Relationship Advice: Breaking Up : How to Get Over Heartbreak

[poirob2]

My girl just dumped me coz she realised after 2 and a half years I didnt have enough money for her - she was a millionaires daughter and im a nurse - go figure...

[msgetritetime]

@poirob2 oh that's just wrong, she was so shallow

[Amb3rPotter]

My boyfriend broke up a week ago. I was alright until today. I asked him to see me. He came and it ended in a fight. I've been calling him all afternoon. He won't pick up the phone or answer my messages. I've been crying for hours. I can't help it. Life is meaningless. I told him how bad my condition is. It doesn't seem to make any difference to him.

[viveyutub14]

@Amb3rPotter it was the same for me , i was the one who broke up , excepte that im a boy , lol, don't worry u'll get over it , trust me .

[Amb3rPotter]

@viveyutub14 Yeah, it'll take some time. Like you've been spending so much time with somebody and suddenly he's gone and you're so lonely.

anyway, thanks :)

[Strawwwberryy]

@Amb3rPotter And it never makes a difference - men work very differently to us women for them they can't deal with emotional drama - that's a fact (and really that's not a man) thats a wuss - you don't need someone like that - and no point thinking your life is meaningless - if it helps at all I just broke it off with a guy that treated me horribly - called me pathetic, a number of things I quote 'Ur mad, keep your mood swings to yourself, bye' and I told him to screw himself.

[Amb3rPotter]

@Strawwwberryy right. it was like the more i cried & told him what i felt, the more he ran away from me. I remember i was crying while writing that first comment, desperately searching for a solution to my pain. Since then, i've read books on positive thinking..etc..i've done the activities i love to do and it worked. It's been 2 months & i feel better. On top o'that he swears he's missing me. I'm sorry 'bout ur relationship, i went through kinda the same thing. and thanks.

[Strawwwberryy]

@Amb3rPotter I understand - never show your weakness to a guy, they will use it against you. A guy that will love you and truly care for you will never do those things. I broke it off - I changed my number, found out he's with another girl probably going to do the same, true colours are revealed - most men want their fun and then once they have it they go onto the next - what a man that is (sarcasm), like you I am moving on and distracting myself as much as possible.

[Strawwwberryy]

@Amb3rPotter (part 2) I am so pleased to hear that you are feeling better - don't listen to his swears and everything its all a bloody lie, they are not worth it in the end. You deserve so much better - I hope you find someone better take care

[rachnab04]

god damn.. you watch this when you have a broken heart, hoping to feel better, and all it does is make you wanna cry....

[landonpwns]

What the f*ck is this this just made it worse

[LuckyInJuly]

all i can do is have faith in the future.....and hug my dogs.

[MackenzieRose77]

10 months thrown away

[TheBubbly999]

1 whole year with all the arguements buh then he sed it. Now only god can keep me alive. Its hurts so much. He sed freinds buh its too akward. Ill always love him

[thebluemoonriver]

i'm going through a brutal heartbreak and i had no idea it could be this tough. i'm trying to do everything to get past the first initial rough stage but i'm finding it really tough to do so.

[spritey16]

@thebluemoonriver same

[TayJonas1]

@thebluemoonriver me 2

[deathpool209]

wtf i thought it was bill calahan!

[mklpoiucvfgtrd]

If you like to meat sexy Asian women *lushfmlk.info*

[I3l4ckSw0rdzm4n]

The plant behind him looks like an evil monster. Oh and I just get over it by hating the world. DEATH METAL.

[DMLizzy79]

This guy is nuts. So easy to talk when it's not YOUR heart broken. Vaccum is for cleaning the house not heart break. what happens when you run into each other in line at the grocery store and he's with her??? Then what? And, when you call your 'life lines' and nobody's home to talk to--then what??.....yeah, I thought so....'speechless'

[esissthlm]

Or in other words, when I get sad I stop being sad and start being awesome instead! True story.

[Psalm789]

it only takes one thing to fall in love..........

but to forget about love, it takes an eternity.

i still love her

dont think that my love will ever change.

life fails

[jcred1989]

asses?

[airforcemax]

Great advice

[sdtracy08]

When you've been with someone for 10 years and you're now in your 40s, it's not only hard but, scary to think of what you have to encounter to start over! Yuck! It's a mess out there and I don't look forward to it but, I'm a super good woman that doesn't look like I'm "40 anything" and so I just have to have faith that I won't hurt too long.

