Regarding your series on female orgasm, I hope you include some comments (maybe even adivce) on women who are anorgasmic. I've always found it rather irritating and have never been sure if low-dose testosterone therapy or whatever is actually a good idea, or whether I should just 'try harder' so to speak. Just hoping you don't overlook that (I doubt you would of course, I'm sure oyu know your stuff).
@ttaz4dqm Don't be too influenced by the stereotypes Hollywood put out, Europe isn't such as sex mad and diverse place as it's portayed to be, likewise, I don't really believe the uS as a nation is as prudish as hollywood suggests. If it was, kicesie would have hardly any american fans lol
@kicesie It's definitely great you exist and do this particular type of content. You're the Dr. Ruth for this generation. Thank you for being a part of the future of digital media.
man i have been following you since you started on Youtube we even emailed back and forth a few times! glad to see you back on youtube and please i know your busy but make more videos cause your videos helped me get through my awkward stages of teenage years!
@OneLousyShot I have a BS in Psychology with an emphasis in human sexuality and am close to enough intern hours to qualify as a Sex Educator through ASSECT. But that doesn't really matter because there ARE no requirements/qualifications to be a life coach, a sexuality coach, etc, etc.... People can watch my videos, (and more importantly) interact with me on Facebook, and decide whether they way to go through this process with me.
You guys are being overwhelmingly kind in your 'welcome back!'-ness!!! It reminds me to ignore stupidity and that real friendly viewers do still exist!! <3
@blink182gurl7 Kicesie has a great video called "Advanced Sex Ed-Female Orgasm Disorders" where she gives some pointers on how to try to overcome issues such as this. I have this same issue and actually came to the conclusion that I don't have a vaginal "g-spot". I still haven't been able to reach an orgasm with just intercourse alone but I find using a little "bullet" style vibrator during sex helps. Be upfront with your partner about it and try to find a way that works for both of you.
@xokellie8228ox I talk to my good friend about his childhood and mine and we relate and I like to think that we both help each other. But you seem to be saying that I shouldn't unless Im certified. That scared type of thinking is what will hold you back from progress. And it seems to be what she is trying to do to help people who are either to scared or frigid to help themselves. Some people will always try and find a negative point. I could be hurt crossing the rd. Should I just stay inside?
On the subject of female orgasms, would love to hear all the spots that can bring a woman to orgasm, apparently there is a G-spot, A-Spot and a Deep spot?
Yes finally a woman who'll help us guys with getting a woman to achieve an orgasm. Tired of women i've dated just not saying anything when it comes to that. If we're asking ladies it's cause we want to know and have you keep coming back for more.
I imagine something a lot of women (and men!) are curious about is the differences between certain types of orgasms and how to achieve them. Clitoral and vaginal/gspot orgasms are of course the most well known, but what about anal or breast orgasm, if such things can be covered?
Ahh, you're a coach, not a counselor, good to know. You just sound like you'd be a good therapist is all (from a guy currently in therapy, and not entirely satisfied with it either). So strictly a sex coach, got it.
Nope, not nail polish. Band aid? That looks like it hurt. Car door maybe? Ouchy. I've only watched a couple of your vids, but I'm glad someone is talking seriously about sex. I'm sure you get your fair share of weirdos, but I bet you're helping lots of people too. Are you a full time counselor? Hey all, if you're reading this and need/want help (and have the $), look into this, Kicesie seems really professional. Much love everyone!
@130rne I'm not a counselor. This is coaching, NOT therapy! And yeah, I had a huge cut on that finger. but two fingers had blue nail polish chipped to hell.
(continued) or you can dig up some serious issues that, the person had. If you are not a certified mental health counselor or a therapist you shouldn't be discussing the person past & personal history. These issues & problems can b discussed w/ therapists if need be. & I don't believe they are "clients" Because I don't believe you are a certified therapist or have a degree in this field. (I may b wrong). I just feel like u could potentially do harm to some ppl if u don't fully understand the per
@xokellie8228ox The laws clearly allow for coaching. To get any progress, their past must be understood. I am ready and willing to find local resources for any client that needs _professional_ help. They are NOT patients. They are clients. That is a huge distinction. I have consulted with other life coaches and sexuality coaches on this issue and moved forward with these policies and languages accordingly.
@xokellie8228ox I have a BS in psychology and many years of personal therapy (this is not a qualification I'm issuing, it's simply to say) thus I'm aware that discussing certain things brings up powerful emotions.
