, God bless you

[DavidTheCatholic]

@Lovesenduringpromise he did not mean to literally gouge out your eyes.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

@DavidTheCatholic If ANYTHING is causing you to sin, get rid of it. So get rid of the sin, the sexual content we view if it is hindering us get rid of it so our eyes cannot view it. We are to always think about what we are watching/viewing letting into our minds and our homes.

[DavidTheCatholic]

@Lovesenduringpromise he didn't mean it literally, If he did we should all gouge out our eyes.

[DavidTheCatholic]

@Lovesenduringpromise people are getting too excited over this lust thing, I find you attractive but it doesn't mean I want to have sex with you or anything.. People shouldn't be afraid of it, they should be weary of it, not afraid.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

@DavidTheCatholic Well lust isn't thinking someone is attractive, so no harm in that. Lust is wanting,desiring,needing,covet­ing someone else sexually. Jesus said anyone who looks at another woman with lust has committed adultery in his heart. So to God with lust in our minds we are adulterers. That is SIN!

[Lovesenduringpromise]

@DavidTheCatholic I don't care if the world hates me, being a Christian you can't care about what other people think. We WILL be persecuted. I don't think America sets the best examples, sure we have great things here, but we have set a trend for some evil stuff.

[DavidTheCatholic]

@Lovesenduringpromise sorry dont mind what I said.. really sorry.. was meant for someone else.. it shouldn't have gotten to you. I'm so so sorry.... This person was insulting my country so I was giving him a dose of his own medicine.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

@DavidTheCatholic Oh okay,didn't know!! It's okay.

[DavidTheCatholic]

@Lovesenduringpromise yeah i'm really sorry, i'm just really patriotic, and that was meant for someone else ;S

[sunshinegirl00110]

you are the company that you keep. love that vid sabrina.

[ANTROS19]

sex is sometimes just for having fun, with protection of course, and other times when you really love semone and thus you shouldnt seat and wait to get maried so as to enjoy great sex with him/her, its should not be that a big deal!

[Lovesenduringpromise]

Well to YOU it might not be a big deal, but to ME it is. To God it is too.

[Gimmeabreakman]

"You can't make decisions based on reasoning..."

That was funny. And...I'm out of here.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

Ok. Well it's true, we cannot make decisions based on just ourselves and reason with the world if your a Christian. You wouldn't understand if your not one.

[chocolatekiss608]

this is a great video! i love hearing your opinions on things from a Biblical standpoint.

I have a video suggestion: How to get through the holiday season while recovering from an ED. Winter is always the worst for me because I tend to get depressed and triggered.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

Thanks!!! Yes, that's a great idea. I can make a video about that next week :-)

[Mossyoakgrl]

Thanks so much, and sorry for posting so much!

[Mossyoakgrl]

I just think I got so upset because I don't do anything outside of what we do and it hurt me because it made my self esteem go down.But I know he loves me, and he made it clear that he wouldn't anymore, and that he never did anything, he was just interested, and that he loves ME, not a computer or whatever he watched. I love this video, I really hope you make more.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

I don't think anyone should do anything outside of yourselves. It's very wrong and considered cheating to me. Just because the person he is looking at isn't physically there with him, mentally they are and that is cheating regardless of love in the relationship. I hope he can refrain from that again!

[Mossyoakgrl]

He does know that it hurts me and that I did not like it and he said he wouldn't do it anymore. I got really emotional, and he wasn't there, but when he did get there he saw this look I guess on my face (?) and he said he wouldn't do it anymore. I do trust him, it's just I don't do that or "pleasure" myself or whatever, I only have sex with him. Not myself or anything, he said he didn't he do anything though, he was just interested in that one thing he was watching.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

I do hope he never looks at it again, especially with knowing how you feel hun. I will pray for him that he has the strength.

[Mossyoakgrl]

Yeah I know and I hope so to, and to me it does feel like he's cheating on me with someone else, that's what I told my sister as well and she talked to me about it and it made me feel better, so then I talked to him about it and I felt a lot better afterwards.

