So obsessing over a FICTIONAL CHARACTER to the point where you forgo real relationships isn't unhealthy? Oh Jesus *shakes head*.
BTW you know how you get annoyed when people in your life tell you you're obsessed with twilight, that's the very same reaction an alcoholic or a drug addict has when their friends and family stage an intervention. Just a thought.
ahhahah omg i love you so much !!!! ahahahahaha xxxxxxxxxx can i be ur new best friend :D lol I LOVE TWILIGHT FOREVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (if anyone had any idea.....)
...You don't send this extremely harmful message. You're NOT in the right place. I hope that Twilight fan that wrote to AskAmy asking for help did not watch this video, because if she did, oh, man, you've gotten her much, much deeper into the dark hole she was in. When someone cries for help, one reaches out, one does not encourage the behavior that's destroying that person! It says a lot about you that to you only physical pain counts. All forms of pain are terrible. You. Are. Hopeless! xx
@nuttymadam3575 You're evil, you know that? This Twilight fan acknowledges an obsession that has gotten way out of her control and is writing to a column asking for help, and you send a message to everyone that the girl that's crying out for help does not need it because she's not PHYSICALLY hurting anyone? I was obsessed with a superstar in Winter 2006 and I almost lost my mind. I sought help, I got it and that's why I am here today. You've got no heart. If someone asks for help...
(I disagree w/ u on some points like Stephen king did not bash Meyer, he just gave his opinion. no different than me giving my opinion, but king has influence whereas I do not). Like I understand, I'm a potterhead, & I know HP fans get much less sh*t than twilighters do, but i understand being passionate about a series. But... Idk I don't bash ppl 4 liking breaking dawn I don't call ppl twitards UNLESS the fan is REALLY carried away. Im talking like u in u breaking dawn h8r vid bad.
You're misinterpreting what that Amy person said. You never stated that she outright said that the girl should not like Twilight; she said that this girl should seek help because she is in love with a fictional person. The girl clearly thinks it's a problem so she should just try to put Twilight aside for a while and eventually she'll find a real person. After that, she'll probably be fine.
Somehow the idea that your obsession with Twilight is EMOTIONALLY hurting your friends/family never comes up. (OMG MY TWILIGHT OBSESSION WLD NVR HURT MY FRENSZ IF THEY WERE TRUE FRENZ THEY WLD RESPECT MY LUV 4 TWILIGT)
I want to find my perfect partner. In Twitalk, I'm a lost Edward who want's to find my Bella. But I know that I'll never find my perfect partner just sitting down twiddling my thumbs, and immersing myself in a(poorly imagined) fantasy world from day-to-day.
Of the ten thousand miracles that comprise my channel name, I know that I must reach out and grab one with my own hands.
wow, you really need help. And no, I´m not saying it because you like twilight. I dont care whether you like the books. YOU NEED HELP. I dont care if you will get it or not, but you really need it.
Essentially what the person in that article did was write into an advice column and say "I feel my passion is becoming an obsession and is interfering with my life, what should I do?"
The response was essentially "If you feel that way and it is making you unhappy and you cannot function properly, yes, you should probably seek help."
No one told anyone that they weren't allowed to enjoy something.
Are you pissed at every single person that doesn't agree with you? If you are then you're asking for something you cannot and even don't want to do. You don't respect people's opinion, you can't let it go - so how the hell are people supposed to respect your opinion?
As I always say: I'm not gonna respect anything when you don't respect my opinion.
I might not like Twilight, but it doesn't mean you have to bitch about it in your priceless youtube videos.
From the article, it looks like the obsessed fan was the one who write in looking for help--so yes, the writer does have the right to tell her to seek counseling, because the fan asked her for her opinion.
Also, liking a character is not the same as living in your own little insular world that revolves around said fictional character. The latter IS unhealthy.
You guys have no right telling someone that they need help for being in love with something. No right! By the way. I am an obsessed twilight saga fanatic. And I don't really give a shit about what u guys think. U all are sad people. And I think Madam is a beautiful person because of her Passion and strenghth to ignore all of your ignorant comments. Well, that's all I got to say* Stay up Madam, don't let these assholes get to u.
I get what she is saying here. And its not that she hates people who don't like the same things she does, its that she has lame- no life Haterz seek big fans of this series and basically cause emotional harm. You guys are talking about suicide, but u all aren't thinking about the words your saying that cause suicide. I don't hate on anyone just because they like something I don't. I don't seek people who like things that I don't just to hurt them and put them down. You all are all hypocrites!
Wrong go watch her videos on breaking dawn haters and midnight sun haters where she is swearing and calling them nasty names and saying their selfish just because they don't like the twilight books
also watch Nutty video of her bashing Angelina Jolie and saying Angelina adopt children are not real children
Okay this whole you dont like it so dont tell someone else you dont like it thing is kinda what your doing to the public. You are tellling people I like this but hey Dont tell me you dont like it or I'll get mad and might hurt you. Plus is it not just sharing a personal point of view on a subject to another person which is what your doing here!!!! So point 1 if you dont wnat to hear a view dont ask and also dont inflict your view on us coz the haters will just hate back on you
She is the worst bitch ever! You keep disrespecting OUR opinions that Twilight sucked! And the first reply you did, you criticize us further! So no, Fuck YOU!
theyre not sayung you cant like it but god damit, its gone too far. YOU ARE OVERLY OBSESSED!! I love the books but hate the movies, so i understand how people can love them but come on!!! They need professional help because they are creating a non-reality in their head and thats unhealthy. They're not hurting other people but they're hurting themselves. Indulging in stuff that will never happen and is not real to the point where youre in love just causes problems. STOP LIVING IN A DREAM!!!!!!!!
Nobody is saying it's bad to like Twilight, but there is a point where it goes to far. When your obsession for a book series defines your life, you have a problem.
I would step in, because it hurts them. It's a natural human instinct to step in and feel compassion and try to help them.
Being crazy obsessive and living in an insular world of imaginary characters does not make the world go round. Sorry.
It's called human goodness. Compassion. Being noble. It's a shame you've never heard of these qualities. But then again, if you have, you wouldn't have to resort to a fictional book to feel good.
I honestly cannot believe I resorted to all caps and multiple comments for this shit.
Just... fuck. If I thought I didn't like you before, I fucking hate you now. And what's worse is that none of what I've written will change your mind because your obsession is clouding your judgment so much that you can't even hear reason. So I've done this for nothing except to vent about how much I dislike you and wish I could punch you in the vag.
"If they're hurting themselves physically, I would say that's borderline."
THAT'S borderline? THAT'S BORDERLINE?? Are you out of your fucking mind? Are you blind? If self-harm is borderline, what the fuck is suicide? Would THAT be the right time to get help? When it's too late? Where do you even cross the line?
Of course, as "obsessed" as you are, there probably isn't one, is there? As long as it's for the holy Twilight Bible and Jesus Meyer. It's so fucking worth it, right? Cunt.
"Being able to walk into a job interview and saying, 'I have a passion for sales... [Being passionate] is a much sought after attribute."
I'm sorry, but this sentence just made me laugh. Your analogy doesn't really come together the way you think it does because nobody's going to be THAT obsessed with sales. No one's gonna be like, "I JACK OFF TO SALES EVERY NIGHT! ALL I NEED IS A MACY'S CATALOG AND SOME TISSUES, I FUCKING LOVE SALES!! Also, I'm pretty sure you wouldn't get that job.
"My point is, you can't tell people that they can't think something or feel something if that something isn't affecting you."
Yes, I fucking can! What kind of insular world are you living in? If someone I love is hurting themselves mentally or physically, your goddamn right I'm going to step in and say something. I'll be fucked in the ass with a rake before I see someone I care about going downhill. Even if they can't see it themselves, I will say something. COMPASSION, BITCH, EVER HEARD OF IT?
"My opinion is what counts as far as my life is concerned, as long as the decisions I make in my life do not PHYSICALLY hurt anyone else."
WOULD YOU FEEL THE SAME WAY IF A HEROIN ADDICT SAID THAT? It's okay for someone to slowly kill themselves, so long as they aren't PHYSICALLY hurting anyone else? That's fucking horseshit.
And "as long as they don't PHYSICALLY hurt anyone else"? What, so it's perfectly acceptable to hurt them EMOTIONALLY? You must be an awful friend.
"Being passionate about something is what makes the world go round."
Obsessive and passionate are NOT interchangeable words. Being passionate is when you have strong beliefs or feelings about a particular subject. Being OBSESSED is when that subject consumes you to the point where it becomes intrusive and troublesome for you and others. By the way, being obsessed with anything... Not something to be proud of.
Just to follow up here on my point of being a martyr.
'Everyone is allowed to have an opinion '
We fucking know. Free thought has been around for a while love. We get it now the fact is that as much as I hate twilight, literally can not stand it's existence my biggest problem is fans who think that it's ok to literally go mental over the shit. Seriously. I've wasted 8 minutes writing this I say wasted because no doubt it'll not change a bloody thing. Tunnel fucking vision.
