I don't need, or am I looking for advice at this time, but I did want to take the time and say that I like your personality, and also like the fact that you care enough to share your thoughts with us. Thank you for that. :)
it's SO hard to have friends like this in high school because all my "so called friends" always talk crap Bout each & are negative & love drama, I think you brought up a perfect point about: if they're talk about your friend then they probably already talk about you behind your back. It really is hard to have friends in high school especially when you go to a new school like me. *sigh* it's hard to find a loyal friend these days.
You said never judge your friends.OK I don't get that part.I judge one of my friends for always talking about herself,drawing the attentions always towards her,like if there was ONLY her in the world.I think I have to talk to her that this fact annoys me,because always trying to focus on oneself and not on the other person in a conversation can upset the relationship.So should I talk to her about that?You said don't judge,I mean I don't think I can change her,she always does like that!
@gizemsena ,"I don´t think I can change her,she always does like that" Seriously....if you call someone a friend you should not want to change them!! If it bothers you that much that she talks about herself a lot burn the bridge. You have no right to try and change her.
@IstalkBananas That was not the matter,I don't want to change her completly,that would be stupid!But should I really "burn the bridge" because of her always talking about herself?Shouldn't I talk to her about that?I don't know :(
im writing this list down..and posting it up in my room to motivate me to be closer to my friends and also be a great friend and have great relationships!
your soo lucky to have close girlfriends there so many girles out there that are sheep and follow the crowd. i have 4 close girls who trust in completely but i have losted soo many people because i relised they were a bad friend your talk was soo inspiring to me because its exactly how i feel and if more weman where like you the world would be a nicer place THUMBS UP FOR MISHELL BEING A LOVLEY PERSON ! X
My daughter had a heart transplant she just turned 2 and is already being teased becuase one of her medicines make her very very hairy in october she will be off that medicine but the drs want her to be around as many kids as she can but they all r smarter then her and can talk wich she can but only says few words but they always star and point out flaws about her so its hard what can i do to get her more social so it can help her development the drs suggested daycare but idk what do u think
btw i dont have really anyone friends like this? ugh :( mayb like two. but still not 100percent good friends..... it sucks... when wil i meet good friends lmao ?!
@ShawtyEfficient omg my sister is the same way. I think you should just not offer anymore since it does bug you. Shes a grown women, she can pay for herself. Thats soo sweet of you but do it for someone that appreciates it :-)
Loving ur channel and ur videos... would love a video on bad relationships and the ´wrong´ guys. Ur baby doll is the cutest ever! Sending u lots of love hugs and kisses :)
Thank u, yea thats what i`m trying to do!!! its just different, honestly ppl here r a lil fake, u cant really tell who is who.. lol.. and building the relationship that i had before, would be a little challenging!! but i guess it is what it is )) thanx Michell u r beautiful inside and out!!!
me and one of my best friends have been friends for 2 or 3 years now, and we have alot of good memories, but now we're growing apart and I try to accept her the way she is now... but she kind off turned into a slut i guess? always dressed in leopard prints and when she goes out she dances on the pole like she's a stripper... and she knows i feel that way. i stopped seeing her that often but I miss that girl I knew before... she also has a different group of friends now.. any advice?
@ElephantsTongue haha thats a daily battle for me, i just think of how horrible i feel after i eat fastfood and thats good enough to steer me away from it. xx
Can you please do a video on Bad Relationships or relationships in general? Andrea did one and I thought it was great and really helpful so Id like to know your opinion as well!
This is probably the best friend advice video I've seen. It really helped me understand and made me look at my friends and my situations differently. Thank you!
I have a bestfriend that goes through sudden changes of mood swings a lot.. And she tends to cut me out or just be really grouchy even though she's mad about something else. What should I do :/ we do have a pretty good friendship in overall though, I just think she's getting really comfortable with me, almost too comfortable.
This is why I love to catch yours and Andreas vlogs....you are such SISTAS....that is what we need to show more of...sisters who inspire each other...competition is an illusion
I feel I can relate to you so much! When I saw the title of the video I was hoping you would talk about loyalty and it was the FIRST thing you mentioned! I can tell you are a excellent friend and the people in your life are so lucky to have you! xoxo
I have two girls I lived with last semester and they would always talk badly about each other behind backs about each other to me & I was always like "are they talking like that about me?" and just not very positive, and I didn't have anyone to live with (dorm life) for next semester (fall 2011) that i knew (im new to the school)...so i was like whatever and signed up for them to be my roommates after they asked me, and omg after watching this video, I'm like maybe that's not the best idea....
can u make a video about dealing with a heartbreak? my bf of 2 years left me for another girl and i never saw it coming he had been dating her nd me for 1 year at da same time its real hard for me cuz i have no friends so im dealing with it on my own.
What happens when you are a good friend, but you never get it in return? I always find myself in a situation where I put 100% into a relationship and always end up getting hurt because the other person is a bad friend to me.
