Undestanding Men and Women's needs_Pt 1 of 5 - Dr. Myles Munroe

[truemirror]

@TheK1N1 well said and 100% true.

[datingadults2a2]

Nice Short Film

[mayoju]

@1prettysoul How does a woman feel loved and cherished? Through thought or action? He has stated clearly that we should not only think of our wives, but we should act. Do things for her. Through action and communication. He gives some examples of how to do it. What do you suggest?

[producer4real]

This sounds good but don't work in the real world. How can a man married for 24 years tell you about deaing with women of today? He has no clue.

[mendezfocus]

@producer4real then you should pay more attention

[alissia02]

love it....

[truemirror]

Only helpful if both partners are willing to work on things, after living without provision, without affection, without companionship, without respect, him pulling over and picking a weed wouldn't faze me, spent over ten years not rejecting him, it gets me no where, tapes, books, me telling him the way it is, still absolutely nothing, just a waste life, with him breaking my heart. so I really don't care what he "needs", a person can't give and give forever with nothing in return.

[KingdomVoice]

@1prettysoul I agree. However, Most woman are searching for a man to meet many of the needs only God can meet. If you don't feel cherished on your own before you meet a man, you will never be satisfied when you do meet him. Which is why most woman are after another man when she doesn't get what she should have gotten from the Lord before and during her marriage. As long as you are seeking these things from a man before you seek them from God, God will never let you experience them...

[J0nesyB0nesy]

@KingdomVoice I agree. Women should listen to the song on T.D Jakes' Love album (really old album) called Lord Lift Her Up by Jesse Campbell. It's a husbands cry for God to fill the void in his wife that he can't. I always listened and sang along when I was younger and never understood until a few days ago ( older now) when I popped in the album after years. We look to the sons of Adam to affirm our value when we should look to God. Easier said than done but, it can be done.

[SPARKWISDOM]

My sign says "Always open!" LOL! I agree, I make our home a joy. I'm on my 2nd marriage and my goal is to serve and love my husband. I love that man! Dr. Myles Munroe is a man that teaches the Word and principles that create success. He's awesome!

[bumperstickersamen]

This is great because alot of God's people are having trouble in the bedroom because of bad programming. Yet, there will be some who wrong and be offended. That is sad.

[PreciousPyn]

Dr. Monroe rocks =)

[TheRealProperties]

Thank the Lord quality teaching on relationships- esp in language men will understand. =)

[alissia02]

He is so funny!!! Love preachers who have a sense of humor with projecting the WORD...

[Esperchantal]

Find a good example, bse Ladies are far more than car Man! Lady need love not fake gesture!

[kingdomcitizen004]

thanks 4 ur comment. the car thing is only an analogy, of course women are far far more than a car, the point he is tring to make is that LOVE is more than a feeling, is showing affecttion even when u don't "feel" like it. U can have a fake gesture without love, but u can't have love without expressing it every way u can, again even when u don't feel like it, which it doesn't make it fake. It is fake only if u do it out of selfish motives. doing it because the other person needs it's call LOVE

[TheRweyemamu]

I like the way U've answered him/her so wise.

[ohisify]

he is only tryin to simplify things.

[KingdomVoice]

@ohisify I agree. And believe that we ought to get back to the basics.

[1vinahwhitfield]

@Esperchantal grow up!! you haven't heard a thing.

[mayoju]

@Esperchantal He refers to both Ladies and Gentlemen as cars with needs. If neither person gets what it needs it will, in a sense, die. Like a car with no gasoline. And how is getting a woman flowers or a phone call or a kiss in public, a fake gesture?

[Promise1228]

Please let me know how I can get a copy of this series. I have not been able to find it anywhere...Thanks

[DaughterOfYashua]

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[DaughterOfYashua]

As a woman I understand exactly where Dr.Myles Munroe is coming from, however marriage is NOT built on sex. There is another side to this story, in some cases the woman needs HELP caring or young children. If a man does not support his wife, yet demans sex he is selfish! Lovemaking in marriage is for both parties to enjoy, it is not just about the man getting fulfillment! It is a matter of COMMUNICATION and UNDERSTANDING. Based on the agape love. There is no excuse for infidelity.

[kingdomcitizen004]

thanks, I think Dr. Munroe would support your comment; of course marrige is not built on sex, his only explaning one of many aspects of marriage, in his book he talks more deeply about the purpose of man as a lider, cultivator, protector and provider. There is no excuse for infidelity, but the point he is triyng to make is that Gos made sex something so strong in men that if you don't consider it as a NEED you will put your marrige at danger, not only of infidelity.

[kingdomcitizen004]

The same is true for men if he doesn't understand women NEED for affection he puts his marrige in danger, if the don't know God it will probably ends in infidelity, if the know God, in the best of cases you have a malfuntional marrige. explaning why something might happend is not making an excuse for it, but is good information to prevent it for happening. like u said the most important thing is communication.

[kingdomcitizen004]

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[Gmancrap]

Gee, aren't you smart. Grate observation moron.

[createev]

@DaughterOfYashua

This is one aspect out the many he talks about. Check his other sermons on youtube, he touches base on different things. You cant be broad when you want people to get some in detail. I agree communication and understanding is the key

[Zionborn]

thanx for this post.....tym we begin to understand sex in marriage..

[kingdomcitizen924]

thanks for posting this good stuff....WISDOM that binds marriages

[ceecha]

Exactly what God's children need to hear!!thank you for posting.

[MelodyInMyHeart]

Good Stuff!

[kingdomcitizen004]

I agree with you ... I'm not married either but this message blessed me a lot ... I know God is preparing me ... not allowing me to make this mistakes that cost you a lot

[AlwayzCheesinDev]

GREAT RELATIONSHIP TEACHING!!! Im not even married yet but i will DEFINITELTY apply this to when i do get married. WOW!!