She does need professional help. If you claim that being so obsessed with a fictional character that the sheer lack of said character brings you to points of near depression is ok you have to get your priorities straight. It's not a case of liking it, It's a case of the girl seeking FUCKING HELP BECAUSE SHE KNEW IT WAS WRONG. Stop being a fucking martyr. It's not a crusade love. You don't need to liberate people. Also hurting themselves is just borderline? Seriously? Are you fucking kidding?
I am obsessed with Harry potter, I know everything about it and i have all the books and movies. But it dosn't control my life. I read a little of this a little of that and other things. I have read the twilight series, and i think it's okay-good. But that's my opinion. If you like are obsessed over twilight or anything else that it's controllong your life, i agree you need proffesional help. I'm not saying you can't like twilight, but don't become obsessed with it.
i just take a min and make ur day i love ur vids im a big fan to not to nutty as u are but good for u if it makes u happy thin good for u hahaa but ya ur funny ur sweet and ur bad ass girl and i love it i will be sure to be a fan of ur vids from now on keep them comein girl and ur rite FUCK THEM =]
me and my dad snuk into twilight because we thought it was scary but through out the movie i wanted to pimp slap bella and tell her to go jump off a bridge if she is so depressed
And then I wait till I am losing my very life to accept a simple truth:
NOTHING IS WHAT IT SEEMS.
What to do about that belief?
Start seeking.
What if I already am?
Continue seeking.
I'd like the OPTION to stop seeking so I don't have to search until I die. Do I have at least that option? Considering a choice is considering options and then your choice is making up your mind as to what you prefer. You can't be happy until you decide if you prefer strawberry, vanilla or chocolate.
and prefer to seek out for something forever than to finding it and then learning it was not real and I was LIVING A LIE, CONSUMED IN FANTASY. I'd rather say, I was able to doubt and stop believing. Result: Escaped conviction and then when I stopped believing, I doubted. When I doubted, I started seeking. And in the end I am supposed to either believe in what I've always been TOLD and then waiting for the time to die to find out not everyone that seems to help you wants to and they kill you.
make sense. I have decided, instead of believing with all my heart in what I see, twist things around deliberately solely in my mind and think the opposite of what they are and wondering what I would do if what I saw was false and what I though was true and I didn't know what to do.
Blind
Crazy
Incapacitated
All or nothing. And there is no in between when it comes to my body. I choose the opposite sex. There's no in between for my soul, I seek out the truth about some kind of divine power
Reaching out to try to help her to say I am obsessed too and while I am in denial I know how you feel.
Gee, I would've thought you would at least do that, or go, Oh, my God, I am obsessed and no psychiatrist can help me get over this obsession, so I am literally helpless and when I find myself helpless all I do is gasp trying to breathe, failing, all I hear is AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH! And all I see is people surrounding me and wondering simply WTF? So no, it's twisted what you said and it doesn't..
YOU SCARE ME!! YOU TERRIFY ME! SERIOUSLY!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH! Disturbia, Disturbia, Disturbia...
Why? Because if I came to you asking for help to pick me up (handicapped) you would stand there and I would think you're thinking of what to do to help me and you actually go FUCK YOU and then kick me, making my paralysis spinal problem worse.
Why do I think that? Because you read that an obsessed Twihard that's on the brink and you actually defend her obsession instead of...
FYI nutty, ami said this "If you confess to an obsession, wonder if you are having a breakdown and worry about your behavior, then you should seek counseling," said Amy. "You must be the hero of your own story."
i dont see why u gotta be a bitch about her saying that u freak
No, I think obsessions have a different meaning than just having passion. When someone is obsessed there actually is something wrong with their psyche. Being passionate about something means that they love something to a large extent, while its not getting in the way of their life. The girl who said she was obsessed made it clear that her life was revolving around these fictional characters. I'm not saying its bad to admit to love something passionately, but an obsession really is unhealthy.
@slinkmanlover14 wtf. NOWHERE did the girl say that her life was revolving around the fictional characters. And not all obsessions are the kind that get in the way of your life (the unhealthy kind) so don't talk as if they are.
@BerryjuiceSmudge She didn't say she did, you are right. I just assumed because she has gotten to the point where she needs help. So my bad there. But, the definition of obsession is: an idea or thought that continually preoccupies or intrudes a person's mind.
@BerryjuiceSmudge As someone who has an anxiety problem, I will say "continually" means "continually". An obsession will not always start unhealthy, but can become one very quickly and very easily- sometimes without one's own knowledge of it happening. Passion is defined as: any powerful or compelling emotion or feeling for an object, concept, etc. While I understand your statement and see where you're coming from, I stand by what I said. Obsession is unhealthy, passion is not
@slinkmanlover14 As someone who has an anxiety problem, I will say "continually" means "continually". An obsession will not always start unhealthy, but can become one very quickly and very easily- sometimes without one's own knowledge of it happening. Passion is defined as: any powerful or compelling emotion or feeling for an object, concept, etc. While I understand your statement and see where you're coming from, I stand by what I said. Obsession is unhealthy, passion is not.
If she didn't want help she never would of wrote in the first place. Amy was only giving that woman an opinion she asked for! Amy wasn't just randomly telling obsessed Twilight fans to get help.
No-ones trying to take away your free will bitch! You just want people to feel sorry for you! and BOO FUCKING HOO! Shut Up! You're just like Bella who won't shut up moaning!
you're sick Nuttymadam! I feel so sorry for you! I know you told me before that you don't care whether people are laughing at you, but you're gonna regret it in later life! Boy I feel so sorry for you!
Yeah your right you're entitled to your opinion sweetheart but when you say to people "if you don't like twilight you're a nazi" then you're a hypocrite because youre not validating the opinions of others not only that but it can be considered egotistical int he way that you're basically saying everyone who hates twilight is an evil person so..at that point you're basically calling yourself a saint thats what makes us angry you talk down to us simply because we don't agree with you
Woah lady, I think you missed the point. This girl wasn't attacked by Amy for liking Twilight, she asked the woman because she wanted help with her obsession that was causing her MENTAL harm. Just as bad as physical. Of course she can like Twilight, that's entirely her business, but it's different when she's so obsessed with it that she feels the need to ask for help. Also, having a passion for something, as you say, is completely different to having an obsession with a fictional character.
You need to get over this “ mightier than thou” regard toward those who hate on your beloved Twilight. Everyone has been bad, stupid or negative, except you. You have made this whole thing a victimizing act, much like majority of the fans with this product. You’re not a victim - none of you are.
You sit there and tell people to stand up for themselves, but when they do express that, they are considered wrong and obscene. You have done nothing but shoot those people down, and express a sense of hypocrisy. And being open-minded ? You have done nothing but be anti-open minded, claiming that everyone who states their opinion is wrong, even if sometimes they’re right. Telling someone to get over themselves is something you should practice well, Nutty.
Neither Jacob or Edward are compatible companions - Jacob is overly emotional and can’t take no for an answer, not to mention a home wrecker. And I’ve already expressed my opinion in regard toward him.
And acting like a spoiled brat and throwing a tantrum because you can’t handle an opinion isn’t help your cause. From what I gathered, a lot fans do have unhealthy habits regarding the Twilight franchise, such as : biting necks, compensating real partners for something fictional, and thinking that an abusive, damaged and unstable individual is what society should consider a “ real” man.
Your arguments are one-sided and shows signs of unhealthy obsession. You literally display threatening mannerisms over a fictional idea, which makes me wonder your mental health. If you realize what you’re saying, then you can come to the conclusion that majority of those that hate on the subject material have read and know the book.
You’re a neurotic, self-righteous hypocrite like most obsessive, delusional fans, who obviously are too ignorant to understand “ Freedom of Speech”. You’re restricting people for speaking their mind, and yet speaking yours so colorfully. No one is telling you to do anything, it’s an opinion, and as such should be taken as something you take and then get on with your life.
First of all, you are obsessed in a clearly unhealthy way. Instead of taking out your anger in a healthy way, you post borderline manic videos filled with swearing, incoherent thought, and hostility towards anyone who criticizes you. You've centered your entire life around Twilight. You lost your job for it once. You've also gained weight since you first started posting videos, causing yourself physical harm like you were talking about.
Also, the girl who wrote to the columnist clearly has a problem with the way she feels about twilight and clearly thinks it needs to be sorted or she wouldn't have written to the ADVICE columnist in the first place.
really atatched to the primamry male CHARACTER. fiction. Yes, characters in all stories (even shit ones like twilight) are designed to encourage a genuine sympathy, as if it is real. But if you feel a real atatchment to what is nothing more than a word on a page or a face on your tv to the point you miss them the you do need to seek professional help.
Well, what I think the columnist meant was that if this person is letting their obsession affect her personal life, or if she legitimately wants to date/marry a fictional character, then it's a problem. Being obsessed with Twilight isn't something to seek professional health over unless you're hurting yourself (physically or mentally) or are unable to function in society. That's what I think she meant when she said that.
How do people that hate on breaking dawn all of a sudden are wrong? your asking us to accept your opinion of this series, when you cant even fathom the idea of allowing us to not like, what we dont like. and stephen king has written so many more intelligently written books then stephanie meyer, so his opinion does matter. just becauese not everyone creams there pants over twilight, doesnt mean you have the right to be rude to us.
