My dear sister,you're so precious because your mind and heart are challenging you to learn and understand what's really true about the world we live in. The real rulers of our world cannot allow peace and harmony. It would destroy their control over the majority of the world's people, wealth and natural resources. The weapon they continuously use to conquer is simply, "Divide and conquer" by any means necessary. Its worked for centures ! Research further, you'll learn, everyone isn't human !!!
lol "condescend" is a verb and "condescending" is an adjective as well as the progressive form of the verb, so.... Believe me, look it up if you must. And you can call me anything you want, that's on you, not me. Thanks for the apology, but it's really whatever.
@MIXooNooMATCH Univ. of Pitts, nice and congratulations. I know I'm months late on that, lol. Hey listen, don't get too caught up in vids cause your educational gig is obviously more important. However, I do agree with you when you say that race is relevant and I would be living in a fairyland if I didn't think so. It takes so much inner strength to preserve the heart and mindset that you have about race because we all know the world isn't such a nice place at times.
@calsonick hahaha well THANKS SO MUCH for CONDESCENDING to give me another "chance." I really do appreciate the sentiment, don't get me wrong, but I will be honest: it really makes no difference what you think. Who are you? Exactly.
SISTER U MUST READ THE ISIS PAPERS by DR. FRANCIS CRESS WELSING. AND DEFINITIONS BASED ON POLITICAL ORIENTATIONS TEND NOT TO BE RECONCILED TO REALITY. THE TRUTH IS OUT THERE.
If people on youtube only commented on things they could prove, youtube would be a pale shadow of what it is. Look around you Mix, everyones got an opinion. Why should I remain silent just because mines differs from yours? If you make a video and put it out there you must expect to get a little opposition. To me my experience is worth more than all the gold and diamonds in the world as im sure yours are to you. You cant place value on me.
Yes I am self serving but I have a right to be. Black people have been thoroughly abused over the centuries. As a result our natural development has been derailed. The remnants of this abuse still lingers to this day. I dont think there is anything wrong with black people trying to undo some of the damage caused by this abuse. We just have completely different ideas about what the abuse is and how it can be undone.
All too many biracial people seem to make videos under some guise to make the world a better place but these videos almost always focus of interracial relationships. Why is that? If you want the world to be a better place how about making videos about poverty, global warming, nuclear disarmament, orphans, child abuse, child slavery, animal abuse, capital punishment, taxation, nursing care, euthanasia the list is endless really.
Race may be one of many factors which differentiate individuals but it is a major one. Is barrack Obama different because of his policies, name or his racial mix? You will experience a completely different world simply because of you skin tone. You cant expect to debate certain issues you havent experienced fully.
My truth isnt necessarily your truth, this doesnt mean that mines is any less valid. The truth from my point of view is that I believe that the history of slavery, the image of ghetto thugs, the media portrayals of black men and women as dysfunctional,
the high black incarceration rate cause by stench of slavery and prejudice, the media bombardment of white is right and black is cack and a whole host of other issues are responsible for the overwhelming majority of interracial relationships between black and white.
Of course from your point of view, your mom and dad just love each other and have so much in common. But to me it isnt very obvious that a black African woman from a poor country would naturally had many things in common with a white european male from a country legendary for its over indulgent lifestyle. They defiantly cant have the same out look on life!
I only told that story to explain why some people may not believe everything that video posters say. Particularly when it is in conflict with everything else we see feel and sense. You can learn a lot from peoples mannerisms, speech patterns, posters, decorations ornaments etc. If we use you as an example. Your dad is white and mom is black but married to a white man.
You live in a white suburb and go to a majority white school it wouldnt be surprising if you were into white guys more because you are surrounded by them but you say youre more into black guys, why? You dont seem to have many around you.
When you put it like that it does sound very offensive and I am sorry for that. But many people black, white and biracial would be only to please to say this in a very direct way. Particularly as your mom is from Africa people will question the validity of your parents relationship more than if you mom was African American. This is something that you are just going to have to accept.
I agree that many aspects of society need to be changed. but what aspects? The difference in our gender, race, background, experience and out look on life means that we would tackle this problem from completely opposite ends.
This is going to sound really racist but any video that is pro interracial is saying enter into IR for all the wrong reasons particularly those made by biracial people. If two people are meant to be together they dont need videos or support to pair up it will happen naturally. All these videos are a little too forced for me to ignore. Who is supposed to benefit from them society or certain individuals.
MIXooNooMATCH you noticed the biracial kids because you are biracial. It is natural for us to notice our own kind. Society screws with this instinct by placing certain groups ahead of the pack. You love seeing people in interracial relationships because you like to see more of your own kind. I like see black people in relationships because Id like to see more of my own kind. Surely this isnt that difficult a concept to understand?
And you call me "self serving"? You, who cannot seem to grasp the idea that an individual might actually be concerned with the welfare of someone who DOESN'T LOOK JUST LIKE THEM!
