1 Bi-girl's Story Of The Journey Into A Circle Relationship

[ladiv3568]

6:25 till about 7:15 is so awesome and so very true. It's important for women to remember that even without a man by her side or in her life she is, can, and will still be an awesome person. Finding and experiencing a great love just makes our lives that much better. It's so easy to get caught up in trying to be great for our partners sake we forget we were great even before them. "If he goes...he goes...i'm still going to be the shit!" lol That's what I'll take away from this clip =) LoveULeah.

[fogboxer]

Thanks for sharing your story. However, I don't see why other women agreeing with you made you change your opinion. This whole "circle thing" to me is just an excuse for him to gratify his own ego by having a harem while belittling yours. If he was able to make you change your relationship boundaries to satisfy his wishes at the expense of yours, what other choices of yours does he control?

[HonestRelationships]

Other women were NOT agreeing with me, it was the same thing over and over,just like your "this whole circle thing is just and excuse to gratify his own ego by having harem while belittling yours"are the kinds of stories I was hearing,and that is why I decided to go againstthe grain, because Iwanted to transcend feelings of belittlement,jealousy, fear...And I am a much happier and more free spirit because of it.I take 100%responsibility for the choicesthat Imake inmy lifepast,present and future.

[fogboxer]

I'm very glad that you are happier now, and I again thank both of you for sharing your stories with us. I had just come from a guy friend's house where I saw him once again exhibiting belittling, controlling behavior that unfortunately I have seen before in him and other men. (I am male myself, btw.) So I may have overreacted when I saw J. seem to order you around, saying, "Drink some water. Talk about.. talk about etc." The fact that you say that you will follow and he will lead bothered me.

[HonestRelationships]

I would have never thought that you were a man! This seems to concern a lot of people as well, but it really doesn't bother me. He sees that I need a drink of water, he tells me to drink, I drink and I am happier and more comfortable because of it. The things that he "leads", I am comfortable with because I know that he is coming from a non-manipulationg, non-controlling, loving space. I trust him, so when you see me "following", you are watching a relationship that has polarity.

[HonestRelationships]

When I say polarity I mean the natural flow within energy/relationships. Watching this video back, I was soooo nervous, and he was interviewing me. I needed that guidance so that I didn't lose track etc. These videos are what we do together because it is fun for us, and they are fun for me cause I have never done anything like this, like speaking my truth and posting it up for millions of people to see, its all so new and exciting. Peace and love

Leah

[fogboxer]

You said that other women were agreeing with your initial reaction of "What, he just wants to **** other women!" Of course he does, all men do, but by choosing not to we can give all our emotional energy to one person. It IS a 'program' to react in jealousy and anger to his expression of desires, but I believe it is a biological one, and not cultural and should be listened to and understood. If this process has truly allowed you to transcend jealousy, then you should be with other men as well.

[HonestRelationships]

You raise good points :) If I wanted to be with other men in our relationship I could make that decision, and he would be open to it as long as it was right but, in present time in our relationship I feel that I don't want to bring any male energy other than Jeremys right now. I do know that things change though :) But we are really wanting to play in the circle energy for now.

[zreamed]

I've just discovered Ideagasms & your video's-I find you to be very courageous by sharing so much of yourselves so thank you for that! After being married for 12yrs I've just started having sex with another man (my husband is very turned on by this & it has actually enhanced our relationship) - I guess what I'd like to know is would you ever see a circle consisting of 2men & I woman - and if not is it because of the Alpha Male role the male plays in a circle of 2women & I man?

[HonestRelationships]

Zreamed, hmmm, that is a good question. I know what Staphane would say if he were still promoting circles but from my point of view, you can always give it a try. I think that the polarity would be thrown off a little by 2 males, it is a lot easier for women to flow together than it is for 2 males unless one of them is more submissive then the other.

[JDubbsTheatre]

Awesome

[NoNonSenseLifeVLOG]

I think that you have great delivery in your speech