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  • Those docters i m so mad at them how could they not help them!! They could have tried and save minimal one life!!!! Werent you mad at them for not trying. I feel so sorry for you. Got tears in my eyes. This world is so sick pffff. They are with Jesus now, in peace.

  • This is so sad makes me wanna cry :( rest in peace little babies :( :'(

  • I had a baby at 23 weeks gestation and he turned 19 years old in August. The doctor said he could not survive a delivery and that his lungs were too frail. I decided to have a c section so that the baby would have a better chance.  When the baby was born, he cried. Along with surfactant in the lungs, he was intubated. The first 4 years were the big challenges. The doctors go by statistics. My son had a 2% chance of living. My son is so full of life and is healthy.

  • @yclarice Thank you for this comment.... in a way.... I'm glad that your son survived but as you put it, also enraged still that things went the way it did....

  • Dear parents to theese angels in heaven, please stay strong.. i have been threw something similair. my twin sister died in my mothers stomach. my brothers twin brother died my mothers stomach. and to all those saying it must be so hard for them. it is i have been threw such loss

  • what country did this happen in? So very sorry for your loss's.

  • This is wrong I too would go after the doc they should of did a cerclage or put you on Meds that was negligent and 4 innocent babies die because of 3 whole days difference ... what is wrong they should have atleast tried ... Im sorry for your loss ... I could never imagine

  • :"(

  • come on,this is so sad =( do the doctors have brains or something ! God Bless Them =) all the best in ur new baby too =)

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  • hope things get better sorry for youre loss when i was preg with my son was told 23 weeks must be diffrend in every contry i ended up carrying to 38+1

  • My goodness, this makes me so sick to my stomach with sadness, you lost four children at one time, and they wouldnt.... ugh...

  • Father, forgive them for in their blindness to life they cannot see the grace you would have sent them and others had they tried to save these little ones. I do hope that you were able to bring a case against the hospital so that they learn that life is worth fighting for and that they are not the ones that should have made that decision. Every life is precious! You will be in my heart and prayers. Thank you for sharing your love and pain with us. In Christ Jesus we can forgive and love.

  • It's so sad....

  • My love to you. That is very wrong the hospital didnt try in some way.

  • I am so sorry about your lil ones they were so beautiful. And they could have saved your babies the doctor was just being to lazy and stupid. I would take them for every thing that is so wrong letting your precious babies die. Who are they to make the decision as to weather they die or live. God gave us the knowledge to save such lil ones so the doctor should have tried and if they didn't make it then it was God decision to tale them. I real am so sorry for your loss.

  • That's HORRIBLE! The doctors should have done something just in case they would live!

  • :'( this made me cry .... sorry for your lost .... theres nothing wrong with trying i wish the docters could have tried !

  • Oh my gosh. Im so very sorry for your loss. Im very sad that the hospital didnt even try. What absolutly perfect angels you have.

  • OMG... :( That's so sad!! I can't believe they did NOTHING!!! :( I'm so sorry!!! I can't believe you had to go through the loss of 4 children at once. There are no words.

  • That was so sad! I'm really sorry for your loss. They were beautiful. May god bless you.

  • i am so sorry for you that is not even right...

  • I am crying so much ... can't believe the doctors did nothing to help ... I have no voice...

  • this is so heartbreaking! thank you for sharing your story and the pictures of your four beautiful beautiful children! I am crying for your loss and about such laws that make mere numbers decide who gets to live or die...

  • Why wouldn't the doctors even try to help the babies they were only three days away from 24 weeks and there were four babies that's so sad

  • i am crying my eyes out

  • i am so confused... they were alive and they killed them???

  • @MrGooby65

    Yes our babies were alive and crying, but the doctors didn't want to help them and overdosed them with morphine.

  • @jbcarey wow, what shitty doctors . im sorry for your loss.. theyre in heaven anyways.

  • @jbcarey I think that should be considered murder come on why would someone decide not to help sustain the life of innocent babies who are already fighting for their lives, when they have the technology to help them survive.

    This angers and saddens me I am so sorry for your loss.

  • @jbcarey That is murder (4 counts of murder)....I would go after that doc or doctors and the hospital for everything they are worth and make sure that doctor never practiced medicine again. Doctors take an oath to "First Do No Harm" and what they did was play God.....who's to say how your children would have fared if only given the chance.....I am glad to hear your wife went on to have another successful pregnancy but am soooo sad and angry that this happened to your four precious babies.

  • @jbcarey omg that is so mean... what mean doctors...

