To The Younger Black Women (IR Relationships)

[GardiniaBloom]

I'm sorry but this video is way too little too late. I am young and in college and BW/NON-BM relationships are common place. All of the BW my age that I know date or are willing to date/marry NON-BM. I have only ever dated IR and the myths that all the Black Unity Guru's like to spew are nonsense. I have never had a problem and my white BF's father hooked us up himself! I knew his dad for a year before I met him. Being with him is not against my feelings. It's as natural as breathing.

[mamou22]

I just think that at the end of the day you just date whoever you want , a man i s a man .

[aneres77937]

"protective of your well being" ? we're getting into relationships with other skin colors, not slitting our wrists!

[BlackWomen4WhiteMen]

@aneres77937 You are not getting into relationships with SKIN COLORS.. you are getting into relationships with people who have DEFINED THEMSELVES as being superior over all other non-white people because the non-white people do have color and those who classify themselves as white and function as white are dedicated to maintaining the system that allows them to benefit by dominating and subjugating non white people across the globe. White culture= white supremacy/ racism.

[BlackWomen4WhiteMen]

@aneres77937 "not slitting our wrists".. generally historically, you didn't have to, they would beat you, hang you, rape you, sterilize you, feed your babies to alligators as bait, breed you like horses under the threat of violence, degrade you, legislate you off of land you had earned, start wars in your countries, brainwash you to hate yourself, forbid you to read, make sure the schools in your area get no funding, exclude you from jobs, pay you less etc... but its JUST "other skin colors" PFT

[aneres77937]

@BlackWomen4WhiteMen key word being "historically" if we hold white men of today accountable for what their ancestors did, we'd be just as bad as they were for hating us for the color of our skin. move on. we have a black president, no, we have a half black AND half WHITE president. it's the 21st century. There's no sense in holding onto the past, only in embracing the future.

[EbonyNewsChannel]

@aneres77937 There is good and PLENTY to address in the PRESENT that whites seem to have a problem being accountable for and honest about as well. If the past is the past and should be kept there, then say that crap to us when you or someone you love is raped or murdered... I want to hear you talk that BULL a week later... If you aren't talking it, call me and I will tell you to stop worrying about "the past" & embrace a FUTURE THAT DOESN'T EXIST TODAY. Platitudes are USELESS.

[aneres77937]

@EbonyNewsChannel i'd be mad about being held responsible for something my ancestors did too, and yes, there are people that don't believe that slavery happened, but there are also people who refuse to believe that the Holocaust didn't happen. Would you still preach this if a black person did that to someone you love? I'm sorry if that happened to you, but every race is capable of that.My Grandfather was shot in cold blood by a BLACK man. And hat future exists in where i live and i/r dating.

[vford43]

This video is sad. Black women love who loves you, no matter what color. If God is in it, don't worry about what other people might say. Take note of many of the Black men, expand your dating and marrying options. This video was made to cause you fear, to keep you boxed in & limited; its called CONTROL. Don't buy into, just do you!

[BlackWomen4WhiteMen]

@vford43 you are already in a box called being black in a system of racism white supremacy.. if white men loved black women so much, why is it that white men who have the power in government have not made the effort to elevate BLACK WOMEN beyond second class citizens, by giving you a permanent right to vote? After all, they can END YOUR RIGHT TO VOTE in the country you helped build for free, while nursing white babies with your milk, EVERY 25 YEARS.. 38 of em voted against you voting in 2006!

[BlackWomen4WhiteMen]

@vford43 If white men loved black women, why are they still allowing Michelle Obama to be referred to as an "ape" and a "gorilla" and the "first negress" in the media? Why are they still producing degrading racist pornography that humiliates black females? Why are they STILL marketing black women across the world as ho's and baby mamas ( Mrs. Obama) in the media venues that THEY ( WM) CONTROL & SOLELY hold the power to distribute it in? Hmmmm?

[vford43]

@BlackWomen4WhiteMen I they your why questions should be directed toward Black Men, "Why do Black Men continue to allow this to happen to their women and do nothing?" Because they are the main ones doing it thats why.

[caramelprincessxxx4]

@BlackWomen4WhiteMen

who the hell cares? get lost..white guys dont do anything black men already do to black women. loil

[BlackWomen4WhiteMen]

@vford43 You just advocated the STUPIDITY of making a LIFE CHOICE based on a stupid choice that other black people ( some black men) make.. and of all things.. to paint, sleeping with your natural enemy, who has a documented agenda to BREED YOU OUT OF EXISTENCE through sex, because some brain-trashed black males have recently began to do so? LOL. NEGRO MADNESS at its worst!!

