@ericclaptonismygod31 Yeah you're right. It's much better to live in a delusional state pretending all is perfect, ignoring what isn't and believing it will just "magically" change. Always be happy (that means pretend to be happy, no one is happy 100% of the time), always have a big fake smile on your face. Be a fake, insincere person. What a great way to live one's life.
Instead of negative thinking or positive thinking, why can't we as individuals trust our feelings and thoughts as an important part of the dialogue between us and our social, poitical, and ecological realities. A negative feeling may be a real intuitive hint that you are being exploited. To squelch that feeling and replace it with a manufactured positive thought process would be to allow exploitation. Of course, negative thoughts can also be manufactured. What about Authentic Thinking!!!
@mgdontknowist ''A negative feeling may be a real intuitive hint that you are being exploited. To squelch that feeling and replace it with a manufactured positive thought process would be to allow exploitation'' So true
littlelouie11 is so ignorant about life. As Proust and many others have noted most knowledge comes from painful experience. Ignorance is bliss. The simplistic mindset often includes the belief that one of the main goals in life is happiness. Tennessee Williams wrote about the lengths people will go to in order to shield themselves from unpleasant truths. The price paid is for that life is very high however. You have any idea what that price is Louie ?
Who would ever want to hang around with this negative bitch? Why doesn't she just dye her hair and get new glasses. Maybe takr a dance class. Stop embracing the negative. She only looks at the negative side. She always plays the victum card. She talks but offers no solution and takes situation out of content. I can't stand this bitch.
@baekken Yeah spend an evening with sour puss who has a limited wardrobe and see if you feel better about yourself. There is a reason why is liberal feminist NAG is twiced divorced. She always plays up her breast cancer to generate sympathy.
She is only trying to seel her books. She offers no solutions or perspective, just complains and is a bitter old bitch. She should just kill herself and make everyone including her happy.
Barbara is right on. This insistance that if you think positive then good things will happen is a propaganda tool of people who want to screw others over and escape any responsibility for screwing them. Victimizers can claim that the victim brought it on themselves. It can also be used to stifle organized movements against perpetrators such as large corporations that are doing so much damage today.
@tom6612 I agree there is a lot of hype and sensationalism when it comes to self-help and positive attitude, but consider the alternative who would ever want to look or have the personality or demeanor of this old hag? Individuals who follow their own vision in life are never negative. Remember with every thought you either be positive or negative. NOBODY has ever been more negative than this bitch.
@littlelouie11 --- BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.. Holy cripes you just made an enormous public display of your stupidity. Smooth move Einstein. Eherenreich wrote this book too - "Dancing in the Streets: A History of Collective Joy". Got any additional wisdom you'd care to lay on us. Eherenreich is brilliant in the way that she undermines the lies that permeate america. Those who disseminate said falsehoods must really hate the way she exposes their mendacity so effectively.
I realize that we are a society of compassion. We are always trying to find happiness in our society. Social control has been difficult in many areas in sports and selecting those who are pretty over those qualified. I say we need to look at society based on all inclusion of people. Barbara I used Postive Thinking to help me rebuild my life away from habits and vices I had. It can help men like me who are hurting
Any system based on property, money and competition REQUIRES FORCE AT ALL LEVELS.
Any system that creates sustainable ABUNDANCE of all of the consumables (like food, water, energy, etc.) and universal ACCESS to everything else (like transportation, information, etc.) ELIMINATES ALL FORCE.
You don't have to 'get rid of corrupt human behavior' just have a system that DOES NOT BENEFIT IT.
I've come full circle w/the reality of sexism&classism, I realize I have no future in the corporate world--as far as traditional means of working hard, being good @what I do, etc.This "negative" realization enables me 2look 4 alternative ways of making money, i.e., starting my own business &going the road less traveled. If I continue 2 lie to myself, as the "career" counselors suggest, I cd spend the rest of my life trying to find a "job." Now I'm trying 2create my own job &business--empowering!
Went thru a similar experience: having trouble finding work, I've sought out career counselors, networking groups, etc., only to find--much to my dismay--that rather than give me any practical advice or help in finding a job that pays a decent living wage and corresponds w/my skills & talents, I was simply bombarded w/platitudes, told I was being negative & shouldn't think about certain realities.
This echoes the fifties ie suppress your feelings and act normal and you'll be a good citizen. Also, later SSRI drugs now change peoples feeling about things, they don't change the actual things that cause the issues in the first place.
Right. Be negative about everything and become a bitchy socialist!
ericclaptonismygod31 2 months ago
@ericclaptonismygod31 Yeah you're right. It's much better to live in a delusional state pretending all is perfect, ignoring what isn't and believing it will just "magically" change. Always be happy (that means pretend to be happy, no one is happy 100% of the time), always have a big fake smile on your face. Be a fake, insincere person. What a great way to live one's life.
xexixk 2 months ago
Barbara gets it.
MisssAnthrope49 4 months ago
Barbara u are a fuceng player Fuceng Moran .
21avasapi 1 year ago
@21avasapi wot?
perrin6 11 months ago
Barbara u are fuceng sheet u are a vagrant ass.