[Mossyoakgrl]

So I thought I would ask. Sorry it doesn't let me type more... Thanks Sabrina :)

[Mossyoakgrl]

I know he said he was interested, and yes that may be true. But it hurt me, and I told him that. I talked to my sister and she said that if her fiance did that she wouldn't care because she isn't with him every day or anything to satisfy him or whatever. But, should it be something I should be concerned about or worked up over? I decided today that after everything going on with family I was going to start being happy. No matter what, I'm happy. But I found it interesting this video was about it

[Lovesenduringpromise]

I would be concerned, because my view comes from a Christian one. Porn destroys relationships, self esteem, worth, devalues, and can easily turn into addiction. You have to communicate this all to him, tell him how it makes you feel. If you don't you will be dragged a long and always hurt by this. If I caught my husband doing such a thing it would destroy me, because I know my husband hates it and agrees with me, but still it would destroy me not because I don't think I'm not good enough..

[Lovesenduringpromise]

but because for anyone I think it would hurt them regardless of their confidence level. He is looking at other women, lustfully, why should he be interested in other women's body parts when he says he loves just you?!

[Mossyoakgrl]

I have a question.. So you know me, because I always watch your vlogs on your pregnancy :) But, I just found out my fiance was watching porn on his computer.. I asked him and he said he didn't DO anything, but that he was just interested. I trust him and I believe him and he said he wouldn't anymore, but they were all about one thing mainly. So I don't think he was lying. It's not like we don't have sex or we don't have a good sex life, but I don't understand why he would do that?

[Lovesenduringpromise]

Hmm, well I can't answer for him, but if he is interested in porn then I would say he is intesrested in the whole fantasy type thing that goes a long with porn, the fascination and the physical pleasure of viewing other women in porn might excite him. I am tottally against porn for that reason and many others. If you don't like his viewing porn talk about it NOW to him, communicate.

[Mossyoakgrl]

Yeah, I did talk to him about it and he said he wouldn't do it anymore. He hates stuff like strip clubs and everything, so I don't get why he would be interested in that one thing. But his buddy keeps asking him to go to the strip club and he was like "no, I don't like them and I have a great girl." I know his friend wants to have fun, but that's not what he likes. But I'm glad that after we talked he realized it hurt me and what not, and I'm so glad he doesn't like strip clubs because I don't..

[Lovesenduringpromise]

I'm so glad yall communicated, that is KEY in a relationship. I'm glad he doesn't like strip clubs, and a lot of guys get pressured by their friends to go, and to say no means he is pretty strong, be thankful for that! My husband doesn't have but one best friend because it seems all guys want to go to strip clubs and go look at women in the wrong way.

[Mossyoakgrl]

Yeah he has three best friends but he rarely sees them because they live far away, but there's one of his friends like that and he doesn't really talk to him that much and the other one is innocent, LOL. and the other is engaged I think in OK, but he doesn't like how the girls act and what they do to the guys and how they act like animals he said on stage and what not. He just doesn't like them, so I'm glad I don't have to worry about it. We communicate well, sometimes better days than others.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

That's good that he doesn't hang around the one that likes strip clubs because who you hang around with has a BIG influence on you, bad company corrupts good character.

[Mossyoakgrl]

see why anyone would. I hate them and I am glad he feels the same. Thanks Sabrina :)

[aral7685]

I think this is an excellent video. (Actually, all of your videos are!) I am not yet married, and I often get told that I'm "too picky" because I refuse to date guys who won't wait until marriage to have sex, or are into pornography. It can be hard to hold the line, but I know it has saved me a lot of heartbreak. Thank you for being so honest about such a controversial topic!

[Lovesenduringpromise]

Thanks, and don't ever feel bad for standing strong with your morals and your standards of what you want in a guy! You want ALL the right things, not all the bad things...and I couldn't be married to someone who was involved in pornography, it would be so devastating. You keep staying strong, and don't let your guard down with your beliefs!

[wozzyandrew]

Can I ask how you or anyone knows that god thinks things like porn is 'adultry'? I'm with 'Aussiemummy' 100% in that I am not religious at all and find it fascinating how people who are religious say things like this statement... Did god tell you he doesn't like or agree with these things? I am not attacking you either... just curious as to what your response will be...

