Dating Tips - How To Get Comfortable Approaching Women

[Uriel2129]

hey what do i do when i said something wrong to a girl and then she doesn't want to talk to me ? Can some one help (i love this girl) :  (

[wfg3james]

that's stupid, women are hard to talk to because they are picky.

[kos66t]

Yeah but why on earth do men have to approach women? Does anybody ask that question? What is the reason? What for?

[LastBankJob]

Outside homeless shelters and methadone clinics. Easy pickin's.

[Andreano123]

You have no idea about women. Lol, what a waste of time, hearing women talking about women.. haha

[tdogaceslimthug]

saying how was your day today your looking beuttiful like the sun

[20MrBigmac]

WARNNG!!!! DO NOT APPROACH FROM THE REAR!!! it never works

[fullfist]

"never take advice from a women about women... "

soooo true, they are clueless about themselves xD

[animus999]

i meeting chicks in carparks! ;) lol nice tits btw

[zoonica]

You are a Hottie

[thepapasmurf2]

I only watched this video because youre half naked.

... What the hell were you talking about?

[fishersann2k7]

this is fucking cheesey as fuck just stop bitch

[walker1054]

BS thats not a bra lol

[DanielJustinLeBlanc]

I was in the bank the other day and a 10/10 was cashing my check for me. She looked at me a couple of times and smiled (not being cocky but I am good looking but don't have much game yet) and I froze. Then she said, "Is there anything else that I can help you with today?" and I froze like a fucking pussy. What is something clever that I could have said in that situation? Thanks.

[wazii6]

and by the way you have a GREAT MID SECTION

[wazii6]

you should make more videos simarar to this one

[bruceleeC64]

approach her at her fanny

[JAMESLARKIN1983]

this was good advise i got into it, but the way it was edited was great and made me laughed : ) and the fact she was in a bra was genius

[GKA87]

she is in her bras to show that she is confident about herself. she is "comfortable with herself"

[MrEasymaker]

She looks great

[itsmedontusee]

this is fucking crap. this doesn't make sense at all. girls themselves dont even fucking know what the fuck they want and it pisses me off. look up paul janka, he knows what he is talkin about and then i mean really knows what he is talking about.

[JOELMILLIONAIRE]

If they wear sleep wear in public ... I am definitely approaching ...

[farcluun]

Thanks for the advice, I have been married and don't need it, but am glad you are helping they guys.

[Nobama0000]

Is she inside a Japanese restaurant?

[DRiPPz6800]

wtf, she is in her bra

[dalecampbl5]

so scantily clad

[Zyandian]

i go to college to socialize. lol

[insolence]

@Zyandian lolo...

[1852738]

girls go to malls to find guys..... and they meet them there .........duh

seen them, met them, and do them......

[DieserBenuterIstCool]

THIS GIRL LOOKS LIKE AN ALIEN

[delpha3110]

yes when there in the shower and she has camara`s on the room..got it ..[pratts}put your clothes on or is this strpe advice

[AvihooI]

Guys, you'll be making a huge mistake listening to a girl when it comes to hitting on OTHER girls. Reminding you, if she's not a lesbian she has never even hit on a girl - how would she possibly know what girls like? Listen to girls like that and you'll be getting closer and closer to the friend zone and away from lay zone. Cheers.

[DjKDM7000]

@Avihool: If guys want dating advice, then the BEST place for them to go is to EXPERIENCED or KNOWLEDGEABLE MALE Pick Up Artists or Coaches- who have knowledge in the area of the laws of attraction and psychology. There may be a few instances when it's smart for a guy to listen to a woman give this type of advice, but do not listen to anyone at all who is telling you to do something logical, based on emotion (or vice versa) because those two things do not mix..