@ShellMishal Michelle said: "you can either leave the friendship knowing you gave it your best"
I'll fill in where she left off lol... If they are NOT endangering your life and you can tell they have a GOOD HEART, then try helping their good heart be a good friend to you. I mean Michelle is right that you need to have positive people around you so that you can keep your sanity while helping your other 'not so good friend'.
@ShellMishal Don't get me wrong though, if this person is really hurting your spirit and really mean to you, then obviously that person is beyond your responsibility. Stay safe in the end, but don't cut off someone who could potentially be your BEST friend. Maybe they are being flaky or maybe they're a little jealous of you; if you put up with it for a bit, you might make an even stronger friend with them than someone who you got along with perfectly. You know what I mean?
@ShellMishal Same thing here, honestly. I put 100% of myself into a friendship and try to be good to that friend and try to make them happy and I end up being hurt.
I agree with everything you said in this video. I don't agree neither with that saying of keep you friends close and your enemies closer. I don't like to be around negative people so I block enemies. Your daughter is adorable. Thank you for sharing. "-)
I recently stop talking and hanging out with a friend because she was such a bad friend in several ways - it just took me a while to realize what she was doing was wrong because she is such a confident person who always think she is right. In the end, I think she lost many of her friends and she doesn't even know why.
Would it be alright to do a segment on confidence if you can? I know its like all over youtube but you seem like a confident person and I think a lot of people would like to hear what you have to say about it :)
I agree with u in everything u have said. I am actually very jealous, but good jealous not bad )) The thing is that i moved here in US just recently, and all my friends stayed in my country where i came from ((( and i need them soo much here with me. we are more than friends we are like a family!! soul-mates!! )) and its very hard for me right now being without them. we`ve been together for 12 years together!! and yea that`s my lil story ;( i like the way u think and thanx for coffee talk!! ))
@diana12101 im sorry! yea leaving loved ones is super hard but life is full of change and i hope your embracing the experience! Put yourself out there and meet new people! it should actually be pretty fun! xx
ohhhhhhhhhhh i didn't know you had a daughter! she is so freakin CUUUUUUUUUTE!!!!awwww when she kissed us i was melting ahahahah so so so so cute Olivia!!! and loved that coffee talk with you ;)
YES YES YES! I agree. I would like to hear your advice on friends who jump from man to man in short spans of time. Would I be in the wrong to advise my friend that shes not doing herself any favors by doing that?
Can you do a vid about problems with family members? And I do pick my friends but my fam tries to tell me I can't do that, lol I know that's a lie cuz I do that all the time...I keep getting the feeling that my family is starting to get jealous of me b/c I'm in college pursuing an amazing career and I don't have nasty habits that will get me in jail lol. I'm a silent person. And I try to have a good encounter with some of them. But they always end up saying I feel a certain way, when I don't.
@dissidia123456789 i do know how you feel when your family tries to pursuade you. but you just have to be your own person. Thats great that you have your own opinion! Dont let anyone change that! Just go with your gutt feeling and experiences and you'll be where you want to be :-)
A lot of girls DO talk about each other behind their back..Actually, it's hard to find friends who doesn't do that.. and to much girls compete with each other... I've had a lot of classmates and friends that was jealous of me because I got the guys I wanted.. So they started to hate me because of that.. Saw me as a threat.. And was talking shit behind my back..That's was really hard.. But that's why I like now when I'm getting older.. You believe in yourself more.. And stop caring about idiots..
Great video! Totally agree, you should suround yourself with positive people for positive energy.. Lately I've found that some friends weren't positive for me, so I decided to sort of cut them out ofmy life, and it feels like a weight falling off!
Keeping good friends, it's much like marriage, you love them unconditionally and make sure you make time for your friends(in order for you relationship to grow and stay connected). It shouldn't be difficult, especially if your grown and not a teenager.
Your hair is amazinggg! and Olivia is sooooo cuteee! I love genuine beauty gurus that dont get blinded by all the money and fame, not saying any names but elle and ahem blair.
Olivia is too cute:) Haha. I think friendships are hard, especially when u love this 'bad' person. I totally agree with u about only surrounding yourself with positive people. I had a friendship with a guy for 4 years, it was so strange. I loved him so much, we were best friends, But we brought out the worst in eachother! Sounds really strange I know, it all ended in a baad way last year but I guess it was good for us both in the end.. Love these videos Michelle:))
Michelle, hi! i LOVE your videos & lovedddd this one!!!! It is suuch a great idea these coffee talks!!!!!! I have a question I would really really reallyyyy love for u to do, is i know hating is bad, but how do you stop hating someone SOOOOO MUCH LIKE I CANT STAND BEING IN THE SAME ROOM AS MY SIS IN LAW SHE IS THE HUGEST BITCH EVER AND I TALK TO HER THROUGH MY TEETH - ITS THAT BAD, I CANT STAND HER!! I really dont want to have so much hate towards her hat can i do ive tried everything!