  • @jbcarey What!? That is so sick :(

  • they will always have a special place in your hart!

  • i only disliked this because of what you went through. im so sorry.

  • i dont agree with the hospital at all they should of atleast try every life is worth saving isent that what the doctors always say 3 days shouldnt of mattered im so sorry or your lose they were very beautiful and they atleast new they were loved thats what matters i hope you all of the happyness in the world and i wish i could hit the dr for you

  • My dear, dear lady. Thank you for sharing your babies with me. I'm not sure where you are from, but sadly I think in America the gestational age for survival will rise to 28 weeks. I'm sure the federal government wouldn't dream of caring for smaller and weaker babies because it will cost too much. These precious ones will need a voice to speak for them. Blessing to you and your family.

  • aww im sorry for ur loss, hugs and love ur way <3

  • In this state it's 24 weeks. Despite that I still believe that hospitals need to give medical attention to babies no matter what gestation they are especially if the parents want it. 

  • this is so sad :( that hospital are totally out of order im sure 4days wouldnt have made much difference, sorry for your loss.

  • sorry for your loss :( you had 4 beutiful children.. the doctors and nurses should of tried there best to keep them alive :( god bless you and your family

  • 7.22 is my son's birthday; God bless you.

  • I feel so sorry for you. I had my daughter early also but she survived. And I thank the lord every day because she is alive. I pray that this never happens again. My sister in-law is 9 months pregnant and might lose the baby because of lack of fluid in the sack. They expected her not to live this long. Some times these things happen and we don't know why.

  • I'm so sorry. God bless you

  • i'm so sorry god bless

    they died on my birthday :/

  • iam sorry for your loss.. just think god need 4 little angels to watch over you guys! and the hospital who ever gave that aproved its full of s***

  • I am so sorry for your loss :(

    I would of sued that hospital BIG TIME if i was in your situation and they let my babies died...the nerve of some people these days..

  • This made me cry, and has left me speechless. I'm glad though that everything went well with your new son.

  • this made me cry sorry for your lost

  • I am so sorry for your Loss, God will grant you better kids, maybe they were meant to become bad ones! who knows...that is for the best I pray God gives you happiness in your heart and soothes your pain with new love :)

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  • that is the stupidest thing to nt help u 3 days before... who fn cares how early it is they should at least try and not say weel ur babies are just 3 days 2 short of us trying to save them so theyre arent allowed to be saved or even for us to try.. sorry just mised it.. darn try again next time... i mean obviously they were more sympathetic than that but thats probably what u heard... there should not be a limit if they are able to be delivered

  • i am so sorry :'( fly high angels <3

  • this video is so upsetting...what those drs said and did is completely wrong and makes me so unbelievably angry, sadly its too late now but i recently watched a show about multiple pregnancies and vfosson is right drs can save a babies life with quality nicu care or the proper drugs to stop contractions....im really really sorry for your loss

  • damnit this made me cry :-<

  • Such beautiful babies...it's so wrong...I'm in nursing school and I'm just questioning why the doctors didn't put you on meds to stop the contractions or intervene in another way..I'm so sorry for your loss..I will pray for your family and your beautiful babies. Blessings...*hugs*

  • :( god bless u and ur family! ur very stong people!..... yes i would have fought those doctors into saving them but u never know what the outcome would have been... they are in heaven but still in ur heart...

  • I am extremely saddened by your loss and I feel that it was wrong of the doctor and hospital not to at least try to save their lives.

  • It breaks my heart to see videos like this. Anyway, they are up in heaven now with our Lord looking down at mommy n daddy smiling. At least now u guys hv a new bundle of joy....it surely is a blessing to hv kids at home with their parents!

  • It breaks my heart to see videos like this. Anyway, they are up in heaven now with our Lord looking down at mommy n daddy smiling.

  • Beautiful babies, I know The good Lord on High knows and understandands your pain, 'cause He himself gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not persih, but have eternal life (john3:16). I'f you're ever heart broken -or not- look for your Heavenly Father, He loves you dearly, and read the Bible and hold to His promises... and If you wanna know more about this, you can contact me. God bless

  • My wife and i share in your pain for we also lost twins, Now she is preg again and the Lord has Blessed us with two sets of twins also. I look at your angels and cry, harder than i use to before for I see the other angels that Camila and Uriel(name of the twins we lost) are playing with. Thank you for sharing God bless you so much!!!!