[eaglemihnea]

that makes no sence, if you are unconfortable talking to women that why the heck would you go to a club? u will most deffinetly be unconfortable there.. if you are an alfa male that drives a bmw and has 15 inch bicepts then u can go to clubs and pick up the hot blond whos a dancer and is into money........least thats how it is in my little corner of the world

[DjKDM7000]

@eaglemihnea: The best thing to do is learn the laws of attraction and then learn how to meet women in the places you tend to frequent. Money, looks, or anything physical should not be a major issue- IF you are doing the right things that women were NATURALLY wired and programmed to respond and be attracted to. Logically it all doesn't make sense, but you cannot apply logic to emotion and attraction. This is where guys mess up- trying to use logical thinking to solve this "problem"...

[DjKDM7000]

@eaglemihnea pt2: Also, the belief that women only want men with a certain type of car, certain amount of money, or certain looks- do not fall for it. It seems logical to believe someone who's saying those things to you, but anything anyone tries to tell you from a logical state of mind doesn't matter once emotion kicks in. Attraction is not a choice.. so if a woman feels attraction towards someone, that's it, regardless of if they WANT to or not for whatever reasons.

[xavibrit]

This one is pretty obvious

[metret69]

a good place i find is a bar on a slower night

[insanemoe]

I wanna meet a woman in my bed

[emptyness99]

don't ever take an advice about dating women from a "women" , the negative cant attract the negative , only the positive can ..

[tim66214]

Hi Nicole, Great video, I don't have good luck meeting them at the bar. I have to think about this question some more.

[supernova58]

why is she naked??

[benjibenjo1]

I totally disagree with some of your points. I have successfully approached women in line at the coffee shop. I have even gotten girls who are studying in the library. It just depends on your ability to talk to women.

You have to learn how to be smooth.

Dress sharp all the time.

Dressing well and having a good smell makes u attractive.

Approach 5 women a day for 3 months.

U will subconsciously gain confidence and become attractive to women.

PRACTICE PRACTICE PRATICE

is the key.

[777971]

yeah i have a secret plece.. your home

[giles2a]

I found that I can't aproch a woman in a bar/club/party where there is a lot of people,I find it easyer to talk to a woman on the street or somewhere quiet.

[destinyson23]

at least you are comfortable doing that. I find the street quite hard, particularly if there are lots of people around.

I've had my successes doing it, but if you are comfortable doing it, that is a great step forward and you shouldn't forget what you have achieved.

[RNRDOLL]

I think many of you missed some of the subtle language in her words...she said if you're just starting out/uncomfortable, then start simple like a place where people are already in a mode to meet others. For more experienced folks, yes meeting someone can be anywhere you go if you're open and comfortable enough to do that.

[mulong]

theres so many ways, what matters is how you.. but i like talking to girls who work at the store easy way to approach

[puddrulesall]

I find that women gather at events in my local convention building and also at street fairs when looking for sex.

[Zendau007]

Anywher wher ther not busy or occupied is good. Fx: wait til u both ordered ur food & open while u waitn to pick it up.

Othr good places r shoppin at grocery stores, studends just hangin on college campuses, or sittn down readn a book alone.

Protip: also it is increasingly easier to meet ppl when you have ppl. Whether its a group or one woman u approach, having cool friends around will make it more fun for every1 If you are blessed enough to have such friends. I still approach alone tho.

[xGundamz]

Well, i work as public relationship on a disco, my job is TALKING to woman, to make 'em like me and to enter in the disco by my name (Gets my 'score' up when owners count how many people used my tickets). So yeah, i'm used to meet girls on the street, first i use the looks and then my talking, but if you're ugly you got LESS Chances. Its all about the looks, if i were ugly i wouldnt have a chance in meeting girls on the street.

[leurseng]

never take advice from a women about woman...

[LickLikeStrawberry]

@leurseng ur right! women don't know what they really want! they are complicated creatures haha.

[vyrgo84]

@leurseng indeed i've experienced it to be the opposite of what they say lol

[Borchardt101]

Gotta call bullshit on this. It is way easier to meet girls at coffee shops and other normal places. Girls have their guard up way fuckin more at bars after being hit on 20 times in a row...and try to call her the next day, great fuckin time that is. meet girls where you like to go. ..