Black women have had white men in their vaginas for 500 years. CONTINUING IS REGRESSION, NOT PROGRESSION!

[dbrunsonsr]

We r all products of our own decisions. It's funny how some of us make bad choices, (despite warnings), and get mad at the world when the pain comes.

Young ladies, other races r not the only ones willing to see u as a sexaul conquest, your own will do the same thing, (I know, 'cause I used to be that way), keep it simple.

Choose someone that actually likes u and is willing to take the time to prove it.

[openmindedfemme]

Actually hermangslinger makes a good point down there.

[TheSeraphNetwork]

I don't think whoever made this video is against IR, this is like a big brother with advice to give. He came off pretty real to me. Lord knows there are bitter old men, telling young BM all kinds of nonsense so I'm glad he brought THAT up.

[openmindedfemme]

@TheSeraphNetwork - ummm k

[lmarr07]

@TheSeraphNetwork The best comment on this vid so far. Good stuff.

[july95211]

BEWARE, Caramelprincess40 is a white person.

[hermanglimsher]

I had to laugh when I read this.

A black man coming out against I/R dating?

If black men were not so into I/R dating maybe there would be more available black men for black women to choose from.

How can white men possibly be any worse for black women than black men are?

How?

[Exclusiv3king]

There are plenty of BM for BW to choose from. Is everybody a peach? Haha, of course not.

This isn't about who's better or worse. This is just a heads up into the realities of the world in which we live. @ hermanglimsher

[yak6ex]

@hermanglimsher

Ha Ha, bitter.

[vford43]

@hermanglimsher AMEN!

[BlackWomen4WhiteMen]

@hermanglimsher first of all, who has conditioned BM to see OTHER women as more attractive and beautiful & desirable than BW? WHITE MEN!! Through every form of media they publish & have published over the last 200 years that involves females, it has been the white female who was ELEVATED & the BLACK WOMEN DEGRADED- by White men. If the system of white supremacy did not exist & white ppl stopped supporting it there would be MORE BM available 4 BW to marry!!!!

[BlackWomen4WhiteMen]

@hermanglimsher If the WHITE SUPREMACISTS stopped passing racist laws to UNDERFUND the education of Black children & stopped TARGETING black boys for special education & targeting them as subjects for psychotropic drugs in the schools, fewer of them would be in prison. If WM stopped TARGETING BM & BW for SLAVES in the INDUSTRIAL prison plantation & creating unjust laws with harsher sentencing for BM & SELLING PRISON STOCK on the market there would be more BM to marry!

[BlackWomen4WhiteMen]

@hermanglimsher If there were not so MANY WHITE MEN Into practicing Racism ( white supremacy) and waging war against BM In the work force, refusing to hire qualified BM because they don't want the competition & then subjecting those that DO get hired to racism, harassment & sabotage in the workforce, BW would have MORE BM to marry who could provide for them. IF WHITE MEN had not waged the so-called "War on Drugs" ( war on Black ppl) after BRINGING CRACK into Black neighborhoods, then there..

[BlackWomen4WhiteMen]

would be MORE BM for BW to marry. If the white supremacists had not organized and plotted to put GENOCIDE MILLS in black communities & market GENOCIDE mills ( Planned Parenthood- see MAAFA21) to BW as "having choices", when over 70% of all baby killing mills are in BLACK neighborhoods, Black women MY age would have more BM to marry, as they wouldn't have been KILLED in the womb. If it were not for the system of racism ( white supremacy) BW would have MUCH MUCH MORE.

[BlackWomen4WhiteMen]

@hermanglimsher WM are dedicated to destroying and dominating our homeland and our people there and worldwide. At the hands of white men, we have and are being raped and brainwashed, degraded and exploited. Black women in their right minds are not interested in being a white man's exotic something or other. White man can be worse than BM our natural mate, for BW because WM refuse to have honest conversations with us about the system of white supremacy & how it works.

[BlackWomen4WhiteMen]

@hermanglimsher WM are worse for BW because despite the UNEARNED privileges they have by ACCEPTING the system of racism ( white supremacy) which was built off of the labor and exploitation of OUR BLACK ANCESTORS, white men have done NOTHING to dismantle this system & replace it with a system of justice. WM are comfortable practicing white supremacy & having a black woman's vagina available anyway. WM ARE CONSTANTLY calling Michelle Obama an APE, still killing BW AS WELL.