[Lovesenduringpromise]

The bible is God's living word, it's his truth left for us. Matthew 5:28

But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

That verse tells us that Jesus stated that ANY person look upon another with lust has committed adultery in their heart. Lust is thinking or looking at someone with only physical desire/thinking dirty thoughts sexually.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

Mark 7:20-23

And he said, What comes out of a person is what defiles him. For from within, out of the heart of man, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery, coveting, wickedness, deceit, sensuality, envy, slander, pride, foolishness. All these evil things come from within, and they defile a person.

That is another verse that God states that what comes out of us in our thoughts defile us,

[Lovesenduringpromise]

eventually they destroy us, they lead us down the wide destructive path, we become friends of the world and no longer friends of God.

God does speak through different people and with lots of prayer and bible study I know morally what's right and wrong.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

Oh and what is porn for? To look at the other person on the screen and lust after them, to fantasize, to create only physical pleasure out of sex...and sex just wasn't meant only for physical pleasure. It's meant to have love, commitment, and a possibility of procreation.

[wozzyandrew]

I don't agree with porn at all. As i said though, I am not religious in anyway so I was very curious to see how your statement 'To the Lord pornography is cheating, it is adultery' was proven...

[Lovesenduringpromise]

Why don't you agree with it?

[wozzyandrew]

because i have morales as a human being. Nothing to do with religion.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

Well I'm glad you think porn isn't right, I have never seen any good come from it.

[GoAskShalaya]

hey girl your beautiful!

dont worry about what sioux says...

he says it to EVERYONE.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

Thanks, and yes I know Sioux has commented me before, I just remove the comment.

[ThenYouStand]

A friend of mine has been married twice, both times she was hurt very badly; one man was an abuser, one was another type of abuser that I wont say, and she does not want to ever get married again. Do you blame her? She has been a single mother for 5 years and all but one of her kids is grown up. She doesn't want to be alone, so she has a boyfriend. The only one she's had for about a year. Are you saying that its wrong to have sex? Her other marriages ruined her ability to ever be married again.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

When your in a marriage and your being abused and the abuser will not change then you should not stay! I don't believe God wants us to stay with someone that is hurting us so much, satan would want her to stay. Just because those two men have been abusers doesn't mean all men are, and there is nothing wrong with her having a boyfriend. However what I believe is you shouldn't have sex before marriage. Marriage didn't cause the abuse, those men did, they had issues.

[ThenYouStand]

She didn't stay as soon as she realized what was taking place in her own life. She left immediately. She doesnt want to get her kids involved in another marriage but she also wants to live her life.

(Im not trying to argue, I love your vids and they're very inspiring, I just wanted to know your opinion on this :) )

[Lovesenduringpromise]

She was very very wise to get out of that situation! I commend her for that, it's not always easy for some to get out. I will pray for her and the two men she was married to that some day they might change. I understand about not putting her children through certain things, but marriage is beautiful when it's with the right person, however if she doesn't want to get married that's her choice and I'm sure all the hurt is still fresh.

Thanks for the compliments!

[Lovesenduringpromise]

Oh and I know you weren't trying to argue, I don't mind answering questions and giving my opinion, I try to give the best I can...even if it's not the 'perfect' answer.

[Phentie]

Great video! I love your videos :-) xoxo <3

[Lovesenduringpromise]

Thank you!!!!!

[eyesclosed7]

So according to you, you shouldn't have sex before marriage, because you don't know if you're gonna stay together. But once you're married that's fine, because obviously you can't separate or get a divorce. Please.

And the fact that you compare pornography to a show like Desperate Housewives really shows how narrow-minded some people can be.

And just because you disapprove something you can't say that it's wrong. You can share your opinions and views without preaching and being judgemental.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

NO! Marriage is a commitment, until death do you part. You say it in front of everyone as a testament. Dating you do not state those things in front of everyone, it's not a commitment because you can leave at anytime. However being married doesn't mean that you will stay together in no way. I go by what God has said, I do not believe in sex before marriage....

