Dan Savage on Whether Threesomes Ruin Relationships

[lcowles]

Sorry....you don't hear about the threesomes that have "worked out" because there aren't that many of them...probably none. It's fun for a bit but someone always, ALWAYS ends up being the third wheel. The universe is about polarity, two sides of ONE coin, ultimately unified, Yin/Yang. Sun/Moon Day/Night. It's why we instinctually seek unity in relationships. Life is about balance and there aren't THREE sides to a scale. Only two...if it's meant to remain balanced.

[WhatsBiPolar]

@lcowles "It's fun for a bit" Well me & my husband have been together for 10 years, we've had more than a few threesomes. . . . they are ALWAYS fun! I will admit that sometimes someone will "fall to the sidelines" but that isnt always a bad thing either: watching can be fun too!

[vassalofodin]

Didn't know so many women wanted to take a trip to Savageland. Not that I blame them.

[acustophile]

@jbook88 now I've seen a turd that can type!

[jbooks888]

The right reasons for a threesome - oh my... words fails me. Now I've seen EVERYTHING! A turd that can talk.

[SaruCharmed]

What if you are a bisexual guy with another guy who is very in love with you but he mostly likes girls. Both of us are young, and have never had sexual experiences with a girl before. Someday, he wants to know what it's like to have sex with a girl. And I told him that I'd probably be okay with it one or two times if it's with the two of us together and a girl (not separate) and because I would also like to know?

[Karanime]

-raises hand- We're in an open relationship, and yes, people do look down on us.

But we look down on them for looking down on us, so I figure it all works out.

[Armistance]

Dan is a DILF.

[RandomUserDude22]

i wish Dan was a straight man that liked to perform gay acts. How hot would that be?

[fireangel0428]

i wish dan was a straight man

[cestkoko]

Straight couples with children have a particularly strong motivation to keep that aspect of their lives out of light. There are still a lot of communities in this country where that, in and of itself, can cause them huge problems as parents.

[garghamell]

Tiger would love this.

[Rillion12]

Like positive drug experiences. "How about a positive LSD story, that would be newsworthy. Don't you think? Anybody think that? Just once, to hear a positive LSD story. "Today, a young man on acid, realised that all matter is merely energy condensed to a slow vibration. That we are all one consciousness experiencing itself subjectively, there is no such thing as death, life is only a dream, and we are the imagination of ourselves... here's Tom with the weather." -- Bill Hicks

[Llawliet246]

@Rillion12 RIP Bill Hicks.

[Snoep76239]

@Rillion12 The media does that with everything from firearms to pitbulls. Happy stories don't sell headlines.....

[weirdduck88]

I wish I could have a threesome with Dan. :)

[dragonstorm83]

lol

[GoHiltyGo]

i wish i could have a twosome with dan.

[bkrage85]

You and I both duck, you and I both. How about a quad? Hehehe

[koifishy02]

LOLOL bkrage85....

[ahowell7]

me too