How do people that hate on breaking dawn all of a sudden are wrong? your asking us to accept your opinion of this series, when you cant even fathom the idea of allowing us to not like, what we dont like. and stephen king has written so many more intelligently written books then stephanie meyer, so his opinion does matter. just becauese not everyone creams there pants over twilight, doesnt mean you have the right to be rude to us.
Hi there. I am about to call the hospital for your safety, and the safety of others. Have you ever look at yourself in the video or hear yourself talk? Professional help is definitely what you need as of right now. Twilight is a fantasy novel. FANTASY! Get it through your thick, ignorant skull. Don't you dare, tell others what to say and what to think. You can't get what you want. Problem, psycho?
"Perez Hilton says that I'm the number 1 Twilight fan."
Translation: Notice how famous people talk about me? Do you notice? Do you notice? Just in case you didn't see it in my profile, I'll mention it here, too. I'm totally famous because some radio guy and actor in a shitty film series talks about me for, like, five seconds! I'm gonna be invited into the circle of celebrities any day now because I'm FAMOUS! Got it? FAMOUS.
You're about as subtle as a piece of flint, Nuttymadam.
It's not the book itself that is the problem, but the obsession. If you are getting upset and miserable because your life isn't like the one in the book, that suggests that there is an emotional problem that you are associating with the book. It's the lack of interst in one's own life, not the enthusiasm in the book that is the problem. Obsession itself is unhealthy, not the object of obsession.
You post videos on youtube, you get haters.What did you expect?Maybe some people here are actually trying to help you. You're beyond obsessed.Twilight will be over in a few years. Everyone will forget about it. You however will probably watch it again and again and live your life in a complete fantasy world until life will smack you in the head and you'll wake up one day, alone, without anything, because instead of living your life, you watched Twilight, a movie about vampires, that aren't real.
Do you really want to look back on your life when you're older and remember yourself as someone who's obsessed with a third rate young adult romance series?
oh come oooon, the reason people make fun of you or bash your opinions is because you fucking react like this, just shut the fuck up and enjoy twilight and let people hate, if they dont physically harm you, just let them fucking hate FFS YOU ANNOY ME SO MUCH GAAAH
You can like whatever you want, but sometimes that something may be keeping you from living your life even if it feels so right. You have absolute right to choose how you want to live your life, but you owe it to yourself to live your life the fullest. And it's pretty clear that you're not: you are very neurotic, you get upset by somebody's opinion too easily and you DO have a need to HURT somebody back because you feel hurt. God bless!
@ MizzFrizzbe - I don't know you from Adam, why are you sending me nasty messages? I dont believe Ive ever spoken to you at all, why are you calling me a "pathetic troll? Surely a "troll" is someone who spews insults across the internet at folks theve never met? You know - like you are doing to me?
how do you even get to the point of comparing STEPHEN KING to STEPHANIE FUCKIN MEYER?He is waay better than her. You cannot even compare them. It's like comparing justin bieber to like I don't know. Kurt Cobain. jesus fucking.
Ya know I only clicked on this because of the video name and already I can tell you this, Obssession of twilight, Yes you do have it from the movies because I doubt you can read, but Unhealthy, yes, you look similar to Jabba the Hut in Starwars Minus the skin color, so I found the name of the video a pit ironic, now that aside, Steven King > Stephanie Meyer. His books have sold over hundreds of millions of copies which is over 10x Stephanie Meyer's books.
I don't understand why Stephen King doesn't get his own opinion. He didn't tell people not to read it, he said literary-wise, it's not that good-which is true. And I thought that even when I was a twilight fan. I just wish fans of these kind of things stopped caring whether people dislike what they like, and just focus on their 'passion' for whatever it is. :) x
You may have sufficently and objectively proven that the more weight you gain, espically to your fat face, the lower your IQ drops! Isn't that fantastical? I'm asking myself how you got to be this stupid. You don't just wake up one morning caked in fat making Piss Poor videos. You have to get their somehow. Were you born a fat, slimy, no class, no taste, rude bitch? Or did you have to work on it? I bet you work at Wal-Mart. You are Wal-Mart material ;) Your Passions include Meyer and FOOD!
You on the other hand are obsessed and need to calm the hell down and seek help. It is terrible and sad to see a girl, or a fan obsessing over a fictional character. Like I said before, I love the the stories of the writers I listed, however I don't let that take over my life like Twilight has to you.
All of these authors all write fantastic stories, both fun to read and actually makes you feel for the characters.
Meyers
Her stories are bland and boring, Twilight, the main character Bella is sooooooo unenthusiastic, I know that her life as not been the best, but read Percy Jackson and the Olympians and you will see Percy has a worst life than Bella.
From what i can tell, the simple fact you are going off because of what other people think clearly shows that you're just overly obsessed with it. Pretty soon, you'll start to blur reality from the book and it'll really screw with your head.
No one's even saying you should stop liking Twilight, they're merely saying that you should tone down the fangirl attitude. Honestly, just by watching your vids, you clearly throw reason out. Some fans even commit suicide to such books!
@KanedaShimazaki Like you said about fangirl stuff, It's the same with almost everything. But lets not forget the people who do it for things like call of duty. WoW, Ect. It's not just films, It's everything. What is the world coming to that we react like this to fictional stuff, But shit like wars we don't care about?
I think perhaps the fact the girl wrote to an advice column and asked for help is enough to say that she recognised she had a problem.
What's all the physical business too? Are you aware obsession can be a serious problem? That people get sick and need genuine help for their mental disorders?
I think you're a child. I get what you're trying to say and good of you to stand up for yourself. But this isn't cool. Sort it out.
And this is the main reason/argument for why reading Twilight is actually detrimental becuase the entire series seems to say obsession is okay and quite normal, for example: Bella being obsessed with Edward to the point where she wants to kill herself when he leaves her in New Moon(i think it was that one I don't know as they all are the same imo) and no one around her really acts like this is a bad thing.
And exactly when did Stephen King say that you couldn't have your opinion? When did he call Twilight fans stupid for liking it? When did he even address Twilight fans? Oh, right...he didn't. He stated his opinion about her writing. Once. This video is filled with hypocrisy. You're allowed to have your opinion but King isn't because he dislikes something you like. True, people shouldn't attack you for your opinions but you ARE attacking other people for theirs.
Can you go a whole day without saying 'Twilight' or 'Edward'.
I feel sorry for your friends.
I needed to see professional help for my obsessions because I was becoming... like you. To involved to communicate to people or go a day without saying something about my obsession. Now I have a balanced life and balanced diet.
I just noticed how much you are generalizing. You obviously haven't been out much enough with the real world to know that a lot of people in the world are passionate about the things they love and are open about that. You don't know that, do you? You only know about the people who are Twitards.
You ask why the person has the right to give advice to this obsessed person. Hmm, I wonder, is it possibly because 'Obsessed' wrote in to an advice column? If you write into an advice column, you're giving someone permission to advise you,and you're making it their business.
I was going to put a comment about how hypocritical you're acting, how utterly idiotic you are to think that such blatant obsession is all right, etc. until I noticed that more or less everyone commenting on this video has already done so. Anything I could say has already been said, and already ignored; anything I could say would just be ignored like all the rest.
its not a question of "is the thing im obsessd about WORTH obbessing about"........the point is nothing is good to be obsessed about, because obbession normally leads of unusal or silly decisions .
and after only time can you looks back and think "what was i doing"! because you often dont gain perspective on situaions after its over
Obsessions are NOT okay. Especially if they are unhealthy! I was so obsessed with the Jonas Brothers from when I was 13-15, and it was not healthy at all! I used to get depressed over them, I used to cut myself everyday. I cut myself like, over 100 times. And I still have all the scars. I used to go to a counsellor everyday, crying because people at school would tease me about it, and this was just earlier on this year. I have matured and changed so much since then. :]
@itstaylamofos Just because you took it too far doesn't mean everyone else will. It's okay to love something as much as she does. I don't like Twilight at all so I'm not sticking up for her but I'm saying that not everyone that loves something this much will start cutting themselves and shit like you did. So you and the 18 people that thumbed you up are retarded.
Secondly, it IS unhealthy not to love real men because they don't match up to a fictional one. If you think that's normal, you're seriously fucked up. Just because no REAL man will touch you (not that Edward would either, if he existed...) doesn't mean they're not worth women's time. Lastly, Stephen King (or anyone, for that matter) can say whatever the fuck he wants about whoever the fuck he wants. It's called freedom of speech. If you have a problem with it, move to China.
I noticed how you haven't left ANY responses to all the comments that were left here, even though you usually do. I guess that's because, for once, you actually have sense enough to know how STUPID you are. First off, the helper NEVER said the woman couldn't like Twilight. And she didn't say "seek help" in an insulting, insistant way. She said that if the woman really felt so bad about falling in love with a fictional character, she should see someone. THERE'S A DIFFERENCE.
Such a hypocrite aren't you? How can you say that everyone's entitled to an opinion, and then when a professional advises a girl to seek professional help, she's 'wrong'? You know what, you aren't doing yourself any favours; Stephen King can say what the fuck he wants, as can the rest of the world. Just because an opinion on something you obsess over upsets you doesn't mean it shouldn't be said. Grow up, and think your arguments through before shouting them.