I don't care to see more biracial people; I don't support IRs for the "end re-product" (i.e. the proliferation of biracial offspring), I support them for the message that they send (though I don't think anyone should be in an IR strictly to send a message): it is GREAT to find love based on factors OTHER than color.
The reason why biracial like you are getting more opposition from black people like me is because black people are starting to realise that your actions are more self serving than any desire to bring the world together.
MIXooNooMATCH You may think I am coping out but I am only telling the truth as I understand it. I have many white friends and we are similar in may ways but we unalike in many ways too. I had one white friend tell me that racism doesnt exist any more! Dont underestimate the different perceptions we all experience. Even if whites call you black you being biracial experience life completely differently from a dark skinned black person. People interact with you in a totally different way.
"the truth as I understand it." i.e. open to interpretation. But the truth, by nature, isn't open to interpretation at all, it simply IS.
"People interact with you in a totally different way." And people interact with me in a totally different way than they might interact with another biracial person. Race is only one of MANY factors which differentiate one individual from another.
MIXooNooMATCH why are you trying to tell me that a black man can look just a sexy as a white man? What makes you think that I dont know this. It is because of the image of black man as a sexual power house that there are so many biracial children. You must acknowledge the most interracial relationships are between black men and white women.
I'm not trying to convince you that black men are sexy. I was simply expressing my personal opinion on black men. Some may not agree, and you may not care, but it is what it is.
It isnt any of my business whether you are attracted to black men or not. Before I even had an account. I followed a debate between a black guy and a biracial girl on youtube. The guy accused the girl was lying about dating a black guy for eight years. She denied this. The black guy then pointed out a picture she had posted in a video montage.
The picture was of her passionately kissing a white guy with ginger hair and the time stamp and the picture was at that time six months earlier! She deleted his comment, blocked him and removed the video.
People often say things to make themselves seem like they arent being hypocritical.
HAHAHA... are you serious?! Is this supposed to make a difference to me? Does this story change the fact that I'm NOT lying? NO. It doesn't. Lame defense...
MIXooNooMATCH I do know the difference between belief and fact. It is impossible for me to know everyones circumstances so I have to make comments based on what I think is most probable not on what is possible. Experiences and an understanding of people helps me to weigh the pros and cons of what is most likely to be the case.
These possibilities that you deny apply to you parents, could it be that you might be a little bias?
Or, you dont have to say anything. A respectful person would withhold their comments until after theyve learned all the facts. An opinion based on nothing but your own experiences isnt worth much, especially when that opinion concerns others besides yourself. You can have all the opinions in the world, but dont tell me your opinion on ME and expect me to accept it as fair and true, because I KNOW a bit more about myself than you BELIEVE you know about me.
MIXooNooMATCH you and I may reject media racist propaganda but others dont and this is where the problem lies. If society left people to come to there own conclusions about perspective partners you would probably be disappointed with the results.
You implied that I am a product of "media racist propaganda", that I have somehow accepted this "media racist propaganda."
"If society left people to come to there own conclusions about perspective partners you would probably be disappointed with the results." Yeah, if societal ideals all of a sudden dropped off the face of the earth, maybe, because it wouldn't take the hundreds of years of commonly accepted racism with it. So WE have to CHANGE society, that's the issue.
I dont have a problem with biracial people. I dont even have a problem with interracial relationships if they are for the right reasons. Youre being defensive now MixooNooMATCH. Not all black people are anti biracial. The problems only arise when people are dishonest about their motives.
And what about me or this video screams "Enter into IRs for all the wrong reasons!!!" I have never advocated entering into ANY relationship, let alone an IR, for the wrong reasons, yet you assume that because I support (I don't necessarily prefer) IRs that I must only support the "bad" ones. No.
MIXooNooMATCH some germans over compensate because of the history of Nazi germany but I wouldnt go so far as to say that IR are pretty acceptable, they arent even pretty acceptable here. Being the chid of IR parents you should know this more than me.
If this biracial loving black person has self love, a love for their heritage and background then it should be natural for them to have a desire for their children to reflect a pride in their race. You wouldnt expect a fiercely patriotic German to have a half Chinese child nor would you expect a nationalistic Japanese man you have a half Swiss child
There's a difference between race and nationality. In fact, in Germany, IRs are pretty acceptable, even approved of. Now, if a person bases their patriotism on race, that may not be the case, but patriotism really isn't a racial thing at all. Does my race make me any less of an American? Maybe by some people's standards, but those people are all mixed up.
but strangely enough everyone thinks it can only be a good thing for black people to have children who are mixed with some other race. This is the old racist notion the attitude that black can only be enhanced by adding any non black to its mix.
I'm not everyone. I don't advocate having children based on their consequent race. I don't advocate dating anyone based on their ability to give you children you deem as "cute". No, in fact, that's you!
true statement but other race of people don't just put this on us we do it to ourselves with the whole good hair light skin is better and oh yeah i got indian in my family like being black is not good enough
Its obvious that you are not aware of the constant barrage of black is ugly, black is worthless, black is sub human and black is evil from the media and society in general. The black person in this example would most likely be suffering the effects of thinking that black is no good and would be trying to annialate the black genes in their children.