Your concern is noted. If you are a psychologist I'd be happy to discuss this issue through youtube messaging.
But I'm confused/worried that you're issuing a blanketed statement that coaching (life or sex) should never be done. And I find that upsetting to say the least!!!
Just my opinion: You say that you are coaching people NOT counseling them through their sexual issues but really I believe that in a way you are counseling them. In your gudelines/info you state that this is a program and you say that you will discuss the "clients" past & help them understand it & how it affects them now in the present & into the future. You have to be careful when you are going into the "past" of a "client" The Customer can relive traumas that have occured to them or
When my girlfriend and I are being intimate mainly when I am stimulating her G-spot she begins "to lose the mood" after about 1-2 minutes , should I be worried and is there anything I can do to keep this from happening?
Welcome Back. I think it's a great idea to help people on a one-on-one basis. You have a lot of great insight, and you a very personal, non-embarrassing way of talking about sex. I don't need individual help, but I hope you will still make videos for the rest of your fans. Please don't give up on the non-paying people who have followed you for a long time. Thanks, and good luck in your new venture!
@MrBklein31 I'm very active over on Facebook if you want a more consistent interaction. And as I said in this video, I'm about to create a whole series. But the number of videos I continue to create may be limited (or I may make more and more!)... Time will soon tell.
I remember when you first started these videos back with your rainbow socks... honestly I have to say the ring on your finger ruins the whole experience for me because the main reason I watched you then was a fantasy infatuation. regardless, I'm sure you'll do well in this series. good luck and have fun! Cheers.
@DJFMasters3 Rainbow socks were introduced YEARS into my youtube career. And I've been with my husband since I began youtubing. I've never been available. I'll never BE available.... Something about that part of your comment, I found insulting. I'm not here to entice or create a fantasy. I'm here to provide fun and accurate sexuality information.
@the12221 If someone is being genuine about the issues they need help with an we assess that I'm not qualified to help, I will try to find someone in their area who can help (give them some references) and of course their payment will be refunded. However, if after many sessions, the individual decides they aren't 'getting better'... then it's likely the result of them not following our action plan, doing the homework, etc. And just like any other coach, I wouldn't refund at that point.
@the12221 And regarding the weirdos, the application should help to weed out most of them. But if someone is bent on being disgusting and/or inappropriate, the session ends (as the policies state) and a refund is not given.
I want a girlfriend but I panic when there are 'potential mates' around. Can you help me? Yes? No? Maybe?
Leo28C 4 weeks ago 4
Your return has been long overdue! Glad to see you back!
TheGreatDragon67 4 weeks ago 6
Great to have you back, we need your guidance !
wt9wu 4 weeks ago
Yay! Glad to see you back kicesie!
wjmcfaull 4 weeks ago
I just wanna know why it takes so long for women to get there.
And where you've been. Lol.
agentx3 4 weeks ago 2
welcome back. it was really great seeing you making your vids again.
May the Lord continue to bless you and your family.
XenMasters 4 weeks ago
Welcome back! Great to see you're still making videos! :)
HaleyMary 4 weeks ago 3
Regarding your series on female orgasm, I hope you include some comments (maybe even adivce) on women who are anorgasmic. I've always found it rather irritating and have never been sure if low-dose testosterone therapy or whatever is actually a good idea, or whether I should just 'try harder' so to speak. Just hoping you don't overlook that (I doubt you would of course, I'm sure oyu know your stuff).
ghotay3 4 weeks ago 2
Looking forward to the series!
Ryansarcade9 4 weeks ago
U are so beautiful. I swear I'm in love :)
hlover1 4 weeks ago
Been a while since I've seen a new video
Djninja97 4 weeks ago
welcome back we missed you friend. looking amazing.
seaquest2011 4 weeks ago
Awesome plan !!! Great idea to share for all of us. Way un-discussed important topic .
caverly 4 weeks ago
will the male orgasm get 4 parts?
Destro7000 4 weeks ago
EEEE!!! :D WELCOME BACK!
Is it possible to do anything on guys as well?
Sparrowarah 4 weeks ago
too much purple!!
