How to Initiate

[pranil8]

This stupid bitch seem like a lot of work.

[id4rox]

did you ever do that video on approach???

[delli2011]

i'll tell you how to spice up your dating life... make sure you are born beautiful and smile alot... done deal!

[dragondisaster]

You should make more videos of you reading mail

[roeunseven]

Lol, Fuck, shit, balls! I say that all da time.

[BlahAjBlah]

i like how one of your tags is "asian oprah" YOUR SO FFFFFFFin Awesome. k bye :)

[pedero627]

This post be a tad late, but I have to say that I love the snail-mail idea initiative -- will get crackin' on that.

Love furniture design... f#*k, shitballs ...and contextual icebreakers.

(This is a fun channel)

[TheFinMan06]

favorite icebreaker

funny and gets the point across

ask- do u know how much a polar bear weighs?

always kinda catches them off guard and most people will answer "i don't know"

then answer- enough to break the ice! Hi I'm (insert name here) smile and shake their hand

always gets a smile when ya stick out that hand for a hand shake

[whatever8254]

I think I'm in love......

[user2009999]

I love your big tits

[CHANNAKAJIMA]

That's a toy sled dog in the back? Got to wear my glasses when I watch videos! I thought it was a bag of marshmellows.

.....Nakajima

[vanae12]

it's my eskimo dog for my halloween costume last yr

[xoxoluvomuch]

LMAO! FuckShitBalls ! :L

[RserBot2]

I just love your cleavage, sexy lady~

[falseangelwingx]

that was actually a pretty good Australian accent. You're improving.

[pwneee]

i was peter pan

[TheDarkestAbYsS]

I really hate the opening theme, soo cheesy.

[raith2006]

your hair looks awesome long.

[satori137]

fuckshitballs... awesome. xD

[aquasteam]

question.... are your bewbs there to attract us guys.. im so drawn to em...

[skrevan19]

hey! i was born in florida too, and still live there lol

[d3vilr0ckspolos]

With the facebook thing; I was talking to a chick for 3 weeks for like 3-4 hrs on the phone almost everday. She lives in the Rochester section of NY, which is upstate. I live in the Bronx which is in the city itself. Basically she wanted to date me and repeatedly said she wanted to fuck me. A week later she started dating some dude she randomly met at her school & changed her status to "in a relationship" BEFORE going on a date with him. We hardly speak now. I hate games.

[xXJustinWadeXx]

I'm going to wear a blue polo and go as Billy Mays.

[iSickMonkeyZz]

hehe ima be a gangsta so that i wont have to dress up xD

my break up song is in the end- linkin park

haru haru- big bang

you're not alone- saosin

change is hard- she and him

i dont love you & give em hell kid- my chemical romance

broken man- danger radio xD

yeahhh i listen to alot of music

[drc911]

she is so funny and beautiful, i want to kiss her, i think i´m falling in love with her

[ChristopherWalkenPUA]

If Vanae wore the eskimo in a bikini outfit again I would have to clean my keyboard off afterward...

[homer004]

fuck shit balls i luv this woman proper lady lol

[ramir233]

I feel like sweet and sour chicken for some strange reason... 0:

[puffyhair1990]

There are alot of things Id do to beable to date her.

[darkangel21pr]

lmao!!! fuck shitballs!! hahahaha wow V...

[ManifestMusik]

im going to be vanae =D

(i'm a blackasian guy :P)

[vanae12]

ha. photos are requested then!

[vissionaries]

I liked the little push dancs......that was the funniest...ok see ya later......lol

[paintballer7449]

banana with maracas!

lol its peanut butter jelly time.

[vanae12]

i'd love to see a video of that!

[paintballer7449]

lol ill try to post it

[viethugzzz]

ur so hot that it hurts...

[Quiz1master5]

im intrested in 2 guys...but i have a bf...whatto do?

[bho84]

fukshitballs!