It's obvious that you know nothing about me. You assume that because I say that I don't subscribe to that mentality, that I must not be conscious of its existence at all. Have you ever thought that I might be aware of it, and that I might simply reject it? Of course not! Because then you would actually have no real argument with me, and that can't possibly be the case, cuz I'm biracial, and you have a problem with ALL biracial people on principle!!!
I know of black people like that in my personal life. these people would be mortified if their mixed child ever brought home a black partner. They would consider this as undoing all their hard work of disposing of the black genes.
lol paul mooney actually touch on this by saying the light skin would date inside their family just to keep the baby light skin. I was a little puzzled by that because both my parents are light but i'm dark. lol it still was funny
I am not against interracial relationship by and large, but I believe that most of them are a result of self loathing, a lack of self pride or a desire to climb up the social ladder. There are so many black people in interracial relationship making video on youtube criticising the black community. So we can see that they would never dream of having a child with a black person.
I agree with you there are alot of people of african decent men and women who date outside their race because of that. but I also agree with mixooo because you can't help who you love so it's always going to be two different type of people the good and the bad
In your first video you pointed out your parents background. This is exactly the kind of thing that I am talking about. You mum likes white culture and you dad likes African culture. Could be possible that your dad obsesses over black women? Could it be possible that you mother likes the privilege that comes from being with a Caucasian man?
My "mum" likes her culture, the Igbo culture. Who said anything about her liking white culture? Don't put those words in my mouth. As for my dad, he likes all different kinds of cultures, African cultures (music especially) happening to be his favorites.
I suppose those are possibilities, but here's the distinction; whereas you ASSUME that those are the ONLY possibilities in respect to IRs, I understand that those are only SOME possibilities, and in terms of my parents, they don't apply.
You pointed out that we dont know each other which is true. You may be in a relationship with a black guy, but you may also be stretching the truth considerably how am I to know? All I can say is there is noting about you that makes me think you would find black guys attractive and why should you?
"All I can say is there is noting about you that makes me think you would find black guys attractive and why should you?"
No, nothing about me other than my words, and even those aren't good enough for you, so MY question is why even bother asking me (or telling me, because so far you never asked me anything)? But, listen, you don't have to think anything. Believe what you will.
Your mother probably doesnt and you have grown up in a society that says black people arent meant to be attractive. You say that you resent being labelled as only black and you seem to look at the world from the view of a white person so it doesnt seem likely that you would seriously date a black guy. You seem very pro mixed so I think you are more into mixed guys.
Here's where I have a real problem with people like you. It just strikes me as a real cop-out that anytime a black person marries/dates/falls in love with a white person, you automatically write it off as a black person who hates themselves. There can't possibly be any other explanation. It just comes off to me as awfully convenient, this sort of self-important idea that "we are the victims in all situations involving a non-black."
Because you don't know my mother. I have had conversations with my mother about this, I know her a bit more than you do. She came to this country having only dated and loved black men. She never planned on marrying a white guy. She never dreamed of it. It just happened. They just found that they had a lot in common, that they enjoyed each other's company, that they loved each other and wanted to spend the rest of their lives together.
I don't look at the world from the view of a white person. the world is not "black" and "everything else that isn't black/white." I look at the world from my own vantage point.
Now, what I really want to know is where the hell you get off ASSUMING you know so much about me or my preferences! I am dating a black guy, I happen to find him EXTREMELY attractive, and that just so happens to fall perfectly in line with my "view of the world," because I LOVE all people, regardless of color.
In my mind, maybe not in yours, contrary to popular belief, a black man can look just as good, just as sexy, as a white man.
But, here's the thing, I could tell you this all day, I could try and convince you of my genuine attraction to black men, but all you have to do is tell yourself "well it just doesn't seem likely..." and that's the end of the story. Believe what you will, even if that means believing lies, but don't bring your bull shit over to me, please.
As your friend pointed out to you, why was is so important that they were biracial. Why couldnt you have said Aww look, kids, how cute!, why was their racial mix so important to you? I know the answer to that question and I suspect you do to you just wont admit it.
I am realising that the reason I am so swayed by the pro black attitudes on youtube is because of all the racial groups making their cases the pro black groups are easily the most honest in what they say.
The pro whites speak of superiority and the threat of crime, pro mixed and pro interracial group say what they think they should say but if they spoke what they really believed it would make the case for pro black groups.
"pro mixed and pro interracial group say what they think they should say but if they spoke what they really believed it would make the case for pro black groups."
How convenient! You know what they "really believe" more than they do; yeah, I'm real sure! But, no: I say only what I truly believe; if you don't agree with it, that's fine, but do yourself a favor and acknowledge the fact that I don't have to agree with you in order to "really believe" in something.