21avasapi 1 year ago
@21avasapi Try education - it's great, and like the inventor of the rear-view mirror, you'll never look back.
perrin6 11 months ago
@21avasapi If you wish to use vulgar language, please at least learn how to spell the words first.
xexixk 11 months ago
@xexixk fucking right!
lockwoodisafaggot 7 months ago
@lockwoodisafaggot That's better! But what is your issue with Barbara Ehrenreich?
xexixk 7 months ago
@xexixk huh me? none. i was just making a joke. i'm actually going to order this book. saw an ad for it in Skeptic,....
lockwoodisafaggot 7 months ago
@lockwoodisafaggot Ah ok. It's an excellent book and she is exactly right about the cult of positive thinking.
xexixk 7 months ago
Genius.
vjacq88 1 year ago
I love Barbie Ehrenreich and JUSTIN BEIBER SUCKS!!!
queefbreeze 1 year ago
Instead of negative thinking or positive thinking, why can't we as individuals trust our feelings and thoughts as an important part of the dialogue between us and our social, poitical, and ecological realities. A negative feeling may be a real intuitive hint that you are being exploited. To squelch that feeling and replace it with a manufactured positive thought process would be to allow exploitation. Of course, negative thoughts can also be manufactured. What about Authentic Thinking!!!
mgdontknowist 1 year ago
@mgdontknowist ''A negative feeling may be a real intuitive hint that you are being exploited. To squelch that feeling and replace it with a manufactured positive thought process would be to allow exploitation'' So true
tangoluggy 1 year ago
@tangoluggy
thank you:)
mgdontknowist 1 year ago
Are we sheep or cattle?
The Call Centres are bulging with positive-minded losers who are happy to be shafted into submission by their mendacious leaders (masters..)
Nickel and Dimed is a masterwork. Uncomfortable truths for a corrupted and mindless workforce who lack the INDIVIDUALITY to be their own people.
Keep bending overs, Guys and Gals !
steveh777ify 1 year ago
she says her own last name wrong you dont deserv mein last name!!!
36mofia33 1 year ago
littlelouie11 is so ignorant about life. As Proust and many others have noted most knowledge comes from painful experience. Ignorance is bliss. The simplistic mindset often includes the belief that one of the main goals in life is happiness. Tennessee Williams wrote about the lengths people will go to in order to shield themselves from unpleasant truths. The price paid is for that life is very high however. You have any idea what that price is Louie ?
tom6612 1 year ago
Who would ever want to hang around with this negative bitch? Why doesn't she just dye her hair and get new glasses. Maybe takr a dance class. Stop embracing the negative. She only looks at the negative side. She always plays the victum card. She talks but offers no solution and takes situation out of content. I can't stand this bitch.
littlelouie11 1 year ago
@littlelouie11 Way to miss the point. And stop putting words in her mouth.
baekken 1 year ago
@baekken Yeah spend an evening with sour puss who has a limited wardrobe and see if you feel better about yourself. There is a reason why is liberal feminist NAG is twiced divorced. She always plays up her breast cancer to generate sympathy.
She is only trying to seel her books. She offers no solutions or perspective, just complains and is a bitter old bitch. She should just kill herself and make everyone including her happy.
littlelouie11 1 year ago
Barbara is right on. This insistance that if you think positive then good things will happen is a propaganda tool of people who want to screw others over and escape any responsibility for screwing them. Victimizers can claim that the victim brought it on themselves. It can also be used to stifle organized movements against perpetrators such as large corporations that are doing so much damage today.
tom6612 1 year ago
@tom6612 I agree with Tom. Excellent comment.
dutytocareforothers 1 year ago
@tom6612 I agree there is a lot of hype and sensationalism when it comes to self-help and positive attitude, but consider the alternative who would ever want to look or have the personality or demeanor of this old hag? Individuals who follow their own vision in life are never negative. Remember with every thought you either be positive or negative. NOBODY has ever been more negative than this bitch.
littlelouie11 1 year ago
@littlelouie11 --- BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.. Holy cripes you just made an enormous public display of your stupidity. Smooth move Einstein. Eherenreich wrote this book too - "Dancing in the Streets: A History of Collective Joy". Got any additional wisdom you'd care to lay on us. Eherenreich is brilliant in the way that she undermines the lies that permeate america. Those who disseminate said falsehoods must really hate the way she exposes their mendacity so effectively.
tom6612 1 year ago
I realize that we are a society of compassion. We are always trying to find happiness in our society. Social control has been difficult in many areas in sports and selecting those who are pretty over those qualified. I say we need to look at society based on all inclusion of people. Barbara I used Postive Thinking to help me rebuild my life away from habits and vices I had. It can help men like me who are hurting
Marx1958 1 year ago
Any system based on property, money and competition REQUIRES FORCE AT ALL LEVELS.
Any system that creates sustainable ABUNDANCE of all of the consumables (like food, water, energy, etc.) and universal ACCESS to everything else (like transportation, information, etc.) ELIMINATES ALL FORCE.
You don't have to 'get rid of corrupt human behavior' just have a system that DOES NOT BENEFIT IT.
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dontblockmedk 1 year ago
I've come full circle w/the reality of sexism&classism, I realize I have no future in the corporate world--as far as traditional means of working hard, being good @what I do, etc.This "negative" realization enables me 2look 4 alternative ways of making money, i.e., starting my own business &going the road less traveled. If I continue 2 lie to myself, as the "career" counselors suggest, I cd spend the rest of my life trying to find a "job." Now I'm trying 2create my own job &business--empowering!
PurrGrrl 1 year ago
Went thru a similar experience: having trouble finding work, I've sought out career counselors, networking groups, etc., only to find--much to my dismay--that rather than give me any practical advice or help in finding a job that pays a decent living wage and corresponds w/my skills & talents, I was simply bombarded w/platitudes, told I was being negative & shouldn't think about certain realities.
PurrGrrl 1 year ago
This echoes the fifties ie suppress your feelings and act normal and you'll be a good citizen. Also, later SSRI drugs now change peoples feeling about things, they don't change the actual things that cause the issues in the first place.
670Kiester 1 year ago