  • came across this video by accident and i'm so sorry for your loss bless all 4 of your little angels playing together now in heaven xx

  • @SuperLittlePaws : thanks for your blessings

  • I am so sorry for your loss and don't blame yourself because you guys didn't know any different. It's wonderful to see that you have been blessed with your son.

  • @beckachecka01 yes our son is amazing, especially cause he looks like our 4 angels

  • Oh my gosh i cried watching this video.im soo sorry and god bless you.

  • I would like to say thanks to everybody for the kind words and blessings, it's hard to reply everybody one by one.

    Thank you all.

  • THIS VIDEO AND CELINE DION'S VOICE WAS ALL TOO MUCH FOR MY HEART TO TAKE. . .RIP AALIYAH,KEANU,AMARU,AND KAYLEE

  • Thanks for your words

  • oh man.. i cried... im so sorry for your loss...if i were the doctor i would save those babies

  • I still think every day that i've should have put my foot down and keep screaming to help them...Thanks for your words

  • i'm so sorry for the loss you both suffered. I wanted cry when i saw that you had lost all 4 of them.

  • Thanks for sharing our pain

  • I am soo sorry for your loss and god bless you on your newest addition

  • Thanks for the blessing, our son Jayson became 2 last month, soon we will upload another vid of him

  • OMG I AM CRYING !!!! ;(

  • Oh .Thats so sad.I know how you feel Dear.I have a twins.It was the same dificult.All pregnancy in the hospital.Since 12th week.The doctors were great.When I got with contractions on 24 week and 2 days...they did everything to keep them as long as possible.They were still born earlly 33+4 day. You know,they also told me that they can get infection because I had opening on a 24th week...My God....I am crying when I watch your video....It is just so cruel,what was happened to you .

  • SoHo....time for a visit to the Dr.....World Coming To An End

  • this is bullshit!! you should have sued the doctor and the hospital.. they have no right to say no to their patient as long as the babies are breathing they should have done everything they could to have saved the lives of your babies.. i agree with vfosson regarding the NICU part..

  • Lovely little angels were sent above to you. God bless. (cries)

  • sry for my language but thats is FUCKED UP on the doctor's part. That pisses me off..my friend was due in two weeks and found out the baby had no heartbeat and had to deliver it today. The doctor's have a moral and ethical responsibility to SAVE your children's life. I hope you guys got a lawyer for their stupidity. RIP 4 angels

  • omg... this is turly a great however sad clip... bless you and the kids... soo touching... XOXO

  • @enissem thanks for the blessing

  • I am so sorry for your loss. I really hope you bring a lawsuit against the doctors who decided to "let the babies die"! What were they thinking??

  • wow that was a very touching clip to watch wat beautiful babies they were bless you and your whanau

  • YEAH! that is BULL**** they should have helped your angels... Im so sorry for all that you have lost

  • Dnt know what to saii... My Condolences.. Through pain comes strength.. <3 GodBlessYou xx

  • my <3HEART<3 GOES OUT TO YOU & YOUR BEAUTIFUL ANGELS....I AM ASTONISHED AT THE FACE THAT A DOCTOR(s) CAN PLAY THE ROLL OF GOD???? THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO DO EVERYTHING MEDICALY POSSIABE TO SAVE THOSE CHILDREN....THERE ARE NO WORDS THAT I CAN SAY 2 YOU, I DO NOT KNOW HOW YOU FEEL, FROM 1 MOTHER 2 ANOTHER..MAY GOD BLESS YOU.YOUR BEAUTIFUL BEAUTIFUL BABIES ARE W GOD NOW..GOD BLESS <3 =[

  • My heart goes out to you and your family, I am very upset with the doctors, but they don't have the last say God does and he knows best! you will be in my prayers, God Bless you and your family!

  • all my love to you and your husband,that was a very moving video and very fitting tribute.Im so very glad that you went on to have a lovely healthy son.

  • R.I.P.

    Bless you and your Family!

  • I watched this in tears. My sorrow is so deep for you and your family. I know that time will only ease the pain, but never heal it. I cannot believe that doctors can be like that. They would have been 3 soon. Four littles precious souls. They will live on in your hearts. XXXX

  • omg tat is soo sad...i feel soo sorrie 4 u guys....it make me cry wen i c how ur babies were.....i can't believe te doctors won't even try tere best to help u guy....awww it a pity 2 lost all 4 childs.....

  • I don't understand how the doctors called the shots on those four souls, hope they made a God given decision cause someone will have to answer for that. God gave men the wisdom to do things, they didn't even try, that's unreal.

  • Thank you dear ones for sharing this story with us. It took courage. You are blessed beyond measure. You now have 4 angels watching over you always. <3 peace, love and light.