MIXooNooMATCH You think biracial kids are cute because you are biracial. I think Nubian children cute because I am Nubian and it is because of this cuteness that I want my partner to be of my own race. I suspect that you date biracial guys for this same reason even though you are here promoting interracial relationships. This is hypocritical.
Look, even if I were to say to you "Aww, I think biracial kids are cute," it would be disingenuous of you to assume that I ONLY think biracial kids are cute, because nowhere in my statement did I mention any other "type" of child, let alone the word "only". In fact, if you were to ask me, I would say that I think "Nubian" children are extremely cute too, as well as white and Asian, etc. Babies are cute in general.
And, actually, the guy I'm currently dating is black (and EXTREMELY "cute"), but if MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 "suspects" it, I guess it MUST BE TRUE! In fact, I've never dated a biracial guy, though I find many of them attractive as well. But I don't date
people just to have "cute" babies. When I do marry, I won't do it just because I suspect my partner will be able to give me a "cute" baby. No matter what race my baby turns out to be, s/he will be beautiful in my eyes.
Now here's a question. If you met a black person who told you that they think biracial kids are cute and so wants their partner to be white, would you be okay with that? Now, I "suspect" you wouldn't, but then again, I don't know you (anymore than you know me or my dating habits). But if you aren't ok with that scenario, tell me, why is it ok for you to mate based on the prospective race of your child, and it's not ok for that person? "This is hypocritical."
Commenting on your hesitation toward recording a new video You expressed in the beginning: You got more guts than me..I wouldn't be caught dead in front of a camera(despite having worked for a broadcast company..heh..) far too shy..and, besides, my mug would scare the children :-D
I 'll watch Your further observations with interest.
see this is the thing people are to afraid to step outside their comfort zone and open up to someone outside their race because they don't want to be viewed as a sell out or someone who is just complaining these days people form inaccurate stereotypes based on what they see other races doing in the media but what's important to understand is that the media is clearly bias towards one group and always demonizing the other plain and simple their are just to many dumb people in the world
what FUTURE pretty lady without divine intervention humans will simply wipe themselves out your kind cannot coexist because of utter foolishness the simple and wicked outnumber the just
Yes, well if everyone had that attitude, then you'd probably be right. Fortunately for all of us, I think more and more people see just how imperative it is that we make some changes.
Comfort zones have little to do with anything. Some people just do what comes naturally and in most instances it's natural to want your partner to have certain similarities to you.
In "most" instances. Maybe for you that's true, I don't know, but I don't think it's fair to assume that racial prejudices, that the tumultuous history of race in this country, has nothing to do with our "preferences." Because, in reality, race has little do with with real "similarities." We simply say that we prefer our own race because race is the most OBVIOUS similarity, but it is hardly the only, and definitely not the most important.
Well, in that case screaming ain't such a good idea. Wouldn't want to make your folks angry. I know you'll figure it out, and I can know what your talking about. I think you were talking about race? I ain't sure LOL. No I'm kidding I know you what you were talking about.
No, its cool.Talk about whats on your mind. If its race than blow your whistle. You talk about in a respectable intelligent manner and I really respect your point of view on the matter.
My dear sister,you're so precious because your mind and heart are challenging you to learn and understand what's really true about the world we live in. The real rulers of our world cannot allow peace and harmony. It would destroy their control over the majority of the world's people, wealth and natural resources. The weapon they continuously use to conquer is simply, "Divide and conquer" by any means necessary. Its worked for centures ! Research further, you'll learn, everyone isn't human !!!
111abc222abc 1 year ago
It sure does sound wrong. But your right. My bad, again.
calsonick 1 year ago
Condescending, what ? You can't use that word like that it doesn't make sense.
Ok i'm sorry I was being mean and even though you where shakey shakey with the camera I shouldn't have called you names, my bad.
calsonick 1 year ago
lol "condescend" is a verb and "condescending" is an adjective as well as the progressive form of the verb, so.... Believe me, look it up if you must. And you can call me anything you want, that's on you, not me. Thanks for the apology, but it's really whatever.
MIXooNooMATCH 1 year ago
@MIXooNooMATCH Univ. of Pitts, nice and congratulations. I know I'm months late on that, lol. Hey listen, don't get too caught up in vids cause your educational gig is obviously more important. However, I do agree with you when you say that race is relevant and I would be living in a fairyland if I didn't think so. It takes so much inner strength to preserve the heart and mindset that you have about race because we all know the world isn't such a nice place at times.
southoreast 1 year ago
I thought I would give you another chance. But no same thing. SHAKEY SHAKEY. You are retarded aren't you ?
calsonick 1 year ago
@calsonick hahaha well THANKS SO MUCH for CONDESCENDING to give me another "chance." I really do appreciate the sentiment, don't get me wrong, but I will be honest: it really makes no difference what you think. Who are you? Exactly.