[BlackWomen4WhiteMen]

@hermanglimsher So perhaps your laughter comes from severe ignorance.. but you asked ... SO YOU HAVE AN ANSWER.

Let me ask you a question... how can lions possibly be any worse for a female gazelle than a male gazelle is?

[vaughantel1]

You're making a mountain out of a molehill. People who talk about IRR, BW and BM, both are generally just venting their own unhappiness and lack of success in dating/relationships. I know a lot of IR couples and they are just people who didn't think race defined who they could love or be loved by. It wasn't some alternative idea they came up with after watching some (BM ain't s**t || BW are thug lovers) YouTube video.

[vaughantel1]

People who talk this kind of IRR nonsense really want more attention from the same race opposite sex for people like themselves. It's just a childish tactic. Your warning to BW was hilarious. I mean, really, "White men might want only want you to have sex with you." Cause that never happens with Black men, rofl.

[stazandjeve]

Nope! We met long before Youtube was even around! 11yrs strong!

[Exclusiv3king]

Is this Staz or Jeve? @ stazandjeve

I've given thought to what you said, and I do seem to be making a mountain out of a molehill.

And I've never mentioned White men in this video. @ vaughantel1

[stazandjeve]

Both of us what's up!

[Exclusiv3king]

Thanks for coming through. Actually, since I have you two here... I think I'll send you a PM.

I have a proposition. @stazandjeve

[Unekwu89]

100% right 0% wrong

[derektheproducer]

Great video!

[Exclusiv3king]

Haha, thanks for the props. I appreciate that.

[1titans]

Wow, maaan exclusive, this sista is cut from that certain cloth and there will be no reasoning with her on any kind of level

[Exclusiv3king]

As far as I know, VeronicasPlace is a BW. That alone makes her my reflection. It also makes US, her reflection. As long as we have that bond to her, we should converse about these things openly with one another.

At the end of the day, it's important to realize that not all BM are going to agree with BW ...on every matter. And really, we're not supposed to.

[1titans]

Veronica is not new to off the chain ridiculous comments towards black males, she may be a black women, but she is no sista. Some people cant be saved nor will they civil.She is one of them

[BlackWomen4WhiteMen]

@Exclusiv3king have you seen her face or heard her voice to know if she is a black female? You only get so much time on the earth .. it is limited. Do NOT waste it on your enemies or the allies of your enemies. Keep it moving.

[Exclusiv3king]

This is actually very good advice. I like it. Interesting username, though. @BlackWomen4WhiteMen

[EbonyNewsChannel]

@BlackWomen4WhiteMen great point! We waste entirely too much time on mindless people and trivial arguments. Especially on videos involving black people & issues.

[VeronicasPlace]

u r not concerned about their well being. u r concerned about YOURSELF.

[VeronicasPlace]

lol

u tell them not to date IR out of spite or because someone if making them feel guilty, but it seems like u r trying to guilt them into staying with the race. people can love who they want. IR is a good choice for MANY bw because of the number of bm in jail, gay or undereducated.

[Exclusiv3king]

So, you're saying that people SHOULD date interracially out of spite and guilt?

[VeronicasPlace]

it is stupid of u to assume that those who date IR r doing it to spite someone.

[Exclusiv3king]

Really, V?

"I can't stand Black women! They got way too much attitude and they always try to take over stuff, let me hook up wit' a White girl. They know their place."

"Black men are always in jail, gay, and undereducated, girl... let me go get a White guy! They got they stuff together, not like Black guys."

We've all heard this before, no?

[VeronicasPlace]

this video assumes that black women r with wm for the wrong reasons. many r with them for the RIGHT reasons. also, older bw CAN and should instruct younger women as to what they should look out for. there is no harm in that. older people r wiser. even though my man is black there is a very small pool of bm to choose from who r worth the time. that is a fact.

[VeronicasPlace]

but i did want to agree with u about some things. u r right.  there r a lot of bitter unhappy older bm who r hateful and do not want to see bw in interracial relationships. kaptansolo was like that. he was a shit stirrer who liked to see and cause bw to fight. his main victims were bw who dated ir. he was too old to shit stirring, but that is what a lot of bm r like now.

[Exclusiv3king]

Hmm... a very interesting sequence of comments you've made there. VERY interesting. I hope I'm not the only person that noticed.

"this video assumes that black women r with wm for the wrong reasons."