DJCAMMYCLAP 1 month ago
COOL
chats0 1 month ago
@kicesie which part is the clitoris??
boobiesnbooties 1 month ago
Love how u did your hair. Its an exciting look for u.
prosperious 1 month ago
You should do a video on Americans and why we're so repressed as a nation. Men and women alike. The USA is totally BORKED sexually...
ttaz4dqm 1 month ago
@ttaz4dqm Don't be too influenced by the stereotypes Hollywood put out, Europe isn't such as sex mad and diverse place as it's portayed to be, likewise, I don't really believe the uS as a nation is as prudish as hollywood suggests. If it was, kicesie would have hardly any american fans lol
82nickbrad 1 month ago
Total welcome back! You're still awesome. Cheers and happy new year.
delyjeff 1 month ago
mmmm yeah u would be a great sex coach
BestTits 1 month ago
nice nice
kameme2 1 month ago
seriously...
yokehuatgoh 1 month ago
When did i subscribed to this?
Kasador900 1 month ago
Yeay your back woohoo
britishshock 1 month ago
All I have to say is ... Purple!
lala123too 1 month ago
@kicesie It's definitely great you exist and do this particular type of content. You're the Dr. Ruth for this generation. Thank you for being a part of the future of digital media.
BosleyBeats 1 month ago
man i have been following you since you started on Youtube we even emailed back and forth a few times! glad to see you back on youtube and please i know your busy but make more videos cause your videos helped me get through my awkward stages of teenage years!
kappaThetaPsiSC 1 month ago
Welcome back! Great idea! Hope you are able to help some people. I saw a sex coach on that show "Taboo", but she was 60 something years old. I
Cslacko 1 month ago
What are your qualifications to give advice on these matters??
OneLousyShot 1 month ago
@OneLousyShot I have a BS in Psychology with an emphasis in human sexuality and am close to enough intern hours to qualify as a Sex Educator through ASSECT. But that doesn't really matter because there ARE no requirements/qualifications to be a life coach, a sexuality coach, etc, etc.... People can watch my videos, (and more importantly) interact with me on Facebook, and decide whether they way to go through this process with me.
kicesie 4 weeks ago 30
You guys are being overwhelmingly kind in your 'welcome back!'-ness!!! It reminds me to ignore stupidity and that real friendly viewers do still exist!! <3
kicesie 1 month ago 40
@kicesie welcome back then <3
JayTie1 1 month ago
I am curious about reaching orgasm through sexual intercourse, and not just through clitoral stimulation. I've only reached orgasm through clitoral.
blink182gurl7 1 month ago
@blink182gurl7 Kicesie has a great video called "Advanced Sex Ed-Female Orgasm Disorders" where she gives some pointers on how to try to overcome issues such as this. I have this same issue and actually came to the conclusion that I don't have a vaginal "g-spot". I still haven't been able to reach an orgasm with just intercourse alone but I find using a little "bullet" style vibrator during sex helps. Be upfront with your partner about it and try to find a way that works for both of you.
MsMisfits 1 month ago
The first card of a tarot deck is card 0 the fool, because all endeavors, if they're worthwhile begin with a fools step, into the new and unknown.
russcramer80 1 month ago
@xokellie8228ox I talk to my good friend about his childhood and mine and we relate and I like to think that we both help each other. But you seem to be saying that I shouldn't unless Im certified. That scared type of thinking is what will hold you back from progress. And it seems to be what she is trying to do to help people who are either to scared or frigid to help themselves. Some people will always try and find a negative point. I could be hurt crossing the rd. Should I just stay inside?
russcramer80 1 month ago
Ah sex is so uncomfortable. This is so uncomfortable
super0star0material 1 month ago
I remember you. Your hair is different.
Xenu 1 month ago
You better not just be teasing Kicesie.... You better put out with those orgasm vids...
EyeOnTheTV 1 month ago
U look different
ipattar 1 month ago
So nice to see you again! You are wonderful! The world could use more people like you! Please stay amazing <3
Saavik256 1 month ago
@Soldi3rGaming Actually. 3rd
nomercey999 1 month ago
I think this will eventually be useful considering I'm a virgin.
AndrewGilmore1986 1 month ago
nice nice i will see u very soon
kameme2 1 month ago
So good to see you back here Kicesie!♥ To me, mutual simultaneous orgasms occur about as often as midair airliner collisions! Luv, Wilyum
SuperWilyum 1 month ago
Great to see U again. Love how you present the information. One of the if not the best channels.