MIXooNooMATCH 1 year ago
My opinion is that they will be a race war in this country between white and black and for the biracials well they are also the enemy of blacks
tiderson1 2 years ago
SISTER U MUST READ THE ISIS PAPERS by DR. FRANCIS CRESS WELSING. AND DEFINITIONS BASED ON POLITICAL ORIENTATIONS TEND NOT TO BE RECONCILED TO REALITY. THE TRUTH IS OUT THERE.
firefox8192 2 years ago
AMAZING:-)!
vulk3797 2 years ago
If people on youtube only commented on things they could prove, youtube would be a pale shadow of what it is. Look around you Mix, everyones got an opinion. Why should I remain silent just because mines differs from yours? If you make a video and put it out there you must expect to get a little opposition. To me my experience is worth more than all the gold and diamonds in the world as im sure yours are to you. You cant place value on me.
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
Yes I am self serving but I have a right to be. Black people have been thoroughly abused over the centuries. As a result our natural development has been derailed. The remnants of this abuse still lingers to this day. I dont think there is anything wrong with black people trying to undo some of the damage caused by this abuse. We just have completely different ideas about what the abuse is and how it can be undone.
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
All too many biracial people seem to make videos under some guise to make the world a better place but these videos almost always focus of interracial relationships. Why is that? If you want the world to be a better place how about making videos about poverty, global warming, nuclear disarmament, orphans, child abuse, child slavery, animal abuse, capital punishment, taxation, nursing care, euthanasia the list is endless really.
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
Why must bringing the world to rights always revolve around black people sleeping with white people? Whose interests are really being served here?
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
Race may be one of many factors which differentiate individuals but it is a major one. Is barrack Obama different because of his policies, name or his racial mix? You will experience a completely different world simply because of you skin tone. You cant expect to debate certain issues you havent experienced fully.
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
My truth isnt necessarily your truth, this doesnt mean that mines is any less valid. The truth from my point of view is that I believe that the history of slavery, the image of ghetto thugs, the media portrayals of black men and women as dysfunctional,
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
the high black incarceration rate cause by stench of slavery and prejudice, the media bombardment of white is right and black is cack and a whole host of other issues are responsible for the overwhelming majority of interracial relationships between black and white.
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
Of course from your point of view, your mom and dad just love each other and have so much in common. But to me it isnt very obvious that a black African woman from a poor country would naturally had many things in common with a white european male from a country legendary for its over indulgent lifestyle. They defiantly cant have the same out look on life!
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
I only told that story to explain why some people may not believe everything that video posters say. Particularly when it is in conflict with everything else we see feel and sense. You can learn a lot from peoples mannerisms, speech patterns, posters, decorations ornaments etc. If we use you as an example. Your dad is white and mom is black but married to a white man.
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
You live in a white suburb and go to a majority white school it wouldnt be surprising if you were into white guys more because you are surrounded by them but you say youre more into black guys, why? You dont seem to have many around you.
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
When you put it like that it does sound very offensive and I am sorry for that. But many people black, white and biracial would be only to please to say this in a very direct way. Particularly as your mom is from Africa people will question the validity of your parents relationship more than if you mom was African American. This is something that you are just going to have to accept.
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
I agree that many aspects of society need to be changed. but what aspects? The difference in our gender, race, background, experience and out look on life means that we would tackle this problem from completely opposite ends.
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
This is going to sound really racist but any video that is pro interracial is saying enter into IR for all the wrong reasons particularly those made by biracial people. If two people are meant to be together they dont need videos or support to pair up it will happen naturally. All these videos are a little too forced for me to ignore. Who is supposed to benefit from them society or certain individuals.
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
MIXooNooMATCH you noticed the biracial kids because you are biracial. It is natural for us to notice our own kind. Society screws with this instinct by placing certain groups ahead of the pack. You love seeing people in interracial relationships because you like to see more of your own kind. I like see black people in relationships because Id like to see more of my own kind. Surely this isnt that difficult a concept to understand?
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
And you call me "self serving"? You, who cannot seem to grasp the idea that an individual might actually be concerned with the welfare of someone who DOESN'T LOOK JUST LIKE THEM!
I don't care to see more biracial people; I don't support IRs for the "end re-product" (i.e. the proliferation of biracial offspring), I support them for the message that they send (though I don't think anyone should be in an IR strictly to send a message): it is GREAT to find love based on factors OTHER than color.
MIXooNooMATCH 2 years ago
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MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
The reason why biracial like you are getting more opposition from black people like me is because black people are starting to realise that your actions are more self serving than any desire to bring the world together.
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
And I'm sure you have evidence to support that assetion... wait, no... that would be asking too much!
MIXooNooMATCH 2 years ago
MIXooNooMATCH You may think I am coping out but I am only telling the truth as I understand it. I have many white friends and we are similar in may ways but we unalike in many ways too. I had one white friend tell me that racism doesnt exist any more! Dont underestimate the different perceptions we all experience. Even if whites call you black you being biracial experience life completely differently from a dark skinned black person. People interact with you in a totally different way.
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
"the truth as I understand it." i.e. open to interpretation. But the truth, by nature, isn't open to interpretation at all, it simply IS.