[Lovesenduringpromise]

I didn't say Desperate housewives was pornography, but I am not going to allow shows in my house like Desperate housewives that all they do is sleep around with men...why do I want to watch that when my values don't match up to it?....

I was not being judgemental, what I said is truth, God's truth. I didn't make all this stuff up. Funny how when your a Christian people think we make all this up, we don't. It's all God's word!

[eyesclosed7]

I don't believe in God or any religion but I don't have problems with people being religious. Good for you if you have that kind of blind faith. What irks me is that 'my word is the truth' attitude that NO ONE should have. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions and beliefs, but just because I might believe there's life in other planets I'm not gonna say I am right and others are wrong. That's what I meant by judgemental. In my case it doesn't have anything to do with you being a Christian.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

My word is not truth, only God's word is and I do focus on that in my videos. I will mess up in some of my videos at times..I'm human, I am not perfect..however my main point is to direct people towards God. If you believe in something you want to direct people towards it as well, you want people to understand it. I did not come out and say 'if you do not follow this then your no friend of mine, etc etc or if you do this your this and that' NO WAY would I ever say that.

[eyesclosed7]

I understand that if your videos are aimed at those who are looking for a way to God saying 'this is right, this is wrong' is enough. In my case, I was just curious about a different opinion, and I didn't find opinions but statements, that's what shocked me. I might have come out as a bit aggressive or forward in my first comment, I apologize. Sometimes it's not easy to write correctly when it's not your native language.

I do, however, enjoy your pregnancy videos. Congrats on your little one :)

[Lovesenduringpromise]

Thanks hun, and no worries. I'm not offended by anything, your welcome to comment on anything you like about my videos, that's your freedom. I just hope we can still be civil though our beliefs are not the same :-)

[Lovesenduringpromise]

I try to respect everyone best I can. I KNOW not everyone believes what I believe, not everyone believes in the bible. I didn't say you had to, all I state is what is in the truth of God's word. You either agree or don't. You can make videos about anything you want and your beliefs, your entitled to that like myself!

[Lovesenduringpromise]

Oh and your right, I am narrow minded when it comes to my morals/values. I do not step down out of them for anyone, I am not a people-pleaser. I live to please God. Jesus said that the way to heaven is narrow and few people find it, the other path is broad and destructive. I am not going to beat around the bush on this type of stuff.

[mskalabama]

AMEN!!!

[Lovesenduringpromise]

Oh and I don't believe in not having sex before marriage just because I don't know if I would stay with that person. Sex is meant for marriage, to share with one person for the rest of your life in holy matrimony. That's my belief...just clarifying that more a bit.

[flosso1986]

Hi, I'm 6 weeks away from getting married and I really appreciated this video :)

[Lovesenduringpromise]

Your right though, what my husband and I do is our own business when it comes to everyone else knowing,but I am not ashamed to share my faults and how I have learned from them reading God's truth. However beyond people it's God business, he sees everything, he knows our hearts.

[AussieMummySince07]

3:16- being married doesnt mean a couple will stay together...

Im very against porn aswell- cant stand it. If a guy watches that i feel like its what he wants- a dirty whore, and that he wants me to be like that.

Im 100% not religious and it absolutely blows my mind to hear people talk like this and basically say my son is a "sin" in your (not you specifically- Christian's in general) eyes just because we didnt sign a little piece of paper before TTC. Its pretty sad really.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

Your absolutely right, being married doesn't mean a couple will stay together either, that's not what I meant when I said dating doesn't mean you will stay together. However God did mean for sex to be inside of a marriage.

Your son is not a sin!!! In no way hun. There are Christian's out there that believe he might be a sin, well actually they aren't Christian if they say that to you. I do not believe that though, God doesn't either!

[Lovesenduringpromise]

Your son is innocent and precious, he is still a gift from God.