[superzertuche1]

my heart felt like it was riped out of my chest.. this kinda helps thank you

[patcartrix]

a broken heart feels like someone reached into your throat and pulled out your stomach..im not trying to be emo thats just how i physically feel

[yourgonnawantmeback]

I broke up with this guy and wen I did I didn't even cry infact I felt revitalatd I felt I had done a positive thing, then he got a knew girl...... I didn't care... But now it's the only thing stopping me from talkin to him its been a year since the break I'm havin deep feelings of sadness WTF man

[lorelainoah]

Im so heartbroken I just want to die.

[tierren]

@ACTORnSCREENWRITER Excellent Advice ! Trust me this made me feel a lot better

[RyanottoMr]

I have no clue what you were taking about. Your talking to us like were doctors, but.. were not. I am going through a heartbreak now, and i would be nice to get the blunt advice. Thanks.

[tierren]

@RyanottoMr I am going through the same thing but just think their is a whole world of people to meet, its only a matter of time before you find them. The best way to get over a relationship is to keep your self busy by working out to relieve stress,challenge yourself by starting a business or just ake a nice vacation. Also try chatting online with dating sites like E-harmony. Trust me it works - many people are looking for friendship on there. Its the future of dating.

[RyanottoMr]

@tierren Thanks.. it means a lot to hear someone cares. <3

[revolutionaryI]

this guy looks like my ex's father, damn.

[sherrib71]

it has been 10 months and i am not over it, i still love him

[tierren]

@sherrib71 You must not be keeping yourself busy, the only way a dead relationship lingers is if you stay idle. Its good to stay active in life by exercising,traveling,joining some type of social group etc. Other things that help is to raise you self esteem by listening to people like Tony Robbins.

[bully129]

I was *and still am) in love with a girl who was engaged to a bad guy. The guy cheated on her, verbally abused her, etc. She told me she and I couldnt be together and that I should move on. So I lied and said I had a date with another girl. But over the weekend she broke up with her fiancee and is now with another guy she's only known for 2 1/2 weeks. She's known me for over a year. I need some help.

[sweetie0x]

@bully129 are you a bully ?

[bully129]

@sweetie0x

No. It stands for bulldog. I came up with the name when I was about 11.

[alfred4garcia]

@bully129 have respect for yourself and stop hurting be with the ones who love you if she isnt going to try things leave it be, digging deeper is like picking your face

[bully129]

@alfred4garcia

Thank you, but I've already moved on from her and found someone I could be with who made me truely happy.

[katyc130890]

Just get drunk.

[KOSMICKEN09]

it's a gradual thing getting over someone. you have to do it your own way, whatever works for you...

[trackgrad08]

@KOSMICKEN09 I totally agree. I'm going thru it now and I agree that everyone is different on how they do so. I think part of the reason sum ppl thinks it's so hard is becuz of society's view of the process and whether or not he/she is meeting those standards. When they r not meeting those standards then ppl begin to feel more frustrated with moving on as though it's something wrong with they way they do it. So yes, it's definitely a gradual thing. & right about now I'm doing what works 4 me :)

[Ino707]

lol oh my goodness, is this dude reading something off his lap top about heartbreak? lol expert?

[mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm77777]

dude you bored me to tears ....like seriously just know that everything happens for a reason and if the realtionship didnt work out theres a reason no need to beat your self up for it ...stay in there time heals everything

[oz22verizon]

how do you get over someone that you see every single day at work?????????

[Melissa230984]

You should never date someone you work with. It happened to a friend of mine and he was so devastated that this girl was cheating on him that he quit the job!

[EminorFunkyBannana]

if u want them back then stay away from them for a few days then start to be friends with them then get closer,if u need to get over them just try n stay away from them and develop a new crush o someone else

[GraemeISDrunk]

@EminorFunkyBannana thats some good advice mate thanks

[Shadowbunnyjedi]

i feel the same, man

[drwhopk]

doesnt help/.... this is crap

[NewportJuggalo]

You fail, I understand you want to help people like us who have just got torn to shit, but you fail man this advice sucked, thanks for trying butdidnt help me at all, maybe it helped another person but not I.

[artsdevotion]

I am devastated and lost I thought I had it all....