"People interact with you in a totally different way." And people interact with me in a totally different way than they might interact with another biracial person. Race is only one of MANY factors which differentiate one individual from another.
MIXooNooMATCH 2 years ago
MIXooNooMATCH why are you trying to tell me that a black man can look just a sexy as a white man? What makes you think that I dont know this. It is because of the image of black man as a sexual power house that there are so many biracial children. You must acknowledge the most interracial relationships are between black men and white women.
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
I'm not trying to convince you that black men are sexy. I was simply expressing my personal opinion on black men. Some may not agree, and you may not care, but it is what it is.
MIXooNooMATCH 2 years ago
It isnt any of my business whether you are attracted to black men or not. Before I even had an account. I followed a debate between a black guy and a biracial girl on youtube. The guy accused the girl was lying about dating a black guy for eight years. She denied this. The black guy then pointed out a picture she had posted in a video montage.
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
The picture was of her passionately kissing a white guy with ginger hair and the time stamp and the picture was at that time six months earlier! She deleted his comment, blocked him and removed the video.
People often say things to make themselves seem like they arent being hypocritical.
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
HAHAHA... are you serious?! Is this supposed to make a difference to me? Does this story change the fact that I'm NOT lying? NO. It doesn't. Lame defense...
MIXooNooMATCH 2 years ago
MIXooNooMATCH I do know the difference between belief and fact. It is impossible for me to know everyones circumstances so I have to make comments based on what I think is most probable not on what is possible. Experiences and an understanding of people helps me to weigh the pros and cons of what is most likely to be the case.
These possibilities that you deny apply to you parents, could it be that you might be a little bias?
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
Or, you dont have to say anything. A respectful person would withhold their comments until after theyve learned all the facts. An opinion based on nothing but your own experiences isnt worth much, especially when that opinion concerns others besides yourself. You can have all the opinions in the world, but dont tell me your opinion on ME and expect me to accept it as fair and true, because I KNOW a bit more about myself than you BELIEVE you know about me.
MIXooNooMATCH 2 years ago
MIXooNooMATCH you and I may reject media racist propaganda but others dont and this is where the problem lies. If society left people to come to there own conclusions about perspective partners you would probably be disappointed with the results.
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
You implied that I am a product of "media racist propaganda", that I have somehow accepted this "media racist propaganda."
"If society left people to come to there own conclusions about perspective partners you would probably be disappointed with the results." Yeah, if societal ideals all of a sudden dropped off the face of the earth, maybe, because it wouldn't take the hundreds of years of commonly accepted racism with it. So WE have to CHANGE society, that's the issue.
MIXooNooMATCH 2 years ago
I dont have a problem with biracial people. I dont even have a problem with interracial relationships if they are for the right reasons. Youre being defensive now MixooNooMATCH. Not all black people are anti biracial. The problems only arise when people are dishonest about their motives.
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
And what about me or this video screams "Enter into IRs for all the wrong reasons!!!" I have never advocated entering into ANY relationship, let alone an IR, for the wrong reasons, yet you assume that because I support (I don't necessarily prefer) IRs that I must only support the "bad" ones. No.
MIXooNooMATCH 2 years ago
MIXooNooMATCH some germans over compensate because of the history of Nazi germany but I wouldnt go so far as to say that IR are pretty acceptable, they arent even pretty acceptable here. Being the chid of IR parents you should know this more than me.
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
If this biracial loving black person has self love, a love for their heritage and background then it should be natural for them to have a desire for their children to reflect a pride in their race. You wouldnt expect a fiercely patriotic German to have a half Chinese child nor would you expect a nationalistic Japanese man you have a half Swiss child
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
There's a difference between race and nationality. In fact, in Germany, IRs are pretty acceptable, even approved of. Now, if a person bases their patriotism on race, that may not be the case, but patriotism really isn't a racial thing at all. Does my race make me any less of an American? Maybe by some people's standards, but those people are all mixed up.
MIXooNooMATCH 2 years ago
but strangely enough everyone thinks it can only be a good thing for black people to have children who are mixed with some other race. This is the old racist notion the attitude that black can only be enhanced by adding any non black to its mix.
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
I'm not everyone. I don't advocate having children based on their consequent race. I don't advocate dating anyone based on their ability to give you children you deem as "cute". No, in fact, that's you!
MIXooNooMATCH 2 years ago
true statement but other race of people don't just put this on us we do it to ourselves with the whole good hair light skin is better and oh yeah i got indian in my family like being black is not good enough
spareld 2 years ago
Its obvious that you are not aware of the constant barrage of black is ugly, black is worthless, black is sub human and black is evil from the media and society in general. The black person in this example would most likely be suffering the effects of thinking that black is no good and would be trying to annialate the black genes in their children.