  • i hop u guy can have more baby that u can hop and love keep ps i am a girl and i am crying for u. i wish u a new and happy life

  • That's horrible. They should have tried and saved the babies, instead of not doing anything.

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  • This video is sad n all and wouldnt wish anything like this to happen to anyone. But why would you share something that personal with people you dont even know???

  • @09PurpleTurtles , because sometimes it helps to share emotions with others.some can and some cant, but we must never judge others if they can.Its somthing to be proud of.and im not having a go at you, im just offering an explanation.

  • I'm so sorry you lost your little ones. It is heartbreaking just knowing that happens to tons of people everywhere!

    Beautiful video... Life changing!

  • OMG, this is so sad, .and am very sorry for ur lose,Carey.. i have lost twins as well they came to early to this world and there was nothing doctors could do, it was my first baby's after 3 years marriage--- so u could think how i felt then, the doctors try to save them, but there was no hope... and i was in 24 week, and i needed one day to 25....

    Life must go on, now am pregnant again, 4 months , and i pray every day that everything will be good this time....

  • I am very sorry for your lose but I think you should have warned everyone. I was not expecting to see dead babies. It was disburbing. Next time you post a video use a little tac. I am really sorry for your lose

  • @TheJennay88  i agree with u..

  • that was Murder on the part of the Hospital...sorry for your loss

  • Terrible to lose four lovely babies, but the hospital should have explained that, if you had been carrying one baby it would have had a chance. Four babies sharing the same life support may have been quite a lot less developed than a single foetus.

    Don't despair, I still think you were given this experience for a reason. You've been given the chance to share this with others and maybe lessen their pain a little

  • Aaaaa god bless you now how many children you have god bless them I wish forever.

  • we are nearing the end of earth's history. You will see your babies again soon.

  • Your lovley babies are with their creator. I am sorry for your loss.

  • thats such a heartbreaking loss. i hope that u add to your family one day. xxx

  • Im so sorry! Thats terrible they told you they wee just going to let them die! Thats why they created what called a NICU!

  • I'm so sorry may God bless you.....R.I.P

  • R.I.P precious angels

  • I can't believe those doctors.Not doing anything.

    Precious lives not given a chance :/

  • So sorry for your loss now do you have another baby ? god bless

  • i cannot imagine how u feel to lose 4 babies at once, wat r the chances 2 sets of identical twins of both sexes in 1 pregnancy. ive had 2 miscarriages and im still healing. but this is soo sad, im sorry 4 u. and god bless u and ur babies. xx

  • I would of held the hospital hostage and made them try and save my babies.

  • im so so sorry for your loss :(

  • They seem perfectly beautiful. God bless you and your on coming childern.

  • They look so perfectly beautiful. Congratulations to you for the short time they were in your life, and also for your new baby. God bless x

  • I am so sorry I came out at 28 weeks but I survived, I was pretty lucky

  • im sorry..... : - (

  • i am so sorry.. may god bless you with beautifull babies later on .. dont worry .. RIP cute babies :(

  • im very sorry for ur loss !! but some times things happen for a reason and that reason god doesnt always wants us to know ! congrats on ur baby boy !!

  • aw datz so sad nd losinq 4kidz at dat juz breakz myy heart :(

    well juz cherish da momntz u did qet to spend with ur preciouz onez....

    my heart qoez out to you and ur family

  • i am so so so sorry. i know how much it hurts to lose a baby--we just lost our son last month. i am glad you have so many great pictures of your beautiful babies.

    "Be still, my soul: the hour is hastening on

    when we shall be forever with the Lord,

    when disappointment, grief, and fear are gone,

    sorrow forgot, love's purest joys restored.

    Be still, my soul: when change and tears are past

    all safe and blessed we shall meet at last."

  • I am so very sorry for your loss. May your daughter and son continue to be happy and healthy and may your four little angels watch over you always

  • sry for you loss, i know how it is to have a baby born early and not know if they are going to make it through the night

  • We're so sorry for your loss :`(

    God Bless your hearts.

  • soo there was actully four? not to make anyone upset im just curious... when there pictures were taken why were they that dark their parents looked pretty white to me? also were they dead while u were holding them? im soooo sorry..... im still young and have lots to learn. God bless you with more babies that live and are healthy...

