Added: 2 years ago
From: Timaya
Views: 58,076
Sort by time | Sort by thread (beta)

Link to this comment:

Share to:
see all

All Comments (813)

Sign In or Sign Up now to post a comment!
  • I get what you are saying. But "bimbo" is the wrong here. I always thought bimbo is another word for slut, tramp, whore. Someone who sleeps around with everyone.

  • this is great advice.  thank you qaadir!

  • Omg got to love 1.39 when he pull them glasses down to funny

  • yea theres some trick cameras that make your head look longer and your face look different like u look in the mirror and look at your pic u just took on your cell and it doesnt look the same like wtf

  • lol he confuses me when he calls he's she's lol #LoveHim2Death

  • U Gotta put the water here, u gotta put the pepper there, u gotta put the salt in this,nd u gotta toast the bread.....OMG this boy is crazy lol LUV IT

  • Omg! you look like earkl XD

  • @celena332 :) Feels good huh?! We have to put ourselve on a pedestal first. Be happy how we are and what we can achive in this live. You can deeply respect someone but putting that person on a pedestal brings your own selfesteem down, we're all people, we all sh** and have a funky breath in the morning!

  • LMMMAAOOOO!!!! @ 7:34

  • Once again, he spits the truth! Oh yeah, ummmm...NO TEA NO SHADE NO SHADE NO TEA MS GIRL, BUT! YOU NEED TO FOLLOW ME, CUZ IM FOLLOWING YOU! :-) love you! @CertainlyCold

  • i love this vid its so uplifting!!!!

  • lol ur so funny :)

    great video

  • being educated does not make you intelligent girl! you placed that woman on a to high pedestal I guess and then you find out she aint all that.

    Stay true to yourself is the key! xxx

  • Nice video :)

  • Thankyou <3

  • this video is 13 minutes too long

    you combined like 4topics into 1vidoeo

  • I so needed to hear this today! :) love you Qaadir!

  • Aww, you make me want to come back to Decatur/Atlanta, Georgia!!

    I live in Tucson, Arizona now.

    I love your energy, you're gonna go so far in life!

    Your personality and passion is just so on fire and God is just going

    to bless you with so many wonderful opportunities!

  • This really hit home, I'm going through a similar situation (what you talked about towards the end.) You should have a radio show!

  • Actually..I have this converstaion with myself all day long. My mom PRETENDS to be an idiot it gets on my nerves so bad..mostly because I'm a girl and this is supposed to be somone I look up to not have to take care of since I was a child. My dad is the bully type and has made her submissive over the years and tried to do the same to me by beating me down my whole life. You need to tell this person they're in a lifetime of mysery because that's what my parents are and what they've made me.

  • messages like this help me a lot some days

  • I luv those glasses

  • STEVE URKLE!!!!! WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN??

  • Thank you so much for these vids about being true to yourself. So many people hurt themselves by judging themselves and thinking about what they don't have when they could love themselves for what they do have. I have a hard time accepting myself not only physically but in every other aspect of life. Your words alleviate some of my stres.

  • After watching this I am in love with you... Speaking the TRUTH!! <3

  • Thank you, I needed this! :) I appreciate it.

  • ppl have been tellin me this for a year

    i heard you talk about no settleing

    and doing your own thing and loving yourself

    and i sware you chaged me!

    thank you sooo much

  • I go throught that with mirrors two. I think some have magnifying qualities about it that distorts you. Now which is the true mirror. Are their mirrors that squeeze you in and make you think that you look better than you actually do.

  • Hey Qaadir! I have been watching this video a lot. Your words always make sense. My cat Luther walked into my bedroom. He sends you his greetings. I also have two other cats named Grace and Martin. You are specifically right when you said, "You need to come first in your life." I educated myself on my own time by reading books from the library especially about nutrition supporting your statement about taking care of oneself.

  • THANK YOU Qaadir!!!! you made me feel so much better cuz i love looking at myself in the mirror and i felt bad <3 you're so right!!!!!!

  • So real

  • I really love this video it hit close to home for me. Everything u said is on point especially loving yourself and not settling for less!

  • preach it quadir!

  • Comment removed

  • 12:25 - 13:01 LMFAOO why dont yu have a tv showww ?!!

  • Be PaSSionate ! Have that fire burning in your soul for everything that you do in life! A day without a purpose is a day that is tooooo easily regretted.

  • your completely right .

  • Lol " oh no he realy luv meeeee!

  • Thank You for the beginning of the video :)

  • Thank you :)

  • you crazy girl

    true tea from 0:00-17:05!

  • Qaadir you really brought me back to reality and i really thought about it and honestly we should be thankful for all what god has done for us so thank you Qaadir :)

  • Your videos are on point!

  • You always say something to leave me thinking! Keep up the vids! :)

  • im\ want to hug you!!! everything you said reminded me of me.