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
It's obvious that you know nothing about me. You assume that because I say that I don't subscribe to that mentality, that I must not be conscious of its existence at all. Have you ever thought that I might be aware of it, and that I might simply reject it? Of course not! Because then you would actually have no real argument with me, and that can't possibly be the case, cuz I'm biracial, and you have a problem with ALL biracial people on principle!!!
Sir, I'm no child. Get outta here with that!
MIXooNooMATCH 2 years ago
I know of black people like that in my personal life. these people would be mortified if their mixed child ever brought home a black partner. They would consider this as undoing all their hard work of disposing of the black genes.
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
I'm sad for them...
MIXooNooMATCH 2 years ago
lol paul mooney actually touch on this by saying the light skin would date inside their family just to keep the baby light skin. I was a little puzzled by that because both my parents are light but i'm dark. lol it still was funny
spareld 2 years ago
I am not against interracial relationship by and large, but I believe that most of them are a result of self loathing, a lack of self pride or a desire to climb up the social ladder. There are so many black people in interracial relationship making video on youtube criticising the black community. So we can see that they would never dream of having a child with a black person.
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
"I believe that most of them are a result of self loathing, a lack of self pride or a desire to climb up the social ladder."
Learn to make the distinction between belief and fact.
MIXooNooMATCH 2 years ago
I agree with you there are alot of people of african decent men and women who date outside their race because of that. but I also agree with mixooo because you can't help who you love so it's always going to be two different type of people the good and the bad
spareld 2 years ago
In your first video you pointed out your parents background. This is exactly the kind of thing that I am talking about. You mum likes white culture and you dad likes African culture. Could be possible that your dad obsesses over black women? Could it be possible that you mother likes the privilege that comes from being with a Caucasian man?
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
My "mum" likes her culture, the Igbo culture. Who said anything about her liking white culture? Don't put those words in my mouth. As for my dad, he likes all different kinds of cultures, African cultures (music especially) happening to be his favorites.
I suppose those are possibilities, but here's the distinction; whereas you ASSUME that those are the ONLY possibilities in respect to IRs, I understand that those are only SOME possibilities, and in terms of my parents, they don't apply.
MIXooNooMATCH 2 years ago
You pointed out that we dont know each other which is true. You may be in a relationship with a black guy, but you may also be stretching the truth considerably how am I to know? All I can say is there is noting about you that makes me think you would find black guys attractive and why should you?
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
"All I can say is there is noting about you that makes me think you would find black guys attractive and why should you?"
No, nothing about me other than my words, and even those aren't good enough for you, so MY question is why even bother asking me (or telling me, because so far you never asked me anything)? But, listen, you don't have to think anything. Believe what you will.
MIXooNooMATCH 2 years ago
Your mother probably doesnt and you have grown up in a society that says black people arent meant to be attractive. You say that you resent being labelled as only black and you seem to look at the world from the view of a white person so it doesnt seem likely that you would seriously date a black guy. You seem very pro mixed so I think you are more into mixed guys.
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
My mother probably doesn't what?
Here's where I have a real problem with people like you. It just strikes me as a real cop-out that anytime a black person marries/dates/falls in love with a white person, you automatically write it off as a black person who hates themselves. There can't possibly be any other explanation. It just comes off to me as awfully convenient, this sort of self-important idea that "we are the victims in all situations involving a non-black."
MIXooNooMATCH 2 years ago
Because you don't know my mother. I have had conversations with my mother about this, I know her a bit more than you do. She came to this country having only dated and loved black men. She never planned on marrying a white guy. She never dreamed of it. It just happened. They just found that they had a lot in common, that they enjoyed each other's company, that they loved each other and wanted to spend the rest of their lives together.
MIXooNooMATCH 2 years ago
I don't look at the world from the view of a white person. the world is not "black" and "everything else that isn't black/white." I look at the world from my own vantage point.
Now, what I really want to know is where the hell you get off ASSUMING you know so much about me or my preferences! I am dating a black guy, I happen to find him EXTREMELY attractive, and that just so happens to fall perfectly in line with my "view of the world," because I LOVE all people, regardless of color.
MIXooNooMATCH 2 years ago
In my mind, maybe not in yours, contrary to popular belief, a black man can look just as good, just as sexy, as a white man.
But, here's the thing, I could tell you this all day, I could try and convince you of my genuine attraction to black men, but all you have to do is tell yourself "well it just doesn't seem likely..." and that's the end of the story. Believe what you will, even if that means believing lies, but don't bring your bull shit over to me, please.
MIXooNooMATCH 2 years ago
As your friend pointed out to you, why was is so important that they were biracial. Why couldnt you have said Aww look, kids, how cute!, why was their racial mix so important to you? I know the answer to that question and I suspect you do to you just wont admit it.
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
I am realising that the reason I am so swayed by the pro black attitudes on youtube is because of all the racial groups making their cases the pro black groups are easily the most honest in what they say.
The pro whites speak of superiority and the threat of crime, pro mixed and pro interracial group say what they think they should say but if they spoke what they really believed it would make the case for pro black groups.