Rite on!! Best 1st coffee talk ever :D but hold on, leme go "godly" :P if ur searching for a friend consider d following- Proverbs 18:24; Proverbs 17:17; 1 Corinthians 15:33; Acts 20:35 God gave us d gift of friendship and we gotta use such gift d best we can! Yea!!
How to be a good girlfriend & not a clingy, crazy, phsyco gf! Because I know girls like that! Where they make their boyfriends their world. Some tips and advice on how girls should separate theirselves and gain independence! :) I'm all for that.
Great vid! good topic, I've had trouble with people not being loyal friends & cut them off completely ..I can't stand fakes -____- ..i need more inspiring friends like you :) & your daughter is too sweet =D
I wish 'I could have a friend like you. I had a friend that would never invite me any place, but I would always invite her. She would only talk to me when she felt like it and talked bad about people. It would be a nice change to have friends that have the same views as friendship as you do. Btw, Olivia is so cute with her kiss goodbye.
"You are who you hang out with" is so true. I had a "friend' whom I cut all ties with a couple of months ago. She was and is the type that always made you feel as if everything was your fault and that she was always right, even when I KNEW she was in the wrong. Anyway, I've gotten to know some other people who thought I was "out there (sexually)" like she was because I hung out with her, smh. uh uh, no ma'am. Great video!
@babylikesumsuga09 you know it takes time. truely because i too know how hard it is to forgive. if the friend made a mistake, forgive but if it happens more than once, then you have to question it for sure.
Coffee talk is an awesome idea! I really like the insight on this subject i doubt my freinds would be interested. Its great to hear this. It brings more insight to my own friendships and what i could Thanks Hun!
How do you cut it off with a friend you've known for a long time? i have this friend i've known for like ever, we still talk almost every day although hardly see each other, but over the years, she's changed for the worse. Do i just stop talking to her? That would be pretty rude dontcha think?
Also, jw, are all your 7 best friends friends with each other? I have a few close friends but they arent particularly friends with each other. So it's hard to hang out with all of them together.
@piggiesmalls4 Umm i think since she has been around for a while maybe try to steer her in the right directions, She seems like a loyal friend, she probably needs help seeing what she is doing. people will do what they want, you cant change that but you can just be there for her and try to give her the best advice and listen whenever she needs it. Yea all my girlfriends know eachother and get along. xx
y the heck did i think i was clicking on macbarbie07's video when i saw it in my subscription box O__O you don't even look like her lol! maybe your thumbnail did idkkk
Topic to discuss: how to makeup with the people you love. I had a fall out with my Sis in law, and I miss the heck out of her. She's extremely prideful (Leo) and Im a (Cancer) and it's been 2 years. I've tried everything except talking directly to her. what else can I do? I've baked her favorite, lasagna. Lol and nothing. Should I just stop trying?
@SweetynEvil hahah a leo and a cancer! trouble! but you know what, family is family. You have tried and you have to let her be. I think you put the ball in her court and now she has to make the first move. Dont worry it will get better hunny :-)
I don't need, or am I looking for advice at this time, but I did want to take the time and say that I like your personality, and also like the fact that you care enough to share your thoughts with us. Thank you for that. :)
justahuman1970 1 week ago
love your channel! can you do a highschool video??
juicybeachlove 3 weeks ago
talk about how to make new friends? i have lost too many of mine
Pathrissia 4 weeks ago
daw she is so cute!
jkpt13 1 month ago
WOAH wtf. Ur beautiful but please pull ur shirt up your a mom ty.
MissStalked 2 months ago
Best outtro ever :)
hayatiwahab 2 months ago
you look like courtney kardashian!!!!!!!!!!!!
KupKakeKJ 6 months ago
12 people doesnt have, are not and I can tell that wont find good friends. SMH!
Deia19919 7 months ago
haha elevator music makes me want to shop
Zumerjud 7 months ago
it's SO hard to have friends like this in high school because all my "so called friends" always talk crap Bout each & are negative & love drama, I think you brought up a perfect point about: if they're talk about your friend then they probably already talk about you behind your back. It really is hard to have friends in high school especially when you go to a new school like me. *sigh* it's hard to find a loyal friend these days.
theselenakins 7 months ago
How do I become more social? I get so shy around people but when people get to know me I talk a lot... lol.
DuskPixiee 8 months ago 5
@DuskPixiee im exactly like that
Zumerjud 7 months ago
can u do a video on how to survive freshmen year plz that will help me a lot
TheIlovemyoutfit19 8 months ago
Your daughter is so happy!! I've seen so many babies crying after their naps and Olivia is just so cheerful :)
greendayy710 8 months ago
Awwwwww she gave us a kiss goodbye...your daughter is sooooo cute!
CocoMilkCheese 8 months ago
GREAT video!!! And your daughter is so beautiful!
IstalkBananas 8 months ago
You said never judge your friends.OK I don't get that part.I judge one of my friends for always talking about herself,drawing the attentions always towards her,like if there was ONLY her in the world.I think I have to talk to her that this fact annoys me,because always trying to focus on oneself and not on the other person in a conversation can upset the relationship.So should I talk to her about that?You said don't judge,I mean I don't think I can change her,she always does like that!
gizemsena 8 months ago 2
@gizemsena ,"I don´t think I can change her,she always does like that" Seriously....if you call someone a friend you should not want to change them!! If it bothers you that much that she talks about herself a lot burn the bridge. You have no right to try and change her.