[3yE]

Yeah my guess is too she is trying to bullshit you guys. It is correct that one is prepared to meet people in social places like bars and clubs, BUT, you're gonna be compared to other guys there, and unless you seem to be THAT much better, you will be discarded in a few moments, or even right before you open your mouth.

[CNSZU]

this is my best advice to guys who want to pick up women: never listen to the advice women give you about how to pick up women. that's because they've never done it themselves.

[isl04033222]

I was driving, I saw a girl she saw me, I parked my car, I saw her going into a shop so i waited in a bus stop outside of the shop she wasent coming out, i went in and relised there was a big que in the shop, so i waited in the bus stop once again, she finaly came out.

[3DChris82]

Obviously they're more social at parties, but if I see a girl I wanna meet anywhere I'm gonna approach, what am I gonna wait till I happen to see her at a party?

[hatersfate2]

but the whores i go for dont go to dance classes

[NativeILLusioN]

i like to go to VideoDating Tips on youtube to meet women.

[BurningUp99]

Cute lady.

[simeonbanner]

She doesn't know anything. You have to do it when it's unexpected. Parties all those places are a complete waste of time. I'm surprised a women saying such rubbish....

[BurningUp99]

I'd have to say in my experience women are very hard to approach in general, they almost always have their guard up. It's not really their fault though. Guys have made women like that in our society and they are conditioned to be like that somewhere around the early teens. Women do not want viewed as just sexual objects or looked at like they're a piece of meat. Cute lady in the video btw!

[andrempunkt]

in most romantic movies, the guy meet's the girl in a everyday-place. I think, for a woman, it is some kind of fantasy to get approached in this situations.

[ytertyu]

my favorite place to meet women used to be table dance clubs , and had 100% success, now do it at a-go-go bars and despite getting few years older I still score perfect . damn , I must be good :)

[greatgmasta]

Man I suck talking to women, Stammering, or just not saying anything. I'm just bad at it.

[SpartanFiref0x]

Tried it! Done that! Where the hell does this woman get her advice? "I" have been to bars, and women there are"not" receptive worth shit. They completely ignore me. Same goes everywhere else. It's not that they have there guard up, that's just an excuse. They simply don't know what they want. At a party she says? Ya if you want a one night stand. But if you want something a little more meaningful, where do you go? Enlighten me?!

[hellokhris]

Show us your tits Nicole!! You will get more viewers.

[jk41]

that not a bra really

what?

no ; )

either way

you look cute as hell

[chocoboblue99]

I don't agree with Nicole. Women have more of their guard up at parties than at coffee shops. Sure, the girl will be surprised to be meeting someone at a coffee shop, but it still way easier than trying to break down her wall at a party.

One last thing, why was Nicole in her bra? Could it be that she was wearing that just to get people attention to click on her link? It did sure work for me, but I so don't agree with the info giving out.

[VideoDatingTips]

Two things - it's not a bra, it's part of an outfit that has a jacket with it. It was insanely hot in the room we were shooting in.

Second, when women are at parties... they are in social mode. When a woman is in social mode, she's more receptive to meeting people. When we're approached on the street, we tend to have the same reaction that YOU have when a beggar comes up to you and starts chatting. You KNOW that person wants something, and you're waiting for him to just ask.

[CocoCruise]

Is that right? I try and approach women in places like bus stops and supermarkets. YOu think that won't work? Won't I have less competition in the street?

And Nicole, you speak well. It's great to hear dating tips from a woman. I'm used to too much advice from Mystery & Neil Strauss. I'll definetely try the dance classes and parties. But I still think that I shouldn't just stick to them. They are only available on certain times of the week. BUt the streeet is there 24/7 !!

[rcdude57]

That is a reaction that YOU might have when you're approached, but it's not a universal female opinion. Meeting women in the day, at shopping malls, coffee shops, etc, is a certainly out of the norm, but it's not universally unwelcome.