So you're saying that nobody should care about other people. If I see somebody making the wrong decisions, I shouldn't try to stop them because it isn't doing any harm to me. Thanks for the advice.
You're right, it's not wrong to have a passion. But what you do out of that passion is important. A good example for Youtubers: Katie Puckrik.She'spassionate about perfumes and posts great, helpful reviews, sharing her knowledge with us. There are MANY people who disagree with her opinion and even hate perfumes. And yet, I don't see her posting videos shouting,swearing, or throwing an indecent tantrum for the whole world to see. Look at what this obsession has done to you...yeah you DO need help
Fuck ME? Fuck YOU, you stupid fat cunt. Get over this obsession with Twilight. If people are telling you it's not healthy then it probably isn't and you need to fucking seek a counselor. Amy was just trying to help her. There are thousands of counts where fans like you get obsessed and even suicidally depressed over these books. I know a few people like that myself. Stop trying to force your opinion on us and stop being a hypocrite. I have half a mind to introduce you to Tosh.0.
Obsession is very unhealthy. There's a difference between passion and obsession. Obsession is a destructive mentality that can hinder a person in real life, it interferes with reality. And another thing, you think so long as it doesn't hurt you personally it's fine? if a person is doing something or thinking something that is destructive to themselves, they need outside help.
How dare people tell people not to like Twilight? How dare you to tell people what they should and shouldn't do. The girl who wrote in is obviously in need of some sort of help. While she's allowed to love whatever she wants, she's blurring fiction with reality and that damages the mind. She's not physically hurting herself, but she is emotionally stunting her growth by trying to find a man that resembles Edward Cullen or whoever is in the book. Men are not really like that. I'm sorry, [c]
but that is unhealthy mentally for the person. She asked for help, she got an answer, what more do you want? As for you, you appear to not understand how the real world functions. The world is full of people who will hate, and all you're doing is turning around and perpetuating the hate instead of being mature and simply saying "I'll respect your opinion even if I don't agree with it." You go on and on about tolerance, but show none. Grow up.
Are you aware that you compleatly contadicted yourself in your rant? First you bash Stephen King for having an opinion, than later you say "everyone is entiltled to their opinion." So, I'm confused, everyone exept Stephen King, Or everyone as long as they like Twilight? In other words everyone is entitled to their opinion as long as you agree with it? How childish.
right, Twihards comment on Twilight hate videos the same was Twihaters do on Twilight fan videos. It is JUST expressing your opinion. Freedom of speech. It's what you have. EVERYONE HAS IT. We can explain our opinion, even if it is negative. Everyone's opinion is valid, even if you disagree with it.
Okay, you can love a fictional character TO AN EXTANT. For me, I have an obsession with Harry Potter and I am in love with Draco Malfoy. But does that mean I think of him all the time, turn down any guys because it's not him? NO. Therefore, you do need fictional help if you literally can not stop thinking about a character to the point it makes you unable to concentrate. Also, STEPHEN KING GAVE HIS OPINION LIKE YOU GIVE YOURS. Same goes for Twilight haters. And, while two wrongs don't make a
There is a difference between being a FAN and being OBSESSED. Obsession is a real menatal disorder! Being a fan is just all fun. That girl seeked help, so obviously she understands this, and I have no idea why you don't. Oh that's right, you' ve proved that you have the mental capacity of a seven year old. I am a fan of twilight, and I am not obsessed with the series. I can even accept that there are books and movies out there that are far superior to twilight. (Team Harry Potter anyone?)
So obsessing over a FICTIONAL CHARACTER to the point where you forgo real relationships isn't unhealthy? Oh Jesus *shakes head*.
BTW you know how you get annoyed when people in your life tell you you're obsessed with twilight, that's the very same reaction an alcoholic or a drug addict has when their friends and family stage an intervention. Just a thought.
BiracialGoddess 2 days ago
are you mentally ill?
grandmasta346 5 days ago in playlist Uploaded videos
ahhahah omg i love you so much !!!! ahahahahaha xxxxxxxxxx can i be ur new best friend :D lol I LOVE TWILIGHT FOREVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (if anyone had any idea.....)
xmissvolturix 1 week ago
Uhm, did you read the article?
I think you misunderstood it.
Go read it again, okay? :)
Clowiie3335 2 weeks ago
...You don't send this extremely harmful message. You're NOT in the right place. I hope that Twilight fan that wrote to AskAmy asking for help did not watch this video, because if she did, oh, man, you've gotten her much, much deeper into the dark hole she was in. When someone cries for help, one reaches out, one does not encourage the behavior that's destroying that person! It says a lot about you that to you only physical pain counts. All forms of pain are terrible. You. Are. Hopeless! xx
lambertlover19 2 weeks ago
@nuttymadam3575 You're evil, you know that? This Twilight fan acknowledges an obsession that has gotten way out of her control and is writing to a column asking for help, and you send a message to everyone that the girl that's crying out for help does not need it because she's not PHYSICALLY hurting anyone? I was obsessed with a superstar in Winter 2006 and I almost lost my mind. I sought help, I got it and that's why I am here today. You've got no heart. If someone asks for help...
lambertlover19 2 weeks ago
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lambertlover19 2 weeks ago
I never wanted to like the twilight series but got roped in haha im not obsessed tho theyer just movies
RunNeonTigerTK 4 weeks ago
Obese? Yes.
Unhealthy? Yes.
paiceyd 1 month ago 3
(I disagree w/ u on some points like Stephen king did not bash Meyer, he just gave his opinion. no different than me giving my opinion, but king has influence whereas I do not). Like I understand, I'm a potterhead, & I know HP fans get much less sh*t than twilighters do, but i understand being passionate about a series. But... Idk I don't bash ppl 4 liking breaking dawn I don't call ppl twitards UNLESS the fan is REALLY carried away. Im talking like u in u breaking dawn h8r vid bad.
Maikkacrackshiper13 1 month ago
You're misinterpreting what that Amy person said. You never stated that she outright said that the girl should not like Twilight; she said that this girl should seek help because she is in love with a fictional person. The girl clearly thinks it's a problem so she should just try to put Twilight aside for a while and eventually she'll find a real person. After that, she'll probably be fine.
kawaiiPASTA 1 month ago
I have to say I kind of agree with some points here. Cant believe im saying that.
PreteenxBeauty 1 month ago
Somehow the idea that your obsession with Twilight is EMOTIONALLY hurting your friends/family never comes up. (OMG MY TWILIGHT OBSESSION WLD NVR HURT MY FRENSZ IF THEY WERE TRUE FRENZ THEY WLD RESPECT MY LUV 4 TWILIGT)
FlashFreezer 2 months ago
I want to find my perfect partner. In Twitalk, I'm a lost Edward who want's to find my Bella. But I know that I'll never find my perfect partner just sitting down twiddling my thumbs, and immersing myself in a(poorly imagined) fantasy world from day-to-day.
Of the ten thousand miracles that comprise my channel name, I know that I must reach out and grab one with my own hands.
10kMiracles 2 months ago
@10kMiracles that is soo cute x
HORSE4435 2 months ago
And yet, writing in to her is seeking professional help in itself...
GrahambertusJosepha 2 months ago
you know there is both physical and psychological damage right? psychological damage might sometimes actually be more harmful.
hallowedbeeddie 2 months ago
wow, you really need help. And no, I´m not saying it because you like twilight. I dont care whether you like the books. YOU NEED HELP. I dont care if you will get it or not, but you really need it.
hallowedbeeddie 2 months ago
I just laughed my ass off when she said that Amy said that she needed to seek professional help! LOL
JackD791 2 months ago
Wasnt she chasing the chinese in that one movie
TristanFilms1 2 months ago
cussing people out will not get your point across. it will make you seem like an indignant ass.
ccipollini1984 2 months ago 2
@nuttymadam3575, dear, I think you missed the point.
Essentially what the person in that article did was write into an advice column and say "I feel my passion is becoming an obsession and is interfering with my life, what should I do?"
The response was essentially "If you feel that way and it is making you unhappy and you cannot function properly, yes, you should probably seek help."
No one told anyone that they weren't allowed to enjoy something.
ArtemisLiliths 3 months ago
Are you pissed at every single person that doesn't agree with you? If you are then you're asking for something you cannot and even don't want to do. You don't respect people's opinion, you can't let it go - so how the hell are people supposed to respect your opinion?
As I always say: I'm not gonna respect anything when you don't respect my opinion.
I might not like Twilight, but it doesn't mean you have to bitch about it in your priceless youtube videos.
quampol 3 months ago
From the article, it looks like the obsessed fan was the one who write in looking for help--so yes, the writer does have the right to tell her to seek counseling, because the fan asked her for her opinion.
Also, liking a character is not the same as living in your own little insular world that revolves around said fictional character. The latter IS unhealthy.
CylindricalWhistle 3 months ago
Btw, your are a fat bitch, produced by Jaffa cakes, pizza and sweet rolls. Nothing but refuse.
MegaKilt 3 months ago
Bwahahahahaha
"[...]it doesn't get to me anymore, because I've dealt with thatt[...]but yeah, it PISSES ME OFF!"