God does still see sex as sacred though only in the gift/covenant of marriage. Outside that covenant the act of sex is called fornication, but the child you produced together isn't a sin, God still gives us gifts even though we do things we shouldn't! Marriage is getting up in front of everyone and professing the love you feel for each other, it's not just a piece of paper.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

And those gifts that he gives us even though we don't always do what we should are His way of showing He loves us and He is real regardless of our sin. He still loves us all. I have done bad, just because I make these videos doesn't mean I am any less of a sinner. I make these videos to put out truth and what God says about certain topics(his word is with us in holy scripture.)

[AussieMummySince07]

Well to each their own. I dont believe in any of that BS but good luck to all that do.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

That's okay! It's not BS, I respect you still so respect my belief. I don't want you to think I think any less of anyone because of these beliefs, I am a sinner as well.

[AussieMummySince07]

You may believe in all that and if you want to ahead and label yourself a "sinner" be my guest but dont you dare plaster your labels on me.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

I am not plastering labels on you. I am not going to argue about it either, I made this video to establish my beliefs, I got a question from someone on youtube about all this and wanted to answer it in a video! I don't see why when I post controversial videos I get attacked. I don't go to anyone who doesn't believes videos and say it's BS. I am not a people-pleaser, I am a God pleaser.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

I make these videos to glorify God, state truth, not to go around and say and do what the world feels like I should talk about.

[AussieMummySince07]

You wrote "I am a sinner as well" in response to ME, therefore it implys you are labeling me with your "stuff".

I dont care- i dont believe it, its all a load of BS to me. I wasnt attacking you- never not once did i "attack" you.

Im not arguing either- pointing out a fact.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

Okay. Well we have our differences in this area, that's fine. I hope we can still be civil.

[AussieMummySince07]

I have no problem being civil with you sweetie. Its when i get called something that is untrue- that i do not appreciate.

If you think all that about yourself- thats fine, but dont lay it on me.

Anyways, i wasnt attacking you in anyway, if i was youd know it. I was just pointing out a few things. Its all good- you believe what you do and i happily do not.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

Ok, well I appreciate your respect then. I'm sorry if I sounded like I was laying it on you, that was not my intention at all. With me being a believer in God I do not think it is right of me to force anything on anyone, I'm just stating what I believe and I am sure to make mistakes in my video.....but when it comes to me talking about what God says it's His word, not mine.

[weaveamyweave08]

Oh I wish my husband would "grasp this concept"!!!

[Lovesenduringpromise]

I'll pray for him hun!

[weaveamyweave08]

Thank you. (just wondering why people have given me a "poor comment"?)

[Lovesenduringpromise]

Your welcome. I dunno why someone did that!

[weaveamyweave08]

Sometimes I just really dislike "people". Too judgemental. Give me a dog any day of the week and I'm happy! You can talk to them openly without fear of them "telling your secrets" and they offer unconditional love 100% of the time!!!

[Lovesenduringpromise]

You talking about me? This is not judgemental, this is truth. This is God's word, not mine...I didn't create it....I didn't say you had to follow this, God did and I want to do what he says. However I do agree, sometimes people just get on my nerves, I heard a saying once 'the more people I meet, the more I like my cat' lol

[weaveamyweave08]

Ummm.... Actually, NOT AT ALL!!!

I was NOT refering to you in the slightest.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

Oh LOL, I'm so sorry hun!!!!

[weaveamyweave08]

Thanks for the "clarification" that this is God's word and not yours. I already knew that. I was just voicing an "opinion" on the "poor comment" marking. That's all.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

Oh okay, I'm sorry I thought you were referring to me, I was just expecting to be attacked for all this I guess. I have no clue why someone put a thumbs down on your comment.

[ginaginadr]

Ive always had a relatioship with God, but not like i do now, and i believe this is because of my wonderful husband. I am so blessed to have him. So i can relate to you on this. We also did make the mistake to have sex before marriage but we retracked from sex for the year we were ingaged. And this really is smart to do, sex complicates everything before marriage.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

I cannot change what you or your husband do, I can only read to you the truth of sacred scripture, you either accept truth or deny it.

To the Lord pornography is cheating, it is adultery.

[bellabeeee]

I'm definitely not as passionate as you about these topics or a church goer but I really enjoyed your video =)

[Nomesay1]

This is a very encouraging video to see people who believe the same as me! <3 God bless you for being strong in your faith !

