Hmm. So a two piece is more modest than a one piece, yet they both show....hair down below. So dont u think a more modest option is wearing SHORTS when swimming.
Also u are a 'homemaker by choice', u look a bit youn to be a homemaker.
Not all of us who wear two pieces are sluts! I actually can't wear a one piece because they never fit me properly, either they are too tight up top or they sag in the bum because I have way more up top than down below, and not by choice either. I always have to get two different sizes for both pieces.
@homemakerbychoice Thank you for this video, your scoring 100 percent with this (Im a guy age41). And I was searching for a video for a sister who has problems, understanding what she is communicating to people in public.dressing IS a means of communication! And your right adding mens visual sense to dress and what women wear!
First off I'm a christian but this is why most people don't like Christians... Don't get me wrong it's fine to be modest but can't help but get this "holier than thou" attitude from you. Please get off your high horse and stop shoving ideas down people's throats!
I think your video is a great exhortation and reminder. As a Christian woman, I don't hear exhortations like this enough--and it's natural for women to want to be found attractive and to even do anything for a compliment.
Good word. I'm sorry that you have so many haters on this video. The world hates Christ. Keep making videos like this because they are blessing someone!
im sorry sweetie i love ur vids but not with u on this one. I believe in modesty but not in being ashamed of my body. its natures way. theres nothing wrong with a bikini on a beach and to be honest one pieces dont leave much to the imagination either lol so what are ya gonna do? even wet suites show alot. dont be ashamed of ur womanly attributes embrace them. women in a 2 pieces that may mean their looking for some extra attention its a sighn she is confident in her sexuality.and it healthy. :)
Once I got told off by a pool life guard for wearing board shorts into a pool, because it 'wasn't as safe' That was years ago but I've always remembered it because it made me want to go home! I wish there were more options for decent swimwear in New Zealand, for people who don't want to show a lot of skin. Thanks for your videos, very thought-provoking. :-)
I'm a female. i do not think I have to be ashamed of my body.´I do not dress modest (I'm from Europe) and I don't know ANYONE who does (except the turkish muslim women that live here). If a man thinks "wrong" things about me, it's not MY fault just because of the way I dress. Using that logic, isn't it a woman's fault if he "stumbles" and molests her? If he can't control himself, it for sure is not my fault. I do dress classy, but sometimes I do dress sexy just because I like it. I don't think
But I don't really want a guy who thinks I should be ashamed of my body.
What's wrong with being admired sexually? I don't understand where you get the idea that if you're modest you'll get nice guys and if you're immodest you'll get douches. It doesn't honestly make sense because you can control who you date. You don't have to date guys you think just like you for your body, it's up to you. It's pretty sad that you were taught to be ashamed of your body.
Umm, I'm pretty sure that's EXACTLY why people dress like that these days. You say that the way we dress determines the way men treat us, and that is true in most cases but at the same time, sometimes it doesn't matter how we dress. I act/dress modestly. Not necessarily because I'm so concerned about my "purity" but because that's just the way I am. I rarely wear skirts and I never even wear tank tops. But you know what? I've had a heck of a lot of guys come after me solely for sex anyway.
Hello there! I believe in modesty too, so thank you for your wonderful video! I am living on a pretty tight budget, like most of America and I have some tips for ways to spend a little less on a modest swim suit and still look pretty nice. I made this video just for this purpose so enjoy! (By the way all the skirts featured have shorts built in under the skirt)
Video is under Inexpensive Modest Swim Suit in the video reply section :)
from an anthropological point of view, we see that modesty is superficial and may in fact be fueling sexual objectification of the body, because in fact, cultures which do not rely on clothing at all show a great reduction in sexual gratification from purely observing the naked body. they have essentially been desensitized. With modern sexual education this form of living may reduce not only crime rates but also unwanted pregnancies.
Nothing wrong with being modest, but I'm really having a hard time not getting a "holier than thou" vibe...And I dont really think that sheltering yourself off from the rest of the world is for your benefit because your probably gonna encounter less than modest people wherever you go. Give us guys more credit, its not like we are gonna go and jump all over everybody we see wearing a two piece bikini lol.
You clearly do not understand rape culture and misogyny. Women and girls are told that wherever you go, however you dress, no matter where you are, you have a chance of being harassed, molested, attacked or raped. We are told this by schools, and police and the government. And it's true. But it shouldn't be.
Just because YOU don't do it, doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Women are harassed all the time, in public, like their body is some kind of public property.
