i think you are very brave...i wish i can be...it has happened so many times with different people....i cant talk bout it because its so difficult..i feel so ashamed and guilty and i hate myself...i wish i wasnt here
Thanks for you kind words. I have owned that same shame you speak of and it's a heavy burden, but we weren't given the choice. I just hope you know that you will have YOUR TIME to speak and I encourage you to take it.
A lot of guys think it is their own fault, that they somehow gave the wrong signal to their perpetrator & in some aspect CONTRIBUTED to their own sexual abuse. I am a survivor of a vicious sexual attack & I also raped a very faithful husband of a beautiful woman who even had a daughter. He has never told on me but I am so terribly guilty & remorseful but there is no way of even making amends because I never knew the young man's name. I apologize 2 all men 4 all of my sexual indiscretions!!
Thankyou for speaking out. I am a female survivor of abuse (brother) and I becoming close to a man who was abused by his mother. I am SO aware of the lack of resources for male survivors and this flags the issue up.
hi there, i just got done commenting/messaging your wonderful Ophelia...she sent me this link....and I am so so glad. i jsut made a very less that great video of myself, kind of sharing a bit..its on youtube as well.
thank you so very much. i think you are a light for those that are still in the dark....i have already joined the mailing list, even though i am a girl...i was still very much interested in the information you had to offer.
Thank you so much for sharing your story! This is very powerful.
hmhannam 2 years ago
Thank you for your comment. It's very much appreciated.
menspeakout 2 years ago
i think you are very brave...i wish i can be...it has happened so many times with different people....i cant talk bout it because its so difficult..i feel so ashamed and guilty and i hate myself...i wish i wasnt here
jacktenor 3 years ago
Thanks for you kind words. I have owned that same shame you speak of and it's a heavy burden, but we weren't given the choice. I just hope you know that you will have YOUR TIME to speak and I encourage you to take it.
menspeakout 3 years ago
A lot of guys think it is their own fault, that they somehow gave the wrong signal to their perpetrator & in some aspect CONTRIBUTED to their own sexual abuse. I am a survivor of a vicious sexual attack & I also raped a very faithful husband of a beautiful woman who even had a daughter. He has never told on me but I am so terribly guilty & remorseful but there is no way of even making amends because I never knew the young man's name. I apologize 2 all men 4 all of my sexual indiscretions!!
precociousone2003 2 years ago
you are in so many words a great person I can relate with you, beleive me Im fighting the battle right now
smo1765 3 years ago
hi Christopher
i think you're very brave, i wish i could do the same, but i'm too shame of it
anderson505 3 years ago
Thankyou for speaking out. I am a female survivor of abuse (brother) and I becoming close to a man who was abused by his mother. I am SO aware of the lack of resources for male survivors and this flags the issue up.
More of us need to do this.
clairobics 3 years ago
thanks for speaking out :)
devoidnot 4 years ago
Thank you Chris! You and Ophelia are awesome and I commend both of you for what you're doing.
Namaste.
notasouthernbelle 4 years ago
Power to you.
skel73 4 years ago
You are very courageous and inspiring. Thank you.
Jackassinthewill 4 years ago
Also check out Survivors of Incest Anonymous
christopher631 4 years ago
hi there, i just got done commenting/messaging your wonderful Ophelia...she sent me this link....and I am so so glad. i jsut made a very less that great video of myself, kind of sharing a bit..its on youtube as well.
thank you so very much. i think you are a light for those that are still in the dark....i have already joined the mailing list, even though i am a girl...i was still very much interested in the information you had to offer.
bless, kathy
kathyhotze 4 years ago