  • You have opened my eyes. You inspire me sooooooo much. Im soooo glad you made this video=D Plzzz dont stop being beautifull and real

  • "You were on cloud 9 until it started raining, and you fell through that bitch. Now you're sitting on the dirt." LMBO! That's what's really REAL!

  • I <3 Qaadir!

    And lol @ Kung Fu Panda.

  • THANK YOU quaadir!. I really needed to hear this, u really opened my eyes. Keep doing what you're doing.

  • dude im racist..

    :/

  • i love those shades doll <3

  • How can someone so young be so wise?! You are AWESOME. Much Love.

  • OMGOOOOSHH if i ever ever ever ever neeeed a pick me up, I kno i need to just pick any of your videos and my day is goood. Thank you!!!

  • 5734511846240435501687148

  • Girl, I like your hair long and flowing. You should let it grow again

  • "u think u look good is not u being stuck up, u think u look good is u loving urself" damn right. i have struggled with this issue as well because i used to have a lot of acne and even when i grew out of it i criticized myself cuz i got so used to downplaying myself because of it. only recently i let myself love myself and accepted, "hey u look good, relax." thanks for this video, hope it helps others who have struggled with this issue. u're great :)

  • i luv how u hummed the nickeldoen theme for when the phone ringed

  • i feel uuuu..:D i cut myself down.. i dont even like posing sexily cos i feel up myself.. and its true i DO need to learn how to love me..

    Thank you for this video xx

  • God bless you. You have such a positive outlook on life; hopefully this has opened more people's eyes as well!

  • you are such an insperation keep doing what you do =) much love

  • maybe you're right. i don't like bragging myself, so i bag on myself. maybe that lowers my self esteem.

  • haha this reminded me of Phillip Defranco xD

  • Thank you for making this video!! You are so real..sometimes I be questioning myself but you know what it is not wrong to love you and be confident! <3 *sending positive energy your way b/c you deserve it...love your positivity and sense of humour in videos* keep doing what you do

  • This was such a great video, with an awesome message. I love how you can have the hilarious videos that crack people up but bring it down and keep it real with videos like this and give guys and girls the word they need to pick themselves up and feel confident in themselves. Thank you!

  • this was awesome. I dont normally agree with everyhing that you say....but you sad that! i have listened to this five times cause it was so impactful.

  • PREACH, AMEN!!!

  • Your speaking the truth beautifully. Preach on!!!

  • you are a very special person!! ;)

  • Honey, you are my long lost girlfriend (in my head:-))

  • preach

  • i love u

  • preach! i like you. you make sense and you're hilarious. lmao @ glitch in the matrix.

  • love the advice always qaadir! I LOVE your videos :) espically the advice vidsssss!

  • Amazing as always, you rock!!! :]

  • omg i herd about youh on shane dawson you are awesome

  • Im not cocky im confident, so when you tell me im the best its a compliment! HA HAAAAA!!!!!

  • You are such a motivation, thanks. (:

  • SPEAK on it!

  • u motivate me

  • Go on girl!!! I love you so much Q. You are so inspirational and such a wonderful person. Keep doing what you're doing!!!!

  • I really love the way you elaborate your statements, your way of looking at things. When something comes up in my mind like: thats not right cuz... you get ahead of me, elaborate and then you show that you really thought of it before you start talking. I respect you for that, even tought I don't necessarily agree on thing you say. You are that kind of person one would want to get to know better because you're interesting. For haters: I'm not gay, just keen on people who think& know who they are.

  • PREACH! Its a wicked... wicked game people play when it comes to "money" and "love". Its a slow process that erodes peoples priorities... when you see that your priorities are out of whack in a relationship... its a wrap...

  • I completely agree with your message. Loving yourself promotes inner positivity that can exude. As a child of God, being made in His image, why would you not look and feel great?

    Sometimes people cut themselves down to make other people feel comfortable, thereby impacting their own esteem. Don't kick it with people that don't feel good about themselves, because they, in turn, don't want you to feel good about yourself.

  • okay im sorry i know this really has nothing to do with your video & btw i love your videos but i was wondering if you could tell me how to upload a video thats over 10 minutes?

  • I love the video, great advice.

  • you're great! you really do need to have a talk show or something.... you're a great person to look up to, keep up the awesome-ness! [:

  • You made some powerful points!

  • Cool Points, glad i came across your channel. Hope to c more.

  • I truely admire you! Thank you so much for saying what's in our minds and hearts. I have low self-esteem and need to stand my ground more in life. You are awesome!

  • Love the new mohawk! Keep these videos up, you are beautiful and hilarious!!!

  • I am so happy i came across your channel I love you!!!! you keep it 100% real

  • a wilted ass piece of lettuce.... beautiful!

    ily

    :DDD

  • I like the points you made. I can never say i look good even though that's what i see in the mirror, i just can't. i'm very insecure i guess. this made me feel better :) thank you.

    btw, i came here from shane's channel hehe

  • "maybe I'm a little intoxicated, did I have some NyQuil?"