  • they are born really premature, so their skin has that dark pigment because it hasnt fully developed yet

  • i had scan yestterday and i found out my twin died in 19 weeks...i dont what its gonna happpen :(

  • The doctors or hospital shouldn't have told you that because babies at fewer weeks gestation have been born and survived with quality NICU care. So your doctors misinformed you or are incompitant. Do they have the legal right NOT to save lives? They are ethically bound to SAVE lives by the oath they swear after med school. They would have grown up to be such beautiful children. I'm astounded and baffled by this. I'm so sorry for your loss...

  • @vfosson the doc could have save them i made them save my twin boys and 1 past alway but the other one is going to skool this year 2010 im sry 4 ur lost there in gods hands seeing u 4rm above

  • wow this is really so sad, to see them so tiny and defenseless... im really sorry for your lost, im very sure that you would have been really happy with all of them and that you would have taken good care of them, but is good that God rewarded you with another son

  • I am so sory for you both. Prayers be with you all.

  • this is so sad ium cryin rite now al least u had the moment to meet them n say goodbye stupid doctors

    god bless u wth more babies

  • i am angry and sad dat was such a harsh ting 2 do 2 4 little unborn babies if the babies wer 1 of da doctors dey will try and save it no mater wot it takes dem 2 do ^.^

  • wow I would SUE those Doctors. they could have at least tried to save them beutiful babies. Maybe they where just jelous that you had Queds and they didnt so they did not want them to live. I would have Fought them.

    So sorry for the loss that could have been stoped.

    they are looking down from Heaven at you now.

  • i am sorry for your loss my heart goes out to you both

  • I'm so sorry for your loss. This doctors made a morally wrong decision, which they have to face one day.

    God bless.

  • so sad...im sorry

  • morally not justified my arse!! thats horiblee!! i am so sorry,xxx

  • OMIG-D!!!!! I'm SOOOOOOOOO sorry! I was sobbing uncontrollably watching this! my heart goes out to you both. I can't believe you had to suffer so badly! I wish you have only good in the future.

  • y did the doctor's let them die? that is so sad that they didn't evan have chance @ life :(.

  • bratt

  • God bless you mate !!!!!!!

  • that is so sad i am sooooooo aorry

    stupid doctor

  • omg! how dare those doctors think it's "morally unjustified" to try and SAVE a life! my brother is on his way to becoming a dr. and he told me if he ever gets to the point where he doesn't care then he will quit and that's what those dr's. should do.

  • how do you prounowce their names

  • What 3 days going 24weeks? Still can put in the oxgen box & give medicine to safe them. The doctor never tried it?

  • im so sorry for your loss..that is so sad made me cry

  • Selfish uncaring doctors that get so used to seeing this type of thing that they have no heart left to show. I am so sorry for your loss.

  • im really sorry for all the pain you and yer husband has went through

  • Oh no. Oh no. Aw, I can't stop crying. That's too sad, too horrifying for words. My mom came in and was surprised because I was bawling uncontrollably. I really don't understand why the hospital thought that trying to save them would to morally unjustified. Can someone explain? I don't understand at all. Not at all.

  • so sad, I cannot imagine how you feel, 4 beautiful babies in a much better place now, much love to you all xx

  • Oh wow, I am so sorry. Chills are all over my body. My twins were preemies too, at 32 weeks gestation, weighing 3.8 and 3.13. In Nov, they will be 4 years old.

  • i can say i feel bad but the couple who lost all of there babies are the only people who can really feel the pain.we dont even have even an idea how painful was it

  • omg im soooo sorry this happen to u

  • this made me cry!

  • very sorry for your loss. very sad!!!! beautiful babies :( what a pity!!!!

  • How heartbreaking... absolutely heartbreaking. How negligent of the doctors to let you go home without checkups. I'm so so sorry for your loss. Stay strong and God Bless.

  • you will see them again and at least they are in a better place now away from those doctors i hope i will never lose a child later i woudl be heartbroken

  • That is the sadest thing that i have ever seen! HOW DARE THOSE DOCTORS!!!! They should be disgusted with their actions and decisions!

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  • The doctor's should ba ashamed of there selves! Bloody hearless if you ask me!

    There all gorgeous, soooo sorry for your loss

    Sweet dreams babies xx

  • am really sorry for ur lost.

  • A h God bless!!But der in heaven now!x

  • I am so sorry for your loss !!! God Bless

  • shame shame on those doctors n that hospital , that was down right heartless to tell any mother at any stage fo pregnancy that they wont provide any intervention ,i hope u sued the sh*t out of em ... we need to get the march of dimes to intervene maybe somehow that sadly your children may indeed have survived , look at the 10 1/2 oz baby in florida

  • god bless yal