MegaKilt 3 months ago
You guys have no right telling someone that they need help for being in love with something. No right! By the way. I am an obsessed twilight saga fanatic. And I don't really give a shit about what u guys think. U all are sad people. And I think Madam is a beautiful person because of her Passion and strenghth to ignore all of your ignorant comments. Well, that's all I got to say* Stay up Madam, don't let these assholes get to u.
MsRunfola89 3 months ago
I get what she is saying here. And its not that she hates people who don't like the same things she does, its that she has lame- no life Haterz seek big fans of this series and basically cause emotional harm. You guys are talking about suicide, but u all aren't thinking about the words your saying that cause suicide. I don't hate on anyone just because they like something I don't. I don't seek people who like things that I don't just to hurt them and put them down. You all are all hypocrites!
MsRunfola89 3 months ago
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Wrong go watch her videos on breaking dawn haters and midnight sun haters where she is swearing and calling them nasty names and saying their selfish just because they don't like the twilight books
also watch Nutty video of her bashing Angelina Jolie and saying Angelina adopt children are not real children
sweetkittens 3 months ago
Sorry i misread this as "Obesse? yes. Unhealthy? No"
Khounur 3 months ago
Okay this whole you dont like it so dont tell someone else you dont like it thing is kinda what your doing to the public. You are tellling people I like this but hey Dont tell me you dont like it or I'll get mad and might hurt you. Plus is it not just sharing a personal point of view on a subject to another person which is what your doing here!!!! So point 1 if you dont wnat to hear a view dont ask and also dont inflict your view on us coz the haters will just hate back on you
casbooty12 3 months ago
Still see you're pissed off at Stephen King almost after two years
you're truly sad person and get a damn grip Nutty life does not revolve around fictional world call twilight and characters are not real
Stephen King as sold more books then Stephanie Myers snd even J.K Rowling sold more books than than twilgiht
sweetkittens 3 months ago 2
350 million books sold, to be exact
yummybreath627 3 months ago
get help
mithralova 3 months ago 2
Weird scary bitch focking no liver you freaking weird and you're focking fat
ItsMeYoShIHD 3 months ago
She is the worst bitch ever! You keep disrespecting OUR opinions that Twilight sucked! And the first reply you did, you criticize us further! So no, Fuck YOU!
Go for a walk and change your fat life!
lulu1night4ever 3 months ago
theyre not sayung you cant like it but god damit, its gone too far. YOU ARE OVERLY OBSESSED!! I love the books but hate the movies, so i understand how people can love them but come on!!! They need professional help because they are creating a non-reality in their head and thats unhealthy. They're not hurting other people but they're hurting themselves. Indulging in stuff that will never happen and is not real to the point where youre in love just causes problems. STOP LIVING IN A DREAM!!!!!!!!
Clydeernator 3 months ago
Even McDonalds say you're fat. There's an advertisement for their app on this page, as I'm reading this.
Obsessed? yes. Unhealthy? NO. Fatass? That's a definitely!
res20stupid 3 months ago
wow, somebody is angry XD!!
tcelenacuatemocatl 3 months ago
I have taken the time to watch a bunch of your videos and I must say...
A lot of things make you angry. Mostly people who don't like the same things you do.
And I don't think THAT'S healthy.
xRemmie 3 months ago
Nobody is saying it's bad to like Twilight, but there is a point where it goes to far. When your obsession for a book series defines your life, you have a problem.
Razieli812 3 months ago
I would step in, because it hurts them. It's a natural human instinct to step in and feel compassion and try to help them.
Being crazy obsessive and living in an insular world of imaginary characters does not make the world go round. Sorry.
It's called human goodness. Compassion. Being noble. It's a shame you've never heard of these qualities. But then again, if you have, you wouldn't have to resort to a fictional book to feel good.
kipkayify 4 months ago 3
I'm going to have to ask you to calm down, or i'm going to call in the harpoon squad.
milatic13 4 months ago 19
"I don't care if you make fun of twilight but FUCK YOU!"
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I honestly cannot believe I resorted to all caps and multiple comments for this shit.
Just... fuck. If I thought I didn't like you before, I fucking hate you now. And what's worse is that none of what I've written will change your mind because your obsession is clouding your judgment so much that you can't even hear reason. So I've done this for nothing except to vent about how much I dislike you and wish I could punch you in the vag.
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coffeetea720 4 months ago
"If they're hurting themselves physically, I would say that's borderline."
THAT'S borderline? THAT'S BORDERLINE?? Are you out of your fucking mind? Are you blind? If self-harm is borderline, what the fuck is suicide? Would THAT be the right time to get help? When it's too late? Where do you even cross the line?
Of course, as "obsessed" as you are, there probably isn't one, is there? As long as it's for the holy Twilight Bible and Jesus Meyer. It's so fucking worth it, right? Cunt.
coffeetea720 4 months ago 9
"Being able to walk into a job interview and saying, 'I have a passion for sales... [Being passionate] is a much sought after attribute."
I'm sorry, but this sentence just made me laugh. Your analogy doesn't really come together the way you think it does because nobody's going to be THAT obsessed with sales. No one's gonna be like, "I JACK OFF TO SALES EVERY NIGHT! ALL I NEED IS A MACY'S CATALOG AND SOME TISSUES, I FUCKING LOVE SALES!! Also, I'm pretty sure you wouldn't get that job.
coffeetea720 4 months ago 3
"My point is, you can't tell people that they can't think something or feel something if that something isn't affecting you."
Yes, I fucking can! What kind of insular world are you living in? If someone I love is hurting themselves mentally or physically, your goddamn right I'm going to step in and say something. I'll be fucked in the ass with a rake before I see someone I care about going downhill. Even if they can't see it themselves, I will say something. COMPASSION, BITCH, EVER HEARD OF IT?
coffeetea720 4 months ago 5
"My opinion is what counts as far as my life is concerned, as long as the decisions I make in my life do not PHYSICALLY hurt anyone else."
WOULD YOU FEEL THE SAME WAY IF A HEROIN ADDICT SAID THAT? It's okay for someone to slowly kill themselves, so long as they aren't PHYSICALLY hurting anyone else? That's fucking horseshit.
And "as long as they don't PHYSICALLY hurt anyone else"? What, so it's perfectly acceptable to hurt them EMOTIONALLY? You must be an awful friend.
coffeetea720 4 months ago 2
"Being passionate about something is what makes the world go round."
Obsessive and passionate are NOT interchangeable words. Being passionate is when you have strong beliefs or feelings about a particular subject. Being OBSESSED is when that subject consumes you to the point where it becomes intrusive and troublesome for you and others. By the way, being obsessed with anything... Not something to be proud of.
coffeetea720 4 months ago 2
Just to follow up here on my point of being a martyr.
'Everyone is allowed to have an opinion '
We fucking know. Free thought has been around for a while love. We get it now the fact is that as much as I hate twilight, literally can not stand it's existence my biggest problem is fans who think that it's ok to literally go mental over the shit. Seriously. I've wasted 8 minutes writing this I say wasted because no doubt it'll not change a bloody thing. Tunnel fucking vision.
thelonewalker1 4 months ago 4
She does need professional help. If you claim that being so obsessed with a fictional character that the sheer lack of said character brings you to points of near depression is ok you have to get your priorities straight. It's not a case of liking it, It's a case of the girl seeking FUCKING HELP BECAUSE SHE KNEW IT WAS WRONG. Stop being a fucking martyr. It's not a crusade love. You don't need to liberate people. Also hurting themselves is just borderline? Seriously? Are you fucking kidding?
thelonewalker1 4 months ago 4
I am obsessed with Harry potter, I know everything about it and i have all the books and movies. But it dosn't control my life. I read a little of this a little of that and other things. I have read the twilight series, and i think it's okay-good. But that's my opinion. If you like are obsessed over twilight or anything else that it's controllong your life, i agree you need proffesional help. I'm not saying you can't like twilight, but don't become obsessed with it.
finejosefina 4 months ago
i just take a min and make ur day i love ur vids im a big fan to not to nutty as u are but good for u if it makes u happy thin good for u hahaa but ya ur funny ur sweet and ur bad ass girl and i love it i will be sure to be a fan of ur vids from now on keep them comein girl and ur rite FUCK THEM =]
DeeNeenee 4 months ago
me and my dad snuk into twilight because we thought it was scary but through out the movie i wanted to pimp slap bella and tell her to go jump off a bridge if she is so depressed
HomeSlice3601 4 months ago
And then I wait till I am losing my very life to accept a simple truth:
NOTHING IS WHAT IT SEEMS.
What to do about that belief?
Start seeking.
What if I already am?
Continue seeking.
I'd like the OPTION to stop seeking so I don't have to search until I die. Do I have at least that option? Considering a choice is considering options and then your choice is making up your mind as to what you prefer. You can't be happy until you decide if you prefer strawberry, vanilla or chocolate.
krysstalpearl 5 months ago
and prefer to seek out for something forever than to finding it and then learning it was not real and I was LIVING A LIE, CONSUMED IN FANTASY. I'd rather say, I was able to doubt and stop believing. Result: Escaped conviction and then when I stopped believing, I doubted. When I doubted, I started seeking. And in the end I am supposed to either believe in what I've always been TOLD and then waiting for the time to die to find out not everyone that seems to help you wants to and they kill you.
krysstalpearl 5 months ago
make sense. I have decided, instead of believing with all my heart in what I see, twist things around deliberately solely in my mind and think the opposite of what they are and wondering what I would do if what I saw was false and what I though was true and I didn't know what to do.