    LOL this video was awesome; not just because of the funny parts either. You are someone to be admired!

  • Hey. I applaud you for being a normal person. I noticed that you came to Chris Crocker's page......I'm glad you aren't like him. Keep up the good work and you seriously need a talk show.

  • Omg i need to tell yu that yu have truly blessed me with this vidoe...i have been feelin so down nd bad about myself nd just watching yu has truly blessed me...i feel so thankful that God has blessed yu with the word of encouragement for others...i dont kno yu but i truly do love yu nd i pray that the Lord continue to bless yu...

  • I love this vid. I stopped myself from cutting myself down this morning. I'd just got home, changed to stop by my school to finish up some things for next semester and thought "damn I look good today" and left it at that. I went to school and I could see some people checking me out. It felt great to have that confidence and not feel guilty about it. :D

  • WOW LONG VID, but great =) lol

  • Qaadir, at times I feel like you're saying exactly what I'm thinking. It's weird almost, but you keep it real, and that's why i and many other people think you're fabulous.

  • i luv u man u soo real keep doin wat you do

  • old nick theme music on the cell phone?lol

  • AMEN!!!

  • I appreciate your opinion love. But let me be clear, Im not one deminsional. On one end you say you feel Im trying to 'please' others, and yet somehow you still manage to tell me what YOU prefer me to be and or see from me. So in theory if I went back to as you put it my 'Diva Rants' I'd then be doing excatly what your accusing me for which would be, me trying to 'please' somebody else rather than myself. Just a thought =)

    -Qaadir

  • I get your point, but after seeing your attempt to conform, I prefer what I was attracted to in the first place way more. If youre not interested in my feed back, I get it. Maybe theres a happy medium....just sayin. It's all for L.O.V.E. I too am an artist and critiques are not always fun to get, but for the most part they do help IMO.

    Also, its interesting how you respond to critique over lovefest. You are worthy of crituques galore because you have major potential.

  • Preach Boo

  • you should have a talk show, like Wendy Williams, she popped out of no where and late night loves her! they'll love you to!! i can tell ;)

  • man you are so real and right too. you have to live your life because people will bring you down and ignore you and act like your just not worth nothing. just be happy and do you and find the people that care about you because there out there, there not youre everyday people and you know when its true love because you dont have to do anything it just happens naturally. you are so real and just on point.

  • amen

  • i think we have a Republican on our hands!

  • LoL Are you saying Im the republican? Wow never heard that but I respect your view =)

    -Qaadir

  • You are incredibly funny and I love your videos because they are Hilarious! Also, do you mind watching my two currently-ongoing YouTube series and messaging me on how I could make them better, seeing you are a YouTube celebrity? I am a beginner and since you are hilarious, if you could help me I could become hilarious on youTube as well! Please help!? P.S. One series is called, "OzzWorld", the other is called, "Chibi Club"! Thank You!!!!!

  • you give such a strong message!!ur awesome!!!speak the truth!;)

  • you are so funny, but you pose such a good point! Ughh how much you do inspire me. Thank you.

  • MUSTY PEACHES... LOL... PRICELESS

  • Speak on it!!! You're telling the truth!!!

  • This is deep Qaadir, it's so funny but true we should be more thankful with what we got instead of allways complaining and taking little things for granted. Much love JMC

  • LMFAO! "YOU GOTTA PUT THE BUTTA HERE!"

  • Yo ass is too crazy and real. I swear we are related! lol

  • I LOVE YOU!!!

  • You need to be my bestfriend! 

    haha you are so wise and speak the whole truth!

    love ya Q!!

  • my friend always act like she dont know how to do anything, she act real stupid to get attention. its so annoying. she act like she cant read directions to make some effin easy mac. when we went to the club, all our feet were hurting from dancin in heels, but she was the one who jumped on the guy who brought us and was carried to the car like a baby wit a dress on. the car wasnt even that far away. shes a attention whore, so damn needy

  • Aaaaamaaaain. lol The T has been clocked and there's nothing else that needs to be said. Ladies and Gentlemen, take notes. The word has been spoken. lol

    Qaadir, you're awesome!

  • you're so awesome! your talks make my day! thank you! :D

  • 'umm excuse me, you're gonna eat this nasty rice that smells like musky peaches?'

    haha. you're wonderful! i love it!!

  • i was totally having a fight with myself struggling with insecurites, after watching yu made me realize that i need to love myself.

    i lovee youuu ! thank yuu :D

  • You are right on the ball.

