Hey I'm Christian, but this is a great show! I'm going to watch it all. I think I'm beginning to understand the Muslim culture a little more. I wish that there was more positive education about Islam in the US. Keep on making videos, please! :)
Although some parents and women looking to get married are a little unrealistic in the financial expectations they have for a brother, it is still very important that the man has enough to provide for her. Financial stability is very important and it is one of the requirements listed in the Quran for a man seeking to marry. However, they seem to ignore that aspect in the show. Hopefully they will adress it in part 3.
now what bothers me is at 21 mins, the hadith which is mentioned.. usually the muslim reciter quickly adds a casual 'as long as he has the finances' and we must realise that many people who can't get married can't do that because at the start of your life you either have no job or a very poorly paying one
look from my perspective i have the same problem with university, but lets try to take the first steps i.e. try to find a job during holidays to at least sustain urself. if u have the finances and want to marry there is no reason not to
Excellent show! looking forward to part 3:D Althought getting married is considered as having completed half of our beautiful religion..God bless you all..Now we just need the right person! good luck everyone ;)
what i mean is hope that we will not show the same injustice to our children as our parents are doing to us. but our parents just want what is best for us.
i think it's VERY important to remind ourselves the younger generations that our parents are muslims and they try thier best but sometimes they can become ignorant and put culture and society before islam. and no matter how much we try to explain they will not understand. pray that ALLAH gives our parents and us proper understanding and patience. and REMEMBER NOT TO MAKE THE SAME MISTAKES AS OUR PARENTS.
bc sometimes when the children grow up they end up doing what their parents did.
parents that come from another country are jahil and too much culturalised, plus asian culture derives from the hindu culture, thats why its a racist cuture and against those who don't have degrees and big pay cheques, hindus have a cast system that is racist and against those who are poor, destroy these evil cultures and live only as a muslim, burn all flags except the flag of LA ILAHA IL ALLAH and unite under that, not a palestinian or indian or pakistani or bengali or british flag.
So true Bro! Coming from a Bengali family I totally understand where you are coming from. Alhamdulillah after a lot of Dawah and debates, my dad is so different from "The Uncles"! We even got one of my Sister married to a Somalian Brother!!! ALHAMDULILLAH!
if everyone wants to do everything as he like, it is gona be a diaster in this world and disorder as everyone will go for his desires, but if u will be following a law, but nt man made law, it 's god 's law so u will be successful in both lifes, now 1 and the hearafter,
thank u very much THE DEEN SHOW and more knoledge plz, and may allah bless yo all.
Indeed in the Messenger of Allah you have a good example to follow for whoever has hope in (the Meeting with) Allah and the Last Day, and remembers Allah much.)
our prophet peace be upon him said:"The most complete believers are those with the best characters, and the best of you are those who are best to their womenfolk."
The Messenger of Allah (Peace be upon Him) used to mend his own clothes or shoes and help his wives with their daily chores.
I was on edge all week waiting for this. Marriage is hard especially for new converts, because other new converts ( women) want some one advanced in deen. Women that were born into the faith sometimes have family that dont want their daughter to marry a convert, this is discouraging, but it happens more often than not.
i have just gone through this, i am a revert and wanted to marry a born muslim, her dad said no cos I'm not bengali, i'm white, he's a racist, may allah purify his heart or punish him severely for his racism
have faith brother and pray to Allah to give the girl's father Guidance , It is a sad fact that many muslims show racial predujice even though islam doesn't allow such things.
You should check out the rulings on this matter, I have heard that parents are not allowed to prevent their children from getting married for invalid reasons- racism is definately an invalid reason. In such a case, the imam will become the "wali" of the woman and marries her to the chosen partner. But im not sure about this, so talk to someone of knowledge.
jazak allah, I know this already, I told her that she has to change them as wali but they said, chose him or the family, if you choose him you will never see us again, she had no choice but to choose her fam as she is so close to them and she couldn't live without them, its a big family she would have lost, then they filled her head with crap and she decided she don't want to marry anyway, they changed her mind so even though their reason was racist it don't matter now as she don't want marriage
Kareem, I hear you. This sickness of racism is prevalent among the Muslims who hail from the continent of Africa and Asia and it is a malady which is cultural, that is deeply rooted. It is high time that we Muslims deal with these sinful customs before we accuse others (Non-Muslims) of racism. Make Dua for the brother
Muhammad(pbuh) said: There is no superiority for an Arab over a non-Arab, for a non-Arab over an Arab, for a white over a black or for a black over a white, except in piety. Verily the noblest amongst you is he who is the most pious.
yes i know how u feel, my family will not let me marry pakistani even though he is muslim.
but it's good pray ALLAH to purify his heart. but don't ask to panish him for it. bc he is the father of the person u wanted to marry. ofcourse ALLAH will punish or reward whom he wants. but always ask for the best.
jazak allah, I am back on the single muslim site but specified only for girls who have told their parents they are on the site, want marriage and that I'm white, so no heart break when things don't work
Hey I'm Christian, but this is a great show! I'm going to watch it all. I think I'm beginning to understand the Muslim culture a little more. I wish that there was more positive education about Islam in the US. Keep on making videos, please! :)
aprilaprilaprilapril 10 months ago
lets say you are a women and you have no male figures in your life. Only females how would you get married then?
