Dating Advice: 10 Conversation Tips

[VirtuosicElevator]

Never laugh at yourself. NEVER. Learned recently

[MrThemorningsun]

would u happen to be carlos xumas brother? u guys kind of look a like.

[U4IKCRYSYS]

What a fucking douche.

[muggshotz85]

Great point on the LAUGHTER CONTROL ...Well done!

[MrIfartonyourgrave]

Yeah ima use this shit for evil

[MrCassanova08]

I liked the listening pause point you made. Guys, pause after she speaks. Makes all the difference.

[TheBlackxism]

she cracks a joke, you PAUSE for 2sec then laugh!! lol..

[TheAssassin2468]

when you said laughter control i thought you meant if you find something that's horrible funny

for example i met my friend in town once and he told me his dog had died and i then asked me how and he told me that the dog had jumped in the oven after i bursted out laughing.

anyway good vid bro

[bungnung]

hey no lie bro, youre good.

[zmwaiting]

Thanks! it helped--------A LOT! (I'm actually emphasizing the words :))

[DontBeAfraidToCare]

invaluable

[ElephantsTongue]

How many friends do you have OfficialFlash? 

[666jok3r]

can you help me talk more?

[thecs13yea]

wow this was a really great tutorial :) i'm a girl and these tips were super helpful! thanks

[OfficialFlash]

@thecs13yea Thank you for the kind words. Conversation skills are for everybody. It's not just about creating attraction with the opposite sex. It's about building a human connection with anybody & everybody. Master it & you will add massive amounts of charm & joy to your life!

[sukka113]

what is some good material I can read on social dynamics?

[avemunsayac]

When you use your hands as an emphasis you look ghetto, no offense please.

[OfficialFlash]

@avemunsayac None taken. I AM ghetto when I choose to be. But I can also turn on the charm and suave at the drop of a dime. It's the "Cultivated Caveman" method. Point is... Display confidence in your own personal style. Use your hands in a confident way. Your way. Just don't stand there like a log with your hands stagnant by your side. This makes girls uncomfortable in a bad way. Confidence gives them a little primal fear (the cousin of arousal), but this turns her on. Find your balance.

[legomattww]

i'm fine with all this, but topically what keep's a conversation going?

[OfficialFlash]

@legomattww As far as topics, we use threads to keep the conversation going. It's important to relate to her passion. But it's also important to keep it light & silly at times too. For example, you can go from talking about what an arrogant prick Elmo is (Talking about himself in the 3rd person) to being very interested in her passion for French cuisine which you found using a thread. There are also certain speech patterns which will put listeners in to a trance. So it's all about mixing it up.

[538brandon]

@OfficialFlash What if I don't have that passion for French food or whatever the subject is and I pretend to relate, and then she asks me about something that is well known in that topic, but I don't know anything? What should I do then?

[OfficialFlash]

@538brandon No, you never lie and pretend to be an expert on the topic if you are not. What I meant by "relate" is simply to take an interest in her passion. People are interested in others who are genuinely interested in them.

[Kopernicous1]

Now i see. My bf uses all of them. The pauses kind of piss me off though

[thecs13yea]

@Kopernicous1 lol the pauses piss me off too. my boyfriend thinks he has the ulitimate charm and i'm like uhh noo :) haha jkk

[evolvedliving]

i like what you say, but it sounds a lil scripted, or like you are holding back... i think you know what you are talking about, but theres something missing in reguards to how you are recieved maybe, i only say this bcuz obviously you are on the right path, but you may already have Evolved this... BSAFE-i

[hautebush]

Yep, this will teach you how to be a self absorbed tool. Too bad, the gentleman has some talent.

[oo77i]

Why is the video audio panned to the left? Some times i wish youtubes tech guys could just stick a virtual mixer on

each vid for

audio purposes..(sigh)

[SuperJacko11]

good vid but the loose the goatee :)

[OfficialFlash]

@SuperJacko11 Come on bro. Wasn't sportin a goatee (not that I'm opposed to goatees). It's a flavor saver!! ;)

[SuperJacko11]

@OfficialFlash yeah fair enuf was probly bein a bit harsh :)

[werner6574]

this guy is simply amazing in helping newbies tx alot dude

i will subcribe and give it a Thumbs up!

[OfficialFlash]

@werner6574 Thanks for the kind words my friend,

[dookiefaceman]

i cant believe he doesnt have more views he gives a great visual

[candycane0710]

illuminati at 0:38 LOL jks jks good vid :)

[shaneb09]

@candycane0710 LOLOLOLOLOLO rotflcopter

dude thats funny as hell

[OfficialFlash]

@candycane0710 Oh shit! Cats outta the bag! ;)

[candycane0710]

@OfficialFlash r u serious? :O:O:O :P

[xaviongs]

you went over the basic well.