IstalkBananas 8 months ago
@IstalkBananas That was not the matter,I don't want to change her completly,that would be stupid!But should I really "burn the bridge" because of her always talking about herself?Shouldn't I talk to her about that?I don't know :(
gizemsena 8 months ago
@gizemsena ,Hm....Well I guess if you talk to her calmly that would be a good idea! I hope it works out!
IstalkBananas 8 months ago
aww, i'd love to have a friend like you!!
TheBrunetteDiana 8 months ago
your gorgeous ! i love your videos :) and your daughter is adorable!
babeegurl1o7 8 months ago
Coffee Talk Ideas:
-How to tell a friend you don't want to be friend with them anymore
-Eating good
wellybelly3000 8 months ago
omggggggggg your daughter is adorable she has the cutest little face!!!
liefdealom 8 months ago
im writing this list down..and posting it up in my room to motivate me to be closer to my friends and also be a great friend and have great relationships!
Brookey44 8 months ago
COFFEE TALK IDEA :
Confidence and being Positive !
alycat087 8 months ago
Good video Shell! This was a good topic for you, you are probably one of the most loyal friends I have... Love you :)
tetetakneea 8 months ago
your soo lucky to have close girlfriends there so many girles out there that are sheep and follow the crowd. i have 4 close girls who trust in completely but i have losted soo many people because i relised they were a bad friend your talk was soo inspiring to me because its exactly how i feel and if more weman where like you the world would be a nicer place THUMBS UP FOR MISHELL BEING A LOVLEY PERSON ! X
blushiemakeup 8 months ago
My daughter had a heart transplant she just turned 2 and is already being teased becuase one of her medicines make her very very hairy in october she will be off that medicine but the drs want her to be around as many kids as she can but they all r smarter then her and can talk wich she can but only says few words but they always star and point out flaws about her so its hard what can i do to get her more social so it can help her development the drs suggested daycare but idk what do u think
BreannaFuentes 8 months ago
Your baby is so cute!! And I totally agree with everything you said :)
kyliecarefree 8 months ago
you look so good with ur hair like that :D
lovebug888 8 months ago
btw i dont have really anyone friends like this? ugh :( mayb like two. but still not 100percent good friends..... it sucks... when wil i meet good friends lmao ?!
aliGuuuu 8 months ago
your GORGEOUS
aliGuuuu 8 months ago
OMG UR DAUGHTER IS SOOOO CUTEEEE :D i love herrrr <3 ^.^ may god protect u all!
DPH4 8 months ago
OMGGGG OLIVIA IS SO ADORABLE SHE'S SO BEAUTIFUL AAWWEEE I LOVEEEEE IT WHEN SHE'S APPEARS IN YOUR VIDEOS <3:))!
MiiSSCHULA 8 months ago
Confidence. By this I mean meeting people, or interviews, things like that! :D
BriannaLovesMJ 8 months ago
you have amazing tips, you should make MORE MORE MORE!!!! you look like you'd be an amazing friend
babyguurlxoxo 9 months ago
your daughter is sooo adorable!!! so cute! she goes ''maaahhh'' at the end.lol
thickalishqtpie 9 months ago
what if your loyal and everything but people are still always negative?
AnnaOVivian 9 months ago 2
shes such a sweetie pie super cute! take gud care off her bella :D
makeupbyrissy 9 months ago
I think a good topic would be: how to be a good girlfriend.
loverani13 9 months ago 2
I really wish I had a friend like you in my life, you are so genuine. People like you are rare, I hope you realise how special you are :)
shinxandash 9 months ago 3
aww thanks <3 Love your channel. Your baby is soo cute <3
francesarabelle 9 months ago
@luXXurY87 no you can still talk to them but i think maybe dont put anything past them anymore. Keep them at arms length ya know :-)
BellaMishella 9 months ago
@ShawtyEfficient omg my sister is the same way. I think you should just not offer anymore since it does bug you. Shes a grown women, she can pay for herself. Thats soo sweet of you but do it for someone that appreciates it :-)
BellaMishella 9 months ago
about an over protective brother, how dam annoying!
MissMadamexoxo 9 months ago 14
@MissMadamexoxo hahah thats a great topic! i had 3 over protective brothers and an over protective dad! it was hell! lol
BellaMishella 9 months ago 12
@BellaMishella oh my godd!! can i please have a talk with you about this topic 1 on 1, i dont know who to reach out too..
MissMadamexoxo 9 months ago
@BellaMishella wow! can u tell us all about that plz? and how did you deal with thaat? xxx
elenalikhachkina 9 months ago
Ah! So cute! Kisses at the end!