[sexyrob22]

born in FL awesome i used to live in FL =]

ur awesome im def going to try to send u sumthing to ur mail ill try cuz im all da way in europe =/ so ill try cuz u r awesome

[spanishprisoner]

actually women DO initiate 90% of the time. We are just not consciously aware of that.

it's the eye contact of a woman that says to the man "yes, you look interesting". Only then most men do react. We are not talking about the minority machos who approach every woman anywhere. Just normal guys.

[kovacs562]

minority machos!? hahahahahahahaha

[Receptical]

wow that chair is between $690-$710 jeez

[paintballer7449]

lol i would guess that it pays to know someone in the biz

[ByeByeBelly]

Your impersonation of Australian accent is soooo bad... hehe

[handsumangel]

Oh vanae I wish you could teach how to smile. I love your smile. And the nails too. :D

[Vikije666]

gorgeous girl....and that guitar in the

background is taunting me. :O

[Dougomite]

I'm definitely a fan of women initiating. The funny thing about it though is that they usually haven't had nearly as much practice as guys so it's usually lame stuff that would never work if it was the other way around. Still though, the attempt makes her much cooler.

[regisor94]

Vanae! You are always so fun to watch! Great advice as always. I think it'd be cool if the woman initiates as well. Takes out some of the guesswork, probably.

Yeah, born in FLA? Me too.

I love snail mail too, but even full emails seems to take too much effort for most people. Now it's all about FB and Twitter messages.

[vanae12]

which city were you born dear?

[regisor94]

I'll have to send you a message. And ooh, Vanae called me "dear." Hehe.

U Rock V!

[JustContinuous]

Fuck Shit Balls -Vanae-

[flyinsquirrel145]

Well first of all I've got to say that I really enjoy your videos and I believe you give great advice.

One thing I'd like to point out though, isn't it kind of lame for a guy or girl to ask someone out on a date online? It seems very impersonal and could give the other person feel that the other person isn't courageous enough to ask them in person. But of course, this could be different since technology has changed many aspects of our life.

[vanae12]

i don't think it's lame to ask someone out online at all. here in silicon valley, people use IM, gchat and facebook alot to communicate and so it's natural to ask during a conversation or msg.

technology has really changed the way we communicate. i kinda like it!

[hamofbuddha]

I'm going as a pregnant nun.

[soni408]

When the female initiates most almost all men expect her to chase him form there on.

[neukfaz]

thats NOT AT ALL true, if anything, it gives the guy a break for once without having to do all the thinking, cuzz most guys put ALOT of work into wowing a girl and it only takes seconds b4 she judges you (good or bad) there are NO do-overs, u only get one shot....so for a women to initiate, YES, maybe now u girls will see how truly difficult it is,lol

[soni408]

I did not say ALL said most and you can look it up. Doctors and other pros that have many years to inform you on the matter. I'm speaking only of those seeing a long term relationship and or marriage.

[skyungjae]

looking great as always :)

[MrGuerrero2000]

i think shes a screamer lol will u date mexican V?

[JollySilver]

Ah, it's Miriam Cheung!

[vanae12]

who is that?

[vivilakers]

nice boobs...

[JollySilver]

A Hong Kong actress. You look eerily similar, only she has red hair that's dyed.

[vanae12]

really? i googled her and i don't think i look like her much. ha.

[TheAnthemsOfTime]

Great video as usual! Have to admit there is something about a woman who can let a few words slip. 3:45 It catches us men off guard sometimes. It can be cute as long as it isn't you screaming it at us during a fight. lol.

[67kneil]

also I think the ladies need to iniate more especially in this day of when a man is interested he is a stalker or a creepazoid

[67kneil]

good news Im 6' 4" and I have a date saturday with a girl my same height Im so excited

[RichhhR]

wow, rare find

[67kneil]

yeah thats what im thinking never have I dated someone that I dont see the top of their head or have to bend in for a kiss

no more step stool I hope

[ahmadnajee]

You look so good miss Vanae now there's a five star chick!

[MrPinoy91]

3:48 LMAO

Vanae...

[rockhardgamer]

Your hair long = win.