Blind
Crazy
Incapacitated
All or nothing. And there is no in between when it comes to my body. I choose the opposite sex. There's no in between for my soul, I seek out the truth about some kind of divine power
krysstalpearl 5 months ago
Reaching out to try to help her to say I am obsessed too and while I am in denial I know how you feel.
Gee, I would've thought you would at least do that, or go, Oh, my God, I am obsessed and no psychiatrist can help me get over this obsession, so I am literally helpless and when I find myself helpless all I do is gasp trying to breathe, failing, all I hear is AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH! And all I see is people surrounding me and wondering simply WTF? So no, it's twisted what you said and it doesn't..
krysstalpearl 5 months ago
DEAR EMMA.
YOU SCARE ME!! YOU TERRIFY ME! SERIOUSLY!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH! Disturbia, Disturbia, Disturbia...
Why? Because if I came to you asking for help to pick me up (handicapped) you would stand there and I would think you're thinking of what to do to help me and you actually go FUCK YOU and then kick me, making my paralysis spinal problem worse.
Why do I think that? Because you read that an obsessed Twihard that's on the brink and you actually defend her obsession instead of...
krysstalpearl 5 months ago
Actually, I believe it's gravity that makes the world go round.
glassoniongirl64 5 months ago
FYI nutty, ami said this "If you confess to an obsession, wonder if you are having a breakdown and worry about your behavior, then you should seek counseling," said Amy. "You must be the hero of your own story."
i dont see why u gotta be a bitch about her saying that u freak
ronisprincess 5 months ago
No, I think obsessions have a different meaning than just having passion. When someone is obsessed there actually is something wrong with their psyche. Being passionate about something means that they love something to a large extent, while its not getting in the way of their life. The girl who said she was obsessed made it clear that her life was revolving around these fictional characters. I'm not saying its bad to admit to love something passionately, but an obsession really is unhealthy.
slinkmanlover14 5 months ago
@slinkmanlover14 wtf. NOWHERE did the girl say that her life was revolving around the fictional characters. And not all obsessions are the kind that get in the way of your life (the unhealthy kind) so don't talk as if they are.
BerryjuiceSmudge 5 months ago
@BerryjuiceSmudge She didn't say she did, you are right. I just assumed because she has gotten to the point where she needs help. So my bad there. But, the definition of obsession is: an idea or thought that continually preoccupies or intrudes a person's mind.
slinkmanlover14 5 months ago
@BerryjuiceSmudge As someone who has an anxiety problem, I will say "continually" means "continually". An obsession will not always start unhealthy, but can become one very quickly and very easily- sometimes without one's own knowledge of it happening. Passion is defined as: any powerful or compelling emotion or feeling for an object, concept, etc. While I understand your statement and see where you're coming from, I stand by what I said. Obsession is unhealthy, passion is not
slinkmanlover14 5 months ago
@slinkmanlover14 As someone who has an anxiety problem, I will say "continually" means "continually". An obsession will not always start unhealthy, but can become one very quickly and very easily- sometimes without one's own knowledge of it happening. Passion is defined as: any powerful or compelling emotion or feeling for an object, concept, etc. While I understand your statement and see where you're coming from, I stand by what I said. Obsession is unhealthy, passion is not.
slinkmanlover14 5 months ago
If she didn't want help she never would of wrote in the first place. Amy was only giving that woman an opinion she asked for! Amy wasn't just randomly telling obsessed Twilight fans to get help.
Whittles1618 6 months ago
Obesity is a problem that plagues the world.
AuschwitzSummerCamp 6 months ago
(I disagre so much that it makes me angry) Raaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrr !!!!!!!!!!
SimsFan1492 6 months ago
please, die.
95PMF 6 months ago
No-ones trying to take away your free will bitch! You just want people to feel sorry for you! and BOO FUCKING HOO! Shut Up! You're just like Bella who won't shut up moaning!
MissDragonheart69 6 months ago
you're sick Nuttymadam! I feel so sorry for you! I know you told me before that you don't care whether people are laughing at you, but you're gonna regret it in later life! Boy I feel so sorry for you!
MissDragonheart69 6 months ago
Do u know people like nuttymadam and say this and that, so why do u watch her, to try make her feel bad.
JordanClarkeOfficial 6 months ago
and yet you tell us we're wrong because we hate twilight....hmmmmm
12salsalover 6 months ago
you say you've delt with it but...once again......you've contradicted yourself
12salsalover 6 months ago
Yeah your right you're entitled to your opinion sweetheart but when you say to people "if you don't like twilight you're a nazi" then you're a hypocrite because youre not validating the opinions of others not only that but it can be considered egotistical int he way that you're basically saying everyone who hates twilight is an evil person so..at that point you're basically calling yourself a saint thats what makes us angry you talk down to us simply because we don't agree with you
12salsalover 6 months ago
Hey fatty, Twilight IS shit. Get a grip. Meyer can't write worth a darn. MY opinion ok
Raimi34 7 months ago
@Raimi34 No need
JordanClarkeOfficial 6 months ago
@JordanClarkeOfficial There's every need when she goes on about people Slating Meyer when in her twisted world everyone is WRONG EXCEPT HER!!
Raimi34 6 months ago
LULZ at the stack of paragraphs.
Seriously, you think she'll read them? I know I didn't.
TL;DR.
Moshata 7 months ago
You are going to regret all of this soooooo much in fifteen years -_-
SoftBlueSeattle 7 months ago 29
Woah lady, I think you missed the point. This girl wasn't attacked by Amy for liking Twilight, she asked the woman because she wanted help with her obsession that was causing her MENTAL harm. Just as bad as physical. Of course she can like Twilight, that's entirely her business, but it's different when she's so obsessed with it that she feels the need to ask for help. Also, having a passion for something, as you say, is completely different to having an obsession with a fictional character.
ReggaeMetalFox 7 months ago
You need to get over this “ mightier than thou” regard toward those who hate on your beloved Twilight. Everyone has been bad, stupid or negative, except you. You have made this whole thing a victimizing act, much like majority of the fans with this product. You’re not a victim - none of you are.
RickLMint123 7 months ago 2
@RickLMint123 preach it sistah!
12salsalover 6 months ago
You sit there and tell people to stand up for themselves, but when they do express that, they are considered wrong and obscene. You have done nothing but shoot those people down, and express a sense of hypocrisy. And being open-minded ? You have done nothing but be anti-open minded, claiming that everyone who states their opinion is wrong, even if sometimes they’re right. Telling someone to get over themselves is something you should practice well, Nutty.
RickLMint123 7 months ago
Neither Jacob or Edward are compatible companions - Jacob is overly emotional and can’t take no for an answer, not to mention a home wrecker. And I’ve already expressed my opinion in regard toward him.
RickLMint123 7 months ago
And acting like a spoiled brat and throwing a tantrum because you can’t handle an opinion isn’t help your cause. From what I gathered, a lot fans do have unhealthy habits regarding the Twilight franchise, such as : biting necks, compensating real partners for something fictional, and thinking that an abusive, damaged and unstable individual is what society should consider a “ real” man.
RickLMint123 7 months ago 2
Your arguments are one-sided and shows signs of unhealthy obsession. You literally display threatening mannerisms over a fictional idea, which makes me wonder your mental health. If you realize what you’re saying, then you can come to the conclusion that majority of those that hate on the subject material have read and know the book.
RickLMint123 7 months ago
You’re a neurotic, self-righteous hypocrite like most obsessive, delusional fans, who obviously are too ignorant to understand “ Freedom of Speech”. You’re restricting people for speaking their mind, and yet speaking yours so colorfully. No one is telling you to do anything, it’s an opinion, and as such should be taken as something you take and then get on with your life.
RickLMint123 7 months ago
First of all, you are obsessed in a clearly unhealthy way. Instead of taking out your anger in a healthy way, you post borderline manic videos filled with swearing, incoherent thought, and hostility towards anyone who criticizes you. You've centered your entire life around Twilight. You lost your job for it once. You've also gained weight since you first started posting videos, causing yourself physical harm like you were talking about.
You clearly need therapy.
hawkstrike1000 7 months ago
Also, the girl who wrote to the columnist clearly has a problem with the way she feels about twilight and clearly thinks it needs to be sorted or she wouldn't have written to the ADVICE columnist in the first place.
FullOnMetalForever 7 months ago
really atatched to the primamry male CHARACTER. fiction. Yes, characters in all stories (even shit ones like twilight) are designed to encourage a genuine sympathy, as if it is real. But if you feel a real atatchment to what is nothing more than a word on a page or a face on your tv to the point you miss them the you do need to seek professional help.
FullOnMetalForever 7 months ago
Well, what I think the columnist meant was that if this person is letting their obsession affect her personal life, or if she legitimately wants to date/marry a fictional character, then it's a problem. Being obsessed with Twilight isn't something to seek professional health over unless you're hurting yourself (physically or mentally) or are unable to function in society. That's what I think she meant when she said that.