LPaige14 9 months ago
i miss you saying hey ladies, ha :)
danielleanna123 9 months ago 4
@danielleanna123 hahaha ill throw it in there sometimes :-)
BellaMishella 9 months ago 3
You have such a beautiful glow! like, glowy tanned skin. don't worry, you're not super dark or super tan. :)
you're so pretty and so is Olivia! she's adorable!! =)
jenifferbaybee 9 months ago
awe I really liked this coffee talk, I can't wait for the next! :D
imjesskiddingg 9 months ago
Loving ur channel and ur videos... would love a video on bad relationships and the ´wrong´ guys. Ur baby doll is the cutest ever! Sending u lots of love hugs and kisses :)
lopestmt 9 months ago 18
@lopestmt good idea! thank you!
BellaMishella 9 months ago
ahhhh livvy is so adorable!
allthehoney 9 months ago
Loved this segment! I can relate to you in so many ways, I'm so glad I subbed (:
eggarcia43 9 months ago
Thank u, yea thats what i`m trying to do!!! its just different, honestly ppl here r a lil fake, u cant really tell who is who.. lol.. and building the relationship that i had before, would be a little challenging!! but i guess it is what it is )) thanx Michell u r beautiful inside and out!!!
diana12101 9 months ago
when ur daughter came on video my daughter kept blowin her kisses and waving at her! lol
alyssaadames 9 months ago
OMG the end was just the cutest
Aww Olivia is so cut.! :)
Apple123thatsme 9 months ago
I subscribed to your channel after watching this video.
This talk shows what a good person you are. and i'll gladely watch your other videos knowing that the person doing them has such good moral values.
Your daughter is so cute ♥
Kisses from Tunisia :-)
SOUMAYA1786 9 months ago
@SOUMAYA1786 thank you i really appreciate it hun!
BellaMishella 9 months ago
Thank you for posting up this video!
dndngo2 9 months ago
i want to be friends with you and your friends. even though ive never met them, they sound amazing.
MsTurkishDlite 9 months ago
me and one of my best friends have been friends for 2 or 3 years now, and we have alot of good memories, but now we're growing apart and I try to accept her the way she is now... but she kind off turned into a slut i guess? always dressed in leopard prints and when she goes out she dances on the pole like she's a stripper... and she knows i feel that way. i stopped seeing her that often but I miss that girl I knew before... she also has a different group of friends now.. any advice?
ieswara 9 months ago
Hi hun, I have a question. How do you fight your cravings and avoid eating bad foods? I am a junkoholic, I need seriously help. Thanks hun xoxo
ElephantsTongue 9 months ago
@ElephantsTongue haha thats a daily battle for me, i just think of how horrible i feel after i eat fastfood and thats good enough to steer me away from it. xx
BellaMishella 9 months ago
oh thanks mishell you answered my question :) I was the one who asked you to answer it thanks so much mwaaaaa
ElephantsTongue 9 months ago
How do I manage having a boyfriend without ditching my friends?
SpiffyMcSnazzy 9 months ago 2
Can you please do a video on Bad Relationships or relationships in general? Andrea did one and I thought it was great and really helpful so Id like to know your opinion as well!
Thanks : )
marisaabsi 9 months ago
Olivia is so cute!
24kris888 9 months ago
es slikti saprotu anliski mans bralis spele gitaru bet pa sito nakti es daudz ko sapratu.
mankijs777 9 months ago
This is probably the best friend advice video I've seen. It really helped me understand and made me look at my friends and my situations differently. Thank you!
JulieTruliee 9 months ago
I have a bestfriend that goes through sudden changes of mood swings a lot.. And she tends to cut me out or just be really grouchy even though she's mad about something else. What should I do :/ we do have a pretty good friendship in overall though, I just think she's getting really comfortable with me, almost too comfortable.
skimkimster 9 months ago
This is why I love to catch yours and Andreas vlogs....you are such SISTAS....that is what we need to show more of...sisters who inspire each other...competition is an illusion
Epiphanystone 9 months ago
@Epiphanystone thank you! i agree! xx
BellaMishella 9 months ago
Is your daughter half-white? She's so cute!
st803120 9 months ago
@st803120 yes she is, thank you!! xx
BellaMishella 9 months ago
I feel I can relate to you so much! When I saw the title of the video I was hoping you would talk about loyalty and it was the FIRST thing you mentioned! I can tell you are a excellent friend and the people in your life are so lucky to have you! xoxo
TheLadyHilton 9 months ago
OMG YOUR BABY <3
isisw95 9 months ago
Great advice! I love watching you and Andreas's videos! You both seem so genuine!!! :)
MixedCam21 9 months ago
great advices..thank..you are very lucky to have so many good friends..how to know which are the real?and caring?