GorgeousOne098 1 year ago
Although some parents and women looking to get married are a little unrealistic in the financial expectations they have for a brother, it is still very important that the man has enough to provide for her. Financial stability is very important and it is one of the requirements listed in the Quran for a man seeking to marry. However, they seem to ignore that aspect in the show. Hopefully they will adress it in part 3.
misscamara12 1 year ago
now what bothers me is at 21 mins, the hadith which is mentioned.. usually the muslim reciter quickly adds a casual 'as long as he has the finances' and we must realise that many people who can't get married can't do that because at the start of your life you either have no job or a very poorly paying one
BregyptianMuslim 2 years ago
Asalamu Alyakum Masha Allah i wish i could talk to my parents bout marriage
yukiz1fan 3 years ago 22
it is a problem that we can't
BregyptianMuslim 2 years ago
Asalamu Alyakum yes it is
man if i mention marriage im either not taken seriously or the start telling me to finish skool
yukiz1fan 2 years ago
look from my perspective i have the same problem with university, but lets try to take the first steps i.e. try to find a job during holidays to at least sustain urself. if u have the finances and want to marry there is no reason not to
BregyptianMuslim 2 years ago
Excellent show! looking forward to part 3:D Althought getting married is considered as having completed half of our beautiful religion..God bless you all..Now we just need the right person! good luck everyone ;)
Boukezdira 3 years ago 19
is imam shpendim albanina? masha'allah great speech
MyHrtBelongs2allah 3 years ago 5
MashaAllah very good video, may Allah (swt) reward you for your works.
Parvez86 3 years ago 4
marry me eddie! by the way dont be fooled by my name i am a woman.:)
boubkar5 3 years ago 5
inshaAllah looking forward to benefitting :) barakAllahu feekum ;D
shaykha 3 years ago 4
nice lecture, mashaAllah
may Allah reward you and may Allah make it easy for us all! ameen
shaykha 3 years ago 5
May Allah reward you espescially InshAllah for you truly got an awesome channel running,JazakAllah!
firoz85 2 years ago 6
what i mean is hope that we will not show the same injustice to our children as our parents are doing to us. but our parents just want what is best for us.
tahmina1234 3 years ago 4
i think it's VERY important to remind ourselves the younger generations that our parents are muslims and they try thier best but sometimes they can become ignorant and put culture and society before islam. and no matter how much we try to explain they will not understand. pray that ALLAH gives our parents and us proper understanding and patience. and REMEMBER NOT TO MAKE THE SAME MISTAKES AS OUR PARENTS.
bc sometimes when the children grow up they end up doing what their parents did.
tahmina1234 3 years ago 12
I wish I could find my soultmate. In this evil society I live in. It is very hard.
Bigjigah07 3 years ago 4
may allah bless you ED
beachman007 3 years ago
parents that come from another country are jahil and too much culturalised, plus asian culture derives from the hindu culture, thats why its a racist cuture and against those who don't have degrees and big pay cheques, hindus have a cast system that is racist and against those who are poor, destroy these evil cultures and live only as a muslim, burn all flags except the flag of LA ILAHA IL ALLAH and unite under that, not a palestinian or indian or pakistani or bengali or british flag.
kareemabdullah 3 years ago 4
So true Bro! Coming from a Bengali family I totally understand where you are coming from. Alhamdulillah after a lot of Dawah and debates, my dad is so different from "The Uncles"! We even got one of my Sister married to a Somalian Brother!!! ALHAMDULILLAH!
Parvez86 3 years ago 27
Mashallah may God bless their marraige
BregyptianMuslim 2 years ago 3
@Parvez86 i hear you bro, we bengalis have elderly who beleive too much in culture, were they beleive an arranged marraige is the way to go
MojowidanAK 1 year ago
I cant wait to marry some nice houris from jannah, inshaAllah ;)
MuslimGhost 3 years ago 4
Wow. How many brothers do I know didn't get hitched because they weren't making big bucks.
And how many parents reject all their daughters suitors because they didn't have a big title job.
If only parents understood.
spontaneouslaughter 3 years ago 3
Jazaku Allahu Khayr. cmon part 3!!
Bismillah90 3 years ago
if everyone wants to do everything as he like, it is gona be a diaster in this world and disorder as everyone will go for his desires, but if u will be following a law, but nt man made law, it 's god 's law so u will be successful in both lifes, now 1 and the hearafter,
thank u very much THE DEEN SHOW and more knoledge plz, and may allah bless yo all.
salam
Ammar020 3 years ago
SubhanAllah.
All our youths want to get married. But society makes it hard for us.