HMaschine 8 months ago
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How do people that hate on breaking dawn all of a sudden are wrong? your asking us to accept your opinion of this series, when you cant even fathom the idea of allowing us to not like, what we dont like. and stephen king has written so many more intelligently written books then stephanie meyer, so his opinion does matter. just becauese not everyone creams there pants over twilight, doesnt mean you have the right to be rude to us.
bobbillyjoe100 8 months ago
How do people that hate on breaking dawn all of a sudden are wrong? your asking us to accept your opinion of this series, when you cant even fathom the idea of allowing us to not like, what we dont like. and stephen king has written so many more intelligently written books then stephanie meyer, so his opinion does matter. just becauese not everyone creams there pants over twilight, doesnt mean you have the right to be rude to us.
bobbillyjoe100 8 months ago
Hi there. I am about to call the hospital for your safety, and the safety of others. Have you ever look at yourself in the video or hear yourself talk? Professional help is definitely what you need as of right now. Twilight is a fantasy novel. FANTASY! Get it through your thick, ignorant skull. Don't you dare, tell others what to say and what to think. You can't get what you want. Problem, psycho?
killergunz 8 months ago
"Perez Hilton says that I'm the number 1 Twilight fan."
Translation: Notice how famous people talk about me? Do you notice? Do you notice? Just in case you didn't see it in my profile, I'll mention it here, too. I'm totally famous because some radio guy and actor in a shitty film series talks about me for, like, five seconds! I'm gonna be invited into the circle of celebrities any day now because I'm FAMOUS! Got it? FAMOUS.
You're about as subtle as a piece of flint, Nuttymadam.
nicolebmoviesFTW2 8 months ago 6
It's not the book itself that is the problem, but the obsession. If you are getting upset and miserable because your life isn't like the one in the book, that suggests that there is an emotional problem that you are associating with the book. It's the lack of interst in one's own life, not the enthusiasm in the book that is the problem. Obsession itself is unhealthy, not the object of obsession.
Scardy 8 months ago
You post videos on youtube, you get haters.What did you expect?Maybe some people here are actually trying to help you. You're beyond obsessed.Twilight will be over in a few years. Everyone will forget about it. You however will probably watch it again and again and live your life in a complete fantasy world until life will smack you in the head and you'll wake up one day, alone, without anything, because instead of living your life, you watched Twilight, a movie about vampires, that aren't real.
replicaproductions 8 months ago
Do you really want to look back on your life when you're older and remember yourself as someone who's obsessed with a third rate young adult romance series?
PoisonYouth 8 months ago
She really has a lot of time in the world to make videos :O
wspsandgvss 8 months ago
U mad?
WasMilkABadChoice 8 months ago
Gravity makes the world go round.
shawnguku 9 months ago
3:44 - you say twilight is literature. I LOLed at this.
coralmay 9 months ago 16
@coralmay I wish I could thumb this one up thousands of times.
RyuuMakato42 9 months ago
oh come oooon, the reason people make fun of you or bash your opinions is because you fucking react like this, just shut the fuck up and enjoy twilight and let people hate, if they dont physically harm you, just let them fucking hate FFS YOU ANNOY ME SO MUCH GAAAH
nimrodpimrod 9 months ago
1. I've read all the twilight books, and i must say...an utter disgrace. I'm not a "hater", i'm simply stating my opinion.
2. Contradict much?
3.Being "in love" with a fictional character, like you and that person who wrote into the column are, is indeed UNHEALTHY.
4. Calm down before you give yourself a heart attack, or a stroke.
EmoChicky06 9 months ago
You can like whatever you want, but sometimes that something may be keeping you from living your life even if it feels so right. You have absolute right to choose how you want to live your life, but you owe it to yourself to live your life the fullest. And it's pretty clear that you're not: you are very neurotic, you get upset by somebody's opinion too easily and you DO have a need to HURT somebody back because you feel hurt. God bless!
Asagiri91 10 months ago
@ MizzFrizzbe - I don't know you from Adam, why are you sending me nasty messages? I dont believe Ive ever spoken to you at all, why are you calling me a "pathetic troll? Surely a "troll" is someone who spews insults across the internet at folks theve never met? You know - like you are doing to me?
MsBettyBowers 10 months ago
how do you even get to the point of comparing STEPHEN KING to STEPHANIE FUCKIN MEYER?He is waay better than her. You cannot even compare them. It's like comparing justin bieber to like I don't know. Kurt Cobain. jesus fucking.
ArtIzBang 1 year ago
Ya know I only clicked on this because of the video name and already I can tell you this, Obssession of twilight, Yes you do have it from the movies because I doubt you can read, but Unhealthy, yes, you look similar to Jabba the Hut in Starwars Minus the skin color, so I found the name of the video a pit ironic, now that aside, Steven King > Stephanie Meyer. His books have sold over hundreds of millions of copies which is over 10x Stephanie Meyer's books.
KetsuRosataMalnor 1 year ago
I love how this video is one HUGE contradiction.
Stephen King just said she cant write -_- He didn't put down her fans and her personally.
LuigiDude1808 1 year ago
for the record that girl ASKED for advice... And the columnist gave the advice asked for...
xXVanillaBlueXx 1 year ago
I don't understand why Stephen King doesn't get his own opinion. He didn't tell people not to read it, he said literary-wise, it's not that good-which is true. And I thought that even when I was a twilight fan. I just wish fans of these kind of things stopped caring whether people dislike what they like, and just focus on their 'passion' for whatever it is. :) x
made4awesome 1 year ago
Twilight, your audience is invalid.
MrFenixHoffman 1 year ago
Sweetie, can I tell you something?
EDWARD CULLEN IS A FICTIONAL CHARACTER!
TWILIGHT IS A FICTIONAL STORY!
In other words...
IT DOES NOT EXIST!
You're obsessing over a poorly written book and you're very hypocritical. Those are not likeable traits just in case you were wondering.
And then you say everyone is allowed to have to their opinion when you completely overreact to Stephen King's. (Which by the way, was professional)
My God...
Fuck Twilight, Smeyer and the little fans.
23peacelovemusic 1 year ago 5
Oh, so the columnist's feelings don't matter, but the fanbase's feelings do?
ReniWuzHere 1 year ago
You may have sufficently and objectively proven that the more weight you gain, espically to your fat face, the lower your IQ drops! Isn't that fantastical? I'm asking myself how you got to be this stupid. You don't just wake up one morning caked in fat making Piss Poor videos. You have to get their somehow. Were you born a fat, slimy, no class, no taste, rude bitch? Or did you have to work on it? I bet you work at Wal-Mart. You are Wal-Mart material ;) Your Passions include Meyer and FOOD!
ProRanting 1 year ago
you need to seek medical attention you fat stupid wannabe whore
FinalEvilElpis 1 year ago
You on the other hand are obsessed and need to calm the hell down and seek help. It is terrible and sad to see a girl, or a fan obsessing over a fictional character. Like I said before, I love the the stories of the writers I listed, however I don't let that take over my life like Twilight has to you.
AshXXMayftw 1 year ago
Stephen King
J.K Rowlin (sorry if I misspelled the last name)
Rick Riordan
Christopher Pike
All of these authors all write fantastic stories, both fun to read and actually makes you feel for the characters.
Meyers
Her stories are bland and boring, Twilight, the main character Bella is sooooooo unenthusiastic, I know that her life as not been the best, but read Percy Jackson and the Olympians and you will see Percy has a worst life than Bella.
I love these stories, but im not obsessed.
AshXXMayftw 1 year ago 3
@AshXXMayftw
Percy Jackson rules bro, glad you brought it up xD
ClayMastah344 2 months ago
i read Obese yes unhealthy no.
ikhoudvanvlaai 1 year ago
if it hurts you to be told that your book isn't liked by everyone, try being bullied straight for three years and abused by those you trust the most.
get a little perspective, please?
WithAPinchOfSalt 1 year ago 2
From what i can tell, the simple fact you are going off because of what other people think clearly shows that you're just overly obsessed with it. Pretty soon, you'll start to blur reality from the book and it'll really screw with your head.
No one's even saying you should stop liking Twilight, they're merely saying that you should tone down the fangirl attitude. Honestly, just by watching your vids, you clearly throw reason out. Some fans even commit suicide to such books!
KanedaShimazaki 1 year ago 4
@KanedaShimazaki Like you said about fangirl stuff, It's the same with almost everything. But lets not forget the people who do it for things like call of duty. WoW, Ect. It's not just films, It's everything. What is the world coming to that we react like this to fictional stuff, But shit like wars we don't care about?
brandonhud60 1 year ago
I think perhaps the fact the girl wrote to an advice column and asked for help is enough to say that she recognised she had a problem.
What's all the physical business too? Are you aware obsession can be a serious problem? That people get sick and need genuine help for their mental disorders?
I think you're a child. I get what you're trying to say and good of you to stand up for yourself. But this isn't cool. Sort it out.
dybim 1 year ago 2
You really are a foul-mouthed loser aren't you?
Just to make it clear, Twilight is a pathetic invention for little children and Meyer is a talentless joke... although not as much as you are.