Besides you are one of the most beautiful ladies on YouTube.
cbarsonfire 1 month ago
Everytime I see you I think of sex. You're so sexy!
powerofultra 1 month ago
I love Kicesie and I love Laci Green. I hope maybe they can get together and colaberate. Both are great spokeswomen for sexual health.
macchef01 1 month ago
On the subject of female orgasms, would love to hear all the spots that can bring a woman to orgasm, apparently there is a G-spot, A-Spot and a Deep spot?
53531640 1 month ago
@53531640 and many more, my friend :D
thesm1l3y 1 month ago
Scottie the hottie from blogtv here Miss you ....Oh isn't time for a baby Kicesie?
Fastgt2003 1 month ago
Yes finally a woman who'll help us guys with getting a woman to achieve an orgasm. Tired of women i've dated just not saying anything when it comes to that. If we're asking ladies it's cause we want to know and have you keep coming back for more.
wcoleman99 1 month ago
Does this mean this coaching meen we have too meet?
rollingcube 1 month ago
I imagine something a lot of women (and men!) are curious about is the differences between certain types of orgasms and how to achieve them. Clitoral and vaginal/gspot orgasms are of course the most well known, but what about anal or breast orgasm, if such things can be covered?
Jackcabbit 1 month ago
female orgasm sounds interesting.
cortes1988 1 month ago
I really love the purple! It looks great on u!
BUSTER246 1 month ago
Ahh, you're a coach, not a counselor, good to know. You just sound like you'd be a good therapist is all (from a guy currently in therapy, and not entirely satisfied with it either). So strictly a sex coach, got it.
130rne 1 month ago
I forgot you existed. Glad you're back. :) Welcome to ugly Youtube: where you get paid to be on this ugly-looking new version of Youtube. ENJOY!
5my9other93half 1 month ago
It's good to see you back on youtube!!
Looking forward to learning more from you.
STIHLSEAN 1 month ago
Nope, not nail polish. Band aid? That looks like it hurt. Car door maybe? Ouchy. I've only watched a couple of your vids, but I'm glad someone is talking seriously about sex. I'm sure you get your fair share of weirdos, but I bet you're helping lots of people too. Are you a full time counselor? Hey all, if you're reading this and need/want help (and have the $), look into this, Kicesie seems really professional. Much love everyone!
130rne 1 month ago
@130rne I'm not a counselor. This is coaching, NOT therapy! And yeah, I had a huge cut on that finger. but two fingers had blue nail polish chipped to hell.
kicesie 1 month ago
I live to give females orgasims i love the feeling that I handle my job in bed. :)
323RatedR 1 month ago
Heyy can u inbox Me I really need some advice on sex.
11NewKidd 1 month ago
@11NewKidd Please either ask your question here formspring(DOT)me/kicesie or message me on youtube here for coaching sessions.
kicesie 1 month ago
(continued) or you can dig up some serious issues that, the person had. If you are not a certified mental health counselor or a therapist you shouldn't be discussing the person past & personal history. These issues & problems can b discussed w/ therapists if need be. & I don't believe they are "clients" Because I don't believe you are a certified therapist or have a degree in this field. (I may b wrong). I just feel like u could potentially do harm to some ppl if u don't fully understand the per
xokellie8228ox 1 month ago
@xokellie8228ox The laws clearly allow for coaching. To get any progress, their past must be understood. I am ready and willing to find local resources for any client that needs _professional_ help. They are NOT patients. They are clients. That is a huge distinction. I have consulted with other life coaches and sexuality coaches on this issue and moved forward with these policies and languages accordingly.
kicesie 1 month ago
@xokellie8228ox I have a BS in psychology and many years of personal therapy (this is not a qualification I'm issuing, it's simply to say) thus I'm aware that discussing certain things brings up powerful emotions.
Your concern is noted. If you are a psychologist I'd be happy to discuss this issue through youtube messaging.
But I'm confused/worried that you're issuing a blanketed statement that coaching (life or sex) should never be done. And I find that upsetting to say the least!!!
kicesie 1 month ago
Just my opinion: You say that you are coaching people NOT counseling them through their sexual issues but really I believe that in a way you are counseling them. In your gudelines/info you state that this is a program and you say that you will discuss the "clients" past & help them understand it & how it affects them now in the present & into the future. You have to be careful when you are going into the "past" of a "client" The Customer can relive traumas that have occured to them or
xokellie8228ox 1 month ago
When my girlfriend and I are being intimate mainly when I am stimulating her G-spot she begins "to lose the mood" after about 1-2 minutes , should I be worried and is there anything I can do to keep this from happening?