[TheCandyBeautyShop]

i loved this ! very refreshing to have someone be honest and no matter what the religious orientation i think that so many marriages would be helped by following these things- no jealousy in a marriage , greater trust,unity,

[FamilyOfThreeNow]

Wow, I just came across your videos and I'm so glad I did!! Great answers and advice. God bless :)

[Lovesenduringpromise]

Thank you!!

[lehcarnicole]

Your videos bless me EVERY week. However, after I watched this video, I literally sat here and bawled. I've been a Christian all my life, but walked away from my relationship with God many times and have lived an impure life since I was really young. Even though I've studied these verses a lot as a teen and have heard many of the things you said before, I haven't heard it in a while and God just convicted me and brought some things to light that I hadn't even seen before. Anyway, THANK YOU!

[Lovesenduringpromise]

Wow, your very welcome hun. To God be the glory, it's his voice inside speaking through me. It's not all me, God gives great wisdom to those who asks. You can turn from your past and what your doing, all you have to do is seek God, listen to the conviction in your heart, repent, and live for Him!

[realtruthfakelies]

im agostic, i dont believe in any of this but i enjoyed your video.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

Thanks. Even though you don't believe I will pray for you..as I pray for anyone I can. God bless.

[realtruthfakelies]

oops i misspelled agnostic

[LongTrailHome]

I couldn't have said it better myself Sabrina! Awesome video!

My husband and I feel the same way as you guys do! We don't want to give the devil a foothold by viewing shows that contain immoral substance etc. I love the bible verses you chose to support your video.

Keep these powerful videos coming. I know they are making a difference in people's lives.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

Thank you!!!! So glad yall feel the same way! It's such a relief to see other's in the same mindset and living for God and keeping out all this stuff in their homes.

[candimvance]

My husband and I are currently attending a Baptist church. I was wondering what religion are you and your husband?

[Lovesenduringpromise]

I used to be Catholic, so did my husband. LONG story, but I do still respect the Catholic Church, just don't agree with EVERYTHING they teach. We attend a Baptist Church though now, however religion means nothing if your just going through the motions. A relationship with Jesus Christ is most important.

[4096x]

respect.

[TrulyBlesssed5586]

my husband and I dated for three year before we got married and we both waited till marriage to engage in sex...thats not to say it was easy, but staying focused on God and Gods word on sex helped us through. And for that reason our wedding night was wonderful because we knew that we had pleased God by waiting. But God forgives....no matter what you have done...he will forgive you, you have only to ask.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

That is truly wonderful!!!! Your so right about the wedding night being special when you do wait because you have waited for that gift that is supposed to be opened on that night and you have pleased God.

[MaRiSa22Bunny]

omg this is great!! thanks soo much for answering my question! thats really awesome you took the time to answer in a video !!-- I completely agree with you.. my husband and I act and feel the same way as you guys!-- thanks!! you are an amazing person and I really feel like we need more people like us in the world to combat the evil parts of this world

[Lovesenduringpromise]

Thanks! I'm SO glad you feel the same way, definetly need more like-minded people on this topic because sexual sin is very dominant in our society.

[AngelEyesSmile]

I hope god forgives me. Soon we will be married and I cannot wait. I have done a lot of bad and shameful things. I am so so guilty.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

He will, if you ask him and you are sincere about it and turn from what you have done. You cannot change your past, but you change change the future. We are all guilty hun, just turn away from it now.

[AngelEyesSmile]

Every time I pray I ask him for forgiveness of all my sins. The life I lead before I realized how I was acting was awful. The things I have done you would not believe. However people like you help me realize that my actions are my own. I refuse to give in to my negative cycle anymore. :)

[AngelEyesSmile]

Same here. I regret it so much. Both me and my fiance regret it. It haunts me knowing my wedding night may not be as special as it should be.

[Lovesenduringpromise]

My husband and I regretted it too, however what is done is done. All you can do is refrain from sexual activity until you get married now. God forgives!

[AngelEyesSmile]

Very true, I will do my best. This is my fault. :)

[AKphoto101333]

i have the same past in that extent