People are going to get what they want out of what I said, I suppose. And that's fine. So tell me, V...

Why do YOU think BW are with WM? For what reasons?

[VeronicasPlace]

i am not with a wm, but i can tell u what i have been told by many other bw who r. many bw now have more in common with wm than with bm.

[Exclusiv3king]

"BW now have more in common with a WM than with a BM..." I'd actually LOVE to hear how the world's most privileged group of men (WM) has "more in common" with the world's most underrated and villified group of women (BW) than a BM does.

I thought I heard it ALL. WM and BW now have more in common than BM and BW? Anybody that says this is most likely saying it to feel better about themselves.

A WM and a BW? In common? Don't tell me you believe that, V.

[VeronicasPlace]

who said wm were the worlds most privileged? not me. although everyone can see they r running things. u would have to ask the person who made that claim. bw now have more in common with WM because of the educational gap and the gap in the work place. more bw r doing well then bm, so they have more in common with men of other races who r doing well.

[Exclusiv3king]

WM are the most priviliged group of men on the planet... that's just common knowledge.

The fact of the matter is that BM could be doing just as well as WM in terms of education and white collar professions ...but the BW who feel that they have more in common with WM now, would STILL feel the same way.

This is an issue of perception. Not of reality, necessarily. So, the BW who feel that they have more in common w/ WM ...they just have a bias toward WM is all.

[EbonyNewsChannel]

As a black woman, that has GOT TO BE THE MOST RETARDED THING I HAVE EVER heard a black woman say.... other than Plastic Dolls bootlicking of Khazar boys!!

Since you have so much in common with White men, show me how many COUNTRY club memberships you get into & how many CEO & Corporate Presidential positions you slip & slide into on your blackness, your ovaries & your edu-macation! LOL.

Girl please!

[Exclusiv3king]

She's just lost right now. People keep telling me to forget about Veronica'sPlace but I love my sistas to a FAULT. I don't know if I'll ever give up on her.

But wow! Your comment was on target and CANNOT be denied, ENC. You went in.

[caramelprincessxxx4]

@EbonyNewsChannel

LOL your a black man..stop making shit up. If you are a black woman..i bet your single loooool since its mainly the PRO BLACK or close minded black women that are single (basically, any black woman with a black man or into ONLY black men are single) hahahah you dont here the IR ones complaining

[EbonyNewsChannel]

@caramelprincessxxx4 Whoa! Besides all the retarded "Looooool"s this appears to be the first time that you have typed a coherent sentence with proper grammar.. this must have been your ghost writer. We all know the usual poster under this trashy screen name is as thick skulled and vapid as a block of bricks.

[caramelprincessxxx4]

@EbonyNewsChannel LOL yeah yeah, i see you couldnt challenge what i said. Black women or any woman with black men tend to end up in the following:

1) with a disease

2) in the ghetto

3) with mixed or black kids running around being looked after by a single parent which is usually the mother

4) single

5) fat

6) with an attitude

[EbonyNewsChannel]

@caramelprincessxxx4 NO DOG FACE!!! I just saw your asinine user name on the comment heading and didn't think it was IMPORTANT ENOUGH to read.. I still don't. But thought to clear some of the TRASH out of my inbox.. THREE ENTIRE MONTHS LATER.. and while I am waiting for the computer do get cleaned. I thought I'd take a look at the REFUSE you usually puke across youtube. and work on GETTING RID OF THAT CRAP TOO.. You ARE a disease. And you are OBVIOUSLY mentally ill!

[mamou22]

@caramelprincessxxx4 That's a very simple minded way of thinking you know .

[1titans]

Brotha, I noticed. But wasnt that typical

[MrCHICAGOSFINEST1975]

Nice vid bro

Tell it like i tis.lol5 stars.

And i totally agree wih tnjs comment and lindseys also.

[tnj2323]

Sorry brother, I forgot to tell you...Nice video; I like your stance on this issue ;)

[tnj2323]

Funny, all of the links and videos that I come across on the internet and Youtube dealing with interracial relationships...black people are ALWAYS involved? I think this speaks VOLUMES on our SAD mental condition, and how we feel about one another.

Who taught us to hate ourselves?

[EbonyNewsChannel]

@tnj2323 WHITE PEOPLE!!! and then other black people who love white people and hate themselves and the rest of us.. and then.. WHITE PEOPLE! :-)

[lindsey2021]

Very nice and sentimental. A positive message. I hope your message is received and understood because alot of blacks think IR dating is a trend and worthy of something to show off.