She says she needs space. What does this mean and what can I do?

[Groudie101]

Don't you love how that woman makes it seem like there's always a valid reason for wanting space(school,work,problems). What a fallacy. I've known some women to use this as an excuse to sleep with someone they've been wanting to sleep with for a while so they won't be accused of cheating. Some women use it as a loophole in the "contract" of commitment. If your relationship has problems then communication is the answer. The last thing you need is "space". For me, Space = It's over forever

[soonerdave01]

No it means forever. Sorry but you're officially in the "friend zone" when you hear this.

[KaitlinChristel]

Im going through this right now with my boyfriend, He says he needs space. We have been dating for 3 years now and this is the first time this has happened. I havent called him or texted him. Is this going to be a good thing or a bad thing?

[mcdelive]

@KaitlinChristel well let me put it in a nicest possible way, babe u just have to move on from him, he dosent desire u anymore... But if u really wants him back (I mean really really) then u need to dress much hotter & look sexier, & also make other men chase u, may be it will make ur boyfriend realise what he is missing. Also if u are a big time moaner or a nagger, may be u should cut that down a bit if he comes back to u & remember dont be too nice to him either, have to play ur cards right.!

[VAMPXIII]

My girlfriend of 5yrs just told me she needs space I'm having a hard time coping as all of our mutual friends have been hanging out with her and ignoring me I also have a bleeding stomach ulcer and the stress is making it worse I want to give her the space but I feel the world has turned against me what should I do

[mcdelive]

@VAMPXIII Man this is tricky one, may be u need to start looking for other girls. Else if she ask for space, u just have to give her exactly that, stop contacting her, mean time she might try to be nice to u for sake of being friends, dont ever let that happen, coz its going to hurt u more. U either be her boyfriend or lose her for ever...! Make her feel jelous every way possible, as long as she dosent love anyone else more than u she will come back to u soon, but for the moment give her space!

[blogx113]

since the relationship is not going the way shed like it to, she feels insecure about your feelings towards her and wants to quickly break up with you before you have the oppurtunity to reject her first. I swear that usually women want the oosite of everything they say or do. i dont know a women who doesnt. go away means stay and beg me not to leave and vice versa

[blogx113]

we are very hurt and angry if you dont pursue us during this space period, we will punish you greatly by not even telling you that we officially broke it off and we will start dating again without even telling you. this is very cruel, but we feel it is not, because in our mind you lied and toyed with are heart for the last few months and are pissed.

[blogx113]

I told my man i needed space because he wants to always regulate our dates i always have to drive to see him and he makes no sacrifices for me, im confused about how he feels about me and am angry because i feel he is selfish so i texted him and said i needed space. during this space time i will monitor his reaction, if he misses me he will beg for me to not break up with me, if he ignores me i will move on but wont tell him.

[blogx113]

when women cheat they never say anything, telling you i need space will only raise suspiscion, fyi if a person was going to rob a bank do you think they give off hints before they do it. hell no. Women are masters of cheating on men, we are not going to give you any ints you would never now a thing.

[blogx113]

when does a women ever want space? stupid men! if you are not pursuing her strongly and professing your love to her during this space period your screwed. Totally ignoring her will put this into her head" gosh i said i needed space and he doesnt even care, hes a liar he doesnt care or love me what a f-jerk.

[blogx113]

The problem with women is that they cant tell you whats bothering them cause they already did like a zillion times so they tell you they need space instead, because apparently you have denied or have not done what they wanted repeatedly. Us women dont want to come across phsycho or demanding so we use space as a way to tell you fuck off until you do what i want you selfish bastard- this is punishment we have no intention of really needing space, we only want you to chase us never give up

[blogx113]

if a girl tells you she needs space- you must act concerned and question it get emotional- this lets her now you really care and will reassure you that you really like her. She will refuse at first but you must send send her flowers or buy her jewelry, try to figure out why shes upset think about anything she has asked you or said, if you correct the problem than she will go back with you.

[blogx113]

these 2 are wrong they have no idea what they are talking about. Im a women when i say i need space is when i am trying to figure out whether or not i want to waste any more time on the guy. Also if i cant figure out what the guys true intentions are, if hes being selfish or just not being attentive enough, i decide that space is the best way to punish him, its not that i really need space i need him to visit more, be less selfish and make things clearer about us.

[blogx113]

@blogx113 i need space really means you are doing something to piss her off or the relationship is not progressing as she would like it to and again your being a selfish prick who never has any time. so shes telling you i need space, but heres the translation in her mind " you never have time for me and im confused about the way you really feel" I have no idea where this realtionship is headed its better i tell him i need space before he breaks up with me first.

[Mu5clehead]

she's definitely cheating on him...

when I cheat that's what I tell my girls

[PhoenixRulez]

I got that she aslo said she's giving me space? =s

(she broke up with me)

I'm over the break up but I'm still attracted to her but I'm finding it hard to move on by trying to be with other girls but I feel that yes they're good look but I'de still rather be with her, if that makes sence =S

by the way I love your theme song lol