:(
RidioHouse 3 years ago 3
I soo Agree wid youu Ridio
We all wanna get married For the sake of allah BUT Society Makes it REALLY Hard =( HOW sad..SUbxnallah
chick1800 3 years ago
Salaam Alaikum..JazakAllah Khair
subxnallah i was waiting for this
i learn alot alhumdillah =)
JazakAllah Khair The Deen SHow
chick1800 3 years ago
Salaam Alaikum bro&sis
subxnallah.Alhumdilliah.Mashallah
Alhumdillah I learn Alot.Thank Youu Imam Shpendim&Eddie!!!!JazakAllah Khair
inshallah cn't wait for the part 3
YES
chick1800 3 years ago
I want to say that this is not just a islam believe but Christian have the same morals. People are going to do what ever they like.
darlingliz26 3 years ago 4
damn thats really scary they will lie to ...wit straight face.
MIZZBORAMA 3 years ago
Indeed in the Messenger of Allah you have a good example to follow for whoever has hope in (the Meeting with) Allah and the Last Day, and remembers Allah much.)
Quran[33:21]
may Allah help my Muslim brothers and my Muslim sisters find their soulmates ameen
saidpls 3 years ago
our prophet peace be upon him said:"The most complete believers are those with the best characters, and the best of you are those who are best to their womenfolk."
The Messenger of Allah (Peace be upon Him) used to mend his own clothes or shoes and help his wives with their daily chores.
saidpls 3 years ago
finally part two
dhyleck 3 years ago
the deen show is improving greatly, alhamdulillah
abdulr118 3 years ago 4
SalaamAlaikum, Alhamdulillah, MASHALLAH,
JAZAKALLAH KHAIR.
spiritlite 3 years ago 3
eddie is sooo real and down to earth he is my favorite host
hijabiflower 3 years ago 2
eddi is cool yusuf estes is awosom
and the deen show is one of the best
AYEMAQ 3 years ago 2
I was on edge all week waiting for this. Marriage is hard especially for new converts, because other new converts ( women) want some one advanced in deen. Women that were born into the faith sometimes have family that dont want their daughter to marry a convert, this is discouraging, but it happens more often than not.
Wasalubin 3 years ago 7
that's unfortunately true. Make Dua and inshallah you will find the right person!
floweriepot 3 years ago 6
sadly that's so true
AichaBlueSky 3 years ago
i have just gone through this, i am a revert and wanted to marry a born muslim, her dad said no cos I'm not bengali, i'm white, he's a racist, may allah purify his heart or punish him severely for his racism
kareemabdullah 3 years ago
have faith brother and pray to Allah to give the girl's father Guidance , It is a sad fact that many muslims show racial predujice even though islam doesn't allow such things.
dhyleck 3 years ago
You should check out the rulings on this matter, I have heard that parents are not allowed to prevent their children from getting married for invalid reasons- racism is definately an invalid reason. In such a case, the imam will become the "wali" of the woman and marries her to the chosen partner. But im not sure about this, so talk to someone of knowledge.
MuslimGhost 3 years ago
jazak allah, I know this already, I told her that she has to change them as wali but they said, chose him or the family, if you choose him you will never see us again, she had no choice but to choose her fam as she is so close to them and she couldn't live without them, its a big family she would have lost, then they filled her head with crap and she decided she don't want to marry anyway, they changed her mind so even though their reason was racist it don't matter now as she don't want marriage
kareemabdullah 3 years ago
Kareem, I hear you. This sickness of racism is prevalent among the Muslims who hail from the continent of Africa and Asia and it is a malady which is cultural, that is deeply rooted. It is high time that we Muslims deal with these sinful customs before we accuse others (Non-Muslims) of racism. Make Dua for the brother
Ibrahim2025A 3 years ago 3
i hate racist ppl
Muhammad(pbuh) said: There is no superiority for an Arab over a non-Arab, for a non-Arab over an Arab, for a white over a black or for a black over a white, except in piety. Verily the noblest amongst you is he who is the most pious.
May God bless u and the Father of that girl
UtubeUser786786 3 years ago
yes i know how u feel, my family will not let me marry pakistani even though he is muslim.
but it's good pray ALLAH to purify his heart. but don't ask to panish him for it. bc he is the father of the person u wanted to marry. ofcourse ALLAH will punish or reward whom he wants. but always ask for the best.
tahmina1234 3 years ago 3
I am making a dua'h for you.
Insha Allah, you will find the right person. Talk to people. Go to a different mosque as well and let them know. Find Arabs near your area.
humpala 3 years ago
jazak allah, I am back on the single muslim site but specified only for girls who have told their parents they are on the site, want marriage and that I'm white, so no heart break when things don't work
kareemabdullah 3 years ago 3
selam alejkum wa rahmetullah wa barakatuh
thank you i was waiting for this :)
Valdigi 3 years ago
jazak allah kola khair brother
alalaty 3 years ago
wow good info, very good... Alhumdillilah!!!
sincerelysean 3 years ago