It all depends largely on HOW a guy approaches a lady. I refer to "Alex Coulson" here on youtube. Watch a few of his daytime approach videos, and it may in fact change your mind on the subject.

[milpatel83]

I completley disagree. It really isn't about where woman are receptive to conversation from a stranger. All woman look for that serendipidous moment - that strange place where they met a guy and hit it off. Guys that talk to woman away from parties STAND OUT. They are not just the next guy hitting on them at THAT club.

[wazii6]

@VideoDatingTips you have a marvouls mid sectoin it arealy nice looking bosteia realy good look for you

[thatjamicanguy]

@VideoDatingTips agreed. when girls are at clubs or parties...they're usually wanting to meet guys

[IAMpersonality]

@VideoDatingTips woow. thats bullshit... woman may be surprised at being approached by someone outside of a social event but we like it more

[The15Story]

Wow! I would like to meet you.

[4pplez]

i wonder why (sarcasm)

[yandirector]

guys, you can approach girls ANYWHERE! Just be yourself and go for it and don't be afraid of being rejected because you WILL get rejected anyways. But dont give up, be optimistic, confident and BE YOURSELF. think about it - even if it's in a mall, or a store or on a street, GO FOR IT because you might NEVER SEE THAT GIRL EVER AGAIN. dont go to a "special" place to meet girls. if you see a girl you might be interested in talking to - WALK UP to her and say "HELLO"!

[mikeym5]

What do you mean by "be yourself"?

[GokuMartry305]

Those enviorments our better because you have a better chance in having a women be more social because the next day if you call her she won't remeber you. Its like tele marketing that she won't remeber you from that club/bar/or party :}

[mikeym5]

Useless compliment.

[Didleeios88]

Why in the world would you make an advice video like this without a shirt on? :-s

[TheCastellan]

You're complaining? XD

[Cauchy77]

Bullshit, tell this to any pickup arist and he will laugh in your face. Guys, you can approach women everywhere.. it just has to be comfortable and right.

[28jul1821]

i never take my dating advice from women

i only take it from men who are successful with women

you twich too much and put a shirt on

some good tips tho

[PUAlessons]

APPROACH WOMEN E_VER_Y_WHERE BECAUSE IT SIMPLY IS A GOOD EXERCICE

why is she not wearing clothes??

[jaycalvnatn]

so untrue! bar n clubs r the worst place. women don't know what they want i swear

[arisremounia3]

do you have the air-condition on 30 degrees or sth? otherwise why don'tyou wear a shirt? kinda weird!

[politirel]

Put some clothes on Nicole.

[WWEinvadesTNA8]

guess im gonna have to be to one to ask it... whats with the bra?

[Tainted0Pker]

No get male attention...

[technohunger]

just like ma gf....i dont listen while she talks....instead i check her out...

[pouppeefabrikk]

... Put a shirt on.

[Luv4Game1]

Nice Nicole, I'd meet with you.

[blueblue48]

the tittie bar

[whidzee]

Hey Nicole. in my experiences women are sometimes surprised, but usually quite receptive to a conversation waiting for a coffee, or whilst doing the grocery shopping. guys, its actually easier at places like this as (unlike Nicole says) women dont have their guard up, like they would at a bar or a club. dance classes are great, but I personally find meeting women as you go about your day is so much more fun. Just start bantering with her. if anything you'll just make her day.

[abkmf]

Thank you very much for these tips. I always feel awkward when I try to meet a woman and anticipate rejection. I will follow what you posted on your video (Y)

[Doo0ne]

Do u take it in the dungpipe?

[Brettwbeyer14]

actually it is harder in places like clubs and bars because women get so much trafficking from guys that it becomes harder to make a good impression and women seem to put their guard up naturally in response to so many guys comming up to them. in a more normal setting where women are doing errands they actually are not as prepared for a guy, so as a result they actually are not going to be as defensive and bored with what's going on.

[oachakzai]

look cool!

[pkerNwotz]

Well this wasn't at all corny...