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
"pro mixed and pro interracial group say what they think they should say but if they spoke what they really believed it would make the case for pro black groups."
How convenient! You know what they "really believe" more than they do; yeah, I'm real sure! But, no: I say only what I truly believe; if you don't agree with it, that's fine, but do yourself a favor and acknowledge the fact that I don't have to agree with you in order to "really believe" in something.
MIXooNooMATCH 2 years ago
MIXooNooMATCH You think biracial kids are cute because you are biracial. I think Nubian children cute because I am Nubian and it is because of this cuteness that I want my partner to be of my own race. I suspect that you date biracial guys for this same reason even though you are here promoting interracial relationships. This is hypocritical.
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
Look, even if I were to say to you "Aww, I think biracial kids are cute," it would be disingenuous of you to assume that I ONLY think biracial kids are cute, because nowhere in my statement did I mention any other "type" of child, let alone the word "only". In fact, if you were to ask me, I would say that I think "Nubian" children are extremely cute too, as well as white and Asian, etc. Babies are cute in general.
MIXooNooMATCH 2 years ago
And, actually, the guy I'm currently dating is black (and EXTREMELY "cute"), but if MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 "suspects" it, I guess it MUST BE TRUE! In fact, I've never dated a biracial guy, though I find many of them attractive as well. But I don't date
people just to have "cute" babies. When I do marry, I won't do it just because I suspect my partner will be able to give me a "cute" baby. No matter what race my baby turns out to be, s/he will be beautiful in my eyes.
MIXooNooMATCH 2 years ago
Now here's a question. If you met a black person who told you that they think biracial kids are cute and so wants their partner to be white, would you be okay with that? Now, I "suspect" you wouldn't, but then again, I don't know you (anymore than you know me or my dating habits). But if you aren't ok with that scenario, tell me, why is it ok for you to mate based on the prospective race of your child, and it's not ok for that person? "This is hypocritical."
MIXooNooMATCH 2 years ago
Commenting on your hesitation toward recording a new video You expressed in the beginning: You got more guts than me..I wouldn't be caught dead in front of a camera(despite having worked for a broadcast company..heh..) far too shy..and, besides, my mug would scare the children :-D
I 'll watch Your further observations with interest.
diakrite 2 years ago
you are fine girl!. Damn I wish I could holla at you though. I bet you have a bf though.
JWiLLfoReaL 2 years ago
see this is the thing people are to afraid to step outside their comfort zone and open up to someone outside their race because they don't want to be viewed as a sell out or someone who is just complaining these days people form inaccurate stereotypes based on what they see other races doing in the media but what's important to understand is that the media is clearly bias towards one group and always demonizing the other plain and simple their are just to many dumb people in the world
uy97 2 years ago
You're right. But hopefully, in the future, we will have progressed to a point where ignorance is less prevalent.
MIXooNooMATCH 2 years ago
what FUTURE pretty lady without divine intervention humans will simply wipe themselves out your kind cannot coexist because of utter foolishness the simple and wicked outnumber the just
uy97 2 years ago
Yes, well if everyone had that attitude, then you'd probably be right. Fortunately for all of us, I think more and more people see just how imperative it is that we make some changes.
MIXooNooMATCH 2 years ago
Comfort zones have little to do with anything. Some people just do what comes naturally and in most instances it's natural to want your partner to have certain similarities to you.
MRBLACKPOWERFUL02 2 years ago
In "most" instances. Maybe for you that's true, I don't know, but I don't think it's fair to assume that racial prejudices, that the tumultuous history of race in this country, has nothing to do with our "preferences." Because, in reality, race has little do with with real "similarities." We simply say that we prefer our own race because race is the most OBVIOUS similarity, but it is hardly the only, and definitely not the most important.
MIXooNooMATCH 2 years ago
Well, in that case screaming ain't such a good idea. Wouldn't want to make your folks angry. I know you'll figure it out, and I can know what your talking about. I think you were talking about race? I ain't sure LOL. No I'm kidding I know you what you were talking about.
kurtcarbain 2 years ago
Haha Yes, you guessed right, I'm talking about race (again). DAMN Have I become THAT predictable?! LOL
MIXooNooMATCH 2 years ago
No, its cool.Talk about whats on your mind. If its race than blow your whistle. You talk about in a respectable intelligent manner and I really respect your point of view on the matter.
kurtcarbain 2 years ago
Maybe you should try screaming into the mic. That works sometimes LOL.
kurtcarbain 2 years ago
Yeah, but it was late, like 2 am, and the fam was sleeping. I'll figure something else out... hopefully... Lol!
MIXooNooMATCH 2 years ago
Wow, its been a long time since you've done a vid. How's it going kiddo. Cut your mic up some too. I could barely hear you. Ok now you stay cool
kurtcarbain 2 years ago
I tried attaching a different mic to better pick up the sound... The best I could figure to do. I only hope it's not unbearably quiet...
Other than that, it's going good! Thanks for asking!
MIXooNooMATCH 2 years ago