by now i am sure that you know where i am coming from.psycology and religion both agree that the foundation for every woman is to be loved and cared for the foundation for a man is to be respected.
OMG! I totally understand! I was with someone all the time for 7 straight years! After dumping my last bf I decided to be single for a year, it was hard but i did it and i look back now and im glad i did! i liked your vid btw : )
My ex suffers from codependency, although she would NEVER admit it. She always needs to feel loved by someone, and once that person does love her...she runs away. It's like she says 2 herself.."ok well now that i made that person fall in love with me..i'll move on to the next one." When real love smacks her in the face she doesn't know what to do with it. She's in love with the idea of someone loving her. It's really sad!! True happiness is within yourself
luckily i dont have any relationship ever since =).. it is my choice to be single.. i have friends telling me that they fight with their bf and cry about it. I was like waste of tears cyring, worthless.
you have to keep in mind however, that we are not talking about pure full dependancy. i can take care of myself, i just dont really want to all the time, because im not exactly my own biggest fan. im dependent on my boyfriend, mostly, to tell me how beautiful a person i am because i cant do it myself.
Somebody called you gorgeous? They must've been desparate or you must've been an easy catch (if you know what I mean). Given your state though, I'd lean towards the latter.
jjjmunk. you probably clicked on this video out of sheer boredom. go do something with your life other than watch videos you dont even like and posting hate comments, hmmm, wheres that gonna get you? Nowhere. Now im not trying to be mean, im giving you advice.
but it doesn't fix the problem. loving yourself because chris said "love yourself, people" is self-deception. loving yourself just because, you think, you're not so bad. i think you can truely love yourself only when some other person truely loves you. it's because people are not self-sufficing. their soul always needs another soul. close. unlit that you're gonna lie to yourself, telling that you love yourself. nicolle
i mean life wouldnt be such a journey if there werent people to tell us off and make us hurt life would be boring like me i dont get embarrassed bcuz i love myself and everything about me bcuz i know that i can make it by living and loving everything about me and life
i am always happy bcuz life is short we have to live it to the extent and not what others say we have to guide ourselves and this is highschool like where us teens are at the people we see now are people we will maybe never see again we have to belive in ourselves and have good thoughts of ourselves we have to enjoy to enjoy life and live to the extent of what we can
When i was in high school i was a social out cast because of my weight my height and my looks. But now im tall slim and beautiful hehe when a guy compliments me its really hard to accept it because when i look in the mirror all i see is the same person i was back then. Truth is we have to accept it and start loving outselves because if we dont then nobody else is. I think your gorgeous by the way love the way you talk lol keep up the good work
It's always kind of hard to find the good things in yourself. Because when you start to look you only see the bad. Sometimes, it's good to hear it from someone else. Although, there is a point where it becomes constant reassurance and it can get really annoying.
by now i am sure that you know where i am coming from.psycology and religion both agree that the foundation for every woman is to be loved and cared for the foundation for a man is to be respected.
truthtracker 3 years ago
OMG! I totally understand! I was with someone all the time for 7 straight years! After dumping my last bf I decided to be single for a year, it was hard but i did it and i look back now and im glad i did! i liked your vid btw : )
mjuly82ruby 3 years ago
My ex suffers from codependency, although she would NEVER admit it. She always needs to feel loved by someone, and once that person does love her...she runs away. It's like she says 2 herself.."ok well now that i made that person fall in love with me..i'll move on to the next one." When real love smacks her in the face she doesn't know what to do with it. She's in love with the idea of someone loving her. It's really sad!! True happiness is within yourself
soulshaker205 3 years ago
luckily i dont have any relationship ever since =).. it is my choice to be single.. i have friends telling me that they fight with their bf and cry about it. I was like waste of tears cyring, worthless.
Skyethur 3 years ago
you have to keep in mind however, that we are not talking about pure full dependancy. i can take care of myself, i just dont really want to all the time, because im not exactly my own biggest fan. im dependent on my boyfriend, mostly, to tell me how beautiful a person i am because i cant do it myself.
nicollethesolitary 3 years ago
its not true, im so serious you can be with someone and not be dependant on them! i mean come on its 2008! maybe you should start with a make over!!
sxcranger 3 years ago
Somebody called you gorgeous? They must've been desparate or you must've been an easy catch (if you know what I mean). Given your state though, I'd lean towards the latter.
MSI2k 3 years ago
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thats because you are a fat bicth thats why you dont have a boyfriend!!!!!!!!!!!!
jjjmunk 3 years ago
..................that is the complete opposite of everything that this video is about....your an idiot
nicollethesolitary 3 years ago
lol you're pathetic
Squallflux 3 years ago
jjjmunk. you probably clicked on this video out of sheer boredom. go do something with your life other than watch videos you dont even like and posting hate comments, hmmm, wheres that gonna get you? Nowhere. Now im not trying to be mean, im giving you advice.
Dick.
Mcbozburger 3 years ago
but it doesn't fix the problem. loving yourself because chris said "love yourself, people" is self-deception. loving yourself just because, you think, you're not so bad. i think you can truely love yourself only when some other person truely loves you. it's because people are not self-sufficing. their soul always needs another soul. close. unlit that you're gonna lie to yourself, telling that you love yourself. nicolle
vova74 4 years ago
don't cry.
just acknowledge the problem and work through it.
itschriscrocker 4 years ago 5
thanks chris. your great hunny.
nicollethesolitary 4 years ago
Wow you actually comment on videos..?
n1gr0ll 3 years ago
i'm not your boyfriend but you deserve to be happy! You're not an idiot! Your video made me sad for you. You are a totally worthwhile person!
bamberkman 4 years ago
i mean life wouldnt be such a journey if there werent people to tell us off and make us hurt life would be boring like me i dont get embarrassed bcuz i love myself and everything about me bcuz i know that i can make it by living and loving everything about me and life
skiier104 4 years ago
i am always happy bcuz life is short we have to live it to the extent and not what others say we have to guide ourselves and this is highschool like where us teens are at the people we see now are people we will maybe never see again we have to belive in ourselves and have good thoughts of ourselves we have to enjoy to enjoy life and live to the extent of what we can
skiier104 4 years ago
there are alot of girls at my skool that do that they go from bf to bf to bf ,. but i think they are just sluts
jiujitsu909 4 years ago
maybe they just have low self esteem
nicollethesolitary 4 years ago
When i was in high school i was a social out cast because of my weight my height and my looks. But now im tall slim and beautiful hehe when a guy compliments me its really hard to accept it because when i look in the mirror all i see is the same person i was back then. Truth is we have to accept it and start loving outselves because if we dont then nobody else is. I think your gorgeous by the way love the way you talk lol keep up the good work
lindap84 4 years ago
Take pills that's what I do.(prescription)
HAJS5 4 years ago
It's always kind of hard to find the good things in yourself. Because when you start to look you only see the bad. Sometimes, it's good to hear it from someone else. Although, there is a point where it becomes constant reassurance and it can get really annoying.
RurikoInoyuki 4 years ago