Solen17 1 month ago
oh my god I randomy see this video first! or well allmost
MrHakeboy 1 month ago
@MrHakeboy ?
kicesie 1 month ago 3
for a girl what does the female orgasm feel like because me and my gf are unsure when she has actually orgasmed
uk2008uk 1 month ago
christ did you know you were the first person i subscribed to?
no regrets
zayn2123 1 month ago
stunned and surprised to c u!! how is ur cat btw ??
mizalta 1 month ago 3
@mizalta She's great! She made an appearance on BlogTV the other night. :)
kicesie 1 month ago
@kicesie @mizalta when you guys say cat is it an actual cat or is it a metaphor???
brayo1xtra 1 month ago
Welcome Back. I think it's a great idea to help people on a one-on-one basis. You have a lot of great insight, and you a very personal, non-embarrassing way of talking about sex. I don't need individual help, but I hope you will still make videos for the rest of your fans. Please don't give up on the non-paying people who have followed you for a long time. Thanks, and good luck in your new venture!
MrBklein31 1 month ago
@MrBklein31 I'm very active over on Facebook if you want a more consistent interaction. And as I said in this video, I'm about to create a whole series. But the number of videos I continue to create may be limited (or I may make more and more!)... Time will soon tell.
kicesie 1 month ago
@kicesie first i think you need me to help pick up the ladies.
gojenson 1 month ago
I remember when you first started these videos back with your rainbow socks... honestly I have to say the ring on your finger ruins the whole experience for me because the main reason I watched you then was a fantasy infatuation. regardless, I'm sure you'll do well in this series. good luck and have fun! Cheers.
DJFMasters3 1 month ago 5
@DJFMasters3 Rainbow socks were introduced YEARS into my youtube career. And I've been with my husband since I began youtubing. I've never been available. I'll never BE available.... Something about that part of your comment, I found insulting. I'm not here to entice or create a fantasy. I'm here to provide fun and accurate sexuality information.
kicesie 1 month ago 13
@kicesie i am glad your back :)
scottblanch 1 month ago
10th
Hrykill98 1 month ago
sounds interesting , welcome back
jsweet83 1 month ago
Can't wait to hear your input on these issues. I am learned a lot from you and I will be interested in hearing what you have to say. <3
TribalFaerie 1 month ago
Sounds like a great idea I am all for it
psementalist 1 month ago
Welcome back..
Merlin8157 1 month ago
1st
canderson2750 1 month ago
2 things
You realize hat you are going to chat with a lot of weirdos right?
and
what if you cant help that person?
will they still have to pay?
the12221 1 month ago 3
@the12221 If someone is being genuine about the issues they need help with an we assess that I'm not qualified to help, I will try to find someone in their area who can help (give them some references) and of course their payment will be refunded. However, if after many sessions, the individual decides they aren't 'getting better'... then it's likely the result of them not following our action plan, doing the homework, etc. And just like any other coach, I wouldn't refund at that point.
kicesie 1 month ago
@the12221 And regarding the weirdos, the application should help to weed out most of them. But if someone is bent on being disgusting and/or inappropriate, the session ends (as the policies state) and a refund is not given.
kicesie 1 month ago
I remember I subscribed to u back when I was 10 .. now I'm 60
salemyou 1 month ago 78
@salemyou lol, not quite THAT long since I started making videos... ;-) But it has been a long time that I've been on youtube.
kicesie 1 month ago
@salemyou um no way in hell shes 50 ... sorry
Ionlylookcute1 1 month ago
@Ionlylookcute1 um no way in hell she was 1 when I subscribed to her .. dude I'm only joking :-/
salemyou 1 month ago
First
ytWatchhound 1 month ago
1st
howej004 1 month ago
i giggled like a school boy watching this XD
Tonkpils6969 1 month ago
new video :D
illusionFTW 1 month ago
What an interesting video to start off as a new subscriber, lolz.
VideoGamesEpic 1 month ago
O.o
Arg0s137 1 month ago
Kicesie's back! ^_^
GoNoAMMo 1 month ago 38
1st
Soldi3rGaming 1 month ago
great advice
THEPARODYCHANNEL12 1 month ago
SEX! I like.
Gebruikersnaam10001 1 month ago