[dayeekiiins]

My GF broke up with me a week ago, I'm completely heartbroken and the circumstances of my brakeup are just odd in my eyes, but he's right...you have to do the best you can to fill that void and take the time to figure out who u are and how you could be better prepared for a possible future relationship. I'm still questing...

[yeahboyandsarah]

it's always a GREAT day when your boyfriend you thought was "the one" who took you to look at engagement rings leaves you for his fat, ugly, cheating ex-girlfriend...fuck this.

[ACTORnSCREENWRITER]

Yeah that sucks ass... LoL your case sort of reminds me of this old true crime story

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[missladyhannah]

this might sound kinda lame but... i cant stop thinking about him

there is this guy, i met him at camp, i tried not to like him cause he lives so far away, but in the end i really do like him, on the last day of camp we both admitted to liking eachother i was really happy and shit, then we left. now i feel like he broke my heart, just because i found ouot on the last day, it would have been nicer to know sooner. so i feel really disapointed and am having a real hard time not thinking about it

[ACTORnSCREENWRITER]

so your in love with a guy... You've never actually dated? Hmm watch the show I sent to YeahBoyAndSarah :-P

[pompyromage]

I feel like she was the only one for me.... i only 16 but, she was so amazing :( will there ever be anyone as amazing as her...

[MonkeyOctober]

I watched this three months ago,when me and my one broke up.Now I'm watching it again because I feel like we aren't going anywhere again. :(

[ACTORnSCREENWRITER]

wait... so your still talking to her, and your.. not over her yet?

Oh fuck!

[weerpool14]

i just mainly miss the sex. and the thought of some dude boning her sucks

[Argedis]

thats exactly how I feel, and it bothers me so much, it just tells me i really did love her. however i didnt mean shit to her, yet im still heartbroken

[namine001234]

What I did to get over it was I made a heartbreak box. Anything that would remind me of the relationship. I put things like gifts and notes and even printed out the emails and put them in so I could delete the ones on the computer. Anyways, put it all in the box, and put it somwhere you never look at typically, like the back of a closet. That way you arent reminded so easily of the relationship and if you need memories, it's all in the heartbreak box. Hope it works for u! good luck! : )

[Vannie47]

i juss got out of a serious as fuck relationship..im gonna listen to this guy and see wut happens so i guess i am goin to sign up for young marines to get my mind of things

[BeingME55]

Me and my wife separated a little over a month ago. I miss her so much and I want her back. I'm still madly in love with her. There are some days that I do fine, but then I have some days where i think about her all day long and even cry for her. I miss you lydia, please come back to me and im sorry for what I ever have done to you.

[TLKGuitarMan]

does the pain ever end? im 17 years old and I just came out of a very traumatic relationship and im seriously considering suicide..is there any hope of being happy after love?

[datsouthsideboi93]

yes...

[akroeker]

Yes! I've been through 3 serious relationships and I'm 27. They feel like the end but the pain goes away! Takes time but the relationships get better with time and you will get better at them.

[TLKGuitarMan]

thanks man..I don't feel as bad as I did but it still hurts when I think about it x[

[ocall1919]

yes, of course there is

[nikki51572]

thanks

[VivekArathi]

Nice and positive advise. Thank you Sir.

[paulrodriguezart]

thank you

[Toorop847]

A workshop? Those exist?! Sign me up!

[StevoeUSA]

this guy helped me!!

[yabadabagirl]

Take responsibility. You love someone thats fine. That does not mean that they will treat you right - accept that and decide to stay or walk away. If you believe you deserve better then better will arrive. If he/she did you wrong, trust that they will not escape bad karma. Retrieve your power by not stooping to their level. Remain dignified, assert any rights to child maintenance etc and make sure that although you may not be with the person they must be accountable for example any children

[imluvinit777]

thanku 4 this x x

[S67906]

You can and you will, but it takes effort on your part. Stop focusing on your pain and start healing by working on yourself by volunteering, go back to school or take a seminar course.

[FENDIN10]

Nothing can make you stop loving someone.

[johnsongM16]

@FENDIN10 My crush who I loved for 6 months wants to, for her boyfriend :(

[lexxaayloulou]

this is....

pathetic.

yeah, that's the word.

[AdminDan]

it's hard to get over a break up if you were in love.. incredibly hard.

[holla06]

i guess i was inlove...it's complicated. i feel i will never love quite right again.