Alex7a77 9 months ago
Just having a random room assignment makes it so much easier to find those "wonderful lovely people"! :c ) so thanks.
biracialcurls 9 months ago
I have two girls I lived with last semester and they would always talk badly about each other behind backs about each other to me & I was always like "are they talking like that about me?" and just not very positive, and I didn't have anyone to live with (dorm life) for next semester (fall 2011) that i knew (im new to the school)...so i was like whatever and signed up for them to be my roommates after they asked me, and omg after watching this video, I'm like maybe that's not the best idea....
biracialcurls 9 months ago
can u make a video about dealing with a heartbreak? my bf of 2 years left me for another girl and i never saw it coming he had been dating her nd me for 1 year at da same time its real hard for me cuz i have no friends so im dealing with it on my own.
sofia07b3r3nice 9 months ago
aww ur so beautiful & a good person!!
xoox
Esperanza1461 9 months ago
Lovely advice and I agree with every word of it!! Olivia is too adorable!!! :D lol.
MsFunk 9 months ago
TBH everything you said is a part of being a good human being!
SkittlezAddict4Eva 9 months ago 3
how do you not let boys distract you?:)
jessicafellows18 9 months ago 3
What happens when you are a good friend, but you never get it in return? I always find myself in a situation where I put 100% into a relationship and always end up getting hurt because the other person is a bad friend to me.
ShellMishal 9 months ago 89
@ShellMishal you can either leave the friendship knowing you gave it your best and that should be good enough for you ya know :-)
BellaMishella 9 months ago 26
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@ShellMishal Michelle said: "you can either leave the friendship knowing you gave it your best"
I'll fill in where she left off lol... If they are NOT endangering your life and you can tell they have a GOOD HEART, then try helping their good heart be a good friend to you. I mean Michelle is right that you need to have positive people around you so that you can keep your sanity while helping your other 'not so good friend'.
thickalishqtpie 9 months ago
@ShellMishal Don't get me wrong though, if this person is really hurting your spirit and really mean to you, then obviously that person is beyond your responsibility. Stay safe in the end, but don't cut off someone who could potentially be your BEST friend. Maybe they are being flaky or maybe they're a little jealous of you; if you put up with it for a bit, you might make an even stronger friend with them than someone who you got along with perfectly. You know what I mean?
thickalishqtpie 9 months ago
@ShellMishal Same thing here, honestly. I put 100% of myself into a friendship and try to be good to that friend and try to make them happy and I end up being hurt.
tracefayce 8 months ago
I agree with everything you said in this video. I don't agree neither with that saying of keep you friends close and your enemies closer. I don't like to be around negative people so I block enemies. Your daughter is adorable. Thank you for sharing. "-)
jnellegirl 9 months ago
I recently stop talking and hanging out with a friend because she was such a bad friend in several ways - it just took me a while to realize what she was doing was wrong because she is such a confident person who always think she is right. In the end, I think she lost many of her friends and she doesn't even know why.
livelaughlove1681 9 months ago
@VanessaM1996 Yeah I love the fact she replies to so many comments :) really cool
gekkii 9 months ago
THANK YOU so much for this video. This was really great advice and you're a beautiful person inside and out! : ))
shakeeandbakee 9 months ago
love the elevator music in the background
baconISforEveryone 9 months ago
Your amazing, I agree with absolutely everything you said! Xoxo <3
BellaDonna0912 9 months ago
wow , u give amazing advice !! :o andrea is so lucky to have u !!!
SuperGigglebutt 9 months ago
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SuperGigglebutt 9 months ago
Gosh I wish I was your friend... You seem so loyal, down to earth, and a great person inside out :) so glad I found your videos :)
Ps; olivia is super cute! :)
arevachi22 9 months ago
i agree entirely with you! My mom always told us "if a person talks to you about someone else, they definitely talk about YOU to somebody else"
It's always stuck with me and I always keep it in mind, and when I hear anything negative it goes in one ear and out the other :)
memanta 9 months ago
Would it be alright to do a segment on confidence if you can? I know its like all over youtube but you seem like a confident person and I think a lot of people would like to hear what you have to say about it :)
okay12898 9 months ago
I really admire you, you are young but you seem like such a confident, responsible, real, beautiful person, inside and out
BellaLolita86 9 months ago
@VanessaM1996 of course!
BellaMishella 9 months ago
Great video! All the things you mentioned are true!
blubandit85 9 months ago
so cute! i bet your daughter is like "umm..who is she talking to?!"
1o26o6 9 months ago 6
I agree with u in everything u have said. I am actually very jealous, but good jealous not bad )) The thing is that i moved here in US just recently, and all my friends stayed in my country where i came from ((( and i need them soo much here with me. we are more than friends we are like a family!! soul-mates!! )) and its very hard for me right now being without them. we`ve been together for 12 years together!! and yea that`s my lil story ;( i like the way u think and thanx for coffee talk!! ))
diana12101 9 months ago
@diana12101 im sorry! yea leaving loved ones is super hard but life is full of change and i hope your embracing the experience! Put yourself out there and meet new people! it should actually be pretty fun! xx
BellaMishella 9 months ago
ohhhhhhhhhhh i didn't know you had a daughter! she is so freakin CUUUUUUUUUTE!!!!awwww when she kissed us i was melting ahahahah so so so so cute Olivia!!! and loved that coffee talk with you ;)
manounerockeuse 9 months ago
YES YES YES! I agree. I would like to hear your advice on friends who jump from man to man in short spans of time. Would I be in the wrong to advise my friend that shes not doing herself any favors by doing that?