"how much more would a one-piece suit cost, than a bikini?" perhaps the important question should be "how much are you willing to sell your integrity or purity for?" I am sure any woman who has stumbled, or given herself away sexually, or fallen into adultery, would pay a lifetime's wages to be restored in God. How much less expensive is the cost of a modest bathing suit, than the cost to our hearts when we fall from God's grace?
@apollyon75 Gods grace is infinite. If you really think that somebody is less of a wretched sinner than anybody else for any reason(even premarital sex *Gasp*) then you obviously don't grasp the concept of God's infinite grace. Its this kind of legalistic and judgmental mindset that gets in the way of loving eachother and realizing that none of us are good enough for the grace of God that he generously gave us by dying on the cross...We didn't deserve it.
@masncarlson You need to speak the truth about grace. It is true that the law condemns us and that we are not made right by our own "righteousness." You suggest that grace provides us a license to sin, and you act like sanctification is not important. Oh, my. You act like there is no such thing as strengthened character or no significance to it! You also use the word "mindset", which is a New-Age term. Get away from Joel Osteen, and by the way, salvation can be lost if we transfer our faith.
The sad thing is that a lot of the worldly "role models" out there today dress all crazy, and then people wonder why their kids are wild. Wake up People!!
some men are so perverted they undress you with their eyeballs if you dressed as a nun but I think you make alot of good points!
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Hmm. So a two piece is more modest than a one piece, yet they both show....hair down below. So dont u think a more modest option is wearing SHORTS when swimming.
Also u are a 'homemaker by choice', u look a bit youn to be a homemaker.
thunderinthevalley 2 months ago
Not all of us who wear two pieces are sluts! I actually can't wear a one piece because they never fit me properly, either they are too tight up top or they sag in the bum because I have way more up top than down below, and not by choice either. I always have to get two different sizes for both pieces.
sapphirerocky 2 months ago
wow,thanks for the modest swim wear link.love it!hope to get one soon.God bless you Amber.
19871989tl 4 months ago
@homemakerbychoice Thank you for this video, your scoring 100 percent with this (Im a guy age41). And I was searching for a video for a sister who has problems, understanding what she is communicating to people in public.dressing IS a means of communication! And your right adding mens visual sense to dress and what women wear!
acushnet22 6 months ago
First off I'm a christian but this is why most people don't like Christians... Don't get me wrong it's fine to be modest but can't help but get this "holier than thou" attitude from you. Please get off your high horse and stop shoving ideas down people's throats!
mangamaniacRtL 9 months ago
satan gets to the woman in order to take down the man is why!
nettieheartful 1 year ago
@nettieheartful BAHAHAHAHAHA, you're really good at making me people laugh.
Mira20Mira 8 months ago
I think your video is a great exhortation and reminder. As a Christian woman, I don't hear exhortations like this enough--and it's natural for women to want to be found attractive and to even do anything for a compliment.
Good word. I'm sorry that you have so many haters on this video. The world hates Christ. Keep making videos like this because they are blessing someone!
redeemedpryncess 1 year ago 2
@redeemedpryncess Amen sister!
Sukkerberta 7 months ago
im sorry sweetie i love ur vids but not with u on this one. I believe in modesty but not in being ashamed of my body. its natures way. theres nothing wrong with a bikini on a beach and to be honest one pieces dont leave much to the imagination either lol so what are ya gonna do? even wet suites show alot. dont be ashamed of ur womanly attributes embrace them. women in a 2 pieces that may mean their looking for some extra attention its a sighn she is confident in her sexuality.and it healthy. :)
DanielleBabyBliss 1 year ago
Once I got told off by a pool life guard for wearing board shorts into a pool, because it 'wasn't as safe' That was years ago but I've always remembered it because it made me want to go home! I wish there were more options for decent swimwear in New Zealand, for people who don't want to show a lot of skin. Thanks for your videos, very thought-provoking. :-)
BiddyBop7 1 year ago 2
there's aynthing wrong with my body. I'm not a Christian, but in the end, didn't god create those bodies?
amyyyamy 1 year ago
I'm a female. i do not think I have to be ashamed of my body.´I do not dress modest (I'm from Europe) and I don't know ANYONE who does (except the turkish muslim women that live here). If a man thinks "wrong" things about me, it's not MY fault just because of the way I dress. Using that logic, isn't it a woman's fault if he "stumbles" and molests her? If he can't control himself, it for sure is not my fault. I do dress classy, but sometimes I do dress sexy just because I like it. I don't think
amyyyamy 1 year ago
will you message me on the views of vpurity:
i am 17 and i am not a virgin and have not been one for 3 years. what does that mean
in5678 1 year ago
@in5678 that means you're quite normal.....
thunderinthevalley 5 months ago
I... my jaw is on the floor. This is a joke, right? I'm a whore because I am proud of the way my body looks and want people to see?