Triz1313 1 year ago 5
And this is the main reason/argument for why reading Twilight is actually detrimental becuase the entire series seems to say obsession is okay and quite normal, for example: Bella being obsessed with Edward to the point where she wants to kill herself when he leaves her in New Moon(i think it was that one I don't know as they all are the same imo) and no one around her really acts like this is a bad thing.
Evilmonkey66699 1 year ago 2
I thought it said "obese" instead of "obsessed"... woops >_>
YooSuRaz 1 year ago
And exactly when did Stephen King say that you couldn't have your opinion? When did he call Twilight fans stupid for liking it? When did he even address Twilight fans? Oh, right...he didn't. He stated his opinion about her writing. Once. This video is filled with hypocrisy. You're allowed to have your opinion but King isn't because he dislikes something you like. True, people shouldn't attack you for your opinions but you ARE attacking other people for theirs.
amanda3059 1 year ago 3
Mom: Sweetie, I think you might be a little obsessed.
Hippo: Fuck You!
ScrewAttackJapan 1 year ago
Can you go a whole day without saying 'Twilight' or 'Edward'.
I feel sorry for your friends.
I needed to see professional help for my obsessions because I was becoming... like you. To involved to communicate to people or go a day without saying something about my obsession. Now I have a balanced life and balanced diet.
SilentxStalkerx 1 year ago
I just noticed how much you are generalizing. You obviously haven't been out much enough with the real world to know that a lot of people in the world are passionate about the things they love and are open about that. You don't know that, do you? You only know about the people who are Twitards.
InsertZipCode 1 year ago
You ask why the person has the right to give advice to this obsessed person. Hmm, I wonder, is it possibly because 'Obsessed' wrote in to an advice column? If you write into an advice column, you're giving someone permission to advise you,and you're making it their business.
raxieratface 1 year ago 3
HAHAHAHAHAHHHHAHHAHAHAHAAHHAHAHAHAHAHA.
This made me looooooool.
InsertZipCode 1 year ago
I was going to put a comment about how hypocritical you're acting, how utterly idiotic you are to think that such blatant obsession is all right, etc. until I noticed that more or less everyone commenting on this video has already done so. Anything I could say has already been said, and already ignored; anything I could say would just be ignored like all the rest.
n0oneimportant 1 year ago 3
its not a question of "is the thing im obsessd about WORTH obbessing about"........the point is nothing is good to be obsessed about, because obbession normally leads of unusal or silly decisions .
and after only time can you looks back and think "what was i doing"! because you often dont gain perspective on situaions after its over
SuperYellow1989 1 year ago
Obsessions are NOT okay. Especially if they are unhealthy! I was so obsessed with the Jonas Brothers from when I was 13-15, and it was not healthy at all! I used to get depressed over them, I used to cut myself everyday. I cut myself like, over 100 times. And I still have all the scars. I used to go to a counsellor everyday, crying because people at school would tease me about it, and this was just earlier on this year. I have matured and changed so much since then. :]
itstaylamofos 1 year ago 24
@itstaylamofos Just because you took it too far doesn't mean everyone else will. It's okay to love something as much as she does. I don't like Twilight at all so I'm not sticking up for her but I'm saying that not everyone that loves something this much will start cutting themselves and shit like you did. So you and the 18 people that thumbed you up are retarded.
WednesdayXanaxtasy 5 months ago
Move on love.
ChipChipBreak 1 year ago
Secondly, it IS unhealthy not to love real men because they don't match up to a fictional one. If you think that's normal, you're seriously fucked up. Just because no REAL man will touch you (not that Edward would either, if he existed...) doesn't mean they're not worth women's time. Lastly, Stephen King (or anyone, for that matter) can say whatever the fuck he wants about whoever the fuck he wants. It's called freedom of speech. If you have a problem with it, move to China.
nicolebmoviesFTW 1 year ago 15
I noticed how you haven't left ANY responses to all the comments that were left here, even though you usually do. I guess that's because, for once, you actually have sense enough to know how STUPID you are. First off, the helper NEVER said the woman couldn't like Twilight. And she didn't say "seek help" in an insulting, insistant way. She said that if the woman really felt so bad about falling in love with a fictional character, she should see someone. THERE'S A DIFFERENCE.
nicolebmoviesFTW 1 year ago 3
Such a hypocrite aren't you? How can you say that everyone's entitled to an opinion, and then when a professional advises a girl to seek professional help, she's 'wrong'? You know what, you aren't doing yourself any favours; Stephen King can say what the fuck he wants, as can the rest of the world. Just because an opinion on something you obsess over upsets you doesn't mean it shouldn't be said. Grow up, and think your arguments through before shouting them.
elliebumification 1 year ago 4
So you're saying that nobody should care about other people. If I see somebody making the wrong decisions, I shouldn't try to stop them because it isn't doing any harm to me. Thanks for the advice.
xxSmiLeAgaiNxx 1 year ago
learn to take criticism you fat ignorant cunt
Cainstennett 1 year ago
You're right, it's not wrong to have a passion. But what you do out of that passion is important. A good example for Youtubers: Katie Puckrik.She'spassionate about perfumes and posts great, helpful reviews, sharing her knowledge with us. There are MANY people who disagree with her opinion and even hate perfumes. And yet, I don't see her posting videos shouting,swearing, or throwing an indecent tantrum for the whole world to see. Look at what this obsession has done to you...yeah you DO need help
LittleSeta 1 year ago 4
Not hurting anybody else.
Don't you count your parents in that?
TaylorKinsley 1 year ago
Fuck ME? Fuck YOU, you stupid fat cunt. Get over this obsession with Twilight. If people are telling you it's not healthy then it probably isn't and you need to fucking seek a counselor. Amy was just trying to help her. There are thousands of counts where fans like you get obsessed and even suicidally depressed over these books. I know a few people like that myself. Stop trying to force your opinion on us and stop being a hypocrite. I have half a mind to introduce you to Tosh.0.
HaakuChan 1 year ago
Obsession is very unhealthy. There's a difference between passion and obsession. Obsession is a destructive mentality that can hinder a person in real life, it interferes with reality. And another thing, you think so long as it doesn't hurt you personally it's fine? if a person is doing something or thinking something that is destructive to themselves, they need outside help.
stealthpanther 1 year ago 3
How dare people tell people not to like Twilight? How dare you to tell people what they should and shouldn't do. The girl who wrote in is obviously in need of some sort of help. While she's allowed to love whatever she wants, she's blurring fiction with reality and that damages the mind. She's not physically hurting herself, but she is emotionally stunting her growth by trying to find a man that resembles Edward Cullen or whoever is in the book. Men are not really like that. I'm sorry, [c]
Happymeyer 1 year ago 4
but that is unhealthy mentally for the person. She asked for help, she got an answer, what more do you want? As for you, you appear to not understand how the real world functions. The world is full of people who will hate, and all you're doing is turning around and perpetuating the hate instead of being mature and simply saying "I'll respect your opinion even if I don't agree with it." You go on and on about tolerance, but show none. Grow up.
Happymeyer 1 year ago 4
being obsessed IS unhealthy, get over it.
daisyhinojosa23 1 year ago
I agree, Your amazing :D!
xxxx
BethsLyriics 1 year ago
Hey fat cow, isn't this what you said about stephen king? Shut your face nobody cares what a pig like you thinks
RenaRyuguChan 1 year ago
Are you aware that you compleatly contadicted yourself in your rant? First you bash Stephen King for having an opinion, than later you say "everyone is entiltled to their opinion." So, I'm confused, everyone exept Stephen King, Or everyone as long as they like Twilight? In other words everyone is entitled to their opinion as long as you agree with it? How childish.
bauer3924 1 year ago 53
@bauer3924 And also Stephine bashed the wicked lovely series was stupid but the cover was good.
TheBubbleBathMonster 1 year ago
right, Twihards comment on Twilight hate videos the same was Twihaters do on Twilight fan videos. It is JUST expressing your opinion. Freedom of speech. It's what you have. EVERYONE HAS IT. We can explain our opinion, even if it is negative. Everyone's opinion is valid, even if you disagree with it.
OnlyXInXWonderland 1 year ago
Okay, you can love a fictional character TO AN EXTANT. For me, I have an obsession with Harry Potter and I am in love with Draco Malfoy. But does that mean I think of him all the time, turn down any guys because it's not him? NO. Therefore, you do need fictional help if you literally can not stop thinking about a character to the point it makes you unable to concentrate. Also, STEPHEN KING GAVE HIS OPINION LIKE YOU GIVE YOURS. Same goes for Twilight haters. And, while two wrongs don't make a
OnlyXInXWonderland 1 year ago
Whoops. I thought it said "Obese? Yes. Unhealthy? No" and I was like WTF.
ryry20002 1 year ago
There is a difference between being a FAN and being OBSESSED. Obsession is a real menatal disorder! Being a fan is just all fun. That girl seeked help, so obviously she understands this, and I have no idea why you don't. Oh that's right, you' ve proved that you have the mental capacity of a seven year old. I am a fan of twilight, and I am not obsessed with the series. I can even accept that there are books and movies out there that are far superior to twilight. (Team Harry Potter anyone?)
DimSimToughBitch 1 year ago