MonisMind 9 months ago
u are such a beautiful soul\!!!
jennryz 9 months ago
Oh my goodness I'm usually not a huge fan of kids but your daughter is SO. Sweet.
YeahImAPrincess 9 months ago
livvy is so adorable :3 great segment + topic.
spyteandmalice 9 months ago
You and Andrea are so lucky to have such beautiful people surrounding you. I love this segment, can't wait for the next one! :)
bubbleandeve 9 months ago
Can you do a vid about problems with family members? And I do pick my friends but my fam tries to tell me I can't do that, lol I know that's a lie cuz I do that all the time...I keep getting the feeling that my family is starting to get jealous of me b/c I'm in college pursuing an amazing career and I don't have nasty habits that will get me in jail lol. I'm a silent person. And I try to have a good encounter with some of them. But they always end up saying I feel a certain way, when I don't.
dissidia123456789 9 months ago 7
@dissidia123456789 i do know how you feel when your family tries to pursuade you. but you just have to be your own person. Thats great that you have your own opinion! Dont let anyone change that! Just go with your gutt feeling and experiences and you'll be where you want to be :-)
BellaMishella 9 months ago 4
A lot of girls DO talk about each other behind their back..Actually, it's hard to find friends who doesn't do that.. and to much girls compete with each other... I've had a lot of classmates and friends that was jealous of me because I got the guys I wanted.. So they started to hate me because of that.. Saw me as a threat.. And was talking shit behind my back..That's was really hard.. But that's why I like now when I'm getting older.. You believe in yourself more.. And stop caring about idiots..
mimzy84 9 months ago
i love watching your videos!
your so beautiful :)!!!!
dash830 9 months ago
Lovely vid, :) very refreshing to see somebody so humble and How about Relationship advice for the next coffee talk? :)
nataliesophiaac 9 months ago
Which nationality are you? So pretty! :)
mimzy84 9 months ago
Great video! Totally agree, you should suround yourself with positive people for positive energy.. Lately I've found that some friends weren't positive for me, so I decided to sort of cut them out ofmy life, and it feels like a weight falling off!
And your daughter is absolutely precious <3
gekkii 9 months ago 2
@gekkii oh yes! they'll realize they arent pleasant to be around and hopefully change :-) but until then yes cut them off!
BellaMishella 9 months ago
This is why I love being a Virgo. We just know better.
rollodolo 9 months ago
i love this!!!
robynchids 9 months ago
Your daughter is gorgeous. I wanna squeeze her lil arms, I love baby fat lol
WH00PiE08 9 months ago 18
@WH00PiE08 hahha i do it all day! trust me!
BellaMishella 9 months ago 10
Keeping good friends, it's much like marriage, you love them unconditionally and make sure you make time for your friends(in order for you relationship to grow and stay connected). It shouldn't be difficult, especially if your grown and not a teenager.
Jiggahata1 9 months ago
olivia has an awesome personality! shes lucky to have a mother that is such a great role model. strong woman
churroisthechunk 9 months ago
Your hair is amazinggg! and Olivia is sooooo cuteee! I love genuine beauty gurus that dont get blinded by all the money and fame, not saying any names but elle and ahem blair.
MissLVCEagle 9 months ago
Olivia is too cute:) Haha. I think friendships are hard, especially when u love this 'bad' person. I totally agree with u about only surrounding yourself with positive people. I had a friendship with a guy for 4 years, it was so strange. I loved him so much, we were best friends, But we brought out the worst in eachother! Sounds really strange I know, it all ended in a baad way last year but I guess it was good for us both in the end.. Love these videos Michelle:))
19Mer1 9 months ago
omg olivias eyes <3
TheSmilesnhugs 9 months ago
your daughter is so cute...i mean so are you!
akilollipop 9 months ago
Loved the vid...and ur lil girl is super cute!!!
saniclau81 9 months ago
How do you motivate your friend if you're both going after the same thing =( I feel so bad if one or the otehr wins
huckxing 9 months ago
that kiss at the end was adorable!
ClassicDominique 9 months ago 2
but how do you cut them of? like do you say ''friendshipp is over''?
how do I do it? (:
MissLaraful 9 months ago
Michelle, hi! i LOVE your videos & lovedddd this one!!!! It is suuch a great idea these coffee talks!!!!!! I have a question I would really really reallyyyy love for u to do, is i know hating is bad, but how do you stop hating someone SOOOOO MUCH LIKE I CANT STAND BEING IN THE SAME ROOM AS MY SIS IN LAW SHE IS THE HUGEST BITCH EVER AND I TALK TO HER THROUGH MY TEETH - ITS THAT BAD, I CANT STAND HER!! I really dont want to have so much hate towards her hat can i do ive tried everything!