SlickFiction 1 year ago
I guess you're right in some aspects...
But I don't really want a guy who thinks I should be ashamed of my body.
What's wrong with being admired sexually? I don't understand where you get the idea that if you're modest you'll get nice guys and if you're immodest you'll get douches. It doesn't honestly make sense because you can control who you date. You don't have to date guys you think just like you for your body, it's up to you. It's pretty sad that you were taught to be ashamed of your body.
Domatophobic 1 year ago 15
@Domatophobic Seconded
youllalwaysbemyfirst 1 year ago
Umm, I'm pretty sure that's EXACTLY why people dress like that these days. You say that the way we dress determines the way men treat us, and that is true in most cases but at the same time, sometimes it doesn't matter how we dress. I act/dress modestly. Not necessarily because I'm so concerned about my "purity" but because that's just the way I am. I rarely wear skirts and I never even wear tank tops. But you know what? I've had a heck of a lot of guys come after me solely for sex anyway.
1PieceFMA 1 year ago
Hello there! I believe in modesty too, so thank you for your wonderful video! I am living on a pretty tight budget, like most of America and I have some tips for ways to spend a little less on a modest swim suit and still look pretty nice. I made this video just for this purpose so enjoy! (By the way all the skirts featured have shorts built in under the skirt)
Video is under Inexpensive Modest Swim Suit in the video reply section :)
penquin373 1 year ago
This is the first time that i have heard a christian girl speak about this openly. Thank you so much for talking about modesty. God bless you!!!!!
MrStrawhatlegend 1 year ago 2
You go girl!!!!!!
MrStrawhatlegend 1 year ago 2
from an anthropological point of view, we see that modesty is superficial and may in fact be fueling sexual objectification of the body, because in fact, cultures which do not rely on clothing at all show a great reduction in sexual gratification from purely observing the naked body. they have essentially been desensitized. With modern sexual education this form of living may reduce not only crime rates but also unwanted pregnancies.
espressotruths 1 year ago 7
Nothing wrong with being modest, but I'm really having a hard time not getting a "holier than thou" vibe...And I dont really think that sheltering yourself off from the rest of the world is for your benefit because your probably gonna encounter less than modest people wherever you go. Give us guys more credit, its not like we are gonna go and jump all over everybody we see wearing a two piece bikini lol.
masncarlson 1 year ago 18
@masncarlson
You clearly do not understand rape culture and misogyny. Women and girls are told that wherever you go, however you dress, no matter where you are, you have a chance of being harassed, molested, attacked or raped. We are told this by schools, and police and the government. And it's true. But it shouldn't be.
Just because YOU don't do it, doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Women are harassed all the time, in public, like their body is some kind of public property.
310BPM 1 year ago 3
"how much more would a one-piece suit cost, than a bikini?" perhaps the important question should be "how much are you willing to sell your integrity or purity for?" I am sure any woman who has stumbled, or given herself away sexually, or fallen into adultery, would pay a lifetime's wages to be restored in God. How much less expensive is the cost of a modest bathing suit, than the cost to our hearts when we fall from God's grace?
apollyon75 1 year ago
@apollyon75 Gods grace is infinite. If you really think that somebody is less of a wretched sinner than anybody else for any reason(even premarital sex *Gasp*) then you obviously don't grasp the concept of God's infinite grace. Its this kind of legalistic and judgmental mindset that gets in the way of loving eachother and realizing that none of us are good enough for the grace of God that he generously gave us by dying on the cross...We didn't deserve it.
masncarlson 1 year ago
@masncarlson You need to speak the truth about grace. It is true that the law condemns us and that we are not made right by our own "righteousness." You suggest that grace provides us a license to sin, and you act like sanctification is not important. Oh, my. You act like there is no such thing as strengthened character or no significance to it! You also use the word "mindset", which is a New-Age term. Get away from Joel Osteen, and by the way, salvation can be lost if we transfer our faith.
Craig28FL 1 year ago
Its true but dont expect a good reception in the church let alone the world! The women at church leave alot to be desired dressing so worldly!
nettieheart 1 year ago
The sad thing is that a lot of the worldly "role models" out there today dress all crazy, and then people wonder why their kids are wild. Wake up People!!
ryangzales 1 year ago
thanks for this video..it really encourages me to dress modest..=)
god bless
Lalioop16 1 year ago
@Lalioop16 God Bless you :) and thanks!!
HomemakerByChoice 1 year ago