After 13 years of alienation my 17 year old daughter mustered enough courage to sneak away and call me...The next day her mother had her cell phone disabled.
All those b-day and Christmas cards I mailed intercepted by their mother...no phone contact...Jeez, even prisoners are allowed phone and mail privileges...I can tell you it has not only destroyed my life...but major emotional distress for my two daughters.
BTW: I LOVE YOU ASHLEY AND TAYLOR! Regardless of what you have been told.
"was invented by the paedophile Richard Gardner." Realzoomy - You would make yourself look more intelligent, if you could spell "pedophile" correctly. And just so you have more bathroom reading material to possibly comprehend. Sigmund Freud, the "Father of Modern Psychology" was a cocaine addicted sexual deviant. And while your in the bathroom... reading, there was Dr. Spock Do some of your own subject matter research before you post, it might help. REALLY!
At first I did not want to reply, for feeding fire that is negativity only makes it burn hotter, however I caught ahold of something in your wording,, that made it impossible for me to ignore your NEGATIVE ASSAULT on a POSITIVE IDEAL,, does it really matter about spelling if a child who wants to love both their parents can do it in peace and not CHAOS,, does it really matter who Authored a GOOD IDEA if it helps, after all Adolph HITLER Invented the VOLKSWAGON, does that make it a bad car?
So far I have taken that approach. Tonight I was looking for a video on PAS to send to him out of frustration. Your video saved me from making that mistake. It would have just angered him and made it worse. Thank you.
The thing is this people, parental alienation is very real and very sad. My son is a invitro baby. It took us 3 years to create him and close to $50,000.00. He was a twin, the twin died when i was 20 weeks pregnant. My son is the love of my life and I would die for him today!!! And now he hates me because his dad tells him to hate me. I dont have the money to fight his dad in court. Anyone who says parental alienation isnt real needs to kiss thier children and thank god its not YOU.
Based on my experience - two "successful" divorces I would say that indirect reaction combined with love is more effective. Let the children have more fun with you than her. Actions speak louder than words and eventually you'll win. Document her evil behavior and make it difficult for the clowns in court to ignore it. They just want your money and don't give a damn about the kids. However, they pretend that they act "in the best interest of kids". Expose the lie and make them look like idiots.
Seek never to belittle anyone, even those who are in the family court system, I assure you even they did not start off wanting to hurt anyone, their road was paved with good intentions, however there is an old saying,"Oh lord, save me from the good intentions of my friends!" when dealing with those under the influence of PAS, you must leave in your wake, allies and supporters, tryr never to leave anyone behind who will not seek to destroy PAS as much as you want it...
I was once the Alienated Parent, but by using a new method I stumbled across, I now have custody of my 15 year old and strong visitation with my 9 year old,
PAS is invisible, what we must learn to do is pour salt on the floor so that those who use the evil stealth of PAS will leave foot prints for thearapist and judges to see..
I regreet it took me a year to answer this, had to think about it,, you asked if I am TARGET PARENT in this PAS? my answer is, no I am not, because I took the bulls Eye off my heart, so I am no longer a target :)
After 13 years of alienation my 17 year old daughter mustered enough courage to sneak away and call me...The next day her mother had her cell phone disabled.
All those b-day and Christmas cards I mailed intercepted by their mother...no phone contact...Jeez, even prisoners are allowed phone and mail privileges...I can tell you it has not only destroyed my life...but major emotional distress for my two daughters.
BTW: I LOVE YOU ASHLEY AND TAYLOR! Regardless of what you have been told.
FORMETOKNOWONLY 1 year ago
"was invented by the paedophile Richard Gardner." Realzoomy - You would make yourself look more intelligent, if you could spell "pedophile" correctly. And just so you have more bathroom reading material to possibly comprehend. Sigmund Freud, the "Father of Modern Psychology" was a cocaine addicted sexual deviant. And while your in the bathroom... reading, there was Dr. Spock Do some of your own subject matter research before you post, it might help. REALLY!
NonJudicialParent 2 years ago
At first I did not want to reply, for feeding fire that is negativity only makes it burn hotter, however I caught ahold of something in your wording,, that made it impossible for me to ignore your NEGATIVE ASSAULT on a POSITIVE IDEAL,, does it really matter about spelling if a child who wants to love both their parents can do it in peace and not CHAOS,, does it really matter who Authored a GOOD IDEA if it helps, after all Adolph HITLER Invented the VOLKSWAGON, does that make it a bad car?
Brantus 2 years ago
PAS was invented by the paedophile Richard Gardner.
realzoomy 2 years ago
@realzoomy you really are a tragic im
becile
CounsellingQld 9 months ago
So far I have taken that approach. Tonight I was looking for a video on PAS to send to him out of frustration. Your video saved me from making that mistake. It would have just angered him and made it worse. Thank you.
1969Daremo 2 years ago
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The thing is this people, parental alienation is very real and very sad. My son is a invitro baby. It took us 3 years to create him and close to $50,000.00. He was a twin, the twin died when i was 20 weeks pregnant. My son is the love of my life and I would die for him today!!! And now he hates me because his dad tells him to hate me. I dont have the money to fight his dad in court. Anyone who says parental alienation isnt real needs to kiss thier children and thank god its not YOU.
JJZeune 3 years ago
Based on my experience - two "successful" divorces I would say that indirect reaction combined with love is more effective. Let the children have more fun with you than her. Actions speak louder than words and eventually you'll win. Document her evil behavior and make it difficult for the clowns in court to ignore it. They just want your money and don't give a damn about the kids. However, they pretend that they act "in the best interest of kids". Expose the lie and make them look like idiots.
AugustusAlfa 3 years ago 5
Seek never to belittle anyone, even those who are in the family court system, I assure you even they did not start off wanting to hurt anyone, their road was paved with good intentions, however there is an old saying,"Oh lord, save me from the good intentions of my friends!" when dealing with those under the influence of PAS, you must leave in your wake, allies and supporters, tryr never to leave anyone behind who will not seek to destroy PAS as much as you want it...
Brantus 3 years ago
I was once the Alienated Parent, but by using a new method I stumbled across, I now have custody of my 15 year old and strong visitation with my 9 year old,
PAS is invisible, what we must learn to do is pour salt on the floor so that those who use the evil stealth of PAS will leave foot prints for thearapist and judges to see..
Brantus 3 years ago
What is your new method? I agree, I have been going thru PAS for 10 years and I do nothing at this point.
mojoarizona 3 years ago 2
Are you a target parent in this PAS?
ykmsp 3 years ago 3
I regreet it took me a year to answer this, had to think about it,, you asked if I am TARGET PARENT in this PAS? my answer is, no I am not, because I took the bulls Eye off my heart, so I am no longer a target :)
Brantus 2 years ago