andreevaa56 9 months ago
Omg i adore your advice. :)
Thank you so much ~ I'm looking forward to seeing more of these videos. :D
JadoreCupcakes 9 months ago
Rite on!! Best 1st coffee talk ever :D but hold on, leme go "godly" :P if ur searching for a friend consider d following- Proverbs 18:24; Proverbs 17:17; 1 Corinthians 15:33; Acts 20:35 God gave us d gift of friendship and we gotta use such gift d best we can! Yea!!
macbelle3rd 9 months ago
How to be a good girlfriend & not a clingy, crazy, phsyco gf! Because I know girls like that! Where they make their boyfriends their world. Some tips and advice on how girls should separate theirselves and gain independence! :) I'm all for that.
msgerramaelove 9 months ago
Great vid! good topic, I've had trouble with people not being loyal friends & cut them off completely ..I can't stand fakes -____- ..i need more inspiring friends like you :) & your daughter is too sweet =D
kriola08 9 months ago
DO geminis and cancers work out?
KenCheatedOnBarbie 9 months ago
@KenCheatedOnBarbie no I hate Geminis I'm a cancer
ekkkm 9 months ago
@ekkkm well good to know you hate me. )) my mum is a cancer and we get along pretty well
KenCheatedOnBarbie 9 months ago
@KenCheatedOnBarbie LOL sorry
ekkkm 9 months ago
everything you said is dead on!
joannepants 9 months ago
do one on relationships
and break ups :(
NeeneeFOoOoO 9 months ago
I wish 'I could have a friend like you. I had a friend that would never invite me any place, but I would always invite her. She would only talk to me when she felt like it and talked bad about people. It would be a nice change to have friends that have the same views as friendship as you do. Btw, Olivia is so cute with her kiss goodbye.
heinz57mama 9 months ago
@heinz57mama Because she really wasn't your friend. =/ I hope you find a real one some day. With a heart of gold. ^_^
jessicarabbit814 9 months ago
"You are who you hang out with" is so true. I had a "friend' whom I cut all ties with a couple of months ago. She was and is the type that always made you feel as if everything was your fault and that she was always right, even when I KNEW she was in the wrong. Anyway, I've gotten to know some other people who thought I was "out there (sexually)" like she was because I hung out with her, smh. uh uh, no ma'am. Great video!
cheffaklng 9 months ago
this was very helpful to me!
303username 9 months ago
The ending was precious : )
galWaygrl88 9 months ago
you are amazing =)
happyvslucky 9 months ago
omg oliviaaaa, she has so much character!
lebanesebarbie32 9 months ago
@babylikesumsuga09 you know it takes time. truely because i too know how hard it is to forgive. if the friend made a mistake, forgive but if it happens more than once, then you have to question it for sure.
BellaMishella 9 months ago
How to get ever a guy.. Please.
house11155 9 months ago
olivia is so cute!! you seem like such a good mommy :D
Britni130 9 months ago
Great video hun.. Omg your babygirl is gorgeous but knew that already :)
jazziejazz18 9 months ago
coffee talk is such a cute name :)
NikitaMariia 9 months ago
Coffee talk is an awesome idea! I really like the insight on this subject i doubt my freinds would be interested. Its great to hear this. It brings more insight to my own friendships and what i could Thanks Hun!
Lilystar32 9 months ago
How do you cut it off with a friend you've known for a long time? i have this friend i've known for like ever, we still talk almost every day although hardly see each other, but over the years, she's changed for the worse. Do i just stop talking to her? That would be pretty rude dontcha think?
Also, jw, are all your 7 best friends friends with each other? I have a few close friends but they arent particularly friends with each other. So it's hard to hang out with all of them together.
piggiesmalls4 9 months ago
@piggiesmalls4 Umm i think since she has been around for a while maybe try to steer her in the right directions, She seems like a loyal friend, she probably needs help seeing what she is doing. people will do what they want, you cant change that but you can just be there for her and try to give her the best advice and listen whenever she needs it. Yea all my girlfriends know eachother and get along. xx
BellaMishella 9 months ago
y the heck did i think i was clicking on macbarbie07's video when i saw it in my subscription box O__O you don't even look like her lol! maybe your thumbnail did idkkk
piggiesmalls4 9 months ago
I need advice its boy trouble :(
BeautifulNitemare09 9 months ago
Topic to discuss: how to makeup with the people you love. I had a fall out with my Sis in law, and I miss the heck out of her. She's extremely prideful (Leo) and Im a (Cancer) and it's been 2 years. I've tried everything except talking directly to her. what else can I do? I've baked her favorite, lasagna. Lol and nothing. Should I just stop trying?
SweetynEvil 9 months ago 10
@SweetynEvil wow try doing that with a Scorpio its harder
BeautifulNitemare09 9 months ago
@SweetynEvil hahah a leo and a cancer! trouble! but you know what, family is family. You have tried and you have to let her be. I think you put the ball in her court and now she has to make the first move. Dont worry it will get better hunny :-)
BellaMishella 9 months ago 13