    Love your videos. <3

  • awe, you made me feel better. :D

  • quaadir are you sure that the woman you know in this story is not a victim of domestic abuse. It comes back to control. In that house she might know she is under the control of this dumbass'es fists or his other abuses so that's why she plays the role of "bimbo" to let him have his precious control and not get punished for "showing him up". She would get flack for "emasculating" him by even so as cooking a pot of rice without making excuses to ask him and have him show his control.

  • lol damn i love wut u say

    ur fucken straight up i love u !

  • You are very wise. Even tho you still hv not acknowledge my birthday that I asked you to with me a happy birthday almost a month ago.

  • This made my day thank you so much :) I will remember this video always

  • I love your advice, you always make me feel good when I watch one of your videos. hondurianChick95 is right, you should have your own show. I know I would watch it.

  • thanks for the great advice appresiate

    it !!!!!

  • Instead of his raggedy a## learning something from her and bettering himself he basically forces her to dumbdown. Money don't matter as long as you're trying to better yourself. If he was only making 5K BUT doing SOMETHING to make more in the future I'll be 100 bout it. But if you just whatever bout and she got it....he can kick rocks!!!!!!

  • You have been blessed with God-given talents!

    Thank you for being you, doing you, and SHARING you with us : )

  • Very insightful young man!!! Great video! I agree with hondurianChick95! You should shop videos around!

  • you should have your own talk show

  • i needed this. :]

  • When a person wants you to quit working or drop out of school and stop being **independent** it's all about trying to have total control over you and putting you in a position where your choices are limited to what they provide and what they want and they can at the snap of their fingers can control your life because you have become dependent on them. And yes, they can and will ditch you some day and you will no longer have a leg of your own to stand on. You wont even remember how 2b independent

  • i wud never put on a fake face to be with a person i don't connect with. i don't follow the flows :)

  • You're wise beyond your years!

  • i second that!

  • :-D

  • luv ya!!!!!!!

  • Thanks for the confidence boost. :) and thanks to Shane Dawson for introducing you to me. I subbed you! :)

  • I love you :)

  • Musty peaches?? LOL.

  • "whateva the` case might be!" haha loveee itt!!

  • oh em gee, you are sooooo right about everything! Thank you for being "that little voice in the back of my head"...lol :)

  • i dnt really know how to ask this without being offensive so Il just um..ask, this is a female, and not a (gay) man, right?

  • Comment removed

  • He's a gay man, love.

  • it's a gay man.... and he is awesome! =)

  • Comment removed

  • This is so true! You are absolutely right!!!

  • I LOVE YOU.

  • you are so inspirational, thank you so much for this video. this can really help a lot of people, you are so wonderful! thank you :)

  • love the video ! keep it real. Love ya!

  • Thanks Q! I really needed that wake up call.

  • Qaadir I really must say that you are a special person, not in a bad way! I can really see you becoming rich and famous in the near future. Not only are you funny and very comedic. You are also a very talented dancer and singer and you have a very inspirational voice. You should really think about doing public speaking for the gay community...

    You are talented in so many ways!! I hope you'll be able to use one of those niches to your advantage!

  • omg i use to do tht...ya knoe say i look nice nd then change wat i said bc i thought i was being conceited but ur right :))

  • MMmmm hmmm! Your right!. Love yourself and others will follow!

  • "you are not his boyfriend you are his purchase" ooh wee ".... he will replae you"

    wow that spoke VOLUMES to me

  • i am so glad i got over that stage of my life. guys use to want me just because i had a big but. don't get me wrong i was a hottie too. but i eventually noticed that and i use to make that second trip to the mirrior. i was a tom-boy all the way up to my sophmore yr in high school because i was scared to look beatiful b/c of ppls jealousy. i ran into my husband in not too long later and i did not care anymore. if he thought it was fresh i wore it and i still be rocking with my husband to this day

  • Ok , why lower your standards just to make others feel more important? Your are right. My Mama always says this . I made that mistake once,and I never did that again.

  • I'm not usually a fan or anything, but this video is 100% truth. Kudos!

  • THANK YOU

  • sadly I myself act like a bimbo sometimes to other girls especially this one girl because shes really insecure about herself and she gets jealous of girls easily so i purposely act dumb and silly so she can feel better about herself by thinking shes smarter then me. cus honestly im prettier then her and shes been jealous of me before.

    but qaadir you seriously made me re-think about acting that way now.

  • xD lol

    1:45

  • Love Ya Boo!!

    Again u speak the truth..........

  • He sure does :) <3

  • Can't believe I just finished all 17 mins! without boring, Loved it :)

  • another awesome video. your insights about self-talk and not questioning the mirror is true talk. I know I'm always trying to bring myself down when I look good. time to stop!

  • Yo, I was dying of laughter during the hello, this is brinks security part.

    But on the serous tip, this is such real talk. I know girls who have gotten with dudes with money, quit school, quit work, DID NOTHING. And then when they got dropped, they were stuck standing still for a good minute. smh.