[planeflys]

your trying 2 hard

[tomnothingmoreorless]

I rather regret. instead of getting get the reject.

[Shadyac21]

Its hard meeting girls who don't have boyfriends already. Especially at my college.

[Efferts]

SEND HER MAIL!!! DAMMIT!! DO IT NOW!!

[bambi002233]

have you lost weight??? or is it cuz you're wearing less?

[26110mario]

its my girl vanea

[restlys]

omg girls have no clue what matters in approaching.....anyone starts talking about examples of ice breakers usually have the wrong attitude

if you dont have the confidence, right body posture, if your intimidated by the women, etc etc , you could have all the approach examples in the world your not going to do it right.

there are some things you cant learn in a book.

[xxhalogenxx]

LOL Fuck shit bawls XD

[loskingz]

ima dress up as vanae

[emoxgur1]

This vid really helped me a lot

Thx Vanae <3

[1c2h3r4]

i like your intro

[Mylesruether]

thats a pimpin chair in the back

[iggytan]

Woman never ever ever ever initiate. Ever. At least not in New Zealand. lol

[TheCastellan]

Or America....it's like they are considered "sluts" or something by their peers if they do. :P

[restlys]

or canada...and ive met ALOT of women.

[EastHoustonTx4YoAzz]

i wanna bang u

[tony77tony77]

u look so pretty V!

[AaronH9111]

How old is this girl?

She is nice looking!!

[Li1Heavy]

no you dont have a chance with her, pack up and move on

[AaronH9111]

So you do?

Are you dating her?

I just wanted to know how old she is.

I guess I could send her a message and ask her.

[Li1Heavy]

lol? im not that one trying to find out shit, and no im not dating her.

But gl cyber Casanova :)

[SuperSara1992]

I think it would be so helpful to see a small skit of how to initiate. Body language is so important, and a lot of us (myself included) mess that up!

[mkwuuu]

i'm gonna be the Doppler Effect

[Nodsldmc007]

Is bamboo strong enough to holdup a person in the form of that chair?

YOu should have a panda ear sitting on it just for shits & giggles.

[KhmerHuynH]

I love that Guitar ! Can you play ?

[:

[Suorrel]

Initiating feels like a very vulnerable position for me. Whenever I do it feels degrading and stupid. I start thinking stuff like." she is probably going to think that all I want is sex." and then I think,

"Would she be right? .....prolly."

It makes me want to vom this animal bullshit we feel the need to do.

[jimmiexiong]

i find keeping a good conversation with a woman a challenge ! i find the beauty of a woman very intoxicating! woman are not complicating living thingz, if they are not interested in you, move on, therez alot of fish in the ocean !

[jusblaze99]

no offense, but to all those guys who think women should initiate.... umm, stop being afraid, just do it (nike style baby!)

[JDubs878]

So what happened to equality between sexes? Shouldn't this fall under that heading?

Oh wait, women just want equality WHEN IT SUITS THEM! Typical.

[jusblaze99]

well im a guy so as far as suiting women.....

anyway, women and dating is complicated, so sometimes i guess its cool for a woman to approach, BUT 9.9999 times out of 10, women want to feel attracted and drawn into a guy, and if he is not willing to make this happen and sweep her off her feet, he will probably act too shy and nervous once she approaches.... guys get approached a lot and succeed, but it has to be based on her really being attracted to u, not just like a friendly gesture

[restlys]

but to be fair we approach cuz were motivated to get laid..now if things were equal they would have equal motivation.

not saying girls dont have mot to get sex, im saying we have is 10x more.

[mikemike23238]

hey vanae!..anytime in the future, could u make a vid about what the girls and the guys want in a relationship from their partners? THX ALOT!..PEACE!

[lnstrumentalist]

That was hot when you said fuck shit balls.

[ddrusa]

nice

[ooKALTHAMoo]

ur pretty

[lilshortyjix]

I've missed you :)

[eyui11]

Yes I miss you!! where have you been! lets do this~

[AlwaysAmiYumi]

im from florida too >_>

miami

[khalidLol]

cool